5. Fear of Success: The Object Relations View
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- This is Part 5 of the mini-video series "Object Relations View", on introduction to the Object Relations clinical theory and technique.
Dr. Kavaler-Adler opens up a difficult topic of fear of success (which is related to self-sabotage), and describes it through clinical examples.
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hehe! I love your Freudian slip at 37 secs. I have really enjoyed these videos :) Thanks for putting them together.
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Fear of aggression from our internal objects. Envy and resentment. Sarcastic remarks, murderous feelings. Injury, murderous attack. Fear of the patent. Fear of separation. Very Kleinian. That’s very helpful
"My graduation is my mother's funeral"... i like that
My mother's ashes are still in a box, kept in a paper bag on the top shelf of my favorite hardwood book case. It's been 9 years, now, since she passed at 107 years. OMG!
Mothers make us or break us. My mom raised me to be a housewife and mother, as she was. Both my much older sisters were steered into college and careers. She made me feel not smart about myself. I have my retirement funds in the stock market, which I manage. It's been a big challenge and struggle, having lost significant funds over these years. Now, that I'm actually making money...I feel GUILTY! WTF is this about? Is it fear of success, or have I been repressing murderous feeling of rage toward my mother? (That I camouflage via my unending love of her?)
This gets complex! I will listen, again.
hey thanks so much for putting out these videos I am finding them very educational
I certainly wish that we could revive dialog here. These videos are amazingly helpful and forgotten with so many new, but not better modalities.
@@bellakrinkle9381 so very true! I am still dialoguing lol check out be yourself and love it podcast
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