I largely agree, but that was a huge generalization on the family part. Some people DO have toxic parents and/or siblings that they distance away from. That is not exactly reflective of how they would treat their significant other. Although, they may develop some unhealthy traits - like being more closed off, less trusting. IMO a better judge of that character trait is assessing if they are genuinely a kind person by how they interact with the less fortunate. disabled, and elderly. Do they give up their seat on the metro, hold the doors for people, stingy with friends, etc. Also, idk if you hear this often, but you have really pretty eyes haha
'The love you are feeling right now is going to go away'? No, it doesn't apply to everyone. I know a couple who got married for 10 years still love each other so much.
I have never had a girlfriend and have been told its because of my personality. I'm 30 now and am still working on my personality, hopefully someone finds me as the right one.
What part of your personality do they say is the fault of your personality? Because I know men with terrible personalities who can still get girls. The reason they can is just because they are attractive.
@@jfs5873 attraction level/beauty is key 100 percent for initially getting your foot through the door. Without an actual goal in mind or something to work towards things will dwindle pretty fast. This is why we see the “douche-bag” archetype aka bad-boy never actually be able to retain the girl in the end. Most modern relationships only last around a year or two at max (if that) then people break up because you can’t have that same feeling of a “rush” or “excitement” aka the honeymoon phase because it never lasts forever like she even said in the video. Have goals in mind like a family, God, etc, and become the best version of yourself before you even enter the marriage market. Better to max out all your potential to get what you know you deserve, then to go into things rushed and settle for something you don’t actually want or need. Women also aren’t wired the same way men are. Men love women for real (idealistically), we imagine a life and put women on a high pedestal in our heads. We live to think the best of them. But most women (if not all) are practically all the same. They go into things more practically and look for what you can provide as a man. Very cookie cutter and cliche tbh, but it’s just the truth. A man with beauty will get through the door, and man with value like money or status can keep the ship sailing, but a man with intentions and plans/goals will have an actual set destination. You as the man just need to max out your stats and have an end goal, there’s no point of looking for short term, find you a woman who will be on YOUR program, follow YOUR end goal. Don’t just acquire the first two things like beauty and value, in order to heighten the probability of a successful marriage you need to have an end goal like creating a family, God (heaven/religion), goals are what’s going to fulfill and give you and your partner purpose. Not like these “bad-boys” or “mafia rich boss Andrew Tates”. We as men have a lot of work to do that’s for sure, but once we get there man, it’ll ALL be more than worth it 😎. Absolutely chilling once you have the say in which woman YOU want, and not the other way around. There will always be a power dynamic, nothings ever gonna be 50/50, nothing will ever be equal, but having good structure/ethics/morals will make everything 1000 times easier and more satisfying for everyone. My recommendation is religion for sure (in particular Islam). Islam is perfect, has zero flaws, there’s an answer to every question or doubt or persecution or disagreement. It has everything laid out for you, and you have all the purpose in the world with one sentence. La ilaha illallah. Living a life of knowledge, wisdom, discipline, dignity, and for Allah (God). It’ll suite you here and in the hereafter until the day of judgement. Quran has everything laid out for you entirely. We’re always learning 🤲
Why are you listening to other people. You need to distant yourself from toxic people like that. Remember it's you and your husband forever. Love each other and joke and play around with each other and build a future Stop making plans, if kids come, they come. But DO NOT listen to people ever. There are people who is jealous with your guys relationship and want to see you fail. Especially women. They don't like to see other women succeed. I've been married 28 years with my wife since we were young. I've experience toxic people who tries to rip you apart for being jealous. Now that I look back. That's what I see.
I would love to marry but marrying is just a way for the government to keep an eye on your relationship status. If I ever do end up marrying a girl from overseas or from another country and I know that she’s the right one then I believe marriage is sustainable
I largely agree, but that was a huge generalization on the family part. Some people DO have toxic parents and/or siblings that they distance away from. That is not exactly reflective of how they would treat their significant other. Although, they may develop some unhealthy traits - like being more closed off, less trusting. IMO a better judge of that character trait is assessing if they are genuinely a kind person by how they interact with the less fortunate. disabled, and elderly. Do they give up their seat on the metro, hold the doors for people, stingy with friends, etc.
Also, idk if you hear this often, but you have really pretty eyes haha
Single here, but definitely want to share this video to some of my coupled friends who I worry about...
I ain't even had a GF yet. But I'll just save this for years later rotfl
Same. I'm 5'6 and I doubt I'll ever be able to find a girl interested in me
'The love you are feeling right now is going to go away'? No, it doesn't apply to everyone. I know a couple who got married for 10 years still love each other so much.
I have never had a girlfriend and have been told its because of my personality. I'm 30 now and am still working on my personality, hopefully someone finds me as the right one.
What part of your personality do they say is the fault of your personality? Because I know men with terrible personalities who can still get girls. The reason they can is just because they are attractive.
@@jfs5873 They never say which part of my personality, so I assume it’s the physical part.
@@jfs5873 attraction level/beauty is key 100 percent for initially getting your foot through the door. Without an actual goal in mind or something to work towards things will dwindle pretty fast. This is why we see the “douche-bag” archetype aka bad-boy never actually be able to retain the girl in the end. Most modern relationships only last around a year or two at max (if that) then people break up because you can’t have that same feeling of a “rush” or “excitement” aka the honeymoon phase because it never lasts forever like she even said in the video. Have goals in mind like a family, God, etc, and become the best version of yourself before you even enter the marriage market. Better to max out all your potential to get what you know you deserve, then to go into things rushed and settle for something you don’t actually want or need. Women also aren’t wired the same way men are. Men love women for real (idealistically), we imagine a life and put women on a high pedestal in our heads. We live to think the best of them. But most women (if not all) are practically all the same. They go into things more practically and look for what you can provide as a man. Very cookie cutter and cliche tbh, but it’s just the truth. A man with beauty will get through the door, and man with value like money or status can keep the ship sailing, but a man with intentions and plans/goals will have an actual set destination. You as the man just need to max out your stats and have an end goal, there’s no point of looking for short term, find you a woman who will be on YOUR program, follow YOUR end goal. Don’t just acquire the first two things like beauty and value, in order to heighten the probability of a successful marriage you need to have an end goal like creating a family, God (heaven/religion), goals are what’s going to fulfill and give you and your partner purpose. Not like these “bad-boys” or “mafia rich boss Andrew Tates”. We as men have a lot of work to do that’s for sure, but once we get there man, it’ll ALL be more than worth it 😎. Absolutely chilling once you have the say in which woman YOU want, and not the other way around. There will always be a power dynamic, nothings ever gonna be 50/50, nothing will ever be equal, but having good structure/ethics/morals will make everything 1000 times easier and more satisfying for everyone. My recommendation is religion for sure (in particular Islam). Islam is perfect, has zero flaws, there’s an answer to every question or doubt or persecution or disagreement. It has everything laid out for you, and you have all the purpose in the world with one sentence. La ilaha illallah. Living a life of knowledge, wisdom, discipline, dignity, and for Allah (God). It’ll suite you here and in the hereafter until the day of judgement. Quran has everything laid out for you entirely. We’re always learning 🤲
Why are you listening to other people. You need to distant yourself from toxic people like that. Remember it's you and your husband forever. Love each other and joke and play around with each other and build a future Stop making plans, if kids come, they come. But DO NOT listen to people ever. There are people who is jealous with your guys relationship and want to see you fail. Especially women. They don't like to see other women succeed. I've been married 28 years with my wife since we were young. I've experience toxic people who tries to rip you apart for being jealous. Now that I look back. That's what I see.
I would love to marry but marrying is just a way for the government to keep an eye on your relationship status. If I ever do end up marrying a girl from overseas or from another country and I know that she’s the right one then I believe marriage is sustainable
He or She should privode enough emotional value for you!😀😁😂
Money don't matter?? wow show how many women married broke guys got nothing in divorce
people have different reasons to get married , some for the pursuit of pure love, and some not
You're so beautiful
Hello, you are gorgeous :)