Can Marriage Work When We're Different? Managing Expectations with Personality & Background

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • Marriage is a beautiful journey, but what happens when you and your spouse come from completely different backgrounds or have contrasting personalities? In this video, Mr and Mrs Ainebyoona shared their experiences and we explored how differences in upbringing, culture, and personality can affect a marriage and provide practical tips on managing expectations to build a successful relationship.
    ✨ What You'll Learn:
    How to navigate differences in personality and background in marriage.
    Practical tips for managing expectations with your spouse.
    The importance of communication and compromise in relationships.
    How to embrace and appreciate your differences to strengthen your marriage.
    Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for years, understanding how to manage these differences can help you create a lasting, fulfilling partnership.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 104

  • @claireakurut9918
    @claireakurut9918 13 днів тому +11

    This has been wholesome. Its refreshing to see a man that doesnt use his headship to maintain status quo yet children are being affected negatively. Indeed Mr. Ainebyona has it all. Good example to men out there

  • @laurenemkamanga
    @laurenemkamanga 13 днів тому +6

    I really like this pair. Very genuine and truly blessed. Love from Malawi 🇲🇼

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 днів тому +1

      Awww Malawi😍😍😍😍😍.
      Do happy to have you here!

  • @edinahowembabazi8652
    @edinahowembabazi8652 12 днів тому +3

    oooh Diana banange i have loved everything you have shared😍😍

  • @DignaK
    @DignaK 11 днів тому +2

    This is so beautiful ❤❤❤❤ I am only 15 minutes in and oh! The gems. Thank goodness I have watched this when I am just two years into the marriage. I love this honeymoon phase. When the “hard part” comes, different parenting styles, I will come back here.
    1. Never underestimate in the power of example.
    2. What is obvious to you, might not be obvious to the other person.
    In conclusion, as a spouse, be open minded. Know that your person was raised differently and therefore knows different.
    Thank you Lisa.❤

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      Thanks Digna for your lessons .
      Being open minded is really key

  • @AbrahamDantieShelvey
    @AbrahamDantieShelvey 11 днів тому +2

    This couple is full of wisdom ❤❤, Thank you Lisa ,I am looking forward to you bringing them back for another topics 🎉🎉🎉

  • @naomeapolot3099
    @naomeapolot3099 13 днів тому +3

    My take "be willing to understand other person before your understood "thanks Lisa always

  • @simplymollywin7591
    @simplymollywin7591 11 днів тому +1

    Great conversation ❤ I love the wisdom from the Ainebyoona.

  • @ser-hanga
    @ser-hanga 12 днів тому +1

    This has been an incredible conversation - such a wise couple. Thank you Jesse & Diana. And thank you Lisa for guiding the discussion.

  • @micheles4242
    @micheles4242 11 днів тому +1

    Every couple, new or not, needs to watch this!! Amazing wisdom and couple, such an enjoyable watch 😊 We have definitely been blessed by this talk, God bless the Ainebyoonas!!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      Share it widely hahah🎉🎉

  • @nakiwalapeace7871
    @nakiwalapeace7871 10 днів тому +1

    Where he is ,is where he is..I can identify that surely with my man.

  • @BRENDAOWOMUGISHA-i4t
    @BRENDAOWOMUGISHA-i4t 10 днів тому +1

    Please tell me the title of the other video with Mrs Ainebyona about 'prayer as a mother"

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  10 днів тому

      How to grow your relationship with God as a Woman and a Mom| Habits that will change your life
      ua-cam.com/video/DRN0KeiTir4/v-deo.html

  • @margretmugaba7992
    @margretmugaba7992 13 днів тому +1

    My take away "our differences enrich us " especially in marriage and parenting.

  • @beth5993
    @beth5993 4 дні тому

    Family is a difficult institution to manage.

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 13 днів тому +1

    Nice conversation but some glitches in the sound 😢😢😢.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 днів тому +1

      Sorry for that. Let’s improve next time.

  • @mbabaziagnes-kl2sz
    @mbabaziagnes-kl2sz 13 днів тому +1

    Amazing conversations. Thanks Lisa for bringing Jesse and Diana

  • @tamarks1028
    @tamarks1028 12 днів тому +1

    What a beautiful story of Jesse and Diana🎉

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@tamarks1028 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @charlotteasiimwe6607
    @charlotteasiimwe6607 13 днів тому +1

    Oh Lisa. This was a great episode. Well done! I could relate in so many ways.
    A lot to learn too. Be blessed 🙏

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 днів тому

      Same here. Thank you for watching. So many of us going through similar experiences

  • @Nakigozi_joanJoan
    @Nakigozi_joanJoan 13 днів тому +1

    Good mother in all seasons ❤❤❤❤and lovely family members

  • @sanc_livia
    @sanc_livia 12 днів тому +1

    50:13 "By the way, I'll go"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому +1

      @@sanc_livia The threats😅🤣🤣

  • @nyangomamogranie1795
    @nyangomamogranie1795 12 днів тому

    Wow thank you Lisa for hosting the Ainebyona, so many great lessons learnt surely, like letting our spouses be because it's not intentional to be annoying

  • @kwishiima221
    @kwishiima221 6 днів тому

    Thank you so much

  • @debbiefit193
    @debbiefit193 12 днів тому

    So so much wisdom❤❤❤my fave yet😊

  • @rachellorna5109
    @rachellorna5109 12 днів тому

    So excited to see Diana, pleasant surprise! ❤

  • @SoH-SeedsofHope
    @SoH-SeedsofHope 12 днів тому

    Beautiful conversation. Inspirational couple. Great host. Thank you all. It was lovely.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@SoH-SeedsofHope Thank you so much

  • @RechoNyemera
    @RechoNyemera 12 днів тому +1

    😭Oh how I love Ma'am Dianah!😩🥹❤

  • @rhonahnimusiima5897
    @rhonahnimusiima5897 12 днів тому

    Thinking about things for too long is a men thing i believe. I have learnt to let my husband think for as long as he wants so that peace can reign 😂

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 днів тому

      Peace peace peace 🕊️ hahaha

  • @lisaokot3964
    @lisaokot3964 11 днів тому

    Brilliant episode! Great couple. Lisa, you guided the discussion excellently!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  10 днів тому

      Awwww thanks for the feedback

  • @BRENDAOWOMUGISHA-i4t
    @BRENDAOWOMUGISHA-i4t 10 днів тому

    Dear Lisa,thank u for hosting this couple..Very many insights and much more.

  • @flaviakiberu8228
    @flaviakiberu8228 12 днів тому

    Wow, Jesse and Diana, you have done us well, thank you!!! Lisa, thank you for these life building topics.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@flaviakiberu8228 Thank you.
      Feel free to share more video ideas

  • @katewanzi895
    @katewanzi895 11 днів тому

    This was a very beautiful conversation. Thanks Lisa, Diana and Jesse. I have learnt so much.

  • @nyaradzomavodza5004
    @nyaradzomavodza5004 12 днів тому

    This was really honest and beautiful, thank you for sharing

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 днів тому

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for watching

  • @Sheebaniwensiima
    @Sheebaniwensiima 11 днів тому

    The Gems in this episode! Wow👏🏽 Thank you Lisa and the Ainebyoona's for a wholesome Episode.

  • @franksoft7735
    @franksoft7735 12 днів тому

    Woow I have been blessed…thank you Lisa❤ and Ainebyonaz

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@franksoft7735 I’m so glad

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 12 днів тому

    If Phillipines 4:7 was a person. It's this man. Drinking tea before checking on the bang. I have given it to you 😂

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@Flourish_today 😂😂😂

  • @eronebalayo7122
    @eronebalayo7122 11 днів тому

    Enriching and real conversation . Thank you Lisa, diana and hubby.

  • @mahorochristine5786
    @mahorochristine5786 13 днів тому

    Thanks for this Lisa. Don't underestimate the power of example 🙌

  • @MrsLG83
    @MrsLG83 12 днів тому

    An excellent conversation! This is a power couple for Jesus! I love it!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@MrsLG83 thanks for watching

  • @touregnouweheangestephanie4292
    @touregnouweheangestephanie4292 12 днів тому

    Of only I could like twice. It was amazing and enlightening .

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@touregnouweheangestephanie4292 hahha thanks. You can share widely 🎉

  • @geofreysemakula6643
    @geofreysemakula6643 13 днів тому

    Thank you jesse and Diana! You have value to the platform.

  • @dianamirembenkesiga6118
    @dianamirembenkesiga6118 12 днів тому

    I love this couple. The two have grown so much and their openness and willingness to learn from each other

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@dianamirembenkesiga6118 So much maturity

  • @AnneUG1
    @AnneUG1 13 днів тому

    OH MY GOD, THIS COUPLE LOOKS LIKE OURS. THANKS LISA , THANK YOU THIS WAS MINE

  • @juliankyomugisha7221
    @juliankyomugisha7221 10 днів тому

    I have loved this conversation, it has taught me alot

  • @lydiaakol8170
    @lydiaakol8170 10 днів тому

    Diana is just like me,I used to think I have a problem I don't talk talk to everyone and have been trying to be like other people,I also talk talk ,,yet I don't like over talking

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  10 днів тому

      Hahahah we are many

    • @lydiaakol8170
      @lydiaakol8170 10 днів тому

      @@LisaKusiima my prayer is I just get a partner who can also talk about everything with me,so I can also come to share such brilliant ideas on marriage,
      Lisa I really love what your doing, do educating big ups

  • @kayikayi611
    @kayikayi611 12 днів тому

    Jessy's last submissions are full of wisdom.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@kayikayi611 thank you for this feedback

  • @blessedemma983
    @blessedemma983 12 днів тому

    Jesse the public speaker...

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@blessedemma983 A very good one🥳🥳

  • @joycenyakahuma5925
    @joycenyakahuma5925 12 днів тому

  • @AgathaIradukunda
    @AgathaIradukunda 12 днів тому

    I hear by the way i can go😂😂😂😂

  • @carolabenaitwe1635
    @carolabenaitwe1635 11 днів тому

    Is the lady Martha Kay's sister

  • @KanyamunyuKaijuka
    @KanyamunyuKaijuka 12 днів тому

    Blessed listening. Thank you for praying compromising, listening to and loving each other 🙏🏽💕

  • @levinnabisubi8171
    @levinnabisubi8171 13 днів тому

    Amazing episode

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 днів тому

      Thank you. What was key for you?

  • @mercynassali7176
    @mercynassali7176 11 днів тому

    Beautiful!

  • @isabelahgoodluck7001
    @isabelahgoodluck7001 13 днів тому +2

    Nice conversation. God knows how much i needed this

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 днів тому

      We thank the Lord for perfect timing. Be blessed

  • @georginwillo5000
    @georginwillo5000 12 днів тому

    Wow wow
    Thank you so much Lisa, you have really blessed us with this lovely couple.
    A lot of wisdom and yet interesting...... I've laughed 😂 and learnt a lot

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  11 днів тому

      @@georginwillo5000 hahah you are welcome. A good laugh is what we need sometimes

  • @cathybt
    @cathybt 13 днів тому

    how are they "opposites" yet both calm and collected, usually i know one is so loud and the other soft.
    otherwise i like this enriching conversation. very demure😊😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  12 днів тому

      Jesse is very outgoing 😂😂