Should I quit my job & focus on content creation full time? | I WISH... Trying NOT to be IRRATIONAL

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  • @shawnettetruebelieverofthemost
    @shawnettetruebelieverofthemost 2 місяці тому +34

    I never quit any job until I have another one for sure.

  • @ariesbyfire
    @ariesbyfire 2 місяці тому +36

    Don’t QUIT. It’s hard asl out here to find a decent gig. You just need a paradigm shift to see the job for what it is. You have a family to think about

  • @willaspearman3765
    @willaspearman3765 2 місяці тому +42

    I would not quit until I had enough money saved up to build up your UA-cam channel . I watch UA-cam all the time and content creators are complaining about not making money like they use to. Think about benefits. If you have something to fall back on - it’s up to you

  • @kimjenkins7866
    @kimjenkins7866 2 місяці тому +7

    Don’t quit!!! Your beautiful children are depending on You!!! Successful people don’t live their lives based on feelings… go to work with a good attitude and a can do attitude!!! Have a plan sis! Your beautiful children are depending on you!! You don’t have a right to quit because your beautiful children are depending on you!! Choose to make a plan and follow through… truthfully, UA-cam is not a guaranteed source of income.. you got this sis!! It’s not about you, it’s about you and your beautiful children!! You Have to have a job to survive and support your beautiful children 🎉🎉 much love sis❤❤❤

  • @jtWhatley
    @jtWhatley 2 місяці тому +21

    Hey! I understand exactly how you feel. I just recently got a job after 4 years of being unemployed. I felt defeated, but I stayed strong and continued to pray until God made a way for me. I cried many days and my faith was up and down. I'm here to tell you though that God does provide a way. I promise! Please continue to seek guidance from God and ask for clear signs that affirm that it's best for you. Stay strong and keep your energetic field clear as best as you can. I have more to say, but it's too much! lol
    BTW...this is coming from a guy, but the message is no less.

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +2

      Aww JT I truly appreciate you for this comment. Thank you so much 💚💚💚

    • @jtWhatley
      @jtWhatley 2 місяці тому +2

      @@_EvolvingIntoHER_ No problem! We got to look out for each other, because we are all we got! I know God got big plans for you & the kids just stay focused and alert.

  • @LibraryAmbientJunkie
    @LibraryAmbientJunkie 2 місяці тому +10

    I would not recommend quitting. The job market out here is AWFUL. I have been searching for two years and finally had to give up while relying on gig work which barely pays me enough to survive. Keep building the YT channel. It has to get better at some point

  • @houstontola
    @houstontola 2 місяці тому +3

    Do not quit ... that's the devil, prioritize, rearrange furniture, paint or something

  • @barbaraspan1437
    @barbaraspan1437 2 місяці тому +6

    Don't look at it as quitting. You are moving forward to do what will make your heart sing. Become your own boss and invest in yourself and your channel. Yes, you can trust yourself. Your job is smothering you and your creativity. Don't let fear stop you from moving forward to be happy doing what you love. Resign at your job. Get that elephant's weight off of your back and go free. Your tears are crying out for you to unchain yourself from the company and be a content creator. You can do it. Choose you and your happiness. You are worth the risk. You got this.

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      So many gems in this comment, I thank you from the bottom of my heart! I'm grateful your here 💚💚💚

  • @pteach9957
    @pteach9957 2 місяці тому +2

    Krystal take small steps to make your move. No, don't quit. You need your income while you build.

  • @LoverOfGodforever
    @LoverOfGodforever 2 місяці тому +11

    Focus on your channel but don’t quit. You have to look at the way of the world. Hang In there. Pray every day before your shift. Once your channel blows up then let it go.

  • @traneawilson6024
    @traneawilson6024 2 місяці тому +2

    Do NOT QUIT YOUR JOB SIS.❤

  • @Godisamazing7
    @Godisamazing7 2 місяці тому +4

    Social media changes a lot so unless you have arrived and have rock solid cushion, i think you should stay.

  • @UnapologeticallyCynthia
    @UnapologeticallyCynthia 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Sis❤ I believe we can call each other Sis at this rate lol…it’s coming from a place of care. You’re not as far down as you think or feel. It’s just a feeling TRUST ME!!! Your will and your drive to want to be and do better is key and you have that. Yes, God has you where He wants you ONLY to allow your valleys to become known, acknowledged, and respected👏🏽 I KNOW that some days or some moments in life make us feel like we’re stuck but it’s just the season of the valley, in which will be your testimony. We’re both going to look back at our channel and see JUST how much God has been there and was working behind the scenes. DON’T you dare give up🎉you’ve come way too far even if it doesn’t feel like it. And also, have confidence in yourself even if you have to do things afraid. God will meet you there because of your drive. You’re on the right track ❤

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Oooh! It’s just a feeling, I really do need to be reminder of that in those emotional moments! Thank you, I will not give up either. You are so kind and I’m excited and grateful for both of our successes. I’m working on the self confidence too 💚

    • @UnapologeticallyCynthia
      @UnapologeticallyCynthia 2 місяці тому

      @@_EvolvingIntoHER_ ❤️❤️❤️ yes ma’am!

    • @missbell1634
      @missbell1634 2 місяці тому

      Beautiful comment🥰

  • @sharonwilliams8959
    @sharonwilliams8959 2 місяці тому +11

    Don't quit unless you have another job. You don't want know and ain't nothing going on there. Pray pray 🙏 pray. Love you girl.

  • @PamelaJordan-u4b
    @PamelaJordan-u4b 2 місяці тому +10

    Although you have to make the final decision. Unless you have funds readily available, I would not quit a job without having some sort of cushion. Take your time, success does not always come overnight. Continue to put in the work as you have been and watch you grow. I truly believe in you and I think your UA-cam family does too. “Patience is a
    virtue”.

  • @KeishaKe247
    @KeishaKe247 2 місяці тому +3

    I love how transparent and relatable your videos are. Follow your heart and ask God for guidance. What’s for you is for YOU ❤

  • @WomanofFaith72
    @WomanofFaith72 2 місяці тому +6

    Above all, trust God!! Listen to Him. Don’t rush. Pray, be still and listen. He will guide your steps.

  • @ChandaCook
    @ChandaCook 2 місяці тому +2

    Girl, I know exactly how you feel. I've been doing hair for 21 years. I'm so sick of it!

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Girl I used to be a hair stylist too so I really feel you on that one. I’m really tryna figure this out because I do NOT want to go back! 😖💚

  • @BETTYBOOPSTAT
    @BETTYBOOPSTAT 2 місяці тому +1

    I wouldn’t quit without a plan b, that’s seems impulsive. Continue at the pace you are and build organically, also burnout is real you need to take some time off and pour into yourself if that’s an option. The shift to seasonal depression is starting up so be mindful that it could also be that spring and summer luster that gives us that extra oomph is wearing off. Stay encouraged!

  • @sunshine-k8k
    @sunshine-k8k 2 місяці тому +4

    Every time I took a leap of faith in my life it turned out to be exactly what I needed, it wasn’t easy I definitely had to adjust and make changes but it was all worth it! I gained the freedom and peace that I was longing for along with discovering more of who I was and what I am made of because of this I now believe in myself so much more! You got this love, fear is what is holding you back, and your Heavenly Father did not give you a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind! Take your life back.

  • @Charenia1
    @Charenia1 2 місяці тому +3

    I understand 100% i think you should do it! go for your dreams GOD will lead you❤

  • @EscapingBroke
    @EscapingBroke 2 місяці тому +5

    I recently quit my job best decision,but it did set me back financially. I’m child free and no major responsibilities. I wish you well darling ❤❤

  • @k.c.8872
    @k.c.8872 2 місяці тому +9

    I regret quitting my previous job I made good money and now I can’t pay my bills now. You never know what you got until it’s gone. Please be patient GOD is going to work things out for you. You got your kids to think about as well as yourself. It’s not about not having faith in yourself. Maybe get on some meds in the meantime. It will help

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      I love you for your help but I ain't getting on no medication KC! 💚

  • @purkatashley979
    @purkatashley979 2 місяці тому

    HUGGS YOUNG LADY PLEASE DONT QUIT YOUR JOB FOR THIS YT SOME HAVE AND REGRET IT

  • @merryslifejourney196
    @merryslifejourney196 2 місяці тому +2

    I honestly understand what you are going through. It sounds like we work for the same WAH job. I am so over my job as well. ❤❤ Good luck with your decision.

  • @tarotchikk2262
    @tarotchikk2262 2 місяці тому +5

    I feel the same way, but you have children to take care of.

  • @growinthruit1214
    @growinthruit1214 2 місяці тому +5

    Your fears are very understandable. I sympathize with you, because it's scary thinking about jumping in 50 ft with no life jacket or safety net, but you got this!!!

  • @kimjenkins7866
    @kimjenkins7866 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey pretty lady 🎉you got this!!! Keep being responsible and focused! Again, you got this 🎉🎉

  • @Picalilli28
    @Picalilli28 2 місяці тому +7

    This is already the video the goddesses need! The right decision in the long run. I thought your manager was fair, giving you some space and asking what was going on. Glad you took time for you and to relax. So you could come back better! Can you tell your manager about the elements of the job that get you down? How do other people deal with it? I wouldn’t like that either ❤ the dream is yours just keep going for it xx

    • @checkerboardpreston7067
      @checkerboardpreston7067 2 місяці тому +2

      Keep your head up and stay with your job until something else comes along. You can do it with the help of God.

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, that was actually good advice to ask my manger those questions I think. I appreciate you for that 💚

  • @ursulaslowe6398
    @ursulaslowe6398 2 місяці тому +1

    Awww…….sis you will get through this🥲

  • @mem4684
    @mem4684 2 місяці тому +10

    Do not quit . This is a test. You need money to make money. You have to turn the negative into positive, your blocking your blessings. Trust me. Your feelings is what I have experienced. I worried daily, felt like I was in a bubble, like I wasn’t in my body, walking around feeling numb. Stop feeling like you are stuck. Stop saying you are stuck. Get back to you and focus on your job turn that all the way back around. I work at a company that I use to be on the phones. 25 yrs later still at same company no longer on phones. I use to get cussed at. But I had to tell my self they are mad at the situation and not me.. I allowed them to cuss as long as they are not cussing at me. Then I had to let them know I’m here to help you but you’re now directing at me. You got this. I promise you have to think positive. Sage sage and sage. When saging open up a few windows so all that negative energy can be released outside. When saging say, I’m now releasing all that no longer serves me. All negative etc. then say bring in happiness, love, joy etc. you got this.

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for the reminders 💚

    • @alicerawls3228
      @alicerawls3228 Місяць тому

      I don’t recommend the sage because it doesn’t have any power. Jesus has the power. I recommend to pray I’m not trying to offend you ms if you want to do this it’s, your choice and your business. But people are using things like sage that to take place of God . I not trying To offend you . I want to in-lighting you when you use sage and stuff you bring all kind of spirits in your house.

    • @mem4684
      @mem4684 Місяць тому

      @alicerawls3228 No one ever said for her not to pray. Shrugs, do you know anything about sage? I've been using sage, and I know it works. But to each its own.

    • @alicerawls3228
      @alicerawls3228 Місяць тому

      @@mem4684 like I said, I’m not trying to offend you do you.

    • @mem4684
      @mem4684 Місяць тому

      @alicerawls3228 Mos def. Have a blessed day.

  • @ItsNiaRenee_
    @ItsNiaRenee_ 2 місяці тому +1

    Please don’t quit your job or UA-cam keep going it will be worth it when you reach a milestone on UA-cam there’s billions of people who will see your channel and will support you and one day you be a FULL TIME UA-camR it’s hard but working hard for something better and more successful takes a lot of patience and it strengthens you I believe you can do it I believe you’ll see better things in life I believe you will get out of the hood I believe you will build a better environment for your kids and I believe you will get a nice home in a nice neighborhood for your family ❤. I came across your channel and you’re very positive and you deserve better and I support you I can relate to you and humble beginnings.

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much Goddess, I appreciate you and your kind affirming words more than you could possibly know 💚

  • @BETTYBOOPSTAT
    @BETTYBOOPSTAT 2 місяці тому

    I’ll share something my husband has to always remind me of because I can be impulsive too (possible undiagnosed ADHD). Focus on the little goals so that you can eventually reach the bigger goals. This means don’t just focus on the bigger picture because you’ll have the “bigger picture” blindness and because bigger goals take time and when you’re constantly hyper-focused and obsessed on the larger picture it can make the “stuck” feeling seem permanent rather than as temporary as it is. All the best!

  • @ReconnectingMyself
    @ReconnectingMyself 2 місяці тому +7

    Oooo girl! I have been there. So many times. I'm retired now and sometimes I miss the daily pressure of "performance" but let me tell you from my own experience it is not worth it!!! I see it in your eyes, I hear it in your voice. You know what to do, your Angels are telling you. Listen. My guides have been trying to tell me for years. It's easy to be you, do what brings YOU joy. Our time here is limited, don't waste it on the feeling of dread each time you step into that workplace. There's so much more to enjoy than trying to keep up with the status quo. Live your life! You have a lot of support out here. Sending you white light to help you. But seriously sit with yourself on this. You know what to do. Peace to you and all of yours! Have a beautiful day!!

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Trini this might be one of the best comments, I definitely need to sit with myself on this. Thank you for the reminder that I can go within and solve all my problems 💚

  • @JustNyCii
    @JustNyCii 2 місяці тому +2

    I always told my kids don’t quit one without having another one. Because when u got bills and the reality hit, fear creeps in. Pray!!! stay in ur affirmations and do not quit. Instead prepare urself mentally and financially so that when u do start ur new chapter u are controlling it not fear. U will be fine I promise

    • @EscapingBroke
      @EscapingBroke 2 місяці тому

      So true!! I quit my job. I’m happy I did but I was stressed in the beginning. Bills bills

  • @alicerawls3228
    @alicerawls3228 Місяць тому

    Yeah, UA-cam family we are so proud of you. You made the right choice. Keep your job so good to hear. Your UA-cam page is gonna blow up because you have something to say .and you have blessed so many women.

  • @haert2home1
    @haert2home1 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m not sure if you have any kind of Rainy Day Fund but I’d commit to building that up first. You don’t want to leave one stressful situation for another. We have faith that you can realize your goals and dreams! Time to make a vision board, my friend. ❤

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Now you are correct about not wanting to go from one stressful situation to another! Thank yo for your advice 💚

  • @cynforestier2219
    @cynforestier2219 2 місяці тому

    Girl you got this! You already do! You will make it!! Believe in yourself you have come this far ! Girl! Girl ! You do what is best for you mentally. You be fine. Never give up! Live and peace .

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Thank you! I can feel your energy through this comment, I appreciate it! 💚

  • @LadieK718
    @LadieK718 2 місяці тому +2

    This is really tough. I used to work for the county and I hated it so much. They kept me somehow for 3 years and one Saturday I walked in there and I'd had ENOUGH. I walked right back out the door and went home then went fishing. The relief I felt was insane. I did end up at another job and didn't miss a paycheck. However, it was much less stressful than the one prior. I stayed with the new job until I was able to find something better. I hate that we have to go through this. At least you've started your UA-cam channel that's already a step ahead if you ask me. Jump out on faith if you truly feel that way. Just think the way you feel now while working cannot possibly get any worse. If you're going to take that leap work at your channel and other interests more than ever. Quit that job you hate and there are other small hustles to make ends meet. Do uber/uber eats and post video's of you doing those things and get that youtube check also. Do you have a small safety net ? I have kids also so I understand. Man I really can relate to your videos 😢!

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      I truly appreciate you for this comment Goddess, thank you so much, you gave me a lot to consider. I'm so happy you are here!💚💚💚

  • @neferura2512
    @neferura2512 2 місяці тому +5

    Absolutely not Goddess I know it's tough I got wrote up last week for my scores being lower so I overstand never quit I been cursed out for 2 years every day from this stressful job, just have a plan and don't quit or give up, sorry to hear that happened, these call center work from home jobs are mentally draining. I'm working this job so by next year I can do what i really want and work for myself and help others, you are doing great Goddess keep working towards your goals I overstand i have so many big dreams im working on outside my job so you will succeed on Divine Timing Peace and love 💚👑

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Goddess Amina I should've know you would be the one to really feel me. These jobs are beyond stressful and very mentally draining but you're right. I'm going to put a plan into place and GOD willing both of us will be walking away from these jobs doing sooner than later. Divine timing is truly everything 💚💚💚

    • @neferura2512
      @neferura2512 2 місяці тому +1

      @@_EvolvingIntoHER_ Absolutely Goddess you are in my prayers The Most High got us Peace and love 💚

  • @brendaburse8330
    @brendaburse8330 2 місяці тому +5

    Pray sis ask God for guidance 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jenniferirvin8801
    @jenniferirvin8801 2 місяці тому +1

    Sometimes a job is nothing more than a means to an end. You have goals! Stick with it till you know for sure what you really want, so you have no regrets.

  • @nola06
    @nola06 2 місяці тому +2

    I say quit but be smart about it. First, achieve those goals in order to keep the job which will keep the boss off your back and relieve some of the stress. Build your nest egg then quit. Sometimes we have to do what we don't like to get where we want to be. I'm watching and rooting for you.

  • @SaraKatz3
    @SaraKatz3 2 місяці тому +1

    Anything worth doing is terrifying. You know in your heart what to do. Anything worth doing is hard❤The higher energy you have does not compute with shitty ppl in customer service cussing you out. You will blow this app up and you know it. 😘 This is your sign. Do it. Do it for yourself. Yourself. You. You only have one life. Follow your heart ❤

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so freaking much Sara, you are right my energy is too high for this crap! 💚💚💚

  • @rebekaharchie5778
    @rebekaharchie5778 2 місяці тому +2

    Don’t quit . Hold on I know it’s hard. It will get better ❤

  • @IAM12441
    @IAM12441 2 місяці тому

    i’m rooting for you girl 🤍 very proud of you

  • @KimberlyStevens-y4y
    @KimberlyStevens-y4y 2 місяці тому +3

    Watching this video, please understand that faith and fear don't work together!! The decision is yours! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      You are right about that! Thank you, writing that one down! 💚

    • @KimberlyStevens-y4y
      @KimberlyStevens-y4y 2 місяці тому

      @@_EvolvingIntoHER_ I have been watching your videos periodically and must say I am very impressed with how you care for you and your family! I don't normally post but this video really touched me the most!! I really hope if you take a leap on faith don't leave room for fear! I'm wishing you the best in whatever you decide!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      You spoke mighty! Thank you again 💚

  • @twochicsadiy2596
    @twochicsadiy2596 2 місяці тому +1

    I totally understand how you feel but never make a permanent decision on temporary emotions. If you just cannot take it anymore just let them fire you and get your unemployment and that way you have some solid income flowing and you can use the free time to focus on your game plan. Blessings! and I will be praying for you.

  • @cherylmcleod1547
    @cherylmcleod1547 2 місяці тому +1

    It's going to get better just don't give up on yourself stay focused stay in prayer meditate fast as possible to your body type. Employment is needed to pay bills but donate hours in several days to plan your transition from employee to entrepreneur God bless you and your family peace prosperity love and light ❤

  • @cookingwuniquejae5115
    @cookingwuniquejae5115 2 місяці тому

    Hey lady hey peace and blessings too ya praying 🙏🙏 for u

  • @janicecarter-e4e
    @janicecarter-e4e 2 місяці тому

    Good morning Crystal. I am so glad that you had a chance to sleep on it and decided to NOT quit. UA-cam can be a very lucrative platform, BUT it's not a guarantee, and you've got 3 mouths depending on you, and I'm cheering for you to get everything you desire.
    Have you ever considered doing any of the delivery apps? I'm retired and wanted to make some extra income and started doing instacart, Door Dash, and grubhub. Folks laughed at me for doing it UNTIL they saw me bringing in up to $1,000 a week. It just depends on how much you wanna work and you control your schedule. Imagine e doing that and building up your bank account with a decent cushion and then being able to make decisions.
    You got this girl and I know your struggle ain't in vain. Struggles never are. Hang in there and keep loving on your self on the way. Have a GREAT week 😘

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Janice please pray that a delivery job works out for me because you are right and I definitely have thought about it, it would really be such a blessing in my life. 💚

  • @leahydbug
    @leahydbug 2 місяці тому +1

    You're doing great, from one mama to another. Am enjoying your content 🙏🏽❤

  • @cashappsb.s.5802
    @cashappsb.s.5802 2 місяці тому +6

    I'm listening and hearing you ,but don't quit any job it is to hard out Here my kids are grown ans I work full time and pick up shifts quick ! Money is always needed. Good luck with your decision 🙏🏿

  • @reneeanne9995
    @reneeanne9995 2 місяці тому +1

    This has been the most powerful vlog I’ve seen❤stay strong God will work it out for you ❤

  • @alicerawls3228
    @alicerawls3228 Місяць тому

    Unless you absolutely positive without the shadow of a doubt that this is what God wants you to do. Don’t quit the job unless you know for sure for sure. I know I’m old-school. I always believe in having a job before I leave a job. Cause I have seen some peoples leave a job and they take years before they can get a better job or even get a job.❤

  • @TheSweetPeaDiaries
    @TheSweetPeaDiaries 2 місяці тому +1

    Yes step out on faith! You are ready❤ it’s your time. This is your passion and God is trying to bless you with what your heart desires!

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Girl don't hype me up now lol, just playing. Thank you. I appreciate everything you've been telling me lately, for real 💚😢💯

    • @TheSweetPeaDiaries
      @TheSweetPeaDiaries 2 місяці тому

      @@_EvolvingIntoHER_ you got this!

  • @marydawkins2673
    @marydawkins2673 2 місяці тому +1

    Praying for you 🙏 hang in there.

  • @user-js7cw3yd4l
    @user-js7cw3yd4l 2 місяці тому

    Don't quit unless you have a second back up.
    But you know what a lot of times we run from something on one job and it's the same thing on another.
    Sometimes we have to bite the bullet so to speak and hange in there,I understand how you feel I have been in that same situation only to find out most jobs are the same except the pay might be a little less might be a little more.

  • @loreyrogers7275
    @loreyrogers7275 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m glad that you waited to quit your job. Your day is definitely coming soon ❤

  • @tamekasanders2958
    @tamekasanders2958 2 місяці тому

    Don’t quit! Just watching your content and you don’t look like a give of woman ❤ continue to keep your trust in God like you’re doing and everything going to continue to fall in place🥰🙏🙏🙏

  • @patriciajames356
    @patriciajames356 2 місяці тому +1

    No just find you a partime job and do ur content and at least you will have an steady income along with u tube good luck

  • @jillrose8083
    @jillrose8083 2 місяці тому

    I totally understand! Definitely believe in yourself! I love your videos! I do agree with the other comments. It is hard to find these jobs! It can be such a setback with no dependable funds coming in. I wish you could go part time ?? Ease into it. Hang in there!!!

  • @CarolynMckenzie-he8wu
    @CarolynMckenzie-he8wu 2 місяці тому +1

    Don't quit until you have enough money to hold you over. You said a few months ago how you got it going on and just to have faith in God. Now apply that same advice to yourself. Nothing is permanent. Explore your your options and trust God . He will bring you through ❤

  • @BETTYBOOPSTAT
    @BETTYBOOPSTAT 2 місяці тому +1

    I also add one last thought, none of this is natural. The way we are working to survive is so unnatural so of course it comes with burnout on the regular. Push through, your not alone sis at some point in life you will be able to find peace in existance.

  • @jaX-mg3ow
    @jaX-mg3ow 2 місяці тому

    Hi, your channel was in my newest,here is some Wisdom I give u much kuddos to u filming your life (I'm working on it for yrs)... act like you want too work ,set a goal,save,save, donot spend on stuff you Don't need or want... Stop! Buying!
    I don't no you situation,lol
    It will work out

  • @Longhairdontcare35
    @Longhairdontcare35 2 місяці тому

    Hey @Evolving ❤ I definitely understand your frustration and that feeling of punching in @ a gig that causes internal turmoil. I hope you are able to find something else. Keep pressing forward sis❤ I wouldn't quit until I have everything sorted out.

  • @ivytinag
    @ivytinag 2 місяці тому

    Sis!!! I can relate to what you are feeling! You made me cry because I really understand. I think you mentioned living in NC. I am CLT. I am 42 and moved here coming from a really stressful life and work situation. Keep your head up. If I can assist in your job search please let me know!

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Hey Ivy!!! Yes I'm in NC, happy to meet you my NC fam. I've been to where you live a few times. I am keeping my head up sis, thank you for the support 💚

  • @kent8763
    @kent8763 2 місяці тому +13

    Let me buy you a drink Thanks!

    • @ingridpagan5792
      @ingridpagan5792 2 місяці тому +5

      Give yourself a date to quit 1 month 2 months 3 months but you have to pick a date. Up till that date pay the things save the money and build your brand 🩷. Then when the date arrives have a party.

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you Ken, as always 💚 This will be just in time for my birthday coming up soon!

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      @ingridpagan5792 I think that might be of the best suggestions I’ve seen thus far! Thank you 💚

  • @purplelsa
    @purplelsa 2 місяці тому +1

    Hi. I am in a similar situation at this time too.. Just happened to see your video. Keep trying I think you are doing better than me.

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      If you are hanging in there then you're doing great too! Don't compare yourself to anyone but you 💚

  • @k.c.8872
    @k.c.8872 2 місяці тому

    This is the 3rd time that I’ve messaged in here 😂the first two comments I was at work on break so didn’t get a chance to watch the video. Now I’m home and just finished watching the rest. THANK THE GOOD LORD JESUS!!! That you didn’t quit your job! When I went inside after break I couldn’t stop thinking about you and what you were thinking about doing. Giiiirl I was stressed 😂😂😂 I too am looking for a better paying job.

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      You got me laughing with this comment KC 💚💚💚 I appreciate you, sorry I had you stressing for a minute there!

  • @brendaburse8330
    @brendaburse8330 2 місяці тому +3

    Hey Queen I feel you. Why don't you take a brief leave and see how it goes.

  • @cmcgu03
    @cmcgu03 2 місяці тому +1

    Follow your heart 💛 and move towards the vision you hold for your life. God is your source not a job. He is a provider and He will catch you when you take the leap of faith 🙏🏽

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      I like that, GOD is your source not a job! Thank you 💚

  • @BooneeCake
    @BooneeCake 2 місяці тому

    I know how you feel. It took me two years to find a descent gig. It’s difficult and can feel defeating, but hang in there. It’ll get better. Maybe do some independent contract work, which allows you to create your own schedule so you can focus on doing what you really enjoy. I did some stuff with Omni International for a little while til I was able to get myself together.

  • @samanthaartis318
    @samanthaartis318 2 місяці тому

    I've been following you for a couple of months now you are a very smart and beautiful intelligent young women. Try your best to drop the negative thoughts that's just the devil trying to hender you you are a child of the most high speak life into you and your children speak what you want give it to God our Father and have faith be disciplined and be obedient you got this just take it one day at a time your still young believe me I was the same and once I let go and let God all I can say he is everything pray plsams 91 over you and your children . Much 💘

  • @dotsonms
    @dotsonms 2 місяці тому

    Girl, I just watched the video put up today by Anthony the witness here on UA-cam. I think it might really speak to you like it did me and hopefully help in this struggle you're going through ❤

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Hey! It is the one about sleep being disturbed?

    • @dotsonms
      @dotsonms 2 місяці тому

      @@_EvolvingIntoHER_ yes! He talks about a lot more than sleep, especially the last 5 minutes really hit me

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Ok I’m going to watch it just wanted to make sure it was the right one!

  • @Adrian-s5r
    @Adrian-s5r 2 місяці тому

    You’re doing so well. I subscribed when you had less than 2k now you’re almost at 7!!! But I think you should keep your job unless it’s making you sick - stress is horrible on your body and mind! You need both to take care of your beautiful children. Try to stick it out for as long as possible. I know about high stress jobs they are no fun.

  • @quillatravone
    @quillatravone 2 місяці тому

    Pray and let God guide you. Everything happens at its appointed time and right now you’re being tested. I would say don’t quit. If anything let them fire you. (I pray that doesn’t happen) I hope things turn in your favor❤️.

  • @titutoyou
    @titutoyou 2 місяці тому

    There are a few definitions of the word channel. I want you to focus on this one: direct toward a particular end or object. You WILL have your stability and your freedom through your channel and how you channel. I say be still for the moment. Don’t rush your success and don’t rush your timeline, but find balance; Don’t wait for your success and don’t wait for permission to succeed. You *are* and you always have been a channeler.💚

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Another top tier comment, thank you Goddess. You knew just what to say, I needed that reminder 💚

  • @MsE711
    @MsE711 2 місяці тому

    I would say yes to quitting if you were alone. With having kids, I wouldn’t just yet. I’d set a timeframe of what you need to do and when you plan to leave your job.

  • @bellakellzzz
    @bellakellzzz 2 місяці тому +2

    Become a substitute teacher for a nearby school district, that way you can make your own work schedule to pursue other things.

    • @ListedInTheSouth
      @ListedInTheSouth 2 місяці тому +2

      @bellakellzzz... Oh, yea, this is a great suggestion.

  • @deniserogers9627
    @deniserogers9627 2 місяці тому +1

    No, do both until you get yourself established as a content creator being monetized, then make the decision. Two incomes is better than one none. I want you to persevere, keep your head up and get busy, you have everything you need within. Ask God for direction and let him lead you and stop feeling sorry for yourself and lean and depend on his direction. In Jesus name I pray 🙏🏾. Be blessed.

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 2 місяці тому +1

    do not quit u wont get unemployment stay til they fire u they want u to quit

  • @Brittwells_20
    @Brittwells_20 2 місяці тому

    Hey queen i been watching your channel for a while but never comment. I sent you an email. My advice is to go after your dreams !!!

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Queen! Did I miss respond to your email? I'm not sure if I got it. 💚

    • @Brittwells_20
      @Brittwells_20 2 місяці тому

      @@_EvolvingIntoHER_ I haven’t gotten a response yet let me go check

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      Was the email address correct?

  • @lynEE4477
    @lynEE4477 2 місяці тому

    Pray about it and go from there.

  • @giftednanointedcrafts6650
    @giftednanointedcrafts6650 2 місяці тому

    In my opinion,
    I wouldn't quit my job dear,
    before u do make sure u
    have enough cash saved up
    for survival such as food, bills, etc.
    Good luck with your decision.
    Oh, by the way You Tube
    would never be my only gig.
    have a second back up plan,
    Especially if u live alone. ✨💌

  • @Gypsyheart30
    @Gypsyheart30 2 місяці тому +2

    Staying in a job that's is not for you will drain you n cause health problems!! 🙏what does your intuition telling you?? If it's on your heart I would quit but that's me!

  • @heyhellohi_
    @heyhellohi_ 2 місяці тому

    I wouldn’t ever try to convince someone to not shoot their shot and take risks towards their dreams but, I think what would benefit you here is having a perspective shift. Why not see this job as the means of financially funding your dreams and spearheading your dreams? I think we let our jobs consume us far too much instead of having a level of detachment and swing your “job” as simply a funding source for your dreams. As long as you’re looking for jobs you like and feel more comfortable at, you’re continuing to align yourself to have a job forever. Versus seeing a “job” as a funding source for your actual dreams and aligning yourself with being able to financially contribute to your dreams (and that being all that job is). God is never calling us to suffer. It would be a bit foolish to quit a job before your social media/dreams take off. Shift your ENERGY and focus towards your dreams. That doesn’t mean abandoning your funding source (your place or employment AKA how you make your money and fund that dream). You have free will and you know what you’re called to do, at the end of the day so definitely take all I say with a grain of salt but I hate to see us being so emotionally affected our places of employment.

  • @simplyme922
    @simplyme922 2 місяці тому +1

    Wait for the termination. Real talk. You need that unemployment funding to help make ends meet. Then you can go all in while you look for another job. Unemployment funds are Hard to get if you quit.

  • @SannaGNR
    @SannaGNR 2 місяці тому

    I'll say what I say to anyone thinking about quitting for youtube. If the money from youtube is enough and stable, do it! If not, keep your job but start looking for something else that makes you happier. I have always left a job once it's taken a toll on my mental health and no job is worth your health. Jobs you can find, your health you, can't buy.

  • @eyeamphoenixluv717
    @eyeamphoenixluv717 2 місяці тому

    Quit. It’s not about the content creation. Quit because your energy is drained you’re unhappy and are unable to be who you are! Quit! I literally just quit my job I am honestly so scared but I know I’m favored and protected and I’m not even monetized yet lol I waited to get fired but it wasn’t happening lol my Spirit guides told me to Quit. Take a leap of faith and bet on yourself ❤

    • @_EvolvingIntoHER_
      @_EvolvingIntoHER_  2 місяці тому

      I need to stop playing with myself and walk in this type of faith in my life, you're so inspiring THANK YOU! You're right about everything too! 💚

  • @jaX-mg3ow
    @jaX-mg3ow 2 місяці тому +1

    DONOT QUIT!!! SAVE YOUR MONEY...

  • @Eleni-e7l
    @Eleni-e7l 2 місяці тому

    Don't quit yet just give them the minimum. But bust out them videos.

  • @k.c.8872
    @k.c.8872 2 місяці тому

    Hon I do understand how you feel but cannot quit you need money to pay bills. You’re feeling the blues right now. You can’t depend on utube. Wait till you build it up first. You’re in a funk don’t fired either bcuz that looks bad. I will be praying for you!🙏🙏🙏 I would like to quit my job too but I know I can’t.

  • @sheilalanier3205
    @sheilalanier3205 2 місяці тому +1

    Build up your desired brand and then quit! 👍

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 2 місяці тому +1

    ur going to screw urself over if u have no back up social media is already dying be smart move smart

  • @Jennie-wm3qj
    @Jennie-wm3qj 2 місяці тому +1

    I don't know what your job is, so I suggest that you give two weeks notice or whatever amount is required for them to replace you. Give what you are planning to do a try, and if it does not work out, then apply for another job. I wish you luck with whatever you decide to do 'cause we can suggest, but it is left up to you to decide what is best. Take care and thank you for sharing.

  • @ItsAshleySwain1
    @ItsAshleySwain1 26 днів тому

    🥹

  • @KimberlyStevens-y4y
    @KimberlyStevens-y4y 2 місяці тому +2

    Watching this video, please understand that faith and fear don't work together!! The decision is yours! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @JustNyCii
      @JustNyCii 2 місяці тому +1

      That part is detrimental 1000%