They should have to prove to us that we AREN'T SA'd under anesthesia

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  • Опубліковано 18 кві 2024
  • In the United States SA under anesthesia is not only happening, it's common.
    #activism #medical #nonconsensualpelvicexamunderanesthesia
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  • @TheFlyingKitchen
    @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +9

    For anyone who has just come across this video and feels the need to rebut, please read these comments first, please do a google search on “non consenting pelvic exam under anesthesia” , and “medical SA under anesthesia”. If you’d like to see thousands of comments - many who are victims, many who were MINORS when this happened, go to my tick tock (theflyingkitchen) where my videos have far more views. You can also watch my whole story over there if you want to take the time to do so. I cannot take each person who does not believe this is happening on - one-on-one. I just don’t have the time. Disrespect for me or any of the other victims here will be met with a very fast *block*. There are a lot of people who don’t want to believe this is happening and there are MORE who have assaulted women and girls under anesthesia and get very vicious knowing that their little secret is coming to light.
    A couple more things:
    NBC reported that in the last 5 years alone there have been at least 3.6 millions victims of SA under anesthesia.
    On April 1, the HHS FINALLY published a “guideline” asking hospitals to get written informed consent before giving pelvic exams for teaching and research purposes under anesthesia, however that does not make it policy, that does not make it law. In most cases it will simply be buried in consent forms and if YOU fail to OPT OUT then it will be SA by default. Regardless, without oversight and LAW victims will have no recourse.
    If I see anyone in the comments coming just to harass and play “devil’s advocate” especially to victims who have come forward with their stories, I’ll block immediately.
    Take the time to research for yourself instead of asking the people here to prove this to you or take you on in a debate.
    Thanks very much.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +4

      Additionally, if you see anyone harassing, minimizing or gaslighting victims after they’ve so bravely shared their stories here, please tag me and I will block them.

    • @Constanze29
      @Constanze29 3 місяці тому +2

      Hi, I just found your channel and subbed. You are a brave woman. Thank you for speaking up and bringing awareness. I have been in hospital a few times and I've never experienced sth like this.( in Belgium, maybe we have stricter laws and better healthcare ?) I support you and will buy your book. Thanks and stay strong ! ❤❤❤🙏🙏

  • @ethxo6734
    @ethxo6734 3 місяці тому +20

    A few years ago there was a story of a woman that was getting a c-section and she was being sexually assaulted.
    Luckily the nurses had a feeling he was doing shady things and set up a camera to catch the perv but as outrageous as that story is, how many times has he done the same , and others done that same where no one was there to catch them.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +5

      Thank you for adding this story. I have had women contact me on other apps saying that they have suspected they were SA’d when they were having c-sections. This GREATLY impacts our well-being. The psychological damage is beyond measure. The not knowing. The being gaslit or outright screamed at when we ask questions.

    • @gretaholmes783
      @gretaholmes783 2 місяці тому +1

      Imagine the vulnerability of being anesthetized from the mid spine down and not able to see what’s happening. During a C-section! How low can he go? (How’d the team miss it?) Unbelievable. So sorry for these patients! TY for sharing.

  • @Anne-ee1pw
    @Anne-ee1pw 3 місяці тому +12

    People just don’t want to believe that their are such disrespectful abusers on the medical field.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +2

      You’re right. They don’t.

    • @sarah.j.777
      @sarah.j.777 2 місяці тому

      They can't handle the horrifying truth so they hide in denial.

  • @LauraCordes
    @LauraCordes 3 місяці тому +13

    I think I might have been SA'd during a routine gyn exam by a male intern who I did not want in the room at that time. He put his hand inside of me when I told him I was not comfortable with a man examining that part of me. I cannot imagine how much worse it must be when women are unconscious and completely helpless. And this is legal?! What?!! I might never go to the gyn again. If the precancerous cervical cancer cells come back, they come back, but as an SA survivor, I cannot cope with this again.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +11

      He should not have touched you without your express consent and ESPECIALLY against your wishes! That was a$$ault. It’s horrifying what they are doing. They are doing this because they are trained by a$$aulting unconscious women. We are nothing to them. Their sick system has created this entire culture of SA and they burden lies on them. I’m so sorry that happened to you. It was wrong and violent. Please know at least that you’re not alone. We will fight to make this stop. They cannot fight all of us.

    • @findingbeautyinthepain8965
      @findingbeautyinthepain8965 3 місяці тому +7

      I’m so sorry you had that horrible experience. Do you remember the man’s name or where he worked? You can still report him! But if you have had precancerous cells found, please don’t stop going to the GYN. Find a woman doctor and do not even go into the room with a man. If a man comes into the exam room and doesn’t leave at your request, scream, call 911, do whatever you have to do to get him away from you. But don’t let them win my discontinuing your health care!

    • @KZ-np8fz
      @KZ-np8fz 3 місяці тому

      Look up AHCC... it is a mushroom extract supplement. Memorial Sloan Kettering and a few other studies have been done and had success curing cervical dysplasia in all stages in 60+% of participants.
      3 grams per day on an empty stomach is the suggested dose.
      Not 100%, but I believe 60% success rate of "curing and clearing" all hpv, healing abnormal cells is very remarkable.
      Some people have digestive side effects. But not everyone has side effects and if it clears abnormal cells, perhaps it's worth that inconvenience.
      I'm so sorry you experienced that, people who should be trustworthy violating you is criminal.

    • @KYhomes4u
      @KYhomes4u 3 місяці тому +2

      Please get your check ups. You can just insist on a female physician. So sorry.

  • @kathyk2777
    @kathyk2777 3 місяці тому +6

    I am in my 60's and had no idea this was happening. This is horrible! Thank you for bringing attention to this.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for listening and thank you for your support. They have gotten away with this for decades.

  • @Jypsie415
    @Jypsie415 3 місяці тому +10

    I had a D&C done years ago after a miscarriage... When I left the hospital, I felt like I had been split apart. I'm not sure how you're supposed to feel after that, but my hips & pelvis area felt like they had been spread apart beyond my body's limits. (And I'm double jointed, so I can bend pretty far) And I felt like I was hurting moreso than I should... Like the doctor, (who was very rude and NOT empathetic in any shape of the imagination with my having a miscarriage,) had been extremely rough with me during the procedure.
    Listening to this makes me now wonder what happened to me when I was unconscious. But that was around 15 years ago. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +3

      I’m so very sorry. That is horrible. Absolutely horrible. You are absolutely right, that should not have felt that way and you surely should have received some explanation from the staff and not further abuse! If you feel like it, go to my tick tock (the flying kitchen) . There you will find many more victim stories as well as my own story. If that would help. You are not alone. Thank you so much for sharing your story here. Would you consider allowing me to include your story in my book? Just let me know. I’m so very sorry for your miscarriage, and for how you were treated so horribly. That was violent and wrong.

  • @bluethyme
    @bluethyme 3 місяці тому +6

    Let us know when your book comes out!

  • @ayasreviewsandtoycolection7148
    @ayasreviewsandtoycolection7148 3 місяці тому +9

    And let's not forget the male GI Dr that SA'D EVERY PATIENT he worked on AND ALL HIS COWORKERS KNEW IT!!

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +6

      Yep! They all have enablers!! Was this is the news? Can you tell me some keywords so I can search for it?

    • @KZ-np8fz
      @KZ-np8fz 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@TheFlyingKitchen If I remember correctly it was New York Presbyterian, GI, Cheng

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  2 місяці тому

      @@KZ-np8fz thank you.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  2 місяці тому

      @@KZ-np8fz found it. Thank you very much. That’s very valuable information to me. 👍

  • @SatumainenOlento
    @SatumainenOlento 3 місяці тому +8

    So important subject! I am so so impressed tha you are opening up this conversation and so well! ❤❤❤
    We need this! It needs to be written on law!

  • @xdani_thethinkingneko
    @xdani_thethinkingneko 3 місяці тому +8

    You are such a bad ass. Thanks for the good work you're doing.❤

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you. I’ve been waiting for years for someone else to do this. But no one has. Thank you for being here and thank you for your support.

    • @bluethyme
      @bluethyme 3 місяці тому +2

      ​​@@TheFlyingKitchen Check out Yolande Norris-Clark. She's a freebirth advocate who speaks out against the medical industrial complex and false ideas of consent, and engages in birth trauma debriefs with women abused by the obstetrics system. She just came out with a book, but it's much different from yours.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +3

      @@bluethyme Thanks!

  • @shelbyandmargaret
    @shelbyandmargaret 3 місяці тому +7

    I m praying for justice for you. This has caused a sadness in me beyond any sadness has before.
    We can only trust God.
    It's so sad and most people have no where to turn for help but God don't like ugly. I never fully trusted anyone and this makes you wonder how any professional could be ok with it. Lord help us

  • @NikiLivi5
    @NikiLivi5 3 місяці тому +4

    As someone who was touched inappropriately at age 7 by an elderly man at a family reunion that I was only there because a family member married into the family so they weren’t my family this is beyond disturbing and upsetting to me! I’ve never heard of this and it makes me sick to my stomach! As a mom to 5 amazing kids, 3 girls & 2 boys, I educated my kids early about bad people and that some like to do bad things to kids and how to protect themselves. I also was very overprotective of my kids. I now have 2 adult daughters about to be married and want to start their families either toward the end of this year or beginning of next. Honestly, I couldn’t wait to have grandkids but with everything going on I wish they wouldn’t. This terrifies me for my girls! I’ve had my tonsils out at 27 at the surgery center for the ENT’s, I had my gallbladder out after a 6 day stay in the hospital while trying to find out what was wrong with me on day 7 at age 33, sedation not put completely under but I was out at an outpatient surgery center for carpal tunnel surgery on each hand at age 34. To my knowledge nothing like that ever happened. My surgeon that took out my gallbladder was a good Christian man & asked if he could pray over me before surgery and he did. The only thing I know that wasn’t right was I heard 2 nurses talking over me while still in surgery but after it was over. I remember hearing them but I couldn’t move or open my eyes. She disconnected the machine breathing for me then I could tell by her voice she put her back to me talking to the lady across the room about her vacation. I didn’t know you can’t breathe thru the tube that’s down your throat by yourself. I honestly thought she was going to let me lay there and die. By the grace of God I managed to lift my left shoulder and I guess the other lady saw because right before I was about to pass out I felt the one beside me push me back down and say your ok. I wanted to scream so bad and say bitch you’re killing me! I remember thinking that tube was forever long and wouldn’t clear my throat in time. The second I was about to be gone because I couldn’t hold my breath any longer the tube cleared my throat. That was the hardest longest deepest breath I’ve ever taken! I sucked it in so fast and so hard I remember it feeling like I was inhaling razor blades. As soon as I got enough air in to inflate my lungs I was back out again and don’t remember anything till a man that was an orderly wheeled me in my room. I was wide awake then and as soon as he left I told my husband. I got a survey from the hospital 2 weeks later and told everything on it. I also told my general md who I had a great relationship with. He told me later that the admin checked the cameras from every complaint they got because they had gotten several. Every single person that did something wrong was fired and from what I understood there was a group of newer younger nurses from 1 floor that were responsible and fired. That’s the only time I thought I was going to die. I remember asking God was this really how I was going to die. This was the most ignorant neglectful way to go at the hands of some idiot and I can’t even fight back. I guess the good Lord was taking care of me after all. I’ve also had the light run up and down a few times. Thankfully I’ve never felt violated. Just curious, are there not cameras in those surgery rooms you could get a lawyer to get a warrant to view them? I know if I felt that way I’d want to sue the pants off of them! I pray this stops! And God help anyone if I find out this ever happens to one of my girls because the only thing that doctor will need after that is a body bag! This topic shocks me, terrifies me, and infuriates me! I’m so sorry to anyone who has been a victim of this.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much for your comment. I’m so glad you are ok. I’m fighting this fight for my daughters, yes. And now for every single victim who shares their story. The medical establishment is fighting laws that are meant to protect us. They do not want laws in the OR. They also do not want cameras in the OR. South Korea is just starting to put cameras in the OR because there has been so much unethical behavior (SA) in their OR’s, but that is the only place that has cameras in OR’s and it’s only been in response to widespread SA. So honestly, the U.S. medical establishment has brought this on themselves. Medical ethics experts have been warning them for years that their behavior has been unethical and it needs to stop, but the medical establishment has not listened. New medical students just starting training have been reticent to SA women (and men) under anesthesia but are punished for speaking out about it and punished for whistleblowing on clear violations. Sometimes even to the point that they are dismissed and their careers are forever ended. It’s a horrible situation but WE ALL can now fight back now that we know. They have gotten away with this because we haven’t known and those of us who do wake up and know something happened are yelled down, gaslit and further abused. That’s what happened to me. Please spread awareness. There is real power in numbers and they cannot fight all of us.

  • @kathyk2777
    @kathyk2777 3 місяці тому +5

    Just subscribed.

  • @sarah.j.777
    @sarah.j.777 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes, absolutely, medical staff should have to explain what they're doing to *MY* body and why.
    The audacity to think they shouldn't have to.

    • @gretaholmes783
      @gretaholmes783 2 місяці тому

      Thank you! I need to thank you from the bottom of my heart because just
      TODAY, you made a colossal difference in somebody’s life.
      I helped my patient explain- and the nurse listened to her this time. In the past they even wrote she was “delusional” when she said a doctor stalked her.
      A doc who had had her under anesthesia for an unrelated procedure reached out to him and told her him to get a hold of her and get her under for a colonoscopy. He told her she had malignant polyps. There is no such thing.
      People are listening to you, and I didn’t know this was coming to the limelight-all because of YOU!.
      Not religious-but I feel like an angel of God put you in my timeline. I didn’t seek this out, I just curiously watched one video while I am simultaneously advocating for someone who was literally mutilated.
      Her Ob-Gyn was just sentenced to 11 years for Graping 20 patients in his career. Get Serious. It was a long career and she was a supermodel on his table.
      She said,
      “I wish all he did was grape me.”
      She had to go to Germany for reconstructive bladder surgery.
      My patient told her story of being literally stalked by a doctor who wanted to give her a colonoscopy!
      I pointed out to the nurse taking her history that it was not while she was sick like this, but when she was younger, still a supermodel and celebrity.
      Referred by a buddy of his,he wouldn’t leave her alone-yes that’s right… A buddy of his who had had her under anesthesia for a different procedure, prompted him to track her down to get her under anesthesia too.
      Because of you, and a little bit because of me, they are finally listening to her.

  • @lauriekay6214
    @lauriekay6214 2 місяці тому +1

    In Canada, this was perfectly legal in most provinces except British Columbia until recently - I fought this in Ontario and won the rights of patients to refuse participation in medical education. There isn’t a law in Canada that governs this; it is regulated, as is all behaviour of doctors, by the College of Physicians and Surgeons in each province. Yes, this should be covered under assault legislation, but it isn’t. So now, in BC and Ontario at least, there is clear policy giving patients the right to refuse. But if you don’t know this, you don’t know to refuse. Thanks for getting this message out there. Look to other English speaking countries for their practices regarding this - I did, and it bolstered my arguments. Look to the UK, Australia, and especially New Zealand - it’s easily accessible online when you Google “patient right to refuse participation in medical education “. Also, connect with Samantha L Seybold at Purdue University - she has written about this.

  • @mauricehickson8412
    @mauricehickson8412 2 місяці тому +1

    It is not just women. I (a man) was SA by a nurse.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  2 місяці тому

      I’m so very sorry. That is absolutely heartbreaking.

  • @amypearsall
    @amypearsall 3 місяці тому

    I watched your video tonight, then went to other platform and watched Parts 1-12 of your story. Thank you for speaking up and letting others know. Wondering when you found out about the “non consenting pelvic exam under anesthesia” being a common or practiced thing that is done? In one of your later videos, do you discuss finding out answers?

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому

      Hi. Ya, I do talk about how I found out. I found out in September of 2019, and then went into a serious and dark depression.

  • @KZ-np8fz
    @KZ-np8fz 2 місяці тому +1

    Are non consenting pelvic exams possible at all hospitals or are military and teaching hospitals the primary danger? I had no idea that was happening. Smh.
    I know my experience was not that.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  2 місяці тому

      They will all tell you it's ONLY at teaching and military hospitals. And maybe that is what they have observed. But from the volumes of comments on my videos, I can tell you that it's the overall culture of SA that is everywhere. Everywhere. Colonoscopies, wisdom teeth removal, outpatient procedures. That's what I've found in my research. And when medical students are taught to give pelvic exams to unconscious woman (and can claim they didn't know if she consented or not) - thus disallowing her humanity, it's not hard to see why we have such an epidemic.

  • @LadyForestStar
    @LadyForestStar 3 місяці тому +4

    Is this happening in Germany or many more countries?

    • @The_New_Abnormal_World_Order
      @The_New_Abnormal_World_Order 3 місяці тому +3

      This is what I would like to know as well.

    • @SatumainenOlento
      @SatumainenOlento 3 місяці тому +5

      Yes. In Europe too. But it is happening much less in these days. Or so they want us to believe 🤷‍♀️
      Anyway, I will not take any risks in expressing my mind if going under anesthesia.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +7

      I’m an American living in Germany. This happened to me in the U.S. It has not happened to me in Germany, although I’m starting to hear that it happens here too.

    • @LadyForestStar
      @LadyForestStar 3 місяці тому +3

      @@TheFlyingKitchen The strange thing is when I Google about it, it says that you can get sexual hallucinations of anesthesia. But when you scroll down you get better Google results. Is that some kind of cover up.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +6

      @@LadyForestStar That’s probably like the other “side effect” of anesthesia which is a torn and ripped up v@gina - which is what some people have been saying that nurses told them after they woke up from surgeries unrelated to gynecological surgeries with torn and ripped up v@ginas. That’s what some of the thousands of commenters on tick tock have said. Those who have been harming people and enabling perpetrators have all kinds of things they say to people. There is so much lying going on and covering up lies, and gaslighting patients, who’s to know? Thank you for telling me that. I hadn’t heard that one before

  • @TheFlyingKitchen
    @TheFlyingKitchen  2 місяці тому

    My newest video is here: ua-cam.com/video/-cVltoivi7c/v-deo.htmlsi=944pBu-qXV610X57

  • @Marketsolo
    @Marketsolo 2 місяці тому

    How did you know?

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  2 місяці тому

      I woke up from a routine appendectomy with a huge amount of synthetic lubricant in my pelvic region (not from a catheter). I asked the staff what had happened, they would not answer. The more I asked the worse I was treated. I was screamed down by hospital leadership before getting a grape kit done. Also I found out I had been under anesthesia for 4-5 hours for a 30 minute procedure. Took my case to NCIS. My whole story is on my tick tock. It’s a very long story, it’s really sad. But in a nutshell, they are doing this to the tune of violating 3.6 million patients in the last five years alone and they feel totally justified in doing so.

  • @sisterlavender1188
    @sisterlavender1188 3 місяці тому +2

    I subscribed.

    • @TheFlyingKitchen
      @TheFlyingKitchen  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you very much. I appreciate you being here and I appreciate your support.