I feel awful what women have to go through this constantly. I've been SA'd twice in my life as a man, and it's haunting. To think women go through it literally all the time scares me, and it breaks my heart that they can't feel safe from literally existing. I honestly never blame women when they say they hate men, I think it's so justified
I'm sorry you had those experiences I truly am butt I'm the opposite of that I'm a good guy that just gets a bad rap for being a man yes there's a lot of terrible men out there but I ain't one of them and to all of those people who sexualize your character I'm glad you deleted their comments and basically gave them the bird not all of us men are like that I try and protect my friends from any pedophiles or anything they call me the battleship @@theintrovertedcartoonist
@@katylepetsos7512 The things is, you can't tell with strangers, so it's better to be safe than sorry. I'm pretty sure most women are aware that not every guy is out to get them, but if you're alone and you hear footsteps behind you it's enough to give you a scare. It's less "This person MUST be a creep" and more "IF this person is a creep I have a problem". And don't get me wrong, there's also creepy women - like old ladies trying to touch your baby wtf, but those usual aren't physically strong enough to make you fear them. Also heavily depends on the situation: Guy asking for directions and then walking into the direction you told him - perfectly fine; guy asking for directions and then walking with you even though you told them that you aren't sure and that he should should ask that group over there who may be able to help but he completely ignores that, then you decide you can at least show him the bus station but he still walks with you after that and asks for your number and what time you get to and off work and that you should be friends... yeah, you notice it was never about directions.
@@raininessoh yeah, that’s why I never go anywhere alone, my Mom is scary when she’s mad and my Dad could probably knock someone out if they tried anything. You can’t always tell with some people so it’s best to not be by yourself, especially in places like Cities or going at night.
@@katylepetsos7512 It sucks when people decide that women should trust all men because 1 could be a good guy, IGNORING THE FACT YOU CAN'T TELL WHO THE FUCK IS THE GOOD ONE
I was kinda waiting for a "and if you want to protect your identity, use a VPN like me, I use [insert brand] when I'm on the web to avoid creepy men" lol. I think part of it is how desensitized a lot of people have become they've forgotten this thing called boundaries.
He when said that to me, I’m like- bro are people not allowed to be single? Like yes I was looking for a relationship at the time, but that doesn’t mean I’m gonna date him. I literally don’t want to date someone who can’t take no for an answer because that’s a major ass red flag 🚩
@@theintrovertedcartoonistkinda afraid he would have said "no pepole aren't allowed to be single" I tend to think someone who is that desperate isn't thinking normally , It's sad pepole in this world can end up that way , I am glad nothing too bad happend to you in that event
me being a man i got bad experiences with creppy people to like when i was a waiter and a random lady just slaped my ass. i was a 15 years old and that girl was 28 💀.
yeah ive only ever dealt with one guy who acted similarly to this everyone else guess what? THEY WERE GIRLS they go: aww your sooooo cuuuute you HAVE to date me! me: no. her: why nooooooot? me: i like men. her: pfffttt no you dooooooont cmooooonnnn this was my only friend at the time :-: and she always complains that "oh people dont respect the fact i like girls and not men" i seriously wanna cut my hair so many people are being so weird ever since i started growing it out...
@@Davidledonkayy its okay dude, you're heard. just as there are creepy men theres creepy women, she was just talking about her experience as a woman dealing with this. its completely wrong what that girl did to you and im sorry you had to go through that man
@@deviousdinoo honestly after a certain point i just stop caring what happens to me, the downside is i stop caring about what happens to others too whoops..
Its just bizarre to me that some men do that whats more bizarre to me is that no one steps in to stop situations like these. I remember I used to work at a hot tub store and this guy started harassing the lady who worked behind the desk, and all I said is "if you want to act like this you see yourself out of the store" the man still didn't leave so me being male let my co-worker go into the break room while I got the customer what he needed and made sure he left. It isn't hard to prevent situations like this from happening you just need to step in when it is happening and put an end to it.
the fact that people do this, makes me sick, i find it really sad knowing you have had to deal with this, i hope one day you are respected as a person more than an object in the future, as a guy myself knowing that men do this makes me angry at what people think they can do
I agree with this statement. However for me, I get grouped together with these creepy guys cause I'm a guy and I can be creepy sometimes.(By creepy, I mean physically creepy, my smile can be unsettling, eyes that look lifeless, slightly hunch, tall and lanky, etc) It makes me frustrated to be viewed that way due to my physical appearance which usually means I have few friends, especially girls. They avoid me like the plague.😅
as a guy who has encountered HUNDREDS of creepy women, trust me, the creepy women stories that could have existed would look and sound the exact same as these only gender swapped. creepy people are creepy, no matter what way it goes.
And there is a bunch of people that for some reason would defend one or the other. I do not know why people are allowed to get away with this. that they are actively pushing for it would show there is a risk of them acting upon it.
1. Im glad you are now in a place where your comfortable of work 2. I love the sock puppet at the beginning XD 3. Im loving your stores they are very fun to listen to ^^
as a 15 year old who has had an "experience" with a person like that, i really understand the same feeling of "helplessness" you talked about. can't believe people like this exist it's so fucking horrible and disgusting. also i'm glad to hear that fear you had made you quit your job. glad that youtube is working out for you, stay safe.
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9:46 Even as a man, I too have experienced this exact feeling before. I can’t help but feel an intense anger when I hear similar things like this happen to other people.
1. The amount of people who go for minors is horrible 2. What is it with people who can’t hold their sexual desires back and just go for it on random people ?!
1. Agreed 2. A general lack of impulse control, combined with a society that tends to enforce individuality, leads to those who feel entitled to act on their desires and opinions, regardless of whether or not they prove detrimental to others. Yay, Society! (Sarcasm doesn’t translate well into the written word). (Written? Typed? Printed? IDK)
@noahv1479 on your second point. I think you're mixing up individualism with misogyny/sexism in general. The dehumanization of others makes it easier for the dehumanizer to do terrible things to the dehumanized. Individualism as a concept places value in respecting one's individuality, whichruns counter to things such as sexism.
I have a theory about that. So you know how people are biologically wired to want to have children? since things can go wrong in the brain leading to autism, ADHD ect, I'm guessing that something went wrong with those parts of the brain, mixing sexual desires, with that desire, leading to an attraction to minors. If this is the case, then it might be able to get tested and cured, thus preventing pedos. Again, this is just a theory of biology, I'm likely completely wrong and these guys just chose to be creeps to minors.
I had a guy I used to work with, he thought I was dropping hints at him for JUST BEING NICE!! Just being a decent human being, And he tried to ask me out on three separate occasions. 1 incident he tried to get me alone with him by lying saying him and my friends were going to a movie (I asked around and found out he was lying that they were going)…on another occasion he actively knew I was seeing someone. And he often brought up my rear end in conversation…I have turned this man down so much that when I do see him in public I actively feel revolted to see him and constantly have to update those close to me that I saw him
I fucking can't stand it when guys start that gaslighting horseshit. All you have to do is ask. JUST ASK!!! Ask the girl if she was dropping hints that she was interested and when she says a definite no, take her for her word and say its your bad for misreading her. Its so fucking simple and yet so many guys delude themselves into thinking this or that and every excuse in the book to not take there word for it. i have no patience for that shit and am frustrated just hearing you had that experience.
i'm surprised HR didn't find a way to flip it back on you, given the bizarre excuses men find to victim blame women. Like at this point, i wouldn't be surprised if guys said "well, she came out of her mom's womb so, clearly [the most uncontroversially horrible act you can imagine] is actually her fault!"
HR is widely a men's nightmare, since unless you're dealing with a corrupt pig for a boss, HR being majorly women they side with one another, hence why all the horror stories of being fired over fabricated allegations. Hell, if your boss is a specific breed of corrupt pig (the pretend-liberal) it still won't matter. Also imma be honest: I have only ever seen men "victim blame" when there was no victim at all, or present. Like women have a public, general conversation on the topic of assault and are spiraling into fearmongering and absurdist thoughts and some guy pops up with a common sense statement (i.e. don't accept drinks from a stranger or avoid bad areas at night or don't look like a victim-to-be) and they're called victim blamers even though the circumstances discussed are hypotheticals. Now, I'm old enough to know this is because the women are talking about traumas and things that have happened to them or their friends without saying it out loud, but that's a) not the case for everyone and b) not obvious to the man. So you can't go and act like he was acting in full knowledge. I don't doubt there's people whp victim blame, with men being more likely to have egregious outlandish takes on the topic, but I really think the number is overinflated.
I was recently touched by a peer that I trusted and it was honestly the first time I’d ever experienced any type of sexual assault and watching this video made me feel less alone in my feelings so thanks!
I'll never understand how someone can be so open about being ready to SA another human being. I can't even handle accidentally glancing someone for too long, let alone saying something like that! People can be gross in ways I cannot comprehend. One thing I will say though is HR is *not* your friend, they defend the company from you going at them. It really needs to be taught more that if you are being sexually harassed, you NEED to go elsewhere immediately. Don't ever keep things in the company, report and leave receipts. It's depressing that when someone feels uncomfortable and they are young, they don't feel like they can do anything because they don't know how to handle it. Or if they do, they worry about retaliation. It's good to hear that things have at least improved for you over time on your channel! Hopefully it stays that way :]
if i literally glance at anyone for at most 3 seconds i feel like a creep? am i? the feeling of "ew why did i look at this persons general way for too long?" is felt even when im literally thinking about it
I think creepy people are one of the main reasons I noped out of the relationship game (I'm sure there's other reasons, but this is a main one). Why can't people just... not be creepy? Oh, and good on you for protecting your sister from them creeps!
everyone, whether you like it or not, have their own skeletons, hiding in the closets, we just control them and manage them, but some... some have more than just "skeletons", and worse, dont know how to corrale them... stay safe out there, dont let them ruin your day❤!
How do these guys even have the balls to do shit like that? And here I still struggle with basic eye contact... Also, Yayy!! Thanks for including my fanart!! 16:42 ✨
One word, 💫Misogyny 💫 To put it simply, men like the ones described in the video view women as sex objects/easy targets. They don't respect women as people, and they would probably go after teens if it wasn't considered an atrocity worse than murder
as a dude ive heard so many stories from my female coworkers that literally Disgust the hell out of me , I don't understand how guys can be that way and not see how wrong the way they act is. me as a guy in a workplace legit would never date a co-worker , i see most of my female workers as sisters more than anything hope that this doesn't happen to you anymore cause no one deserves to be treated this way
I am still in school and I recently wrote an essay about girlhood and feeling the rush to grow up and losing your innocence because of society around me. A segment was also deidcated to creepy men and women and I deeply resonated with you when you said “They feel the need to touch you or your hips” and the feeling of helplessness after SA. I felt sad after I wrote the essay because I never dove that deep and acknowledged the weirdos and society in general to little girls. Tysm for this videos Ilysm and you’re such an inspiration to me ❤
I'm 17 and working at a Burger King. Two of my former coworkers were creepy men. One left because of family issues, and the other got fired for his behavior The first guy was someone I had known since my first day working there. I've been working there for about a year now, so I was 16 at the time. He came off as odd to me, but I still treated him nicely so I wouldn't be seen as rude or anything like that. He'd always try to suck up to me. For example, he'd sing songs, show off his ability to mimic cartoon character voices, and when he found out that I'm a Mormon, he'd preach to me about stuff that I already know (He doesn't even go to church anymore). We closed together twice (two people close every night, so it was just me and him), and I was worried he'd try to do something to me. Thankfully, he didn't. One day, my boss approached me and told me that others were complaining to her that this guy was saying inappropriate stuff to me, which absolutely shocked me. I had no recollection of him ever saying anything to me, and I still don't know to this day. I've always been oblivious to flirting and stuff like that, so I always brushed everything he said off as him trying to be friendly in a weird way. I've asked my other coworkers what it was that he may have said to me, and all they said was that it was stuff that he shouldn't be talking about with girls my age. Ugh... If only I was able to understand when someone's trying to get too close and personal with me. A few months later, he ended up leaving because his ex-wife was trying to get his money or smth like that (I don't know all the details). I guess a lot of the people I work with who knew him didn't ever like him at all and all agreed that he was creepy. There was one time when he tried to remove my headset from my head, but I politely declined. That was probably the creepiest he ever got with me (that I actually remember) The second guy was a bit more discreet about it, but when I found out about everything he's done... Oh, boy... So, this guy got hired a little while after the first guy left. We were on good terms for the longest time, but there were lots of times when I didn't feel like talking to him because he's way older than me and I don't quite trust him all the way. Anyway, he would try to keep the dirty talk to a minimum when I was around and stuff, which I thought was nice. Eventually, it came to a point where my friend (who worked with me for a short while and goes to school with me) started making claims against him. He had disrespected her opinion on a serious topic because he's older than her. He seemed to believe that teenagers' opinions don't matter when the opposing side is an adult. My friend wrote up an entire statement with things said by other people we worked with about things that he had done. Sometime before he got fired, he did two things to me that I didn't like. The first thing he did was claim that I am not a real follower of the Bible because I study the Book of Mormon too. I didn't say anything back to him because I didn't want to fight back. Not to mention, my boss was there, so I didn't want to start anything (I'm also just not that kind of person). The second thing he did was show me a picture he had on his phone of my boss in her bra. I should've told my friend to put that in her statement. My friend let me read her statement, and oh my gosh... First of all, he was creepy to all the female employees. He suggested that the female uniform should be changed to bikinis, suggested to another former co-worker of mine (who I respect deeply) that he should wait until I turn 18 then start dating me (Thankfully, the cool guy said no), then told this same guy (who has a twin sister) that if he would do some nasty stuff to the sister if he were in the womb with her. Long story short, he got fired after this statement was shared to the higher-ups Now there's another guy who call me and two other underaged girls that I'm working with "Mama". He had a discussion with me about this movie I watched called "Adam" (It's based on a true story and stars Aaron Paul, who played Jesse Pinkman in "Breaking Bad") because I had seen boobs in the movie. Not appropriate at all, especially since I'm a minor. I'm going to keep a close eye out for this new guy and pray that something doesn't happen with him too
Well, I got about a year left until college, so I have to stay where I am. I also technically don't live in the exact place where I work. I live in the next town over 😅 Thanks for thinking of me, though! ❤️
I don't have the mindset, let alone the balls to do these things. I have a hard time even talking to strangers, despite being a muscular man in my twenties, let alone harass them this way. But then again, I was raised this way, had been traumatised into being an introvert so maybe that has to do with it. I am only able to these bold things if I'm online but I still don't do it. I treat women like men, I do not talk more than necessary, try to be honest and friendly as I can And as a gray person myself, don't hate on your look. You have to accept how you look so you can look into the mirror and say to yourself "yes, that's me". Besides, people sometimes find the grayness attractive
Now you've got me curious what you mean by tramatized as an introvert. I'd love to hear the story if you are willing to tell it. Wait shit I read that wrong and thought you meant your extravert friends would force you to go into situations that you weren't prepared for and gave you high anxiety and that had the gall to act offended when you inevitably don't want to do it again due to it going horribly. But I'll keep the comment edited instead of outright deleted in case you do want to tell your story. I'm a good listener and I don't judge.
Dude I am so sorry that women have to go through this shit. It sucks so much that you can just never trust a man that’s a stranger no matter what. I feel so terrible for people who had to go through that❤
It took me around two years to 'get over' my two SA moments. I completely understand the feeling of helplessness, and with that usually comes blame, guilt shame and that gross feeling like the person is still there. It's awful, and it angers me that women go through this every single day. When will the world be better :/ Great video ❤
I'm sorry you had to go through interactions like that or even experience them in the first place. No one should have to go through that. I'm glad that you find enjoyment from being a freelance artist (barring the occasional wild and devious comments). I for one enjoy the content you make and glad to be part of the Introverse community. You're doing great and you'll continue to be great. Keep up the amazing work you do, Cartoonist!
I really do hate the fact that, in our day and age, guys are still like this. Yeah, yeah, not all guys, but saying that isn't gonna magically erase them. I thankfully, have never had something like this happen to me aside from the strange comments boys at school have given me about my, ahem, "large boobs" however, I really hope I don't have to go through any of that and you shouldn't have gone through that either. I'm happy your in a better place now, a better work environment and hopefully the amount of support you get outweighs the weird-ass men that are in your comment section occasionally. Sending love from another fellow Canadian 💕
yes, and I am one of them- i mean one of the SUPPORTERS - wait no no i mean ACTIVE CONTRIBUTERS- wait wait i didnt mean it I... im gonna get cancelled huh...... cant really belive that stuff happens like that man, like respecting boundaries and so forth. hope u guys have the strength to face things like that and to avoid them, sheeeeeeesh the world is such a bat crazy place, be safe!
As a male person myself using the wise word of a certain person I must say to these men who harassed you “YOUR GOING DIRECTLY TO HELL! NOT JAIL HELL! GOODBYE!” *insert screams of those said creepy men* Also love your videos there great =)
literally so sorry that all of this happened to you, you did NOT deserve this treatment or anything like that, i really hope nothing even borderline close to this happens again to you or anyone else. please stay safe!!
"Creepy Women" exist. I worked as a banquet caterer: we had a *_highschool_* football award cermony one of my cowerkers, a woman in her 40s, kept talking about how "hot the guys were," and "she's gonna try to get some numbers," and "maybe they like older women." I told her "never say creepy shit like that in front of me again."
3:11 personally I agree with the social norm that if a woman lies about her age and she’s underage then it’s her fault because one of my cousins baby daddy’s was 20 and this girl that he met lied about her age and swore up and down that she was the same age as him and after they slept together, she said that she was actually 17 and he was freaking out because she lied to him and she insisted that it was no big deal and that she was completely consensual about it and then she got mad at him after he decided to distance himself from her and cut her off she went to the cops and told them about it and now he’s not allowed around his child because somebody he slept with three years ago lied about their age so yeah don’t lie about your age. It’s not A good thing.
I haven’t physically recoiled when watching a video for a long time, this is the first video I watched of you, and the moment he put his hands on you was enough to make me feel some kind of way, I hope you’re doing better, and I look forward to seeing more from you.
i’m sorry this happened to you and your sister. i hope that first guy ended up in prison before he ended up rapin anyone. no one deserves to go through that. there’s way too many women that go through this and feel unheard thanks to the “justice” system not believin them or not bein able to help them, thank you for sharin your story
I just want to say that I am so sorry that these awful things happened to you, nobody deserves to go through that and you certainly didn't. I'm glad you were able to get out of that situation before it escalated (more than it already had). It's good to know that you are safe, and I hope you're doing better now. Good to you for not letting creeps online or college get in the way of doing what you love! I love your stories and animations, and I think you're a very talented and awesome person. I can't wait to see what else you come up with in your next video, but make sure to take care of yourself and take breaks. Your well-being takes priority, we'll still be here when you get back. ♥
to me they are just obstacles, I only act nice around them because I don't want to get accused of things. Basically I'm doing it to save my skin not for them.
I'm a guy, and this makes me feel ashamed of what other men feel ok doing. Fellas: it's not that difficult. If she is under 18? Stay away. If she doesn't give consent or you're creeping her tf out? Stay away. Remember: no girl OWES you a chance or owes you attention
Also also you should have the decency to be the bigger man and apologize for your behavior when it is clear as a bright sunshiny day that you were completely in the wrong. Seriously, that will go way, WAY farther than doubling down on your bad behavior.
As a teen boy who has been considered “cute”(I have some “effeminate” features also I’m ugly af but apparently people disagree) I’ve been hit on by old men (eww) and I don’t really know how to describe how it makes me fell but all I know is it’s gross and scary and I 100% percent feel bad for you and the other women who have to deal with this much more often I can’t imagine having to deal with stuff like that regularly
I am a very touchy person, but I always make sure my friends are comfortable and alright with me touching them, and if they seem uncomfortable I either stop or ask if theyre okay. People should not be touchy with strangers though, the most I do with strangers is a simple handshake if im meeting someone.
I’m honestly so happy I started watching your videos because it’s been such a help when I’m trying to focus on homework or just to sit down and watch in general
I try my absolute hardest to make women as comfortable around me as possible, I'm sorry you have to go through these things. The fact people can do that with no remorse is sickening
I like your art style! I’m sorry that you’ve had to experience this kind of stuff as well. I’m glad you’re doing better now! Also how you draw hands is really awesome!
I’m glad you’re in a workspace that feels safe to you. It sucks that there are still many creeps in this world that have no respect for humans at all. I hope your endeavors continue to work out for you as an artist, and try to enjoy as many positive things in life as you can. 💯👍👍
I'm a 19-year-old dude working at a production facility to make carbon fiber and I'll tell you this. There are some interesting and downright disturbing things you'll hear in any workplace environment, but also funny stuff too Love your videos. Keep up the good work
0:42 I’m sorry this happens to you at the workplace and that this type of harassment & vile behavior follows women like yourself throughout your lives, it is sickening. I have experience with creepy women though it only enhanced my empathy towards your issue of assault, weird behavior and such. You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity for your work(just like the incredible job you did on this video btw), no woman should have to go through this. Thank u for speaking out!
well one just ( snifffffffffffssssssss/pufffffffffsssssssss a quick one) commented on ur comment hehehe fr tho, thats great to hear! ( sorry for cringe lol)
Are you a woman by any chance? I have a stupid git in one reply section that says they haven't met one woman who wasn't SA'd or harassed at least one point in there life. Such a dumb fucking statement that I'd like you to shove in their face.
Bro that feeling of helplessness is actually the worst. Ever since i experienced that the first time as a little kid, i haven't been able to talk about it with anyone, so it's really relieving to hear you openly speak about your experience. I'm sorry you had to go through all that, take care of yourself
man, sorry to also hear about that. it must have been a trauatic experience to say stuff like that. no one should EVER hate thenselves, no matter how many bad experiences they have (tho floating blobs isnt a bad idea hehe). you are one of a kind, an exticnt species that will never be brought back ( well unless it will be a robot lol), no one should ever be subjected to the inhumane and otherwise shitty treatment these people do. you are strong to be honest about thm. i hope ( in the context oof not beng a wairdo) that you are doing better and tht u are feelng better a bout urself have a good day, dont forget to say" i love you..." TO URSELF THAT IS UUUUHHHMMMM YEAHH HEHE ( small game,how many misspells [lazy ass spelling] did i make? lol)
I just discovered you, but I just wanna say that I'm sorry you had to go through something so horrible, I've never experienced something like that before (well I did work at a school and one of the security guards who was as old as my dad kept asking if I had a boyfriend but he didn't do anything else, I'm not even that attractive so I don't know why I was the target) but no one deserves to go through that, but I'm happy you got out of that situation before it could've gone so much worse.
Sometimes I don’t even think looks really are a factor to men like that, they want you if you seem easy to manipulate. And considering at the time I was dealing with the aftermath of being SA’d i definitely would have been an easy target.
13:55 This was dangerous as hell. My mom is a nurse, i remember her telling me a story of a lady that almost got kidnapped because she did let a creepy guy invade her space, and them he poked a needle on her. Dont be afraid of defending your space from creepy unknown people. Avoid being alone, and push them away if necessary.
13:23 i have no idea why some people think its okay to touch strangers at all. I like hugging, doesnt mean i hug strangers without consent, within the appropriate social situation.. and im autistic! Some women do it to other women in a friendly way, but seems off doing it to someone you DONT know at all.
The audacity of these people will always make me cringe in disgust. I hope you don't have to deal with those people anymore, and I want you to know you're a great artist, so keep doing what you're doing😊
I'm so flabbergasted, like after rewatching this video I can't believe people are so stupid no means no! It means stop it's not that hard to understand when someone is uncomfortable. (Btw I love your videos!)
My fav thing to do is mess with creepy guys because I have no issues with flirting with men to make the creepy ones uncomfortable because then I get to annoy people and stop creeps
People who behave like this are out of their minds! It’s just unbelievable that it still happens so much to this day! I hope that you don’t have to deal with those kind of people anymore, it’s horrible. Also, you make great video’s! You inspire me to be more creative, especially with art and music!
@@unicorns7571 god forbid someone wants to be single. At the time, I was looking to date (I’m taken now), but even when I was single, I wanted to form an actual bond with someone- not jump to the creep who kept asking for a minor’s number lol.
Well, guess it is time to binge watch your channel. Great art and great stories! I have had friends who had, sadly, this types of stories as well. As a man, I try to avoid all contact with any girl to avoid any misunderstandings or make them feel uncomfortable, they have it so rough. Most women friendships with men have an ulterior motive instead of just. being friendships. With bros we do be going wild n’ stuff. Complimenting our bodies to boost self confidence, no homo
2:39 Hearing you say that she tells people she’s a year older than she actually is made legit cringe back and sink in my chair. Thank god you tried to help her out if this bad habit. The rest of these interactions had me cringing even more good lord
as soon as someone makes you uncomfortable you're always scared of them, rightfully so. if theres anyone thats being flirty that creeps you out the feeling and anxiety wont go away, i personally havent had this experience (duh im 13) thank god. but i think i can sympathize with the feeling of the pressure and feeling of "anything can happen anytime and im scared" its probably a lot like being completely lost in a dangerous place and not knowing what to do and i feel just really bad for so many people that are/were in this kind of situation
I'm so sorry You had to go through this. Listening to Your stories, You seem like such a nice person. You are very talented with Your drawings and You have a huge gift for telling stories. I hope You never have to go through anything like this again...
don’t go to any animal processing facilities. If you’re looking for a job usually very shitty people are the ones who stay around and work at those jobs. It’s best just to avoid that as a form of income in general.
Oh my god I'm so sorry you had to go through it. xd It really sucks for how common such people are, like no matter what you do or where you work, there will always be that one creep, if not more. :( Also, I love your art style, it's fabulous and unique in its own way, and your story telling is great too! ^ ^ Wish you the best!
I feel you girl. When i was in grade 8 i matured alot more than my classmates so i looked older. I was in a store when some middle age man walked up to me and grabbed me. I immediately pushed him away and called the police.
it's stories such as these that make me appreciate my job that i don't have to interact with any customers or people in general, i'm so sorry these things happened to you, really wish that people, who should be helping and preventing these horror stories like HR and other social services, would actually get off their asses and do their job for once. also happy that you have a better job for you now, hope it continues to go smoothly, and also also please be more kind to yourself as well unless it makes you feel better i'm sorry i just hate it when people shit talk their looks. hope u are thriving and well
ok this story was crazy asf, anyway, u have a really good way of drawing a body, when arm is more infront, then u draw a line between the arm and forearm to make it look like its not just straight.
welp I'm sorry you went through all of that but I love the animation style that you use I know this isn't the video to say this but it's the first one I clicked on so keep up the great job and again sorry that all those things happend
People like this being out there in the world is why I act the way I do. I never want anyone to feel uncomfortable so I try to act as a safe space for people to vent about their day, cause if I can make even one person’s day better then I can die happy.
I havent had any weird men in my workplace yet thank goodness, but I have had some bad experiences before so I know the feeling of helplessness and I hate knowing that other women and even some men go through that. I also love drawing but I can't really draw people but I've been thinking about trying to post some art or newer art on my channel sometime. Also love your vids, you are amazing!
13:09 GOD YES I lost count of how many times the residents at the retirement center I work at have touched my arm for no reason (one even wanted to touch my hair). Maybe it's to keep them grounded or something but ksjdjfj it's not necessary to touch me
9:41 I am so sorry that you had to go through that and honestly, you are strong because you’re still alive and you are here and even stronger to make this video.
"She's 17" -> "Can you give me her number?"
Straight to jail, do not pass go
@@covocava Like these guys would ask for her age first then her number- like dude, that’s a child.
Do not collect $200
WHOOP! WHOOP! DAT’S THE SOUND IF DA POLICE!🎵
"Yeah, you know what _else_ is a number?"
"What?"
*"N I N E O N E* [profanity] *O N E"*
@@theintrovertedcartoonist “say drake, I hear you like em young..!”
I feel awful what women have to go through this constantly. I've been SA'd twice in my life as a man, and it's haunting. To think women go through it literally all the time scares me, and it breaks my heart that they can't feel safe from literally existing. I honestly never blame women when they say they hate men, I think it's so justified
I’m so sorry that happened to you. ;-; but yeah, I don’t blame women either, I hate certain men, and I’m deathly weary of all men.
@@theintrovertedcartoonistSame here.
I'm sorry you had those experiences I truly am butt I'm the opposite of that I'm a good guy that just gets a bad rap for being a man yes there's a lot of terrible men out there but I ain't one of them and to all of those people who sexualize your character I'm glad you deleted their comments and basically gave them the bird not all of us men are like that I try and protect my friends from any pedophiles or anything they call me the battleship @@theintrovertedcartoonist
As an introvert, I’m deathly weary of every person I haven’t known for more than a week
You realize hating a gender based on a few outliers is quite, how should I put it, sexist?
Considering I’m a guy who literally fears scaring a woman at all, I’m shocked this is still happening 😢 Glad your better off nowadays
Yeah idk how people do that stuff like I’m afraid to whistle when there’s a woman nearby cuz they might think it’s cat calling or smth
Respect on you man,thanks for being considerate :)
@@toastjam4510 how is he being considerate? him being scared is a microaggression towards women.
@@arakemi1080guess i'll just not be nice to anyone to be equal
@@arkhaic1792 or, and hear me out, you could transition to be the objectively better side of the human race, aka a woman.
As a man i genuily hate when they do this sort of things to women im happy that you got out of those situations
it sucks cus some women tend to group together even the most innocent men with the actual creeps, and it's not fair to the good guys.
@@katylepetsos7512 The things is, you can't tell with strangers, so it's better to be safe than sorry. I'm pretty sure most women are aware that not every guy is out to get them, but if you're alone and you hear footsteps behind you it's enough to give you a scare. It's less "This person MUST be a creep" and more "IF this person is a creep I have a problem".
And don't get me wrong, there's also creepy women - like old ladies trying to touch your baby wtf, but those usual aren't physically strong enough to make you fear them.
Also heavily depends on the situation: Guy asking for directions and then walking into the direction you told him - perfectly fine;
guy asking for directions and then walking with you even though you told them that you aren't sure and that he should should ask that group over there who may be able to help but he completely ignores that, then you decide you can at least show him the bus station but he still walks with you after that and asks for your number and what time you get to and off work and that you should be friends... yeah, you notice it was never about directions.
@@raininessoh yeah, that’s why I never go anywhere alone, my Mom is scary when she’s mad and my Dad could probably knock someone out if they tried anything. You can’t always tell with some people so it’s best to not be by yourself, especially in places like Cities or going at night.
@@katylepetsos7512 buzz off with thats your first concern
@@katylepetsos7512 It sucks when people decide that women should trust all men because 1 could be a good guy, IGNORING THE FACT YOU CAN'T TELL WHO THE FUCK IS THE GOOD ONE
I was kinda waiting for a "and if you want to protect your identity, use a VPN like me, I use [insert brand] when I'm on the web to avoid creepy men" lol. I think part of it is how desensitized a lot of people have become they've forgotten this thing called boundaries.
Same
What nordVPN does to a mf
@@N0tsoIidsnakewhat safe shark does to a mf
Technology man...
8:17 "B-but your single 🥺👉👈" BROTHER WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAT
He when said that to me, I’m like- bro are people not allowed to be single? Like yes I was looking for a relationship at the time, but that doesn’t mean I’m gonna date him. I literally don’t want to date someone who can’t take no for an answer because that’s a major ass red flag 🚩
@@theintrovertedcartoonist so true bro so true
Ain't no way anyone would reply "oh you know what fair point let's go*
@@anormalguy-t42 if anyone did i would lose all faith in humanity 💀
@@theintrovertedcartoonistkinda afraid he would have said "no pepole aren't allowed to be single"
I tend to think someone who is that desperate isn't thinking normally ,
It's sad pepole in this world can end up that way ,
I am glad nothing too bad happend to you in that event
me being a man i got bad experiences with creppy people to like when i was a waiter and a random lady just slaped my ass. i was a 15 years old and that girl was 28 💀.
yeah ive only ever dealt with one guy who acted similarly to this
everyone else
guess what? THEY WERE GIRLS
they go: aww your sooooo cuuuute you HAVE to date me!
me: no.
her: why nooooooot?
me: i like men.
her: pfffttt no you dooooooont cmooooonnnn
this was my only friend at the time :-:
and she always complains that "oh people dont respect the fact i like girls and not men"
i seriously wanna cut my hair so many people are being so weird ever since i started growing it out...
@@Davidledonkayy its okay dude, you're heard. just as there are creepy men theres creepy women, she was just talking about her experience as a woman dealing with this. its completely wrong what that girl did to you and im sorry you had to go through that man
im so sorry you had to go through that dude, i hope you're doing better now
Yo that’s very creepy, sorry that happened to you
@@deviousdinoo honestly after a certain point i just stop caring what happens to me, the downside is i stop caring about what happens to others too
whoops..
I'm surprised how rare self-awareness is. Some people REALLY don't know when to take the hint when it's blatantly obvious
That guy should've be fired tf
Fired? Arrested
@@LastGoatKnight exactly!
@@LastGoatKnightfr
More like arrested
you sure given the medieval' treatment
Ugh some men are absolutely disgusting. I'm so glad this job is working better for you, and I hope you stay safe out there :)
this low key makes me hate my balls ngl
Its just bizarre to me that some men do that whats more bizarre to me is that no one steps in to stop situations like these. I remember I used to work at a hot tub store and this guy started harassing the lady who worked behind the desk, and all I said is "if you want to act like this you see yourself out of the store" the man still didn't leave so me being male let my co-worker go into the break room while I got the customer what he needed and made sure he left. It isn't hard to prevent situations like this from happening you just need to step in when it is happening and put an end to it.
sorry for being a man, i guess
@@sobaro-R the issue isint being a man its being a creepy weirdo, notice how it says "some men"
@@sobaro-R you know woman can be creepy to right? she said “some men” not all men.
the fact that people do this, makes me sick, i find it really sad knowing you have had to deal with this, i hope one day you are respected as a person more than an object in the future, as a guy myself knowing that men do this makes me angry at what people think they can do
I agree with this statement. However for me, I get grouped together with these creepy guys cause I'm a guy and I can be creepy sometimes.(By creepy, I mean physically creepy, my smile can be unsettling, eyes that look lifeless, slightly hunch, tall and lanky, etc)
It makes me frustrated to be viewed that way due to my physical appearance which usually means I have few friends, especially girls. They avoid me like the plague.😅
as a guy who has encountered HUNDREDS of creepy women, trust me, the creepy women stories that could have existed would look and sound the exact same as these only gender swapped. creepy people are creepy, no matter what way it goes.
True
And there is a bunch of people that for some reason would defend one or the other.
I do not know why people are allowed to get away with this. that they are actively pushing for it would show there is a risk of them acting upon it.
I agree. Except one might land you in serious danger more often
These Creepy MF should met each other, except Manosphere with Creepy men are very popular with 1 Million likes in UA-cam Shorts and Twitter
@@phantom-ri2tgYeah man I hate double standards.
1. Im glad you are now in a place where your comfortable of work
2. I love the sock puppet at the beginning XD
3. Im loving your stores they are very fun to listen to ^^
as a 15 year old who has had an "experience" with a person like that, i really understand the same feeling of "helplessness" you talked about. can't believe people like this exist it's so fucking horrible and disgusting. also i'm glad to hear that fear you had made you quit your job. glad that youtube is working out for you, stay safe.
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, I hope that you won't have to go through it again and that you're day gets better
Not going to lie, that sponsor is a breath of fresh air. finally, no VPN, no war simulator, no Internet browser... just a Minecraft server. Thank you for restoring my faith in sponsorships
9:46 Even as a man, I too have experienced this exact feeling before. I can’t help but feel an intense anger when I hear similar things like this happen to other people.
More cringe interactions?? Ah shit… Here we go again!
How are you here? It’s only been a hour since it was out how did you comment 11 hours ago?
Premier thingy
@@King-crustaceanIt was a premier so the comment section was open some 11 hours before the video came out.
@@King-crustaceannah he traveled back in time
1. The amount of people who go for minors is horrible
2. What is it with people who can’t hold their sexual desires back and just go for it on random people ?!
1. Agreed
2. A general lack of impulse control, combined with a society that tends to enforce individuality, leads to those who feel entitled to act on their desires and opinions, regardless of whether or not they prove detrimental to others. Yay, Society! (Sarcasm doesn’t translate well into the written word).
(Written? Typed? Printed? IDK)
@@noahv1479 yeah, the whole thing is soul sucking
@noahv1479 on your second point. I think you're mixing up individualism with misogyny/sexism in general. The dehumanization of others makes it easier for the dehumanizer to do terrible things to the dehumanized. Individualism as a concept places value in respecting one's individuality, whichruns counter to things such as sexism.
I have a theory about that. So you know how people are biologically wired to want to have children? since things can go wrong in the brain leading to autism, ADHD ect, I'm guessing that something went wrong with those parts of the brain, mixing sexual desires, with that desire, leading to an attraction to minors. If this is the case, then it might be able to get tested and cured, thus preventing pedos. Again, this is just a theory of biology, I'm likely completely wrong and these guys just chose to be creeps to minors.
They CAN hold it back, they just don’t. Most of these men/people do understand consent, they just don’t care.
I had a guy I used to work with, he thought I was dropping hints at him for JUST BEING NICE!! Just being a decent human being, And he tried to ask me out on three separate occasions. 1 incident he tried to get me alone with him by lying saying him and my friends were going to a movie (I asked around and found out he was lying that they were going)…on another occasion he actively knew I was seeing someone. And he often brought up my rear end in conversation…I have turned this man down so much that when I do see him in public I actively feel revolted to see him and constantly have to update those close to me that I saw him
Reading this makes me realized I’m not a creep. Please stay safe out there and carry something just in case.
Maybe the guy never had social interactions with women so he didn't know you were just being nice. But it doesn't excuse the creepy behaviour though.
@@theangrysuchomimus5163 even I know not to do it.
Just be respectful and be yourself. I’ve been taught that for years.
I fucking can't stand it when guys start that gaslighting horseshit. All you have to do is ask. JUST ASK!!! Ask the girl if she was dropping hints that she was interested and when she says a definite no, take her for her word and say its your bad for misreading her.
Its so fucking simple and yet so many guys delude themselves into thinking this or that and every excuse in the book to not take there word for it. i have no patience for that shit and am frustrated just hearing you had that experience.
i'm surprised HR didn't find a way to flip it back on you, given the bizarre excuses men find to victim blame women. Like at this point, i wouldn't be surprised if guys said "well, she came out of her mom's womb so, clearly [the most uncontroversially horrible act you can imagine] is actually her fault!"
HR is widely a men's nightmare, since unless you're dealing with a corrupt pig for a boss, HR being majorly women they side with one another, hence why all the horror stories of being fired over fabricated allegations. Hell, if your boss is a specific breed of corrupt pig (the pretend-liberal) it still won't matter.
Also imma be honest: I have only ever seen men "victim blame" when there was no victim at all, or present. Like women have a public, general conversation on the topic of assault and are spiraling into fearmongering and absurdist thoughts and some guy pops up with a common sense statement (i.e. don't accept drinks from a stranger or avoid bad areas at night or don't look like a victim-to-be) and they're called victim blamers even though the circumstances discussed are hypotheticals. Now, I'm old enough to know this is because the women are talking about traumas and things that have happened to them or their friends without saying it out loud, but that's a) not the case for everyone and b) not obvious to the man. So you can't go and act like he was acting in full knowledge.
I don't doubt there's people whp victim blame, with men being more likely to have egregious outlandish takes on the topic, but I really think the number is overinflated.
I was recently touched by a peer that I trusted and it was honestly the first time I’d ever experienced any type of sexual assault and watching this video made me feel less alone in my feelings so thanks!
That's horrible. It's so sad that something like that happened to you, especially with someone you trusted too!
I hope you're okay!! Please do whatever you can to distance yourself from them, they're not worth a penny in the long run honestly
I'll never understand how someone can be so open about being ready to SA another human being. I can't even handle accidentally glancing someone for too long, let alone saying something like that! People can be gross in ways I cannot comprehend.
One thing I will say though is HR is *not* your friend, they defend the company from you going at them. It really needs to be taught more that if you are being sexually harassed, you NEED to go elsewhere immediately. Don't ever keep things in the company, report and leave receipts. It's depressing that when someone feels uncomfortable and they are young, they don't feel like they can do anything because they don't know how to handle it. Or if they do, they worry about retaliation.
It's good to hear that things have at least improved for you over time on your channel! Hopefully it stays that way :]
if i literally glance at anyone for at most 3 seconds i feel like a creep? am i? the feeling of "ew why did i look at this persons general way for too long?" is felt even when im literally thinking about it
I think creepy people are one of the main reasons I noped out of the relationship game (I'm sure there's other reasons, but this is a main one). Why can't people just... not be creepy?
Oh, and good on you for protecting your sister from them creeps!
everyone, whether you like it or not, have their own skeletons, hiding in the closets, we just control them and manage them, but some... some have more than just "skeletons", and worse, dont know how to corrale them...
stay safe out there, dont let them ruin your day❤!
dude you dont understand how close to home this hits for me, ur very brave to tell ur stories like this
The slabs of meat weren't the only pigs around
Lol good one
😭😭😭
Yeah no kidding... sadly
DANM.
How do these guys even have the balls to do shit like that?
And here I still struggle with basic eye contact...
Also,
Yayy!! Thanks for including my fanart!! 16:42 ✨
One word, 💫Misogyny 💫
To put it simply, men like the ones described in the video view women as sex objects/easy targets. They don't respect women as people, and they would probably go after teens if it wasn't considered an atrocity worse than murder
9:43 did anyone else shutter when hearing what happened to her? So sorry that happened to you.
I had to stop watching for a second because it just.... Yeah. People suck...
Same, I legit had to pause so I could take a deep breath.
as a dude ive heard so many stories from my female coworkers that literally Disgust the hell out of me , I don't understand how guys can be that way and not see how wrong the way they act is.
me as a guy in a workplace legit would never date a co-worker , i see most of my female workers as sisters more than anything
hope that this doesn't happen to you anymore cause no one deserves to be treated this way
i HATE how common this is in the workplace. its sickening and terrifying
I am still in school and I recently wrote an essay about girlhood and feeling the rush to grow up and losing your innocence because of society around me. A segment was also deidcated to creepy men and women and I deeply resonated with you when you said “They feel the need to touch you or your hips” and the feeling of helplessness after SA. I felt sad after I wrote the essay because I never dove that deep and acknowledged the weirdos and society in general to little girls. Tysm for this videos Ilysm and you’re such an inspiration to me ❤
I'm 17 and working at a Burger King. Two of my former coworkers were creepy men. One left because of family issues, and the other got fired for his behavior
The first guy was someone I had known since my first day working there. I've been working there for about a year now, so I was 16 at the time. He came off as odd to me, but I still treated him nicely so I wouldn't be seen as rude or anything like that. He'd always try to suck up to me. For example, he'd sing songs, show off his ability to mimic cartoon character voices, and when he found out that I'm a Mormon, he'd preach to me about stuff that I already know (He doesn't even go to church anymore). We closed together twice (two people close every night, so it was just me and him), and I was worried he'd try to do something to me. Thankfully, he didn't. One day, my boss approached me and told me that others were complaining to her that this guy was saying inappropriate stuff to me, which absolutely shocked me. I had no recollection of him ever saying anything to me, and I still don't know to this day. I've always been oblivious to flirting and stuff like that, so I always brushed everything he said off as him trying to be friendly in a weird way. I've asked my other coworkers what it was that he may have said to me, and all they said was that it was stuff that he shouldn't be talking about with girls my age. Ugh... If only I was able to understand when someone's trying to get too close and personal with me. A few months later, he ended up leaving because his ex-wife was trying to get his money or smth like that (I don't know all the details). I guess a lot of the people I work with who knew him didn't ever like him at all and all agreed that he was creepy. There was one time when he tried to remove my headset from my head, but I politely declined. That was probably the creepiest he ever got with me (that I actually remember)
The second guy was a bit more discreet about it, but when I found out about everything he's done... Oh, boy... So, this guy got hired a little while after the first guy left. We were on good terms for the longest time, but there were lots of times when I didn't feel like talking to him because he's way older than me and I don't quite trust him all the way. Anyway, he would try to keep the dirty talk to a minimum when I was around and stuff, which I thought was nice. Eventually, it came to a point where my friend (who worked with me for a short while and goes to school with me) started making claims against him. He had disrespected her opinion on a serious topic because he's older than her. He seemed to believe that teenagers' opinions don't matter when the opposing side is an adult. My friend wrote up an entire statement with things said by other people we worked with about things that he had done. Sometime before he got fired, he did two things to me that I didn't like. The first thing he did was claim that I am not a real follower of the Bible because I study the Book of Mormon too. I didn't say anything back to him because I didn't want to fight back. Not to mention, my boss was there, so I didn't want to start anything (I'm also just not that kind of person). The second thing he did was show me a picture he had on his phone of my boss in her bra. I should've told my friend to put that in her statement. My friend let me read her statement, and oh my gosh... First of all, he was creepy to all the female employees. He suggested that the female uniform should be changed to bikinis, suggested to another former co-worker of mine (who I respect deeply) that he should wait until I turn 18 then start dating me (Thankfully, the cool guy said no), then told this same guy (who has a twin sister) that if he would do some nasty stuff to the sister if he were in the womb with her. Long story short, he got fired after this statement was shared to the higher-ups
Now there's another guy who call me and two other underaged girls that I'm working with "Mama". He had a discussion with me about this movie I watched called "Adam" (It's based on a true story and stars Aaron Paul, who played Jesse Pinkman in "Breaking Bad") because I had seen boobs in the movie. Not appropriate at all, especially since I'm a minor. I'm going to keep a close eye out for this new guy and pray that something doesn't happen with him too
You should really get out of that town
Well, I got about a year left until college, so I have to stay where I am. I also technically don't live in the exact place where I work. I live in the next town over 😅 Thanks for thinking of me, though! ❤️
stay safe lil sis (im 15 btw) ❤
@noverplays8925 Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
wtf why does burger king attract so many freaks😭
I don't have the mindset, let alone the balls to do these things. I have a hard time even talking to strangers, despite being a muscular man in my twenties, let alone harass them this way. But then again, I was raised this way, had been traumatised into being an introvert so maybe that has to do with it. I am only able to these bold things if I'm online but I still don't do it. I treat women like men, I do not talk more than necessary, try to be honest and friendly as I can
And as a gray person myself, don't hate on your look. You have to accept how you look so you can look into the mirror and say to yourself "yes, that's me". Besides, people sometimes find the grayness attractive
yes
Now you've got me curious what you mean by tramatized as an introvert. I'd love to hear the story if you are willing to tell it.
Wait shit I read that wrong and thought you meant your extravert friends would force you to go into situations that you weren't prepared for and gave you high anxiety and that had the gall to act offended when you inevitably don't want to do it again due to it going horribly.
But I'll keep the comment edited instead of outright deleted in case you do want to tell your story. I'm a good listener and I don't judge.
Dude I am so sorry that women have to go through this shit. It sucks so much that you can just never trust a man that’s a stranger no matter what. I feel so terrible for people who had to go through that❤
It took me around two years to 'get over' my two SA moments. I completely understand the feeling of helplessness, and with that usually comes blame, guilt shame and that gross feeling like the person is still there. It's awful, and it angers me that women go through this every single day. When will the world be better :/
Great video ❤
I'm sorry you had to go through interactions like that or even experience them in the first place. No one should have to go through that. I'm glad that you find enjoyment from being a freelance artist (barring the occasional wild and devious comments). I for one enjoy the content you make and glad to be part of the Introverse community. You're doing great and you'll continue to be great. Keep up the amazing work you do, Cartoonist!
I really do hate the fact that, in our day and age, guys are still like this. Yeah, yeah, not all guys, but saying that isn't gonna magically erase them. I thankfully, have never had something like this happen to me aside from the strange comments boys at school have given me about my, ahem, "large boobs" however, I really hope I don't have to go through any of that and you shouldn't have gone through that either. I'm happy your in a better place now, a better work environment and hopefully the amount of support you get outweighs the weird-ass men that are in your comment section occasionally. Sending love from another fellow Canadian 💕
yes, and I am one of them- i mean one of the SUPPORTERS - wait no no i mean ACTIVE CONTRIBUTERS- wait wait i didnt mean it I... im gonna get cancelled huh......
cant really belive that stuff happens like that man, like respecting boundaries and so forth. hope u guys have the strength to face things like that and to avoid them, sheeeeeeesh the world is such a bat crazy place, be safe!
As a male person myself using the wise word of a certain person I must say to these men who harassed you
“YOUR GOING DIRECTLY TO HELL! NOT JAIL HELL! GOODBYE!”
*insert screams of those said creepy men*
Also love your videos there great =)
ima die tonite cause of you man.............joke lang hehe
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literally so sorry that all of this happened to you, you did NOT deserve this treatment or anything like that, i really hope nothing even borderline close to this happens again to you or anyone else.
please stay safe!!
The thumbnail already 💀
It’s very interesting 🤨
@@changingpeopleslivesmoon2993yes very🫣
What sorcery is this it’s only been out for an hour how are you 13hours ago.
@@King-crustaceanwho knows lol
Buddy got early access 💀
"Creepy Women" exist.
I worked as a banquet caterer: we had a *_highschool_* football award cermony one of my cowerkers, a woman in her 40s, kept talking about how "hot the guys were," and "she's gonna try to get some numbers," and "maybe they like older women."
I told her "never say creepy shit like that in front of me again."
9:52 ah yes that feeling. I know that feeling all too well. I understand that mental pain. I’m sorry you too had to go through that.
3:11 personally I agree with the social norm that if a woman lies about her age and she’s underage then it’s her fault because one of my cousins baby daddy’s was 20 and this girl that he met lied about her age and swore up and down that she was the same age as him and after they slept together, she said that she was actually 17 and he was freaking out because she lied to him and she insisted that it was no big deal and that she was completely consensual about it and then she got mad at him after he decided to distance himself from her and cut her off she went to the cops and told them about it and now he’s not allowed around his child because somebody he slept with three years ago lied about their age so yeah don’t lie about your age. It’s not A good thing.
I haven’t physically recoiled when watching a video for a long time, this is the first video I watched of you, and the moment he put his hands on you was enough to make me feel some kind of way, I hope you’re doing better, and I look forward to seeing more from you.
i’m sorry this happened to you and your sister. i hope that first guy ended up in prison before he ended up rapin anyone. no one deserves to go through that. there’s way too many women that go through this and feel unheard thanks to the “justice” system not believin them or not bein able to help them, thank you for sharin your story
I just want to say that I am so sorry that these awful things happened to you, nobody deserves to go through that and you certainly didn't. I'm glad you were able to get out of that situation before it escalated (more than it already had). It's good to know that you are safe, and I hope you're doing better now. Good to you for not letting creeps online or college get in the way of doing what you love! I love your stories and animations, and I think you're a very talented and awesome person. I can't wait to see what else you come up with in your next video, but make sure to take care of yourself and take breaks. Your well-being takes priority, we'll still be here when you get back. ♥
yes i agree yes
As a guy, I am very disgusted with those kinds of men making women feel like an object
to me they are just obstacles, I only act nice around them because I don't want to get accused of things. Basically I'm doing it to save my skin not for them.
Edgy ahh response
they are though
These responses are something
I'm a guy, and this makes me feel ashamed of what other men feel ok doing.
Fellas: it's not that difficult. If she is under 18? Stay away. If she doesn't give consent or you're creeping her tf out? Stay away.
Remember: no girl OWES you a chance or owes you attention
It's also just remembering that women are people
Also also you should have the decency to be the bigger man and apologize for your behavior when it is clear as a bright sunshiny day that you were completely in the wrong.
Seriously, that will go way, WAY farther than doubling down on your bad behavior.
The "Caleb" guy absolutely knew what he was doing, and at least the sniffer wasn't a coworker.
As a teen boy who has been considered “cute”(I have some “effeminate” features also I’m ugly af but apparently people disagree) I’ve been hit on by old men (eww) and I don’t really know how to describe how it makes me fell but all I know is it’s gross and scary and I 100% percent feel bad for you and the other women who have to deal with this much more often I can’t imagine having to deal with stuff like that regularly
you do a really good job at detailing these situations, I physically recoiled several times during the video
I am a very touchy person, but I always make sure my friends are comfortable and alright with me touching them, and if they seem uncomfortable I either stop or ask if theyre okay. People should not be touchy with strangers though, the most I do with strangers is a simple handshake if im meeting someone.
One of my favorite things about your videos is how you play lofi in the background. It just makes it so much nicer, idk. I love it.
WISDOM SAGA?!?!
@@abiestar261 Wisdom saga :D
I’m honestly so happy I started watching your videos because it’s been such a help when I’m trying to focus on homework or just to sit down and watch in general
I try my absolute hardest to make women as comfortable around me as possible, I'm sorry you have to go through these things. The fact people can do that with no remorse is sickening
I like your art style! I’m sorry that you’ve had to experience this kind of stuff as well. I’m glad you’re doing better now! Also how you draw hands is really awesome!
I’m glad you’re in a workspace that feels safe to you. It sucks that there are still many creeps in this world that have no respect for humans at all. I hope your endeavors continue to work out for you as an artist, and try to enjoy as many positive things in life as you can. 💯👍👍
I'm a 19-year-old dude working at a production facility to make carbon fiber and I'll tell you this. There are some interesting and downright disturbing things you'll hear in any workplace environment, but also funny stuff too
Love your videos. Keep up the good work
0:42 I’m sorry this happens to you at the workplace and that this type of harassment & vile behavior follows women like yourself throughout your lives, it is sickening. I have experience with creepy women though it only enhanced my empathy towards your issue of assault, weird behavior and such. You deserve to be treated with respect and dignity for your work(just like the incredible job you did on this video btw), no woman should have to go through this. Thank u for speaking out!
P.S. Love the background with the triangles, reminded me of Steven Universe
So glad you’re making more of these >:3
These really help me feel understood in my experiences with this kind of thing :)
I'm so glad!
Thank god I never encountered a creepy person in my life right now
well one just ( snifffffffffffssssssss/pufffffffffsssssssss a quick one) commented on ur comment hehehe
fr tho, thats great to hear! ( sorry for cringe lol)
Are you a woman by any chance? I have a stupid git in one reply section that says they haven't met one woman who wasn't SA'd or harassed at least one point in there life. Such a dumb fucking statement that I'd like you to shove in their face.
13:56 Good God, this image reminded me so much of the scene in the Hunchback of Notre Dame where Frollo sniffs Esmeralda's hair.
As a Chloe, my facial expression CHANGED when I heard "You all remember Chloe-" I was likE "WHAT ?!" 😭😭😭
you know what you did
We got our eyes on you 😆
Bro that feeling of helplessness is actually the worst. Ever since i experienced that the first time as a little kid, i haven't been able to talk about it with anyone, so it's really relieving to hear you openly speak about your experience. I'm sorry you had to go through all that, take care of yourself
everyones a floating blob of information on the internet
man, sorry to also hear about that. it must have been a trauatic experience to say stuff like that. no one should EVER hate thenselves, no matter how many bad experiences they have (tho floating blobs isnt a bad idea hehe). you are one of a kind, an exticnt species that will never be brought back ( well unless it will be a robot lol), no one should ever be subjected to the inhumane and otherwise shitty treatment these people do. you are strong to be honest about thm. i hope ( in the context oof not beng a wairdo) that you are doing better and tht u are feelng better a bout urself
have a good day, dont forget to say" i love you..."
TO URSELF THAT IS UUUUHHHMMMM YEAHH HEHE
( small game,how many misspells [lazy ass spelling] did i make? lol)
I just discovered you, but I just wanna say that I'm sorry you had to go through something so horrible, I've never experienced something like that before (well I did work at a school and one of the security guards who was as old as my dad kept asking if I had a boyfriend but he didn't do anything else, I'm not even that attractive so I don't know why I was the target) but no one deserves to go through that, but I'm happy you got out of that situation before it could've gone so much worse.
Sometimes I don’t even think looks really are a factor to men like that, they want you if you seem easy to manipulate. And considering at the time I was dealing with the aftermath of being SA’d i definitely would have been an easy target.
@@theintrovertedcartoonistyeah, thats horrible, I’m so sorry that happened to you, no one deserves to go through that.
13:55 This was dangerous as hell. My mom is a nurse, i remember her telling me a story of a lady that almost got kidnapped because she did let a creepy guy invade her space, and them he poked a needle on her. Dont be afraid of defending your space from creepy unknown people. Avoid being alone, and push them away if necessary.
13:23 i have no idea why some people think its okay to touch strangers at all. I like hugging, doesnt mean i hug strangers without consent, within the appropriate social situation.. and im autistic! Some women do it to other women in a friendly way, but seems off doing it to someone you DONT know at all.
yes
The audacity of these people will always make me cringe in disgust. I hope you don't have to deal with those people anymore, and I want you to know you're a great artist, so keep doing what you're doing😊
I'm so flabbergasted, like after rewatching this video I can't believe people are so stupid no means no! It means stop it's not that hard to understand when someone is uncomfortable. (Btw I love your videos!)
I’m so sorry all the stuff happened to you man. Congrats on the sponsor tho that’s awesome! Stay safe out there and have a good night
Imma stay up and deprive myself of sleep, like any totally -mentally stable person-
As a mentally stable who stays up a lot as of recent, I can confirm that that is indeed a thing.
My fav thing to do is mess with creepy guys because I have no issues with flirting with men to make the creepy ones uncomfortable because then I get to annoy people and stop creeps
you goofy ahh hehe well have a great and safe day then
People who behave like this are out of their minds! It’s just unbelievable that it still happens so much to this day! I hope that you don’t have to deal with those kind of people anymore, it’s horrible. Also, you make great video’s! You inspire me to be more creative, especially with art and music!
8:19
“….but your single 😕”
Naaaah 😭😭😭😭
@@unicorns7571 god forbid someone wants to be single. At the time, I was looking to date (I’m taken now), but even when I was single, I wanted to form an actual bond with someone- not jump to the creep who kept asking for a minor’s number lol.
Well, guess it is time to binge watch your channel. Great art and great stories!
I have had friends who had, sadly, this types of stories as well. As a man, I try to avoid all contact with any girl to avoid any misunderstandings or make them feel uncomfortable, they have it so rough. Most women friendships with men have an ulterior motive instead of just. being friendships.
With bros we do be going wild n’ stuff. Complimenting our bodies to boost self confidence, no homo
2:39 Hearing you say that she tells people she’s a year older than she actually is made legit cringe back and sink in my chair. Thank god you tried to help her out if this bad habit. The rest of these interactions had me cringing even more good lord
I love how you draw! I'm kinda jealous of how you draw hands... Also your hair!!!
Two things I learned form her videos
1.never get a job like that
2.two leave the job when I’m working with a bunch of creeps
as soon as someone makes you uncomfortable you're always scared of them, rightfully so. if theres anyone thats being flirty that creeps you out the feeling and anxiety wont go away, i personally havent had this experience (duh im 13) thank god. but i think i can sympathize with the feeling of the pressure and feeling of "anything can happen anytime and im scared" its probably a lot like being completely lost in a dangerous place and not knowing what to do and i feel just really bad for so many people that are/were in this kind of situation
I'm so sorry You had to go through this. Listening to Your stories, You seem like such a nice person. You are very talented with Your drawings and You have a huge gift for telling stories. I hope You never have to go through anything like this again...
Glad you're working as a freelancer. Nobody deserves to be harrassed where they work; or overall in general
I gasped way too many times while watching this ,stay strong queen👑
don’t go to any animal processing facilities. If you’re looking for a job usually very shitty people are the ones who stay around and work at those jobs. It’s best just to avoid that as a form of income in general.
Oh my god I'm so sorry you had to go through it. xd
It really sucks for how common such people are, like no matter what you do or where you work, there will always be that one creep, if not more. :(
Also, I love your art style, it's fabulous and unique in its own way, and your story telling is great too! ^ ^
Wish you the best!
i do enjoy your storys not gonna lie (and your art style is adorable :>)
I feel you girl.
When i was in grade 8 i matured alot more than my classmates so i looked older. I was in a store when some middle age man walked up to me and grabbed me. I immediately pushed him away and called the police.
9:20 id pull the good old bacon in the eyes trick
it's stories such as these that make me appreciate my job that i don't have to interact with any customers or people in general, i'm so sorry these things happened to you, really wish that people, who should be helping and preventing these horror stories like HR and other social services, would actually get off their asses and do their job for once. also happy that you have a better job for you now, hope it continues to go smoothly, and also also please be more kind to yourself as well unless it makes you feel better i'm sorry i just hate it when people shit talk their looks. hope u are thriving and well
It's insane how some men can be like this tf
on god, gross af
My guess is people with pushover parents that get everything growing up, and then assume that they can do anything to anyone in the real world too
@@ReadilyAvailibleChomper "wait I can't just cancel whoever I want irl?"
yes
@@bungiecrimes7247 ?? I don't think that's what they said
ok this story was crazy asf, anyway, u have a really good way of drawing a body, when arm is more infront, then u draw a line between the arm and forearm to make it look like its not just straight.
welp I'm sorry you went through all of that but I love the animation style that you use I know this isn't the video to say this but it's the first one I clicked on so keep up the great job and again sorry that all those things happend
People like this being out there in the world is why I act the way I do. I never want anyone to feel uncomfortable so I try to act as a safe space for people to vent about their day, cause if I can make even one person’s day better then I can die happy.
The patience you must have had that allowed you to not just punch these men after a while of them asking is insane
Glad to see things have calmed down, love your artwork btw!
First video but I already love your story times, wishing you luck!
God how tf do people do this stuff and think that this is ok!? It’s fucking mind boggling
I havent had any weird men in my workplace yet thank goodness, but I have had some bad experiences before so I know the feeling of helplessness and I hate knowing that other women and even some men go through that. I also love drawing but I can't really draw people but I've been thinking about trying to post some art or newer art on my channel sometime. Also love your vids, you are amazing!
9:30 LIKE SHE DIDNT ALREADY FUCKING KNOW.
Like did he forget I said no or did he think we were dating at that point lmao?
Sock puppets amazing, need more of them in my life. Also good luck at college, I know how stressful that can get sometimes
13:09 GOD YES
I lost count of how many times the residents at the retirement center I work at have touched my arm for no reason (one even wanted to touch my hair). Maybe it's to keep them grounded or something but ksjdjfj it's not necessary to touch me
9:41 I am so sorry that you had to go through that and honestly, you are strong because you’re still alive and you are here and even stronger to make this video.