UPDATE 2020: Hello everyone🌷 Thanks a lot for watching this video🙏🏼 I just uploaded something new on my channel to explain where I have been all this time and what is up in my life right now. Here is the link to it: ua-cam.com/video/9sCbfgc8sXs/v-deo.html
Thank u very much for this video... I was just tired u helped me a lot.. I am just 16 years old .. so thank u very much. It was really hard.. but this video made me to be me.. Wish u to do many other videos like this.. thank u very much...❤️❤️❤️❤️
When you realize there are 16 year olds winning world championships and everything, then there's you right there watching this video and struggling with stupid teenage stuff
The teen life is hard. I prefer the days when my only stresses in life were missing the new episodes of Hannah Montana and not being able to buy new toys
lmao im Australian so I don't use the American word for "full stop" so I was like "Hey, does this fellow commenter mean like PUBERTY!!?????" and then I realised so right now I'm just rofl
I have social anxiety and school is a living hell for me Update: Damn I forgot about this comment, I got to say tho I've gotten better so please believe me i promise it really does get better and you are never alone, I hope you guys overcome whatever makes you feel bad
That's good! Atleast you didn't touch your phone. Try to meditate / sleep (if you're sleepy) / stretch if you're bored, or you can clean your room too!
i’m 16, and i see a lot of videos of teens my age, having roadtrips, beach days, hanging out at night with friends, and stuff like that. i haven’t experienced ANY of this with the people that makes me feel the teen life. i feel like i’m wasting my life, and that soon enough i’ll regret everything. i feel like my life is boring and i’ll end up as just someone who dreamed but nothing happens.
Me too i always compare my life to others teen who achieving their dream and have great fun in their life while i'm still here laying on bed, lonely, going to school everyday that's it..
Yep i have friends but i have only one true friend. But he now seeks bigger group of friends and ignored me so that's why I and a lot of other people prefer to stay alone.
I don't want to be older. I want to go back to the days where my only concerns were what episode of spongebob was gonna be on after school and whether my friends would be allowed to play with me a little longer that day..
wow same 🥺 i feel like being older in this generation sucks , maybe in the early 80s-2000s it would’ve been better, bc it looked fun. but now everything just feels wrong, not fun, and depressing
Aaron 15 ikr i will never miss school but ill prolly miss my old school friends. Being rushed to do random garbage i dont even need to fucking know about, being unable to do simple things like throw something away because its “disrespectful”. I fucking hate that bullshit i will never miss that sad excuse for a place that teaches basic education repetitively while mixes more random shit i wont need ever again
@@yellojolly824 Thats just a tipnof the iceberg. But to sum it up, the amount of responsibilities is tremendous. And the repercussions, if mandatorys are not met, can be very serious. But it course it varys person to person given on their overall life style n issues.
(This is just my personal experience. Dunno if every school is the same) I like how in elementary school, everyone is innocent (if that makes sense) and you are as well, not knowing how painful/stressful reality can be yet. Really no responsibilities either. As for high school, the only thing I like is that you have more freedom in your decisions and that the food is better quality. (Here's me ranting if anyone's interested for some reason) I think I have depression and social anxiety? I haven't been professionally diagnosed, but the signs are clear and have been there since I was a kid. I've spent time watching multiple videos and going to websites, so I didn't just say "I have mental illnesses!" one day outta my ass. _Anyways,_ what I'm saying is ever since I got into high school, my mental health has plummeted. I've never felt so miserable and hopeless in my life. People talk to me like I'm a kid but expect me to act like an adult knowing and doing everything. Sending letters to my mom thinking she'll fix everything. Guess they don't know my mom's abusive and values my grades more than my life, and make things worse by showing my grades. "Your mom raised you and loves you!" is what everyone thinks. Long story short being a kid is better than being a teen.
I don’t know if this is just me, but I feel alone in this and I know I’m not but I haven’t met the right people who FEEL like I do. I’m 16, and my teen years have gone by so fast and I feel like I haven’t lived it right. I compare myself constantly, I feel like I missed out on so many things. I focused my entire life on grades and mental health (social anxiety) completely took over my life and I’ve missed out on so much. I never got out enough. I feel pressure constantly to be living and doing things but Im not doing those things and it gets me so upset lol UPDATE: I’m 18 now turning nearly 19, and let me just say it has been a tough journey but my mental health has improved so much. It DOES get better. I no longer compare myself. Its important to understand that everyone is different and everyone is on their own journey. There is nothing wrong with feeling like you don’t “fit in” - nobody needs to “fit in”! You just need to focus on yourself and your happiness. I did miss out on a lot, but I am now living my life properly again and I am experiencing the things that I felt I “missed out” on. I make sure to go out a lot more, and most importantly, I surround myself with people who CARE about me. I have lived a life feeling under pressure to do whats “right” in the eyes of society and family… but I realised that I was never happy doing those things. I live for ME now, I live for my happiness and things that I am passionate about. I still suffer from social anxiety and I have done since I was 13. Its not as bad, but I am moving away to University next week and that will bring me new challenges and I will be meeting new people which I am excited for, however I will most probably think about starting CBT again and perhaps going on antidepressants. Nevertheless… Whatever age you are reading this, it DOES get better. Don’t be harsh on yourself. I was a huge perfectionist that wanted perfect grades and a perfect life - and I didn’t achieve my idea of perfection, but I still got very VERY good grades and I am now starting my degree in Psychology. I am also a firm believer that everything in life happens for a reason.
you still have lots of time to do exciting things! I'm 16 and used to feel this way too but I've found that accepting the past for what it is and not stressing about it, and just looking forward and trying to make the future better and more fun/memorable has really helped.
Whatsoever you do or say at the end of the day it is God alone whom you can trust even your parents at times tend to misunderstand you whereas they are supposed to be the first people to understand you the most..we get along with our friends and think they are real is bcse we belong to the the same age grp almost and all of us in a way sail in the same sea..but tbh everyone leaves as time passes there is no one who can understand you completely..so searching for some one like that is really pointless bcse you already have one and that is God just give him a call when you need and you see the miracle in your life!
jennie’s slave the hormonal changes, starting high school, and the sudden mental growth has probably affected him/her. I can see why he/she would want to go 2 years back in time.
i turned 15 in March and i started to wonder why did i want to grow up so fast when i was 11 .-. i start to realize how fast time goes by and before i know it i would be an adult i mean i miss my child years and im definitely not going to miss out on my teen years
CrayCray V I've seen ARMY twice today on UA-cam wtf Also me too, I turned 15 in October and right now I'm in high school struggling and I had to force myself to become a happier person because I realized that my old depressed middle school self was just not going to cut it if I was going to live my life successfully. I truly wish I could go back and hangs my ways but I can't, and I am trying my best to love every second of life nowadays. I hope you guys live wonderfully great lives
The hardest part about growing older is seeing your parents get old. It hurts seeing them slowly change from once they’re use to be so energetic and so full of energy to always being tired.
This is so deep.. As a teen, its sad because I can see them both getting old, they don't run with me anymore like they did when I was a little kid. Now I'm getting emotional.. But I agree. This is the hardest thing. We don't appreciate them enough.
I'm a teenager but it's so hard on me cuz I have anxiety disorder . And depression makes everything harder.... Edit: 500 ppl liked this.. I'm so sad cuz alot of ppl feel the same...
U HAVE NOT WASTED TEEN YEARS THOSE YEARS ARE MEANT TO BE A LESSON FOR U U GOT ALL THE TIME IN WORLD TO MAKE MEMORIES WHEN UR IN UR TWENTIES THIRTIES FORTIES OR EVEN FIFTIEES THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THEN U THINK SO LIVE BE GRATEFUL AND CONFIDENT💪💪
PLEASE READ: This video is more than a year old, I am so surprised that over the last week it escalated out of nowhere and so many of you are now discovering it! Thank you for watching, it means a lot and I truly hope that the things I say will inspire and motivate you in your future endeavors. I haven't been active on my UA-cam channel for the past months but I plan to return soon, so watch out for that! Meanwhile, if you want to stay up to date with my life, make sure you follow me on my instagram @ainura1999. When I get back on track with my content, what topics/themes would you like me to address in my videos? Your input/wishes will play an important role!
Thanks for making this video💕 I really needed this😊 Its like you talked specially for me!You're amazing 😘 I'm in 8 grade now aaand..im really stressed out for my exams..and i have a lot of insecurities I don't really have someone to help me with this so this video rlly helped 💕💕 You should do more vids like this Love yaa
I'm good at making "friends", i'm a very social person, but in the inside i feel alone. I feel like all of this "friends" are there just to talk about movies, fashion or just trends, but i don't think that they'll stay with me and help me if something bad happens, like they're fake. In my entire life, i have been able to have one real friend, someone who really cares about me but i can't see her anymore, and that just makes me more lonely.
Teen is one of the hardest moments of your life because you want to be older and you want to be cool and those stuff. School is mostly what makes teens life really hard. Normally you won’t really get along. If you have anxiety I know how it feels it’s terrible! Lets just all think our life is wonderful ❤️🙏🏻
i just wanna talk to my friends but im just too scared. i dont want to risk my reputation and stuff. i want to enjoy myself but i cant because of my environment. i just love my life. 🙂🔫 k iM sORRY i sHOULDNT BE HERE
Maybe you already found your passion but you've disregarded it for whatever reason. For example, I didn't think I had a passion till I did some thinking and realized I've been interested in writing stories ever since I was little. I hope this somehow helps, though I'm not sure it will.
i stumbled upon this video after weighing myself and seeing no progress has happened and i didn't lessen in my weight. thank you for telling me things people never understood or looked out before saying. thank you ♡
I understand had 12 friends now I'm about to be in my second year of high school with no friends 😣I'm scared and I'm quite and shy make friends is not something that comes easy
try to deal with them complement everybody and say yes to everybody but still give ur self cost dont try to go to others and keep saying good things to them dont be the first one to say hi let others say hi to u im not telling u to be toxic no dont be just dont bee sooooo kind
Im a bit nervous to ask some classmates ive been trying to be friends with on whether i can join them at lunch. Im scared of a rejection, so i dont have anyone to sit at lunch at the first few weeks as school starts. We just say goodbye at the end of period. I need some help, anyone give me tips? Ive checked them and they do seem nice...Help me before i become a loner again for the whole entire year...no kidding.
I just turned 16 on July 4th, and I feel like every teen is moving so fast and finding what they want to do but I'm still lost...and I haven't even found a real interest that I really want to do. :( Edit/Update: I finally found an interest and what I want to do after a few months. I think Real Estate is a good choice for me because I always liked the idea of making different kinds of houses or helping someone find a home that makes someone comfortable and safe. ^-^ And second choice is Blacksmithing because I like swords and different weapons, due to the influence of watching Anime.
Biaggi Houthuijzen makeup and other cosmetic crap. if you’re into that then you do you. but if it’s not you need to be yourself, however you define that, and your confidence over time will take care of the rest.
I'm glad I watched this, it made me realize It is true that every single second in teen life are very valuable memories when you get old, you would look back and smile. Don't hiding yourself from the world, show the world who you are and be active, stay outside and visit friends instead of staying inside and wondering why my life suck so much.
Same I really wanted to be older I thought it would be more fun and I could leave my narrow minded school and find better ppl but I just turned 17 and wished I spent more time in the now then in the future
I'm 13 and I'm leaving to Norway for foreign exchange when I'm 15. Idk What will happen but hopefully it will be a good experience for me and help me grow as a person. I've never really gotten the opportunity to go anywhere and I feel like this is my only chance. I just hope I don't waste it. Time is very important to me.
I am 14 and I am shy. I like being alone more than meeting with friends. I don‘t have many friends, like 2-3 they are not the most „popular“ ones in our class (me obviously neither) and then like 3 more I talk with. I didn‘t really talked to the others and they go to parties and drink alcohol (they‘re like 15) and I‘m sitting at home...I know I choose that way but on the other side it makes me kinda sad. And another point is that almost every girl in my class is hugging the others before and after school and me like...not. It‘s weird when we stand there and I am almost the only one not to being hugged. I know I could make the first step in everything, but as I said I am just too shy for that and I don‘t really like it. But I am afraid of the future and that I can not live my teen years as the others do and enjoy their lives with friends... sorry for my english, I‘m german but I just wanted to say this
Tess aa yeah I'm 14 too I feel nearly the same, I'm not shy but i'm different and you know it's hard to be different in this society where everybody is the same. And about living the teen years you decide how, not necessarily has to be drinking alcohol or going every week to parties. I'm from South America, incredibly how english connects people from all over the world.
Tess aa Das mit den da stehen und die einzige zu sein die nicht umarmt wird kenne ich so gut! Ich bin so froh endlich jemanden zu finden der genauso fühlt in dieser oder anderen dir beschriebenen Situationen. Ich bin 16 und auch wirklich schüchtern.
what pressure me the most is grades in school. I dont hate school but the high expectations from family is just hitiing too hard on me because of my grades.I just recieved my report card and they even have ranking on it! My grades were fine but somehow my rank were quite low so it made my parents really sad,and I felt really guilty about it although I tried my best! You were right though that grades dont define me.they are just numbers! but its not like that to my parents..they only notice how low my rank was compared to everyone else in class..just one subject I'm bad at have low grades,I dropped from being high ranked to low.Its so unfair that my parents said that I'm stupid because of low ranking..WHAT DO I DO??
School is really competitive nowadays so it's hard to be the best. I used to be friends with a girl who freaked out whenever she didn't get a 100% on anything. Sure, she's almost 1st rank, but take a look at her mental health and social life. Is she really happy? Not really. Ask anyone what they think of her, they'll tell you that they hate her. Why? Because she's OVERLY INVESTED in a GPA (like beyond healthy). She has fake friends and stresses way too much over numbers. What I'm trying to say is find a balance and you'll be alright.
itsJulie yes I agree with you but not with one thing:No matter how much you love your parent but it's unfair for parents to call their kids stupid. Calling your kids stupid is not motivating at all.
itsJulie me to I got a D on my composition class and I had to write an 4 page essay and a letter to my mom telling why I got a D and I’m only in 8th grade i get treated worse if it’s a D-
Oh my god.. you have no idea how much you've helped me.. me and my boyfriend.. well we haven't been getting along for some time, but we understand each other so much that we couldn't break up.. that day without phone really helped us, and it was actually really the best day of our lives.. thank you so so much❤❤ Btw. I just wanna point out something: yeah, I'm an ARMY, but just bcs of that you don't have to spam "omg army everywhere" and talking about bts when it's not even related.. i'm not hating, i'm just really uncomfortable.. this topic is really sensitive to me.. so please respect that fam, thx💕
so glad i heard this. sometimes we are so caught up in emotions of stress, anxiety, anger that we dont realize some of the best things that are happening to us. yes i loved my childhood years (elementary school) but life is about letting us learn and giving us new experiences
I am not social. I enjoy good games and sometimes books. I enjoy looking at the ceiling and thinking about universe.I enjoy sports and listening to music. I enjoy being different and I really don't give a single shit.
ugh that’s my problem, i can’t find a passion, i’m not good at anything and i have no idea what to do, i keep looking at everyone and they have started doing what they like at such a young age or they know what they want to be, and i’ve said things i want to be but it just, i don’t know if i want to be them or not, like do i want to start a business? or do i want to become a model? like what the hell do i do! i keep telling myself that i will live a happier future, that i will be rich and i will be living a better life, i’ll be doing the things i want but right now, it doesn’t seem like it.
It's just about the way you perceive life. The main thing is to believe that whatever happens to us in life is a second chance and to succeed. If you really believe and act, you will succeed. A lot of things can happen to you throughout your life. You can become depressed or happy. These are the facts of life. People mature this way. I tell you one thing, as long as life goes on, you win as you strive to achieve what you believe in yourself. Love yourself and your dreams
I know it’s late but i’m actually feeling the same.I DON’T EVEN HAVE A DREAM.I just want to be rich to help people in the future but i don’t have any passion.
Hey, sorry I'm late, but I'd say to get into new hobbies that you might like! In quarantine, I found out that I love manga (Japanese comics) you don't have to do this one, it's just a suggestion! If you're interested, lmk if you want any suggestions!
Novia Yang every year will seem like the shortest in your life because the older you get the smaller part every year will be of your life. When you are 10 years old one year is 10% of your life but when you are 50 years old one year is 2% of your life
I don’t feel like a teenager. Every year I think I will, but I still feel like a kid. I’m turning 15 this year and I’m really scared of the responsibility I will start to have, I’m scared to get a job, scared for high school, scared for my social life.
Oh wow I’m 18 now... turning 19 this June. I remember watching this when I was 16 years old and I couldn’t really understand what you were saying but as years progressed I finally understood the things you mentioned throughout the video. A lot of bad things happened but I can safely say I still enjoyed my life to the fullest. You’re the best Ainura.
I’m 13, and I recently became friends with this guy. I’ve never had any real friends before. I don’t want to change myself and I won’t be because I want to have friends who actually like me and my weirdness. Now this new friend I have, I sort of have a crush on. He’s weird like me, and I think we have a lot in common. I think he could like me too. My Mom said I can’t date until I’m 16, but she said I could ‘date’ this guy much younger. And yes I do talk about this to my Mom, we are very close, I don’t really keep anything from her unless I don’t understand something myself. She knew I had a crush on him I think before I even did. I didn’t even say to it to her, she just said ‘I think you like *fill in his name*’ and I agreed. I don’t know what to do with these emotions. I feel overwhelmed and hurt for no reason. I’m not trying to seem fake/lovey-dovey but like honestly, I don’t like people, and I’m weird and I feel on a difficult wavelength than other people, so me liking someone is a big deal. And I’m looking at it like, I’m never going to find someone so weird and like me again. I used to not like him, because he was so uncaring about what people think of him that I thought he was unaware. But in reality he cares a lot about people liking him, just he wants someone to like him as he is, which I admire. What’s funny is this is how my parents first interacted. My Mom thought my Dad was some unaware weirdo. My point is though, I am unsure on how to process this, and I want to wall myself off and reject any emotion. But I can’t at the same time because I care too much to give up. It’s so weird and I don’t really get it. I only went over his house for the first time for like 45 minutes and the second time for 4 hours, and after I saw him other times, but it doesn’t feel like enough time to feel so strongly about this person.
You are such an inspiration 😻 I would add that everything happens for the best. You might not realize this at the time it happened, but after a while you will see that it's true
It straight up feels like I wasted and keep on wasting my life away just living the same boring day over and over whilst it seems like everyone my age is living it up doing different stuff all the time. Actaully depressing
I don’t want to leave school, cuz I’m so socially awkward and self conscious that I’m scared of the real world I spend my days hiding in my bedroom and plastering on a smile when I walk through the school doors but all I want to do is tell everyone to leave me alone and stop talking crap because there wasting there time I’m to socially awkward for everyone and everytime I see a snap of my friends I have a melt down bc there so pretty I am the most socially awkward and self conscious person ever and only have a small amount of comfort when around people I know.
Void_malia X i think what you should do is try to figure yourself. This is the same thing i deal with and i think figuring ourselves is the best way to deal with stuffs like this
Hey, I just wanted to sincerely thank you for this video. I'm going into middle school and everything is being done remotely. It's all so new to me and I really needed some advice to get through it. I'm under a lot of pressure and it helps to know that I'm not alone. I'm starting this Monday. Wish me luck!
ikr I'm feeling insecure at the moment because I'm not sure if people see me as a "teenager". Cause my younger sister who is entering Junior High looks more of a teenager than me since she follows trends and all that. While I dress simply just some comfy jeans and a shirt. thank you for discussing this matter. It makes me realize that I'm not the only insecure person in the world but also reminds me that I shouldn't be insecure at all cause this is me and they don't have a choice but accept who I am.
I’m 13 and I feel like lots of people my age are pressured to “glow up” but they don’t realize that we’re in our awkward time. We shouldn’t be forced to mature so quickly. And lots of us have access to social media so that can make us feel bad about sitting at home or having social anxiety while “Emily” on her private story is on a vacation with so and so.
the phone part is difficult because all of my friends are from the internet :/ i don’t really have friends at school, i have people i talk to but it’d be nice to have at least one friend irl
But enjoying your teenage years can be so hard... I have had no friend for the last month, and I’m not good at making new ones. My life is all about school now and I hate that, I wish that I could just live on my own, without my family pressuring me...
I'm already 23 now. I talk to so many people eveyday, but theyre not my friends. I enjoy the way I interact which I was so afraid to do in my teenage days. Well, I think it's better to have no friends rather than having fake friends. I was quite lonely in my school days but then I'm getting older I realise I have 2 true friends that I have to cherish the most, and not gettig engaged intensely with them is fine. Friends are important to have fun, but it's not the reason for you to feel lonely everyday when you have none. Because you ambitions are what drives you. You make them true by yourself, you choose your own path, no one else.good luck 💖
Sarah RNRS I feel you, I have no friends and I keep moving schools and I'm always new kid without knowing anyone. I have moved over 12 schools and counting. My introvertness is going to be the end of me because I hate being an introvert I hate myself, it's hard when everywhere I go people criticise me ,all these niggas trying put me down and I can't help it because I don't even... Love myself
Just try to be alone and think,try to find the best person you know who can be your friend,gather all your courage.It is never easy to make friends,especilly if you are an introvert like me,just try to get at least one friend who will support you,i wish you good luck
@@Blackcat-nd7xyyou have to accept yourself,it is the first step to progress,you should also keep in mimd that those who put you down are also afraid of your opinion about them,it is hard to ignore them but you have to try your best
I don't get the point of hurting someone's feelings I don't get the point of making someone feel like they don't belong and out of the whole world that they just make it worse I don't get the point of of saying your friends but then say something so rude I don't get the point why people can be such jerks I don't get the point why you would make some one cry in the bathroom for hours twice not once I don't get the point of why you would make someone feel this bad I don't get the point why you would act like you did nothing when you really did everything I don't get the point of trying to make someone feel better when at first you made them feel terrible I don't get the point of being friends with someone who doesn't care about your feelings I don't get the point why I thought we could be friends I don't get the point why I would have to try to look pretty I don't get the point why I wear clothes to make me look skinny I don't get the point of covering my natural beauty up with makeup because of you don't get the point of looking at what's on the outside and not on the inside I don't get the point of making fun of people I don't get the point why people have to be beautifull for you when ur ugly yourself I don't get the point of bullying I don't get the point of making someone feel so bad they run into the bathroom crying then they go outside and they have nowhere to go and they feel surrounded they feel like falling and they can't breathe I don't get the point of them going jnside and all of a sudden you care I don't get the point of saying something that rude and expect them not to feel hurt I don't get the point why u would call someone ugly I don't get the point why you would call someone fat I really don't.. Send this to everyone you know who is struggling your amasing just the way u are.I've learned to love myself perfect or not. You should too
Karen Sadek I don't get the point too. 😢 Maybe people are stupid or simply because people aren't perfect so they do things cause they think that "well if I'm not perfect you shouldn't be perfect too. " We people are simply selfish and greedy and full of pride. It is by nature that we hate it when people succeed in a certain field we want to succeed in.
Sadly, there's no use in reminiscing about the past. Especially as you're 13, you have so many years as a teenager ahead of you! You still have an opportunity to be happy, and I guess this is just an opportunity for us to find out even more about ourselves. Don't feel pressure to be perfect, but embrace what you do have, because it will really help. 😊
@@suqarplxm thanks, being teenager is so hard, I actually get peer pressure, it’s so different. When I was kid I was learning about peer pressure, and never thought it would happen to me but here I am today. I just wish I was 6 again life was so much easier for me, not knowing this stuff, these boys today. I’m just tired can’t even concentrate in school
I'm 9 years old, and I don't feel specifically happy in ways. Sometimes insecurities make me think I'm *not* perfect. Honestly, I just want to go home. But I'm writing this on my chair- looking around *in my own house* . A shame a 9 year old, like me, feels this way.
Im Turning 16 in a couple of days, and one thing that i struggle with is mostly my appearance. But i always have a strong desire to be better then anyone else. I dont even look bad to be honest, but i judge myself way too much then i should. But then i remember that its only temporary and that if i keep working hard ill be way better than i am right now. Basically everything will get better sooner or later, maybe not tomorrow but soon. It wont come to you, so you have to go off and find it. Whatever ur dealing with is only for now, and who knows, maybe in a couple of days youll be more stunning then you can ever possibly imagine. Keep your head up, that is all :)
you are absolutely right! I miss my school days so much..When I was younger all I wanted was to get out of the school, have a job.. but only now do I realize how much I want to get back to the old classrooms, with all my friends, teachers, that ground where we used to play.....Oh..I miss my school days very much
Yienz shut the heck up, the picture is some little girl and the channel is probably some old man predator, he should take a picture of himself and put that as his profile picture not use someone else’s FACE!
i haven't tried that, but i really want to try. im turning 17 next year and im going into uni next year too. time goes so fast and sadly i realized this way too late. from now on, i cherish every moment i spend with people i love and i hope everyone'll do that too before its late! thankyou for this beautiful video, honey💞💞💞
Hai guys my name is Angela and I am pregnant on 15 years old Now I am 20 my parents didn't support me My baby's father ( my husband ) treated me......... Everyone makes fun of me 😔 Now we're happy Our parents forgived me........... Stay strong 💪 Be yourself Thanks for reading my story ✨💓✨
First of all I am an introvert who has like 1 friend and I am not good at making new friends and in class I am always alone while others are socializing. I have a hard time doing that and I try to avoid school social events because my friends will just ditch me. Secondly I have dropped so much in school and my parents are always emphasizing that I will fail so I end believing it and it gets worse and they compare me with my siblings. I am depressed and I have no self confidence I don't know what to do anymore
TEENAGE YEARS ARE MEANT TO BE A LESSON FOR U U GOT ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO MAKE MEMORIES WHEN UR IN UR TWENTIES THIRTIES OR FORTIES BE GRATEFUL BE CONFIDENT AND JUST LIVE
It’s ok bro I feel the same way rn, I’m 14 and I have no friends because I feel like if I do something wrong others will make fun of me and judge me and I start to feel very overwhelmed and anxiety starts to kick in. Some people aren’t emotionally available, like parents or friends, and when it comes to the times you need them there not there. Life is hard sometimes but I know it will get better and we just have to be strong and hope for a point in life where we can find peace❤️
as I grew older my life went downhill. I see everybody my age having fun with friends, where the only friend I have barely talks to me. I have a diary and I looked at some of the pages I wrote a couple years ago. I had so much fun as a kid but I stopped writing because of how bad things got. Social anxiety also is another reason why I barely go out of my room
In the quest to become a dr I missed out a lot on my teen years no parties no prom no friends ur definitely right they are the most special yrs of my life I’m 20 and in my first yr of medical school and I feel like I’ve wasted my life
This young lady is right. I know, from experience. I am in my mid 60's, and if I had it to do all over again, I would want someone like her to say these things to me and i would follow her wise words to the letter.
1 year ago I was so consumed on trying to be “Popular.” I would look on Snapchat and Instagram and wish I was those people living their lives. I would feel overwhelmed when I didn’t get invited to sleepovers (Stupid) and would always make sure I looked good for “Boys.” Y’all, I cant express how immature I was. Now I know I acted so stupid and was overpowered by hormones. Do not waste school trying to be popular. Once you get out of 12 grade, guess what, popularity won’t matter anymore! You’ll be going to college (hopefully) and working on what you want do as an adult! You’ll have so much time to have sleepovers and party! Use school to get good grades up (as well as learning social techniques) and all of that will pay off in college. EVERY. SINGLE. RELATIONSHIP in my school ended and it all ended with one of the sides being depressed or crying everyday. Do you REALLY want that? The relationships ALWAYS seem to be going well too! But guess what, out of nowhere, it ends and usually the girl is the one left crying. Wait until you meet a mature guy! Wait until college!
I'm about to turn 16 and sadly I can't enjoy my teen years because I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to my future because my parents can't support me and I need to look out for myself:/
I will turn 18 in March, 2022. Watching this video makes me realize that I have wasted so much time for nothing and I haven't archieved anything. I am struggling with social anxiety disorder and no one (even my parents) know about this. I usually breaks down once a month, I dont know whether I have despression or not. i am the only child in my family so i guess i have to deal with it by myself from now on since i realized that i felt scared and uncomfortable whenever i was with my parents. No friends, bad grades, no plans for the future.. life is such a hell for me now..
I’m turning 22 in a month and I’m in the same boat as you. I’m also an only child, no friends, no plans for the future. I’m just going with the flow and hope it works out for me and I become successful somewhere in the future. The more you grow older the more you start to miss the old days. When I was 18 I thought life was so shitty aw man this and that, now looking back it was way better than now in some kind of way. I guess as you grow older you’ll miss your younger years naturally.
How can i enjoy my teen life right now cuz i have a terrible depression ,under treatment ,taking medicine ,stressing with studies and my family won't even cared and i Don't have any friends.. how can i?
Those things dont define you and Allah values you so much and loves you too. He gave you amazing qualities as well that make you a beautiful person. Dont rule yourself out completely
Entering 7th grade made me realize who my real friends are. The friends that I had left and had a good time. My real friends stuck with me and i appreciate it.
I turned 17 last month, and since then my whole prospective has changed I really dont know what happened to me I started focusing so much on the future and looking to the past realizing that I've wasted my teen years just like that, and I have this fear of wasting my 20's as well I really dont know what to do especially with my strict parents and whole" F "ed up society , I really hope that one day I can get out of my country and live somewhere else.
UPDATE 2020: Hello everyone🌷 Thanks a lot for watching this video🙏🏼 I just uploaded something new on my channel to explain where I have been all this time and what is up in my life right now. Here is the link to it: ua-cam.com/video/9sCbfgc8sXs/v-deo.html
Thank u very much for this video... I was just tired u helped me a lot.. I am just 16 years old .. so thank u very much. It was really hard.. but this video made me to be me.. Wish u to do many other videos like this.. thank u very much...❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm way curious to know 😜
Why are u not on 5 million subs yet
Do u know BTS?
I have never seen her videos before but this helped thank you this was awsome
When you realize there are 16 year olds winning world championships and everything, then there's you right there watching this video and struggling with stupid teenage stuff
LMAO that's pretty true!
this is what I'm feeling
It's disappointing
Used to feel that way. But then again I'm going at my own pace. I can get there at any age
That's the worst feeling ever:( It makes me extremely jealous and feel like garbage
The teen life is hard. I prefer the days when my only stresses in life were missing the new episodes of Hannah Montana and not being able to buy new toys
Nataly Feliciano-Soto I relate so much it hurts
There is a reason why 90% of suicides happen at the ages berween 10 and 20 😑
Only in America
Not to mention wizards of a waverily place
Is 17 teen a teenager
You know a video is serious when the title has a period in it
And it in all lower case letters lol
It's*
Breland Locktin It was the choker though.
lmao im Australian so I don't use the American word for "full stop" so I was like "Hey, does this fellow commenter mean like PUBERTY!!?????" and then I realised so right now I'm just rofl
Potato Potato omg same hahah
I have social anxiety and school is a living hell for me
Update: Damn I forgot about this comment, I got to say tho I've gotten better so please believe me i promise it really does get better and you are never alone, I hope you guys overcome whatever makes you feel bad
Fk skulll
Omfg same. And it doesn't help that my school have over 1800 students
Everything About Ariana Same. I have no friends because I’m too shy to make friends I guess even though I did in elementary school 😔
I have social anxiety and school is a savoir, it forces you to talk to people and make friend
Now imagine getting a job. Lmwao
I’m a teen but I don’t want to get older. I want to go back.
lol me 2 bruh
Lol me too😹😹
@kurtz tec same thats why i watch sponge bob and fairy odd parents
I'm a pre teen but I don't want to get older, I want to go back.
@rose what are you doing here? This is for teens only loser.
I have friends around me.....
But I always feel lonely and left out
Yeontan same. So that's why I decided to leave them and too tired to deal with them and also the pic of dog's taehyung is so cuteeeee 😂
Armyyy💕
Yeontan what about tae tae😢😢
Hi yeontan
Jimin you Got jams ok? Lmao
“Don’t touch your phone for a day. “
Me: “ok”
*goes to watch tv*
😂 Me
😂😂😂
That's good! Atleast you didn't touch your phone. Try to meditate / sleep (if you're sleepy) / stretch if you're bored, or you can clean your room too!
Me too
Me 😂
i’m 16, and i see a lot of videos of teens my age, having roadtrips, beach days, hanging out at night with friends, and stuff like that. i haven’t experienced ANY of this with the people that makes me feel the teen life. i feel like i’m wasting my life, and that soon enough i’ll regret everything. i feel like my life is boring and i’ll end up as just someone who dreamed but nothing happens.
I feel like that all the time sis
Me too i always compare my life to others teen who achieving their dream and have great fun in their life while i'm still here laying on bed, lonely, going to school everyday that's it..
SAME FEELING! HIGH FIVE SISSSS
SAME FEELING! HIGH FIVE SISSSS
HOLLY SHITTT THIS COMMENT READ WHAT I WAS TRYNA SAY WORD FOR WORD BAR FOR BAR
Everybody here on the coments semms to be in the need of a true friend.
No, it seems like everyone is acting like an emotional shit.
Bexspace kinda but life is hard honestly 🤷♀️
How hard ? Tell me.
Bexspace well all people have some kind of problems they’re different and that’s what’s difficult in life.
So my problem is that someone else has different problems than me ?
'You're beautiful the way you are'
me: *Looks down at body*
K
Marczy Relatable af 😂
Ikr 😂
Marczy I found someone in 2017 yayyyyy
Haha lol
Ikr
I can't express myself if everyone around me is being fake
It's called not giving a fuck.
Yep i have friends but i have only one true friend. But he now seeks bigger group of friends and ignored me so that's why I and a lot of other people prefer to stay alone.
Yeah
Same :/
That's true, everyone is fake
I don't want to be older. I want to go back to the days where my only concerns were what episode of spongebob was gonna be on after school and whether my friends would be allowed to play with me a little longer that day..
wow same 🥺 i feel like being older in this generation sucks , maybe in the early 80s-2000s it would’ve been better, bc it looked fun. but now everything just feels wrong, not fun, and depressing
still do lol im finna watch it now
Yeah, I want to go back to not caring and being genuinely being happy
@@kennedyskyler1409 i can’t even be myself as a teenager because of stupid covid
same
School is legit prison why would I miss it
Aaron 15 ikr i will never miss school but ill prolly miss my old school friends. Being rushed to do random garbage i dont even need to fucking know about, being unable to do simple things like throw something away because its “disrespectful”. I fucking hate that bullshit i will never miss that sad excuse for a place that teaches basic education repetitively while mixes more random shit i wont need ever again
I think it's because it's easier to go to school than to pay bills and stuff
@@yellojolly824
Thats just a tipnof the iceberg.
But to sum it up, the amount of responsibilities is tremendous.
And the repercussions, if mandatorys are not met, can be very serious.
But it course it varys person to person given on their overall life style n issues.
Aaron 15 dude i know
Maddy .I I worked over the summer it was so much nicer getting paid not being treated like a kid
"Don't live in the future, live in the present"
*ends up on the street*
Hahahahahahaha yeah i hear that quote a lot of times and people dont even how stupid it is.
They are not asking to not think about the future just don't live in the future.
TheViik they say to not worry about the future, focus to do better in the present
@@user-oh3br8gs9d respect the past, cherish the present, seize the future.
Wallah tho
sadly school is something I will never miss, school has ruined me
college is the same way. it sucks
Merli Raudsepp middle school ruined me
Merli Raudsepp school has always been hell for me. Unexplainable.
(This is just my personal experience. Dunno if every school is the same)
I like how in elementary school, everyone is innocent (if that makes sense) and you are as well, not knowing how painful/stressful reality can be yet. Really no responsibilities either. As for high school, the only thing I like is that you have more freedom in your decisions and that the food is better quality.
(Here's me ranting if anyone's interested for some reason)
I think I have depression and social anxiety? I haven't been professionally diagnosed, but the signs are clear and have been there since I was a kid. I've spent time watching multiple videos and going to websites, so I didn't just say "I have mental illnesses!" one day outta my ass. _Anyways,_ what I'm saying is ever since I got into high school, my mental health has plummeted. I've never felt so miserable and hopeless in my life. People talk to me like I'm a kid but expect me to act like an adult knowing and doing everything. Sending letters to my mom thinking she'll fix everything. Guess they don't know my mom's abusive and values my grades more than my life, and make things worse by showing my grades. "Your mom raised you and loves you!" is what everyone thinks.
Long story short being a kid is better than being a teen.
Merli Raudsepp Same with me.
I don’t know if this is just me, but I feel alone in this and I know I’m not but I haven’t met the right people who FEEL like I do.
I’m 16, and my teen years have gone by so fast and I feel like I haven’t lived it right. I compare myself constantly, I feel like I missed out on so many things. I focused my entire life on grades and mental health (social anxiety) completely took over my life and I’ve missed out on so much. I never got out enough. I feel pressure constantly to be living and doing things but Im not doing those things and it gets me so upset lol
UPDATE: I’m 18 now turning nearly 19, and let me just say it has been a tough journey but my mental health has improved so much. It DOES get better.
I no longer compare myself. Its important to understand that everyone is different and everyone is on their own journey. There is nothing wrong with feeling like you don’t “fit in” - nobody needs to “fit in”! You just need to focus on yourself and your happiness.
I did miss out on a lot, but I am now living my life properly again and I am experiencing the things that I felt I “missed out” on. I make sure to go out a lot more, and most importantly, I surround myself with people who CARE about me.
I have lived a life feeling under pressure to do whats “right” in the eyes of society and family… but I realised that I was never happy doing those things. I live for ME now, I live for my happiness and things that I am passionate about.
I still suffer from social anxiety and I have done since I was 13. Its not as bad, but I am moving away to University next week and that will bring me new challenges and I will be meeting new people which I am excited for, however I will most probably think about starting CBT again and perhaps going on antidepressants.
Nevertheless… Whatever age you are reading this, it DOES get better. Don’t be harsh on yourself. I was a huge perfectionist that wanted perfect grades and a perfect life - and I didn’t achieve my idea of perfection, but I still got very VERY good grades and I am now starting my degree in Psychology.
I am also a firm believer that everything in life happens for a reason.
oh my god same
you still have lots of time to do exciting things! I'm 16 and used to feel this way too but I've found that accepting the past for what it is and not stressing about it, and just looking forward and trying to make the future better and more fun/memorable has really helped.
@@corad7696 im 15 and im suffering of social anxiety
most of these comments are so relatable, but this one hits different
Im sorry
everyone wants a real friend but nobody gets it. Why?
Its called *life*
They wanna have a good friend but they don’t wanna be the „good friend „
ha haha it's rare and I'm in the real friends catalog
@@Jennifer-uh8th yeaa
Whatsoever you do or say at the end of the day it is God alone whom you can trust even your parents at times tend to misunderstand you whereas they are supposed to be the first people to understand you the most..we get along with our friends and think they are real is bcse we belong to the the same age grp almost and all of us in a way sail in the same sea..but tbh everyone leaves as time passes there is no one who can understand you completely..so searching for some one like that is really pointless bcse you already have one and that is God just give him a call when you need and you see the miracle in your life!
When I spend 1 day without my phone, I'd be lying on my bed doing nothing until when I realize that Im a day older..
Fat Cats Can't Jump same tho 😂
When I don't have my phone I sing random Disney songs I know the words of
Fat Cats Can't Jump The last words hit me hard. "I'm a day older" holy shit I forgot that.
I’m jealous of your room view, W O W
Emilyv55 me too
That is the only good part of this entire video.
Emilyv55 it’s a green screen
Arrrrrmmmys are every where
It’s fake lol
Not even kidding, I’m 16 and have no social life cus I have this thing called social anxiety.
_Dude good for u_
*I don't have social anxiety but my* *parents don't allow!*
Same but I'm 13
Same, so awkward on the bus
@Vinter me too
SAME
Damn, I'm 17 and I'm really asking myself where all the time went...
PueJaMa same
PueJaMa same!
Same omg
i feel like the time was too long 😂 and i was just sad and miserable from ages 11-now(17) 🤷🏻♀️
PueJaMa 21 here...
Tbh I rather be younger then older
true!
Facts I'm 14 I wanna be 12 again
MrFunez Productions 14 is still young, live your youth years.
jennie’s slave the hormonal changes, starting high school, and the sudden mental growth has probably affected him/her. I can see why he/she would want to go 2 years back in time.
MrFunez Productions i wanna be 14 again
i turned 15 in March and i started to wonder why did i want to grow up so fast when i was 11 .-. i start to realize how fast time goes by and before i know it i would be an adult i mean i miss my child years and im definitely not going to miss out on my teen years
CrayCray V heeeeyy armyy😍
Armyy
SAME
CrayCray V Same I'm 15 too and I'm about to turn 16 in December💔
CrayCray V
I've seen ARMY twice today on UA-cam wtf
Also me too, I turned 15 in October and right now I'm in high school struggling and I had to force myself to become a happier person because I realized that my old depressed middle school self was just not going to cut it if I was going to live my life successfully. I truly wish I could go back and hangs my ways but I can't, and I am trying my best to love every second of life nowadays. I hope you guys live wonderfully great lives
The hardest part about growing older is seeing your parents get old. It hurts seeing them slowly change from once they’re use to be so energetic and so full of energy to always being tired.
This is so deep.. As a teen, its sad because I can see them both getting old, they don't run with me anymore like they did when I was a little kid. Now I'm getting emotional.. But I agree. This is the hardest thing. We don't appreciate them enough.
I am not a teenager yet, but everytime I’m in trouble with my mother I feel just so guilty 😭
I'm a teenager but it's so hard on me cuz I have anxiety disorder . And depression makes everything harder....
Edit: 500 ppl liked this.. I'm so sad cuz alot of ppl feel the same...
I can relate so bad
Oh why is this me
Yess
same. stay strong and stay alive.
hiba tert same I been through it still go through it
I hope this will help someone out
hii
Ainura you are a really nice person 😃 ❤
That video was very helpful!!!
what gave you the courage to start your UA-cam journey and move to NY?
I haven't been here in months
ainura i have heard that you have cheat on an test right
As soon as "school" came onto the screen, I cried so so hard
HeyItsYvette wow
HeyItsYvette as soon as "Friends" came up i started crying
HeyItsYvette same
HeyItsYvette Hey my name-twin!
I just feel like i’ve wasted my “teen” years because of my depression and social anxiety
Can you give me an advice cuz I feel the same and I don't want to waste my teen
Yeah everyday especially since quarantine felt meaningless and I wasted almost 2 years of my life 🙁
@@blanketkick9771 I know right... And they went like two seconds
Obviously bc of corona
U HAVE NOT WASTED TEEN YEARS THOSE YEARS ARE MEANT TO BE A LESSON FOR U U GOT ALL THE TIME IN WORLD TO MAKE MEMORIES WHEN UR IN UR TWENTIES THIRTIES FORTIES OR EVEN FIFTIEES THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THEN U THINK SO LIVE BE GRATEFUL AND CONFIDENT💪💪
PLEASE READ: This video is more than a year old, I am so surprised that over the last week it escalated out of nowhere and so many of you are now discovering it! Thank you for watching, it means a lot and I truly hope that the things I say will inspire and motivate you in your future endeavors. I haven't been active on my UA-cam channel for the past months but I plan to return soon, so watch out for that! Meanwhile, if you want to stay up to date with my life, make sure you follow me on my instagram @ainura1999. When I get back on track with my content, what topics/themes would you like me to address in my videos? Your input/wishes will play an important role!
No problem! I loved this video
your voice is so calming and you are so positive! this video really makes you think about everything.
Thanks for making this video💕
I really needed this😊
Its like you talked specially for me!You're amazing 😘
I'm in 8 grade now aaand..im really stressed out for my exams..and i have a lot of insecurities
I don't really have someone to help me with this so this video rlly helped 💕💕
You should do more vids like this
Love yaa
Ainura K. I've watched your video today and I really love it soo much your words mean a lot wishing you all happens and thanks for this video ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ainura K. Honestly the best video ever. Seriously. Keep going!
I'm good at making "friends", i'm a very social person, but in the inside i feel alone. I feel like all of this "friends" are there just to talk about movies, fashion or just trends, but i don't think that they'll stay with me and help me if something bad happens, like they're fake. In my entire life, i have been able to have one real friend, someone who really cares about me but i can't see her anymore, and that just makes me more lonely.
Saaame. But I'm not that social😢
Dani _danica D'Souza this comment was two years ago and you were right, i did find those friends
Only have one friend who does that
tbh my teen life is boring I don't even get out of the house lol
sAmE. It iS BaNgTaN's fAuLt
your username though ^-^
@@laceymarkay1431 true too!
Same....
lol same
Teen is one of the hardest moments of your life because you want to be older and you want to be cool and those stuff. School is mostly what makes teens life really hard. Normally you won’t really get along. If you have anxiety I know how it feels it’s terrible! Lets just all think our life is wonderful ❤️🙏🏻
I understand that life goes by fast :( so i will really enjoy my teen life thanks !
Same I just realized that we don't stay young forever I seriously need to start living the moment
same!!
Same and 4 months already gone :o
Tokyo Ghoul!
i just wanna talk to my friends but im just too scared. i dont want to risk my reputation and stuff.
i want to enjoy myself but i cant because of my environment. i just love my life. 🙂🔫
k iM sORRY i sHOULDNT BE HERE
I have no passion for anything, I'm really struggling on finding something I truly enjoy/want to pursue
Maybe you already found your passion but you've disregarded it for whatever reason. For example, I didn't think I had a passion till I did some thinking and realized I've been interested in writing stories ever since I was little. I hope this somehow helps, though I'm not sure it will.
Same'
Same 😭
Yeah, we do have passions, but the society will not accept it as choosing it as career, so that's why we're worried and confused.
Try new things, live your life. Even if you fail at some things, you’ll find what you like
i stumbled upon this video after weighing myself and seeing no progress has happened and i didn't lessen in my weight. thank you for telling me things people never understood or looked out before saying. thank you ♡
I understand had 12 friends now I'm about to be in my second year of high school with no friends 😣I'm scared and I'm quite and shy make friends is not something that comes easy
Nephtalie Bottoms true and same
just try to give ur self cost
be the king
try to not be the sticky guy u got me?
try to deal with them
complement everybody
and say yes to everybody but still give ur self cost dont try to go to others and keep saying good things to them
dont be the first one to say hi let others say hi to u
im not telling u to be toxic no dont be
just dont bee sooooo kind
care always about ur appearence always use perfume
study hard cuz it effects on ur relation ships
Im a bit nervous to ask some classmates ive been trying to be friends with on whether i can join them at lunch. Im scared of a rejection, so i dont have anyone to sit at lunch at the first few weeks as school starts. We just say goodbye at the end of period. I need some help, anyone give me tips? Ive checked them and they do seem nice...Help me before i become a loner again for the whole entire year...no kidding.
*insecuritys r taking over my life*
Erum Khan well youre strong enough to not believe in them. Say one good thing about yourself each day
I just turned 16 on July 4th, and I feel like every teen is moving so fast and finding what they want to do but I'm still lost...and I haven't even found a real interest that I really want to do. :(
Edit/Update: I finally found an interest and what I want to do after a few months. I think Real Estate is a good choice for me because I always liked the idea of making different kinds of houses or helping someone find a home that makes someone comfortable and safe. ^-^ And second choice is Blacksmithing because I like swords and different weapons, due to the influence of watching Anime.
I can relate
I feel you, hope we find our passion soon
@@lavinalenalivia8222 Ah, i forgot i left this here.. but yea..still lost. But i'm sure we'll all find something. ^-^
@@i__7444 yes of course, I hope so. Enjoy our 16!
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How tf do I get a *proper* glow up
Biaggi Houthuijzen makeup and other cosmetic crap. if you’re into that then you do you. but if it’s not you need to be yourself, however you define that, and your confidence over time will take care of the rest.
i don’t know anymore did u just assume my gender?!?!
Biaggi Houthuijzen no? when did i say that? also that’s so old and a dead meme
Plastic surgery
Hi look into the law of attraction :)
I'm glad I watched this, it made me realize It is true that every single second in teen life are very valuable memories when you get old, you would look back and smile. Don't hiding yourself from the world, show the world who you are and be active, stay outside and visit friends instead of staying inside and wondering why my life suck so much.
Same I really wanted to be older I thought it would be more fun and I could leave my narrow minded school and find better ppl but I just turned 17 and wished I spent more time in the now then in the future
jake josh I feel you , bc same
Same
I'm 13 and I'm leaving to Norway for foreign exchange when I'm 15. Idk What will happen but hopefully it will be a good experience for me and help me grow as a person. I've never really gotten the opportunity to go anywhere and I feel like this is my only chance. I just hope I don't waste it. Time is very important to me.
Teachers disliked
Yes most likely
Ur voice is so calming ❤ u have gained a subscriber
It’s true her voice is soo calming☺️
Friends make my depression worse. But I would rather be alone than be heartbroken.
Just stay strong
I am 14 and I am shy. I like being alone more than meeting with friends. I don‘t have many friends, like 2-3 they are not the most „popular“ ones in our class (me obviously neither) and then like 3 more I talk with. I didn‘t really talked to the others and they go to parties and drink alcohol (they‘re like 15) and I‘m sitting at home...I know I choose that way but on the other side it makes me kinda sad. And another point is that almost every girl in my class is hugging the others before and after school and me like...not. It‘s weird when we stand there and I am almost the only one not to being hugged. I know I could make the first step in everything, but as I said I am just too shy for that and I don‘t really like it. But I am afraid of the future and that I can not live my teen years as the others do and enjoy their lives with friends...
sorry for my english, I‘m german but I just wanted to say this
Tess aa it's okay 💙
Tess aa yeah I'm 14 too I feel nearly the same, I'm not shy but i'm different and you know it's hard to be different in this society where everybody is the same.
And about living the teen years you decide how, not necessarily has to be drinking alcohol or going every week to parties.
I'm from South America, incredibly how english connects people from all over the world.
InfinityMusic thank you it‘s good to know that you‘re not alone
Tess aa :( oh
Tess aa Das mit den da stehen und die einzige zu sein die nicht umarmt wird kenne ich so gut! Ich bin so froh endlich jemanden zu finden der genauso fühlt in dieser oder anderen dir beschriebenen Situationen. Ich bin 16 und auch wirklich schüchtern.
what pressure me the most is grades in school. I dont hate school but the high expectations from family is just hitiing too hard on me because of my grades.I just recieved my report card and they even have ranking on it! My grades were fine but somehow my rank were quite low so it made my parents really sad,and I felt really guilty about it although I tried my best! You were right though that grades dont define me.they are just numbers! but its not like that to my parents..they only notice how low my rank was compared to everyone else in class..just one subject I'm bad at have low grades,I dropped from being high ranked to low.Its so unfair that my parents said that I'm stupid because of low ranking..WHAT DO I DO??
School is really competitive nowadays so it's hard to be the best. I used to be friends with a girl who freaked out whenever she didn't get a 100% on anything. Sure, she's almost 1st rank, but take a look at her mental health and social life. Is she really happy? Not really. Ask anyone what they think of her, they'll tell you that they hate her. Why? Because she's OVERLY INVESTED in a GPA (like beyond healthy). She has fake friends and stresses way too much over numbers. What I'm trying to say is find a balance and you'll be alright.
itsJulie yes I agree with you but not with one thing:No matter how much you love your parent but it's unfair for parents to call their kids stupid. Calling your kids stupid is not motivating at all.
Nebras Kreny i do understand so I'm trying my best here but they dont really see my point of view that well..Its not easy to balance everything.
itsJulie me to I got a D on my composition class and I had to write an 4 page essay and a letter to my mom telling why I got a D and I’m only in 8th grade i get treated worse if it’s a D-
All I can say is I truly feel you...cause we have exactly the same cases tho....
Oh my god.. you have no idea how much you've helped me.. me and my boyfriend.. well we haven't been getting along for some time, but we understand each other so much that we couldn't break up.. that day without phone really helped us, and it was actually really the best day of our lives.. thank you so so much❤❤
Btw. I just wanna point out something: yeah, I'm an ARMY, but just bcs of that you don't have to spam "omg army everywhere" and talking about bts when it's not even related.. i'm not hating, i'm just really uncomfortable.. this topic is really sensitive to me.. so please respect that fam, thx💕
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Army jams hullooo
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so glad i heard this. sometimes we are so caught up in emotions of stress, anxiety, anger that we dont realize some of the best things that are happening to us.
yes i loved my childhood years (elementary school) but life is about letting us learn and giving us new experiences
I am not social. I enjoy good games and sometimes books. I enjoy looking at the ceiling and thinking about universe.I enjoy sports and listening to music. I enjoy being different and I really don't give a single shit.
why i am crying ?
Ivey Calaway i also asked me this
Ivey Calaway Maybe someone punched you in the face or something.... how the fuck am i supposed to know that lmao😂😂
Because you can relate
DONxMOISTO 😂😂
Thats wrong it goes "Why am i crying?"
*Hear*
*Must*
*This*
I see everywhere
-dantr-
Yodaaa
Idk why I read that as "You must hear this" lol.
Mustard
BRO . I DID NOT REALIZE THIS WAS MADE 2016!. THIS REALLY APPLIES FOR 2020 THO!
I don’t have real friends yey
Same everyone leaves me yayyy
Sameee they expect me to drink and smoke BUT IM NOT THAT PERSON!
Trust me, there is a lot of people that care about you, i just think you haven't shown that you want to be friends
Jiminevermind 22 I AGREE
not even jokingly, but it's depressing for me but I really have no friends
turning 13 soon. this helped me a lot. thank you :)
Alyssa Jans same:D
Same
lol have fun 😬😂
bruh you don’t even have nothing to worry about yet...
13 is a really fcked up age. Good luck!
ugh that’s my problem, i can’t find a passion, i’m not good at anything and i have no idea what to do, i keep looking at everyone and they have started doing what they like at such a young age or they know what they want to be, and i’ve said things i want to be but it just, i don’t know if i want to be them or not, like do i want to start a business? or do i want to become a model? like what the hell do i do! i keep telling myself that i will live a happier future, that i will be rich and i will be living a better life, i’ll be doing the things i want but right now, it doesn’t seem like it.
It's just about the way you perceive life. The main thing is to believe that whatever happens to us in life is a second chance and to succeed. If you really believe and act, you will succeed. A lot of things can happen to you throughout your life. You can become depressed or happy. These are the facts of life. People mature this way. I tell you one thing, as long as life goes on, you win as you strive to achieve what you believe in yourself.
Love yourself and your dreams
Exactly what I feel- all I have are lil hobbies than just- like they wont do much
I know it’s late but i’m actually feeling the same.I DON’T EVEN HAVE A DREAM.I just want to be rich to help people in the future but i don’t have any passion.
@@amiworthit6866 ikr-
it’s actually making me anxious because i don’t know how would my future will be,but we shouldn’t rush right?
“Don’t spend your time sitting and looking at your phone”
Wait hold up... we are in quarantine right now, we cant go outside until covid 19 dies.
Ps4 for me
i spent 7 years in front of a computer sooo covid is nothing to me
that's out of our control
I wish COVID was never a thing
Hey, sorry I'm late, but I'd say to get into new hobbies that you might like! In quarantine, I found out that I love manga (Japanese comics) you don't have to do this one, it's just a suggestion! If you're interested, lmk if you want any suggestions!
Yeah, I swear 2017 is the quickest year I’ve ever been through, it’s term 4 for school already...😭
Galaxy Novnov IKR!!
IKR
Galaxy Novnov omg yes😭😭
Galaxy Novnov IKR ! Idk why but 2017 went sooo quick wtf
Novia Yang every year will seem like the shortest in your life because the older you get the smaller part every year will be of your life. When you are 10 years old one year is 10% of your life but when you are 50 years old one year is 2% of your life
i turned 18 this year and let me tell you make use of those years before college trust me
Apollo Costa totally agree with you
*Had to subscribe this was so powerful*
Naturally Mystique ikr
Naturally Mystique your really beautiful
I see u everywhere omg
Omg i just saw you on a zodiac video,are you a scorpio?cuz The zodiac vid was about scorpios
Not as powerful as our army.
Did anyone else almost cry when she said time flies?
Yeah i did :/
I don’t feel like a teenager. Every year I think I will, but I still feel like a kid. I’m turning 15 this year and I’m really scared of the responsibility I will start to have, I’m scared to get a job, scared for high school, scared for my social life.
same
Oh wow I’m 18 now... turning 19 this June.
I remember watching this when I was 16 years old and I couldn’t really understand what you were saying but as years progressed I finally understood the things you mentioned throughout the video. A lot of bad things happened but I can safely say I still enjoyed my life to the fullest.
You’re the best Ainura.
“Cherish every moment of your teen years”
Coronavirus: *Imma stop you there*
I’m 13, and I recently became friends with this guy. I’ve never had any real friends before.
I don’t want to change myself and I won’t be because I want to have friends who actually like me and my weirdness.
Now this new friend I have, I sort of have a crush on. He’s weird like me, and I think we have a lot in common. I think he could like me too.
My Mom said I can’t date until I’m 16, but she said I could ‘date’ this guy much younger.
And yes I do talk about this to my Mom, we are very close, I don’t really keep anything from her unless I don’t understand something myself.
She knew I had a crush on him I think before I even did. I didn’t even say to it to her, she just said ‘I think you like *fill in his name*’ and I agreed.
I don’t know what to do with these emotions. I feel overwhelmed and hurt for no reason.
I’m not trying to seem fake/lovey-dovey but like honestly, I don’t like people, and I’m weird and I feel on a difficult wavelength than other people, so me liking someone is a big deal. And I’m looking at it like, I’m never going to find someone so weird and like me again.
I used to not like him, because he was so uncaring about what people think of him that I thought he was unaware. But in reality he cares a lot about people liking him, just he wants someone to like him as he is, which I admire.
What’s funny is this is how my parents first interacted. My Mom thought my Dad was some unaware weirdo.
My point is though, I am unsure on how to process this, and I want to wall myself off and reject any emotion. But I can’t at the same time because I care too much to give up.
It’s so weird and I don’t really get it. I only went over his house for the first time for like 45 minutes and the second time for 4 hours, and after I saw him other times, but it doesn’t feel like enough time to feel so strongly about this person.
school, friends and even family all are sucks 😔:)
Me too :(
I Know Right? :(
@@georginabitsaki6086 and here we go again
Well stay in school cause that sentence is shit
So does your grammar
You are such an inspiration 😻 I would add that everything happens for the best. You might not realize this at the time it happened, but after a while you will see that it's true
+Lina C. Thank you💖 and YES, I agree with that 100% Lina!
It straight up feels like I wasted and keep on wasting my life away just living the same boring day over and over whilst it seems like everyone my age is living it up doing different stuff all the time. Actaully depressing
Im allweys seeing my class mates tigether, partying, eating out together.
And i sit alone with my thoughts
I don’t want to leave school, cuz I’m so socially awkward and self conscious that I’m scared of the real world I spend my days hiding in my bedroom and plastering on a smile when I walk through the school doors but all I want to do is tell everyone to leave me alone and stop talking crap because there wasting there time I’m to socially awkward for everyone and everytime I see a snap of my friends I have a melt down bc there so pretty I am the most socially awkward and self conscious person ever and only have a small amount of comfort when around people I know.
Void_malia X i think what you should do is try to figure yourself. This is the same thing i deal with and i think figuring ourselves is the best way to deal with stuffs like this
Void_malia X omg same
Yes same but I want to change and it's not easy People think there is something wrong with me but nope
Void_malia X same sjdjf
Void_malia X Same I feel ya.... But everywhere I go is critism against me and trying bring me down
Your voice is so relaxing
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army is jimins girlfriend dont u know that RIGHT
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Hey, I just wanted to sincerely thank you for this video. I'm going into middle school and everything is being done remotely. It's all so new to me and I really needed some advice to get through it. I'm under a lot of pressure and it helps to know that I'm not alone. I'm starting this Monday. Wish me luck!
ikr I'm feeling insecure at the moment because I'm not sure if people see me as a "teenager". Cause my younger sister who is entering Junior High looks more of a teenager than me since she follows trends and all that. While I dress simply just some comfy jeans and a shirt.
thank you for discussing this matter. It makes me realize that I'm not the only insecure person in the world but also reminds me that I shouldn't be insecure at all cause this is me and they don't have a choice but accept who I am.
Authy Bonita omg I can fully relate!
When you're a teen then you have school and family problems
It be that
*Same here* 🙌
Swivel Starsong same💔
THANK YOU!!!
I hope things get better for you 💕
I know.... I know😔 I can feel your pain.
I’m 13 and I feel like lots of people my age are pressured to “glow up” but they don’t realize that we’re in our awkward time. We shouldn’t be forced to mature so quickly. And lots of us have access to social media so that can make us feel bad about sitting at home or having social anxiety while “Emily” on her private story is on a vacation with so and so.
Oh yeah i just turned 13 today and yeah
@@i.dle.k happy bday!
@@lyrical4347 ty
I’m never going to wish to go back to high school.
Me too never ever
Khanya Khoza how old are you?
I used to feel the same way. ..
I-land K is bae💚 hi
@@Jacob-fe7ge Same sis Sameee 😭
the phone part is difficult because all of my friends are from the internet :/ i don’t really have friends at school, i have people i talk to but it’d be nice to have at least one friend irl
Skylar u can be my friend check me.... ill be ur frnd +255625564205
Same, I have only online friends, so without a phone I won't be able to communicate with them.
dammy bobo what's that number?
Wanna be Internet friends?
Skylar I can be your new friend cuz irl I don't have one .
But enjoying your teenage years can be so hard... I have had no friend for the last month, and I’m not good at making new ones. My life is all about school now and I hate that, I wish that I could just live on my own, without my family pressuring me...
hmm me too
I'm already 23 now. I talk to so many people eveyday, but theyre not my friends. I enjoy the way I interact which I was so afraid to do in my teenage days. Well, I think it's better to have no friends rather than having fake friends. I was quite lonely in my school days but then I'm getting older I realise I have 2 true friends that I have to cherish the most, and not gettig engaged intensely with them is fine. Friends are important to have fun, but it's not the reason for you to feel lonely everyday when you have none. Because you ambitions are what drives you. You make them true by yourself, you choose your own path, no one else.good luck 💖
Sarah RNRS I feel you, I have no friends and I keep moving schools and I'm always new kid without knowing anyone. I have moved over 12 schools and counting. My introvertness is going to be the end of me because I hate being an introvert I hate myself, it's hard when everywhere I go people criticise me ,all these niggas trying put me down and I can't help it because I don't even... Love myself
Just try to be alone and think,try to find the best person you know who can be your friend,gather all your courage.It is never easy to make friends,especilly if you are an introvert like me,just try to get at least one friend who will support you,i wish you good luck
@@Blackcat-nd7xyyou have to accept yourself,it is the first step to progress,you should also keep in mimd that those who put you down are also afraid of your opinion about them,it is hard to ignore them but you have to try your best
I don't get the point of hurting someone's feelings I don't get the point of making someone feel like they don't belong and out of the whole world that they just make it worse I don't get the point of of saying your friends but then say something so rude I don't get the point why people can be such jerks I don't get the point why you would make some one cry in the bathroom for hours twice not once I don't get the point of why you would make someone feel this bad I don't get the point why you would act like you did nothing when you really did everything I don't get the point of trying to make someone feel better when at first you made them feel terrible I don't get the point of being friends with someone who doesn't care about your feelings I don't get the point why I thought we could be friends I don't get the point why I would have to try to look pretty I don't get the point why I wear clothes to make me look skinny I don't get the point of covering my natural beauty up with makeup because of you don't get the point of looking at what's on the outside and not on the inside I don't get the point of making fun of people I don't get the point why people have to be beautifull for you when ur ugly yourself I don't get the point of bullying I don't get the point of making someone feel so bad they run into the bathroom crying then they go outside and they have nowhere to go and they feel surrounded they feel like falling and they can't breathe I don't get the point of them going jnside and all of a sudden you care I don't get the point of saying something that rude and expect them not to feel hurt I don't get the point why u would call someone ugly I don't get the point why you would call someone fat I really don't.. Send this to everyone you know who is struggling your amasing just the way u are.I've learned to love myself perfect or not. You should too
Karen Sadek I don't get the point too. 😢 Maybe people are stupid or simply because people aren't perfect so they do things cause they think that "well if I'm not perfect you shouldn't be perfect too. " We people are simply selfish and greedy and full of pride. It is by nature that we hate it when people succeed in a certain field we want to succeed in.
Damn
i love you. you’re a stranger to me but you’re my favorite person i’ve seen this year.
i don’t know anymore Yeah that speak is as good as John F Kennedys speach about war
Karen Sadek people hurt other people because they hate theme self so they bully others
To all the 12 year olds please live your life up. I just turned 17 and only got 1 more year left. Live it up and enjoy it
I’m 13, and miss the early early 2000 and 2010. I feel like everything change.
Same
Hmm
same, i feel like i grew up too fast honestly. I've decided to grown down almost and be completely myself and be young and happy
Sadly, there's no use in reminiscing about the past. Especially as you're 13, you have so many years as a teenager ahead of you! You still have an opportunity to be happy, and I guess this is just an opportunity for us to find out even more about ourselves. Don't feel pressure to be perfect, but embrace what you do have, because it will really help. 😊
@@suqarplxm thanks, being teenager is so hard, I actually get peer pressure, it’s so different. When I was kid I was learning about peer pressure, and never thought it would happen to me but here I am today. I just wish I was 6 again life was so much easier for me, not knowing this stuff, these boys today. I’m just tired can’t even concentrate in school
I'm 9 years old, and I don't feel specifically happy in ways. Sometimes insecurities make me think I'm *not* perfect. Honestly, I just want to go home. But I'm writing this on my chair- looking around *in my own house* . A shame a 9 year old, like me, feels this way.
@laina It's fine honestly. I suppose I'll grow out of it sooner or later.
What!!!!!
Omg ur 9 lol
@@ikillulol3416 What's funny about my age..?
@@kyralized Nothing lol
"You want to be older" hell no, achieving dreams while being a teen is perfect and I really dont wanna waste everyday doing nothing
Im Turning 16 in a couple of days, and one thing that i struggle with is mostly my appearance. But i always have a strong desire to be better then anyone else. I dont even look bad to be honest, but i judge myself way too much then i should. But then i remember that its only temporary and that if i keep working hard ill be way better than i am right now. Basically everything will get better sooner or later, maybe not tomorrow but soon. It wont come to you, so you have to go off and find it. Whatever ur dealing with is only for now, and who knows, maybe in a couple of days youll be more stunning then you can ever possibly imagine. Keep your head up, that is all :)
Im happy i read this whole comment. Thank you!!🙏🏽🕉
@@realgoodenergy5223 😄🙏🏽
This video inspired me a lot.
shanz me too
you are absolutely right! I miss my school days so much..When I was younger all I wanted was to get out of the school, have a job.. but only now do I realize how much I want to get back to the old classrooms, with all my friends, teachers, that ground where we used to play.....Oh..I miss my school days very much
Navya Mathew you are such a fucking cat fish, why are you using a picture from google images?
@@luminous6084 rude...
Yienz he or she is using a picture off google images! I saw
@@luminous6084 yeah so? You disrespect someone just for upload a copy picture from google.
Yienz shut the heck up, the picture is some little girl and the channel is probably some old man predator, he should take a picture of himself and put that as his profile picture not use someone else’s FACE!
i haven't tried that, but i really want to try. im turning 17 next year and im going into uni next year too. time goes so fast and sadly i realized this way too late. from now on, i cherish every moment i spend with people i love and i hope everyone'll do that too before its late! thankyou for this beautiful video, honey💞💞💞
Focus on being you and being successful. I'm turning 16 next month and holy shit, I'm excited asf.
Hai guys my name is Angela and I am pregnant on 15 years old
Now I am 20 my parents didn't support me
My baby's father ( my husband ) treated me.........
Everyone makes fun of me 😔
Now we're happy
Our parents forgived me...........
Stay strong 💪
Be yourself
Thanks for reading my story ✨💓✨
Wow. Your epic
First of all I am an introvert who has like 1 friend and I am not good at making new friends and in class I am always alone while others are socializing. I have a hard time doing that and I try to avoid school social events because my friends will just ditch me. Secondly I have dropped so much in school and my parents are always emphasizing that I will fail so I end believing it and it gets worse and they compare me with my siblings. I am depressed and I have no self confidence I don't know what to do anymore
TEENAGE YEARS ARE MEANT TO BE A LESSON FOR U
U GOT ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO MAKE MEMORIES WHEN UR IN UR TWENTIES THIRTIES OR FORTIES BE GRATEFUL BE CONFIDENT AND JUST LIVE
It’s ok bro I feel the same way rn, I’m 14 and I have no friends because I feel like if I do something wrong others will make fun of me and judge me and I start to feel very overwhelmed and anxiety starts to kick in. Some people aren’t emotionally available, like parents or friends, and when it comes to the times you need them there not there. Life is hard sometimes but I know it will get better and we just have to be strong and hope for a point in life where we can find peace❤️
as I grew older my life went downhill. I see everybody my age having fun with friends, where the only friend I have barely talks to me. I have a diary and I looked at some of the pages I wrote a couple years ago. I had so much fun as a kid but I stopped writing because of how bad things got. Social anxiety also is another reason why I barely go out of my room
Same i hardly even talk to people
In the quest to become a dr I missed out a lot on my teen years no parties no prom no friends ur definitely right they are the most special yrs of my life I’m 20 and in my first yr of medical school and I feel like I’ve wasted my life
This young lady is right. I know, from experience. I am in my mid 60's, and if I had it to do all over again, I would want someone like her to say these things to me and i would follow her wise words to the letter.
1 year ago I was so consumed on trying to be “Popular.” I would look on Snapchat and Instagram and wish I was those people living their lives. I would feel overwhelmed when I didn’t get invited to sleepovers (Stupid) and would always make sure I looked good for “Boys.” Y’all, I cant express how immature I was. Now I know I acted so stupid and was overpowered by hormones. Do not waste school trying to be popular. Once you get out of 12 grade, guess what, popularity won’t matter anymore! You’ll be going to college (hopefully) and working on what you want do as an adult! You’ll have so much time to have sleepovers and party! Use school to get good grades up (as well as learning social techniques) and all of that will pay off in college. EVERY. SINGLE. RELATIONSHIP in my school ended and it all ended with one of the sides being depressed or crying everyday. Do you REALLY want that? The relationships ALWAYS seem to be going well too! But guess what, out of nowhere, it ends and usually the girl is the one left crying. Wait until you meet a mature guy! Wait until college!
I totally agree with u
I'm about to turn 16 and sadly I can't enjoy my teen years because I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to my future because my parents can't support me and I need to look out for myself:/
Sister Stina I'd love to chat with you
me too
Same
I will turn 18 in March, 2022. Watching this video makes me realize that I have wasted so much time for nothing and I haven't archieved anything. I am struggling with social anxiety disorder and no one (even my parents) know about this. I usually breaks down once a month, I dont know whether I have despression or not. i am the only child in my family so i guess i have to deal with it by myself from now on since i realized that i felt scared and uncomfortable whenever i was with my parents. No friends, bad grades, no plans for the future.. life is such a hell for me now..
Lmfao wait until you’re 22.
I’m turning 22 in a month and I’m in the same boat as you. I’m also an only child, no friends, no plans for the future. I’m just going with the flow and hope it works out for me and I become successful somewhere in the future. The more you grow older the more you start to miss the old days. When I was 18 I thought life was so shitty aw man this and that, now looking back it was way better than now in some kind of way. I guess as you grow older you’ll miss your younger years naturally.
omg i had a huge smile on my face when the video ended! this is so inspiring thank you so much for this❤️
How can i enjoy my teen life right now cuz i have a terrible depression ,under treatment ,taking medicine ,stressing with studies and my family won't even cared and i Don't have any friends.. how can i?
Aina Noah head up babe
Those things dont define you and Allah values you so much and loves you too. He gave you amazing qualities as well that make you a beautiful person. Dont rule yourself out completely
Me though except nothing's being done about my depression and social anxiety:"). Family doesn't care, no friends, same as always.
Aina Noah Stay strong! Someday everything will work out right! ❤️
im here for you 🤗🤗🤗
Entering 7th grade made me realize who my real friends are. The friends that I had left and had a good time. My real friends stuck with me and i appreciate it.
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I turned 17 last month, and since then my whole prospective has changed I really dont know what happened to me I started focusing so much on the future and looking to the past realizing that I've wasted my teen years just like that, and I have this fear of wasting my 20's as well I really dont know what to do especially with my strict parents and whole" F "ed up society , I really hope that one day I can get out of my country and live somewhere else.