Love when He is Younger| Pregnancy out of Wedlock| Handling Shame| Financial hardship in Marriage

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  • Опубліковано 20 лют 2024
  • In the pursuit of love, Sonia and Cadilux faced a number of challenges. Sonia is older than Cadilux by 4 years, sexual purity was a struggle, pregnancy before marriage and financial challenges. They shared their lessons and what they could have done differently knowing what they know now. They are now 6 years in marriage and can attest to its goodness and the grace of God.
    #agegapromance #datingstruggles #lovestory

КОМЕНТАРІ • 314

  • @ithankgod5733
    @ithankgod5733 4 місяці тому +10

    My husband and I have a similar age gap. 4 years and quite frankly it doesn’t matter to us. There is mutual trust and respect.

  • @Kshanice25
    @Kshanice25 4 місяці тому +71

    This couple is very honest, i love that they openly discussed that they struggled with sexual purity , most Christian couples never talk of these struggles even for leaders. They want people to assume they do t have struggles in that area

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 місяці тому

      It’s a real struggle for so many. But God is able to

    • @joshuakisakye201
      @joshuakisakye201 4 місяці тому +2

      So honest.

    • @kap849
      @kap849 4 місяці тому +2

      The challenge is this has gone from a struggle to a choice, which makes it harder to deal with because of the guilt. Also, we sometimes downplay temptation and do not make conscious efforts not to fall into this sin.
      That being said, I always appreciate it when couples are walked through the healing process instead of being shunned.

    • @MbabaziPeace-iq8ru
      @MbabaziPeace-iq8ru 4 місяці тому +1

      Wow this is so sweet

    • @winniekislev8214
      @winniekislev8214 4 місяці тому +3

      Wow. God bless this couple for their honesty. Reminded me of Mathew West's song : Truth be told. There's a lot of masquerading in the body of Christ and we've ended up shooting our wounded soldiers , isolating each other and yet we too are struggling. God bless them. God bless the host too. This is ministry. Reaching out to those in kamooli.😊

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 4 місяці тому +30

    When they said 4 year age gap i laughed😂😂😂😂. That is so small infact, its a full stop. I met a a lady who is 20 years older than her husband. Infact at first i thought her husband was her son. They have been married for a long time and seem to be in love every day.
    Infact one of the former NTV news anchors is 10 years older than her husband. 4 years is an easy piece of cake. That's the same age group.

    • @kap849
      @kap849 4 місяці тому +8

      When she's 44, he'll be 40. When she's 84, he'll be 80. I see your point 😅😊.

    • @joanjorryn2792
      @joanjorryn2792 4 місяці тому +5

      My husband en me gal🤨 our gap is 24 years …. But. We literally forget that gap sometimes because we choose to chose ourselves every day

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 місяці тому +2

      I think you can’t down play someone’s story when you haven’t walked in their shoes

    • @annsaptoe6106
      @annsaptoe6106 3 місяці тому

      Societal Norms frown upon any age gap. Worse so in church.

  • @juliandorothy35
    @juliandorothy35 4 місяці тому +23

    No lieeeessss i love these guys. I was in the front row of their journey and even while they were struggling, they also entered our struggle as well. Accepted to be our Metron and Bestman. Same year, we were also have katemba of our own. Were getting married with also a child out of wedlock and these guys stood by us. I remember that room they were talking about and as Sonia was talk i was just recalling it all.
    Thanks for hosting them dear Lisa.

  • @annahnabalayi1090
    @annahnabalayi1090 4 місяці тому +19

    I rushed here from Instagram and I have been blown away by the maturity especially Spiritual maturity. I believe sometimes what looks like s short coming or shameful situation is a perfect recipe for God to redeem others. Like literally, you become the example many would despise but God is rubbing His hands shouting 'Eureka! I have a plan'

    • @ann20B
      @ann20B 4 місяці тому +1

      Woooow I love this

  • @namakulajoan6086
    @namakulajoan6086 3 місяці тому +2

    Great lessons to learn

  • @apionancylakareber4226
    @apionancylakareber4226 4 місяці тому +5

    Putting age aside, this is a very bright couple.

    • @kusiimajovia6930
      @kusiimajovia6930 Місяць тому

      I have a friend of mine suffering with a difference of 2 months older than her yet the young guy loves her 😢

  • @kwakaimmaculate8387
    @kwakaimmaculate8387 4 місяці тому

    Thank u Lisa 🎉learning points

  • @priscillakange237
    @priscillakange237 4 місяці тому

    This is so insightful way to go Sonia and Cadilux

  • @murungiclaire5438
    @murungiclaire5438 4 місяці тому +17

    Lisa I love this marriage/love/ relationship series it has me LOCKED!! Beautiful stories, very inspiring and above all God is faithful!

  • @bathshebakyobuhooro423
    @bathshebakyobuhooro423 4 місяці тому +17

    We need another month for such stories, every week I think this is the best then you bring another couple and my brain is blown. I love their honesty

    • @ainedenis3041
      @ainedenis3041 4 місяці тому +1

      U're speaking my mind

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 місяці тому +1

      Eh pressure 😅😂

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 4 місяці тому

      ​@LisaKusiima pressure indeed. I find that Ugandans love love stories. You see it from the kind of music Ugandan musicians sing. it's always love love songs. I also notice lots of interviews people are asked about their love life.

  • @mercynamara5045
    @mercynamara5045 4 місяці тому

    What a beautiful story! Sonia is amazing

  • @shamelesstumuhaise3364
    @shamelesstumuhaise3364 4 місяці тому +1

    We all needed this episode. Thank you

  • @ronaldmusapiti5315
    @ronaldmusapiti5315 4 місяці тому +3

    I think this couple was God chosen, cause it wasn't shaken by obstacles!

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much Lisa May God bless you

  • @Victoria-qr4xr
    @Victoria-qr4xr 4 місяці тому +1

    wow this was a beautiful conversation👏🏾👏🏾

  • @imacayebazibwe6412
    @imacayebazibwe6412 4 місяці тому +2

    Truly inspired. The lady is so cool

  • @winfredkobusinge3383
    @winfredkobusinge3383 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank Lisa for hosting this amazing couple. Tr. Cardilux supervised my son in grade 3&4.
    He is an amazing person.

  • @drcissyatwine
    @drcissyatwine 4 місяці тому +5

    Aaaaw loved their story..long live Cadilux and Sonia .🙂

  • @judithakite3164
    @judithakite3164 4 місяці тому +3

    Am locked here. These series are such a learning and inspirational safe space❤

  • @kemkem9621
    @kemkem9621 4 місяці тому +1

    How i love authentic, candid and honest conversations like this!!!!! Blessings to u

  • @tukahirwabrendah8055
    @tukahirwabrendah8055 4 місяці тому

    We have learnt a lot Bambi . God bless

  • @jescaineza7811
    @jescaineza7811 4 місяці тому

    Lisa, thank you for hosting them bambii

  • @patriciaayebare2919
    @patriciaayebare2919 4 місяці тому

    I have been blessed, thank you for this episode Lisa. Blessings to the Nyekos 🙏

  • @daphneampire9740
    @daphneampire9740 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this Lisa, age shouldn't hold you back, with God's grace my person and I got through those tough years of marriage inspite if the age difference, we now help other couples grow and progress, marriage is beautiful both matter the circumstances.

  • @fortheyoung1320
    @fortheyoung1320 4 місяці тому

    I really like Sonia’s spirit. God bless this couple

  • @roseatukunda
    @roseatukunda 4 місяці тому +1

    Well.done Lisa. Keep.moving

  • @perezb2020
    @perezb2020 4 місяці тому

    This is such a beautiful story,
    So touched

  • @user-zz3mr4su3f
    @user-zz3mr4su3f 4 місяці тому +4

    Woohoo I have known Sonia since way back she is so so unique and her faith too moves mountains,i love her energy ❤️

  • @kobuhiirwabraida3559
    @kobuhiirwabraida3559 4 місяці тому

    Beautiful Story Guys

  • @ms.t6051
    @ms.t6051 4 місяці тому +5

    What a mature and admirable young man! I wish them both a beautiful and long lasting marriage. God bless them and their children and unity ❤🙏

  • @daphneoboth9846
    @daphneoboth9846 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your story Our friends Cadi n Sonia. .

  • @politeayikiriza4605
    @politeayikiriza4605 4 місяці тому

    Awww they are lovely 🌹
    God continue to bless your for opening up.

  • @charlottenatumanya4168
    @charlottenatumanya4168 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow!! Such a beautiful testimony of God’s grace. God bless you

  • @TheThrivingWoman
    @TheThrivingWoman 4 місяці тому

    Oh wow such an amazing story

  • @lynndakay
    @lynndakay 4 місяці тому

    It’s been nice watching a couple I know ! Cadilux is an amazing Person ? Thank you for the show ! 😊

  • @ayebarebrendah1395
    @ayebarebrendah1395 4 місяці тому +5

    Lisa!! Ooh your content ❤ Glory to God and thank you for allowing Him to use you! God bless you 🙏🏻

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 місяці тому

      😊😊😊😊❤️😊

  • @faithfun7970
    @faithfun7970 4 місяці тому +4

    I loved this interview. This couple were very transparent, humble and in touch with reality. Your story was very much appreciated and comforting

  • @hildamiriam8028
    @hildamiriam8028 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Lisa soo inspirational and lots to learn... ❤❤❤

  • @Nankundadiana256
    @Nankundadiana256 4 місяці тому +1

    Let me keep waiting while nursing my wounds😊this is so encouraging God is the Author ❤

  • @anzoasarah7595
    @anzoasarah7595 4 місяці тому +1

    Very blessed couple, great things await them. They are going to impact nations

  • @favouredann3127
    @favouredann3127 4 місяці тому

    Sonia is so beautiful. I really love the testimony. Powerful.

  • @muwongebrighthosea
    @muwongebrighthosea 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much Mr & Mrs Nyekorach
    This is such a good sharing & straight forward no sugarcoating but honest. Will look u up more Cadilux

  • @ann20B
    @ann20B 4 місяці тому +7

    That has really healed me so much from the guilt shame from family friends and lots of people and from me for not forgiving myself....may God never forsake us...

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 місяці тому

      God can set you free from shame

    • @ritamirembe7061
      @ritamirembe7061 4 місяці тому

      May God show you mercy dear ,we have God of a second chance. I and my husband,we too sinned before marriage,you cnt imagine,we cried to God everyday Nd repeated the same thing. Reached a time nd told to just give us a holy marriage for His sake. Nd He heard us, now almost one year in holy marriage 🙏

    • @ritamirembe7061
      @ritamirembe7061 4 місяці тому

      sin can seriously make you hate yourself but God still calls us ,lsaiah1:18-

  • @sheilawavamunno9372
    @sheilawavamunno9372 4 місяці тому +6

    See God, the Redeemer!!! Thanks for sharing your story and encouraging others with it. God does redeem!!! And loves to show Himself off💃🤗

  • @serahtrillionaire832
    @serahtrillionaire832 4 місяці тому

    Wonderful story, so inspiring ❤

  • @barbraayesiga2036
    @barbraayesiga2036 4 місяці тому

    Wow Lisa God bless you for bringing in such conversations, this story is almost similar to mine, but i thank God we are making 4 years in our marriage.

  • @ndulaottance7297
    @ndulaottance7297 4 місяці тому

    Nice piece of encouragement. I have and believe everything will be ok with me

  • @story-of-mine
    @story-of-mine 4 місяці тому +3

    Thanks Lisa for bringing couples that share freely about life realities❤ i love it. For you and for us

  • @perrywambui8954
    @perrywambui8954 4 місяці тому

    Wow, what an inspiration... Thanks Lisa for this... I'm encouraged.

  • @cordeliaakahirwa6249
    @cordeliaakahirwa6249 4 місяці тому +4

    Wow, Cadilux & Sonia, I love these guys. They are so real, Unique and True. I was so blessed by their story. Thank you Lisa for bringing them on the set. ❤.. Personally i am inspired to go build a strong marriage🙏🏾😇!

  • @Convention-yw7nb
    @Convention-yw7nb 4 місяці тому

    Incredible.
    Thank you for an excellent episode, the Lord bless and keep you!

  • @greatstar3866
    @greatstar3866 4 місяці тому

    Wow❤ I've really learnt alot. Thank you Lisa for the guests. Very honest couple with an inspiring story. Thanks again.

  • @mbabaziagnes-kl2sz
    @mbabaziagnes-kl2sz 4 місяці тому

    You guys are so amazing a couple. I definitely love your story.

  • @user-qe3si2ny1m
    @user-qe3si2ny1m 4 місяці тому

    Wow
    You guys have given me hope.

  • @RachelKing-rh4kh
    @RachelKing-rh4kh 4 місяці тому +1

    Best couple on the show,beautiful,beautiful couple,the maturity from both of them!!thanks Lisa

  • @marionsenkomago8269
    @marionsenkomago8269 4 місяці тому

    Very inspiring story, i love the commitment,honesty and humour ' 100,000# yaka for year..yah..that's how small the house was'😂😂😂thankyou for a lovely episode Lisa!

  • @kasiimwecreations619
    @kasiimwecreations619 4 місяці тому +2

    lisa this particular video was for me. God sent, thank you so so much. I send you cyber hugs Lisa

  • @judithkyampaire7464
    @judithkyampaire7464 4 місяці тому

    What a beautiful love story! ❤

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 4 місяці тому +3

    I wanted the uncomfortable questions but they did hint on the subject of age! Glad our society is opening up to this. Age is just a number

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 місяці тому

      I think the answer was in the story.. because here they are 6 years later so…

  • @rhonaagaba4218
    @rhonaagaba4218 4 місяці тому

    Thank you Sonia & Cadilux for sharing your journey, it’s really inspirational 💕

  • @tiny_k738
    @tiny_k738 4 місяці тому

    I love how open these two people have been. They are a blessing to the young generation. May God bless and sustain their union 🙏

  • @barbratukamushaba3180
    @barbratukamushaba3180 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow this is so touching 😢 it was really nice hearing from this powerful couple 😢

  • @joshuakisakye201
    @joshuakisakye201 4 місяці тому

    Woooo, I am inspired, Cadilux is my OB, and I am blessed hearing this true story.

  • @simonkine
    @simonkine 4 місяці тому +2

    Wowwww at least now I know what am getting into with the woman of God, thank you guys biggggg time

  • @janenanono1319
    @janenanono1319 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow, I didn't want you to stop, you are so real and God will use you mightly among the young people. Thank you for the inspiration.

  • @melissahngosa1287
    @melissahngosa1287 4 місяці тому

    Wow so so beautifully orchestrated.. It doesn't always start all rosy, but this was worthy it. God bless you guys i had a lot of lessons to learn and to unlearn some things ❤

  • @macklinel.nbuhungiro5894
    @macklinel.nbuhungiro5894 4 місяці тому

    what a humorous couple... Their Joy/vibe surely rubs on people around them. i love them. ❤❤❤❤

  • @namakulajoan6086
    @namakulajoan6086 3 місяці тому +1

    Had i learnt about this video like last year…!
    But ohh yes thank you Jesus I landed on this video.

  • @jannienjenga
    @jannienjenga 4 місяці тому

    Wooow a beautiful story

  • @Hellen802
    @Hellen802 4 місяці тому +1

    Lisa host these people again. What a honest story

  • @kihembodoreen7368
    @kihembodoreen7368 4 місяці тому +3

    I love how they share their story. Honest, unburdened and true to themselves

  • @Kshanice25
    @Kshanice25 4 місяці тому

    Am jus a few minutes in and this is legit... So. Many differences but love wins❤. Thanks Lisa for bringing this amazing couple 👫

  • @CatherineAllenKavuma
    @CatherineAllenKavuma 4 місяці тому

    Great story

  • @spectrumbeautyandmore
    @spectrumbeautyandmore 4 місяці тому

    I've just started watching, am glued. Their story seems to be interesting

  • @user-cy5rj4hg7q
    @user-cy5rj4hg7q 4 місяці тому +2

    This is amazing!!! Sonia’s story has really reminded me of Gods faithfulness in all situations! I’m very proud of this couple, I wish them many years of love, happiness and fulfillment in their marriage ♥️.Lisa you are doing such a great Job! May God grow your Horizons ✨

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 місяці тому

      Amen amen thanks Liz❤️

  • @hopebainomugisha8374
    @hopebainomugisha8374 4 місяці тому

    😅 interesting. Thank you for being so honest.

  • @WendyPaulaAtim-cf1gy
    @WendyPaulaAtim-cf1gy 4 місяці тому

    Very beautiful indeed...thanks Lisa for hosting the Nyekorach's 🍾🍾to countless years of a blissful Christ-centred marriage for Cadilux&,Sonia❤❤

  • @nakittohellen3934
    @nakittohellen3934 4 місяці тому

    Good testimony

  • @perrywambui8954
    @perrywambui8954 4 місяці тому

    I bumped onto your channel and lm glad l did... Great stuff here

  • @peaceolive1450
    @peaceolive1450 4 місяці тому +3

    Sonia is amazing..

  • @estherkyohirwe6708
    @estherkyohirwe6708 4 місяці тому

    Oh.... Sonia. She is an amazing person

  • @mercyimusalaba6320
    @mercyimusalaba6320 4 місяці тому

    I have loved 🥰 this episode so much !! Such a beautiful journey and inspiring 🙏 thank you Lisa , please invite them again

  • @kentechsoft7265
    @kentechsoft7265 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for the good work Lisa, oh by the way what happened to our light bulb moment? 😄

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  4 місяці тому +1

      I'm working on it. Next video haha

  • @ckks0nyoutube
    @ckks0nyoutube 4 місяці тому

    Lisa Kusima, you are on fire, this love month, hmmmm! We are blessed
    Congs, to the Nyekorach’s, they went against the grain, and are winning!

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 4 місяці тому

    Wow I feel like rewatching it

  • @hildaninsiima2506
    @hildaninsiima2506 4 місяці тому

    This couple is so unique you can see it through their eyes . God bless them ❤

  • @kyomuhendomartha1762
    @kyomuhendomartha1762 4 місяці тому +1

    Prayer is key in marriage.

  • @mourinieenatukunda
    @mourinieenatukunda 4 місяці тому

    Indeed marriage is redeemable...Thank you LISA .we re learning.

  • @birungifaith4394
    @birungifaith4394 4 місяці тому

    This is so beautiful, it how God comes through amidst everything

  • @simonkine
    @simonkine 4 місяці тому

    Wowwwwwww, the secret marriage of our parents is soooooo relatable, I guess understanding and getting to know the woman's family too is oba expedient, am surely noting what to looooookkkk at intricately✍️✍️✍️

  • @oduochagodwin6391
    @oduochagodwin6391 4 місяці тому

    Similar case with Mine..But the grace of God is sufficient.we have a young toddler

  • @winniewixakiror
    @winniewixakiror 4 місяці тому

    Lord bless these happy souls.. For you to share this you have no idea how many hearts you touching. My first time on this channel and now I have a reason to subscribe

  • @Knox-BezaleelTobias
    @Knox-BezaleelTobias 4 місяці тому

    This is a good one. Good info here

  • @simonkine
    @simonkine 4 місяці тому

    Really really alot to learn, thank you big Sis

  • @peaceolive1450
    @peaceolive1450 4 місяці тому +4

    It's the honest stories like this that paint a clear picture that no one is perfect, and that's fine. Otherwise, so many people are quietly dying in struggles that they can not share with anyone for fear of being harshly judged. Thank you Sonia & Caddilax for boldly sharing your perfect imperfections.

  • @ayopamella
    @ayopamella 4 місяці тому +2

    But this love story; i can't help but comment again in the middle of the video. It has a lot of hope vibes❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @Kshanice25
    @Kshanice25 4 місяці тому +3

    Lisa you are glowing ❤❤❤

  • @kiyingiduncan
    @kiyingiduncan 4 місяці тому

    Interesting!

  • @marykathyonen8681
    @marykathyonen8681 4 місяці тому

    Beautiful couple …. Thank you for sharing ❤