Being Single in Your 30s| Is Marriage for everyone? Society pressure, Purity and Enjoying the Season

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  • @pendoafrikka
    @pendoafrikka 7 місяців тому +128

    I got married at 33yrs,only dated for 6 months , indeed God is faithful.”When the time is right ,I the Lord will make it happen “ was my mantra in waiting.

    • @annatte9624
      @annatte9624 7 місяців тому +2

      We thank God for you and ask him to do it for us. Amen

    • @pollabeauty
      @pollabeauty 7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for this testimony! Iam also waiting, and believing God to do it for me

    • @jereking254
      @jereking254 7 місяців тому +1

      God is so faithful that He presents a suitor to every women from the age of 16 years when He bestows readiness for motherhood, but modernity's "right to choose" has now made women quite picky. Unfortunately, people have developed their own programmes such as education, career etc. When a woman misses on this opportunity/offer they start praying for another chance. But the choices keep on dwindling.

    • @DelphisterNyirenda-rv3dl
      @DelphisterNyirenda-rv3dl 7 місяців тому

      Amen trusting God's processe

    • @kemigaborosebell8436
      @kemigaborosebell8436 7 місяців тому

      i got married at 34yrs ,only dated 4 3months !victory belongs to jesus.Amen

  • @kekiplus1andonly
    @kekiplus1andonly 7 місяців тому +9

    Marriage is not everyone 😅😅😅😅and being single can be a blessing sometimes, enjoy every season of your life

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      💯Counting our blessings in every season of our lives!!

  • @treasureatuhaire
    @treasureatuhaire 7 місяців тому +40

    "I believe that God is not holding anything good away from me." That's deep girl!!! I like you and the energy you exude.

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +2

      He really is a good good Father!! 😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +1

      The faith that He has a good plan!🎊

  • @graceshisa6738
    @graceshisa6738 7 місяців тому +35

    This is inspirational! Never seen someone so content and comfortable in their singleness. Sometimes we fear to ask the question ‘what if I never get married?’ especially because of the society we live in.
    Thank you Lisa for bringing her on set✨✨

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @robbycarson4999
      @robbycarson4999 7 місяців тому

      U feel that way cuz society has brainwashed a lot of us into conforming to what they believe is the right way to live by stigmatizing those that don't line up!! There r so many miserable souls trapped in marriages esp females that they don't want. Society pushed into into it thru families n religious leaders! Otherwise, they wouldn't be married if they had the guts to stand their ground!!
      Bottom line, don't let anybody bully u into marriage or having kids u don't want! Take charge of your life as adult n don't let anybody tell you what to do with yo life period!!

  • @ThembyTisha1
    @ThembyTisha1 7 місяців тому +16

    I resonate with a lot of Sheilla's views. At 39 never married with not kids i think as you grow older and invested in things that interest you, marriage becomes a secondary need.

    • @ziwer1
      @ziwer1 7 місяців тому

      Totulimba!

  • @Royalty_t
    @Royalty_t 7 місяців тому +18

    I like how she is content within herself, fact is married or single you need that trait because marriage won't solve all your problems. I wish her well in her future, whatever that looks like, obvious beautiful things❤

  • @cynthiashitsukane
    @cynthiashitsukane 7 місяців тому +20

    I'm turning 30 soon, single Christian actively waiting. I relate with a lot of your ideas except for the part of being okay with being single. I really desire marriage but I'm scared of doing it without God. In as much as I want it badly, I want to do it God's way. That's why I will wait amidst the doubts and worries. I'm just working on trusting God and accepting that he doesn't withhold good things from me. Thank you for this interview, it has given me hope in God.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +1

      Such a good lesson. God wants everything good for you

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +1

      So glad you're choosing to trust God. He doesn't disappoint and always does over and above what we ask. He is good!!🤗 May He show Himself off in and through you🙏🏾

    • @cynthiashitsukane
      @cynthiashitsukane 7 місяців тому

      @@sheilawavamunno9372 Thank you

    • @norahpounds5776
      @norahpounds5776 7 місяців тому +1

      He is a faithful and dependable God who is not a man to lie. His promises are yes and amen

  • @rachellorna5109
    @rachellorna5109 7 місяців тому +21

    Wow! A lady so aware of who she is in Christ. So aware of who God is and how He works! Powerful conversation 👏. Thanks Sheila and Lisa ❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +2

      You’re so welcome

    • @atugonzajulljoy1662
      @atugonzajulljoy1662 7 місяців тому +1

      Knowing who she is will lead her life to the right partner

  • @beingndeshyk4602
    @beingndeshyk4602 7 місяців тому +24

    The most authentic&honest interview ever❤

  • @lynnokumu9159
    @lynnokumu9159 7 місяців тому +15

    Honestly sometimes you are single and its really not your fault. The church prepares people for marriage but never for singlehood. What if you'll never get married is a very good question. Contentment that comes from God is what we need. Thank you Lisa. I honestly love these videos on singlehood. God bless you!!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Thanks for the comment. I’m honored

  • @aggiekisakye674
    @aggiekisakye674 7 місяців тому +16

    I love her honesty. And God, this was such a beautiful and unique conversation. Our lives are literally written down on stone, go to school, work and get married. And we end up depressed when things don't go in that order. More grace Lord, more grace.❤

  • @jemimahnorah5631
    @jemimahnorah5631 7 місяців тому +36

    This is such a breath of fresh air on the social streets.. I’ve never resonated with anyone like I did with Sheilla.. People make you seem so abnormal when your not actively thinking about marriage.. Thanks Lisa, This one was it for me.

  • @mercynuwatuha7718
    @mercynuwatuha7718 Місяць тому +1

    I would love to meet Sheila …it’s hard to meet people like you and your way of thinking I love it for you. And atleast there are still good and honest people in this world…you have made me still believe in humans

  • @rehemakiiryam3456
    @rehemakiiryam3456 4 місяці тому +2

    Always authentic ❤. Great advice to all the singles. Rock the singleness as you wait.

  • @norahpounds5776
    @norahpounds5776 7 місяців тому +3

    I love you Sheila my dear OG, you are such an intelligent lady. May God make all things beautiful for you in His timing in Jesus' name amen

  • @kelly8973
    @kelly8973 7 місяців тому +3

    Almost 40 and also accepting that i may not get married. However when told i had chances of getting problems as a woman... i was advised to give birth... i had to.. being a health worker... but yes.... it is well... God is so good... and life is awesome.... married or not...

  • @Kshanice25
    @Kshanice25 7 місяців тому +11

    Lisa thank you so much for bringing this guest she really spoke from her heart and this is a conversation we need to have, it is okay if one doesnt get married it is not a crime

  • @irmamedom7256
    @irmamedom7256 7 місяців тому +3

    What a gracious and honest lady . Thank you ma'am. I've learnt a lot from you

  • @amyitogot5088
    @amyitogot5088 7 місяців тому +6

    Glad to find someone who still holds onto tne Christian values of abstinence regardless of how long the wait maybe. True love waits. Recently someone was telling me that abstinence is an old adage. I am glad to find this great content. Leave it to God.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Our reward is from God🎊🎊

  • @zulphurpoems1546
    @zulphurpoems1546 7 місяців тому +7

    iam making 30 soon, i thought i was really late for marriage. have just got this wonderful encouragement and i know all is well

  • @nancysimiyu3107
    @nancysimiyu3107 7 місяців тому +8

    Woooooowwww....Is she for real?? Her wisdom, Intelligence, Poise, Articulation, Authenticity, Purity, Faith in God.... am mind blown by her...amazing interview!!!

  • @marionk7915
    @marionk7915 6 місяців тому +2

    This is so good. Thank you so much Sheila. God is really good, the peace you have despite what society says can only come from God. Thank you for proclaiming God’s goodness. My take home is that God, my good loving father is not withholding anything good from me. Thank you again

  • @maureennamukemo9310
    @maureennamukemo9310 7 місяців тому +3

    NO Am Getting Married Whether the Devil or God Agrees or Not plus have Kids am not going to consol myself I want the whole package to hell with being ok being sing NO NO NO

    • @mercyauma9592
      @mercyauma9592 7 місяців тому

      Amen and may the right man locate you this year 🙏

  • @nampombaray4688
    @nampombaray4688 7 місяців тому +13

    I luv the way Lisa is very respectful in ha interview questions.❤😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Thank you

    • @Kshanice25
      @Kshanice25 7 місяців тому +1

      True she is, I wd recommend anyone to be on her show, she is sensitive to people's feelings and careful with her words

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      @@Kshanice25 thank you so much ☺️

  • @BenahPretty
    @BenahPretty 7 місяців тому +11

    We started dating in January, he went home for kukyala in August and Introduction ceremony was in December. God's timing is the best.

  • @mapusanonkulukusa9465
    @mapusanonkulukusa9465 6 місяців тому +3

    This conversation has been everything! I reasonate with Sheila on many aspects! In my early thirties single and my take home from this is that "Its about how you believe who God is" he truly isn't withholding anything good from me!!!

  • @linaagaba6466
    @linaagaba6466 7 місяців тому +10

    I have never related so much and never felt so seen and recognised like with Sheila. Sheila, God Bless you sooo much. You mirror me and maybe others with what you have shared. Thank you for this and being open and honest about something we are afraid to talk about with family and friends. wow..Thank You Lisa for bringing her. God Bless you

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for sharing. I’m glad you felt seen😍

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +2

      This is very encouraging🤗!! Thank you @linaagaba6466. We really aren't alone on this journey!

  • @kisaalitamicheal2132
    @kisaalitamicheal2132 7 місяців тому +4

    Am 33 no kids, not married but man single life a time sucks... But I trust God above all else.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Didn’t know it was hard for men as well.

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      Amen to trusting God above all!! And to seeing the beauty in the season 🙏🏾

    • @anethjoseph355
      @anethjoseph355 7 місяців тому +1

      God will at his time

  • @maggiematovu8735
    @maggiematovu8735 7 місяців тому +10

    Wow beautiful Sheila, my take is the love of God, he will not withhold anything. Singleness is a gift. Let's trust God because he is worthy of our trust.

    • @lenonjebeauty1444
      @lenonjebeauty1444 7 місяців тому

      Me too.. Her mind is so positive

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      🎊🎊

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +1

      @maggiematovu8735 Singleness is a riyo riyo gift!! To making the most of it as we trust the Giver of it!!🤗

  • @MsNamara2
    @MsNamara2 7 місяців тому +6

    Sheila’s skin is flawless 👌

  • @maltarpeddy
    @maltarpeddy 7 місяців тому +5

    I personally know Sheila and she’s such an amazing soul. So intelligent and poised. I believe her Boaz is out there being moulded by God. When he’s ready, he’ll come.
    God’s timing…

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Indeed 🥳🥳

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +1

      Maltar❤🇰🇪🤩 You're very kind!! Thank you! Good to know you watch this channel!!

    • @maltarpeddy
      @maltarpeddy 7 місяців тому +1

      @@sheilawavamunno9372 yes dear, you know I’m Ugandan 🇺🇬 in spirit and support Ugandans 😄

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      Ofcourse you are😂😂😂

    • @nakilabilasauda7827
      @nakilabilasauda7827 7 місяців тому

      Thanks for standing and acting on purity @@sheilawavamunno9372

  • @ckkevinkigen4968
    @ckkevinkigen4968 7 місяців тому +2

    She has Christ in her. Its nowadays becoming abnormal to be single and keeping pure. but never give up.

  • @aureliamunene2730
    @aureliamunene2730 7 місяців тому +4

    Sheila is beautiful in and out. My mum always says there is no life that is more ideal than the other. I think there are many ladies out there like Sheila, to whom marriage and children are not the defining part of their life.

  • @mansoorlubega9706
    @mansoorlubega9706 7 місяців тому +4

    Ba Jjajja baalugera dda nti: "Entasiima ebulwa agiwa".
    Tusiimye bwongerwa ba nnyabo, abazaana ba Kabaka.
    Omusomesa wa leero asomesezza bulungi ddala. Nange kati sigenda kupapa newankubadde nga ntuuse ku mwaliiro ogw'okuna.
    Kannyongere okukowoola Jjajja Nnabuzaana abannyongerere emikisa, kamaala. Era nange nsaabusikulayibingiddewo.
    Akuume, atakuumira mpeera, nga bulijjo.

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +1

      Okowole ani?! Webale okuddamu mmu luliimi lwaffe.. Omutonzi akuume🙏🏾

    • @mansoorlubega9706
      @mansoorlubega9706 7 місяців тому +1

      Wewaawo.
      Kantwaale akakisa kano okukwebazamu ak'ensusso okutulyoowa emyoyo with such an inspirational lecture kati nkweyitira maama fiina wange. @@sheilawavamunno9372

    • @nifanaagala1295
      @nifanaagala1295 7 місяців тому

      Ori funny kale ori kumwaririlo gwa 4😂😂 ate nze ninga nabuma 38year

    • @TracyAmber-n6o
      @TracyAmber-n6o 7 місяців тому +2

      ​aaaaww you are so lovely and authentic!❤❤❤❤ I can listen to you all day Sheila. Thank you wud be an under estimation.

  • @namugerwajuliet4633
    @namugerwajuliet4633 7 місяців тому +6

    Am only 28 but thought about the biological clock already🙆‍♀️, oh good LORD I now offload this my head🤭relaxed now, but still in prayer🙏

    • @martinmwesiga
      @martinmwesiga 7 місяців тому

      How can I communicate to that lady kusima connect me to that lady I want to talk to her.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +1

      May God give you peace

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 7 місяців тому

      ​@@martinmwesigatry finding her on Instagram.

  • @brendahdushime3162
    @brendahdushime3162 7 місяців тому +5

    The preaching that Ms. Sheila has done in sharing her story and views...🙌, I'm so glad I came.
    Thank you so much Sheila, May God richly bless you 🙏

  • @annatte9624
    @annatte9624 7 місяців тому +7

    Thank you so much Sheila for bringing back hope and confidence in me and many others who are going through this reality. You are so beautiful and real

  • @kihembodoreen7368
    @kihembodoreen7368 7 місяців тому +13

    "What if you never get married, shouldn't your life count for something. " Food for thought. ❤❤❤

  • @rosenyinamariza9523
    @rosenyinamariza9523 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes singleness is a gift. Your discover lots of things in the waiting.

  • @rachelbaruga4885
    @rachelbaruga4885 7 місяців тому +5

    40 and not bothered

  • @jewelsbyk
    @jewelsbyk 5 місяців тому +3

    I’ve never seen someone so Intelligent and honest

  • @TheFranny31
    @TheFranny31 7 місяців тому +3

    Singleness gives you time to heal from yr past. Knowing that God loves us, he will give you the best if you put him first. ❤

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      And to trust His best for us is - to really trust Him 🤗

  • @ninakatungi9568
    @ninakatungi9568 7 місяців тому +4

    Sheila is a Gem 💎 Within no time, she will get hitched 😊

  • @faithamaro5134
    @faithamaro5134 7 місяців тому +6

    Such godly wisdom! Thank you Sheila for sharing so beautifully 🤗 God continue to glorify Himself through your life 🙌 He is indeed a good good father, does not withhold anything good from His children and can be trusted!

  • @EmmanuelMuzoora
    @EmmanuelMuzoora 7 місяців тому +3

    Wow!!! I’m single but I didn’t even think like this. This lady had really educated me. And we’ve been friends on Facebook for a long time. God bless you Sheila. God is indeed Good 🙏🏾🫶

  • @raissamwizero-pd3qi
    @raissamwizero-pd3qi 7 місяців тому +9

    Sheila the makeup is legit👌

  • @kisakyegelder7051
    @kisakyegelder7051 7 місяців тому +4

    This lady is soo content with her life, she is one of the lucky few that didn't cave with the pressure

  • @ogueriviews
    @ogueriviews 7 місяців тому +2

    Life is well defined and simple though it become mysterious if we don’t understand how it works. She’s brave. Good interaction…

  • @primahkyambadde6436
    @primahkyambadde6436 7 місяців тому +7

    This was such an authentic interview. Sheila, you really do know your God and trust in his character!!!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      👌🏾👌🏾

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +1

      @primahkyambadde - Thank you 😊. To knowing Him more🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @LINDAGRACE-jg6xp
      @LINDAGRACE-jg6xp 7 місяців тому +2

      @Sheila , this is real faith in action . Your authenticity is such a gift from God .God bless you

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      A gift from God indeed!! God bless you too🤗

  • @maggieKazibwe
    @maggieKazibwe 3 місяці тому +1

    She’s an inspiration

  • @Iampromise_k
    @Iampromise_k 7 місяців тому +1

    Well Paul was single and was giving marriage advise to the marrieds. So yeah marriage may not be for everyone.

  • @patriciaayebare2919
    @patriciaayebare2919 7 місяців тому +2

    its amazing, but most importantly God is faithful especially if you know him, believe him and obey him.

  • @cathybt
    @cathybt 7 місяців тому +3

    it surely is never too late with God. He is always on time.
    pressure for marriage, ahte babies (1st, then 2nd born- mwaana muzeeko,,, without even buying a diaper for you), etc etc is real and very frustrating.
    it's good she has her voice and can speakfor herself unlike some of us that just fodge lies eg "work-in-progress" and plastic smiles

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Plastic smiles😭😭 the struggle

  • @ambientpotato9
    @ambientpotato9 3 місяці тому

    God can cause you to carry child/ren with the doctor's report disposed as so because they come from The Lord..If Sarah received child at 99 ..Hun, have faith. You are a blessed woman

  • @Traveltheworld1818.
    @Traveltheworld1818. 7 місяців тому +1

    And not everyone should have a big big expensive wedding..many men are fearing or delaying to marry the girls because of huge expenditure on weddings..

  • @friendhecares3340
    @friendhecares3340 7 місяців тому +1

    Everything in life needs understanding and understanding marriage is what makes marriage beautiful and not just getting married. I wish I could meet this wonderful creature of Jehovah Yahweh.

  • @linesschakwanda8627
    @linesschakwanda8627 7 місяців тому +4

    What a coincidence, l have learnt great lessons from both Sheila's from this episode and the Sheila on Kambua's episodes strong women indeed and both stories so deep yet so encouraging.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +1

      I’m glad you learnt something

  • @kihumuronash951
    @kihumuronash951 7 місяців тому +3

    Wow . She's balanced and fulfilled indeed. Shiela, thank you for grateful to God in all situations. Marriage, children sometimes are not in your aion

  • @TalkrightWith_Treasure
    @TalkrightWith_Treasure 6 місяців тому +1

    Marriage is beautiful thing, no doubt but not everyone is destined to get married... I'm just waiting on God for my own time😊

  • @aheebwomugisha
    @aheebwomugisha 7 місяців тому +2

    I love the idea of Sheila being content with who she is❤️ and trusting in God for marriage.
    Whether one gets married or not, life must continue

  • @brendassali2429
    @brendassali2429 7 місяців тому +3

    The most unique perspective anyone can give on trusting God and I love that she represents a view that not everyone is made for marriage or children.
    We cannot harass God into what we think society expects. He is God and he loves us more than we do ourselves therefore he knows.

  • @kabuzaneo417
    @kabuzaneo417 7 місяців тому +4

    Im 30years I've never been in a relationship 😢. And i believe in a marriage 😢

  • @gloriamutoni5137
    @gloriamutoni5137 7 місяців тому +3

    She is an honest human being, being content in God is her best quality..let alone her wisdom. Be blessed Sheila ❤

  • @memorynyaradzonyamutswa5719
    @memorynyaradzonyamutswa5719 7 місяців тому +3

    Sheila, your childlike trust in God is refreshing

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +1

      Praying that I continue to trust our good good Father as a child should 🙏🏾

  • @arthurkateeba
    @arthurkateeba 6 місяців тому +1

    For someone who hopes to get married someday, I have loved this conversation.

  • @mualtruthtruth8730
    @mualtruthtruth8730 3 дні тому

    I think it’s okay for old single women to consider becoming second wives. We will explain on judgement day.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  3 дні тому

      Pardon☹️☹️☹️ it’s a No No!

  • @thebetteryouwithjk223
    @thebetteryouwithjk223 7 місяців тому +2

    Woow, Thank you so much for bringing in Sheila, this is so touching and inspirational. A lot of good information to learn. We need to learn not to be consumed by society's expectations but rather we should be more concerned with God's expectations and plans towards us, for His plans are always good. There is a need to inculcate a discipline of trusting God and looking to God. Both seasons (Marriage and Singleness) are a blessing if we really have God in our lives and put Him first, but we always cross the lines without God. Again, thank you for sharing Shaila.

  • @olemabz
    @olemabz 7 місяців тому +2

    Very profound & well grounded insights from Sheila 👌

  • @beqywana6080
    @beqywana6080 7 місяців тому +2

    This was beautiful Sheila. No suprise there! Its refreshing to hear someone speak truth. ❤❤❤

  • @MentalHealthChat
    @MentalHealthChat 7 місяців тому +1

    Being content in singlehood well put,we appreciate her authenticity and wisdom ✨.

  • @LetitiaAsiimwe-so6rx
    @LetitiaAsiimwe-so6rx 7 місяців тому +1

    You have such glorious locs Sheila 🔥🔥

  • @rosetimmy7463
    @rosetimmy7463 7 місяців тому +1

    I saw Sheila and couldn't wait to watch this episode. We were in high school together

  • @cynthiambatia469
    @cynthiambatia469 7 місяців тому +1

    A very meaningful and timely conversation. Thankyou for your encouragement 🙏

  • @mwebazacharity1240
    @mwebazacharity1240 7 місяців тому +3

    Woww❤...thank you Sheila and Lisa for taking on such a sensitive topic...thank u Sheila for the pointers...believing God is good, enjoying singlehood, how to answer the aunties+uncles and eh the confidence and contentness you carry is admirable and amazing.
    Now I have a few questions :
    1. How do you continually celebrate others who are much younger than you and get married and have babies nga for you no show?
    Have you ever inquired of God as to why its taken long?

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +5

      Thanks for your questions. I think I answered the second one already...
      The first, like I said... I recognize that marriage is a gift from God and I can be happy for others (younger or older) who marry and have children because I also get to share in their happiness. It definitely helps that marriage was never a goal for me.
      I realize that because we can want things so bad, it may feel like God is holding out on us. But is he really?! Knowing and experiencing who God is - is honestly what makes ALL the difference in my life!!
      As for those that recommend deliverance, I tell them that the Cross of Yesu is enough. Trusting in Yesu means just that. I honestly think many times we desire what God can give more than God Himself. But, I would rather have Yesu.... than anything else or any one....
      It helps to know that only God can truly satisfy. Not the best spouse or even the bestest of children!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @mwebazacharity1240
      @mwebazacharity1240 7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for responding dears..

  • @sstpreux20
    @sstpreux20 7 місяців тому +3

    That is beautiful, every single people should watch this video! We should enjoy every season that we are in!

  • @hossie101
    @hossie101 6 місяців тому +1

    Love love this conversation... I've learned alot!

  • @angelakenkwanzi2737
    @angelakenkwanzi2737 7 місяців тому +1

    Sheila is real and raw!! Thankyou

  • @ginahvievekavuma7248
    @ginahvievekavuma7248 7 місяців тому +2

    Hi Lisa, thanks for bringing Sheila. She is admirable! God bless you both!

  • @natumanyaracheal1740
    @natumanyaracheal1740 7 місяців тому +1

    Am 29 but Mai brother told me not to exceed 31 years without getting married. That family pressure and society sometimes causes us alot of mistakes

  • @dianahkalibbala5121
    @dianahkalibbala5121 7 місяців тому +2

    Awww love you Sheila! Your grace and wholeness is what every woman needs, to live in the moment that God has blessed them with.

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 7 місяців тому +2

    A pastor once told me that single people are the most busy people. They always have a lot going on in their lives. A lot i mean engagements, fun things, traveling etc. However, we went ahead to say married people have so much time. When you call a married person they are at home and have time. Try catching a single person at home doing nothing, nope, they are busy doing life.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +1

      Hahahha eh which married people are these 🥹🥹😅 nga I don’t see time 😂

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 7 місяців тому

      ​​@LisaKusiima You will be surprised to find that a lot of married people have time in their hands compared to singles.The said way you were surprised to see a young lady who is not over thinking about marriage. There are so many young ladies here abroad who do not even want to have kids or get married. Even just here here in Kenya, young ladies are not interested.

  • @mamkanteh4090
    @mamkanteh4090 7 місяців тому +1

    I relate to this lady so much. We are the same age and I feel the same thing. My mum just keep pressing me bless her but I feel Allah time is the best is something that you can’t force if it meant to be will be

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      It's good to know we are not going through this alone. May God's will be done in our lives.🙏🏾

  • @SuzanimmyallyaNamagembe
    @SuzanimmyallyaNamagembe 7 місяців тому +1

    Like seriously u can't be single and 30 and ur not a virgin 😢😢

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +1

      Please don’t project

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      I imagine you meant one can't be a virgin past 30...
      Why not exactly? You know sex isn't oxygen, right?! 🤗

  • @nakasipriscah6415
    @nakasipriscah6415 7 місяців тому +2

    I dint really want this conversation to end, She really knows how to talk, what to say, she's complete.

  • @nakamatte.brenda.blessed
    @nakamatte.brenda.blessed 7 місяців тому +2

    What you believe about God, his character, who is God to you, actively believe and trust in God👏👏👏👏👏

  • @faithbyanjeru6971
    @faithbyanjeru6971 7 місяців тому +2

    Very honest and authentic converstion and the church has a big role to play for the singles

  • @sellahchabe1248
    @sellahchabe1248 7 місяців тому +2

    My take away is 'Gods wants for me are even better than I want for myself '.

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      It is sooo true!! We can trust this good good Father 😊

  • @LiA-vo8pg
    @LiA-vo8pg 7 місяців тому +1

    So refreshing she is speaking for all of us. Its not in our control God's timing!

  • @LydiaNakate-xg9uj
    @LydiaNakate-xg9uj 2 місяці тому

    Reading this again and again

  • @SarahAndndaAS
    @SarahAndndaAS 7 місяців тому +2

    I will get married one day in Jesus name!!!

  • @pynomavillatorlunga6888
    @pynomavillatorlunga6888 7 місяців тому +1

    I am not yet in my 30's, currently in my late 20's but I can relate to almost everything in this conversation and as much as I strongly desire marriage, I believe God is not withholding anything good from me. It's quite an encouragement to know that it is indeed possible to remain sexually pure, upright and faithful (true to your faith) to God no matter how long "the wait" maybe. Thank you Lisa and Sheila for this, it really spoke to me!

  • @proudmganda1159
    @proudmganda1159 7 місяців тому +1

    People should follow their hearts, it’s not one blanket for all. Being single is not a criminal it’s a choice.

    • @sheilawavamunno9372
      @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому

      Even when it's not really a choice for one...(anti it takes two to mutually agree), it is okay!! We can trust God. He is good❤

  • @taibalogun.
    @taibalogun. 7 місяців тому +1

    “God is not withholding anything good from me”

  • @lindawambui481
    @lindawambui481 7 місяців тому +1

    Very inspiring.... Loving self and finding your purpose is key

  • @jenifferkimeu4877
    @jenifferkimeu4877 7 місяців тому +1

    Darling never be afraid of being single 🥰💖,such rout hasn't disappointed me so far as long as you haven't done crime a s it's not a sin worriors we are.
    For sure pressure usually comes from church side, friends too but family mostly understands .
    Being meaningful on your singleness just please God and build social capital.
    Am contented such way and have never questioned God, just relax,if it's love it shall locate you , you aren't alone ❤️

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Wow thanks for sharing! Being content in the season

  • @chamutesi1791
    @chamutesi1791 7 місяців тому +1

    love Sheila, such an honest person and solid. Encouraged my Faith💖

  • @chrissyzaipa-ic1sh
    @chrissyzaipa-ic1sh 7 місяців тому +1

    God's time is always the best.

  • @Tega_Thompson
    @Tega_Thompson 7 місяців тому +2

    Amazing woman!

  • @kodsafety
    @kodsafety 7 місяців тому +1

    Even us men we are actively looking for women to get married too but because we do it quietly.

    • @kodsafety
      @kodsafety 7 місяців тому

      Yes, it's true we are in that state. Women keep disturbing us, but particularly I, you get connected to her and after shows you that she is on another page.

  • @EvelynMulinde
    @EvelynMulinde 7 місяців тому +1

    wow! this is powerful. Thanks Sheila for sharing with us about this powerful journey.