1. Abundance - Have many women that are interested in us. 2. Mystery - Mystery makes women think about you more often. 3. Take them through a full range of emotions - Women love to feel, when you make them feel more emotions than anyone else, you become more attractive. 4. Masculine - When you're masculine and your woman is feminine, she will think about you all the time. 5. Discipline - Will make you successful, which is attractive. Also, will allow you to have all the other traits on the list.
@@manio9722 Treat her with the respect she deserves. Be polite and courteous. Treat her how you'd like to be treated. A high quality woman will equally respect a gentleman.
@@firstpitch05 High quality women truthfully desire love and affection. It's in us to all have this desire, even as men. Of course if you shower them with too much love, they will associate your behavior with other shallow / low quality men that are into them for their sexual appeal. The key is to approach things slowly and ultimately get to a point where you can easily show your true gentleman spirit to the woman you love.
The only chance you're going to get "abundance" is if you spend the time focusing on yourself. Improving your body, mind, and finances. This improvement gives you more chance of meeting people. And therefore you will have more chance of having this "abundance". This video is more of a guide for those who are already on self improvement. You're not going to get abundance out of nowhere.
I agree with his general concepts, but the examples he gives are like a guide for teenagers who want to be a fucbois and they're not gonna work a lot of the times unless he wants to target insecure girls lol "Lie, avoid questions, play games, manipulate and make her feel like sht/cry once in a while, be macho and encourage traditional gender roles"🙄
@@astwas youre def playing it up a lil bit but youre still right. it isn't very nice stuff to do, but you can't say that he's wrong about the fact that it'll keep them thinking about you.
@@papajohnpackinthatpizza Yeah, they'll think of you as a scumbag bruh lol. You can play a bit hard to get, keep a bit of mystery about you, make her laugh and tease her which is all you need to do instead of being a 2 IQ manipulative lying pos. Being a jerk might work in manipulating traumatized insecure women who are desperate but not anyone mature who's seen enough manchildren.
Reject women, embrace God. He will place a good one on your path when time is due. Don't waste your energy and time on women especially when you are younger. Love your mother, father and God instead. Go seek testosterone, go to the gym, fight with friends, explore the world. Go live. Stop being a slave to your flesh's desires
Your flesh's desire is what drives men. I'm sorry, but you won't find a woman to practice with unless you do so. You won't make progress unless you tell yourself " I need to impress this girl." You want to spoil the so-called chosen one from God because you didn't know how to please her? (In non sexual ways, too) Not trying to undermine your faith man, I respect it.
I have all the characteristics of a human being : flesh, blood, skin, hair-- but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me, and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflowed into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.
I think that gym is the true game changer: it makes you disciplined, which is attractive, more masculine, confident and more social. It has all the benefits that makes you A LOT attractive. Since I started lifting weights i feel like girls tend to talk with me more, i feel comfortable, i talk with girls and girls talk with me. Hit the gym, watch Hamza videos about diet, exercise, how to build an aesthetic body. You're gonna make it bro ;)
respectfully, don't trust fucking youtubers with diet and nutrition advice unless they have an education fit for it. some are good, like Andrew Huberman for example, but for diet you should just honestly read up on actual scientific articles and/or get books on it, it's simply that important. but the simple stuff is: eat complex carbs so a lot of vegetables and fiber-rich foods also food like brown rice and brown bread/food made with brown flour, oats and potatoes, sweet potatoes are also really good. eat a lot of protein, mainly white meat like chicken and cod for example, also drink more water, eat healthy fats like extra virgin olive oil. I would also add to the list; get good sleep.
@@jsgv7935You're totally right. I was looking for scientific muscle growth approach too. Regarding the diet I really appreciate your comment, I will follow your advice ;)
@@ericpiralla all right but make sure to read up more on it when you can. I'm just a random person in a UA-cam comment section, after all. also some additional tips: no soda, a lot of people forget to count liquid calories (milkshakes, soda, even most fruit juice you can buy in stores has a shit ton of sugar in it), and by that I don't only mean specifically people who track their calorie intake and expenditure, but also just regular people who forget to account for all the shit the they are _drinking_, not eating. take everything you find online with a grain of salt; you will find people advocating for almost every diet, there are studied benefits of the carnivore diet, the vegan diet, the vegetarian diet, the keto diet, and everything in-between. the same goes with drawbacks/detriments.
You know what’s funny? Some guys will literally try to convince you that personality doesn’t matter and GIRLS ONLY CARE ABOUT LOOKS!!! You can tell these same guys have never actually touched a woman before. Gentlemen, remember this: woman respond to how you make them feel. This is why I preach on my channel that the energy you give off is SO important and this ties into your overall personality. Be a positive, fun, gentleman and I GUARANTEE you’ll get more girls. I’ve literally had countless girls approach me and ask for my number and when we get talking they also say they love my energy and that’s one reason why they were drawn to me. Obviously lads looks do matter but take care of the bare basics and stop crying over things you can’t control and you’ll be fine. No one likes hanging around a miserable C*nt, let alone women. More about this on my channel if you’re interested boys. Stay safe👊🏻
I hope you see this comment hamza and if you do I really just wanna say , thank you for showing me the way to life as a young man, I really needed this channel and I hope you are proud of yourself, you lifted me and a lot of young men when we felt hopeless, lm sure you saved countless lifes and I appreciate you so much for that , but there is always room for more self-improvement stay strong my brothers❤️
NEVER heard a man spit soo much FREE game in soo many videos. i spent years learning this ALL on my own and i genuinely would have loved to have videos of someone explaining how to be a man but everything has a purpose i guess and i had to learn on my own. for ANYONE watching this please know this guy is giving out FREE game and you should listen if you wanna start living the life you always wanted!
Dear hamza, my name is Tyler and I’m currently at my last year of high school now. I met this girl and she turned out to be very toxic and I became so emotionally attached that I became super unhealthy. Your videos have inspired me so much. Although you are harsh sometimes, you speak truth and have great views. I enjoy watching your videos and I’m no where near being the best version of myself but I watch your videos and hope to implement them into my life. It’s been a few weeks since me and this girl broke ties and I’ve learnt to let go. There is this female and she is very pretty and has no dating history from what I know. She is always polite but I don’t know if it’s wrong to move on after 3-4 weeks after my ex. Me and my friend are starting gym soon aswell and I just want to thank you for making these videos.🙏❤
Hey man, I’m not Hamza, but thanks for sharing your story. Advice-wise, move on as fast as possible. This doesn’t automatically mean get with another girl; just embrace the hurt and use it as starting fuel for your self improvement. You’d benefit greatly by having a long term plan for how you want to set up your life. Sit down with a journal / pen and get into the habit of mindstorming for your reflection and goals (Ex. “How can I double my income by this day next year?” w / 20 good answers). Begin the habits of NoFap, Cold showers, gym, and journaling. Unfollow everyone on socials who don’t bring value to the table. Focus on you. If she tries to come back, don’t let her-that relationship is no longer. Some other channels I recommend (no order): Captain Sinbad (inspiration / motivation) Casey Zander (real talk / hard truths) 1stMan (work, perspective, real talk) - You’re not alone Tyler. I’m on this journey too. We all are 🤙🏽
A good way to put a woman through the “whole spectrum of emotions” in a natural way is just being honest. If she fucks up or you disagree with her behavior let her know
Yeah its a stupid comment to make "her cry" and sht. You should take women through different emotions, but not shitty ones. #1 is to make her laugh, #2 lots of friendly banter/teasing, #3 surprise/scare her. Its really all that matters.
Amazing video Hamza,u released it at that day when i asked this question myself : "why I'm not so popular within the girls? I'm masculine and good lookin what am I missing out?". And that video came right on hand. Thank you Hamza,ur the dad/older broher I wish I had
Men, if you want traumatized women to be obsessed with you, this is definitely the way to do it. The reason why the women you are with find this "full range of emotions" or having an abundance of women attractive, is because they are trumatized themselves and that is all they know of. They become addicted to the constant highs and lows of this sort of dynamic, which is why it becomes so obsessive. This is pretty damaging for women as a whole. If you really want a healthy well rounded woman in your life, you need to focus on yourself, work on yourself, and be a kind and committed man. All feminine women want a secure and mongamous relationship with men. When you really stop obsessing over "oh, why wont any girls want me" and start to just live your best life, naturally women will come to you. Some added bonuses are being hygenic, having a stable job, having a healthy diet, and having good style.
I'm pretty sure no well rounded man, wants a toxic women around. This does backfire on you guys ALOT. Eventually after being in this dynamic for awhile things get extremely toxic. She will probably not have any trust in you and it will end in one of those "my crazy ex" stories. This is all with good intentions and constructive criticism, I just don't want the men in our generation to be misleaded. I acknowledge that you all have a difficult time in finding the right person for you.
you dont beat her up or insult her and do every other fucked up shit of course wdym???? please process the advise first. he even said "treat her good make her feel excited".
@@Dalpuri_ This. I feel like watching these kinds of videos on "how to make women obsessed with you" is a sign of insecurity, like, we just have to be decent men lol, don't even need to be rich or anything. I recommend a video called "The art of being chill" by elisha long, it really talks about how just being a man is enough to attract women, no games, no rollercoaster of emotions
I am a 23 woman, came across this and felt the need to comment especially with the first two mentions (abundance and spiking the full range of emotions); some of this comes across as almost playing and making the opposite sex “crazy” about you, hinging into the player territory, and sure thing that can get you girls but, speaking for women like me who are looking for a genuine long term relationship I have never indulged a relationship with a man did not show me that they are are wholeheartedly into me. I don’t want to waste time with someone hesitant or someone who has the full spread of choice (our society is too focused on “the grass is greener” and forever swiping), i’d rather him show me he is actually focused on me, THAT will be attractive to the right person (especially if yes you are masculine, working on improving yourself and are in a good place in your life, happy single but looking for someone to share life with). If a man answers my “what have you been up to?” with “lots,” that minimal thoughtless answer will be less attractive to me and I will ultimately lead me to pull away as it flags to me that I do not have their interest. Felt the need to write this as I feel this way of portraying ourselves as “too cool for school” is great for perhaps picking up a few women but it won’t get you the right one; one that will look at you and fall in love with the real you. There are complexities in dating of course and there is a balance between sharing too much… but to the men reading this, if you genuinely are interested, show it. The right woman will love you for it.
A lot of people will say this is toxic masculinity but what this man is saying is ABSOLUTELY fucking true.. I've been similar with my women for past 9 years and I'm 24 years old now. A lot of people will say I'm simping and stuff but it's just that she's obsessed with me and she's told me that. The reason for that is because I treat her right and she does the same back to me. Hamza keep succeeding homie!!
You are changing my life. I am literally 16 years old! and have never had more than one girl talking to me at once with no mystery and the wrong dynamic. Now I have been able to have an abundance of options (Women wise), make myself more masculine, make better money decisions, and began a insane journey of self improvement. All of this because of you from a few months of your videos and listening to you on spotify. God Bless you Hamza
Great you found out about all these way ahead of your peers, brother, if you keep on following these, you'd definitely be the Adonis amongst your peers.
YO I'm also 16 and on self improvement for like 2 months. Doing progress in the gym and thinking more like a man was the best thing that changed my life. Thank you Hamza
@@khakipeach2128 Make a reminder on your calender, Most of the people forget to tell their stories, And in turn you'll feel responsible too cuz you'll know that you have made a statement in front us.
Truthfully, I am going through that exact thing right now with one girl that I am speaking to, my needy tendencies has me hooked to completely expose myself to this girl who hasn't replied to me, I thank you Hamza for the reminder to stay on the straight and narrow.
Not to brag (yet I am) my energies are perfectly polarized that everyone is kinda just the same to me. Not in a bad way but in a relatable one. There been maybe 3 girls I’ve liked all my life and I’m 17. Maybe I should let go more and not be serious with them all the time. I guess it’s okay to make Jokes and say no. I’m realizing more and more everyday life can be a dream game if you make it that way. It’s saint serious. Thanks Hamza for the past year you’ve have helped to awaken myself. Now it’s time to awaken others. Me and the men of the world give thanks you.
I can't believe and won't believe if you say "I don't have cameras watching you", you're so relatable to me that I am sometimes left with an awe on my face. What you said in this video is so true, *Abundance* As I am really respectfull but also introverted, I had an abundance amongst the girls of my school, so the girls would talk to me and wanted my no. and all that, But after I started to talk to this one girl who is kinda bitchy but I ignored it as I don't have a lot of friends so I liked to talk to her, she ruined my personality amongst my friend and the others, so now, I sometimes feel like a jefrey in the school XD, but anyways, I am leaving school next year, so Imma try doing all these next year.
@@petersillius7193Thanks. yup, I have started to improve myself now, I am building my body, don't get much time for enhancing my skills, but I am doing everything I can, down to the last bit of the time I get a day to do something productive, yes I procrastinate but still I try my best, I am actually very excited to move out next year, Then I'll be able to do everything Hamza talks about, that's why I said that Imma start doing most of what he says next year.
Bro getting a woman obsessed with you usually does not end well. If she is obsessed with you she is going to want to interfere with your solitary activities. I think it is not just selfish but borderline narcissistic to think that as a masculine man you NEED to have your woman obsessed with you, that you need to hurt her or make her cry bro that is so fucked up… I’m telling you this as a brother, it’s not ok , and when the breakup finally happens you will be haunted by those memories of her crying over things you said or did
It's just about balance, I've unintentionally had the dynamic Hamza talks about here for about 2 years, and I feel terrible for upsetting her and I wasn't very happy in the relationship. I then went into a relationship where we spent all our time together for a solid 5 months (like almost every single day) and I ended up getting heartbroken. So either extreme (being super removed, being super obsessed) will turn out badly. You need to have your mission, discipline, be honest (which means you're not always being nice but you are saying what needs to be said), set boundaries, focus on your mission, understand no one relationship is the be all and end all. But you also need to get to know your partner on a deep level, show some vulnerability now and then, let them in on your mission a little. As an aside, any intellectual woman will find it very attractive if you can have deep conversations with them, and this doesn't have to take away from how feminine they are. And smarter women probably won't go for a guy who never engages in conversation beyond surface level.
He is right that girls love spikes in emotions, but this is just a inmature way of doing it and creates a unhealthy relationship. You can do this with respect. you can tease her from time to time instead of putting someone down to lift yourself up. You will just look like a big narcissist and that's ugly asf.
Hamza, I'm 33 (not your crowd) but there is another level to relationships when the girl is actually your friend and on the same intellectual level. When she actually helps you grow, gives useful advice. Yet you're still masculine, and she's feminine. You'll grow bored of women that just "spend time in the kitchen" and interest you in only "play time and intercourse" 1-2h hours a day, trust me.. I hope you find a woman that will take your relationship to that other level.
I agree. But it’s part of the evolution. Eventually you get over sleeping with random birds and you just want a nice normal gf. (Don’t find one on tinder though)
I can see people using that analogy on mystery quite literally. "What have you done today?" "Lots." *proceeds to sit in awkward silence for 30 seconds*
Last month I watched the morning routine video he did 5 months ago, motivated me to turn my 13 year old dumb weak ass into something better, i started waking up at 6:30 am everyday and tried to do 25 sit ups and push ups and every day try to do more, i used medito for 5 mins and slowly got improved my mental health, now I’m a little bit muscular and i am found now attractive by a decent amount of peopel
Bro thx for all the help I have like 30 girls numbers in my phone an I never texted one of them, they always want to be around me even when I just lay in there lap for half an hour,they always feel disappointed when I don't hug them, they want to share me with each other. An im 15 years old, I can easily get a girl if I want,I'm always working out,sometimes I just tell them I'm broad So I have to go do something, the pain on there faces,just priceless,always Crying about why I don't wanna spend time with them, my guy friends always say I'm gay because I have alot of girls around me,just laughing at every joke I make
Thank you Hamza! THANK YOU! You have changed my life bro! Now i have confidence of a teen and i am good. I start to do many things out of my house like painting, fight with sword and Gym. Thank you. I start to talk with the people and the class! :) Thank you again!
I have tried that my girl must have all kind of emotions, good and bad. It worked. Before this She was obsessed with me but now it is on a different level. It was hard for me at first, but I did it. "Fake it till you make it" is pretty accurate.
Hey Hamza, thank you for all those tips. I have been through a rough patch since my gf took her own life but i just realized she was with me because i sparked all emotions 😂 Disgust, Fear, sometimes a shock or some mystery... Its just so amazing what you can achieve when you look average but do those things. Thank you Hamza 🦁💪
I actually disappered for about 2 months building my physic and business. Doing this made me realised all the women that were now intrested in me... Works wonders.
Hamza thank you I'm not near completion with my self-improvement journey but the relationship you are talking about in this video of masculine and feminine energy is the one I have and I'm so thankful I used to date tomboys and always obsess over girls but I followed your advice and finally, I'm happy with my relationships and my girl is always thinking about me and calling me but im to busy working out or making money instead of just playing video games and watching tv.
Regarding the spectrum of emotions, I can say the following: my cousin once told me that it doesn’t matter to her what emotions she feels because of a guy, the main thing is to experience some emotions, even negative ones. so it's true
I think as men we make these mistakes because we want the opposite of what Hamza is suggesting in women. We don't want a woman with abundance, is mysterious, we definitely don't want a woman who gives us too much of a range of emotions because we want peace (I would also be careful of this with women because it can get too much for women too, especially non-toxic women), obviously we don't want a masculine woman and I think generally we don't care about a woman's discipline.
Man I fucking love you, best teacher for self improvement. When I'm watching your videos I really focus and listen and implement in irl. Thank you so much bro.
I agree 100% that self-discipline makes you more attractive, but I disagree that women need to be "obsessed" with you. That seems to me to be a narcissistic trait and will end up in toxic relationships that are not sustainable for the woman or yourself. Rather, focus on showing respect to her while maintaining your own path. I usually agree with most of the things you say, and I'm sure you help a lot of young men who are lost and need some guidance and direction, but "playing" with a woman's feelings will always end badly.
Exactly. Thank you. As a balanced woman, last thing on my list is to be obsessive over a man. If you want a quality woman, she will not have this trait nor will she want this type of energy in her life. This will only attract toxic women. If I ask a man what he did today and he responds “ lots” I instantly loose attraction. If he can’t have a healthy conversation and is trying to make himself look more interesting thinking that playing with my mind will entice me.. I don’t think so. I’m usually fast to not respond after that. This truly is terrible advice. Just be on a mission to be your best self, that’s all a quality woman wants from you.
The problem im having is that there are some girls who like me and i have girls to chill with but the girls i think is really attractive dont like me the way the other do so im kinda confused waht to do . Btw love your content after my mom passed and my gf left my i felt teribel you helped my get out of that hole❤
Personally, I feel the tips you mention are great for maintaining attraction, but after some time, if you're too mysterious, it can be misconstrued as you not willing to open up about yourself. I do agree that your tips do work, but at some point I think you have to let some of the mystery go.
Honestly I’m not watching this video to figure out how to attract girls - wanna improve myself first, so writing to ask you to please unrestrict the “no-fap benefits timeline” Thankyou for everything Hamza
Bro, i am in the situation you were talking about in first 2 minutes of video. I was thinking a whole day about a girl that I am attracted to, but she doesn't answer on messages, she is almost always online and we see each other on university. I was pissed because of her disrespectfulness, and this video popped out. Thank you!
If a woman cries one day and is happy th other it has nithing its not something good, its called toxic relationship. The reason, why women stay in those relationship is like gambling. You are getting rewarded unexpectedly and that makes the brain more addicted than a known, expected reward
Thanks for the advice Hamza. I started casually seeing this girl and I've been pondering what my next move is going to be. after watching your video and your saying that you need to keep it mysterious I stared at my wall and came up with exactly what I needed to say to arouse that mystery. Thanks and God bless
Slowly I'm attracting women the gym has helped a ton learned to talk to random people, discipline, hard work and cleaner diet. Now I'm tryna be a bodybuilder
If you’re just starting out with this, obviously you can’t have abundance yet. But I think having discipline and being mysterious are good starter tips. And from there you can build confidence, which in turn will make you more masculine and you’ll be able to make her feel emotions more, which will make her want you, which will start giving you abundance. It all starts with discipline. Discipline is something literally anyone can do.
I have one Problem with the "stay mysterious" Thing. How do you do that without lying or when living together? I hate lying therefore I dont say I did lots when in Reality I just worked out, Studied and worked like Almost everyday
I like to think that when he says “click and watch this video right now” at the end of a video is just a test to forge our discipline to not stay any longer on yt
Hamza, the 3rd thing you talked about making women feel the full range of emotions while I think your right and have a point, I would strongly encourage you to reiterate and clear up some things to men. As a man you have to be very careful intentionally making women feel angry or sad or scared because you could be seen as abusive and some women will report you and you could be potentially arrested and seen as an asshole your entire life.
used to be more like this , and am becoming this again , starting to see now how the mission comes first , and with purpose other things begin to fall into place
Bro please focus on LOYALTY towards our Girlfriends..cuz rhe thigs you are teaching is only use to the men who are single...pls throw a light on LOYALTY AND HOW TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP
Hey Hamza thank you for giving this knowledge, I am grateful that I have you to guide me . And everybody like me is grateful to you brother. I am too trying to be like you and motivate some other fellow brothers through my channel. Thanks to you brother!
I'm currently not interested at having a relationship, but watching your video for the future is always a good thing. This week i started working out thanks a lot man for your advice!
I am being like you were wn you living Jeffrey life style. I do watch your videos, doing my research but after sometime i am going back to Jeffrey mindset. I feel like I am left behind in the life. There's no one who gonna help me on this 💔 ~hamzafam
you're right, no one will go towards you to help you. It's your role to go towards other if you wand and need guidance. Join the discord, talk to friends.
First points, about options. I don’t lol. If there’s a girl I like, before I’d be low-key simpy. But now… don’t. Sorta act like you’re on your mission, and you’ll reply to her when you’ve got time to because you’re busy. When you’re not busy, guess what… you can reply. But if you’ve got stuff to do, working, grafting, exercising etc… do that first before replying type thing. Don’t let your whole life revolve around her. But yeah, I don’t have options. I’ve had girls call me cute, and the odd look when I’m out and about. But nothing more. Levelling myself, and the more confident I get, and the more I improve myself… the more compliments I’ve got. Funny that isn’t it?😂
But what if i want a girl whom i would watch her sleep and wake uo, listen to her everytime she talks, protect and provide for her, make her happy with out all this hardships and pretending? What if i want to be a real loving husband and father? I will do this only for her, and be ferocious on others?! Dont get me wrong, I am fit and i am not ugly. I am really into real strong masculinity, i always watch your video! And i really am masculine, strong and muscular🙏(not a brag, just i am tired) An honest affection?
You don't need to have other girls in your DMs that you're flirting with. That wasn't the point. The point was that you should always have the OPTION to get other girls, because I'm telling you, ur girl will have too (any girl has). Otherwise, she will feel like she has mroe value than you, therefore you are too bad for her. You don't even need to have options actually, just seem like you do. Don't come across needy. And you shouldn't be the "loving husband" in the beginning of your relationship, even though you would probably love too, I know what you mean. It's just like, it comes across needy and weird if you don't know her that well. It all comes with time. Just care for her as much as she cares for you and it will turn out in your both's favor.
@@Firelayer1 I get it I get, thanks for the reply man🙏. But my point is it is really a difficult time and generation bro, i just wanted real love and a girl that would love me back while no games and too much playing😥 And i have given up!🙏 I have 0 social media to speak to girls, wont go out ever and i am really tired bro
@@eliassuna2430 My tip is to looksmaxx and try your best to become the best man you can be in every other aspect. Just like Hamza teaches. Try to overcome your social anxiety and speak to people, doesn't have to be girls. Get some friends (if you don't already have) and you will probably meet girls there somewhere. Try your best to socialize and don't overthink. As I said, these are some things Hamza teaches in specific videos, just watch them and try to implement these things and I'm sure your situation will become better !
@@eliassuna2430 Alright, real shit time. This woman you speak off, never existed. Yes, never existed. Ever. She exists in storybooks and movies. Long ago, men called Truabadors would sing songs about women they would never meet because the reality never measured up to their fiction. These songwriters never met these women in order to sustain the imagation they had. This is you. You are in love with the women of your dreams. They are not real. And never have been. However, there is nothing stopping you from finding love regardless. This is something everyone wants, and I mean everyone. The fact you use emojis makes me think you are under 18 years old. You won't find true love in this age bracket if you haven't already. Most people don't real personalties at this age, just clones. Instead, become who you need to be in order to catch this dream in the future. Also "True Love" is a myth. Love DEVELOPS over time. Get a relationship, see how it grows, you might find a deep love. This is the only way. You sound very inexperienced. Get out there, experience the real world instead of chasing something fictional. I'm the same as you, so good luck on this journey. Giving up this romantic ideal is hard.
@@maxtheawesome4255 You really are indeed helpful, yes i am 19( you guessed it right). But at least real shit would have been easier if everybody was not the same, it might be social media. i rarely try to get into relationships, but when i try i feel like i dont fit at all. It is not real, I dont see my self marrying them. they all are the same, using the word "Ex" "Ex" multiple times, i even dont know how they get time for this much madness? And i know i have to put the work, however i cant!
i think he is just reading my mind at this point. Sometimes i will be thinking about why x isnt working, or how do i get x, and this man instantly makes a video about it. With this one, I just got in my first relationship and hes making this.
This literally describes me and my girl, I thought there was something wrong because I am always thinking about my work(basketball and school) and not her but she is always thinking about me and telling me how much she likes me. I guess thats how its supposed to be. Btw I am 14 and she is 15 but we are less than a year apart.
I've seen a post on FB where an entire audience is seating in metaverse goggles and Zuckerberg was walking alongside them. This created a question in my head - if meta will work like it's said to be, will finding Adonises and Anastasias be easier since Jeffreys will focus mainly on the fictional world? I know it will be hard as fuck to 'unjeffrey' yourself in this situation, but won't the majority of valuable people stay in the real world and use the beautifulness of it?
This is the worst advice you have given to your followers so far. All the mysterious, make her cry emotional stuff, to an extent sound like a toxic relationship so bad... Instead of sounding like advice for a serious relationship with the mother of your children, it sounds like advice for casual sex, specially the last point where you say you ain't even friend of your couple. I think you're taking the "Masculine" stuff too far, and saying stuff a year ago you wouldn't, and it's not necessarily an improvement
1. Abundance - Have many women that are interested in us.
2. Mystery - Mystery makes women think about you more often.
3. Take them through a full range of emotions - Women love to feel, when you make them feel more emotions than anyone else, you become more attractive.
4. Masculine - When you're masculine and your woman is feminine, she will think about you all the time.
5. Discipline - Will make you successful, which is attractive. Also, will allow you to have all the other traits on the list.
There are 5 traits here
@@IgiveyouNONE damn ur smart
Thanks a lot man! Saved my eyes 15 minutes from looking at a hairy chest!
+ don't spend too much time with a woman
@@Obergeniesser 😂😂😂
Make your life interesting, build your value, be confident, and especially: be a true gentleman.
I’m telling you the traditional gentleman is the key. They love it.
@@LukeSpurgeon. thats cap, woman love when you act like you don’t care
Ok but what it means to be a true gentleman
@@manio9722 Treat her with the respect she deserves. Be polite and courteous. Treat her how you'd like to be treated. A high quality woman will equally respect a gentleman.
@@firstpitch05 High quality women truthfully desire love and affection. It's in us to all have this desire, even as men. Of course if you shower them with too much love, they will associate your behavior with other shallow / low quality men that are into them for their sexual appeal. The key is to approach things slowly and ultimately get to a point where you can easily show your true gentleman spirit to the woman you love.
The only chance you're going to get "abundance" is if you spend the time focusing on yourself. Improving your body, mind, and finances. This improvement gives you more chance of meeting people. And therefore you will have more chance of having this "abundance". This video is more of a guide for those who are already on self improvement. You're not going to get abundance out of nowhere.
Alright Gub
I agree with his general concepts, but the examples he gives are like a guide for teenagers who want to be a fucbois and they're not gonna work a lot of the times unless he wants to target insecure girls lol
"Lie, avoid questions, play games, manipulate and make her feel like sht/cry once in a while, be macho and encourage traditional gender roles"🙄
@@astwas youre def playing it up a lil bit but youre still right. it isn't very nice stuff to do, but you can't say that he's wrong about the fact that it'll keep them thinking about you.
@@papajohnpackinthatpizza Yeah, they'll think of you as a scumbag bruh lol.
You can play a bit hard to get, keep a bit of mystery about you, make her laugh and tease her which is all you need to do instead of being a 2 IQ manipulative lying pos. Being a jerk might work in manipulating traumatized insecure women who are desperate but not anyone mature who's seen enough manchildren.
@@papajohnpackinthatpizza yes, but it's a bit unnatural and maybe cringe
Reject women, embrace God. He will place a good one on your path when time is due. Don't waste your energy and time on women especially when you are younger. Love your mother, father and God instead. Go seek testosterone, go to the gym, fight with friends, explore the world. Go live. Stop being a slave to your flesh's desires
Live in your spirit, not your flesh.
Amen brother 🙏🏼
Mashallah brother
Your flesh's desire is what drives men. I'm sorry, but you won't find a woman to practice with unless you do so. You won't make progress unless you tell yourself " I need to impress this girl." You want to spoil the so-called chosen one from God because you didn't know how to please her? (In non sexual ways, too)
Not trying to undermine your faith man, I respect it.
No bro
No meaningless intro just gets right into it within the first FIFTEEN seconds. Respect. This is good content.
beta males complain abt intros
☝️🤓@@LeftHimDead
1. Crippling depression
2. Obsessive neediness
3. An obsession with victimizing yourself
4. Borderline schizophrenia
I have all the characteristics of a human being :
flesh, blood, skin, hair-- but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion,
except for greed and disgust.
Something horrible is happening inside of me, and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflowed into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.
@@budgetlifter litterly me
this is more accurate lol
literally me after watching fight club, taxi driver, batman and 5 videos of Hamza in a row
@@777edgarzargo which Batman
I think that gym is the true game changer: it makes you disciplined, which is attractive, more masculine, confident and more social. It has all the benefits that makes you A LOT attractive. Since I started lifting weights i feel like girls tend to talk with me more, i feel comfortable, i talk with girls and girls talk with me. Hit the gym, watch Hamza videos about diet, exercise, how to build an aesthetic body. You're gonna make it bro ;)
respectfully, don't trust fucking youtubers with diet and nutrition advice unless they have an education fit for it. some are good, like Andrew Huberman for example, but for diet you should just honestly read up on actual scientific articles and/or get books on it, it's simply that important. but the simple stuff is: eat complex carbs so a lot of vegetables and fiber-rich foods also food like brown rice and brown bread/food made with brown flour, oats and potatoes, sweet potatoes are also really good. eat a lot of protein, mainly white meat like chicken and cod for example, also drink more water, eat healthy fats like extra virgin olive oil.
I would also add to the list; get good sleep.
@@jsgv7935You're totally right. I was looking for scientific muscle growth approach too. Regarding the diet I really appreciate your comment, I will follow your advice ;)
@@ericpiralla all right but make sure to read up more on it when you can. I'm just a random person in a UA-cam comment section, after all.
also some additional tips:
no soda, a lot of people forget to count liquid calories (milkshakes, soda, even most fruit juice you can buy in stores has a shit ton of sugar in it), and by that I don't only mean specifically people who track their calorie intake and expenditure, but also just regular people who forget to account for all the shit the they are _drinking_, not eating.
take everything you find online with a grain of salt; you will find people advocating for almost every diet, there are studied benefits of the carnivore diet, the vegan diet, the vegetarian diet, the keto diet, and everything in-between. the same goes with drawbacks/detriments.
It truly is the first big step to sept-improving
@@jsgv7935 right now i am trying to build a athletic/ aesthetic body what should do
You know what’s funny? Some guys will literally try to convince you that personality doesn’t matter and GIRLS ONLY CARE ABOUT LOOKS!!! You can tell these same guys have never actually touched a woman before. Gentlemen, remember this: woman respond to how you make them feel. This is why I preach on my channel that the energy you give off is SO important and this ties into your overall personality. Be a positive, fun, gentleman and I GUARANTEE you’ll get more girls. I’ve literally had countless girls approach me and ask for my number and when we get talking they also say they love my energy and that’s one reason why they were drawn to me. Obviously lads looks do matter but take care of the bare basics and stop crying over things you can’t control and you’ll be fine. No one likes hanging around a miserable C*nt, let alone women. More about this on my channel if you’re interested boys. Stay safe👊🏻
bro your channel is good but icl you need to do your own thing and stop being like hamza
@@mandeepbharj8873 there can only be one : )
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@@mandeepbharj8873 I’ve always been like this bro, I respect hamza however I wouldn’t want to be like him. I am my own person.
I hope you see this comment hamza and if you do I really just wanna say , thank you for showing me the way to life as a young man, I really needed this channel and I hope you are proud of yourself, you lifted me and a lot of young men when we felt hopeless, lm sure you saved countless lifes and I appreciate you so much for that , but there is always room for more self-improvement stay strong my brothers❤️
I hope he sees this
I'm telling you mystery is how I got my whole class wondering who my Invisible girlfriend is might snatch one from there
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NEVER heard a man spit soo much FREE game in soo many videos. i spent years learning this ALL on my own and i genuinely would have loved to have videos of someone explaining how to be a man but everything has a purpose i guess and i had to learn on my own. for ANYONE watching this please know this guy is giving out FREE game and you should listen if you wanna start living the life you always wanted!
Dear hamza, my name is Tyler and I’m currently at my last year of high school now. I met this girl and she turned out to be very toxic and I became so emotionally attached that I became super unhealthy. Your videos have inspired me so much. Although you are harsh sometimes, you speak truth and have great views. I enjoy watching your videos and I’m no where near being the best version of myself but I watch your videos and hope to implement them into my life. It’s been a few weeks since me and this girl broke ties and I’ve learnt to let go. There is this female and she is very pretty and has no dating history from what I know. She is always polite but I don’t know if it’s wrong to move on after 3-4 weeks after my ex. Me and my friend are starting gym soon aswell and I just want to thank you for making these videos.🙏❤
Hey man, I’m not Hamza, but thanks for sharing your story. Advice-wise, move on as fast as possible. This doesn’t automatically mean get with another girl; just embrace the hurt and use it as starting fuel for your self improvement. You’d benefit greatly by having a long term plan for how you want to set up your life. Sit down with a journal / pen and get into the habit of mindstorming for your reflection and goals (Ex. “How can I double my income by this day next year?” w / 20 good answers). Begin the habits of NoFap, Cold showers, gym, and journaling. Unfollow everyone on socials who don’t bring value to the table. Focus on you. If she tries to come back, don’t let her-that relationship is no longer.
Some other channels I recommend (no order):
Captain Sinbad (inspiration / motivation)
Casey Zander (real talk / hard truths)
1stMan (work, perspective, real talk)
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You’re not alone Tyler. I’m on this journey too. We all are 🤙🏽
A good way to put a woman through the “whole spectrum of emotions” in a natural way is just being honest. If she fucks up or you disagree with her behavior let her know
Yeah its a stupid comment to make "her cry" and sht.
You should take women through different emotions, but not shitty ones.
#1 is to make her laugh, #2 lots of friendly banter/teasing, #3 surprise/scare her. Its really all that matters.
Just finished reading “The way of the Superior Man”. All the stuff you say makes so much more sense now.
@luis Campos where can I get the book???
@@yassiryasny9736 Amazon bro
Just starting my journey to become more masculine. The consistency and quality of the guidance you give helps a lot
Amazing video Hamza,u released it at that day when i asked this question myself : "why I'm not so popular within the girls? I'm masculine and good lookin what am I missing out?". And that video came right on hand. Thank you Hamza,ur the dad/older broher I wish I had
Men, if you want traumatized women to be obsessed with you, this is definitely the way to do it. The reason why the women you are with find this "full range of emotions" or having an abundance of women attractive, is because they are trumatized themselves and that is all they know of. They become addicted to the constant highs and lows of this sort of dynamic, which is why it becomes so obsessive. This is pretty damaging for women as a whole. If you really want a healthy well rounded woman in your life, you need to focus on yourself, work on yourself, and be a kind and committed man. All feminine women want a secure and mongamous relationship with men. When you really stop obsessing over "oh, why wont any girls want me" and start to just live your best life, naturally women will come to you. Some added bonuses are being hygenic, having a stable job, having a healthy diet, and having good style.
I'm pretty sure no well rounded man, wants a toxic women around. This does backfire on you guys ALOT. Eventually after being in this dynamic for awhile things get extremely toxic. She will probably not have any trust in you and it will end in one of those "my crazy ex" stories. This is all with good intentions and constructive criticism, I just don't want the men in our generation to be misleaded. I acknowledge that you all have a difficult time in finding the right person for you.
you dont beat her up or insult her and do every other fucked up shit of course wdym???? please process the advise first. he even said "treat her good make her feel excited".
@@ilikegeorgiabutiveonlybeen6705 he also said make her angry and make her sad lol
@@Dalpuri_ This. I feel like watching these kinds of videos on "how to make women obsessed with you" is a sign of insecurity, like, we just have to be decent men lol, don't even need to be rich or anything. I recommend a video called "The art of being chill" by elisha long, it really talks about how just being a man is enough to attract women, no games, no rollercoaster of emotions
@@enrater123 you can just say some dumb bullshit from time to time (like intentionally bad joke or something) i don't see why wouldn't it work
I am a 23 woman, came across this and felt the need to comment especially with the first two mentions (abundance and spiking the full range of emotions); some of this comes across as almost playing and making the opposite sex “crazy” about you, hinging into the player territory, and sure thing that can get you girls but, speaking for women like me who are looking for a genuine long term relationship I have never indulged a relationship with a man did not show me that they are are wholeheartedly into me. I don’t want to waste time with someone hesitant or someone who has the full spread of choice (our society is too focused on “the grass is greener” and forever swiping), i’d rather him show me he is actually focused on me, THAT will be attractive to the right person (especially if yes you are masculine, working on improving yourself and are in a good place in your life, happy single but looking for someone to share life with). If a man answers my “what have you been up to?” with “lots,” that minimal thoughtless answer will be less attractive to me and I will ultimately lead me to pull away as it flags to me that I do not have their interest.
Felt the need to write this as I feel this way of portraying ourselves as “too cool for school” is great for perhaps picking up a few women but it won’t get you the right one; one that will look at you and fall in love with the real you. There are complexities in dating of course and there is a balance between sharing too much… but to the men reading this, if you genuinely are interested, show it. The right woman will love you for it.
You're the exception not the rule
Wrong. Don't listen to this boys. Women want the opposite of what they tell you they want. This girl is still looking for Chad I guarantee it boys.
@VIGHTWENiNithanXD you're a virgin who knows absolutely nothing about the rule
A lot of people will say this is toxic masculinity but what this man is saying is ABSOLUTELY fucking true.. I've been similar with my women for past 9 years and I'm 24 years old now. A lot of people will say I'm simping and stuff but it's just that she's obsessed with me and she's told me that. The reason for that is because I treat her right and she does the same back to me. Hamza keep succeeding homie!!
You are changing my life. I am literally 16 years old! and have never had more than one girl talking to me at once with no mystery and the wrong dynamic. Now I have been able to have an abundance of options (Women wise), make myself more masculine, make better money decisions, and began a insane journey of self improvement. All of this because of you from a few months of your videos and listening to you on spotify. God Bless you Hamza
Great you found out about all these way ahead of your peers, brother, if you keep on following these, you'd definitely be the Adonis amongst your peers.
YO I'm also 16 and on self improvement for like 2 months. Doing progress in the gym and thinking more like a man was the best thing that changed my life. Thank you Hamza
I’m 16 as well. I’m trying to start a business, get into stocks more, go to the gym, etc. If I remember, I’ll update you guys a few months from now
turning 17 soon, starting to work on myself
@@khakipeach2128 Make a reminder on your calender, Most of the people forget to tell their stories, And in turn you'll feel responsible too cuz you'll know that you have made a statement in front us.
Thanks hamza! Always the advice we need. Your videos have really improved in quality and the overall beneficial value.
Truthfully, I am going through that exact thing right now with one girl that I am speaking to, my needy tendencies has me hooked to completely expose myself to this girl who hasn't replied to me, I thank you Hamza for the reminder to stay on the straight and narrow.
Focus on enjoying doing what you enjoy to do, don't waste your time chasing them. They'll come into your life naturally if it destined.
@@renjiaow3742 thank you bro
Not to brag (yet I am) my energies are perfectly polarized that everyone is kinda just the same to me. Not in a bad way but in a relatable one. There been maybe 3 girls I’ve liked all my life and I’m 17. Maybe I should let go more and not be serious with them all the time. I guess it’s okay to make Jokes and say no. I’m realizing more and more everyday life can be a dream game if you make it that way. It’s saint serious. Thanks Hamza for the past year you’ve have helped to awaken myself. Now it’s time to awaken others. Me and the men of the world give thanks you.
I can't believe and won't believe if you say "I don't have cameras watching you", you're so relatable to me that I am sometimes left with an awe on my face.
What you said in this video is so true,
*Abundance*
As I am really respectfull but also introverted, I had an abundance amongst the girls of my school, so the girls would talk to me and wanted my no. and all that, But after I started to talk to this one girl who is kinda bitchy but I ignored it as I don't have a lot of friends so I liked to talk to her, she ruined my personality amongst my friend and the others, so now, I sometimes feel like a jefrey in the school XD, but anyways, I am leaving school next year, so Imma try doing all these next year.
No one cares about school but what you achieve in Life. Get started now, seriously. Get steadfast.
Do it tomorrow
Do it today
@@petersillius7193Thanks.
yup, I have started to improve myself now, I am building my body, don't get much time for enhancing my skills, but I am doing everything I can, down to the last bit of the time I get a day to do something productive, yes I procrastinate but still I try my best, I am actually very excited to move out next year, Then I'll be able to do everything Hamza talks about, that's why I said that Imma start doing most of what he says next year.
@@animememes7531 Why not try now and then by time you would have started next year you'd already be up by a lot.
Hamza - the big brother everyone needs
Am glad i found a mentor like you on internet....the tips that you gave through this video are exactly what's going on in my life 😁🙌🏻
Bro getting a woman obsessed with you usually does not end well. If she is obsessed with you she is going to want to interfere with your solitary activities. I think it is not just selfish but borderline narcissistic to think that as a masculine man you NEED to have your woman obsessed with you, that you need to hurt her or make her cry bro that is so fucked up… I’m telling you this as a brother, it’s not ok , and when the breakup finally happens you will be haunted by those memories of her crying over things you said or did
yeah now thinking about you are correct, that's kind of weird
you're absolutely right
It's just about balance, I've unintentionally had the dynamic Hamza talks about here for about 2 years, and I feel terrible for upsetting her and I wasn't very happy in the relationship. I then went into a relationship where we spent all our time together for a solid 5 months (like almost every single day) and I ended up getting heartbroken. So either extreme (being super removed, being super obsessed) will turn out badly. You need to have your mission, discipline, be honest (which means you're not always being nice but you are saying what needs to be said), set boundaries, focus on your mission, understand no one relationship is the be all and end all. But you also need to get to know your partner on a deep level, show some vulnerability now and then, let them in on your mission a little. As an aside, any intellectual woman will find it very attractive if you can have deep conversations with them, and this doesn't have to take away from how feminine they are. And smarter women probably won't go for a guy who never engages in conversation beyond surface level.
He is right that girls love spikes in emotions, but this is just a inmature way of doing it and creates a unhealthy relationship. You can do this with respect. you can tease her from time to time instead of putting someone down to lift yourself up. You will just look like a big narcissist and that's ugly asf.
Hamza, I'm 33 (not your crowd) but there is another level to relationships when the girl is actually your friend and on the same intellectual level. When she actually helps you grow, gives useful advice. Yet you're still masculine, and she's feminine. You'll grow bored of women that just "spend time in the kitchen" and interest you in only "play time and intercourse" 1-2h hours a day, trust me.. I hope you find a woman that will take your relationship to that other level.
exactly
yeaaa hes indirectly telling you to sleep with a woman and never see her again.....lol
I agree. But it’s part of the evolution. Eventually you get over sleeping with random birds and you just want a nice normal gf. (Don’t find one on tinder though)
If you make her your friend she'll friend zone you
agree
I can see people using that analogy on mystery quite literally. "What have you done today?" "Lots." *proceeds to sit in awkward silence for 30 seconds*
Last month I watched the morning routine video he did 5 months ago, motivated me to turn my 13 year old dumb weak ass into something better, i started waking up at 6:30 am everyday and tried to do 25 sit ups and push ups and every day try to do more, i used medito for 5 mins and slowly got improved my mental health, now I’m a little bit muscular and i am found now attractive by a decent amount of peopel
@Sniper you're still a child
I know it’s stupid for someone younger to give advice but you still have a lot of time left :)
The most practical channel I've ever seen on self development..... Thanks, big bro..... Love from India
Bro thx for all the help I have like 30 girls numbers in my phone an I never texted one of them, they always want to be around me even when I just lay in there lap for half an hour,they always feel disappointed when I don't hug them, they want to share me with each other. An im 15 years old, I can easily get a girl if I want,I'm always working out,sometimes I just tell them I'm broad
So I have to go do something, the pain on there faces,just priceless,always Crying about why I don't wanna spend time with them, my guy friends always say I'm gay because I have alot of girls around me,just laughing at every joke I make
Holy shit your advice mixed with your comedy works so well, everything you said literally printed in my brain, thank you.
You'll just forget about it in a few hours :V
@@neburarerreh4958 what do you mean I remember and think about it almost every 30 minutes, basically obsessed over it
@@neburarerreh4958 Not if he’s written it down.
Thank you Hamza! THANK YOU! You have changed my life bro! Now i have confidence of a teen and i am good. I start to do many things out of my house like painting, fight with sword and Gym. Thank you. I start to talk with the people and the class! :) Thank you again!
I have tried that my girl must have all kind of emotions, good and bad. It worked. Before this She was obsessed with me but now it is on a different level.
It was hard for me at first, but I did it.
"Fake it till you make it" is pretty accurate.
My opinion
1 believe on your mind
2 positive thinking
3 make good habits
4 talk and do don't promise if can't do 😎
I love you Hamza, you’re helping me through tough times.
“What have you done today?”
“Reap the benefits of my hard work.”
Hey Hamza, thank you for all those tips. I have been through a rough patch since my gf took her own life but i just realized she was with me because i sparked all emotions 😂 Disgust, Fear, sometimes a shock or some mystery... Its just so amazing what you can achieve when you look average but do those things. Thank you Hamza 🦁💪
Just got back from a 10 km run and now i can watch this,feels good man
I actually disappered for about 2 months building my physic and business. Doing this made me realised all the women that were now intrested in me... Works wonders.
I did the same. Out of sight out of mind. Women don’t even know I exist because I’m minding my own business and I don’t chase them
Hamza thank you I'm not near completion with my self-improvement journey but the relationship you are talking about in this video of masculine and feminine energy is the one I have and I'm so thankful I used to date tomboys and always obsess over girls but I followed your advice and finally, I'm happy with my relationships and my girl is always thinking about me and calling me but im to busy working out or making money instead of just playing video games and watching tv.
Regarding the spectrum of emotions, I can say the following: my cousin once told me that it doesn’t matter to her what emotions she feels because of a guy, the main thing is to experience some emotions, even negative ones. so it's true
I think as men we make these mistakes because we want the opposite of what Hamza is suggesting in women. We don't want a woman with abundance, is mysterious, we definitely don't want a woman who gives us too much of a range of emotions because we want peace (I would also be careful of this with women because it can get too much for women too, especially non-toxic women), obviously we don't want a masculine woman and I think generally we don't care about a woman's discipline.
Man I fucking love you, best teacher for self improvement. When I'm watching your videos I really focus and listen and implement in irl. Thank you so much bro.
I agree 100% that self-discipline makes you more attractive, but I disagree that women need to be "obsessed" with you. That seems to me to be a narcissistic trait and will end up in toxic relationships that are not sustainable for the woman or yourself. Rather, focus on showing respect to her while maintaining your own path. I usually agree with most of the things you say, and I'm sure you help a lot of young men who are lost and need some guidance and direction, but "playing" with a woman's feelings will always end badly.
Exactly. Thank you. As a balanced woman, last thing on my list is to be obsessive over a man. If you want a quality woman, she will not have this trait nor will she want this type of energy in her life. This will only attract toxic women. If I ask a man what he did today and he responds “ lots” I instantly loose attraction. If he can’t have a healthy conversation and is trying to make himself look more interesting thinking that playing with my mind will entice me.. I don’t think so. I’m usually fast to not respond after that. This truly is terrible advice. Just be on a mission to be your best self, that’s all a quality woman wants from you.
Damn i needed this, was always awkward around women but im trying to be more outgoing thanks to you. very grateful to you
The problem im having is that there are some girls who like me and i have girls to chill with but the girls i think is really attractive dont like me the way the other do so im kinda confused waht to do .
Btw love your content after my mom passed and my gf left my i felt teribel you helped my get out of that hole❤
Be strong brother
thank you hamza, youve changed my life
As a 13yr old these vids really helps me with the future so thanks hamza 👑
man I have so much mystery that my crush doesn't even know me
I love how I’m hamzas vids he gets straight to the point. Thanks bro
hamza givin us daily advice on how to be better men. what a big honour to be watching his videos.
Currently reading " The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck" and I see now why you tell us to reduce and even stop our daily social media use
Personally, I feel the tips you mention are great for maintaining attraction, but after some time, if you're too mysterious, it can be misconstrued as you not willing to open up about yourself.
I do agree that your tips do work, but at some point I think you have to let some of the mystery go.
Honestly I’m not watching this video to figure out how to attract girls - wanna improve myself first, so writing to ask you to please unrestrict the “no-fap benefits timeline” Thankyou for everything Hamza
Damn, the like-view ratio though. Tells a lot about Hamza and his message.
Bro, i am in the situation you were talking about in first 2 minutes of video. I was thinking a whole day about a girl that I am attracted to, but she doesn't answer on messages, she is almost always online and we see each other on university. I was pissed because of her disrespectfulness, and this video popped out. Thank you!
If a woman cries one day and is happy th other it has nithing its not something good, its called toxic relationship. The reason, why women stay in those relationship is like gambling. You are getting rewarded unexpectedly and that makes the brain more addicted than a known, expected reward
Thanks for the advice Hamza. I started casually seeing this girl and I've been pondering what my next move is going to be. after watching your video and your saying that you need to keep it mysterious I stared at my wall and came up with exactly what I needed to say to arouse that mystery. Thanks and God bless
I need to change
Hamza you have truly helped me a lot in my life. Thank you man.
Slowly I'm attracting women the gym has helped a ton learned to talk to random people, discipline, hard work and cleaner diet. Now I'm tryna be a bodybuilder
If you’re just starting out with this, obviously you can’t have abundance yet. But I think having discipline and being mysterious are good starter tips. And from there you can build confidence, which in turn will make you more masculine and you’ll be able to make her feel emotions more, which will make her want you, which will start giving you abundance.
It all starts with discipline. Discipline is something literally anyone can do.
I can never make a girl cry it's not my character doesn't matter if she leaves me I want someone to leave with a smile not tears...😌
As someone who scares and hurts women, I can confirm
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Bro don’t worry about the competition. The agendas are getting out of hand we need a warrior class revived in society
I have one Problem with the "stay mysterious" Thing. How do you do that without lying or when living together? I hate lying therefore I dont say I did lots when in Reality I just worked out, Studied and worked like Almost everyday
not oversharing
@@Ray-tf5wu good point
This should push you to pursue new things whilst not telling her, let her find out by herself.
Don't act like a goofball, talk with a slight smirk on your face
When living together. None of this applies. This videos is designed to help someone get a woman’s attraction.
The video's title is what he was criticising in another video
1-SPIKE HER EMOTION
2-SPIKE HER EMOTION
3-SPIKE HER EMOTION
4-SPIKE HER EMOTION
bro I think apart from being mysterious, every man should know this "naturally"
Also "Humility" can be in the list
I like to think that when he says “click and watch this video right now” at the end of a video is just a test to forge our discipline to not stay any longer on yt
Congrats on 1 million, you're truly changing lives of young men
I like how you just went straight to the first point.
I finally had the confidence to aks my crush on a date. She said yes. I’m going to use this tips to make her obsessed with me 😎
Congrats bro, but remember when times get rough, don’t abandon the relationship, build it.
2 weeks in she's probably going to be thinking about other guys anyway. But whatever :V
Hamza, the 3rd thing you talked about making women feel the full range of emotions while I think your right and have a point, I would strongly encourage you to reiterate and clear up some things to men. As a man you have to be very careful intentionally making women feel angry or sad or scared because you could be seen as abusive and some women will report you and you could be potentially arrested and seen as an asshole your entire life.
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used to be more like this , and am becoming this again , starting to see now how the mission comes first , and with purpose other things begin to fall into place
Bro please focus on LOYALTY towards our Girlfriends..cuz rhe thigs you are teaching is only use to the men who are single...pls throw a light on LOYALTY AND HOW TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP
The best video I have ever watched! Thank you!
Hamza, thanks so much for your content. You're saving lives out there!
on of my favourite videos hamzas put out recently - loved both the content and style
Bro i just turned 13 and Andrew Tate, Hamza and motivational videos have made me change a lot.
same I'm about to turn 13 in 2 weeks
One of the best video of hamza when I feel low. Watched for the third time and pushed me towards my goal and be less obsessed about my girl
Hey Hamza thank you for giving this knowledge, I am grateful that I have you to guide me . And everybody like me is grateful to you brother. I am too trying to be like you and motivate some other fellow brothers through my channel. Thanks to you brother!
I'm currently not interested at having a relationship, but watching your video for the future is always a good thing.
This week i started working out thanks a lot man for your advice!
Great start dude. watch his nofap vids
I am being like you were wn you living Jeffrey life style. I do watch your videos, doing my research but after sometime i am going back to Jeffrey mindset. I feel like I am left behind in the life. There's no one who gonna help me on this 💔 ~hamzafam
you're right, no one will go towards you to help you. It's your role to go towards other if you wand and need guidance. Join the discord, talk to friends.
@@nini-tu9gs oh i didn't see.. thanks for reply.. but i don't have any idea about discord... How it's gonna help???
First points, about options.
I don’t lol. If there’s a girl I like, before I’d be low-key simpy. But now… don’t. Sorta act like you’re on your mission, and you’ll reply to her when you’ve got time to because you’re busy. When you’re not busy, guess what… you can reply. But if you’ve got stuff to do, working, grafting, exercising etc… do that first before replying type thing. Don’t let your whole life revolve around her.
But yeah, I don’t have options. I’ve had girls call me cute, and the odd look when I’m out and about. But nothing more. Levelling myself, and the more confident I get, and the more I improve myself… the more compliments I’ve got. Funny that isn’t it?😂
But what if i want a girl whom i would watch her sleep and wake uo, listen to her everytime she talks, protect and provide for her, make her happy with out all this hardships and pretending? What if i want to be a real loving husband and father? I will do this only for her, and be ferocious on others?!
Dont get me wrong, I am fit and i am not ugly. I am really into real strong masculinity, i always watch your video! And i really am masculine, strong and muscular🙏(not a brag, just i am tired)
An honest affection?
You don't need to have other girls in your DMs that you're flirting with. That wasn't the point. The point was that you should always have the OPTION to get other girls, because I'm telling you, ur girl will have too (any girl has). Otherwise, she will feel like she has mroe value than you, therefore you are too bad for her. You don't even need to have options actually, just seem like you do. Don't come across needy. And you shouldn't be the "loving husband" in the beginning of your relationship, even though you would probably love too, I know what you mean. It's just like, it comes across needy and weird if you don't know her that well. It all comes with time. Just care for her as much as she cares for you and it will turn out in your both's favor.
@@Firelayer1 I get it I get, thanks for the reply man🙏. But my point is it is really a difficult time and generation bro, i just wanted real love and a girl that would love me back while no games and too much playing😥
And i have given up!🙏
I have 0 social media to speak to girls, wont go out ever and i am really tired bro
@@eliassuna2430 My tip is to looksmaxx and try your best to become the best man you can be in every other aspect. Just like Hamza teaches. Try to overcome your social anxiety and speak to people, doesn't have to be girls. Get some friends (if you don't already have) and you will probably meet girls there somewhere. Try your best to socialize and don't overthink. As I said, these are some things Hamza teaches in specific videos, just watch them and try to implement these things and I'm sure your situation will become better !
@@eliassuna2430 Alright, real shit time.
This woman you speak off, never existed. Yes, never existed. Ever. She exists in storybooks and movies. Long ago, men called Truabadors would sing songs about women they would never meet because the reality never measured up to their fiction. These songwriters never met these women in order to sustain the imagation they had. This is you. You are in love with the women of your dreams. They are not real. And never have been.
However, there is nothing stopping you from finding love regardless. This is something everyone wants, and I mean everyone.
The fact you use emojis makes me think you are under 18 years old. You won't find true love in this age bracket if you haven't already. Most people don't real personalties at this age, just clones.
Instead, become who you need to be in order to catch this dream in the future.
Also "True Love" is a myth. Love DEVELOPS over time. Get a relationship, see how it grows, you might find a deep love. This is the only way. You sound very inexperienced. Get out there, experience the real world instead of chasing something fictional.
I'm the same as you, so good luck on this journey. Giving up this romantic ideal is hard.
@@maxtheawesome4255 You really are indeed helpful, yes i am 19( you guessed it right). But at least real shit would have been easier if everybody was not the same, it might be social media.
i rarely try to get into relationships, but when i try i feel like i dont fit at all. It is not real, I dont see my self marrying them. they all are the same, using the word "Ex" "Ex" multiple times, i even dont know how they get time for this much madness?
And i know i have to put the work, however i cant!
Gotcha same thumbnail uploaded for today’s video 😉
Thanks Hamza for everything you do. Your forging the next generation into one of strong men
i think he is just reading my mind at this point. Sometimes i will be thinking about why x isnt working, or how do i get x, and this man instantly makes a video about it. With this one, I just got in my first relationship and hes making this.
This literally describes me and my girl, I thought there was something wrong because I am always thinking about my work(basketball and school) and not her but she is always thinking about me and telling me how much she likes me. I guess thats how its supposed to be. Btw I am 14 and she is 15 but we are less than a year apart.
thanks for this informative video hamza, love it!
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I've seen a post on FB where an entire audience is seating in metaverse goggles and Zuckerberg was walking alongside them. This created a question in my head - if meta will work like it's said to be, will finding Adonises and Anastasias be easier since Jeffreys will focus mainly on the fictional world? I know it will be hard as fuck to 'unjeffrey' yourself in this situation, but won't the majority of valuable people stay in the real world and use the beautifulness of it?
i think hamza is becoming more insane
Whan hamza says "then there is you"
US:Ayo why you looking at me??😂
This is the worst advice you have given to your followers so far.
All the mysterious, make her cry emotional stuff, to an extent sound like a toxic relationship so bad...
Instead of sounding like advice for a serious relationship with the mother of your children, it sounds like advice for casual sex, specially the last point where you say you ain't even friend of your couple.
I think you're taking the "Masculine" stuff too far, and saying stuff a year ago you wouldn't, and it's not necessarily an improvement
finally bro a normal video without editing
You really fell off