holding eye contact in a world where everyone is afraid to make eye contact separates you from the masses. I never knew how important it was until my old coworker pointed out how im the only one who will look them in the eye whilst talking and it made them feel like they were being listened to and not just heard, which in turn would subconsciously make them feel attracted
I think a big factor as to why it’s so valuable is also bc it kind of validates that person. They feel like ur actively and sincerely listening to them when u keep eye contact.
@@Minipekka691 - it has become such a screen centered society that people growing up never got to develop such social skills it seems and even as adults tech has separated us More than usual especially the past few years so eye contact feels a bit rare.
This is so true I was walking home yesterday and there was this girl who's way out of my league who stared at me and I just held her gaze and She smiled big dubs keep grinding 💜
This exercise works wonders. Not just with girls with even in meetings and business deals. Also, try doing this with yourself whilst looking in the mirror. I use it to come back to my core reminders and goals!!
Holding good eye contact is one of the traits of the most confident people, how do you expect to be a confident man if you can't even look someone in the eyes, that's literally one of the traits an employer looks for, if you can hold good eye contact, it shows you're confident, have social skills, and aren't afraid of challenges.
@@christiantaylor1495 Brother I didn't mean that at all, there's a beauty in self-improvement, if you can't hold eye contact because it's a block in your brain then improve on your body language, if you can't improve on your body language because of a block then improve on your body with fitness, if you can't improve on your body with fitness because there is a block then improve your dress style, if you can't improve on your dress style because there is a block then improve on your hygiene. Life is worth living, just choose to improve yourself in any area you can, and when you look back on the work you did you'll be proud of yourself. Make your future self proud
Lifting weights and having success with women is what helped me hold eye contact with women very easily. By loving yourself and knowing that you're hot, you immediately gain confidence and the ability to hold eye contact. To be completely honest, meditation and journaling didn't really help me with girls, they just helped me face my inner demons. Thank you again Hamza for uploading these videos. It's a revolution boys!
@@spongepobrectanglepants1900 Used to think some girls at the gym prolly thought i was a creep when i first did this, but nope. They have been working out around me and trying to get my attention ever since. This made me realize it never did came off creepy was just my mindset. These woman would never come close to me or make eye contact again if they thought i was creepy. Yet they still do everytime.
@@zafiruzoma6234 hahah I have to look away after 3 seconds with a dude because any longer and I'll have to say "bro, can I help you" and I'd rather just not incase it escalates out of hand. The weirdest shit is when ur walking on a side walk and some dude just locks eyes from 15 feet away and won't look away as he's walking up to you and he doesn't wave nod or say nothing. My mind is like DUDE YOU NEED TO PUNCH HIM FIRST BEFORE HE TRIES TO STAB U and my other side of my mind is like YO IF HE DOESNT MEAN IT YOU GONNA GO TO JAIL FOR ASSAULT... so I might just cross the street or step wide... but yeah I mean, you never no I had a complete tweaked out stranger walk up and punch me for no reason down town (other than he was high AF) so I don't mess around.
the fact that this happened to me in the gym yesterday is CRAZY! i usually feel this insane boost of confidence when i dress well to work out. i realized this girl was staring at me, really hard. I just felt the need to look back at her, while i was taking a break and talking to my sister. We looked at each other for like 10 seconds and i just smiled to her, which she replied. I just went back to doing my thing and talked to her after i was done with my session. And the coolest thing of all, i wasn't really interested at her at the time, i was just focused on my workout. So we talked without any intentions, and i love this kinda of talk. Sorry for the essay lol
What I did to practice getting out of my comfort zone is actually something similar. I held eye contract with strangers which is way more uncomfortable than you think while walking by until they broke eye contract. As a tip: only look at one eye and blink, otherwise they will think you're a psychopath.
@@InvertedGigachad Is it better to look at their nose bridge then? Also, I was an autist who tried to look at both eyes of my former girlfriend. Funny times.
Bruhhh, this happened to me just yesterday. I was at a table and the girl sitting in front of me (a colleague I barely know) was sometimes looking at me. I started noticing, and then I attempted to look back at her while she was looking at me. And I did! I never knew what I was getting myself into, because as soon as we made eye contact, my emotions just exploded, and I couldn't hold for more than just a second. Trust me, eye contact is HARD!
Hey boys, just wanted to let you know that the progress you’ve been making is being noticed by the people around you. And even if it doesn’t seem like it, YOU KNOW the progress that you’ve been making. Keep moving forward boys you deserve the benefits your younger self worked hard for
My best friend’s mom accused of me of PEDs that is all the gratification I need. - I worked out for 2 months on a 6day split program got a bicep peak, and lost 9kg (longer than 2 months).
I’m thankful for you Hamza. I’ve learned a lot from you in these 4 months that I’ve been watching you. You inspired me to be more productive and now I’m reaching my goals, helping my friends be more like Adonis and they actually look up to getting advice from me, so I told them about you and they are really thankful that you are out here helping young people. I can’t thank you enough for helping me change my life around!
A couple months ago I realized I had very weak eye contact. So I decided to improve by making eye contact and keeping it with anyone I can... I've been in at least 100 eye contact duels lol...it's at the point where it's just fun now... I've been in duels with my friends, girls, random strangers basically anybody who I think is challenging me lol...I've lost some tho mostly with random strangers but my eye contact has definitely gotten way better.
You'd probably win with me, I won't hold eye contact with another dude for longer than 3 seconds or it's weird. If a dude looks at me that long I think he's either into me, or wants to fight or something. 😅
@@evolgenius1150 yeah I'd probably win lol whenever I make eye contact with another dude for more than 3 seconds I start to think he's trying to intimidate me...so I just stare back until he folds to prove I'm not intimidated
I can tell you this really works. I was in the grocery store literally 2 hours ago. I went to get a cart, turned around, and there was a girl standing behind me. I didn't hesitate. I looked directly into her eyes without moving an inch, and she looked into mine. After a few moments she knew she was no match for me and, intimidated, she retreated from the cart rack back without even obtaining one of the wheeled receptacles. This is the 14th woman this month that I have defeated through eye contact alone. I am growing stronger.
This is literally the way I got my first girlfriend, I used to watch all these videos on "How to become alpha" by FarFromAverage and one thing he always said is that you need to establish dominance by holding eye contact longer than her, so when I was on a school trip with her and she looked at me I looked back until she broke eye contact, it started to be a game between us of how many times we could hold eye contact, long story short - her attraction for me went through the roof and she became my first girlfriend back then, DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF HOLDING EYE CONTACT WITH A GIRL, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT!
I 100% agree that eye contact is REALLY important, im still in High school and when im in class and see someone looking at me or someone sees me looking at them, i just stare blankly into their eyes, males and females, i keep the eye contact until they either look away (which is most of the time) or when a few seconds pass, i then just raise my eyebrows as like a "wassup", no one will tell you but those same people i do that to, i always see them looking at me in classes
yeah lol. I am senior in HS and a hell lot of girls make that eye contact which is often weird but I am holding that eye contact until she breaks it, and often add it up with a wassup nod to not make it weird
honestly speaking, all young men can easily beat 'competition' if the competition isn't even valued as competition, we live in weak times, make the most of it!
I think we all observe and subconsciously judge no matter how much we try to tell ourselves not to. That is why such advice makes so much sense. It is possible to say the opposite, but in reality others will judge you for not having the confidence.
Eye contact is REALLY important. Yesterday was my science exam. After the exam was over me and my crush were discussing the exam paper and making jokes about the questions given. So then I started I making strong eye contact while talking to her. Because of that the conversation lasted longer than any of our previous conversations. Thank you Hamza for teaching me so much! Edit: the eye contact thing happened before hamza uploaded this. Edit 2: I later got rejected XD. Later realized she was not even worth crushing on.
I actually love looking people in the eyes and I always smile when a woman looks me in the eyes but unfortunately unless you're very attractive looking they usually will either just look away or look but not smile back. It's not even just women I just have a habit of looking people directly in the eyes.
if its a sincere smile, some women will feel supported if that makes sense. Its a good trait to have imo, just to be a smiley guy, make people feel appreciated, and seen. Def overlooked now-a-days
Ever since I started watching Hamza's videos, I started learning new stuff. Every day I watch a few of his videos to learn new things on the interesting topics. I wanted to show my gratitude here for this humble teacher. He is an absolute savior and a great mentor. I am grateful that I came across this channel. My life is changing more and more for the better every day
Focus on your self and others will be attracted, delayed gratification brings joy while instant gratification brings temporary happiness. Think longevity instead of temporary. Be Adonis not Jeffery. God bless all who read this and stay on that grind , set goals and don’t be contempt staying where you are .
Hamza you could say the same thing over and over again and we would never get bored because of your storytelling skills... with every single video from the very beginning I am always hooked. nice job :)
I can attest, the last guy I was interested in had a really hard time making eye contact with me. We actually went on a date where he did not look me in the eye once. It was very uncomfortable and it was impossible to connect with him :(
I just imagined this happening to me (as the male), even tho i dont think it would happen, its still such a wake up call to work on eye contact asap nice thank you for the comment.
Eye contact is sooooo fucking important bro not just with girls but with everyone you interat with. That one thing can literally let the other person know about the amount of self-confidence you have.
Given my transformation from a Jeffery to a somewhat Adonis, it’s absolutely crazy to me now how the Jeffery lifestyle is so common, and the mindset is honestly a cancerous one. Big up Hamza for being a beacon of hope, hopefully more and more Jefferys stumble upon this content and start their transformation.
Can we go back to saying beta and alpha instead of Jeffrey and Adonis? There are people who are called Jeffry who are like Adonis, and people called Adonis who are like Jeffrey
@@christiantaylor1495 i think its accurate because when i imagine jeffrey i dont imagine a ripped man. Its just a stereotype after all but yeah i would be discouraged if i came across hamza and my name was jeffrey. In the end hamza is making the mother of all omellettes, cant fret over every egg.
This is the perfect video for me. I struggle A LOT with eye contact and I'm grateful for your advice. I was asking a girl out for the first time a few weeks ago and I could barely hold eye contact. Ever since then, I understood the importance of it.
One simple trick I learned from a book is that always become curious as to what eye colour they have! And try to guess their eye color while talking to them. And that's like a advice that worked for me in a weird way because I thought it won't work! 😂
Well when you said to not hold eye contact like a creep, that’s mostly just dependent on if you look good or bad, if you’re ugly then they will automatically associate you with being a creep
Bro in the last weeks I was trying to look the girls when I walk directly in the eyes. I swear I’ve got a feedback from 80% girls with long eye contact, they try to chat with me and one give me the pistol gesture while she was looking me. I’m not bulky, I’m slim and the only think I have (imo) is a decent size shoulders. Guys, stay confident and chill even when walking. Like “whatever” mood.
This is the most perfect video to be posted today, literally just today at work I kept seeing pretty attractive women walk into the shop(I'm a sales assistant at a building supplies shop) and literally I would keep holding eye contact with them and they had this positive reaction like they were comfortable and wanted to be around me. So yeah, what you say is true. Women are attracted to confident guys. I literally just held eye contact and acted friendly towards them and they reciprocated that friendliness.
I usually don’t comment, however I wanna speak on this as a married man. At my my gym, there are many attractive females. However I’ve learned from experience that too much direct eye contact can be misleading for a women in thinking I could be interested in her/ talking to her. When in reality, I’m happily married and have no interest. When it comes to the gym, I tend to avoid looking in the known location of a female to avoid the tendency to lust and also unnecessary eye contact. Sure I’ll look a women in her eyes but I don’t make an effort to get attention either. Just a note for all the married men out there!!
Holding eye contact is SO much easier when you don’t watch porn. As is pretty much everything else. Even if all moral arguments fail, it still remains that porn is verifiably unhealthy for you.
yeah this is sooo true, I do to maintain eye contact alot with a girl i like while I talk right, She seems to look away alot of times but I think she does realize that I'm interested in her conversation that she will start to look into my eyes too. There is this unknown strong contact right which seems unusual to us. Trust me boys when i say this. While you are talking with a girl, The only reason why the conversation gets more interesting is because of the ee contact. If you tend to look away at times, not like slightly looking at right but I mean like literally turning your body around and looking away which I know every guy has faced it including me. Let's not shy about that. You need be focused on her while she is talking and you need to make your conversation go interesting that she finds it worth it to have eye contact with you. And the result is, She likes me now too, I keep in contact with her most of the times and I simply enjoy being around with her.
The vast majority of men and women that I make eye contact with and smile at look away from me instantly, making me not want to bother smiling at them. Seems like most people have this habit of avoiding others they don't know. It's kind of discouraging, but once in a while, someone will return the smile, so not everyone's like that.
I've been playing with making eye contact with everybody I pass by in the park, here are my conclusions: - person who breaks eye contact to look straight ahead is not interested, you don't give your attention to ugly people, do you? let your intuition guide you too instead of staring at every girl - people looking straight ahead and not meeting your gaze or giving just a short glance are people lacking confidence to look and people not interested in socializing with you e.g. hottest people or autistic people - person looking down on the ground and avoiding your gaze means do not engage, often means fear for safety, give them space and don't walk near them, can also mean a huge insecurity/anxiety - if somebody looks down after meeting your gaze, it means they act submissively, often means they think you are more attractive and/or they are very shy/embarrassed, if they look up it's an invitation to play - the rarest eye gazing I've experienced is when both people never break eye contact, that indicates a strong attraction and confidence, you should say hi! 💖
That’s something I really noticed most about you irl during the Amsterdam meet up, every single person you talk to you look into their soul almost and really are present in the moment when you engage conversation
This is actually something I’ve been struggling with and I hate saying this but I’ve been called attractive and this and that and I do feel that I am good looking, but when it comes to any eye contact interaction especially in public I am so insanely shy purely because I developed this barrier of trying to make sure women are okay in public, but at the cost of me not wanting to interact or do anything at all out of fear that I’m being a creep. My mind is a bit over exaggerated because I hear stories from my friends of some guy staring at them and such, but I need to remember they’re the one being weird and creepy and not holding eye contact in a good, interested way. Thank you for this video
Oh my god man, you hit the freaking jackpot, whenever I see an attractive girl, I always try to make eye contact and yo if I look away first, I always get that sense of losing, it's kind of like ingrained into my subconsciousness now. I thought that, that only I feel this sense of pride lost, when I look away first, but you got it spot on.
I had seen this as a concept from a video by FarFromAverage, basically there were studies shown that animals who hold eye contact longer will be more dominant over the other, same with humans ( as we are mammals ) And I tried this at the beach with the girls around my age, and they'd always do a double take if I had a strong eye contact with them. Aside from that thank you for putting your time into this video hamza!
This is one subject I've always been good with. When I talk to ANYONE, I always make and hold eye contact. I don't shy away from having eye contact and I've been told by my ex-bosses and current boss that that is a very good feature I have that most candidates didn't have. All the girls I've dated/ been in a relationship with also loved that I didn't shy away from eye contact. This is also the way I ended up with a collegue after work...
if u cant hold eye contact, people honestly don't bother with u. It's true, for both sexes. I recommend the book, "why men love b*ches" (just put a video out about it) ANYWAY, the author uses "The Bitch" to portray a women who lives life primarily for herself, she is the one who sustains the man's attention. BUT THIS goes for both sexes. the opposite sex is way more attracted to those that are independent, motivated, hard-working and confident. One of my fav parts of the book revolved around the fact that the dream-girl or dream-guy WILL NEVER kill themselves to impress others. Def recommend checking it out. I think it's of good value to check out books about attraction targeted to the sex you are trying to attract. Almost like a cross reference type deal on relationships, sex, attraction etc.
Unfortunately I squint since my birth and I have a big problem to hold eye contact I was bullied so often in school for squinting and now I have mass problems with eye contact especially in front of women. It hurts me deeply. 😔
When you've been doing self-improvement for a while and sticking to the good habits, you become a completely different person and sometimes things can feel effortless. You're self-image back then may have been a fapper that doesn't floss his teeth, groom, workout, take care of his mental health, smelly, nervous, or do any of the good habits. That then becomes a part of your identity and so when you talk to someone else (including women) and you feel scared or nervous, this can sometimes be a reflection of your own insecurities. We feel as though we are being judged by others when it is simply us reflecting our own insecurities at ourselves. This then causes us to act in a certain way that can repel women or make it difficult for you to do anything. But when you do the good habits, that becomes a part of your identity. When you read, you are a reader. When you workout, you are a hard worker. When you meditate, you are mindful of your well-being. When you do nofap, you feel much less like a loser. These are all positive characteristics that compound and eventually change the way you act and feel about yourself as well as the interactions you have with women. You still and always will have to do the hard work but things do become easier and eventually you will have a strong character such as Adonis that women will definitely take notice of. We're all gonna make it brothers.
Yeah... eye contact is something I struggle with all the time. Female AND males. It's actually to a degree in which I creep people out I think, and because of my anxiety, I subconsciously think of no eye contact as a positive because it reduces the copious amounts of stress I feel when others have their individual focus on me or when they are perceiving me. Anyway, this video gained you a sub man it was very thought provoking!
Bro I literally made this girl break eye contact after 2 seconds and she looked away 3 times and looked back at me every single time she jus sees me looking into her eyes and she kept blushing n getting nervous as I smiled w confidence. Then I went up to her and I realised how different of a game changer it is when u first hold eye contact n talk to a girl
During my school period someone told me to maintain eye contact with the person you like. I stared into my crush's eyes for like 10 minutes and from the next day she never talked to me every again. Her friends said she was too scared.
I'm new to this and I thought that holding eye contact with a girl actually makes her uncomfortable, because it's not easy to figure things out by yourself
I went to a etiquette class in 6th grade, and they made us do a eye contact exercise where we stood and just stared at eachother. Sadly the longest eye contact I've ever kept with a girl.
*When a woman looks at you, it’s not just about maintaining eye contact; it’s about how you respond to that gaze. Confidence plays a huge role here - smiling back and maintaining relaxed body language can set the right tone.*
sooo true man 2 weeks ago i was travelling i went to a club and there was this good looking girl i just looked at here and we locked eyes. 2 mins later same thing again and i started dancing with her without us even speaking a single word.
Some guys at my gym will literally sit at a machine next to a girl just to be near her and not even do a proper workout. Like bro get off the damn equipment if you’re just gonna sit there side-eyeing the girl and not even exercise 😂
Thanks so much dude! Started watching you around 6 months ago. I started home workout and my 8 kilo dbs arrived yesterday I feel way fitter, way more girls talk to me now, I'm way better at pe I'm only 14, still in elementary school You seriously helped me out even though I see only the very first results
Literally i saw this video in the afternoon and at night went for a walk near the beach. I saw a girl who was also doing the same as me. Decided to approach and started a really good conversation and got her Instagram. Hamza you are a real G
hamza, you gotta realise that most of those redpill/mgtow people are people who already tried everything they could, people dont give up if theres a possibility of making it. and theres a difference between hating women or criticising women, as long as men can be criticized, women can be as well. none the less i love your vids and animations are really on point.
You’re right that women should be criticised along with men, but it’s not true that the redpill, mgtow and mostly blackpill followers have tried everything. People give up more easily than you are letting on.
Huh¿ most of those communities are filled with losers who don't improve themselves, coping by setting themselves into an echo chamber and have a giving up loser mentality
This really works! Whenever someone male or female looks me in the eyes ill just stare them in the eyes untill they look away. Of course it has a diffirent intention with male or female but It works and gives me a gisnt confidence boost.
Funny that this pops up in my recommended now. A few days ago I was out having a drink with some friends, and we're sitting at this table at a bar for a little while, minding our own biz, enjoying ourselves. Then these two gorgeous girls come and sit at a table nearby. One of these girls is facing me, and I can't help but look at her sometimes. She's a 10/10, and I'd usually consider a girl like her out of my league, even though I don't look too bad myself. But here I am having a good time, free of worry, so I figure "eh fuck it, nothing wrong with looking at her, I'm not staring or anything". Also, recently I'd been feeling more confident holding eye contact with people, especially girls. So we share eye contact a few times in a span of around 20 minutes, until my friends feel like moving to some other bar. At this point, I didn't feel confident enough to approach her, so as I stand up, I choose to just blow her a kiss and smile. She smiles back. I start walking away with my friends and suddenly that girl's friend stands up, comes up to me and asks me "Do you have a girlfriend? My friend is a little shy". As soon as she said that I just go "oh ok, I'll go talk to her myself then". I got her number and we ended up spending the evening together. Goes to show, a little confidence and eye contact go a long way, and sometimes even girls you might find intimidating might secretly be interested in you. Invest in yourself, build some base confidence, then try pushing your limits a little, you might fail sometimes, but in the end you'll only build more confidence and achieve things you didn't know you were capable of.
@@christiantaylor1495 Because guys are desperate for anything. A high value man goes for a high value woman, and that woman was either already taught good morals or went on a self improvement journey
Yes, I study peoples body language everywhere I go. It is truly interesting to me and it gives my mind something to think about. Which for smart people, we are addicted to ideas. Ideas that get our brains working to process real time information. It is fun.
Please don’t take this to mean women want you to stare them down in a duel. That’s mad creepy to anyone, do that to the wrong man and you’ll get knocked out, women don’t want to be threatened by you either. Hamza is clearly talking about sharing eye contact, not shrinking yourself socially, playing small and darting your eyes as soon as someone acknowledges you non-verbally. I think also a woman trying to hold eye contact with you is our first bids we give in the dating dance, not always, could just be a very social girl who likes to hold eye contact but sometimes it can be used as flirting too. The rest of your face says a lot too, being inviting back and not looking like a caveman about to club her is a good start lol. If you’re someone who struggles to make eye contact, you could have emotional issues around shame and it’s worth exploring why you don’t want to be seen and feel the need to hide and shrink yourself. What holds you back from holding eye contact with people right now? What would it feel like to hold eye contact with someone in an open and inviting way? Maybe practice with the cashiers at the grocery store when you’re checking out 😄
For now, I've stopped caring about trying to attract a woman because all the woman in my town are undesirable. Legit just gonna work on myself and move somewhere with high quality women.
I think due to me too and feminism ,we as men have been shamed so much for masculinity, that now we feel so shamed to even be interested in a girl that's why we don't act confident.
holding eye contact in a world where everyone is afraid to make eye contact separates you from the masses. I never knew how important it was until my old coworker pointed out how im the only one who will look them in the eye whilst talking and it made them feel like they were being listened to and not just heard, which in turn would subconsciously make them feel attracted
I think a big factor as to why it’s so valuable is also bc it kind of validates that person. They feel like ur actively and sincerely listening to them when u keep eye contact.
In my country everybody does eye contact
That happened to me years ago
@@Minipekka691 - it has become such a screen centered society that people growing up never got to develop such social skills it seems and even as adults tech has separated us More than usual especially the past few years so eye contact feels a bit rare.
Is that why it’s regarded as “creepy”
This is so true I was walking home yesterday and there was this girl who's way out of my league who stared at me and I just held her gaze and She smiled big dubs keep grinding 💜
@@prodbyamy cheers mate I love the grind glad to see the self improvement movement is expanding to all genders you're an inspiration
@@jeffrito3002 we care 💪
@@icyhim2337 facts mate 💜
@@jeffrito3002 I know it's for yourself but when someone looks at you like that it's a huge ego boost regardless of self improvement
Did you talk to her
This exercise works wonders. Not just with girls with even in meetings and business deals. Also, try doing this with yourself whilst looking in the mirror. I use it to come back to my core reminders and goals!!
That's the best feeling, it's like you are the protagonist of your story before facing a huge challenge!
That sounds amazing
What exercise
Facts
In the mirror tatakay tatakay 😅
Holding good eye contact is one of the traits of the most confident people, how do you expect to be a confident man if you can't even look someone in the eyes, that's literally one of the traits an employer looks for, if you can hold good eye contact, it shows you're confident, have social skills, and aren't afraid of challenges.
So basically you're saying life for autistic people isn't worth living
@@christiantaylor1495 If you're autistic you'll be just fine if you go into STEM
@@christiantaylor1495 Brother I didn't mean that at all, there's a beauty in self-improvement, if you can't hold eye contact because it's a block in your brain then improve on your body language, if you can't improve on your body language because of a block then improve on your body with fitness, if you can't improve on your body with fitness because there is a block then improve your dress style, if you can't improve on your dress style because there is a block then improve on your hygiene.
Life is worth living, just choose to improve yourself in any area you can, and when you look back on the work you did you'll be proud of yourself.
Make your future self proud
@@christiantaylor1495 basically
@@christiantaylor1495 autistic OR omega who could not learn how to look and talk to people
Lifting weights and having success with women is what helped me hold eye contact with women very easily. By loving yourself and knowing that you're hot, you immediately gain confidence and the ability to hold eye contact. To be completely honest, meditation and journaling didn't really help me with girls, they just helped me face my inner demons. Thank you again Hamza for uploading these videos. It's a revolution boys!
couldn’t have said it better bro
Having success with women helped you have success with women
Yeah but what if you aren't sure you're attractive?
What if you don’t give a damn about women or anybody
@@jameson4844 stop watching porn or girls on the Internet then you will gives a damn unless youre asexuell
0:55 Adonis' walk got me😂😂
Yeah it was so funny
idk if this sounds weird but eye contact with an attractive woman who’s giving it back is one of the best feelings a man can get
but bro my mind will be saying stuff like,bro she thinks that ur a creep and that ruins the whole mood
@@spongepobrectanglepants1900 Same bro 😆
@@spongepobrectanglepants1900 Used to think some girls at the gym prolly thought i was a creep when i first did this, but nope. They have been working out around me and trying to get my attention ever since. This made me realize it never did came off creepy was just my mindset. These woman would never come close to me or make eye contact again if they thought i was creepy. Yet they still do everytime.
@@blixx87r u attractive im like a 3 at best so i do think i would look creepy
Holding eye contact with people on the street is a guilty pleasure of mine. It is like having a mini competition with them
Hahaha yea I stare right into peoples souls and they look away like they're terrified of me 😎
@@zafiruzoma6234 hahah I have to look away after 3 seconds with a dude because any longer and I'll have to say "bro, can I help you" and I'd rather just not incase it escalates out of hand. The weirdest shit is when ur walking on a side walk and some dude just locks eyes from 15 feet away and won't look away as he's walking up to you and he doesn't wave nod or say nothing. My mind is like DUDE YOU NEED TO PUNCH HIM FIRST BEFORE HE TRIES TO STAB U and my other side of my mind is like YO IF HE DOESNT MEAN IT YOU GONNA GO TO JAIL FOR ASSAULT... so I might just cross the street or step wide... but yeah I mean, you never no I had a complete tweaked out stranger walk up and punch me for no reason down town (other than he was high AF) so I don't mess around.
only works for very attractive ppl, if you're not you'll look very creepy
the fact that this happened to me in the gym yesterday is CRAZY! i usually feel this insane boost of confidence when i dress well to work out. i realized this girl was staring at me, really hard. I just felt the need to look back at her, while i was taking a break and talking to my sister. We looked at each other for like 10 seconds and i just smiled to her, which she replied. I just went back to doing my thing and talked to her after i was done with my session. And the coolest thing of all, i wasn't really interested at her at the time, i was just focused on my workout. So we talked without any intentions, and i love this kinda of talk. Sorry for the essay lol
just a chat or did it lead to something?
@@Knipser considering the end of the comment, it was most likely just a chat
@@HyperNova808 true hahah but this so old could lead to something now. thats what i meant
@@Knipser not everything leads to something
@@Skemmm did not said it would but i hoped for the best of course
What I did to practice getting out of my comfort zone is actually something similar. I held eye contract with strangers which is way more uncomfortable than you think while walking by until they broke eye contract. As a tip: only look at one eye and blink, otherwise they will think you're a psychopath.
this seems super fun actually, I might give it a try
I don't understand, we should only look at one of their eyes?
@@PeterParker-uy8nc yes
@@PeterParker-uy8nc You can't look at both eyes simultaneously because they are at different positions and you can only focus on one point
@@InvertedGigachad Is it better to look at their nose bridge then? Also, I was an autist who tried to look at both eyes of my former girlfriend. Funny times.
Bruhhh, this happened to me just yesterday. I was at a table and the girl sitting in front of me (a colleague I barely know) was sometimes looking at me. I started noticing, and then I attempted to look back at her while she was looking at me. And I did! I never knew what I was getting myself into, because as soon as we made eye contact, my emotions just exploded, and I couldn't hold for more than just a second. Trust me, eye contact is HARD!
Interest, posture, pride and honesty
@@dariotatopiola when I read your comment i remembered my posture, thank you
Hey boys, just wanted to let you know that the progress you’ve been making is being noticed by the people around you. And even if it doesn’t seem like it, YOU KNOW the progress that you’ve been making. Keep moving forward boys you deserve the benefits your younger self worked hard for
Same for all the girls here
My best friend’s mom accused of me of PEDs that is all the gratification I need.
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I worked out for 2 months on a 6day split program got a bicep peak, and lost 9kg (longer than 2 months).
@@Bekky-pz2qy
Working out glutes and biceps are always appreciated.
I recently started incorporating hip thrusts on my leg days.
I’m thankful for you Hamza. I’ve learned a lot from you in these 4 months that I’ve been watching you. You inspired me to be more productive and now I’m reaching my goals, helping my friends be more like Adonis and they actually look up to getting advice from me, so I told them about you and they are really thankful that you are out here helping young people. I can’t thank you enough for helping me change my life around!
A couple months ago I realized I had very weak eye contact. So I decided to improve by making eye contact and keeping it with anyone I can... I've been in at least 100 eye contact duels lol...it's at the point where it's just fun now... I've been in duels with my friends, girls, random strangers basically anybody who I think is challenging me lol...I've lost some tho mostly with random strangers but my eye contact has definitely gotten way better.
You'd probably win with me, I won't hold eye contact with another dude for longer than 3 seconds or it's weird. If a dude looks at me that long I think he's either into me, or wants to fight or something. 😅
@@evolgenius1150 yeah I'd probably win lol whenever I make eye contact with another dude for more than 3 seconds I start to think he's trying to intimidate me...so I just stare back until he folds to prove I'm not intimidated
yo man, any tips for a eye contact duel? what to do if it goes over 5 seconds
I can tell you this really works. I was in the grocery store literally 2 hours ago. I went to get a cart, turned around, and there was a girl standing behind me. I didn't hesitate. I looked directly into her eyes without moving an inch, and she looked into mine. After a few moments she knew she was no match for me and, intimidated, she retreated from the cart rack back without even obtaining one of the wheeled receptacles. This is the 14th woman this month that I have defeated through eye contact alone. I am growing stronger.
Never would i expect to see red tsun in a hamza comment section
@@Vincent_Rabbit ngl I have no idea who this guy is. Video just popped into my recommended feed
@@redtsun67 you should have stolen her foo
This is literally the way I got my first girlfriend, I used to watch all these videos on "How to become alpha" by FarFromAverage and one thing he always said is that you need to establish dominance by holding eye contact longer than her, so when I was on a school trip with her and she looked at me I looked back until she broke eye contact, it started to be a game between us of how many times we could hold eye contact, long story short - her attraction for me went through the roof and she became my first girlfriend back then, DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF HOLDING EYE CONTACT WITH A GIRL, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT!
I 100% agree that eye contact is REALLY important, im still in High school and when im in class and see someone looking at me or someone sees me looking at them, i just stare blankly into their eyes, males and females, i keep the eye contact until they either look away (which is most of the time) or when a few seconds pass, i then just raise my eyebrows as like a "wassup", no one will tell you but those same people i do that to, i always see them looking at me in classes
yeah lol. I am senior in HS and a hell lot of girls make that eye contact which is often weird but I am holding that eye contact until she breaks it, and often add it up with a wassup nod to not make it weird
the "wassup" nod sounds cool
honestly speaking, all young men can easily beat 'competition' if the competition isn't even valued as competition, we live in weak times, make the most of it!
I think we all observe and subconsciously judge no matter how much we try to tell ourselves not to. That is why such advice makes so much sense. It is possible to say the opposite, but in reality others will judge you for not having the confidence.
yeah make yourself comfort and proud, so you know there's no reason to judge yourself
Eye contact is REALLY important. Yesterday was my science exam. After the exam was over me and my crush were discussing the exam paper and making jokes about the questions given. So then I started I making strong eye contact while talking to her.
Because of that the conversation lasted longer than any of our previous conversations.
Thank you Hamza for teaching me so much!
Edit: the eye contact thing happened before hamza uploaded this.
Edit 2: I later got rejected XD. Later realized she was not even worth crushing on.
legend
nice, keep it up!
always eye contact during psp
Why man? If you want to share ofc.
Lmao
I actually love looking people in the eyes and I always smile when a woman looks me in the eyes but unfortunately unless you're very attractive looking they usually will either just look away or look but not smile back. It's not even just women I just have a habit of looking people directly in the eyes.
if its a sincere smile, some women will feel supported if that makes sense. Its a good trait to have imo, just to be a smiley guy, make people feel appreciated, and seen. Def overlooked now-a-days
Same here if I look them in the eye I blush 😭
Get in the gym bud
Eye contact for long periods of time makes me extremely uncomfortable. I can't help but just look away
Bruh it isn’t all about looks
Maturing is realizing that YOU have to be in controll in your mind and body to be at your fullest. Great content👍
Maturing is a lot more than that
Ever since I started watching Hamza's videos, I started learning new stuff. Every day I watch a few of his videos to learn new things on the interesting topics. I wanted to show my gratitude here for this humble teacher. He is an absolute savior and a great mentor. I am grateful that I came across this channel. My life is changing more and more for the better every day
Focus on your self and others will be attracted, delayed gratification brings joy while instant gratification brings temporary happiness. Think longevity instead of temporary. Be Adonis not Jeffery.
God bless all who read this and stay on that grind , set goals and don’t be contempt staying where you are .
Hamza you could say the same thing over and over again and we would never get bored because of your storytelling skills... with every single video from the very beginning I am always hooked. nice job :)
I can attest, the last guy I was interested in had a really hard time making eye contact with me. We actually went on a date where he did not look me in the eye once. It was very uncomfortable and it was impossible to connect with him :(
Dang, even on the date? yowza
I just imagined this happening to me (as the male), even tho i dont think it would happen, its still such a wake up call to work on eye contact asap nice thank you for the comment.
@@dariotatopiola Yeah, that would be super weird. Id probably keep repeating "Are you okay?????"
Eye contact is sooooo fucking important bro not just with girls but with everyone you interat with. That one thing can literally let the other person know about the amount of self-confidence you have.
Given my transformation from a Jeffery to a somewhat Adonis, it’s absolutely crazy to me now how the Jeffery lifestyle is so common, and the mindset is honestly a cancerous one. Big up Hamza for being a beacon of hope, hopefully more and more Jefferys stumble upon this content and start their transformation.
Can we go back to saying beta and alpha instead of Jeffrey and Adonis? There are people who are called Jeffry who are like Adonis, and people called Adonis who are like Jeffrey
@@christiantaylor1495 no
@@warlboropack Why not use a real persons name then? Like Marcus Aurelius or Zeno? Or Ceto?
@@christiantaylor1495 i think its accurate because when i imagine jeffrey i dont imagine a ripped man. Its just a stereotype after all but yeah i would be discouraged if i came across hamza and my name was jeffrey. In the end hamza is making the mother of all omellettes, cant fret over every egg.
@@warlboropack Jeffrey Dean Morgan, Jeff Cavaliere, Jeff Nippard,Jeff Seid ENOUGH SAID
This is the perfect video for me. I struggle A LOT with eye contact and I'm grateful for your advice. I was asking a girl out for the first time a few weeks ago and I could barely hold eye contact. Ever since then, I understood the importance of it.
One simple trick I learned from a book is that always become curious as to what eye colour they have! And try to guess their eye color while talking to them. And that's like a advice that worked for me in a weird way because I thought it won't work! 😂
Interesting I might try this
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 Yeah, Do give it a try and let me know if it worked for you or not!
Well when you said to not hold eye contact like a creep, that’s mostly just dependent on if you look good or bad, if you’re ugly then they will automatically associate you with being a creep
Bro in the last weeks I was trying to look the girls when I walk directly in the eyes. I swear I’ve got a feedback from 80% girls with long eye contact, they try to chat with me and one give me the pistol gesture while she was looking me.
I’m not bulky, I’m slim and the only think I have (imo) is a decent size shoulders.
Guys, stay confident and chill even when walking. Like “whatever” mood.
This is the most perfect video to be posted today, literally just today at work I kept seeing pretty attractive women walk into the shop(I'm a sales assistant at a building supplies shop) and literally I would keep holding eye contact with them and they had this positive reaction like they were comfortable and wanted to be around me. So yeah, what you say is true. Women are attracted to confident guys. I literally just held eye contact and acted friendly towards them and they reciprocated that friendliness.
I usually don’t comment, however I wanna speak on this as a married man.
At my my gym, there are many attractive females. However I’ve learned from experience that too much direct eye contact can be misleading for a women in thinking I could be interested in her/ talking to her. When in reality, I’m happily married and have no interest.
When it comes to the gym, I tend to avoid looking in the known location of a female to avoid the tendency to lust and also unnecessary eye contact.
Sure I’ll look a women in her eyes but I don’t make an effort to get attention either. Just a note for all the married men out there!!
It's crazy when we care about female attraction we don't get it but when we don't care about the attraction we get it☀️
The masculine urge to stare into the soul of every woman you meet.
Holding eye contact is SO much easier when you don’t watch porn. As is pretty much everything else. Even if all moral arguments fail, it still remains that porn is verifiably unhealthy for you.
yeah this is sooo true, I do to maintain eye contact alot with a girl i like while I talk right, She seems to look away alot of times but I think she does realize that I'm interested in her conversation that she will start to look into my eyes too. There is this unknown strong contact right which seems unusual to us. Trust me boys when i say this. While you are talking with a girl, The only reason why the conversation gets more interesting is because of the ee contact. If you tend to look away at times, not like slightly looking at right but I mean like literally turning your body around and looking away which I know every guy has faced it including me. Let's not shy about that. You need be focused on her while she is talking and you need to make your conversation go interesting that she finds it worth it to have eye contact with you. And the result is, She likes me now too, I keep in contact with her most of the times and I simply enjoy being around with her.
The vast majority of men and women that I make eye contact with and smile at look away from me instantly, making me not want to bother smiling at them. Seems like most people have this habit of avoiding others they don't know. It's kind of discouraging, but once in a while, someone will return the smile, so not everyone's like that.
I've been playing with making eye contact with everybody I pass by in the park, here are my conclusions:
- person who breaks eye contact to look straight ahead is not interested, you don't give your attention to ugly people, do you? let your intuition guide you too instead of staring at every girl
- people looking straight ahead and not meeting your gaze or giving just a short glance are people lacking confidence to look and people not interested in socializing with you e.g. hottest people or autistic people
- person looking down on the ground and avoiding your gaze means do not engage, often means fear for safety, give them space and don't walk near them, can also mean a huge insecurity/anxiety
- if somebody looks down after meeting your gaze, it means they act submissively, often means they think you are more attractive and/or they are very shy/embarrassed, if they look up it's an invitation to play
- the rarest eye gazing I've experienced is when both people never break eye contact, that indicates a strong attraction and confidence, you should say hi! 💖
It takes balls to actually implement this but the reward is so amazing
That’s something I really noticed most about you irl during the Amsterdam meet up, every single person you talk to you look into their soul almost and really are present in the moment when you engage conversation
Hamza is connected to some universal force. Just had this conversation and then this vid pops up haha. Been a couple times this has happened.
This is actually something I’ve been struggling with and I hate saying this but I’ve been called attractive and this and that and I do feel that I am good looking, but when it comes to any eye contact interaction especially in public I am so insanely shy purely because I developed this barrier of trying to make sure women are okay in public, but at the cost of me not wanting to interact or do anything at all out of fear that I’m being a creep. My mind is a bit over exaggerated because I hear stories from my friends of some guy staring at them and such, but I need to remember they’re the one being weird and creepy and not holding eye contact in a good, interested way. Thank you for this video
hey man, just remember to blink while in eye contact and focus on only one eye. give them a smile if the eye contact loads over 7 or so seconds
My eye contact has gotten so much better on SR...It's so effortless for me !!!
Females love that shit 💯
@Isabella 🔥 It's females for me 🤷🏻♂️
@Isabella 🔥 I dodged your punch. What's your next move ?
@Isabella 🔥 nvm...I thought you are the one 😮💨
@Isabella 🔥 ight. i'll give you another chance. Where u from?
@Isabella 🔥 I knew it. You definitely aint the one 😮💨
Oh my god man, you hit the freaking jackpot, whenever I see an attractive girl, I always try to make eye contact and yo if I look away first, I always get that sense of losing, it's kind of like ingrained into my subconsciousness now. I thought that, that only I feel this sense of pride lost, when I look away first, but you got it spot on.
I had seen this as a concept from a video by FarFromAverage, basically there were studies shown that animals who hold eye contact longer will be more dominant over the other, same with humans ( as we are mammals ) And I tried this at the beach with the girls around my age, and they'd always do a double take if I had a strong eye contact with them. Aside from that thank you for putting your time into this video hamza!
You're the reason I'm able to level up
This is one subject I've always been good with. When I talk to ANYONE, I always make and hold eye contact. I don't shy away from having eye contact and I've been told by my ex-bosses and current boss that that is a very good feature I have that most candidates didn't have.
All the girls I've dated/ been in a relationship with also loved that I didn't shy away from eye contact.
This is also the way I ended up with a collegue after work...
hehe nice
if u cant hold eye contact, people honestly don't bother with u. It's true, for both sexes. I recommend the book, "why men love b*ches" (just put a video out about it)
ANYWAY, the author uses "The Bitch" to portray a women who lives life primarily for herself, she is the one who sustains the man's attention. BUT THIS goes for both sexes. the opposite sex is way more attracted to those that are independent, motivated, hard-working and confident. One of my fav parts of the book revolved around the fact that the dream-girl or dream-guy WILL NEVER kill themselves to impress others. Def recommend checking it out. I think it's of good value to check out books about attraction targeted to the sex you are trying to attract. Almost like a cross reference type deal on relationships, sex, attraction etc.
@This Isfor there’s a first for everything 🍀
Unfortunately I squint since my birth and I have a big problem to hold eye contact I was bullied so often in school for squinting and now I have mass problems with eye contact especially in front of women. It hurts me deeply. 😔
Eye contact with a girl in the gym < eye contact with myself in the mirror at the gym
1:48
General relativity in theory: any object can curve the spacetime continium in space and attract other objects
General relativity in practice:
When you've been doing self-improvement for a while and sticking to the good habits, you become a completely different person and sometimes things can feel effortless. You're self-image back then may have been a fapper that doesn't floss his teeth, groom, workout, take care of his mental health, smelly, nervous, or do any of the good habits. That then becomes a part of your identity and so when you talk to someone else (including women) and you feel scared or nervous, this can sometimes be a reflection of your own insecurities. We feel as though we are being judged by others when it is simply us reflecting our own insecurities at ourselves. This then causes us to act in a certain way that can repel women or make it difficult for you to do anything. But when you do the good habits, that becomes a part of your identity. When you read, you are a reader. When you workout, you are a hard worker. When you meditate, you are mindful of your well-being. When you do nofap, you feel much less like a loser. These are all positive characteristics that compound and eventually change the way you act and feel about yourself as well as the interactions you have with women. You still and always will have to do the hard work but things do become easier and eventually you will have a strong character such as Adonis that women will definitely take notice of. We're all gonna make it brothers.
have been working on this for months and lets say i am 2x times more confident then i were months ago while talking to girls.
Why do I feel like this could land me in jail if I don’t have an Eren Yeager 8 pack
Get to the point where it wont be creepy then start from there
Yeah... eye contact is something I struggle with all the time. Female AND males. It's actually to a degree in which I creep people out I think, and because of my anxiety, I subconsciously think of no eye contact as a positive because it reduces the copious amounts of stress I feel when others have their individual focus on me or when they are perceiving me. Anyway, this video gained you a sub man it was very thought provoking!
Bro I literally made this girl break eye contact after 2 seconds and she looked away 3 times and looked back at me every single time she jus sees me looking into her eyes and she kept blushing n getting nervous as I smiled w confidence. Then I went up to her and I realised how different of a game changer it is when u first hold eye contact n talk to a girl
Great video, I've noticed that I avoid eye contact with random women on the street but moving forward NO MORE!
During my school period someone told me to maintain eye contact with the person you like. I stared into my crush's eyes for like 10 minutes and from the next day she never talked to me every again. Her friends said she was too scared.
I'm new to this and I thought that holding eye contact with a girl actually makes her uncomfortable, because it's not easy to figure things out by yourself
Depends on the context and how long
I've never made so much eye contact with any youtuber while watching a video.
I went to a etiquette class in 6th grade, and they made us do a eye contact exercise where we stood and just stared at eachother.
Sadly the longest eye contact I've ever kept with a girl.
Now do it everyday lol
*When a woman looks at you, it’s not just about maintaining eye contact; it’s about how you respond to that gaze. Confidence plays a huge role here - smiling back and maintaining relaxed body language can set the right tone.*
sooo true man
2 weeks ago i was travelling i went to a club and there was this good looking girl
i just looked at here and we locked eyes.
2 mins later same thing again and i started dancing with her without us even speaking a single word.
Thanks to this video, I now do random staring contest with random women I see.
The main issue is that I scare people when I have eye contact with them 💀
Even when I was damn near anti social I always seemed to have good eye contact. I just don’t carry my fear in my eyes
Some guys at my gym will literally sit at a machine next to a girl just to be near her and not even do a proper workout. Like bro get off the damn equipment if you’re just gonna sit there side-eyeing the girl and not even exercise 😂
Hamza is one of my favorite UA-camrs right now. So much great advice
Adonis walking down the street was Golden 😂😂😂😂
I just mwah’d back at Hamza, the quote is contagious 😳
Thanks so much dude!
Started watching you around 6 months ago.
I started home workout and my 8 kilo dbs arrived yesterday
I feel way fitter, way more girls talk to me now, I'm way better at pe
I'm only 14, still in elementary school
You seriously helped me out even though I see only the very first results
eye contact with females is like looking at a deer in headlights
Literally i saw this video in the afternoon and at night went for a walk near the beach. I saw a girl who was also doing the same as me. Decided to approach and started a really good conversation and got her Instagram. Hamza you are a real G
I feel you on the observing people. I've adjusted so much of my posture and body language just by watching other interact.
hamza, you gotta realise that most of those redpill/mgtow people are people who already tried everything they could, people dont give up if theres a possibility of making it. and theres a difference between hating women or criticising women, as long as men can be criticized, women can be as well. none the less i love your vids and animations are really on point.
You’re right that women should be criticised along with men, but it’s not true that the redpill, mgtow and mostly blackpill followers have tried everything. People give up more easily than you are letting on.
Huh¿ most of those communities are filled with losers who don't improve themselves, coping by setting themselves into an echo chamber and have a giving up loser mentality
What
2:01 this is so true 😭
The ultimate challenge is now smiling after making eye contact for a few seconds. That will change everything.
This really works! Whenever someone male or female looks me in the eyes ill just stare them in the eyes untill they look away. Of course it has a diffirent intention with male or female but It works and gives me a gisnt confidence boost.
Funny that this pops up in my recommended now.
A few days ago I was out having a drink with some friends, and we're sitting at this table at a bar for a little while, minding our own biz, enjoying ourselves. Then these two gorgeous girls come and sit at a table nearby. One of these girls is facing me, and I can't help but look at her sometimes. She's a 10/10, and I'd usually consider a girl like her out of my league, even though I don't look too bad myself. But here I am having a good time, free of worry, so I figure "eh fuck it, nothing wrong with looking at her, I'm not staring or anything". Also, recently I'd been feeling more confident holding eye contact with people, especially girls. So we share eye contact a few times in a span of around 20 minutes, until my friends feel like moving to some other bar. At this point, I didn't feel confident enough to approach her, so as I stand up, I choose to just blow her a kiss and smile. She smiles back. I start walking away with my friends and suddenly that girl's friend stands up, comes up to me and asks me "Do you have a girlfriend? My friend is a little shy". As soon as she said that I just go "oh ok, I'll go talk to her myself then". I got her number and we ended up spending the evening together.
Goes to show, a little confidence and eye contact go a long way, and sometimes even girls you might find intimidating might secretly be interested in you. Invest in yourself, build some base confidence, then try pushing your limits a little, you might fail sometimes, but in the end you'll only build more confidence and achieve things you didn't know you were capable of.
Grateful for your wisdom Hamza, personally I've not had a girl but that'll change once I progress in my self improvement journey! 🤠💯
Question:
Why do girls not have to do self improvement to get a boyfriend?
@@christiantaylor1495 Because guys are desperate for anything. A high value man goes for a high value woman, and that woman was either already taught good morals or went on a self improvement journey
@@theistnate That isn't an answer
@@christiantaylor1495 It's an answer you might not think it's a good answer but an answer nonetheless
@@christiantaylor1495 cause they are female if she have the things call vagina and bOobs most guys don't care and she only has to chose the winner
I did this and i got banned from my gym and got accused i was a weirdo.
Yo hamza are you fasting since it’s Ramadan ? Btw I’m a huge fan your growth rate is crazy you will reach a million subs in no time good luck brother
He’s not Muslims he’s Christian
@@nevertrollingagain7483 his family is literally Muslim look at his “I’m considering religion video” he is a brown dude from Pakistan
@@nevertrollingagain7483 he isn't religious bruh
@@browhat6935 he is I have spoken with him
@@nevertrollingagain7483 wow lol that’s a lie he went on a podcast with Muslim peeps and asked them if they could teach him how to pray
400k soon insha'Allah
Yes, I study peoples body language everywhere I go. It is truly interesting to me and it gives my mind something to think about. Which for smart people, we are addicted to ideas. Ideas that get our brains working to process real time information. It is fun.
I live in romania.If you look at someone for like 10 seconds they will say:why are you looking at me like that do you want to get beat up?
Please don’t take this to mean women want you to stare them down in a duel. That’s mad creepy to anyone, do that to the wrong man and you’ll get knocked out, women don’t want to be threatened by you either. Hamza is clearly talking about sharing eye contact, not shrinking yourself socially, playing small and darting your eyes as soon as someone acknowledges you non-verbally. I think also a woman trying to hold eye contact with you is our first bids we give in the dating dance, not always, could just be a very social girl who likes to hold eye contact but sometimes it can be used as flirting too. The rest of your face says a lot too, being inviting back and not looking like a caveman about to club her is a good start lol.
If you’re someone who struggles to make eye contact, you could have emotional issues around shame and it’s worth exploring why you don’t want to be seen and feel the need to hide and shrink yourself. What holds you back from holding eye contact with people right now? What would it feel like to hold eye contact with someone in an open and inviting way? Maybe practice with the cashiers at the grocery store when you’re checking out 😄
@withoutmotive why are you telling all this to me though?
Yo balii less go 🔥🔥🔥, I'll be here waitin from Indonesia
0:55's walk was amazing lmao
For now, I've stopped caring about trying to attract a woman because all the woman in my town are undesirable. Legit just gonna work on myself and move somewhere with high quality women.
you must get this a lot but your memes are just down right hilarious bro, made me burst out a giggle
hamza is so selfless. he makes these videos so that one day we won’t need to watch them anymore
I used to not have female friends because im shy around them but somehow, now all my friends are females.
Hold eye contact to enstablish dominance
Stare into her soul and let her KNOW...get at it men!!
I think due to me too and feminism ,we as men have been shamed so much for masculinity, that now we feel so shamed to even be interested in a girl that's why we don't act confident.
@Leyla Ahmeti I am not ,you don't even know me
@Leyla Ahmeti cap, but anyway that was what I noticed and improved.
If you drink a protein shake for every time he says autistic then you gonna be bulked tf up at the end
I never really held long eye contact, though it was creepy to do that, now I'll consider your advice and hope it shows good results
Thanks for the appreciation chad ✌🏻