Time as an object became important to me when I could not let go of my brother, with whom I was close only in childhood. Now we are both in our 70s. He scapegoated me in recent years, and disappeared from my parental family, including me, in the mid 1970s. It finally dawned on me that I could only think of good memories from childhood and that my mind was apparently inflexible. Once I considered time, I could update my awareness of all the years that have passed. He was no longer the lost, little boy. I had to think of him as he is now, not then. I have since corrected time, to now, and no longer carry him around inside of my present day emotions. This experience tells me that many of us, likely, carry around our outdated childhood feelings of parents and siblings. These emotions probably keep parts of ourselves trapped in the past. Is time an object or a relation? I'll need to reflect on this question, especially since my topic is an intrusion on Dr. Kavaler-Adler's presentation, apologies.
In this video I love it. It's like a Van Gogh painting coming alive. This is the only video I noticed this far with this issue so I love the quirkiness of it
Time as an object became important to me when I could not let go of my brother, with whom I was close only in childhood. Now we are both in our 70s. He scapegoated me in recent years, and disappeared from my parental family, including me, in the mid 1970s.
It finally dawned on me that I could only think of good memories from childhood and that my mind was apparently inflexible.
Once I considered time, I could update my awareness of all the years that have passed. He was no longer the lost, little boy. I had to think of him as he is now, not then. I have since corrected time, to now, and no longer carry him around inside of my present day emotions. This experience tells me that many of us, likely, carry around our outdated childhood feelings of parents and siblings. These emotions probably keep parts of ourselves trapped in the past.
Is time an object or a relation? I'll need to reflect on this question, especially since my topic is an intrusion on Dr. Kavaler-Adler's presentation, apologies.
OK, time is the object. I did a rewind. I think my comments fit. 🤔
i am impressed by object relations therapy. It has helped me in so many ways. I love the creativity behind the therapy.
Most helpful and thoughtful.
Please use a tripod. Camera movement is dizzying. Information is great.
In this video I love it. It's like a Van Gogh painting coming alive. This is the only video I noticed this far with this issue so I love the quirkiness of it
if it's true i understand how you feel, not cool... but it is probably better to raise the issue personally with her instead
what!? How dare you tell all about our sessions!!!! Betrayed! You could've kept my brother's suicide out of it.