Once we lost a loved one our life will never be the same! It is more painful when that love is the love that makes our life's the person that we are. Once the loved one is gone our life will be miserable till the day we die. I've lost my baby daughter 28 years ago and as today every single day of my life I wake up giving her a good morning and a good night. That's the human side. I lost my female German Shepherd RINA on September 11 of this year and we all know that date. Every day I cry for her, she was my pride, that's the animal side of grief! When you truly truly love someone your life will be marked. Best way to deal with it is.......not available. We can go to all therapies, counseling, chat groups etc. And will never, never be the same. Grief counseling is nothing but a chat room with people talking about their loss, once you left the room life goes back to the grief. You can momentarily forget about it cause you're busy, but all it takes is a snap of a finger and immediately you go to base one. I've use to be a successful business owner, now I can care less. I wish there's a way to live a normal life. Great video, kind regards from BC.
It's true life is not the same in certain ways and even though I've lost all my grandparents, many pets over the years plus an aunt and uncle I still find happiness because life is beautiful. And even though my beautiful dear mother who has terminal cancer I just can't allow myself to wither like that as I've a wonderful beautiful husband , a kind hearted father , two sisters, many awesome friends and a good life. I know losing my mother will have been the saddest and hardest loss I'll ever experience. BUT I'm planting the seeds now to excel in my life, be strong and love my life and myself enough to be joyful feel gratitude in everyday living because she'll always want this for me. She will be missed but I'm making great memories with her now .. A friend of mine said it took her a few years to adjust after losing her mother and of course still misses her parents, however she finds peace in God, and she sings , writes music and also rescued several dogs from the shelter and got her bachelors degree in psychology. My father admits you'll never be the same but you will be ok. I still see him exercise, work in the yard , enjoying life and having a good sense of humor and this is how I choose to live my life as well. Honoring my awesome mother by being happy and helping people and animals. Even during the days I'm hurting, I vow to do everything possible to find peace and joy. Life is too short to be miserable. My mom wants the best for me. Its my last chance to be her daughter so I'm taking her everywhere I can while she's able to enjoy her life I love her so ooo much 😍
This video is a huge help for me at this time. My wife of 24years passed away last month from brain cancer. One day at a time for me and our 4 children. So difficult right now.
I am surprised to learn that grief is directly proportional to love. I didn't know I loved so hard.
Once we lost a loved one our life will never be the same! It is more painful when that love is the love that makes our life's the person that we are. Once the loved one is gone our life will be miserable till the day we die. I've lost my baby daughter 28 years ago and as today every single day of my life I wake up giving her a good morning and a good night. That's the human side. I lost my female German Shepherd RINA on September 11 of this year and we all know that date. Every day I cry for her, she was my pride, that's the animal side of grief! When you truly truly love someone your life will be marked. Best way to deal with it is.......not available. We can go to all therapies, counseling, chat groups etc. And will never, never be the same. Grief counseling is nothing but a chat room with people talking about their loss, once you left the room life goes back to the grief. You can momentarily forget about it cause you're busy, but all it takes is a snap of a finger and immediately you go to base one. I've use to be a successful business owner, now I can care less. I wish there's a way to live a normal life. Great video, kind regards from BC.
It's true life is not the same in certain ways and even though I've lost all my grandparents, many pets over the years plus an aunt and uncle I still find happiness because life is beautiful. And even though my beautiful dear mother who has terminal cancer I just can't allow myself to wither like that as I've a wonderful beautiful husband , a kind hearted father , two sisters, many awesome friends and a good life. I know losing my mother will have been the saddest and hardest loss I'll ever experience. BUT I'm planting the seeds now to excel in my life, be strong and love my life and myself enough to be joyful feel gratitude in everyday living because she'll always want this for me. She will be missed but I'm making great memories with her now .. A friend of mine said it took her a few years to adjust after losing her mother and of course still misses her parents, however she finds peace in God, and she sings , writes music and also rescued several dogs from the shelter and got her bachelors degree in psychology. My father admits you'll never be the same but you will be ok. I still see him exercise, work in the yard , enjoying life and having a good sense of humor and this is how I choose to live my life as well. Honoring my awesome mother by being happy and helping people and animals. Even during the days I'm hurting, I vow to do everything possible to find peace and joy. Life is too short to be miserable. My mom wants the best for me. Its my last chance to be her daughter so I'm taking her everywhere I can while she's able to enjoy her life
I love her so ooo much 😍
Thanks for this video, it has helped me to understand my own grieving process as I lost my pet dog one month ago.
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This video is a huge help for me at this time. My wife of 24years passed away last month from brain cancer. One day at a time for me and our 4 children. So difficult right now.
I can sum it up pretty easily, losing your soulmate is bullshit.
How so??