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This is useful, as someone training as an integrative psychotherapist. Thanks !

Wow this is just what I was speaking with my therapist about this week. I saw this video & was curious about the terms. Love the algorithms timing

This lecture explains the dynamic I grew up in , and it’s the first time I’ve heard the dynamic of the scapegoat explained in such detail . And not to be negative or project too much but it’s very disheartening to experience the audio quality in such a poor state. It seems more like a network lag the way it cuts in and out. I was barely following and the lecturer can’t seem to manage not being constantly distracted by the comments! I have to leave unfortunately. I mean turn the comments off if you can’t Manage. Good information though, I’ll take these points and study elsewhere. Cheers

This is very much appreciated. It would be great if you did this to all the videos which have got bad audio. Thank you from mexico🙂

Very good explanation, thank you

your volume is a little low, just FYI.. using a laptop in a quiet room (with admittedly not the best speakers, but not the cheapest either) and it is a bit difficult to hear at max volume (checked both youtube and my PC and both are maxed). I'm in my mid 30s, not hard of hearing. anyway, I'm not in a position to participate in your class but I hope it goes well

How can someone sign up for this, and are there any CEUs available?

Always valuable. Helped me understand me better than anything else

Will the lectures be uploaded here?

Brilliant ideas

This was excellent

Thank you for your human excellence. May God enter into your heart, so the Source of all life welcomes you to our real home: heaven with Jesus.

Thank you it is very good. How can i participate in your 4 hour monthly group?

You must have been an unusually smart, intuitive kid. If only the public school system would teach basic emotions that we all will encounter in life.

You've described perfectly how I awaken these days, cringing about the discovery of how far my savings have dropped in today's financial markets - I know, off topic - apologies. Now, I will listen from the beginning now that I've discharged my expression of how not to wake up, daily. Two nights ago I dreamt that I lost everything, therefore, I needed to move back to my mother's house for refuge. She's been gone nine years now. OMG, I have residual feelings to work out!

Dr. Susan Kvaler-Adler is the perfect example of why individuals who live in the western US seek out NYC psychoanalysts. They know more and are well experienced.

I listened to this again, today. Susan's words described my childhood relationship with my parents, so clearly. This is why many folks explore psychoanalysis. I wish everyone could hear this video.

Brilliant

Thank you for your very helpful and professional videos!

Today I know nothing about anything - especially about the crazy world outside of myself. Geopolitics, wow! I'm just happy that I feel I picked the best analyst for me, after shuffling through many others. You.

I had a dream early morning that parallels the father muse who was an "Appraiser" in the dream. This is a fascinating topic! Many thanks!. I could mourn my father's death, it took a year, following his passing. What about my mother? She died in 2015, and it's taken me 10 years to unravel our complex, disheveled relationship. Her ashes are still on the top shelf of my best bookcase. 2024 will be the year that I can mourn her loss, now that I've been able to put all the pieces together. It's a tragic story.

This video rings true to me. I'd like to add that it's not only relevant to artists, writers, creative women in general. As a child I was aware that my father attempted to learn about the stock markets. I always regretted that my father never truly took time to interact with any of his young children, except my brother, regarding tennis and hunting. I became fascinated by technical trading - this certainly evolved from my curiosity as a child. And my attachment was to my father, not mother.

Mothers make us or break us. My mom raised me to be a housewife and mother, as she was. Both my much older sisters were steered into college and careers. She made me feel not smart about myself. I have my retirement funds in the stock market, which I manage. It's been a big challenge and struggle, having lost significant funds over these years. Now, that I'm actually making money...I feel GUILTY! WTF is this about? Is it fear of success, or have I been repressing murderous feeling of rage toward my mother? (That I camouflage via my unending love of her?) This gets complex! I will listen, again.

Time as an object became important to me when I could not let go of my brother, with whom I was close only in childhood. Now we are both in our 70s. He scapegoated me in recent years, and disappeared from my parental family, including me, in the mid 1970s. It finally dawned on me that I could only think of good memories from childhood and that my mind was apparently inflexible. Once I considered time, I could update my awareness of all the years that have passed. He was no longer the lost, little boy. I had to think of him as he is now, not then. I have since corrected time, to now, and no longer carry him around inside of my present day emotions. This experience tells me that many of us, likely, carry around our outdated childhood feelings of parents and siblings. These emotions probably keep parts of ourselves trapped in the past. Is time an object or a relation? I'll need to reflect on this question, especially since my topic is an intrusion on Dr. Kavaler-Adler's presentation, apologies.

There are very few psychoanalysts with an online presence; I think now, I understand why not. I did have an unresolved, unsuccessful, traditional Freudian analysis decades ago I only remember telling him my sleep dreams which he could not interpret. He evaluated the issues, but not well trained yet, he was not able to move the analysis forward. I finally terminated myself. Many decades later, when needing to have a good analysis I decided to psychoanalyze myself, without following traditional Freudian modalities. I examined my dysfunctional childhood, parents and siblings, based on very early childhood memories. I've freed myself from both anxiety and depression, therefore, I consider my experience successful. My self psychoanalysis was purely Experiential, based on those childhood memories and occasional reading bits of Freud and Jung. I have a few notebooks of dreams, some of which are of being an infant, which I cannot recall. I need help interpreting some major points of my analysis that I cannot unravel myself. I'm also autistic, something that I have completely ignored until the last few days. I now understand why I've been self focused, being an introvert, etc. I've also just recently become aware of Object Relation theories which seems to be similar to how I created some construct for unraveling family dysfunction. I'm hoping that Dr. Susan Kaveler-Alder can help interpret what I don't yet understand.Thank you for sharing this important interview. Well done.

OMGosh, I wish everyone could listen to this video! I eliminated all depression via my personal analysis. I had tons of depression, yet I never could specify the feelings or causes...it came and went in waves, sometimes lasting weeks as I reworked my childhood! ( blocked emotions from what you say, here.) Freudians speak of depression originating from infantile oral, anal, phallic, or genital stages. (??) My experience regarding depression is that it develops as we get immersed in our childhood dysfunctional families - then we are emotionally trapped Object Relation Theory is the way to go, most definitely.

This was educational in that it brought back memories of dreams, my employment situations from a period I left out while self analyzing. And of course I was scapegoated in childhood. No doubt I became my critical mother in two failed relationships. The object relationship base in very useful as opposed to traditional Freudian which is all about drives. Thank you.

I've been searching for a Fairbaignian analyst. I terminated a traditional 8+ year Freudian analysis because we were spinning our wheels. He was learning the process; I was delusional. Decades later I because my own analyst - I, this month - discovered Fairbairrn. I believe my self analysis was closest to Fairbairgn. He seemed to have had the best interpretation of how object relations are formed. I am needing a female analyst to assist me interpreting dreams about being an infant - I recorded these dreams in my early 20s. Fairbairn is important and is sadly overlooked. How do I know? Because, I have never seen any positive glowing praise of traditional Freudian Psychoanalysis online.

I'd love to send this video to my friends, but no one would understand it. This only implies that most folks are completely unaware of their unconscious patterns of self sabotage. I love psychoanalysis. How can anyone get their life together without it

OMG This is wonderful. Creative, witty, clever and entertaining. I'm only half way through...PLEEZE extend 👶

I use this to fall asleep

The inadequate parts of them are actually the projections of their parents. Which is why in the end they must destroy us. In the shared fantasy, we go from representing an idealised version of their parent they never had, to representing what they lies them the most. The parent that broke them to the point of invisibility.

This was awesome. Thank you.

Please work on the production of these videos- because the content is so interesting- but the production is terrible.

Hello Dr. Blackman. You treated me a long time ago for anxiety/depression. I'm glad to see you're doing well. I too am well and haven't had a recurrence of symptoms. I wish you the best.

I don’t understand the mechanism of PI. It seems impossible to me. How do you put a part of yourself *into* another person? Frankly, it sounds like something someone would say if they didn’t want to own and take responsibility for their own reactions. “Oh, but those aren’t my feelings, they’re *your* feelings, which you have put into me.” I mean, what? Talk about shifting the blame.

This was really good. Thank you.

You break things down brilliantly

There is great content here but it's soooo hard to watch. The camera seems like it's bobbing around at sea and she can't pronounce narcissism correctly!

Please work on the audio - your content is waaay too valuable for this. Thank you 🙏🏽

The music sucks

Where's the entire video?

If a therapist is helping you, why would you go and rip them apart. Some people's psyche is so twisted.

Could this be related to histrionic personality disorder?

Thank you very much for this video, dear Dr. Susan Kavaler-Adler

Love Klein. Thank you

She looks like Fred Armisen

Fascinating. My two "rules" of writing (for myself) are Watch the movie and Just like in "real life," people show up for a reason. When a character shows up I know their backstory, what makes them tick, even if they are minor to the plot. As far as "watching the movie" is concerned, if you cannot see it, feel it, experience it with all of your senses, don't write it, or don't write that day. These "rules" have made writing pleasurable for me. I have spent my life in the movie business and read over a thousand scripts, and in only a handful have I felt that the writer experienced any pleasure in writing them. Oh: The belletristic elements come naturally if you're experiencing the pleasure of writing. No need to force or contrive them.

This content seems wonderful, but I could not comprehend it due to audio cut-outs. Just registered for the workshop. Missed the workshop but am hoping there is a recording that will be available afterwards.