8 habits that changed my life | discipline, motivation, & productivity

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  • @susieqhernandez8373
    @susieqhernandez8373 8 місяців тому +289

    I can tell the difference from when you lived with your parents you just wanted to sleep all day and not do so much! Watch a lot of shows and movies! I’m glad to see your change in your life & you just looking and doing better!! ❤

    • @Luvleyness222
      @Luvleyness222 8 місяців тому +13

      That was also a tough time for her cuz she was going thru a breakup. She was trying to heal. I have noticed a huge difference tho!!❤

  • @ieadri
    @ieadri 8 місяців тому +56

    I finally started prioritizing myself. After moving away from my hometown and having my son I finally did it and i had to stop thinking like you said and just do it. I always remind myself that self discipline is self love!

  • @brooklynray5263
    @brooklynray5263 8 місяців тому +3

    Harley running around in circles while you’re reading at the park is the cutestttt omg 😭

  • @pedravandermerwe
    @pedravandermerwe 8 місяців тому +44

    Long time viewers have been noticing how much you matured it's a beautiful sight!❤

  • @Lifeaccordingtomie
    @Lifeaccordingtomie 8 місяців тому +8

    You described how I feel perfectly, its so hard to do the basics on a day to day and not knowing how my emotions are going to be. Thank you for this video!!❤

  • @humannature-nm6xq
    @humannature-nm6xq 8 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for all the tips. I, personally, love reading and it makes me feel better. 🥰

  • @EmilyHernandez-u7p
    @EmilyHernandez-u7p 5 місяців тому +3

    i love that "not breaking your own trust"

  • @LouiellaAragones
    @LouiellaAragones 7 місяців тому +13

    Love this word “don’t think just get dress, start working out” 🔥💕

  • @SEIDAYS
    @SEIDAYS 5 місяців тому +4

    It was, “where just going to ignore that pile of laundry right now!” That did it for us. THAT PART SIS!

  • @Lopezmari15
    @Lopezmari15 8 місяців тому +40

    Once I finally leave this toxic relationship ima be just like you🥺🥺

  • @monicavidaury4287
    @monicavidaury4287 8 місяців тому +6

    Watching this video was like watching myself word by word and it's the Lil changes that make a big difference ❤

  • @TheeVibra
    @TheeVibra 7 місяців тому +2

    Everytime I come home from college I get in a runt and fall into my old habits (or lack there of) and watching this video helped me get out of bed and actually unpack😭 thank you!

  • @stephanielara6919
    @stephanielara6919 8 місяців тому +3

    I love, love, love, love your videos. You make my day

  • @skymontejo
    @skymontejo 8 місяців тому +2

    Can you please share how you budget to be able to live on your own ? What are some tips you have ? You inspire me so much to live alone seeing how comfortable and organized you are I WANT THAT !!💕💕💕but I’m so scared to live alone thank you for being our big sister 😊💕

  • @CourtneyNoble
    @CourtneyNoble 7 місяців тому +2

    the colour of your pink bed is so adorable makes me happy :)

  • @milly1529
    @milly1529 8 місяців тому +1

    Omg 🥹I used to watch you when I was younger, I’m so glad you’re doing well! Sending so much love.

  • @kxc73
    @kxc73 6 місяців тому +1

    Oh. Em. Gee. You are SO SMART for that hip thrust hack! YOU MAY HAVE JUST SAVED ME 🤭

  • @47leah
    @47leah 8 місяців тому +3

    Loved this video! Proud of you and of your growth ❤️

  • @flxwercxrpse1871
    @flxwercxrpse1871 8 місяців тому +1

    You give me so much hope that i can get to that place in life where i don’t let my depression win everyday. :,) proud of you

  • @natashavazquez6801
    @natashavazquez6801 8 місяців тому +6

    I used to watch you when I was 16, and I’m now 18 turning 19 which is crazy, I’ve grown a lot too and it’s nice seeing you again, feels so good, and to know that emotions are normal too but to not morn on them, I struggled with wanting to feel “happy” all the time, which I noticed was impossible and silly. It is silly because happiness is an emotion, just like anger, jealousy, sadness etc. it’s only an emotion that is felt, and when you keep yourself there too long or mourn on that feeling whether it’s good or bad, you tend to feel drained and confused. Sometimes we’re okay but we tell ourselves we’re not. For example, sometimes I feel like resting which is completely normal, and I used to confuse that with sadness because when I went through depression that’s what I wanted to do all the time. But out of the depression, it’s just normal to rest lol, or feel lazy sometimes, just go do life, however you feel etc. I stopped thinking and doing. We’re just living, after all depression is just ongoing thoughts.

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 8 місяців тому +2

    Melissa I really really needed this vlog and this was such a motivating and relaxing vlog you are my inspiration and I wish you have a blessed week ahead💕💕✨

  • @fairymary_555
    @fairymary_555 7 місяців тому

    I’m so proud of you girlie and thank you so much for the motivation & inspiration 🤗🦋🩵

  • @imstrong8211
    @imstrong8211 6 місяців тому

    First video I watched from your channel and I loved it!! I want to litsen to productuve and positive videos everyday to motivate myself. Thanks for your content and for all the advice!!❤️

  • @MaudeneRojas
    @MaudeneRojas 8 місяців тому +3

    Love the pink aesthetic ! Where did you get your bed sheets?

  • @johannacortes9431
    @johannacortes9431 5 місяців тому +1

    Love that you get yourself weekly flowers🥹🤍

  • @aundrea8705
    @aundrea8705 8 місяців тому +5

    Where is your comforter from? It’s such a perfect color 💖

  • @angelamarie8252
    @angelamarie8252 8 місяців тому

    I would love to see more book recommendations from you!!!! Like your 5 star books or books you really love lately!

  • @Lopezmari15
    @Lopezmari15 8 місяців тому +1

    You’re freaking awesome 😍🫶🏼

  • @tamoniquewinkle163
    @tamoniquewinkle163 8 місяців тому +1

    what a queen!

  • @fairymary_555
    @fairymary_555 7 місяців тому

    my favorite youtube girlie 🎀🫶

  • @indie7096
    @indie7096 8 місяців тому +1

    ahhh I literally love you

  • @nellycandelas4875
    @nellycandelas4875 5 місяців тому

    This is a more realistic perspective of a normal person getting healthy this is just a start and I hope you keep it up

  • @deniseannmarie5405
    @deniseannmarie5405 7 місяців тому +1

    Heyy girll! Where did you get that pink band to hold your dumbbells for the hip thrusts?? 💗

  • @peytonmendy
    @peytonmendy 5 місяців тому +1

    what is that belt you used for hip thrusts

  • @kajoljotkaur84
    @kajoljotkaur84 8 місяців тому

    I loved watching this video so much. I want to ask where is your necklace from tho? It's so pretty

  • @kyleena3713
    @kyleena3713 8 місяців тому

    Omg dude cafe elite is THE best, I miss it & Washington so much

  • @narasnoh
    @narasnoh 8 місяців тому +1

    just got out my class & you uploaded ahhh can’t wait to watch

  • @catherinealfonso2156
    @catherinealfonso2156 7 місяців тому

    hi beautiful ! love the video, where is the lip product from with the little honey comb wand that you used in the beginning? 🥰

  • @supaflysteph1
    @supaflysteph1 8 місяців тому +1

    I love your videos I can relate

  • @pinkflowers01
    @pinkflowers01 6 місяців тому

    i love this video ❤

  • @mia6089
    @mia6089 8 місяців тому +1

    Haha 😅I like that just do don’t think just do! I wish my autoimmune condition would allow me to just do 😔 &&& love what u said at the end!!!

  • @SkyStepDrones68
    @SkyStepDrones68 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful queen :)

  • @shirleygiselle3698
    @shirleygiselle3698 7 місяців тому

    Omg ong omg Melissa please where r those pink bed sheets from !!!!??

  • @joannamejia14
    @joannamejia14 8 місяців тому +2

    I wanna be you when I grow up 🥺

  • @Lenebleezy222
    @Lenebleezy222 8 місяців тому

    Your RDL form 👏🏻👏🏻❤️

  • @angelygomez3069
    @angelygomez3069 8 місяців тому

    whats the lip balm on 0:33 ?

  • @melisab5425
    @melisab5425 5 місяців тому

    Hii what is the name of the song/beat in the middle of the video ?🥰

  • @tanyarenaissance8829
    @tanyarenaissance8829 8 місяців тому

    The depressive symptoms was very tough to listen to because they are the symptoms of someone that ended their life.

  • @cocolou_
    @cocolou_ 8 місяців тому

    hey melissa where is that brown hoodie from?

  • @Annadr3wmorrison4477
    @Annadr3wmorrison4477 8 місяців тому

    Love youu

  • @katherinelove0
    @katherinelove0 8 місяців тому

    watched this while i did 10 minutes of stair master to distract myself :,) also where’s your bedding from 🤭

  • @sissyvazquezcruz3829
    @sissyvazquezcruz3829 8 місяців тому

    Where did you get your bed sheets from

  • @elevatewithjana
    @elevatewithjana 8 місяців тому +1

    Love this vid 🫶🏽 it’s been so good to see you taking action for yourself and how much happiness that’s created in your life ❤️ proud of you friend

  • @LizHerrera-cf2lt
    @LizHerrera-cf2lt 8 місяців тому +1

    What’s the song name girly ?

  • @Ylinsalmon123
    @Ylinsalmon123 8 місяців тому +4

    Also alcohol being a “depressant” doesn’t mean it makes you depressed lol it means it slows down your coordination and reduces arousal etc

  • @CMar314
    @CMar314 8 місяців тому

    Hey Melissa! I remembered ur sponsorship video with better help, did you try it or anyone reading this tried it and it helped? I’m curious bcuz I want my bf to try therapy but not sure if it will really help him. 😩

    • @hayley623
      @hayley623 8 місяців тому

      You need to look up reviews better help is a whole scam and they’re actually really terrible

    • @alejandravalle9889
      @alejandravalle9889 8 місяців тому

      yes, i have ! literally got me out of a huge rut, definitely recommend. It is helpful as long as you want the help

  • @rosy6889
    @rosy6889 8 місяців тому +2

    Love your blogs . You’re sweet

  • @dontworryboutit3826
    @dontworryboutit3826 8 місяців тому

    We need more try on hauls!!

  • @KayMaireeX
    @KayMaireeX 7 місяців тому

    Hey love, what’s the song name ?

  • @marinnaolivia
    @marinnaolivia 7 місяців тому

    Babe where’s that necklace from?? When you’re sitting at your vanity :)

  • @vel_visions
    @vel_visions 8 місяців тому

    Hey id love to know what it is you put on your lips in the beginning of the video

  • @chantrage333
    @chantrage333 8 місяців тому

    where that sweater thing from in your thumbnail ?

  • @miriamgarza8539
    @miriamgarza8539 8 місяців тому +1

    not me being the 111th like 🥹

  • @arizarellano1555
    @arizarellano1555 8 місяців тому

    What gym girlies do you follow? 💗

  • @her7450
    @her7450 7 місяців тому

    Were you watching H3 in the beginning? I thought I heard Ethan’s voice 😭

  • @Abbywojo1235
    @Abbywojo1235 6 місяців тому

    My friend said she is depressed and she got mad at me for pushing her away and she never understood…

  • @schuylermae
    @schuylermae 5 місяців тому

    the link won’t work :((

  • @ashley-pc2cd
    @ashley-pc2cd 8 місяців тому

    17:15

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 8 місяців тому

      17:51 don’t wait on anybody to do something

  • @KayMaireeX
    @KayMaireeX 7 місяців тому

    Song ?

  • @yerbamate_viviana
    @yerbamate_viviana 7 місяців тому

    🔥🦋 ❤️

  • @JOYRIDEUS
    @JOYRIDEUS 8 місяців тому

    Drinking and going out is a red flag.

  • @nicolerichard-do9mf
    @nicolerichard-do9mf 8 місяців тому

    🩷🩷✨

  • @danielr.5232
    @danielr.5232 8 місяців тому +1

    Well, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with living with your parents. I still live with my mom. Is there something wrong with that?

    • @heidimacias9243
      @heidimacias9243 8 місяців тому +5

      I think you shouldn’t take it personal. ALOT of people grow up and genuinely want independence.. their own space, separate from family. nothing wrong with it. A lot of times when you move out and have your own place, it helps you really develop as an adult / individual. Of course it’s hard sometimes but truth is you go thru things differently and process differently when you live alone. Everyone has a preference. If you want to live with your parents forever- go for it!

    • @Mariely1
      @Mariely1 8 місяців тому

      I live with my mom and we have a very healthy relationship but I’m about to be 26 now lol. I kinda want my woman independence so yeah there’s comes a point where you kinda want your own space.

  • @nicoleavery7238
    @nicoleavery7238 7 місяців тому

    You don’t need to consume animal bodies and fluids for your health. Stop paying for abuse and murder

  • @babybro999
    @babybro999 8 місяців тому

    all vid are just for sponsors now lmao its annoying, this is where i unsubscribe

  • @arco.irisxo
    @arco.irisxo 7 місяців тому

    Was the makeup you did in the beginning of the video like an everyday quick makeup? What products did you use? ❤❤🫶🫶

  • @Lana-ur1xj
    @Lana-ur1xj 8 місяців тому +15

    I’ve been watching ur content for a while and I luv it🫶🏼. This may sound presumptuous, however it rlly is coming from a place of love but I rlly recommend seeking Jesus. From ur videos it always seems like ur always chasing new activities to fill some sort of void and I rlly believe Jesus Christ can help with that. I recommend watching some classic cliffs videos to show you why God is the answers to all ur worries. Thank u for taking the time to read this if u did and God bless you, Amen.

    • @joannamartines7294
      @joannamartines7294 8 місяців тому +4

      Exactly my thought! Im 18 and I ignored that thought a lot and whenever i kept hearing about the topic it almost even annoyed me? But the day i took the time to actually open my heart to him was the day my whole life changed. I truly think this would help you so much melissa❤️ i love your videos a wish you the bestt

    • @melissaa_estrellaa
      @melissaa_estrellaa  8 місяців тому +9

      I don’t share the same beliefs but I appreciate your comment 😌🫶🏼

  • @Mamas_25
    @Mamas_25 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for all the wonderful advice in today's video. I'm taking it all in 🤍 everything you said is show true ❤ & I'm so happy you are doing good and that it continues.

  • @xoxoevlyn04
    @xoxoevlyn04 8 місяців тому +3

    keep doing what you’re doing & keep inspiring others, its okay to feel those feelings and im glad your making changes that make you feel happier and better about yourself, thats GROWTH🫂❤️