There are people who have been raised by narcissists and their traumas are very deep. Also, narcissists are everywhere, sometimes you cannot eliminate them, they are your family members, neighbors, friends, coworkers, etc. Not only romantic partners are narcissistic, they all can be very hurtful and damaging. Healing from a narcissistic abuse is not easy and it takes a lot of time; victims have health issues, PTSD, mental and emotional problems. Some cannot even walk away; very sad reality. Unless you've been a victim yourself it is very difficult to understand it.
100% because of my husband's mental health issues, I've had to overcome my cptsd from it. Very long couple years of analyzing his behaviors from mine. It's definitely difficult to heal from, but it can be done.
Richard Grannon was instrumental as a mentor/teacher in my healing. Also, Dr. Ramani (both on youtube) So much gratitude to both of them. Highest/Best energy to all dealing with this. ❤️
The healing is horrible! After a 15 year relationship with one and leaving 5 times before I FINALLY did it for the 6th and FINAL time just over 2 years ago! The first year was hell and he did nothing but make it worse for me! This last year I have healed so much and gone through some HUGE life changes that have helped me to heal and grow so much! I am happy, healthy and WHOLE and that is a FREEDOM unlike any I have EVER felt! I am so blessed! Self love is the BEST love and it is a rough, bumpy road full of ups and downs but NO ONE deserves to be treated with hate and ugliness or have some "man" or "woman" to put their hands on you in an abusive way! I will NEVER be a victim but a SURVIVOR, A WARRIOR and one that is GRATEFUL for ALL the lessons along the way! Karmic relationships are NEVER easy but you need to learn the lesson and move on eventually! Thanks for the video Rich! You are ALWAYS SPOT ON! 🎯💯❤️🙏
Omg! You put this into words I could never put together to explain this relationship! That relationship was the hardest, craziest, emotional roller coaster that I have ever been in! It was soooo hard to break away! I thought I was going to lose my freaking mind! CONGRATULATIONS to everyone who survived and got out! I learned my lesson and I love myself to the absolute fullest and know my worth. I will never jeopardize my mental stability with another Narc! NO CONTACT is the key! NO CONTACT AND MOVE FORWARD
Yes, slipping is a problem. I keep treating everyone like a narcissist. I see them as 2 faced the validation seeking face in public and an abusive one in private.
I needed to hear this today! I let the narcissist go after 8 years and wasn’t looking for another relationship and the ones that have come towards me I immediately know, nope that’s not it. Living my best life with myself. It takes times but getting better every day.
After being with a narcissist for the first time in my life, I have no desire to ever be in a relationship again, period. Maybe I'll change my mind, maybe I won't. 🤷 Every man I've ever been with ended up crushing me, but this last one, the narcissist, made me want to be single for the rest of my life! Time will tell...
A true narcissist is extremely dangerous! And you might heal from it, but you will never be the same again. They'll attack your innocense from every side.
Well when you say that I am attracting because I’m empty or I feel that emptiness inside of me that’s not true necessarily because he found me a message to me when I was doing amazing I was on top of my game single mom of three doing fucking amazing and yeah I did have a sense of loneliness in a way but I was so happy at least I thought.. Will you please continue to do more videos like this because I am currently trying to heal from a very toxic abusive alcoholic narcissist Aquarius man! i’m a very proudly Leo woman and he is evil to the core!! I wish I could go back in time to like four years ago when he first started messaging me and literally blocked him even though we had a lot of good memories there were a lot of bad memories😞🥺😭😭😭 thank you thank you thank you!!!❤
Yep! I’m living proof. Healing is a journey though and can be a rough one but it IS POSSIBLE even though when you first come out of the connection you feel like life is really over- and that life is! But, a brand new one can and does begin just love yourself ans patient with yourself. Self compassion goes a long way! To anyone still suffering in abuse I’m praying for you 🙏
It feels like your being haunted while trying to heal. I have never experienced anything like it. I got a really good dose of it in a long term relationship. Healing is all about self love and getting in tune with your own voice without the echo effect of the narcissist.
@@Barneyjo 100% agree, our minds can be like a echo chamber of the abuse. From time to time I still hear his voice and the horrible things he would say to me and I work hard to correct my thinking. You probably like me suffer from c-ptsd. I was diagnosed at 13 with PTSD and at 40 i was re-diagnosed with c-ptsd after 5 years with what felt like the devil himself. Keep your head up and remember your beautiful and deserve love.
One of your videos randomly showed up on my youtube list, and now I understand why. I escaped a true narc 2,5 years ago and listening to this gave me a missing piece that I needed to find peace. Why I attracted him and how much it actually taught and changed me. I really do detect toxicity from a mile away and say no to everything with toxic vibes. And you're so right, a person who went through the trauma of a true narc is never the same again. Thank you for the message.
It's called the 'grey rock' reaction. Non-reactivity is witholding that nacissistic supply they crave. Tough when dealing with a parent with NPD. I didn't attract it, I was adopted by it. Entirely different start to the relationship, but same result. For her, she couldn't have a child naturally, so she adopted and tried to make me in her image. To become the child she couldn't have. Once my sister was born, I was replaced, and became the primary source of narcissistic supply. Not until my thirties did I start placing and enforcing strong boundaries. Am I truly healed? Not entirely. It's a long road, with a lot of difficult work. Self-actualization to repair the warped view they created. Finding your own identity instead of the one they created for you. Defining your own goals instead of theirs. Knowing that you are good enough, and not craving that validation which they use as currency. Sad, really, but many children grow up with a narcisstic parent. You have to break the cycle. It's a cycle of abuse like any other kind, although psychological in nature. The unfortunate thing is, it conditions you from childhood to accept abusive love as 'normal', because that's all you've ever known. 😢 Love and Light ✨💖✨
I have not totally recovered it’s been decades and one phrase stays with me to this day! I am fat, ugly, and stupid and no one would ever want you! Can’t seem to get past this!
We are a rare breed of people, we go all in, we keep our word, we give it our all, we go the extra mile for those we care for. We hardly ever receive the same passion and effort in return. We have never changed. We all hope that one day maybe just maybe we find someone to fiercely love us with the devotion we give so freely. To the givers, forgivers, and selfless lovers out there.. keep being beautiful, don't let these cold hearted people who's conscience's are waxed cold steal any more from us!! Help all that will listen. And take advantage of every little moment you are give. If you do that's where the healing is at if any. I will never forget what I've been through.time doesn't heal all things! If you have escaped, never look or go back. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to do. But I am finally doing my work in the way I never thought possible, I am the best version of myself I could ever ask for. Thank you so much Rich for speaking that truth. You help me navigate the path of life. Love you all. Love me.
Narcissistic tendencies reside in everyone. It’s evaluated clinically & assessed on a “spectrum” where on the spectrum do they fall? High function narcissism or low functioning meaning very little tendencies or traits displayed.
I dealt with a covert narcissist for 11 years and I would not wish it on my worst enemy. I promise you, it’s not bullshit. It is the most traumatizing experience to go through and can make you want to take your own life. I tried for many years to make excuses for his behavior and to even wrap my head around the abuse and it’s just so hard to get out of. The trauma bond is still breaking me and I pray to god that I can get past it.
For me I had to look at myself from my earliest memory-current to figure what laid out the path to attract it. Start with you…..you would be surprised, there is a common denominator 🥰
Rich I cannot thank you enough for doing this video on a Narcissist I'm going through an awful time atm he broke up with me and I cant get away from it as he lives next door too me we have to share the same path we going in and coming out he sits outside with women drinking laughing knowing I have to walk past them tried to move but nothing available it's really put me in a dark place but you are AMAZING Rich for this thank you with all my heart 🙏🙏👏👏👏👍👍👍😢😢💜💜
I'm a Libra and connected with a NARCISSISTIC ARIES/SCORPIO guy who ditched me for no reason, he had a 'suspicious' mind. I'm appalled at the low vibe behaviour, 1st time ever in hearing about Narcissism. This guy is and was an A-hole, he's stubborn, selfish and created DRAMA in my life. Sick of him.
Rich, it's definitely real. I'm still living it. I'd also like to say please look into bpd. It blends in with narcissism. It's a losing battle, absolutely. Kim Sage is a wonderful psychologist I've found on UA-cam that talks about this. The best thing is just to get out. It's the healthiest thing for yourself. I wish I had known this years ago. I'm currently still in the situation which I've recently come to 100% accept, I can't do this anymore.
Many thanks Rich!🌹 I met and was in a relationship with a true narcissist for 3 years. Now, I am in the process of self-healing, I have (finally) found my peace of mind. And... yes! Now I will not get involved again because I have acquired the ability to smell the narcissistic psychological disorder from afar.
It's hard when u co parent with one. U can't go no contact unfortunately. It does make u stronger.😃yes it is difficult but keep on going and smiling keep your vibration high😊
So true, people don’t really talk about the healing of a narcissistic relationship. I’m happy to say I’m at a point where I’m grateful for that experience because it made me more in alignment with my path to be an Astrologer. I’m on multiple Psychic/Astrology reading platforms, the host and organizer of an Astrology club and soul consultant. It’s wisdom have gave me a strong sense of self value in addition to sharing that wisdom with others. A major part of my healing process is helping others to walk into their integrity so that they continue to actualize their desires and more fulfillment. This way they can stay in a high vibrational frequency of who their meant to be and not attract or hold on to people, places and things that are not in alignment with them. I try to get them to see that holding on to something mentally, spiritually, emotionally that’s not in alignment with their higher selves is a waste of time
Father was a narc so naturally I married one…glad those days are behind me. It definitely was the biggest test of my life everyday without a Narc is a good day. Fully block them if you can’t because of parenting responsibilities Grey rocking definitely works. Stay strong your hope & your energy will return give it time. Definitely don’t react great advice Rich.
“A true narcissist is extremely, extremely, stubborn, persistent and relentless “ I would add passive- aggressive, threats of aggressive aggression, self absorbed, lack object permanence, lack empathy (though it can be well manufactured or imitated), smart, charming, silver-tongued and materialistic for image/status and or possessions
I have narcissistic abuse syndrome.. I have so many auto immune conditions now along with PTSD… I am under taking Cold Water Therapy which is helping.. The trauma / betrayal trauma is awful… It’s a fight to survive on a daily basis…
Hi Rich. A lot of truth and wisdom in this video. That said, severing the ties that bind I SUPER difficult when you have kids with a psychopath. Then you have to watch him turn your kids against u, then, some of your kids grow up to be psychopathic too. Very very painful my msn. Inexplicable. But what else can you do but put your foot down, protect and heal yourself, and carry on. If you work yo cleanse you karmic load by deeply learning your own lessons and inspecting your own shadow self, forgiving others (internally at least), I believe the path can be purified. 🙏💛
Not to mention I was 300 miles away from him! How the hell?? I was doing great! But yeah kinda lonely but still super weird. Never again! I wish he would hurry up and get out all way moved out so I can block him in every way! 10:02
Out of curiosity, why are you discussing this? It is a very big 'click' topic. There is a difference with Narcissistic traits and a person who is mentally disordered with NPD. You never fully heal. It's always there. The numbers are larger than you realize. They're all around each and every one of us. Once educated you can see them right away.
I don't believe that you can or speaking for myself anyway... I have been through every kind of abuse there is and numerous times over honestly but, that is the hardest thing that I am still trying to be ok from
Hellish Relationships! The Big Book in AA & ACOA Big Red Book touches on narcissism, Bill W even said all those many years ago that as for the addict and the narcissism and the self-serving that comes into that if you don’t surrender and there is so much more help out there for that. A lot of people fall into narcissism on a spectrum and even half of the things on the list from the characteristics of the actual personality disorder. It’s a hell of relationship and I think there’s a lot more of them out there than what people really want to admit because of the denial fogs that we get into especially if we’re codependent and we have intense childhood, trauma and chaotic and dysfunctional families you’re gonna be trapped in that for a long time until you wake up.
No one knows wat it's like until they get involved w a Narsisisist. I'm still struggling probably cause he's still tryna contact me. We can't get weak or curious and answer there textes or calls
You nailed this. Had to get to the point of ice cold. Control, alt, delete. Phone number change etc. It was getting crazy. Did cord cutting, and did what I had to do to get them gone. It's been 5 months and I am done. Its now over.
thank you so much , i needed this. I'm going thru a narcissist attack by a 3rd party/ex friend because of my person . as soon as I found out she was narc i did ghost her (didn't know then) , i warned him to mess with anyone but to pls not respond to her advances. she wouldn't let up so he fell into the seduction and she turned him against me. now I'm being gangstalked, spied on, watch all day everyday. i am stronger than they both realized.
What people don’t tell you is that even when you break free and walk away, they will stalk you and trying to find you and threaten to kill your dog, so thank you for actually saying that lol.
I had a narcissistic father who controlled my young and teenage years and had me followed where ever I went. He never showed affection to me or my brothers and we all suffered with low self esteem and a need to find affection. I went on to marry a narcissistic control freak with a nasty nature he fooled me completely and only wanted to marry me beacause I owned a house. Then blow me if I didn't meet yet another control freak ,who when I left stalked me and pestered me for a year after leaving until I completely blocked him out of my life. I've got through it all, and it has made me a very strong person now. I'm 71 and living my life my way.
I’m healing from it now. I can’t lie it is difficult. Trusting other people is not a problem. I can smell a rat from a mile away because of the narcissist abuse however, trusting myself and making decisions is the hard part. Narcissist loves independent people and narcissist loves to turn those independent people into dependents. I was young when I got with my narc. He loved to play mind games. The cruelest thing he ever done was got me to doubt myself. Doubt my intuition, logic, decisions and even my reality. You need to understand that narcissist gradually work you down. This is how they go unnoticed on peoples radar. Since more and more people are talking about topics like this and are asking legitimate questions maybe I need to start posting videos telling my experience with a narc.
Loved this! I totally agree Rich...it's been 11 months ...it's been an incredible journey...I am holding strong and will never go back!!! You cannot fix a person with NPD!!!!
Is been over eight years and I still have a hard time even to have a relationship scared to put somebody else in harm I still break down no escape because is the father of my kids
The word gets thrown around. Dysfunction & mistreating someone isn't always narcissism. I'm the daughter of a diagnosed clinical overt malignant narcissism. The are made in a set point in early childhood. They're not born. It comes from EXTREME over praise & no boundaries by a parent. A true narcissist can't form empathy. And that doesn't mean being nice or mean to you. That is bridge burning pain. My father called out of work telling them my mother, divorced from since I was 3,had died & he needed to be w/me. He then laid on the sofa in his boxers for a week while I went 3 hrs away to view my mom before cremation. My stepmom went w/me. He then did it again. My grandma was in hospital 5 days & passed. She part raised me. My father came for 6 hrs only. Myself & my 2 dtrs were there entire time. We made all funeral arrangement. Myself & both of my brothers had to walk away entirely in 2016. And he's alone wallowing away now.
I claim this reading! I escaped with only my life, the clothes on my back. I had just gotten out of prison. My self esteem was low. I went through 4 years of hell. I think I died during one beating. Forced into marriage. He cheated, stole from me, he was strung out, mental, physical, verbal abuse, and rape. I have a cpo against him now. I went to safe houses and In treatment therapy for PTSD, and Stockholm syndrome. I've been gone for 9 months. He introduced me to spirituality because I needed something to believe in. I have ascended, I'm doing amazing and blessed. I send him love and light. Namaste.
I broke free from mine 2 years ago and I'm still healing from it. It's not an easy process. I take it day by day. Thank you for the insight on this matter.
My husband of 12 years. And yes he truly is a Narcissist. I've healed and I've fixed alot about myself since I've learned why I attract narcissistic partners. Thank you Rich for sharing!
Just imagine if the narcissist in your life is a parent? It's hard and u try to stay away from her as much as I can. She is a nuisance in the family. Problems with every member in the family its sickening 😪
My dad is diagnosed clinical overt malignant narcissist. People have no idea what that truly entails. He took off a week of work when my mom died. They were divorced but still. I drove 3 hrs to see her body before viewing. He stayed on sofa in his boxers watching TV. He was unemployed most of time. He spent 4k of the 5k my grandpa gave him to buy me a car. He then bought a lemon. Knowing I'd be 16 yr old in 1990 breaking down on highway w no cellphone. He then took out a loan on it my grandparents didn't know about & then filed bankruptcy. A tow truck came & got it one day. I met my now husband 6 wks after graduation in 1991 & he's taken care of me since. Along w/grandparents, aunts/uncles. I don't know where I'd be w/out them. Me & my brothers all had to walk away. We each had a bridge burner moment that you don't come back from.
Comment 111 !!! It was me! I definitely needed to hear that! I never knew what a narcissist was till I went to 3 diff counselors after I left mine. He had me thinking I was crazy. All 3 told me it wasn’t me and would tell me the things he would do to me (that narcs do). I was shocked. I thought I needed meds! It’s been 6yrs since I left and I still can’t feel healed from it but definitely have been going thru the wanting to be alone keep turning ppl down quick to see red flags and push those away from me! It feels good to be so quick to see the BS now and run far away as fast as I can. I’d love to hear more about the healing process!!!!
Totally agree Rich, this guy I knew is TOTALLY UNREASONABLE and it created and UNFAIR situation, no matter how much I explain to him, he would not understand. It's so very sad.
You need to go through that period of ‘No’. It’s healthy. People in bad states make bad decisions. But, you eventually need to heal and move on. (Amen, Rich)
That’s about right. You can’t fully understand until you actually go through it. It was a tremendous learning experience for me. I must be a slow learner because it took me 14 years. It did break me down - damn near destroyed me. But it opened the door to my spiritual awakening. That said, real narcissism is a pathology. “Gray Rock” and “No Contact” are the mantras. Keep the lesson, release the bitterness!
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU.?YOU HAVE DONE A COMPLETE 360. YOU ARE A BRILLIANT MAN. All the way around. Follow all of your topics. This one just started playing. NOT POSITIVE IF THESE GUYS HAVE CHARACTARISTICS ARE THE GENUINE ARTICLE, NOR DO I INTEND ON DWELLING UPON IT. MOST OF THEM ARE HAS BEENS. One needs to ACT ON HIS TALK OR HIS ASS IS grass “ Your actions speak so loudly, I can't hear what you say”Ralph Waldo Emerson
Thank You my 1st husband...he is still playing the victim....thankfully my Son's now see him for all he ia. Sooo hard to leave him...best thing I ever did.... this video hit home xx
Yes. I have. Took years and I was basically reborn. I had to go back to scratch with myself. Within myself. I used hypnosis, every tool, mental, spiritual, psychological etc I could find. I dedicated every moment of every day. I learnt to love, respect and nurture and support me. I gained self worth and healthy boundaries. 💕 I'm not the same person I was...I'm better.
The old saying.....love me or hate me, yet don't ignore me! You're right , the solution is ice cod, no contact, no response. I lived & worked with a narcissist for 22 years. When you walk away,you can never look back. It is like being let out of prison, it's extremely freeing ! They will take everything you have from you. You have to make sure they don't get your SOUL!
....I was gonna say.... I was psychologically abused for almost 7 years....trauma bond ... malignant narcissist....I can't believe I made it out of there!!! Love the hat!! That's what the clock said when I was still there 11:11 and I always knew when I saw that that I was going to get out of there I was going to be okay, coincidence that you're wearing that hat? Idk
Doctor Ramani talks about this extensively and also has excellent in person programs to support, workbooks and what not. So does Richard Grannon, Lisa A. Romano and tons of others. You know I love you man... but this video does not demonstrate humility. 🙏🏼💚
I "love" (not really 😮💨but y'all know what i mean) hearing the skeptics' conversion tales - it only takes 1 to know it's a legit pit of hell. Empaths becoming stubborn, relentless - all the "negatives" - and learning to truly love yourself enough to really be better than ok alone - that's the biggest hurdles. It's not wanting to be those negative things they eminate that sucks so bad - but you're damn straight - there is no choice but to be more stubborn, (etc), & "...beat them at their own game." As you say. At this point - its gonna take someone pretty damn special to convince me to give up me and my own space/happiness. Your msgs need broadcast on a larger scale like hire out ppl to yell them on the streets with 📣 📢🔈😅keep the💫 gold💫 coming Rich!!🙌💛
No contact is the only way. I had one that years later tried to break my current relationship up. It didn't work, we just laughed. Still I gave him no contact, no reaction, nothing. He has tried to reach out, he was blocked. They don't care, all they care about is themselves. This is solid advice....... SOLID, because I went through exactly what you described.
It’s very real!!!! No sir, I’ve been through it. It’s a constant pattern of behavior!!!! It’s been in my family!! It’s been around Forever!!!! We just have a name for it now. Not all narcissists are the same. I respect you Rich but no story is the same!!!
Well ... if you mean my 3 brothers and Father, yep, but I did it. Heal (heel 😆), just forgive yourself first then you can let go, remove yourself from all their social and other contacts so you can move on and move away. Do not say anything and keep a bland non emotional state. I know they are co-dependant. Are they really insecure ? Only when there is no source to feed off, especially financial then emotional. I am single and just side stepped another one, soon you can smell the 💩 before you hear and watch it happen right in front of you everyday, just smile inside and keep walking past. I can tell the signs so clearly after 5 years personal hard working therapy from the 50 years of trauma. Healing? ... no, replace that tired negative word with freedom,it is being yourself and doing your own thing and ( if you can live with another partner) you should be able to do the same with respect and honesty... transparency. Today my 👍🏼 number is 888 😆 on Monday here in Aussie land ... Luv ya Rich ❤
Yep. Years of healing....and grieving finally coming to inner peace that at 48 I would never be amother and prob be alone, and starting to build a life I felt content in..... bam..... I met my perfect partner! Very randomly, yet serendipitously in a Cafe by the beach. 💕⛱️ He was not my type but he madame laugh, there were no instant lust or attraction, instead we just got along and it was so easy. No drama. 4 years later the same still. It's incredible how in hindsight our lives had been parallel in the most amazing ways...grew up in Papua new Guinea, both lived on the same suburbs in Sydney, both travelled to Europe living in differentcountriesfor over a decade, both returning to Sydney within months of one another... after leaving toxic relationships.... we met at a beach we both grew up on though he is 10 years older than me. Yes.... all you share Rich is spot on. In fact you helped me heal, I've been following you for years and years. 💕
Not to force drugs on folks but I'm finding microdosing psilocybin mushrooms is helping me heal my ptsd from narc abuse. I'm not numb anymore, at least. You will get PTSD when dealing with a genuine narc.
Rich 🙏pray for your narcissist health please He's sick physically he's family K.R.H. my brother is a Sagittarius he's a narcissistic person and he was with my childhood friend who's also a Sagittarius I don't think they're together anymore I haven't seen either one of them in over 10 years Kimberly Hermann
Oh wow. I really needed to see this video today. Everything you said is a fact. That word is thrown around so much to where now nobody understands the reality of it and how deep it gets. The last time I saw my now ex, his usually light colored eyes were completely black. No pupils, no sclera. Just black. I’ve been through some things in my life- foster homes, parent suicide….but trying to heal from the narcissist is what has me seeking therapy for PTSD. Thank you for this video💜
Hey boy thank you very much for such a wonderful class, you make me understand a lot of things. 3 years ago I was going to a very difficult & painful brake up when I met one of those, and I blindly asked him to move in with me to my house, I feel so embarrassed I have never met anyone like him in my life, I left my house to move with my children in Las Vegas to help with no contact, I have peace now for the first time in years.. having Pluto in my sun sign is not easy but you’re right.. I didn’t realize how strong I am. Thank you, thank you, thank you! You are smart please keep doing these interesting videos.
Wao !! Perfectly Said ! Going through absolute lock down , cut off , hermit mode , blocking everything everyone close to him … he even payed a hacker .. have to rebuild my life again , but not giving in , no contact ! This is the most difficult time of my life . But I am too strong for him and will be unstoppable when I am through this eventually. Your words helped
If you have been with a Narcissist & had a Narcissistic father too, you will never fkin forget it & it takes years to heal from all they do to you & you also don’t know half of what they have done to you till you get out & they will do anything to keep bread crumbing you, your not allowed to move on from them but they can go live the single life just like that & healing ❤️🩹 takes a long time so just be patient with yourself & try rebuild you & your confidence once again but trust me you will never be the same after their abuse 🥺😪🥺 Thanks Rich 😇⭐️🥰🙏🏻
There are people who have been raised by narcissists and their traumas are very deep. Also, narcissists are everywhere, sometimes you cannot eliminate them, they are your family members, neighbors, friends, coworkers, etc. Not only romantic partners are narcissistic, they all can be very hurtful and damaging. Healing from a narcissistic abuse is not easy and it takes a lot of time; victims have health issues, PTSD, mental and emotional problems. Some cannot even walk away; very sad reality. Unless you've been a victim yourself it is very difficult to understand it.
After ww2 the narcissistic behavior became a part of the nuclear family and so what we see today has been handed down threw generations
100% because of my husband's mental health issues, I've had to overcome my cptsd from it. Very long couple years of analyzing his behaviors from mine. It's definitely difficult to heal from, but it can be done.
Richard Grannon was instrumental as a mentor/teacher in my healing. Also, Dr. Ramani (both on youtube) So much gratitude to both of them. Highest/Best energy to all dealing with this. ❤️
Omg yes! They both are amazing!! They too are helping me❤
I like them both. I used to also watch Sam Vaknin (Grannon's narcissist friend), but he grates on me.
Emotional literacy!!! Yes I love Richard. His techniques are so sweet and effective. I love his approach.
I recommend to see, also, videos of Professor Sam Vaknin about narcissism.
Oh, yes! I had my “awakening” thanks to Dr. Ramani, she’s amazing. I also recommend Dr. Carter.
The healing is horrible! After a 15 year relationship with one and leaving 5 times before I FINALLY did it for the 6th and FINAL time just over 2 years ago! The first year was hell and he did nothing but make it worse for me! This last year I have healed so much and gone through some HUGE life changes that have helped me to heal and grow so much! I am happy, healthy and WHOLE and that is a FREEDOM unlike any I have EVER felt! I am so blessed! Self love is the BEST love and it is a rough, bumpy road full of ups and downs but NO ONE deserves to be treated with hate and ugliness or have some "man" or "woman" to put their hands on you in an abusive way! I will NEVER be a victim but a SURVIVOR, A WARRIOR and one that is GRATEFUL for ALL the lessons along the way! Karmic relationships are NEVER easy but you need to learn the lesson and move on eventually! Thanks for the video Rich! You are ALWAYS SPOT ON! 🎯💯❤️🙏
Omg! You put this into words I could never put together to explain this relationship! That relationship was the hardest, craziest, emotional roller coaster that I have ever been in! It was soooo hard to break away! I thought I was going to lose my freaking mind!
CONGRATULATIONS to everyone who survived and got out! I learned my lesson and I love myself to the absolute fullest and know my worth. I will never jeopardize my mental stability with another Narc!
NO CONTACT is the key! NO CONTACT AND MOVE FORWARD
Healing from narcissim is the hardest thing you'll ever do
Would you be able to do a video on how to properly do shadow work please? Thank you.
Yes, slipping is a problem. I keep treating everyone like a narcissist. I see them as 2 faced the validation seeking face in public and an abusive one in private.
I needed to hear this today! I let the narcissist go after 8 years and wasn’t looking for another relationship and the ones that have come towards me I immediately know, nope that’s not it. Living my best life with myself. It takes times but getting better every day.
After being with a narcissist for the first time in my life, I have no desire to ever be in a relationship again, period. Maybe I'll change my mind, maybe I won't. 🤷 Every man I've ever been with ended up crushing me, but this last one, the narcissist, made me want to be single for the rest of my life! Time will tell...
Facts! I feel the same way, I am so turned off from relationships right now. I’m okay with being single as I continue to learn and love on myself. ♥️
Something good will come 😊 , if you don’t wait, want , or think about it ✨💫🌞
Feel exactly the same but I also don’t want to give him the satisfaction of stealing my joy. Still working through.
Thanks Rich, you spoke nothing but truth. ❤️
Same.. 😑
When someone shows you signs of narcissism and gaslighting…… RUN, RUN FAR AWAY!!!
A true narcissist is extremely dangerous! And you might heal from it, but you will never be the same again. They'll attack your innocense from every side.
Well when you say that I am attracting because I’m empty or I feel that emptiness inside of me that’s not true necessarily because he found me a message to me when I was doing amazing I was on top of my game single mom of three doing fucking amazing and yeah I did have a sense of loneliness in a way but I was so happy at least I thought.. Will you please continue to do more videos like this because I am currently trying to heal from a very toxic abusive alcoholic narcissist Aquarius man! i’m a very proudly Leo woman and he is evil to the core!! I wish I could go back in time to like four years ago when he first started messaging me and literally blocked him even though we had a lot of good memories there were a lot of bad memories😞🥺😭😭😭 thank you thank you thank you!!!❤
Yep! I’m living proof. Healing is a journey though and can be a rough one but it IS POSSIBLE even though when you first come out of the connection you feel like life is really over- and that life is! But, a brand new one can and does begin just love yourself ans patient with yourself. Self compassion goes a long way! To anyone still suffering in abuse I’m praying for you 🙏
It feels like your being haunted while trying to heal. I have never experienced anything like it. I got a really good dose of it in a long term relationship. Healing is all about self love and getting in tune with your own voice without the echo effect of the narcissist.
@@Barneyjo 100% agree, our minds can be like a echo chamber of the abuse. From time to time I still hear his voice and the horrible things he would say to me and I work hard to correct my thinking. You probably like me suffer from c-ptsd. I was diagnosed at 13 with PTSD and at 40 i was re-diagnosed with c-ptsd after 5 years with what felt like the devil himself. Keep your head up and remember your beautiful and deserve love.
One of your videos randomly showed up on my youtube list, and now I understand why.
I escaped a true narc 2,5 years ago and listening to this gave me a missing piece that I needed to find peace. Why I attracted him and how much it actually taught and changed me. I really do detect toxicity from a mile away and say no to everything with toxic vibes. And you're so right, a person who went through the trauma of a true narc is never the same again. Thank you for the message.
It's called the 'grey rock' reaction. Non-reactivity is witholding that nacissistic supply they crave. Tough when dealing with a parent with NPD. I didn't attract it, I was adopted by it. Entirely different start to the relationship, but same result. For her, she couldn't have a child naturally, so she adopted and tried to make me in her image. To become the child she couldn't have. Once my sister was born, I was replaced, and became the primary source of narcissistic supply. Not until my thirties did I start placing and enforcing strong boundaries. Am I truly healed? Not entirely. It's a long road, with a lot of difficult work. Self-actualization to repair the warped view they created. Finding your own identity instead of the one they created for you. Defining your own goals instead of theirs. Knowing that you are good enough, and not craving that validation which they use as currency. Sad, really, but many children grow up with a narcisstic parent. You have to break the cycle. It's a cycle of abuse like any other kind, although psychological in nature. The unfortunate thing is, it conditions you from childhood to accept abusive love as 'normal', because that's all you've ever known. 😢 Love and Light ✨💖✨
I have not totally recovered it’s been decades and one phrase stays with me to this day! I am fat, ugly, and stupid and no one would ever want you! Can’t seem to get past this!
Yes, ma’am. 2006 is when it ended. He was killed in a head on collision. The abuse still haunts me. He literally destroyed me.
°∆🔥•Shit, I Needed To Hear This! Thank You, Brother Rich!•🔥∆°
We are a rare breed of people, we go all in, we keep our word, we give it our all, we go the extra mile for those we care for. We hardly ever receive the same passion and effort in return. We have never changed. We all hope that one day maybe just maybe we find someone to fiercely love us with the devotion we give so freely. To the givers, forgivers, and selfless lovers out there.. keep being beautiful, don't let these cold hearted people who's conscience's are waxed cold steal any more from us!! Help all that will listen. And take advantage of every little moment you are give. If you do that's where the healing is at if any. I will never forget what I've been through.time doesn't heal all things! If you have escaped, never look or go back. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to do. But I am finally doing my work in the way I never thought possible, I am the best version of myself I could ever ask for. Thank you so much Rich for speaking that truth. You help me navigate the path of life. Love you all. Love me.
Narcissistic tendencies reside in everyone. It’s evaluated clinically & assessed on a “spectrum” where on the spectrum do they fall? High function narcissism or low functioning meaning very little tendencies or traits displayed.
I dealt with a covert narcissist for 11 years and I would not wish it on my worst enemy. I promise you, it’s not bullshit. It is the most traumatizing experience to go through and can make you want to take your own life. I tried for many years to make excuses for his behavior and to even wrap my head around the abuse and it’s just so hard to get out of. The trauma bond is still breaking me and I pray to god that I can get past it.
For me I had to look at myself from my earliest memory-current to figure what laid out the path to attract it. Start with you…..you would be surprised, there is a common denominator 🥰
Rich I cannot thank you enough for doing this video on a Narcissist I'm going through an awful time atm he broke up with me and I cant get away from it as he lives next door too me we have to share the same path we going in and coming out he sits outside with women drinking laughing knowing I have to walk past them tried to move but nothing available it's really put me in a dark place but you are AMAZING Rich for this thank you with all my heart 🙏🙏👏👏👏👍👍👍😢😢💜💜
I'm a Libra and connected with a NARCISSISTIC ARIES/SCORPIO guy who ditched me for no reason, he had a 'suspicious' mind. I'm appalled at the low vibe behaviour, 1st time ever in hearing about Narcissism. This guy is and was an A-hole, he's stubborn, selfish and created DRAMA in my life. Sick of him.
I’m still struggling daily. Dark night of the soul lingers.
“The Body Keeps The Score” and the workbook has really been helping.
They do exist and they NEVER change. I was with one for 30 years. - …. I escaped ….
SAME! We made it out, we evolved 🔮
Rich, it's definitely real. I'm still living it. I'd also like to say please look into bpd. It blends in with narcissism. It's a losing battle, absolutely. Kim Sage is a wonderful psychologist I've found on UA-cam that talks about this. The best thing is just to get out. It's the healthiest thing for yourself. I wish I had known this years ago. I'm currently still in the situation which I've recently come to 100% accept, I can't do this anymore.
Many thanks Rich!🌹 I met and was in a relationship with a true narcissist for 3 years. Now, I am in the process of self-healing, I have (finally) found my peace of mind. And... yes! Now I will not get involved again because I have acquired the ability to smell the narcissistic psychological disorder from afar.
My life no matter what is better today than it was ever with the narcissist I encountered. The healing is intense thank you for your help ❤
There's no real healing. Does way too much damage.
No they have every last one of the npd traits.
Long process painful, don't like it.
It's hard when u co parent with one. U can't go no contact unfortunately. It does make u stronger.😃yes it is difficult but keep on going and smiling keep your vibration high😊
So true, people don’t really talk about the healing of a narcissistic relationship. I’m happy to say I’m at a point where I’m grateful for that experience because it made me more in alignment with my path to be an Astrologer. I’m on multiple Psychic/Astrology reading platforms, the host and organizer of an Astrology club and soul consultant. It’s wisdom have gave me a strong sense of self value in addition to sharing that wisdom with others. A major part of my healing process is helping others to walk into their integrity so that they continue to actualize their desires and more fulfillment. This way they can stay in a high vibrational frequency of who their meant to be and not attract or hold on to people, places and things that are not in alignment with them. I try to get them to see that holding on to something mentally, spiritually, emotionally that’s not in alignment with their higher selves is a waste of time
Father was a narc so naturally I married one…glad those days are behind me. It definitely was the biggest test of my life everyday without a Narc is a good day. Fully block them if you can’t because of parenting responsibilities Grey rocking definitely works. Stay strong your hope & your energy will return give it time. Definitely don’t react great advice Rich.
“A true narcissist is extremely, extremely, stubborn, persistent and relentless “ I would add passive- aggressive, threats of aggressive aggression, self absorbed, lack object permanence, lack empathy (though it can be well manufactured or imitated), smart, charming, silver-tongued and materialistic for image/status and or possessions
I have narcissistic abuse syndrome.. I have so many auto immune conditions now along with PTSD… I am under taking Cold Water Therapy which is helping.. The trauma / betrayal trauma is awful… It’s a fight to survive on a daily basis…
Hi Rich. A lot of truth and wisdom in this video. That said, severing the ties that bind I SUPER difficult when you have kids with a psychopath. Then you have to watch him turn your kids against u, then, some of your kids grow up to be psychopathic too. Very very painful my msn. Inexplicable. But what else can you do but put your foot down, protect and heal yourself, and carry on. If you work yo cleanse you karmic load by deeply learning your own lessons and inspecting your own shadow self, forgiving others (internally at least), I believe the path can be purified. 🙏💛
Not to mention I was 300 miles away from him! How the hell?? I was doing great! But yeah kinda lonely but still super weird. Never again! I wish he would hurry up and get out all way moved out so I can block him in every way! 10:02
Out of curiosity, why are you discussing this? It is a very big 'click' topic. There is a difference with Narcissistic traits and a person who is mentally disordered with NPD. You never fully heal. It's always there. The numbers are larger than you realize. They're all around each and every one of us. Once educated you can see them right away.
I don't believe that you can or speaking for myself anyway... I have been through every kind of abuse there is and numerous times over honestly but, that is the hardest thing that I am still trying to be ok from
I’ll tell you about the healing process. Thanks and good good suggestion for a shop and I am anyway thank you so much Rich Friday done bye
Hellish Relationships! The Big Book in AA & ACOA Big Red Book touches on narcissism, Bill W even said all those many years ago that as for the addict and the narcissism and the self-serving that comes into that if you don’t surrender and there is so much more help out there for that. A lot of people fall into narcissism on a spectrum and even half of the things on the list from the characteristics of the actual personality disorder. It’s a hell of relationship and I think there’s a lot more of them out there than what people really want to admit because of the denial fogs that we get into especially if we’re codependent and we have intense childhood, trauma and chaotic and dysfunctional families you’re gonna be trapped in that for a long time until you wake up.
No one knows wat it's like until they get involved w a Narsisisist. I'm still struggling probably cause he's still tryna contact me. We can't get weak or curious and answer there textes or calls
You nailed this. Had to get to the point of ice cold. Control, alt, delete. Phone number change etc. It was getting crazy. Did cord cutting, and did what I had to do to get them gone. It's been 5 months and I am done. Its now over.
thank you so much , i needed this. I'm going thru a narcissist attack by a 3rd party/ex friend because of my person . as soon as I found out she was narc i did ghost her (didn't know then) , i warned him to mess with anyone but to pls not respond to her advances. she wouldn't let up so he fell into the seduction and she turned him against me. now I'm being gangstalked, spied on, watch all day everyday. i am stronger than they both realized.
What people don’t tell you is that even when you break free and walk away, they will stalk you and trying to find you and threaten to kill your dog, so thank you for actually saying that lol.
I had a narcissistic father who controlled my young and teenage years and had me followed where ever I went. He never showed affection to me or my brothers and we all suffered with low self esteem and a need to find affection. I went on to marry a narcissistic control freak with a nasty nature he fooled me completely and only wanted to marry me beacause I owned a house. Then blow me if I didn't meet yet another control freak ,who when I left stalked me and pestered me for a year after leaving until I completely blocked him out of my life. I've got through it all, and it has made me a very strong person now. I'm 71 and living my life my way.
Such an excellent teacher and spiritual leader, Rich. Great video. Thank you.
Takes long long time. Healing took me 3 years. After no trust. No confidence no selfesteem
I’m healing from it now. I can’t lie it is difficult. Trusting other people is not a problem. I can smell a rat from a mile away because of the narcissist abuse however, trusting myself and making decisions is the hard part. Narcissist loves independent people and narcissist loves to turn those independent people into dependents. I was young when I got with my narc. He loved to play mind games. The cruelest thing he ever done was got me to doubt myself. Doubt my intuition, logic, decisions and even my reality. You need to understand that narcissist gradually work you down. This is how they go unnoticed on peoples radar. Since more and more people are talking about topics like this and are asking legitimate questions maybe I need to start posting videos telling my experience with a narc.
Loved this! I totally agree Rich...it's been 11 months ...it's been an incredible journey...I am holding strong and will never go back!!! You cannot fix a person with NPD!!!!
Is been over eight years and I still have a hard time even to have a relationship scared to put somebody else in harm I still break down no escape because is the father of my kids
I love these videos from you. Yeah!
Over use..there is a fine line between NPD and a sociopath or psycopath
Thank you Rich ❤️❤️❤️
Do Narcissists know that they're narcissists? Are they really intentional in the actions?
Damn near killed me. Now I’m stronger than ever.
I only use my reactions when it's useful to keep them away
Treacherous is the absolutely right word for it.
The word gets thrown around. Dysfunction & mistreating someone isn't always narcissism. I'm the daughter of a diagnosed clinical overt malignant narcissism. The are made in a set point in early childhood. They're not born. It comes from EXTREME over praise & no boundaries by a parent. A true narcissist can't form empathy. And that doesn't mean being nice or mean to you. That is bridge burning pain. My father called out of work telling them my mother, divorced from since I was 3,had died & he needed to be w/me. He then laid on the sofa in his boxers for a week while I went 3 hrs away to view my mom before cremation. My stepmom went w/me. He then did it again. My grandma was in hospital 5 days & passed. She part raised me. My father came for 6 hrs only. Myself & my 2 dtrs were there entire time. We made all funeral arrangement. Myself & both of my brothers had to walk away entirely in 2016. And he's alone wallowing away now.
There is so much truth to this! Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate you and your guidance!
Just started researching emotional independence totally Wyld
It’s quite the lesson to learn! Very interesting topic! I do agree with your points made. 👍🏻
I claim this reading! I escaped with only my life, the clothes on my back. I had just gotten out of prison. My self esteem was low. I went through 4 years of hell. I think I died during one beating. Forced into marriage. He cheated, stole from me, he was strung out, mental, physical, verbal abuse, and rape. I have a cpo against him now. I went to safe houses and In treatment therapy for PTSD, and Stockholm syndrome. I've been gone for 9 months. He introduced me to spirituality because I needed something to believe in. I have ascended, I'm doing amazing and blessed. I send him love and light. Namaste.
I am SOOOOO proud of YOU! NAMASTE' ❤
I broke free from mine 2 years ago and I'm still healing from it. It's not an easy process. I take it day by day. Thank you for the insight on this matter.
I'm that one person. Thx Rich ☝️
Listen to Rich. He speaks the truth 👊 ♍️
No , we don't heal ,we grow. When we are aware, you become smarter and stronger, if we choose to 👍🙏
My husband of 12 years. And yes he truly is a Narcissist. I've healed and I've fixed alot about myself since I've learned why I attract narcissistic partners. Thank you Rich for sharing!
I am a person who needed to hear this. Thank you
Just imagine if the narcissist in your life is a parent? It's hard and u try to stay away from her as much as I can. She is a nuisance in the family. Problems with every member in the family its sickening 😪
My dad is diagnosed clinical overt malignant narcissist. People have no idea what that truly entails. He took off a week of work when my mom died. They were divorced but still. I drove 3 hrs to see her body before viewing. He stayed on sofa in his boxers watching TV. He was unemployed most of time. He spent 4k of the 5k my grandpa gave him to buy me a car. He then bought a lemon. Knowing I'd be 16 yr old in 1990 breaking down on highway w no cellphone. He then took out a loan on it my grandparents didn't know about & then filed bankruptcy. A tow truck came & got it one day. I met my now husband 6 wks after graduation in 1991 & he's taken care of me since. Along w/grandparents, aunts/uncles. I don't know where I'd be w/out them. Me & my brothers all had to walk away. We each had a bridge burner moment that you don't come back from.
I know the master narcissist
Comment 111 !!! It was me! I definitely needed to hear that! I never knew what a narcissist was till I went to 3 diff counselors after I left mine. He had me thinking I was crazy. All 3 told me it wasn’t me and would tell me the things he would do to me (that narcs do). I was shocked. I thought I needed meds! It’s been 6yrs since I left and I still can’t feel healed from it but definitely have been going thru the wanting to be alone keep turning ppl down quick to see red flags and push those away from me! It feels good to be so quick to see the BS now and run far away as fast as I can. I’d love to hear more about the healing process!!!!
Absolutely 💯% needed to hear this, confirmed my journey & where I am in my healing process! Thank you so much! 🙌💖
Totally agree Rich, this guy I knew is TOTALLY UNREASONABLE and it created and UNFAIR situation, no matter how much I explain to him, he would not understand. It's so very sad.
You need to go through that period of ‘No’. It’s healthy. People in bad states make bad decisions. But, you eventually need to heal and move on. (Amen, Rich)
That’s about right. You can’t fully understand until you actually go through it. It was a tremendous learning experience for me. I must be a slow learner because it took me 14 years. It did break me down - damn near destroyed me. But it opened the door to my spiritual awakening. That said, real narcissism is a pathology. “Gray Rock” and “No Contact” are the mantras.
Keep the lesson, release the bitterness!
Emotional Integrity
Emotionally Intelligent...
I'm not the same person.... It's much more than healing.
Waoo 😔😔...I want to talk..but..😭i can't..i can't finish to see this video..
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU.?YOU HAVE DONE A COMPLETE 360. YOU ARE A BRILLIANT MAN. All the way around. Follow all of your topics. This one just started playing. NOT POSITIVE IF THESE GUYS HAVE CHARACTARISTICS ARE THE GENUINE ARTICLE, NOR DO I INTEND ON DWELLING UPON IT. MOST OF THEM ARE HAS BEENS. One needs to ACT ON HIS TALK OR HIS ASS IS grass “ Your actions speak so loudly, I can't hear what you say”Ralph Waldo Emerson
35 years.. trained from young age to accept little.. SUCKS to see TRUTH and can't unsee.. Buying flowers & dancing 🩰 my way out ✔️⚖️🕊️💞💪
Thank You my 1st husband...he is still playing the victim....thankfully my Son's now see him for all he ia.
Sooo hard to leave him...best thing I ever did.... this video hit home xx
Bless You!!!!!!
Yes. I have. Took years and I was basically reborn. I had to go back to scratch with myself. Within myself. I used hypnosis, every tool, mental, spiritual, psychological etc I could find. I dedicated every moment of every day. I learnt to love, respect and nurture and support me. I gained self worth and healthy boundaries. 💕 I'm not the same person I was...I'm better.
The old saying.....love me or hate me, yet don't ignore me! You're right , the solution is ice cod, no contact, no response. I lived & worked with a narcissist for 22 years. When you walk away,you can never look back. It is like being let out of prison, it's extremely freeing ! They will take everything you have from you. You have to make sure they don't get your SOUL!
....I was gonna say....
I was psychologically abused for almost 7 years....trauma bond ... malignant narcissist....I can't believe I made it out of there!!!
Love the hat!! That's what the clock said when I was still there 11:11 and I always knew when I saw that that I was going to get out of there I was going to be okay, coincidence that you're wearing that hat? Idk
Doctor Ramani talks about this extensively and also has excellent in person programs to support, workbooks and what not. So does Richard Grannon, Lisa A. Romano and tons of others.
You know I love you man... but this video does not demonstrate humility. 🙏🏼💚
I "love" (not really 😮💨but y'all know what i mean) hearing the skeptics' conversion tales - it only takes 1 to know it's a legit pit of hell. Empaths becoming stubborn, relentless - all the "negatives" - and learning to truly love yourself enough to really be better than ok alone - that's the biggest hurdles. It's not wanting to be those negative things they eminate that sucks so bad - but you're damn straight - there is no choice but to be more stubborn, (etc), & "...beat them at their own game." As you say. At this point - its gonna take someone pretty damn special to convince me to give up me and my own space/happiness. Your msgs need broadcast on a larger scale like hire out ppl to yell them on the streets with 📣 📢🔈😅keep the💫 gold💫 coming Rich!!🙌💛
You are speaking the Truth ❤
No contact is the only way. I had one that years later tried to break my current relationship up. It didn't work, we just laughed. Still I gave him no contact, no reaction, nothing. He has tried to reach out, he was blocked. They don't care, all they care about is themselves. This is solid advice....... SOLID, because I went through exactly what you described.
It’s very real!!!! No sir, I’ve been through it. It’s a constant pattern of behavior!!!! It’s been in my family!! It’s been around Forever!!!! We just have a name for it now. Not all narcissists are the same. I respect you Rich but no story is the same!!!
Well ... if you mean my 3 brothers and Father, yep, but I did it. Heal (heel 😆), just forgive yourself first then you can let go, remove yourself from all their social and other contacts so you can move on and move away. Do not say anything and keep a bland non emotional state.
I know they are co-dependant. Are they really insecure ? Only when there is no source to feed off, especially financial then emotional.
I am single and just side stepped another one, soon you can smell the 💩 before you hear and watch it happen right in front of you everyday, just smile inside and keep walking past. I can tell the signs so clearly after 5 years personal hard working therapy from the 50 years of trauma.
Healing? ... no, replace that tired negative word with freedom,it is being yourself and doing your own thing and ( if you can live with another partner) you should be able to do the same with respect and honesty... transparency.
Today my 👍🏼 number is 888 😆 on Monday here in Aussie land ... Luv ya Rich ❤
Love-light-luck Right back at ya
When the learner is ready the teacher shows up ❤
Thank You Rich, You Are like speaking directly to my Soul🤘❤️! So true! Every Single word 🥹🙌
Yep. Years of healing....and grieving finally coming to inner peace that at 48 I would never be amother and prob be alone, and starting to build a life I felt content in..... bam..... I met my perfect partner! Very randomly, yet serendipitously in a Cafe by the beach. 💕⛱️
He was not my type but he madame laugh, there were no instant lust or attraction, instead we just got along and it was so easy. No drama. 4 years later the same still. It's incredible how in hindsight our lives had been parallel in the most amazing ways...grew up in Papua new Guinea, both lived on the same suburbs in Sydney, both travelled to Europe living in differentcountriesfor over a decade, both returning to Sydney within months of one another... after leaving toxic relationships.... we met at a beach we both grew up on though he is 10 years older than me. Yes.... all you share Rich is spot on. In fact you helped me heal, I've been following you for years and years. 💕
Not to force drugs on folks but I'm finding microdosing psilocybin mushrooms is helping me heal my ptsd from narc abuse. I'm not numb anymore, at least. You will get PTSD when dealing with a genuine narc.
The trauma bond That's the narcicist discard.Relationships end but this is something else..Love fro UK
Check out Quinn Holliday...he speaks on healing from it. He has been speaking on this in 2014 till now.
Rich 🙏pray for your narcissist health please He's sick physically he's family K.R.H. my brother is a Sagittarius he's a narcissistic person and he was with my childhood friend who's also a Sagittarius I don't think they're together anymore I haven't seen either one of them in over 10 years Kimberly Hermann
Oh wow. I really needed to see this video today. Everything you said is a fact. That word is thrown around so much to where now nobody understands the reality of it and how deep it gets. The last time I saw my now ex, his usually light colored eyes were completely black. No pupils, no sclera. Just black. I’ve been through some things in my life- foster homes, parent suicide….but trying to heal from the narcissist is what has me seeking therapy for PTSD. Thank you for this video💜
Hey boy thank you very much for such a wonderful class, you make me understand a lot of things. 3 years ago I was going to a very difficult & painful brake up when I met one of those, and I blindly asked him to move in with me to my house, I feel so embarrassed I have never met anyone like him in my life, I left my house to move with my children in Las Vegas to help with no contact, I have peace now for the first time in years.. having Pluto in my sun sign is not easy but you’re right.. I didn’t realize how strong I am. Thank you, thank you, thank you! You are smart please keep doing these interesting videos.
After thought. I took that energy and started my own business. I am proud of me. Love n light my friend...libra
Wao !! Perfectly Said ! Going through absolute lock down , cut off , hermit mode , blocking everything everyone close to him … he even payed a hacker .. have to rebuild my life again , but not giving in , no contact ! This is the most difficult time of my life . But I am too strong for him and will be unstoppable when I am through this eventually. Your words helped
If you have been with a Narcissist & had a Narcissistic father too, you will never fkin forget it & it takes years to heal from all they do to you & you also don’t know half of what they have done to you till you get out & they will do anything to keep bread crumbing you, your not allowed to move on from them but they can go live the single life just like that & healing ❤️🩹 takes a long time so just be patient with yourself & try rebuild you & your confidence once again but trust me you will never be the same after their abuse 🥺😪🥺
Thanks Rich 😇⭐️🥰🙏🏻