6 Features That Make Men Handsome
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He just called me ugly for 14 minutes.
😂😂😂
Bruuutal
형제 눈물이 난다
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We are in the same team bro😂
Just be handsome, bro. It's very easy. All u gotta do is be born handsome. Come on, guys.
i am
i am born handsome and i agree its easy
all u have to do is be handsome
i dont know why others guys dont understand ur messge
We meet again handsome X
I was *coughs violently*
@@Moesie you are not attractive you look like every pakistani guy i have seen
Fellas, just become the best version of yourself. It’s impossible to be universally attractive. For example, I’ll never shave my face or my body hair. Will some find it attractive? Yes. Will some find it unattractive? Also yes. Do you.
No one’s a 10
@@jonathank786 exactly
😂😢
tmi
The gays will love you
Why am I watching this? I'm short.
😂😂 same here brother but we can still look good!
It's about facial attractiveness. If you were attractive in the face you'd get attention regardless.
@@abel3874 attention? yes. but unfortunately women care way too much about height and so a significant amount of that attention amounts to nothing
@@abel3874im lucky to be born handsome but im short. What should I do if handsome tall guy mogs me?(im 5’6)
You just ruined my day 😞
Fascinating how he confidently classified aggressiveness as a negative trait multiple times.
Not necessarily a criticism of his character, but rather an observation of how vastly different western cultures are from mine (I’m Nigerian).
thats because his culture produce soyboys. And your culture produces warriors.
@@user-vc5qg6we3v This has nothing to do with soyboys or better cultures. Modern women don't want men who are going to be fighting and in jail 90% of the time. In modern society violence and aggression is not needed anymore. It's better to be both, aka chill dude who is not an asshole who can be violent when he needs to.
@@anthonysanchez5429 fact. chillness is the most ideal. no need to be too passive and no need to be aggressive all the time. assert your own needs but dont push it on everyone else. look up kimi raikkonen for this, i think he is the best example. not caring about what others think of him while living his own life and asserting his ownself.
I'm American and I view aggressiveness as a certain type of virtue. This man does not speak for the west, nor do the studies he cites.
@@scoon2117 assertiveness overlaps with aggressiveness
I like how compressed this video is with facts! Have you considered making more videos on the topic of body types such as long/short torso vs long/short legs and so on? Another example could be the attractiveness of a rounded versus flat butt in men.
@Hana600 "big butts on guys are gross"
We're literally using words like"gross" to describe someone's physical appearance now huh? Crazy
I also don’t like make butts
@Hana600 it’s fine if you don’t get offended. But that doesn’t mean you should offend others
@Hana600 lmao ive never seen it put so bluntly
i like rounded but not big
"Everybody is beautiful"
-Greek God looking guy
i like your pfp
I think the reason why what makes a man attractive is controversial is because male beauty being at the forefront is fairly new,when for women it's always been discussed.
Edit: Apparently you guys can't read. I said "Male beauty being at the forefront is fairly new" meaning male beauty has never been talked about to this extent prior. I didn't say it's never been talked about until now
Wrong
@@thealchemist5653Explain why
nah, is just women look for something different long term compared to short term
He literally explains that it depends on what women want short term vs long term
not true, it’s because the female gaze is more complex than the male gaze
I like masculine & more feminine looking guys equally. It’s impossible to choose. Would 100% depend on their style.
Having a mixture of both in one man can help
What to you is feminine?
@@skeletorlikespotatoes7846 I don’t like feminine guys but feminine guys all have those pink pouty lips with chubby faces and are skinny
@@neptune6619 so you like them or not? What's wrong with being skinny and having big lips?
No, depends more on your hormone cycle
i had a gap in my front tooth, got the gap fixed and i have to admit my attractiveness went up 10fold
Yeah teeth rl important glad u got the gap closed
Did you used to eat spaghetti through the gap, though? Gross!
Gaps teeth are so attractive on women
I had an overbite and crowded teeth, got orthodontic treatment to fix both and while I love the results, there’s been no noticeable change in the amount of attention I get from the opposite sex. It’s as if nothing changed and I don’t know what to make of that 🤨
@@Jota-rc8yq may perhaps be your height, skin, hair, you may not be in the best shape etc
honestly, this is a really good video. I liked your older videos a lot as you explained subjects in dept. This vid was on the other hand compact and simple to understand.
I remember an older Qoves video, where it was mentioned that feminine features can look attractive on a man. I noticed this in Tom Hardy who I find very attractive. Tom Hardy has full lips that give him a pouty look sometimes. I prefer masculine men but this feature never put me off. In fact I saw it as one of his most attractive features and it balanced out his masculine appearance.
thin lips don't look good on anybody not even men
I think full lips is a good trait whether you are male or female. Much like a small waist. A small waist is both masculine and feminine yet for whatever reason full lips is not seen that way, despite both genders seeming to like the feature. Also its funny you say "pouty lips" the very first time I ever heard that term was a woman talking about a ufc fighter named Shavkat Rakhmonov and now ive seen it twice in a week.
@@kylerBD haha, thats so interesting. Yeah if you look at his lips they are so big that it almost looks like he has a natural pout.
He has the balance of strong masculinity and feminine features. That’s why just 1 factor doesn’t tip the scale I guess.
But he has to much wrinkles on his forehead.
Quoves studio is becoming more like a dating/sexual relationship which i dont mind infact i love it
Male preference for women is so much more straightforward lol
It depends on short term and long term relationship tho
@@joegambitt7414 no
@@12yroldedgelord41There is a difference between hot, cute, and beautiful so I think for some men, there is a difference
Men are attracted to women sexually. Women are attracted to male social status or $$$$$.
1st criteria :
•Needs to be alive.
•All other features are negotiable
It would be interesting to see women's preferences by factors like age groups, culture etc... For example, just from my experience it seems like younger women (teens, early 20's) typically are more drawn to the pretty boy/feminine look while older more mature women (mid 20's and up) typically are more drawn to the masculine/mature look. Furthermore, beauty standards for men seem to differ by culture. For example, in the west male beauty standards seem to be a lot more masculine compared to Japan or South Korea. The data would likely look quite different for different age groups and different cultures.
no, women only like pretty boys for long term. for short term, they like masculine guys
Absolutely right.
I really hate that this is not considered more when discussing averages of what women are attracted to. Here you are grooming a beard because you read the studies only to realise that the type of women you're going for (i.e. young) like the K-Pop look. But hey, at least their mums think you're charming.
If u want to look young, be a pretty boy. Being a pretty boy has more advantages than being very masculine, ur skin will be good, u will look young, u will be able to attract younger women( which most men want) and most women dont feel safe around very masculine men in public, unless u are her husband.
The dude who made the video believes women prefer CURRIES. Lol.
For once, I totally agree with all analysis on masculine features faces. I totally have the "long term" type. Never got any troubles for having a gf desiring long term, but had more trouble with getting one nights and short term. Last thing i'd had is cheek bones (they need to be apparent). But generally speaking all structutal facial bones ideally need to be apparent. Love yourself, cheers
At least for me, I think the best option is a mix of “feminine” and “masculine” features. Like, men with defined jawline but not super squared with an innocent look is the perfect mix
Yeah. And I find that the best looking "masculine" guys have some feminine features, while the best looking "feminine" guys have some masculine features. You need both dimorphism and pretty features
Same here. most heartthrob don't look like "gigachads"
gay
@@desolate1907what's wrong with being gay?
It would be interesting to see which of those pictures males and females find attractive. For example, as a straight male I think Christopher Reeve is 10 times more good-looking the Chris Hemsworth.
Can you make a video about (studdle) beard ? And going in depth like what would be the perfect measurements depending on your face's shape ? Or sharing tips & hacks to define our beard to have a great jawline for example.
Studdle beard seems to be the most liked amongst women's but it's difficult to make it perfect as you need to be precise on a millimeter scale in differents parts of the beard
That would help me so much !
I’m saying this as a woman-i really don’t know much about beards since i don’t have one but what’s generally appealing is that it fits your face shape. Stubbles really don’t work for everyone. My brother has a long face so he has the sides outgrown which makes his face appear more squared off, if you have a round face taper the sides and grow out the bottom, if you have well-defined bone structures, it can just be decent as well, stubbles work well. If your hair is thin I’d suggest just not growing one, if it’s super thick keeping it close to the face makes it look tidier, etc etc. (I’m an artist so i look at faces a lot.)
cool video idea
As a woman I’ll tell you the truth lol me and almost 20 of my female coworkers had a conversation one day about how men with JUST a mustache are SO hot lol 😂 or just a stache with some stubble even! 🔥
What a great video, quality personified! (or channelized idk)
i watch your videos every night before i go to bed , not only educational but your voice soothes me to sleep
Yes , the voice is soothing
Same here 😅
Such a good video. I appreciate it a lot, it helped me figure out where I'm lacking thanks
the minecraft and K-pop Jaw comparison made me spill my tea.
Being handsome is having the confident to feel and look handsome
All steps starts to confidence....
Great editing!
I am amazed that researchers were actually able to get funding to conduct these studies and write these papers
No wonder college costs so much
The majority of research is government funded (i.e. taxpayer money), not funded by tuition
@@Allpall Even worse then
This research is immensely helpful for many industries. That's why it was done.
@@leandrog2785and they got some of it wrong on this topic,waste of money
Your analysis is hugely interesting on this hugely interesting topic.
Please continue enlightening us.
A french admirer from Paris.
Had a colleague randomly compliment my teeth, didn't think much of it. This puts it into perspective 😁
Teeth/smile is VERY underrated
3:35 is very true , I get the most woman approaching me when my jaw looks like this but Only when I work out/eat less and achieve lower body fat !!
Its so complex that im going to ignore all that and be my self
Great video. This is the first video I've watched from this channel and it's worth the like and sub. I love the editing and research/references you show to back up your claims.
Ive had channels recommended to me that state "facts" without the study to back them up. Ive disliked all of those channels if they dont show studies/references (either in video or description). Keep up the great work. 👍
I think every womens preferences is different changes at time like men do but one common thing majority of girl is attracted to is rich mixture of masculine and feminine men with clean skin
As to whether women prefer masculine or feminine traits: my experience suggets that they want a masculine (square) jaw and masculine (hunter) eyes with everything else (nose etc.) being feminine. Think Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, or Timothée Chalamet. The typical pretty boy look. These are the guys they will throw themselves at within five second of first seeing them all the while telling you how important "feelings" are for them.
Wrong for the eyes. Most of them want almond bigger eye shape than hunter . Males want hunter eyes females get intimidated
Johnny Depp and Orlando Bloom are pretty good examples of what ideal male attractiveness could be. theres just one thing though- i think hunter eyes make it harder for me to connect with a dude emotionally as someone who grew up around mostly women. "eyes are the window to the soul" and it makes me feel less like "oh shit im with a man right now" and more safe, less vulnerable i guess.
this comment implying that feelings aren't important is hilarious
@@malou1563feelings are also very important.
If a man can't love a woman then he won't stick around and help take care of his children.
@@shadowpicaroI don't understand why women are constantly shamed for having a preference?
If women were to be attracted to every man she sees then, the women would not be able to remain faithful to their husband's.
This is also a biological survival instinct that keeps the women around so she will help raise the children.
Please do a video of breaking down what is considered attractive for every facial feature but for women, similar to this video. I know thats already talked about in other videos but would like full analysis in one video like this one
We did a video on the subject: ua-cam.com/video/wDn4qzZq7Bc/v-deo.html
@Army of One Its all BS? you mean that beauty is subjetive ? hahaha keep dreaming girl.
@@naturalsculpting1270bruh thinks he is beautiful and it's proven universally, go to appearance rating subreddit, and post your "best" photos... But with POLL. Then find average
I agree for short term relationship women and men tends to be more attractive on bad boy looking men while on long term relationship they prefer feminne angelic features.
I have a distinctively masculine facial structure, characterized by my full lips, thick eyebrows, and strong square jawline. To balance out the squareness of my jawline, I typically wear a light designer stubble. A lot of women have told me I look a “little fruity.” What is up with that?
Your full lips and maybe you have a small neck
Probably the lips and that you put so much effort in your looks.
They want to suck your lips
@@thanos8638 So women like full lips on guys??
@@ellobopoderososdl4596 I was joking
0:20 Testosterone is associated with competitiveness in men, but contrary to popular belief, it does not necessarily lead to aggressive or dangerous behavior.
you just contradicted yourself in the same sentence
" contrary to popular belief" man get yo ass outa here. that doesn't even make sense
@@kristoffseisler2163 You think competitiveness is the same thing as aggressive and dangerous behavior
@@leandrog2785 I believe that they overlap
Anything male is pathologized in the gynocentric West.
Your voice is soothing
I find it very surprising no one is talking about the hairstyle, goddammit, I think becoming healthy (if needed) and finding the right haircut can make anyone a 10!
Confidence and humility and sense of humour are important too
Another great video. Thank You! Could you analyze anakin Skywalker face?
I assume you mean the actor?
@@mickethegoblin7167 yes
Hayden Christiansen isn't what I would consider attractive.
Plus he played a total asshole and a shitty character is only atteactive to people from bad families.
No mentally healthy person would consider being with him.
Looking at Nataly Portperson's version of Padme.
Christen haydensen
All that being said, I can't believe hair was never discussed.
Broccoli cut raises punchability by 5 points
Kudos to the writer!! This is so interesting
Next time you should provide the links of these studies in the description bro
The mere fact that first article calls it the "jawbone" should immediately raise question marks. The angularity of your jaw is determined by mandibular width, the length of the rammus, and the gonial angle. Being fat will hide features, but to say that being low body fat translates to jaw angularity is dead wrong.
Can you do a video on how you look in the mirror isn't actually how you look and if a camera is more accurate at representing your appearance?
Even a smoothbrain can figure that out by themselves.
is this a troll? they already have a video about this -.-
@@BigV24 what is the tldr
@@99drums54 basically, front facing camera is not accurate because it distorts your features and also taking pics with the regular camera is a skill that not everyone has, so sometimes you will look unattractive. Although flipped, the mirror is the most accurate versions of ourselves.
@@CordeliaWagner no need to be rude
I love these scientifically explained videos on attractiveness rather than the stupid politically charged videos with propaganda in it. The messaging here is way more accurate and positive.
I once had a girlfriend who told me I was too perfect an needed a facial scar to balance it out.. interesting to find out how a scar would impact my attractiveness.
I think she was jealous or envying you in some way and wanted to destroy part of your beauty. I don't think she had your best interests in mind. hope you'll never listen to people who want to destroy anything in you because you are "too" perfect. maybe for her you were too perfect, but she was selfish to want to you to change yourself forever for her. in general, if someone proposes changes to your appearance that are not connected to your style or hygiene, but connected to your physical traits (not extra weight) - it is a sign you are not a good match.
🧢
Did she slash you and give you a scar? A sexy scar???
@@AM-ej8hh went full on defense mode💀
@@bunnywavyxx9524 and someone went full on picking and passive agressive mode. is it your primal reaction to someone getting into defense mode? if yes, then you told everything one needs to know about your adequacy. goodbye.
you are doing gods work my friend
if im being honest with myself id say most of these apply to me but one underlying factor that literally destroys it all are my asymmetric eyes. It's not brutal but it's just enough for people to slightly notice it and it makes me so insecure omfg.
I drive to El Paso early next week for the funeral service. I’m taking the truck , and bringing back what’s designated to me, a very sad errand. I’m hoping this isn’t going to put me down!
remember guys, this may show what most women find attractive but you're not trying to attract most women, there'll always be someone out there that thinks you're perfect
Exactly!
No person is a one size fits all.
People are not ment to be attracted to every single person they see because this will keep people faithful to their spouse's.
If a person is attracted to everyone they see then this is probably a person that you want to avoid because they will have difficulty remaining faithful to their spouse.
😂😂😂
Your mother will think you are perfect
Crock of sh
Did this guy just label testosterone as "negative" ? 💀
Too much and too little of it isn’t good
you can never have too much test @@artistrg3487
Every guy has a different threshold. Women, too, need a certain amount of testosterone to function healthily, but obviously way less than men.
not all women are attracted to hyper masculine men
Thank you for the videos :)
Chico Buarque is a brazilian artist that is extremely beautiful but fits very few beauty standards. If you don't belive me look him up when he was young
so;
1- lose weight
2- have a stubble
3- fix your teeth
4- heal scars, have a good skin care routine
I had always considered myself ugly. Not anymore. Now, based on scientific evidence, I know I am
😂😂😂😂
Thanks for the nose part btw
i wonder why hair isn't discussed here. As a dude with a shaved head, I get the sense this is a lot more important than women might tend to openly admit.
I am blessed to be very handsome, when your attractive it makes your life easier.
@@puteqxthats life,don’t focus on the things that you can’t change👍🏿
'your attractive'? what'?
@josephcoatofmanycolors and I am blessed with the ability to spell beyond a first grade level.
i honestly want a video like this for women. i know it's a sensitive topic but I would be interesting to hear
agreed. i dont care if some women get upset because "beauty is too hard on women" some women simply want to know to get better or just out of curiosity
has that not always been discussed?….
@@never100x not this clearly and direct if you get what I’m trying to say. There’s no x features that make women attractive
@@joezic there is diversity of female facial beauty but there has to be some core features
This channel has a ton of vifeos about female beauty.
The hairline and hair thickness plays a massive role in the face .. you can go from Brad Pitt to Mr. Burns with a bad hairline.
Although this channel does have it great benifits I would like to remind you all that life is not about looking attractive, it never was.
People have made this their ultimate purpose, as if the opinion of a women or man about you is the result of your success.
Focus on yourself, work on yourself and if a companion comes your way then its good but wont be the best thing that will ever happen to you. Just be you and dont be like others.
❤ Peace
I fall into type 1, the "bad boy" image really is a double edged sword in dating especially when you're trying to find a life partner.
You have lots of tattoos i suppose.
Probably chasing the wrong type of women.
Don't chase the beautiful Instagram baddies who have other options
@@winning3329 Thing is I don't chase, they come and all in different shapes, sizes, demeanor so it's much harder to find the right one. Also you'd be very surprised, I've had good experiences with the "baddies" and horrible ones with the " Quiet girl next door" Who dont even have Instagram or Facebook.
Omg! I’m a girl and I feel the same. I get kinda stuck in the “sexy girl” box. I always find myself wishing I could come off as more innocent and less seductive. I also have dark hair and ice blue eyes and wear heavy eye make up, so I wonder if that is making me seem too seductive. I feel your pain!!
As for the beard, it’s really a strange thing. Personally, I prefer to have stubbles and now I’m wearing a full beard. It’s funny how it works. When I ask what people like on me, there seems to be a split between stubbles and my full beard. People get really shocked when I shave it off because it gives me a somewhat childish appearance (see pfp 😭) and it exagerates my other features such as my eyes which are quite feminine? (They’re almond shaped) I don’t know if it’s me, but I can feel the difference in treatment with and w/o beard.
Beard can hide weak chin + the reason women now prefer pretty boy look's due the influence of singers/actors with pretty boyish look, but without this influence they prefer masculine features aka beard, broader shoulders etc, so beard is the way to go, even if you ain't that pretty with it and even if they're scared of beard look, plus the older they become, the more they prefer masculine features
@@mimoz265 man haha that was a good explanation! ty so much. I think the natural preference always takes an upper hand, and environmental influences come and go like s trend haha. Didn’t think about it that way!
@@mimoz265 lmao even older women actually prefer boyish looks but when women get older it's very hard for them to attract preety boy type that's why they settle for more masculine type though not all women prefer boy type but u can't also deny fact that women who age older find it hard to attract preety boy type looks cause women tend to look much older after 30 except asian female
same
@@mimoz265nope. A good jawlije is many times better
Now I understand why people often say I'm cute and pinch my cheeks, not pretty or handsome. I have thin eyebrows and no beard, I'm also short, which doesn't help. Shiiiiiiiit... I need to get back to the gym, at least I'll stay in shape.
Apply minoxidil on eyebrows
Love this channel
How is it possible that cheek bones aren't even covered in a video on facial attractiveness???
Thin lips on male is just because of the prominence of European standards. In most countries outside of that, males have fuller lips and in my opinion more attractive
A lot of European people have actually full lips.
I don’t find fuller lips attractive in males!
Yeah. I know damn sure the majority of black or African women aren't going around looking for a dude with thin lips.
I bet the guy in the very first picture gets a ton of appreciation for his lips
@@jodybd6296 It's not the norm though. It's a standard feature in people with African ancestry. European men with fuller lips are kind of seen as exotic imo. People love celebs like Manu Rios because he's a European with striking, full lips. Not something you commonly see.
@@proverbalizer I'm definitely getting strong vibes the studies referenced used a lot of European sampling, which skews the results of course. I agree that I can really only imagine Europeans and Asian being drawn towards thinner lips. Lips that are too full can be unattractive in some cases too. Think it mainly comes down to proportion with the rest of your face.
I like cute, funny, youngerlooking guys with a good heart.
You are making it damn hard to better myself
In the west having a big nose is considered unattractive to a lot of women because since we’re in the pretty boy era, women like the slim small pointy noses
To people who are born handsome so happy for u guys ❤, but to my fellow ugly men dont lose hope cuz i knew how it feels likke walking down the street putting mask on to avoid people see my face it was just hurts
what a drama
This video scared me cuz when you were highlighting the texts it made a hissing sound and I thought there was something in my room 😅
As a person with eyebrow scar thank you for making me feel better about it
Do you still do facial ratings for in videos?
In simple words
Short term - More attractive
Long term - Less desirable so that they have lesser options to cheat and focus on their family
Unfortunately
Pretty much what I observed from people who complaim about their failed relationships
Are there still woman that want the old fashioned lifestyle of domestic slavery?
I know no girl my age that wants to get married and being a mother is just awfull.
You have to be delusional if you think ugly men don't cheat, personally I would want to marry a man who I am attracted to
@@CordeliaWagner There are plenty of women who still want that lifestyle and calling it a domestic slavery is a huge reach. I mean if you are not cut out for that lifestyle that's totally fine but don't say that they don't exist because you haven't seen those type of women yourself. I have literally seen many women who love being mother and consider it a blessing
How could you ever violate Beckham in 05:53 like that, I'm crying XD
Facial features aside, they are all good looking beautiful men, the thing that is common between all the attractive men photos is the level of confidence they are showing, they look like they are ready to take any challenge you put on them, that confidence is what makes them attractive, I can feel that I can challenge them to anything and they will be up for it and make go all in, they look strong and ready to play a match with all they got. that's the attractive part I find in them, they make me feel I can rely on them with difficult tasks.
Could you make a video on the features that make an androgynous person attractive? 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wtf is that 😂
6 Male features that are attractive
1. Facial dimensions
2. Facial hair/head hair
3. Eyes
4. Mouth
5. Nose
6. Scars/tattoos
head hair too
Tattoos to ne are not very attractive beautiful Latin dark hair is very attractive mocha color skin a plus @😊
@@frankcorrea8691 LOL, you're delusional if you think white wemen prefer mocha skin 😅 Quit fooling yourself !
True about the nose. I have a big Greek nose but never had any problems or had women comment on it, rather the overall is what i believe they found attractive.
Something else not talked about (prob cuz it might piss some men off) but what women perceive as attractive can also change depending on the time of a woman's cycle.
Women are more likely to find 'short term' features like heightened masculinity on men more attractive during their more fertile days of their cycle, and on less fertile days they're more like to prefer 'long term' features on men.
For me its a strong masculine, very lean face with high, broad cheekbones, angular jaw, strong chin, full lips, strong browbone, deep set squinty eyes. And facial hair. And turned down slightly hooked nose.... I also like a gap in the teeth🤷🏻♀️
😂😂 u legit described my face wtf
@@kezzyk5718get it
3:58 extravagant comparison
I feel like I have a lot of the masculine features, and I have been told many times before that I’m a good-looking guy. Idunno. What do you guys think?
I fill in both categories💀💀💀
2 is unclear. Would I benefit a lot from growing a beard with minox considering I have a top notch jawline ? It's beneficial for jawless men but what about big jaws like henry cavill
I bet you look soooooooooo average
No. For defined jaws, clean shaven is the look.
Go for stubble it's best of both worlds
Stubble for a top notch hawline
Clean is best
would you do an explanation on how some men looks much better with only one type of facial hair, like only beard, goatee, mustache, or none at all? Tom Selleck for example, without his mustache he doesn't look as impressive as when he has one. Or is it just about what we are used to identify someone with?
Depends hoe brainwashe
I love when men have just a stache and all my female coworkers agreed. 🤷♀️
My face is at least a 7 and my body is 9. I have really good muscle genetics and work out regularly. I get the looks and being interested body language quite often, especially in the gym. But my self-esteem is so low and I hate small talk. I've always struggled with social skills and I can't go past "hello" and "bye" with women. Some even started a conversation themselves and I just shied out... Therefore I'm stuck not having a relationship I long for. I have so much to offer but I just don't know how to express myself to others...
You need a hobby that you genuinely love, so that you can enthusiastically speak about it to women who find you attractive.
Truth is that if a woman finds you attractive she will essentially be into anything you’re into. I play piano, so whenever I see a girl looking at me I literally just go up to them and say something along the lines of “hey i saw you looking at me, I’m x” and then after she introduces herself I simply ask her would she mind listening to me play a tune on my piano. You only need to converse with a woman for 2-5 minutes (provided she finds you attractive) before asking for a number or instagram (at that point we all have an easier time socializing over the phone lol).
@@Jedilord882 All I have been doing for my entire life (after teenage years) was hobbies. I'm so invested in success that I forget to live sometimes. In my college years I dwelled in front of my computer writing electronic music which got me signed up to couple of labels and even booked to gigs abroad, playing my own music which I got quite a nice fanbase of. But it wasn't enough to sustain my living at the time and I had to get a job which exhausted me and that got projected into my music. So I stopped because in the end I was only forcing myself to write music. I still do some when I feel inspired but it's just for fun.
Then i got into graphic design and web design after my college which was also my education and youtube afterwards through which I grew so much that I made my own business from which I still do now. I have nearly 100k subscribers have beed doing 3D and archviz stuff for which I'm really passionate about and doing few really potential side projects that will very likely be my success in the near future. I earn well above average, drive a nice car but that didn't help my self-esteem. I know I'm to blame because I'm a type of a person that always hungers for more, and nothing is good enough currently. That may well be a part of the issue and success.
If I can get a girl to go on a date with me I could easily open up for a conversation because I love deep intellectual conversations but when I stumble upon someone randomly, I'm just stuck in ice...
Another thing is that I'm also quite picky and I rejected quite a few, however none were around my age (+/-10 years or more) or without instantly visible red flags which I only see as a waste of time at my age (33M). If I only met someone my age or a bit younger and right in the head I could talk to, but that seems like a mission impossible to me.
I work from home, alone which is another reason why I don't socialise much and meet new people via work etc...
Maybe your high rankings of yourself are overblown. Lol can’t talk to others but still a big ego.
Damn bro seems like I aint the only one..iv always been ugly af growing up I got made fun of cause of my face shape I was named flatface or iron board cause I had a severely retruded midface.. since then I had jaw surgery. My face changed so much so that I get alot of looks from quality looking females and even got approached to model..but I'm still scarred from being called ugly all my life I freeze around women and can't hold convo at all i still feel like the old version of myself. Eff my life
Bro. I have a similar problem. I live alone, I have no friends and girlfriends. But there is a stable income.
In order not to die alone, I decided to improve my communication skills with women. I'm looking for ads with massage services from girls. This is a good experience with different girls tête-à-tête. And I feel much more confident in such situations, because we have a mutually beneficial interest and I pay for the services provided.
After gaining some experience and curbing my libido, I plan to move on to finding a partner through a dating app.
There’s the face, but really also the man behind it. Confidence, kindness, intelligence and humor all make a difference. Roll your eyes if you must. I think it’s true
I have a very thin and small jaw and a big long thick nose. I got a nose job a couple a years ago and it changed my life. The small jaw is harder to fix.
male beauty is 90 % about being tall, jawbone prominence and a small nose to upper lip distance ( this last one about distance is also valid for women)
Women find me 30x more attractive now that I am older and have a receding hairline. Have you done a video on handsome balding men? What makes Jason Statham and Bruce Willis attractive?
Jason Statham and Bruce Willis are just attractive men, their balding doesn't make them anymore attractive.
@@adamg6711 There's some kind of charm to it. He looks better with less hair than he did when he was younger. Myself, balding now in my 40's, women find me way more attractive. And I actually look younger bald than with hair.
Receding hairlines are an objectively unattractive feature though. It's likely something else that you gained with age lol. Maybe confidence?
Maybe they sense you're more mature and accomplished? That's pretty attractive too.
@@tcrijwanachoudhury That's definitely part of it. But people always tell me not to grow my hair. That I look great bald, and much younger. And I see those celebrity examples and I think they're damn handsome, myself, and I'm straight, hahaha! But it's definitely a rare trait. Balding men usually do look worse off.
Interesting video, but remember lads, and this cliche but absolutely scientifically valid: Regardless of how you look, a strong and positive personality that people want to be around will tip the odds in your favor in any case.
The intro is funny, dude on the left looks a bit like my brother and dude on the right looks a bit more like me (the nose) and also my other brother
Girls think I'm aggressive from first impression until they know me better
Is always difficult try to analyze men beauty without the male gaze (being a man, of course) i always find myself not really understanding it at all, despite having these features, i feel more like that the way that you behave yourself, its more important than actually having these features sometimes (despite they being really important for first impressions)
Sorry, dude, but looks reign supreme unless your behavior is repulsive.
@@henrykwieniawski7233 When you are dating with atracttive people, only looks aren't enough. Even with the average people, looks mostly will not be enough.
Looks are only supreme, when we are analyzing it objectively, when we take into account environment, preferences, things change a little.
An attractive person not always succeed in dating, mainly in long term relations.
@Felizardo that's fair, actually
100%! Being confident, intelligent, calm, assertive, kind, responsible, reliable, funny, etc, IS more important than looks, when searching/keeping a long-term relationship. And I'm a woman saying this, so I settle the argument 😎👋
@@Hitogata Yes, I really don't like it when some guys think as if it's all about the way they are physically, however, I understand that it's pretty important too. It's difficult to understand the female perspective on men, we are very visual, so it turns out that we focus a lot on aspects that reinforce masculinity: status, muscle mass, assets. When even that doesn't seem to work, for some, it's already a reason to them generalize women, when in reality, all they did was look for this masculine shell, without understanding themselves and the world in a sensitive way, something that I understand as crucial to get a woman's attention.
Interesting! I realise my type are guys with a narrow face, sharp nose and jawline, slanted monolids and thin lips. It's the opposite of what I have, so I wonder if that's why I seek out for those features in other guys 🤭
What does it mean for bi women who prefer highly feminine women that guys would be attracted to asking for a friend... Which is me i am the friend 😅 also me being attracted to femboys like finn5ter? How does being gay/queer impact your attraction to people if at all? Does it change any of this stuff at all?
i read that as makes me handsome