The Dating and Singleness Struggle for Men| Marriage Pressure, Sexual Purity, Marriage Prep

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  • @brendaowomugisha4150
    @brendaowomugisha4150 7 місяців тому +12

    "Your not going to be happy outside of God's holiness...."very true

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kstephen88694
    @kstephen88694 7 місяців тому +24

    As a single man the pressure is present I have a lot faced backlash from society People always point to the fact that am not yet a fully grown man because I haven't fathered a child. There have been moments and things haven't worked relationship wise. Meanwhile I see some men who leave behind single mothers and these people generally get away with it because they meet "society expectations". All the same I am not giving up yet . Thanks for the show

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Don’t give up🎉

    • @yvonnewinfreyug
      @yvonnewinfreyug 6 місяців тому

      Its great you are not letting societal norms lead you otherwise, keep pushing on and thanks for sharing it here as a man.

    • @zindukakids
      @zindukakids 6 місяців тому

      Giving up isn't your thing I like the vibe keep thriving

    • @Kshanice25
      @Kshanice25 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, ❤this is real in our society today even for the guys. Be focused on who you are and what you want and don't settle for anything less, it is your life.

    • @estherkwamboka4890
      @estherkwamboka4890 5 місяців тому

      It's great to hear from men with standards hang on there

  • @sheilawavamunno9372
    @sheilawavamunno9372 7 місяців тому +18

    "Do not say of marriage what you should be saying of God." 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
    Indeed, only God can fix us. Not marriage. Nor singleness!!
    Thank you very much for this Lisa & Dennis 😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Yess👏🏾👏🏾 that also got me

  • @EmanziYaKamugyene
    @EmanziYaKamugyene 6 місяців тому +5

    I will keep saying this, intelligent men still exist. Kingdom men are still there

    • @matamabrenda8427
      @matamabrenda8427 6 місяців тому

      For sure Dennis wowed me I kept thinking pardon did he just think out like this 😊totally loved this episode

  • @ayebalabrian625
    @ayebalabrian625 22 дні тому +1

    I think Pressure is normal. And at a point we all encounter its remarks. Am 34, single not even thinking of marriage very soon but, you could be talking to a friend and along the way a challenge popes in, when are you marrying. Even mum would set it a challenge.
    But, I have resolved to live my life and be the best that God wants me to be. I know I will marry when time is due.
    Otherz business isn't my business. God is my business and at a right time it shall ☔ ❤ ...
    Thanks

  • @gloriassali3367
    @gloriassali3367 6 місяців тому +8

    Lisa, I'd like to hear from over 50+ single people and how they find dating.

  • @carolynebalungi9720
    @carolynebalungi9720 7 місяців тому +15

    What an intelligent man…God bless you

  • @kamimaduka7339
    @kamimaduka7339 7 місяців тому +5

    The message we didn't even know we needed! So much wisdom for free!!! Guys share this video with your friends you never know, also subscribe if you haven't!!

  • @blessedray1040
    @blessedray1040 6 місяців тому +2

    Our beloved Pastor Denis, yes you have nurtured our youths in godly ways and the Lord will surely bless you. Thank you for giving to the Lord

  • @phoebenaamala4016
    @phoebenaamala4016 7 місяців тому +7

    Single people are not sick! Put that on a T-shirt💥

    • @SweettoothMarie77
      @SweettoothMarie77 7 місяців тому +1

      And print many shirts

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Yaaaasss👏🏾👏🏾

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 7 місяців тому +2

      They are not cursed either. Banaye. The stigma. And if one celebrates their singlehood, they will say it is the devil making them celebrate it. Eih.

  • @balambamary10
    @balambamary10 7 місяців тому +7

    Wisdom, Wisdom, Wisdom! The Fear of The Lord is The beginning of wisdom Indeed!

  • @samuelkalungi2651
    @samuelkalungi2651 7 місяців тому +7

    “We must be careful not to say about marriage what we should be saying of God" 💯
    Thanks Lisa and Denis 👏

  • @kulokolakevin
    @kulokolakevin 7 місяців тому +10

    Singleness is a gift...the independence it comes with

    • @Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio
      @Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio 7 місяців тому

      Lol....my sister only when ur in those younger years,when u get oldooooo....chaiiiii...u start thinking imbanou...something is wrong na...
      Lol

  • @tariromachingauta9294
    @tariromachingauta9294 7 місяців тому +5

    Wow, such a calibre of man in this generation. Thank you!

  • @oltegasmith846
    @oltegasmith846 6 місяців тому +2

    Lisa bring back Mr mugume again. Wise words right there.

  • @ikirizaelizabeth3187
    @ikirizaelizabeth3187 7 місяців тому +6

    I am where God wants me to be 😊😊

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Yes yes you are👏🏾👏🏾

  • @brendakyokusiima817
    @brendakyokusiima817 7 місяців тому +4

    At St Francis Chapel makerere...we are blessed with a good intelligent youth pastor

  • @fortheyoung1320
    @fortheyoung1320 7 місяців тому +3

    Eeh, the Holy Ghost is doing great things in Uganda. From Apostle Mulinde to the guest on this episode.

  • @connieahebwa4211
    @connieahebwa4211 6 місяців тому +3

    Academic Rigor in church. We highly need it. Beautiful episode

  • @brianonganga2636
    @brianonganga2636 7 місяців тому +7

    This conversation was rich and empowering for a man like me. Hopefully for other men too in the same season. Thank you for the great work, God bless!

  • @akotclare2133
    @akotclare2133 7 місяців тому +4

    Full of wisdom. I can listen to him the whole day. I admire his maturity and humility alot. May God continue to bless you more Denis.

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 7 місяців тому +3

    You are where God wants you...thank you Pst.

  • @ankundasheillah6543
    @ankundasheillah6543 7 місяців тому +3

    "Do not say of marriage what you would say of God". That's so profound.
    Thank you Lisa, Thank you Minister Mugume.
    I am so blessed that I listened in

  • @CuriosityJunction-global
    @CuriosityJunction-global 7 місяців тому +5

    I love the content and thats how you get a new subscriber from Kenya

  • @faithbyanjeru6971
    @faithbyanjeru6971 7 місяців тому +3

    Marriage is a place to serve one another not to consume one another......thank you for sharing pastor Dennis

  • @tariromachingauta9294
    @tariromachingauta9294 6 місяців тому +2

    So i just watched this for the third time after listening twice to your discussion with Cerinah and this thing about " my brand of christian person" or my tribe is standing out. I have always felt that yes, within the christian community there is a certain tribe and brand for me and when you say it to some people they look at you weirdly. Thank you for these discussions they are so valuable. When you find your tribe, you thrive!

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 7 місяців тому +2

    Take the fish out of water nanti it needs " freedom" that was a good one. Which reminds me of a statement that said " the word of God is protection not restriction "

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      That’s so true yet sometimes we think God is limiting us

  • @nakamatte.brenda.blessed
    @nakamatte.brenda.blessed 7 місяців тому +3

    Episode full of wisdom 🙏🙏

  • @mwebazacharity1240
    @mwebazacharity1240 6 місяців тому

    Hi Lisa
    Thank you for such vital and deep discussions from such a mature man; i hope he returns on the channel; would be a good combo with Rinaldi and Rev Muhima...this thing of most men not wanting to go to Church/related activities...the modern dating expectations..eh

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  6 місяців тому

      He really would ☺️☺️

  • @Beneth91
    @Beneth91 6 місяців тому

    Wow! I have always wondered why most young men are single yet God privileged them with power to choose and I was kinda led to think they're avoiding responsibility but this gentleman has really enlightened me and most especially from a Godly mind point of view. Now I know single men could be having all the good reasons. Thanks for the talk Lisa ...for always putting in your resources to help us understand society better.

  • @AkampuriraDenise-ez2jx
    @AkampuriraDenise-ez2jx 3 місяці тому

    Today is His birthday 1:19 🎈... Happiest birthday Minister Dennis🎉

  • @estherkwamboka4890
    @estherkwamboka4890 5 місяців тому

    Great convo, great to know there some real genuine men out there🎉

  • @renembongn.5877
    @renembongn.5877 7 місяців тому +2

    Wisdom was laid out here. Brilliant insights! Wishing him & hers a fulfilling marriage journey🙏🏾 I feel sometimes the “singles conferences “ in churches is meant for visibility and pairing up, to let potential partners mingle🤷🏽‍♀️(I undercover feel so, just my guess)

  • @beth5993
    @beth5993 7 місяців тому +1

    This guy has spoken my mind. No Addition and subtraction.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Hahah that’s nice to hear

  • @ayebamos
    @ayebamos 7 місяців тому +2

    Rich conversation here.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Glad you think so👏🏾

  • @samuelkalekezi8962
    @samuelkalekezi8962 7 місяців тому +1

    Awesome conversation all the way around. Christianity is symbolised by the cross which is the death of Christ for our sake and to fulfill the will of God. So we need to embrace the need to die to self if we are going to obey the will and word of God.
    Thanks Lisa for having this gentleman to share with us this lovely wisdom.

  • @1865martha
    @1865martha 7 місяців тому +2

    Yes, we need to get back to apologetics. I completely agree with Pastor Denis. We need to talk about what we are experiencing in our world. Our Lord did not shy away or fear or worry about difficult topics - He went to the difficult and challenging areas we face trusting that the Father will guide and provide everything we need. And He invites us to bring them to Him. We are safe in Him. Thank you for bringing Pastor Denis.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      You are welcome 🙏🏽

  • @parlindah
    @parlindah 7 місяців тому +2

    Wow, this has blessed me. The more we chase Holiness, the happier we are. Thanks Lisa and Pastor Mugume 🎉🎉

  • @annitaatukunda1701
    @annitaatukunda1701 13 днів тому

    Thank you lisa

  • @akellogloria7971
    @akellogloria7971 7 місяців тому +5

    Deep deep conversation here,amazing amazing ,have been so blessed. Thank you Lisa and thank you Mugume for allowing God to use you.God bless you sir.

  • @rytamwaibale8908
    @rytamwaibale8908 7 місяців тому +2

    This message has greatly rebuked me. Thank you Lisa for such beautiful conversations

  • @godsfavoritechild3187
    @godsfavoritechild3187 7 місяців тому +2

    The “WOW” factor here is on 💯. So much WISDOM packed in one video👏🏽Pastor Mugume Thank you! The boys you mentor are indeed in good hands 🙌🏾 . Such a huge BLESSING ! & to you Lisa your channel is an absolute inspiration. This is truly your calling. Well done 👍🏽

  • @The_life_garage
    @The_life_garage 7 місяців тому +3

    Everyone has a Divine schedule this hit differently. Thank you Lisa for this amazing content. Let us see your channel grow to more than 500k subs just like @LNN’s Lyn channel she is Kenyan and holds the same line of thought in terms of content just like you!!!

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      Amen amen let’s get those subs in

  • @marthanamara4380
    @marthanamara4380 7 місяців тому +1

    My brother in Christ....Happy to see you here....now let me listen in 😊

  • @marionsenkomago8269
    @marionsenkomago8269 7 місяців тому +1

    You are where God wants you! Deep conversation..Thankyou!

  • @namugerwajuliet4633
    @namugerwajuliet4633 7 місяців тому +3

    Wow as in wow , Lisa you are such a creative human, i mean how did u think of hosting this guy and he tells how it feels like being a single male cox we have heard enough of female singles 🥰but above everything ,Isaiah 60:22 when time is right I the LORD will make it happen, Isaiah 55:8-9 For my thoughts are nit your thoughts and my ways are not your ways either, declares The LORD🙏

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому +1

      I love learning from all angles 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @IAMTHATIAM2024
      @IAMTHATIAM2024 3 місяці тому

      We have the weddings on 24th August 2024

    • @IAMTHATIAM2024
      @IAMTHATIAM2024 3 місяці тому

      I meant "" they""

  • @kaganziesther
    @kaganziesther 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Lisa❤
    A big WOW to Pastor Denis❤

  • @petermafabi7148
    @petermafabi7148 7 місяців тому +1

    This is by far the best class I have attended on this channel.
    Thank you

  • @jackiewadulo
    @jackiewadulo 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤ this episode!!!

  • @murungiatusasiire9904
    @murungiatusasiire9904 7 місяців тому +1

    Wooow wow very well preached 🎉

  • @zindukakids
    @zindukakids 6 місяців тому +1

    Ñuggets of wisdom flowing here to God be the glory now we know

  • @janekabagenyi1969
    @janekabagenyi1969 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Pastor Denis...Soo much wisdom shared here😊

  • @justinenansimbe3341
    @justinenansimbe3341 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Lisa. This show was so educative.

  • @AraoVICKYCHRISTINE
    @AraoVICKYCHRISTINE 6 місяців тому

    Lisa and Denis thanks for your time, it's a blessing to many

  • @kayanjabrianemmanuel5541
    @kayanjabrianemmanuel5541 6 місяців тому

    You are as much happy as you are holy. Thank you musumba Denis and Lisa

  • @kigongowinnie4014
    @kigongowinnie4014 7 місяців тому +1

    Lisa Lisa , just what I needed.
    Girl always filling our souls

  • @mugisharobert6473
    @mugisharobert6473 7 місяців тому +1

    This is very granular! Rich conversation here 😊

  • @AyebareKagina
    @AyebareKagina 7 місяців тому +2

    Excellent stuff here, thanks Lisa & Mugume

  • @carolinemayende7917
    @carolinemayende7917 7 місяців тому

    thank you musumba mugume ,i was proud to learn from your father and you as well as my youth pastor.

  • @barbraayesiga2036
    @barbraayesiga2036 7 місяців тому +1

    eehh wow! I have loved this conversation

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      I really enjoyed it as well

  • @StevenWaswa
    @StevenWaswa 7 місяців тому +1

    Awesomely rich🥰 conversation

  • @kulokolakevin
    @kulokolakevin 7 місяців тому +4

    Ehh ehh this guy is a real elder bro😂...
    Thank you Lisa

  • @jeremypeterandruda3946
    @jeremypeterandruda3946 7 місяців тому +1

    Pr.Denis wow, so much wisdom soooooo much and a lot learnt

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @DamaryAmpaire
    @DamaryAmpaire 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks my own Pastor🎉 come alive mininstry

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia 6 місяців тому

    Amazing interview.

  • @brendamarunga
    @brendamarunga 7 місяців тому

    Pastor Denis always with the gems👏

  • @kulokolakevin
    @kulokolakevin 7 місяців тому +9

    This guy is sooo smart...ehhh ehhh...different mindset what what😂😢

  • @kemitominoreen822
    @kemitominoreen822 7 місяців тому

    Wow wonderful dialogue. I love you Lisa for what you doing, may God bless you mummie

  • @daisyasiimwe3094
    @daisyasiimwe3094 6 місяців тому

    Well said 👏 👌

  • @isaacmangeni3573
    @isaacmangeni3573 6 місяців тому

    Wow wow wow
    Thank you very much

  • @agenofavour1866
    @agenofavour1866 7 місяців тому

    Pastor Denis 🎉, thanks Lisa for the show ❤

  • @AcklynJamie
    @AcklynJamie 6 місяців тому

    Very intelligent man

  • @douglasmartinssemaganda
    @douglasmartinssemaganda 7 місяців тому +2

    Dennis confronts very pertinent matters in rships,marriage, mindset etc. Let's not pick a leaf and leave the tree😂.

  • @Tuongeemediahub
    @Tuongeemediahub 7 місяців тому

    Our Youth pastor 🎉🎉🎉

  • @dricirusuzan
    @dricirusuzan 7 місяців тому +2

    Always ask for God's choice of partner for you, because people can really pretend to be whom they are not.

  • @Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio
    @Bootstrapsmediaandcommunicatio 7 місяців тому +1

    Ehhhhh....this gentleman...pastor ....chaaiiiii....

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 7 місяців тому

    Youth minister❤

  • @ahuriratracy5831
    @ahuriratracy5831 7 місяців тому

    Auuuh pastor Denis🥰🤗🤗

  • @faithnakitandwe3614
    @faithnakitandwe3614 6 місяців тому

    If your driven by your feelings u have no identity ❤@pastor Den

  • @kihembodoreen7368
    @kihembodoreen7368 7 місяців тому

    Do something that is not about me. I will definitely purpose to do this at least once a month. Thank you.

  • @preciousakatukunda9869
    @preciousakatukunda9869 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow

  • @brendaowomugisha4150
    @brendaowomugisha4150 7 місяців тому +3

    Somehow wen you break God's rules ,you break yourself.

  • @NamugayaBabra-o4p
    @NamugayaBabra-o4p 7 місяців тому +1

    All I can say is wooooooow

  • @namiirojose6824
    @namiirojose6824 4 місяці тому

    Clearly this gentleman is not yet married because his singleself has alot to offer to the church/community

  • @kaliisakaita5831
    @kaliisakaita5831 7 місяців тому

    I really miss ST. Francis Chapel.

  • @suubilyenina1970
    @suubilyenina1970 7 місяців тому

    I remember him from Kibuli ss!

  • @blessingschaile8076
    @blessingschaile8076 7 місяців тому +1

    🙌🙌🙌

  • @estherkkabanda256
    @estherkkabanda256 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @SsamulaFrancis
    @SsamulaFrancis 7 місяців тому +1

    I think they should start preaching what can help people to develop instead of preaching these biblical things all the time . Men like to go where they can learn something in terms of development.

  • @faithbyanjeru6971
    @faithbyanjeru6971 7 місяців тому

    This time no light bulb moment🙈

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 4 місяці тому

    💗💕💞💓

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 7 місяців тому

    26:11 Dear, people want prosperity gospel, bufumbo, and things of that nature 😂

  • @user-yz8jj2gu7h
    @user-yz8jj2gu7h 7 місяців тому +1

    Bro, PLEASE take your time. I was married in my mid 30s to a woman who LIED about everything about herself to me so that I can bring her to a western country where I was living and working professionally. The marriage failed and I NO LONGER TRUST WOMEN!!! This woman destroyed my career, my children, etc.

    • @anitakamagoba8424
      @anitakamagoba8424 7 місяців тому

      Never give up ,The Lord can still get u ure better half

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  7 місяців тому

      I’m so sorry sir about what you e gone through.
      However, Generalizing isn’t the way.
      God is able to

    • @joannamarie9090
      @joannamarie9090 6 місяців тому

      Ooh sorry dear. But forgive yourself

  • @mwesigwapeter8007
    @mwesigwapeter8007 7 місяців тому

    hehehe drinking water

  • @vickyjanicekisakye7731
    @vickyjanicekisakye7731 6 місяців тому

    Play lists😂😂😂

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 4 місяці тому

    🤎💜❤️💙💚💛

  • @ankundasheillah6543
    @ankundasheillah6543 7 місяців тому

    "Do not say of marriage what you would say of God". That's so profound.
    Thank you Lisa, Thank you Minister Mugume.
    I am so blessed that I listened in

  • @euginiaatieno7803
    @euginiaatieno7803 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤