We need REAL safety from SA in medical settings - not guidelines - we need enforceable laws
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- Опубліковано 21 тра 2024
- #medicalethics #bodilyautonomy #nonconsensualpelvicexamunderanesthesia
This video was recorded on tick tock and was answering a question from that same app. The hundreds of thousands of views I talk about on this video are on my tick tock.
Disclaimer:
For anyone who has just come across this video and feels the need to rebut, please read these comments first, please do a google search on “non consenting pelvic exam under anesthesia” , and “medical SA under anesthesia”. If you’d like to see thousands of comments - many who are victims, many who were MINORS when this happened, go to my tick tock (theflyingkitchen) where my videos have far more views. You can also watch my whole story over there if you want to take the time to do so. I cannot take each person who does not believe this is happening on - one-on-one. I just don’t have the time. Disrespect for me or any of the other victims here will be met with a very fast *block*. There are a lot of people who don’t want to believe this is happening and there are MORE who have assaulted women and girls under anesthesia and get very vicious knowing that their little secret is coming to light.
For a crash course on this topic, go to www.atyourcervixmovie.com to watch a documentary.
A couple more things:
NBC reported that in the last 5 years alone there have been at least 3.6 millions victims of SA under anesthesia.
On April 1, the HHS FINALLY published a “guideline” asking hospitals to get written informed consent before giving pelvic exams for teaching and research purposes under anesthesia, however that does not make it policy, that does not make it law. In most cases it will simply be buried in consent forms and if YOU fail to OPT OUT then it will be SA by default. Regardless, without oversight and LAW victims will have no recourse.
If I see anyone in the comments coming just to harass and play “devil’s advocate” especially to victims who have come forward with their stories, I’ll block immediately.
Additionally, if you see anyone harassing victims here, or if you are being harassed, please tag me under the comment and I will block them. Thank you.
Take the time to research for yourself instead of asking the people here to prove this to you or take you on in a debate.
Also, if you’re a physician who has “never heard of or seen this before” do us all a favor and learn about this before you sputter and spout in some feeble attempt to shame us all for being so outraged. No one is accusing YOU PERSONALLY, and like Shakespeare wrote in Hamlet “Thou protest too much”. Makes us wonder. Hmmmm.
Thanks very much. - Розваги
I don't know why it's such a struggle for them to understand: DO NOT TOUCH MY BODY! If I'm having a procedure done that's ALL that should happen by the provider I have met who is supposed to perform the procedure.
Thank you for what you are doing. I mean how in the hell was this ever a thing in the first place, just what???
Thank you for being here. It started in the mid 1800’s when the “father of gynecology” Dr J Marion Sims operated and experimented on enslaved women without their consent and under threat of their lives and the lives of their families. Then it progressed from there. Taking liberties is baked into the system.
i brought this up to someone defending the medical profession with all her heart and she was so floored when I said that non consensual pelvic exams were a thing she straight up yelled at me. Said it was rape, said I was unethical for not physically stopping it and not reporting it, said anyone who did it was a rapist, said I had no understanding of ethics or the law. Then I posted a link and she....just never said anything at all after that.
Yes!! This has been my experience too! They scream and call you names and tell you you're stupid and "spreading misinformation" then you give them links to facts and *poof* you don't hear from them again. It's so sad that they live in such a culture of fear, aggression and shame. Honestly, it's the worst behavior I've ever seen in adults.
What could she say. Except ‘I’m sorry I doubted you’, which is NOT going to happen. I had a supposed doctor on Quora swear it never happened in his hospital or in his training. They are so ready to defend their colleagues and dismiss the patients who know what happened and are told to just drop the issue. Plain fact of the matter is they don’t WANT to stop doing what they are to vulnerable patients. It’s just too easy this way. Whoever thought this was a good idea didn’t have any compassion OR ethics.
@@kimlandefeld3005 yes. So true. It’s much easier for them to deny us agency and pretend like we are crazy for expecting it. That’s exactly the way I was treated.
I even read that they fight over the chance to be the first to penetrate a young female! I don’t know how young that goes! Can you imagine? Some kid has no “virginity“ because people had no business and no right we’re poking around when they were little children preteens or teens? Listen if men can’t be trusted to work in the morgue why in the world do you think a supermodel on the operating table is going to be completely safe?! Personally? I think it’s time for surgery cameras! Start to finish audio video evidence of every procedure. I’ve always wanted that anyway. I did get a Polaroid of my necrotic ovary! 😮
My guess is that it’s so abhorrent to people they have to say we are lying OR they are so ‘tone deaf’ about this ‘practice’ that they figure whatever they want to do is OK WITH THEM. They weren’t harmed so what’s our problem? Doctors have been proven over and over to NOT ALWAYS have the patient’s best interests at heart. We just want to make sure all patients fully understand what is going on.
Yes!! Very true. All of it. Thank you.
@@TheFlyingKitchen If they have to launch a personal attack, we know we are on the right track. I found an article in NIH regarding the ethics of this and the teaching behind this. Evidently future doctors are trained to IGNORE the obvious difference between touching or examining an ear for example, versus the genitals. It is totally a DOCTOR CENTRIC belief. They DO NOT teach consideration for how the patient views them blatantly and callously accessing their genitals.
Oh com'n, you must have asked for it. Were you wearing a mini skirt and halter top in the OR? Lots of makeup? Honestly, the more things change... It's just disgusting. I'm so sorry you went thru this.
Thank you. Oh this thing. You know all the old adages like you’ve mentioned. And “Why didn’t you fight? Scream?” “What were you doing around those people?” It so succinctly makes the point that a violator is going to violate, and the construct that the violator employs to violate, then silence and shame - is clear and standing.
@@TheFlyingKitchen I guess I'll never know if it happened to me when I had my surgeries. It'horrifies me. I just can't believe this kind of thing goes on in the 21st century. I worry about any future surgeries I may need. I know it's "illegal" here in California, but I wonder if they find a way to weasel out of it by using a general consent form? Do you know?
@@fiestacranberry I know that none of these laws are actually enforceable. If there is a culture of SA, then SA will happen. In some cases, the laws/guidelines/etc MAY help a whistleblower protecting a patient - like a nurse who won't stand for it, but what I'm finding in my research is that is the exception, not the rule.
Don't know why anyone is surprised, we built gynecology on this sort of practice.
100%
I guess you read about the ‘pioneer’ of gynecologic surgery who used slaves for practice without anesthesia until he figured it out. As far as we think we have evolved, there is a lot more we need to do in regard to our healthcare. It’s more like WEALTHcare now.
@@kimlandefeld3005 it’s baked into the system.