You're allowed to vent.....don't worry about being grateful 24/7. You're living REAL life here......I don't live in the projects. I live in BC Canada, but we are in a housing crisis all over too and it's not fun. So many of us are living paycheck to paycheck, you are NOT ALONE!! You're walking the path of the warrior, know this.
The best comment I’ve seen people act like women shouldn’t vent heck we carry our kids on our backs and life!! I live in Memphis 3 teens 1 adult 1 grandbaby who wants to work just to pay bills this isn’t living smh I’m ready to get a camper van or something to actually live life.
If you feel like you're losing everything, remember that trees lose their leaves every year and they still stand tall and wait for better days to come. I totally understand how you feel. It's ok to not be okay.
@_EvolvingIntoHER_ You're welcome! You are doing an excellent job. Continue to pray & and journal. Where there's a will, there's a way. Life is challenging & unknown ^new paths and possibilities, stay strong through the process of healing from your past and building your future. God is near, so never stray away.
Girl I feel this so hard... Except I'm "broke but will my bills get paid?" or "broke but which bill should I pay this month?" 😑 The constant stress is killing me. Even in my sleep. I can never fully relax, and money (or the lack of) constantly occupies my thoughts. Not knowing if there will be enough for food or bills or rent. Horrible way to live. I pray for all of us to be worry-free soon 💜
The way our world is set up to revolve around the amount of money we have is so sad and infuriates me if I allow it. So sorry you have to worry about those types of things, we shouldn’t have to pay for things GOD gave us for free 🥺💚
Molly girl! The way our world is set up to revolve around the amount of money we have is so sad and infuriates me if I allow it. So sorry you have to worry about those types of things, we shouldn’t have to pay for things GOD gave us for free 🥺💚
I truly believe when you feel your lowest your breakthrough is near! I just hope you will never give up on this channel I can only see you blowing up nothing else!
Ugh! I pray that's where I am at. I'm not going to give up, when you said you can see me blowing up that just affirms my decision not to quit even more. Thank you!! 💚💚💚💚
Queen, this video almost brought me to tears because I see so much of my younger self in you. First, let me just say that most of us that want better for ourselves and our family have those days and it’s ok. Just don’t stay in it! I personally think you’re doing a phenomenal job but I also understand that we’re the hardest on ourselves. Take it easy on yourself luv. Everything will work out for you in divine timing. I’m not just saying that…I BELIEVE IT! Blessings & Light✨🩷✨
Thank you for just being authentic because positive isn't the reality all the time I think I can speak for a lot of us when I say we want to see what's real and we can relate.
I have definitely been there. Long suffering is one of the fruits of the spirit. Bent get it out and then start praising God for already doing what you need Him to do. Confuse the enemy and watch how blessing start coming in. It may not be $$$ coming in sometimes God gives us insight and strategy on how to be better stewards of what He gives us. Keep your head up Sis, God has already gone before you, you just gotta walk this thing out.
Try to do budget challenges to save what you can. Pay yourself first even it’s nothing but $5. $10, $15 etc. Put it up and keep adding to it. As mothers we have to take time for ourselves. Hang in there. Everyday is a new day. You got this! 🙏🏽💪🏽
We all have those type of days: but when you said “have you ever HAD to be grateful for something you don’t even like” THAT HIT HOME FOR ME!! I’m so tired of having to be “grateful” for all the BS I deal with, because I’m happily married- makes no sense, but you got it! ❤ Thank you… Even in your down day, you were able to help someone else; me. 😊
Girl that still hits for me like the first time I said it 😂😂 GOD really working through me on this lesson about gratitude!!! 😩 but I am extremely grateful and honored that you feel that way about my content. Thank you 💚
I totally get this. I raised 5 kids alone. Got some through college and a couple are about to go back. I was always blessed while raising them. Always got praise about how good they are and how nice they looked. I never wore the struggle and neither did my kids. We are very blessed compared to many others. I just think of the things I’ve done in my life and it maybe my punishment in some way idk. The Bible says we reap what we sow and I’m a very good person but have done many sins as we all have .Times were not all that hard but now things have changed. I have one still in school (Middle) who’s in all kinds of sports that are expensive. When I was in school public school meant you don’t have much money but now it just means be thankful we’re not charging you to teach your children to some degree lol. Everything cost!!! I’m almost 49 and still wonder when will I have some peace, so I get it. God hears us and all things in his timing. We must pray about everything even the smallest of things. You only want what’s in Gods will. Surrender to him and wait. Nothing or no one is worth our salvation 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤. With love Sabrina! Sorry so long of a message
I can relate with u 1000% i work 2 jobs & still live paycheck to paycheck!! I’m so over it 😡 i feel burnt out..But I’m grateful & I don’t complain much bcuz god has my back at all times!! U r allowed to vent , there’s nothing wrong with lifting that stress off of ur back!! Those changes will come keep ur head up stay strong
I needed this. I truly did. I myself have been going through. Like you say I have to sit down and think of the “What”. This can’t and will not be it for us. We have to step out on faith and just do it. It’s scary but we can do it. ❤ You have truly motivated me ❤
FRIEND!!!! It's so good to hear from you 💚 and I am so grateful this video resonated with you. I'm realizing that focusing on the 'what' instead of the 'how' is really a major key when it comes to faith. I am shifting my mindset right along with you sis. 💚💚💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ where have you been 😁but nahhh we do got this. And to answer your question. 🙋♀️ yes I am very scared. I don’t even know what I’m scared of but I’m scared. Probably scare to fail , maybe I’m scared that if I do get what I want and be great. People gone look at me differently like. “ she think she all that” and I’ll lose the people around me. Idk. The people pleaser in me be having me on one.
How’d I miss this response??? But sis, how I can relate to the fear. I think I’m most afraid of the fact that I could actually do it and that’s so bizarre to be afraid of what I want the most actually happening! And the truth is we will loose people along the way, I’m already losing people and I’m not even “there” yet! I can relate to the people pleasing too… it’s a lot! Having faith ain’t easy but we really gotta be out here on some Kanye west type of confidence in ourselves and just not care about what anybody thinks and go for the gold! 💯 I’m just learning, you are too 💚 As long as we don’t give up on ourselves we’ll learn to get comfortable with the uncomfortable!
I can definitely relate and It’s ok to vent, you’re being your authentic self. Keep your faith and everything will be ok. Btw your videos inspire me and others so much. Blessings to you & your family ❤
Blessings to you and yours as well Goddess! Thank you, I am holding on to my faith for dear life girl 🤣 also thank you for letting me know how inspiring this is for you, that helps me to keep sharing and creating! Thank you, that means more to me than you’ll probably ever know 💚
I definitely have been there hun and still currently growing through this... we should never have to work this hard to just be just over broke....saying this all while working 64 hrs this week to get through the month. You will make it through this and make the best decision for you and your family, forreal forreal you already know the answer all it takes is that one step out on faith.
Now girl you said a mouthful when you mentioned stepping out on FAITH! 💚 Thank you, I needed that reminded, you know sometimes we get so stressed we make things more complicated than they really have to be!
I know the feeling when I worked and living check to check. It’s over welming to just be making it paycheck to paycheck. You keep going things do get better. Put God first and don’t let go of him. The kids do grow up.
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ I appreciate your honesty on social media without being shamed or afraid. I’m a much older woman, but I’ve been there, done that, so I truly know where you coming from being a single working mom. Always trust,God , he knows our hearts. 🙏🏽💖
Im 56 years old working a part-time job that i really like and try to work my business to make up as well. I know how you feel. I dont know what to do and who to pay. I ask myself, what did i do to deserve this life? I mediate treat ppl right try to stay positive and keep bad energy from around me. It's hard, but know that as long as we keep ourselves aligned up right, those blessings are so close. They are going to start falling down on us from every which a way. Im praying for us. We all in here will make it. Sending love and peace to you.
I get everything I need and I get everything I want. And I’m grateful for everything and everything I get comes from God. Thank you, God for giving me the wisdom to know the difference. And fear just creates more fear. Likewise, the consciousness of your abundance creates more abundance. I say this with love and I love your videos.♥️🌅🙏
Yes. Yes. Yes. This is why I like your channel so much. I pay all my bills every month on time but I live paycheck to paycheck I cannot save money and I have no life. I am single and I have no kids. Sometimes I feel bad complaining because I don't have any kids but it's real. I quit many things and budgeted better and moved things around. I go to the thrift store and I work at a grocery store and get a discount. I shouldn't be struggling to save money for a car. I also got this job at the grocery store for benefits and retirement and pto cause my age is starting to catch up to me, I'm 41. You start really thinking about stuff like that. But my front tooth is chipped and the one next to it is missing and even with my benefits I cannot save money to get the work done I need cause it's still thousands of dollars even with a decent benefits package from work. I feel like such a loser compared to my siblings who are married with children and own houses. I'm totally the middle child who has always been a step behind. I'm not perfect, I smoke cigarettes and weed but who is? I also don't want to be perfect, I like imperfection, as long as there's a balance you're good. I strongly believe that. But it's hard I overthink everything everyday constantly. If there was ever someone more relatable! We are all in this, it's not just me, obviously, and it's getting worse. Everything is going up up up. My rent just went up. And it's not even worth arguing over because I know what they're going to say they're keeping up with the neighborhood cost of houses and living. Everyone in my family's taxes went up on their houses too it's just inevitable. There's nobody that cares about our integrity of life out there it really is all up to you to make the most of it honestly.❤
Hey girl! I feel like it haven’t seen you in a while! You’re really out here trying, doing more than most! I hate to hear you say you feel like a loser. I know it’s hard but don’t compare yourself to anyone else, compare yourself to your old self because that the only person you can compete with anyways. Your siblings may be married but you do know the grass is never really greener on the other side. They’re dealing with things too, just different things! Hold yourself accountable, forgive yourself and give yourself grace and watch how internally your feelings about yourself will shift 💚
@_EvolvingIntoHER_ I really did just vent the eff out here didn't I? Lol. I'm kind of embarrassed but kind of not. It's like I feel comfortable and unjudged and unwatched in this space so it flows out when you are just speaking my same language of life all the time! You've got some serious power girl. Power and energy and I hope you know that❤
I understand, you are blessed but sometimes you don't feel it, and when you do allow yourself to acknowledge that you don't feel blessed you feel guilty for not being grateful that you are blessed. Wow that's a confusing statement but I hope you get what I mean. I've had a really hard time myself recently with faith and doubt. You're not alone in your feelings we're there with you and no you are NOT asking for too much. This makes me remember the lyrics to an old song, You don't want much you just want more. Sending you love, hope and prayers.
I completely understand ur frustration. It's ironic that I have been feeling the same way for 2 days....wondering which needs to be paid first. This economy is awful. I bought 2 bags of food last week (no meat) and it was over 100.00. I was shocked. I kinda think most of us are in the same boat. Venting is helpful. Please hang in there. I am praying for all of us. Something good will be coming for us. Let's all pray for each other. God Bless you.
Money struggles are stressful. I’ve been there. For years I had a grocery budget of $30 to $60 a month. I didn’t have a phone even. I was about to become a single mom statistic. I refused. I’m not rich but I’m doing well now. God taught me some lessons then graced me with opportunity. Keep on keeping on. Quitters never win. Those are sayings for a reason. I believe you will get there.
I've been where you are babe..There was most months I just had 5 pounds to enjoy myself with ! It's a struggle but believe me, it gets better as life goes on ...Stay positive, you have food , a job,a roof and 3 beautiful children...Stay positive...Sending love and a hug 😍🤗♥️
7:13 its ok to Cry. Crying release alot of things. Just dont do it in front of your Kids. Stay Srrong. I am Praying for you. It will get better. We All are going thru it. Please dont think You are the only one. Be Blessed.
You are doing a wonderful job. One foot in front of the other. I don't know why it sucks sometimes, but remember, you can do this. Be proud of what you have accomplished.
Don’t worry the more you go on here you will be good! Your Adsense for these videos are going to start going up because your views are great! I’m a UA-camr as well and I’m also a new business owner now that I’ve been creating different content on here…I am still living paycheck to paycheck but I see the future! Just wanted to motivate you to keep going on here because honey your content is great! You’re gonna be able to be a full time creator soon!!!
I definitely can relate I was a single parent for a long time with my girls that are now 17 and 18 and I can honestly say it wasn’t easy I really appreciate your vulnerability and thanks so much for sharing sending love and light your way Queen🌻🌻
Love the transparency! I definitely find myself living paycheck to paycheck. Every now and then I’ll go out to do gig work if business is slow and that helps (instacart, DoorDash, etc) but girl I’m praying for my breakthrough too🙌🏾
I so can relate let me tell you my family has been through a long financial hardship for 16 yrs girl im saying so many out of control obstacles including 34 moves and a home invasion!!! My husband is disabled he lost his job in july all bills are 2 months behind n tent is 1100 😢😢 but im not stressing cuz i usually get myself so sick from worrying 😭
Wow! I appreciate that you shared this. I wish there was more I could do than send prayers and give kind words. I think it’s very wise to manage your stress because you’re right-it will make you sick! Hold onto your faith and believe it will get better no matter how hopeless things seem 💚
Greetings Goddess sorry to hear you are stressed I feel you life be lifing, the world is struggling right now things will get better on Divine Timing, my call center job is stressful but I'm still grateful, i go through the same thing, your time will come. The Most High got you, sending you Peace and Blessings 🙏💖
I can relate to EVERYTHING you're saying!!! I'm so glad you let it out bc doing so is apart of the journey. I know you're not staying in this place and I appreciate you being REAL!!! Life be life-ing chile🤣 Change is coming! Especially if we are remaining grateful even for the things we don't like. Keep exhaling slowly sis😮💨💛
This is a reminder I needed to hear. Thank you. It can be so easy to be distracted and forget about the little daily habits that make such a grand difference in life. Thank you 💚
I been there. Still going though it. When I pray and go to church. It gets better. I pray for you 🙏 that it gets better. It's going to get better. Take you a good nap.❤ May the grace of God be unto you and the children may God bless 🙏 your home. May God bless you 🙏 to make more money. It's ok to cry sometimes I do it.
Heeey my "10 day detox challenge" sis! Listen, you are right where God wants you to be sistah. He is molding you. I know it seems as if you are taking 1 step fwd & 2 steps backwards but you are STILL progressing. Make sure you are prioritizing God each morning and I promise God is working it all out for your good. I love ya sis, I SEE you sis, I BELIEVE in you sis💝 Keep going
You just don’t know how much I needed the reminder to prioritize GOD first thing in the morning sis! THANK YOU! I do believe I’m being built up for something too! 💚
Just don’t give up. Things will change. When you’re at your lowest, God is at his best. I’m not trying to be funny or unsympathetic; start looking for a better paying job. Keep pushing something has to change.
Girl , I like you! Speak your truth! This too shall pass. Do not become weary in well doing for in due season you shall reap a harvest if you faint not! Gal 6:9
You may feel like you’re living paycheck to paycheck, but I could tell you most of us have to make choices whether to pay a bill or eat and the one thing you should commend yourself on is that, even though you’re going through this, you’re doing one more thing that most of us aren’t doing, you’re brave to be a content creator and that’s going to take you far because you’re very relatable especially in this economy
I am so sorry that you are feeling down. I have been watching ads to hopefully help you a bit. I think you have had sponsors, but if not, maybe check into that to help with your income. Happy that you found something to make you feel better, and on the brighter side, you recently ate foods and juices to make it possible for you to cheat a bit. Take care and hope that things get better for you.
Every little bit counts! I am extremely grateful, thank you! I am looking into all kinds of way to increase income with this channel too! Thanks for always being here 💚
Oh yes I know that feeling also well move this payment here move it there I understand so when you wont to eat this are that have at it your not alone with those feelings I just laugh to keep from crying!!!
Listen, we've all been there. This too shall pass. I like that pep talk that you gave yourself at the end of the video 👏👏👏. On another note, you are the only person that I've ever heard say they like wasabi.
Dave Ramsey recommends first we have to write down and follow a Budget give every dollar a name and start a Baby emergency Fund then start paying down debt smallest to largest and it may require getting a part time job , selling stuff or side hustle I feel your thoughts exactly wishing you well and if your able to pay your Bills your doing good, God Bless💕🙏🏾💕
Man that was deep your voice is so soothing but don't think it's just u living paycheck to paycheck he'll I'm retired now and sometimes I feel as you but I know u gonna be ok just have faith in yourself you got this but thanks for sharing
I hear ya. I left a job that paid really good but I couldn’t do it. I had to lift 75-80+lbs for 8hrs a day. Now I’m at a job that pays $6.00 hrly less. My internet is getting shut off bcuz I can’t pay it. I’m tired of living paycheck to paycheck. It makes me sick that I had to leave that good paying job. I’m 49yrs old just do the heavy lifting.
Dang KC, I’m really sorry to hear that, that sucks! Unfortunately I can relate to that type of worry and stress. Praying for you 🥹🙏🏾 and hold onto that faith, believe it’s going to get better even when you have no reason too! 💚
@evolvinginto Her I've been on my job 35 years since i was 24yrs old July 27th last year i was rear ended at work. Been on workman's comp since then. A week ago Friday the doctor told me i could not go back to that job. At first I was shocked but then I started thinking and looking at the greater good which is I can retire receive all my retirement and medical and lifetime medical for my injuries. I looked to God and said Thank you for allowing me to be in a position to retire. Im only 59
Congratulations, I’m praying you can get that fixed. I had to replace a transmission on a car before and I was blessed to be able to afford it. I’m praying you will be able to too 💚
Do you have any friends? I ask because our environment mirrors our social circle. You need to think hard about where you want to be in life, who do you want to be in life and surround yourself with people with like mindedness. I promise that helps so much, because you need to network and you need that community of support!
Honestly no I don’t. I mean I have childhood friends but we rarely speak and if I’m being even more honest when we do link it always only brings out and older version of myself. Thank you for your advice, I see your point and I do agree. 💚
The Bible says give thanks IN all things, not FOR all things. Hold on to Romans 8:28 and know that you have a community of people praying for you and your family’s success.
Two things that helped me 1. Dave Ramsey broke people emergency fund $500 2. Putting random cash in a box/ envelope ie: find a $5 bill in your coat pocket put in the box/envelope. Dont touch until a set date. Edit: It wasn't easy because i was broke broke broke, but i had a small goal, and that helped.
I know this might sound crazy but I am so uncomfortable doing that!!! 😳 If you or anyone wants to send me money UA-cam has this thing called super thanks under each of my videos where you can send me money… but idky, it just doesn’t feel sincere advertising a cash app in the description box. 💚
My dear I see the spirit of wealth upon you. I declare and decree the spirit of Lack be broken off of your life this day in.Jesus Christ mighty name! Amen 🙏🏽 Jeremiah 29:11 Proverbs 3:5-6 Proverbs 10:22 3John 1:2 Isaiah 45:2-3 Deuteronomy 28:3 -Love God ❤
Oh I am MAD about that! I probably needed to hear that but it's ok, I know how it feels to type up a long message and then have to re-type it. LOL! Thank you for your encouragement and I'm holding tight 💚
You're allowed to vent.....don't worry about being grateful 24/7. You're living REAL life here......I don't live in the projects. I live in BC Canada, but we are in a housing crisis all over too and it's not fun. So many of us are living paycheck to paycheck, you are NOT ALONE!! You're walking the path of the warrior, know this.
Thank you 💚
The best comment I’ve seen people act like women shouldn’t vent heck we carry our kids on our backs and life!! I live in Memphis 3 teens 1 adult 1 grandbaby who wants to work just to pay bills this isn’t living smh I’m ready to get a camper van or something to actually live life.
A yes from God, Blesses you!
A no from God, Protects you!
And waiting on God, Prepares you!
Writing that one day Goddess ✍🏾💚
Love This ❤️
Love this!!!!❤️🙏🏽
@@JosetteRobinsonwe were thinking alike lol. I didn’t see your comment until I posted mine. Amen to this
If you feel like you're losing everything, remember that trees lose their leaves every year and they still stand tall and wait for better days to come. I totally understand how you feel. It's ok to not be okay.
Thank you for that 💚
@_EvolvingIntoHER_ You're welcome! You are doing an excellent job. Continue to pray & and journal. Where there's a will, there's a way. Life is challenging & unknown ^new paths and possibilities, stay strong through the process of healing from your past and building your future. God is near, so never stray away.
Girl I feel this so hard... Except I'm "broke but will my bills get paid?" or "broke but which bill should I pay this month?" 😑 The constant stress is killing me. Even in my sleep. I can never fully relax, and money (or the lack of) constantly occupies my thoughts. Not knowing if there will be enough for food or bills or rent. Horrible way to live. I pray for all of us to be worry-free soon 💜
Amen!!!🙏 I’m waiting for JESUS to come me and take me home!
Amen….
The way our world is set up to revolve around the amount of money we have is so sad and infuriates me if I allow it. So sorry you have to worry about those types of things, we shouldn’t have to pay for things GOD gave us for free 🥺💚
Molly girl! The way our world is set up to revolve around the amount of money we have is so sad and infuriates me if I allow it. So sorry you have to worry about those types of things, we shouldn’t have to pay for things GOD gave us for free 🥺💚
Amen
I truly believe when you feel your lowest your breakthrough is near! I just hope you will never give up on this channel I can only see you blowing up nothing else!
Ugh! I pray that's where I am at. I'm not going to give up, when you said you can see me blowing up that just affirms my decision not to quit even more. Thank you!! 💚💚💚💚
Cherish these days, they won’t last long. This storm shall pass.
Queen, this video almost brought me to tears because I see so much of my younger self in you. First, let me just say that most of us that want better for ourselves and our family have those days and it’s ok. Just don’t stay in it! I personally think you’re doing a phenomenal job but I also understand that we’re the hardest on ourselves. Take it easy on yourself luv. Everything will work out for you in divine timing. I’m not just saying that…I BELIEVE IT! Blessings & Light✨🩷✨
🥺🥺🥺 I won’t stay in it Queen! And you’re right, I know I can be hard on myself. Thank you for reminding me to have grace over myself. 💚
Thank you for just being authentic because positive isn't the reality all the time I think I can speak for a lot of us when I say we want to see what's real and we can relate.
You’re very welcome 💚
Go by faith not by sight ,you can achieve any thing that God wants you to have,just always say Lord i trust in you.🙌🏽
Once again you are correct! Thank you, GOD knows I'm trying! 💚💚💚
I have definitely been there. Long suffering is one of the fruits of the spirit. Bent get it out and then start praising God for already doing what you need Him to do. Confuse the enemy and watch how blessing start coming in. It may not be $$$ coming in sometimes God gives us insight and strategy on how to be better stewards of what He gives us.
Keep your head up Sis, God has already gone before you, you just gotta walk this thing out.
I needed this reminder! Thank you so much. You are absolutely right! GOD got me! 💚💚💚
Sometimes, you just have to vent.
Ok!!! 💚
Try to do budget challenges to save what you can. Pay yourself first even it’s nothing but $5. $10, $15 etc. Put it up and keep adding to it. As mothers we have to take time for ourselves. Hang in there. Everyday is a new day. You got this! 🙏🏽💪🏽
Thank you. That’s great advice. I’m trying to 💚
With each pay check pay your self,put away something $20,40,50,10, something each time you get a pay check and let it bill up.
I love how you said pay yourself! Thank you 💚
I feel you whole heartedly!!! Same here
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We all have those type of days: but when you said “have you ever HAD to be grateful for something you don’t even like” THAT HIT HOME FOR ME!!
I’m so tired of having to be “grateful” for all the BS I deal with, because I’m happily married- makes no sense, but you got it! ❤
Thank you…
Even in your down day, you were able to help someone else; me. 😊
Girl that still hits for me like the first time I said it 😂😂 GOD really working through me on this lesson about gratitude!!! 😩 but I am extremely grateful and honored that you feel that way about my content. Thank you 💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ You are so very welcome! God is GOOD!! ♥️♥️♥️
I totally get this. I raised 5 kids alone. Got some through college and a couple are about to go back. I was always blessed while raising them. Always got praise about how good they are and how nice they looked. I never wore the struggle and neither did my kids. We are very blessed compared to many others. I just think of the things I’ve done in my life and it maybe my punishment in some way idk. The Bible says we reap what we sow and I’m a very good person but have done many sins as we all have .Times were not all that hard but now things have changed. I have one still in school (Middle) who’s in all kinds of sports that are expensive. When I was in school public school meant you don’t have much money but now it just means be thankful we’re not charging you to teach your children to some degree lol. Everything cost!!! I’m almost 49 and still wonder when will I have some peace, so I get it. God hears us and all things in his timing. We must pray about everything even the smallest of things. You only want what’s in Gods will. Surrender to him and wait. Nothing or no one is worth our salvation 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤. With love Sabrina! Sorry so long of a message
Thank you, I appreciate you 💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ you are so welcome and I enjoy your content very much as well as your transparency ❤️🙏🏽. It will get better!
I can relate with u 1000% i work 2 jobs & still live paycheck to paycheck!! I’m so over it 😡 i feel burnt out..But I’m grateful & I don’t complain much bcuz god has my back at all times!! U r allowed to vent , there’s nothing wrong with lifting that stress off of ur back!! Those changes will come keep ur head up stay strong
Thank you so much I appreciate your understanding 💚💚💚
I needed this. I truly did. I myself have been going through. Like you say I have to sit down and think of the “What”. This can’t and will not be it for us. We have to step out on faith and just do it. It’s scary but we can do it. ❤
You have truly motivated me ❤
FRIEND!!!! It's so good to hear from you 💚 and I am so grateful this video resonated with you. I'm realizing that focusing on the 'what' instead of the 'how' is really a major key when it comes to faith. I am shifting my mindset right along with you sis. 💚💚💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ where have you been 😁but nahhh we do got this. And to answer your question. 🙋♀️ yes I am very scared. I don’t even know what I’m scared of but I’m scared. Probably scare to fail , maybe I’m scared that if I do get what I want and be great. People gone look at me differently like. “ she think she all that” and I’ll lose the people around me. Idk. The people pleaser in me be having me on one.
How’d I miss this response??? But sis, how I can relate to the fear. I think I’m most afraid of the fact that I could actually do it and that’s so bizarre to be afraid of what I want the most actually happening! And the truth is we will loose people along the way, I’m already losing people and I’m not even “there” yet! I can relate to the people pleasing too… it’s a lot! Having faith ain’t easy but we really gotta be out here on some Kanye west type of confidence in ourselves and just not care about what anybody thinks and go for the gold! 💯 I’m just learning, you are too 💚 As long as we don’t give up on ourselves we’ll learn to get comfortable with the uncomfortable!
I have my days too, excellent topic, stay encouraged sweetie you
will be fine. 👍🏾✨💌
Thank you so much, and I will, promise! 💚
Vent away girl! Your honesty is why we are all here. God bless y'all 🙏🏿
Thank you 💚💚💚💚
I can definitely relate and It’s ok to vent, you’re being your authentic self. Keep your faith and everything will be ok. Btw your videos inspire me and others so much. Blessings to you & your family ❤
Blessings to you and yours as well Goddess! Thank you, I am holding on to my faith for dear life girl 🤣 also thank you for letting me know how inspiring this is for you, that helps me to keep sharing and creating! Thank you, that means more to me than you’ll probably ever know 💚
I definitely have been there hun and still currently growing through this... we should never have to work this hard to just be just over broke....saying this all while working 64 hrs this week to get through the month. You will make it through this and make the best decision for you and your family, forreal forreal you already know the answer all it takes is that one step out on faith.
Now girl you said a mouthful when you mentioned stepping out on FAITH! 💚 Thank you, I needed that reminded, you know sometimes we get so stressed we make things more complicated than they really have to be!
I know the feeling when I worked and living check to check. It’s over welming to just be making it paycheck to paycheck. You keep going things do get better. Put God first and don’t let go of him. The kids do grow up.
Thank you 💚 I really appreciate you
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ I appreciate your honesty on social media without being shamed or afraid. I’m a much older woman, but I’ve been there, done that, so I truly know where you coming from being a single working mom. Always trust,God , he knows our hearts. 🙏🏽💖
Im 56 years old working a part-time job that i really like and try to work my business to make up as well. I know how you feel. I dont know what to do and who to pay. I ask myself, what did i do to deserve this life? I mediate treat ppl right try to stay positive and keep bad energy from around me. It's hard, but know that as long as we keep ourselves aligned up right, those blessings are so close. They are going to start falling down on us from every which a way. Im praying for us. We all in here will make it. Sending love and peace to you.
I believe that too, thank you. Peace and love to you as well 💚
I get everything I need and I get everything I want. And I’m grateful for everything and everything I get comes from God. Thank you, God for giving me the wisdom to know the difference. And fear just creates more fear. Likewise, the consciousness of your abundance creates more abundance. I say this with love and I love your videos.♥️🌅🙏
Thank you, I appreciate it 💚
Oh lovey im so sorry your feeljng this way!! Keep your head up!! Comfort food is needed sometimes!!! ❤❤
Indeed! Thank you love 💚
@_EvolvingIntoHER_ remember tomorrow is a new day that's never been touched !! I live by that.
Yes. Yes. Yes. This is why I like your channel so much. I pay all my bills every month on time but I live paycheck to paycheck I cannot save money and I have no life. I am single and I have no kids. Sometimes I feel bad complaining because I don't have any kids but it's real. I quit many things and budgeted better and moved things around. I go to the thrift store and I work at a grocery store and get a discount. I shouldn't be struggling to save money for a car. I also got this job at the grocery store for benefits and retirement and pto cause my age is starting to catch up to me, I'm 41. You start really thinking about stuff like that. But my front tooth is chipped and the one next to it is missing and even with my benefits I cannot save money to get the work done I need cause it's still thousands of dollars even with a decent benefits package from work. I feel like such a loser compared to my siblings who are married with children and own houses. I'm totally the middle child who has always been a step behind. I'm not perfect, I smoke cigarettes and weed but who is? I also don't want to be perfect, I like imperfection, as long as there's a balance you're good. I strongly believe that. But it's hard I overthink everything everyday constantly. If there was ever someone more relatable! We are all in this, it's not just me, obviously, and it's getting worse. Everything is going up up up. My rent just went up. And it's not even worth arguing over because I know what they're going to say they're keeping up with the neighborhood cost of houses and living. Everyone in my family's taxes went up on their houses too it's just inevitable. There's nobody that cares about our integrity of life out there it really is all up to you to make the most of it honestly.❤
Hey girl! I feel like it haven’t seen you in a while! You’re really out here trying, doing more than most! I hate to hear you say you feel like a loser. I know it’s hard but don’t compare yourself to anyone else, compare yourself to your old self because that the only person you can compete with anyways. Your siblings may be married but you do know the grass is never really greener on the other side. They’re dealing with things too, just different things! Hold yourself accountable, forgive yourself and give yourself grace and watch how internally your feelings about yourself will shift 💚
@_EvolvingIntoHER_ I really did just vent the eff out here didn't I? Lol. I'm kind of embarrassed but kind of not. It's like I feel comfortable and unjudged and unwatched in this space so it flows out when you are just speaking my same language of life all the time! You've got some serious power girl. Power and energy and I hope you know that❤
🤣🤣🤣 It’s ALL GOOD too! 💚💚💚
I understand, you are blessed but sometimes you don't feel it, and when you do allow yourself to acknowledge that you don't feel blessed you feel guilty for not being grateful that you are blessed. Wow that's a confusing statement but I hope you get what I mean. I've had a really hard time myself recently with faith and doubt. You're not alone in your feelings we're there with you and no you are NOT asking for too much. This makes me remember the lyrics to an old song, You don't want much you just want more. Sending you love, hope and prayers.
I know exactly what you mean! Sending the love hope and pray right back to you. Your faith will increase and your doubt will equally decrease 💚
I completely understand ur frustration. It's ironic that I have been feeling the same way for 2 days....wondering which needs to be paid first. This economy is awful. I bought 2 bags of food last week (no meat) and it was over 100.00. I was shocked. I kinda think most of us are in the same boat. Venting is helpful. Please hang in there. I am praying for all of us. Something good will be coming for us. Let's all pray for each other. God Bless you.
Absolutely, praying for you as well 💚 Thank You
@_EvolvingIntoHER_ you're such a sweet person. Wishing the very best for you and your family.
Thank you 💚
You’re doing amazing💙keep going. I pray that God continue to give you strength. I loved this video.
I am so grateful that you loved my video, thank you so much for being here. I really appreciate all the love and support! 💚
Money struggles are stressful. I’ve been there. For years I had a grocery budget of $30 to $60 a month. I didn’t have a phone even. I was about to become a single mom statistic. I refused. I’m not rich but I’m doing well now. God taught me some lessons then graced me with opportunity. Keep on keeping on. Quitters never win. Those are sayings for a reason. I believe you will get there.
Thank you for sharing that with me, means a lot💚
I've been where you are babe..There was most months I just had 5 pounds to enjoy myself with ! It's a struggle but believe me, it gets better as life goes on ...Stay positive, you have food , a job,a roof and 3 beautiful children...Stay positive...Sending love and a hug 😍🤗♥️
Thank you for the encouragement to stay positive and the reminders about the good things in my life to stay grateful for. Oh! And the love & hug!!! 💚
Preach 💯
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7:13 its ok to Cry.
Crying release alot of things.
Just dont do it in front of your Kids.
Stay Srrong.
I am Praying for you.
It will get better.
We All are going thru it.
Please dont think You are the only one.
Be Blessed.
You are doing a wonderful job. One foot in front of the other. I don't know why it sucks sometimes, but remember, you can do this. Be proud of what you have accomplished.
Thank you, it’s really great to hear that sometimes ya know! I appreciate you for it 💚
Don’t worry the more you go on here you will be good! Your Adsense for these videos are going to start going up because your views are great! I’m a UA-camr as well and I’m also a new business owner now that I’ve been creating different content on here…I am still living paycheck to paycheck but I see the future! Just wanted to motivate you to keep going on here because honey your content is great! You’re gonna be able to be a full time creator soon!!!
You did exactly that too, thank you for the motivation and the reminders of how close I really am to my desires 💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ you got this!
I definitely can relate I was a single parent for a long time with my girls that are now 17 and 18 and I can honestly say it wasn’t easy I really appreciate your vulnerability and thanks so much for sharing sending love and light your way Queen🌻🌻
I appreciate your love and light Goddess, thank you so much. I'm sending it all right back to you too! 💚💚💚
This was so… beautiful. Praying that today wraps you in some ease and comfort.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate that 💚
I pray you feel better soon, you and me both with the food for comfort. I hear you with the paycheck to paycheck, I want financial stability❤
Yes! I want the exact same thing sis, thank you 💚
You are a very wise woman!! ❤ And that wisdom will see you through it all👍🏼.
Thank you 💚
You got this mama👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 your break through is near❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
Thank you 💚
Love the transparency! I definitely find myself living paycheck to paycheck. Every now and then I’ll go out to do gig work if business is slow and that helps (instacart, DoorDash, etc) but girl I’m praying for my breakthrough too🙌🏾
Praying for both of us sis! Thank you 💚
I so can relate let me tell you my family has been through a long financial hardship for 16 yrs girl im saying so many out of control obstacles including 34 moves and a home invasion!!! My husband is disabled he lost his job in july all bills are 2 months behind n tent is 1100 😢😢 but im not stressing cuz i usually get myself so sick from worrying 😭
Wow! I appreciate that you shared this. I wish there was more I could do than send prayers and give kind words. I think it’s very wise to manage your stress because you’re right-it will make you sick! Hold onto your faith and believe it will get better no matter how hopeless things seem 💚
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Your videos are the best very honest things are bad with the fires here in Greece May God help me
Hello all the way in Greece!!! Prayers to you and your loved one with those fires 🙏🏾💚💚💚
I have definitely been there. I love spicy tuna roll.
So good 💚 my little guilty pleasure 😂
Greetings Goddess sorry to hear you are stressed I feel you life be lifing, the world is struggling right now things will get better on Divine Timing, my call center job is stressful but I'm still grateful, i go through the same thing, your time will come. The Most High got you, sending you Peace and Blessings 🙏💖
Thank you Goddess Amina 💚💚💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ Welcome Goddess Krystal 👑💚
I can relate to EVERYTHING you're saying!!! I'm so glad you let it out bc doing so is apart of the journey. I know you're not staying in this place and I appreciate you being REAL!!! Life be life-ing chile🤣 Change is coming! Especially if we are remaining grateful even for the things we don't like. Keep exhaling slowly sis😮💨💛
This is a reminder I needed to hear. Thank you. It can be so easy to be distracted and forget about the little daily habits that make such a grand difference in life. Thank you 💚
I been there. Still going though it. When I pray and go to church. It gets better. I pray for you 🙏 that it gets better. It's going to get better. Take you a good nap.❤ May the grace of God be unto you and the children may God bless 🙏 your home. May God bless you 🙏 to make more money. It's ok to cry sometimes I do it.
Thank you so much Sharon 💚
Love you
Heeey my "10 day detox challenge" sis!
Listen, you are right where God wants you to be sistah. He is molding you. I know it seems as if you are taking 1 step fwd & 2 steps backwards but you are STILL progressing.
Make sure you are prioritizing God each morning and I promise God is working it all out for your good.
I love ya sis, I SEE you sis, I BELIEVE in you sis💝 Keep going
You just don’t know how much I needed the reminder to prioritize GOD first thing in the morning sis! THANK YOU! I do believe I’m being built up for something too! 💚
I was in same boat but with God everything is possible…. We as women have broad shoulders… you got this girlie…
Yes ma’am! 💚Thank you
Keep it movin and never give up🌹❤️💯
That’s all I can do! 💚
I love everything you are saying ❤❤❤
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Please write that book/ screenplay. It's evident that God has blessed you with those abilities
I am going to do it! 💚 Thank you
Just don’t give up. Things will change. When you’re at your lowest, God is at his best. I’m not trying to be funny or unsympathetic; start looking for a better paying job. Keep pushing something has to change.
You’re right! Thank you, I really appreciate your kind words. No offense taken either 💚
Girl , I like you! Speak your truth! This too shall pass. Do not become weary in well doing for in due season you shall reap a harvest if you faint not! Gal 6:9
Thank youuuu 💚💚💚
You may feel like you’re living paycheck to paycheck, but I could tell you most of us have to make choices whether to pay a bill or eat and the one thing you should commend yourself on is that, even though you’re going through this, you’re doing one more thing that most of us aren’t doing, you’re brave to be a content creator and that’s going to take you far because you’re very relatable especially in this economy
Thank you for pointing that out 💚
I am so sorry that you are feeling down. I have been watching ads to hopefully help you a bit. I think you have had sponsors, but if not, maybe check into that to help with your income. Happy that you found something to make you feel better, and on the brighter side, you recently ate foods and juices to make it possible for you to cheat a bit. Take care and hope that things get better for you.
Every little bit counts! I am extremely grateful, thank you! I am looking into all kinds of way to increase income with this channel too! Thanks for always being here 💚
Girl I felt this to the core. Please let me help you with something that’s changing my life. Let me know how we can connect!
Email me sis evolvingintoher@gmail.com 💚
Thanks!
Thanks again, you’re so kind 💚
Oh yes I know that feeling also well move this payment here move it there I understand so when you wont to eat this are that have at it your not alone with those feelings I just laugh to keep from crying!!!
Listen, we've all been there. This too shall pass. I like that pep talk that you gave yourself at the end of the video 👏👏👏. On another note, you are the only person that I've ever heard say they like wasabi.
Thank you 💚 and yesss I love some dang on wasabi, love that tingling sensation I get in my nose when I eat it, it’s fun 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dave Ramsey recommends first we have to write down and follow a Budget give every dollar a name and start a Baby emergency Fund then start paying down debt smallest to largest and it may require getting a part time job , selling stuff or side hustle I feel your thoughts exactly wishing you well and if your able to pay your Bills your doing good, God Bless💕🙏🏾💕
Thank you I really appreciate you sharing this with me 💚
Man that was deep your voice is so soothing but don't think it's just u living paycheck to paycheck he'll I'm retired now and sometimes I feel as you but I know u gonna be ok just have faith in yourself you got this but thanks for sharing
Thank you so much, I will do that 💚
I hear ya. I left a job that paid really good but I couldn’t do it. I had to lift 75-80+lbs for 8hrs a day. Now I’m at a job that pays $6.00 hrly less. My internet is getting shut off bcuz I can’t pay it. I’m tired of living paycheck to paycheck. It makes me sick that I had to leave that good paying job. I’m 49yrs old just do the heavy lifting.
Dang KC, I’m really sorry to hear that, that sucks! Unfortunately I can relate to that type of worry and stress. Praying for you 🥹🙏🏾 and hold onto that faith, believe it’s going to get better even when you have no reason too! 💚
Its nice to know im not alone. I feel all these things. IM TIRED 😩
Definitely not alone! I appreciate you watching my video too 💚
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Beautiful ❤
Thank you 💚
@evolvinginto Her I've been on my job 35 years since i was 24yrs old July 27th last year i was rear ended at work. Been on workman's comp since then. A week ago Friday the doctor told me i could not go back to that job. At first I was shocked but then I started thinking and looking at the greater good which is I can retire receive all my retirement and medical and lifetime medical for my injuries. I looked to God and said Thank you for allowing me to be in a position to retire. Im only 59
Crystal I know you chose that brownie. But I believe that was your last day saying that’s the last day ❤
I believe it too low-key 💚
I think you should be a motivational speaker.
Girl I'm in the same exact boat.
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We love you beautiful ❤️ lady.
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True truth!!!
Hey Goddess! Thank you for being here 💚💚💚💚
@@_EvolvingIntoHER_ Not hard to be here at all love your channel!
You got this girlfriend.
Thank you Goddess! 💚
Yes ma’am ….I’m grateful that I just bought and I need a transmission ….Vent you should just get that off your chest
A car
Congratulations, I’m praying you can get that fixed. I had to replace a transmission on a car before and I was blessed to be able to afford it. I’m praying you will be able to too 💚
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Do you have any friends? I ask because our environment mirrors our social circle. You need to think hard about where you want to be in life, who do you want to be in life and surround yourself with people with like mindedness. I promise that helps so much, because you need to network and you need that community of support!
Honestly no I don’t. I mean I have childhood friends but we rarely speak and if I’m being even more honest when we do link it always only brings out and older version of myself. Thank you for your advice, I see your point and I do agree. 💚
The Bible says give thanks IN all things, not FOR all things. Hold on to Romans 8:28 and know that you have a community of people praying for you and your family’s success.
Two things that helped me
1. Dave Ramsey broke people emergency fund $500
2. Putting random cash in a box/ envelope
ie: find a $5 bill in your coat pocket put in the box/envelope. Dont touch until a set date.
Edit: It wasn't easy because i was broke broke broke, but i had a small goal, and that helped.
Rah, thank you so much 💚
Put ur cash app up so we can bless u dear.
I know this might sound crazy but I am so uncomfortable doing that!!! 😳 If you or anyone wants to send me money UA-cam has this thing called super thanks under each of my videos where you can send me money… but idky, it just doesn’t feel sincere advertising a cash app in the description box. 💚
My dear I see the spirit of wealth upon you. I declare and decree the spirit of Lack be broken off of your life this day in.Jesus Christ mighty name! Amen 🙏🏽
Jeremiah 29:11
Proverbs 3:5-6
Proverbs 10:22
3John 1:2
Isaiah 45:2-3
Deuteronomy 28:3
-Love God ❤
Thank you so much for this 💚
Utube took my comment down again!!!😂 God bless them! Well i left you some stuff for your soul. We are in a spiritual war BIGTIME....hold tite sister🤍
Oh I am MAD about that! I probably needed to hear that but it's ok, I know how it feels to type up a long message and then have to re-type it. LOL! Thank you for your encouragement and I'm holding tight 💚
They love deleting my comments. I get so annoyed