For those seeking their authentic selves

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @AngelMarie-rg6uu
    @AngelMarie-rg6uu 5 місяців тому +544

    "To walk into rooms, and to not judge yourself any moment"
    I NEEDED THAT.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +9

      whew, you and me both! total game changer 🤍

  • @lyannguyen10
    @lyannguyen10 5 місяців тому +441

    this video is exactly what i needed. for anyone reading this who is on some sort of healing journey, you're not alone! you are the most kind and beautiful human being on this world

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +9

      🤍 You are an embodiment of love! Healing in togetherness

    • @danimoonie
      @danimoonie 3 місяці тому +2

      ❤ Thank u

  • @christinamarief
    @christinamarief 4 місяці тому +152

    -meet inner child
    -see yourself without judgement
    -see if you’re holding on to any stories that are not your own
    -listen to your body and body’s intuition
    -no second guessing
    -ask yourself questions

  • @odettreverol
    @odettreverol 4 місяці тому +176

    I sometimes question why I crave deep connection and why sexual tension is my go to rather than truly understanding a person and connecting with them for friendship. Then I realized I didn’t allow myself true friendship because I had nothing else to offer because I didn’t believe enough in myself to be interesting. Do I even find myself interesting is the true question and why seek validation from the people around me when I can feel that for me.

    • @Isustainallthispain
      @Isustainallthispain 4 місяці тому +16

      omg i feel this so heavily

    • @pollyj2902
      @pollyj2902 4 місяці тому +3

      i feel this so much

    • @Elena-iy4wg
      @Elena-iy4wg 3 місяці тому +2

      are we like- the same person? :’) felt this deeply

    • @TherealFairycookiie
      @TherealFairycookiie 3 місяці тому +6

      Same here and I remember one time being like … why do I want sexe why do I’m okay to have sex with random people …. What’s unheald part of me is triggered …. But after this make me remember SA as kids by family … and know I’m like ohhhh myyyy …. So everything was just because of one things that I never speak about anybody ( cause I will be a liar…. I was the pretty liar as a kids ) and now I’m lost because of my inner child going ’ crazy in my head… she scared of everything and I need to reassure her/// but me tooo I’m scared yall how to do

  • @faithelena2747
    @faithelena2747 Місяць тому +12

    I am 26 and I've had the messiest 20's. I am trying to rebrand myself, unlearn and learn myself. It is really scary, the thought of dying to self, letting go of the things I've known for the longest time because of the birth of the unknown.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  Місяць тому +3

      @@faithelena2747 Oh my gosh, yes, the 20’s can be so messy. I resonate so deeply with this, it can be really intimidating to walk that path but the unknown, in your truest form, truly holds miracles ❤️ sending you love

  • @arsema11.11
    @arsema11.11 5 місяців тому +141

    "I feel the most love by my self"🗣️🗣️

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +4

      🤍🤍🤍 no one can love you better

  • @miro4106
    @miro4106 4 місяці тому +61

    I CAN BE MAGNIFICENT AND A WORK IN PROGRESS AT THE SAME TIME!

  • @maritzarivera2554
    @maritzarivera2554 4 місяці тому +54

    “I am. Right now. That is enough.” LOVE THIS

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@maritzarivera2554 You are so perfect as you are 🤍 Thank you 🤍

  • @nancymiranda8392
    @nancymiranda8392 4 місяці тому +17

    this gives “oh i love being a woman!” vibes and i love it

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      Yes yes yes ✨ basking in this energy every day of my existence

  • @bernadettemclean5238
    @bernadettemclean5238 4 місяці тому +46

    I’m 21 and still at home and I feel like I can’t be myself my whole life I’ve been told and grown up to live a certain way which is really what I like and I feel it’s stopping me from being my own person

    • @nontelovogliodire
      @nontelovogliodire 4 місяці тому +3

      this is exactly me! I am actually in therapy even tho i am still home, it’s a slow process, but we can do it

  • @Blkbutterfly7
    @Blkbutterfly7 5 місяців тому +49

    "When i meet my quirks with love, rather than judgment " 💖🪄 yes !!! 🙌🏾 That was my turning point.
    When the "your so different" comments made me see all those quirks were things i didn't see anything wrong with, and never wanted to change, I felt like I'd won at being me.
    Blessings to all the beautiful souls embracing being fully themselves ❤.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      Yes!!! You are so inspiring 🤍 thank you for embracing all of the beautiful parts that make you, you.

  • @gaurika388
    @gaurika388 18 днів тому +1

    It feels like I have 100 different personalities with different people, and yet I’m lost in myself, trying to figure out which one is real, which one will make me feel that I can stick with this personality because this reflects me, I’m 18 …and I’ve experienced quite a bit of it, and I’m not sure how to put it in words, but my plate just kept overloading, and now I stand somewhere where I don’t know who am I? I know if I will get out in the world out of this bubble that I live in my perspectives will change my thinking will change, and I might as well, find who I really am, but for now, I really want to switch my brain off because all the thoughts just eat me up. I am a student right now, and I am preparing for this competitive exam, and I’m sure all the lakhs of students who study for this examination, they all have cut off their connection with the world outside, but at least they have a friend or two….They can confide in …..my friends and I had to separate because I moved to a different place and I had other circumstances, therefore, now I can say I don’t have any best friend, that I can confide in or I can say that, yeah, she is my and only my friend and it might sound silly, but these are the little problems that have been building up and now they seem like this huge adversity …which it’s not….. I don’t know why am I even writing this, but just the title of the video made me feel as if I can write it down here because I’m not a very enthusiastic commenter on any video, but it just feels like that if people are watching this video, then they might be somewhere or the other struggling like me and we just make a community out of it, and yeah, that’s the only reason…. I know things will change in future, but it’s just over thinker and me… I have forgotten how to interact with people because I’ve been in my room stressing out about academics, but I know these are the thoughts that will die in these walls that I am in right now. Because once you step out you see you discover you explore, and then you come to conclusions. People This age who, due to fear or uncertainty rch conclusions….tend to suffer i guess

  • @peacelandhaven
    @peacelandhaven 2 місяці тому +3

    This resonated deeply. Sometimes I wonder if the life I’m living is really mine or just a reflection of what society expects. Time to get real with myself. 💫🌱 Who else is on a similar journey?

  • @711PARNAERUE
    @711PARNAERUE 5 місяців тому +19

    2021 I was so in tune with my authentic self, but I allowed things back in that got in the way of that. I’m learning that authenticity is a lifelong commitment!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +3

      This is so true, it’s a constant practice because so easily external forces can creep in and impact how we show up. I’m sending you love on your journey as you continue to make the return 🫂🤍

    • @711PARNAERUE
      @711PARNAERUE 4 місяці тому

      @@sakaessentials 💙💙💙

  • @bernadettemclean5238
    @bernadettemclean5238 4 місяці тому +8

    I’m going through a stage atm where I’m finding myself again as I lost myself for a while and I’m loving it but in some parts of my life I’ve realised I’ve grown and changed so learning to accept that I’ve changed too

  • @sammie0936
    @sammie0936 4 місяці тому +15

    this felt like a warm hug in the rainy weather. you gave me so much insight and i think this was the sign from the universe because not only am i doing an assignment on identity but i am also trying to focus on my inner child. trying to love myself and be forgiving. trying out things i have always wanted to do. thank you so much saka, love you 💓

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +2

      @@sammie0936 🥹 I am so grateful this filled your cup, all I could hope for. I know little you is thanking current you for your intentionality and embarking on this journey back - of course and always, love you 🩷

  • @wendyferrergonzalez3103
    @wendyferrergonzalez3103 4 місяці тому +6

    I'm just starting that journey, it's gonna be hard and it's gonna be lonely, but it's also gonna be worth it. Thanks for making this video and sharing your experience. Sending you love from Cuba ❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@wendyferrergonzalez3103 Yes it will be so worth it, I’m sending you so much love right back and support along your journey. You got this ❤️

  • @clemywolf
    @clemywolf 5 місяців тому +43

    you talking from your soul is such a gift! i'm definitely on the journey of falling in love with me and who i'm becoming, your words are so helpful

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you from the bottom of my heart, I am sending you so much loving energy as you continue to run towards yourself! 🤍

  • @mswamp_1826
    @mswamp_1826 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you so so much for this precious and refreshing gift of perspective. I was able to see a version of myself I felt I had less access to since being stuck in a rut, in your loving, joyful being. ✨️💕

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  Місяць тому

      @@mswamp_1826 this message warmed my heart beyond words, I am so happy to know this and grateful we crossed paths here 🤍 sending you my love 🌼

  • @sophieb12325
    @sophieb12325 5 місяців тому +20

    You are a light. I'm grateful you exist and give your gorgeously authentic energy to others this way x

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      🥹 I just want to hug you, thank you so much. I’m so grateful you exist as well and that our paths have crossed, thank you for receiving me 🤍

  • @inesvitoriapenteado4199
    @inesvitoriapenteado4199 4 місяці тому +3

    Wish you had a podcast! so lovely to listen to you while sewing.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +2

      @@inesvitoriapenteado4199 Ah, I love this! I’m going to start a podcast in the near future 🤍

  • @yayaari97
    @yayaari97 5 місяців тому +22

    I resonate with your story so much! It has taken quite some time for me to finally return to who i truly am, pre-societal, communal and familial conditioning and influence. It has been so challenging but so incredibly fulfilling and it has literally shifted my reality. Can’t wait to continue watching you flow through the rest of your journey 🤍

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      This is so beautiful to hear! It is quite a mountain to climb but oh so liberating, I'm proud of you for making the return. Thank you for your presence 🤍

  • @lucyharrison7358
    @lucyharrison7358 4 місяці тому +5

    Girl! You got me sobbing 😭 this was beautiful ✨💛🫶🏻

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@lucyharrison7358 🥹 Thank you so much! I’m sending you a big hug

  • @suzanne8024
    @suzanne8024 5 місяців тому +14

    You speak my language when no one around me does ❤ these reminders are so important, I could listen to you like a podcast. Can't wait for your future videos ✨

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      I’m so grateful we have crossed paths 🦋 thank you so much, this means the world to me 🤍

  • @lees971
    @lees971 4 місяці тому +5

    I can’t tell you how much I resonated with your words and story. It’s like everything you said had happened to me over the past six months and I realise it’s all a part of the journey. When at the time I felt so lost, random and messy like you said. Shifting from a place of self hate to self love. Your words really helped me understand what I’m going through, and myself and my true inner worth. And gave me great tips for what’s to come 😊 thank you so much. You are incredible!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@lees971 Wow, I’m sending you a big hug. It is so comforting to know that we are not alone, that our experience is shared. I am so happy to hear that this impacted you the way it did, thank you so much for your kindness and sharing your experience with me! 🤍

  • @АлинаСергеева-з1х
    @АлинаСергеева-з1х Місяць тому

    Ur smile and aura are soooo radiant! 🌟

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  Місяць тому

      @@АлинаСергеева-з1х this made my day!! 🥹 thank you so much angel 🤍

  • @danielahernandez7432
    @danielahernandez7432 5 місяців тому +14

    this video was sent to me! i went to get a pedi today and i was deciding what book to take and something told me this one book but i decide to grab a different one that i was reading earlier that day. the book the universe was leading me to read is the one you’re holding in your thumbnail! ❤️

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +6

      Wow this is amazing, how magical! Definitely a divine read, every page has been so transformational 🤍

    • @LilacMoon1919
      @LilacMoon1919 5 місяців тому

      What’s the book called?

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +3

      @@LilacMoon1919 Women Who Run With the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés - 1000/10 recommend 🤍

  • @TheStarGirl-222
    @TheStarGirl-222 5 місяців тому +5

    Whenever i wonder about something, or need an clarification the right videos always shows up.
    Thank you universe and Thanks to your video!.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      Of course! 🫂 Universe is truly always working for our highest good 🤍

  • @ChocoBunny
    @ChocoBunny 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for posting this. I'm trying to find my authentic self.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      Of course, I’m rooting you on as you navigate the journey 🤍

  • @cojojacobs3538
    @cojojacobs3538 15 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing this, The full body answers are super important.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  15 днів тому

      @@cojojacobs3538 Yes, so important to tune into! Thank you for sitting with me 🫂

  • @kirstymimi459
    @kirstymimi459 5 місяців тому +4

    Literally relate to so much! Especially about having to dim my light around others. I am also on a journey to my authentic self and I’m so happy I’m evolving with other spiritual souls around the world x

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      It brings me so much comfort knowing that this is a shared experience and we have such a loving community to evolve with 🤍 I hope you continue to share your light with the world!

  • @c3mone04
    @c3mone04 4 місяці тому +2

    I could cry, this is exaclty what I've been searching for. Sending you so much love-- thank you !!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@c3mone04 🥹 I’m so grateful this found you, I’m sending you love back tenfold!

  • @MashuduMugwedi
    @MashuduMugwedi 3 місяці тому +1

    I loved your video so much, just exactly what I needed❤. Finding the real me and doing what I love and not worry about how others will think of me

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому +1

      @@MashuduMugwedi Thank you so much, I feel so full knowing this filled your cup 🤍 sending you much love on your journey beautiful!

  • @ItsMe29
    @ItsMe29 20 днів тому

    Girl just your voice was so calming to me, thank you for sharing this ❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  15 днів тому +1

      @@ItsMe29 🥹 My heart, thank you for sitting with me ❤️

  • @maiaautumne2167
    @maiaautumne2167 4 місяці тому +2

    Love this, I’m going through this right now, i realise I don’t really know me, now I’m single, kids have left home etc I’m left with me and questioning what I like and who I am. I have worn so many hats since my late teens mother, employee, sister, partner but never truly me. I’ve left my career recently and gone back to uni to go for the career i wanted, I’m also planning on taking a solo trip somewhere where I can be me but I’m actually anxious to do it. Thanks for this ❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing this with me. Wow, it sounds like such a powerful transition period to rediscover yourself after years of fulfilling so many roles. I think it's natural to feel anxious, but it's also an exciting opportunity to explore who you truly are and what you genuinely enjoy! These are such courageous steps towards your authenticity. I hope you are gentle with yourself as you navigate this path. Sending you so much love and light

    • @maiaautumne2167
      @maiaautumne2167 2 місяці тому

      @@sakaessentials❤

  • @TheJadaDiaries
    @TheJadaDiaries 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you sooooo much!!! I needed to hear this!!! 🥺🤍

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@TheJadaDiaries Of course!!! I am so glad it found you, sending you so much loving energy 🤍

  • @mehtaptufan6184
    @mehtaptufan6184 4 місяці тому +1

    I love your videos so much. Thank you so much for this, it was much needed. Your words resonate with me to the core. I am grateful.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@mehtaptufan6184 Hearing this truly pushes me forward 🥹 Thank you, I am incredibly grateful for your presence here, sending you so much love 🤍

  • @ta.selmamoureuse
    @ta.selmamoureuse 3 місяці тому

    I cannot express how much I loved this video

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@ta.selmamoureuse this made my entire day, thank you so much angel 🤍

  • @OurSolemnOath
    @OurSolemnOath 3 місяці тому

    Love this! Ur Energy!!!

  • @samscreapaper526
    @samscreapaper526 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you❤ I think stop juding others is a big step. When im arround others who judge, it makes me insecure. I love thinking: thats intresting, good for them! And then you feel more safe to be yourself ( for me ) ❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@samscreapaper526 Yes! I love this, this is such a huge step. When we are in constant judgement of others, simultaneously we are in judgment of ourselves. I like to think that way too or in other cases, acknowledging that that’s just where they are on their journey. Thank you for being a light 🤍

    • @samscreapaper526
      @samscreapaper526 4 місяці тому

      @@sakaessentials thank u for your amazing video

  • @Tanarashanell
    @Tanarashanell 3 місяці тому

    I needed to hear this, Thankyou for making me feel safe and less alone in this confusing time 🫶🏼

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@Tanarashanell 🫂 Hugging you in spirit, I got your back angel

  • @BenIsFiguringitOut
    @BenIsFiguringitOut 3 місяці тому

    My experience validates something you mentioned. As much as I miss home and everything associated with it, leaving home (in 2019) has been HUGE for me discovering who I am authentically. I lament leaving so late, but I’m convinced that it was the best move for me. Thanks for this video!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому +1

      @@BenIsFiguringitOut I am so happy for you, leaving home isn’t always easy but the liberation of finding yourself is well worth it ❤️ thank you for sitting with me!

  • @grinchysej7835
    @grinchysej7835 3 місяці тому

    I’ve been living in the same town for my entire life and I’m moving soon to a completely different area. I’m so excited bc I feel like I’ve changed and matured sm but not been able to rly show it and this relocation will let me rly bloom! This video is exactly what I needed, you’re so wonderful Saka! Thank you :)

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@grinchysej7835 Oh my goodness, I am SO excited for you! Liberation is right around the corner 🤍 bloom like the flower you are. Thank you so much for your kindness, it means the world to me. Sending love :)

  • @lisandradetulio
    @lisandradetulio 4 місяці тому +1

    this is beautiful, you're beautiful! Thank you!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@lisandradetulio Thank you so much! 🤍🫂

  • @thehealtrix
    @thehealtrix Місяць тому

    You explained this beautifully & effortlessly🩵👏🏽

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  Місяць тому

      @@thehealtrix Ahhh, thank you so much! 🥹🤍

  • @marisolcarlos1367
    @marisolcarlos1367 4 місяці тому

    this literally changed my life within a few seconds, thank youu

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@marisolcarlos1367 My heart is overflowing hearing this, that’s what I’m here for. Thank you for leaning in

  • @earthlinglarissa
    @earthlinglarissa 5 місяців тому +2

    So many things you said resonated deeply. Such wise words, I would read an entire book by you! Looking forward to seeing you grow on UA-cam, thank you for this message

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      This is so incredibly kind and made my heart explode! Thank you so much, I am so grateful for your presence here 🤍

  • @judyeffendi2421
    @judyeffendi2421 3 місяці тому

    I love this ! Youre so well spoken

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@judyeffendi2421 Thank you Judy! 🫂 You are so so kind 🤍

  • @GratitudewithGracie
    @GratitudewithGracie 5 місяців тому +4

    I’m automatically just so excited to hear you speak. I love your poetic Intro and I just wanted to say great job! Excited to watch more ❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      Wow thank you, this is so sweet and made me smile 🤍 i’m so happy you’re here!

  • @sonyav2307
    @sonyav2307 3 місяці тому

    Oh my God. I saw my favourite book in the thumbnail and I clicked on it. Beautiful video!!!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@sonyav2307 Ahhh you have immaculate taste in literature - thank you!!! 🫂🤍

  • @eiselehope
    @eiselehope 4 місяці тому

    thank you for sharing yourself with us ❁🤍

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@eiselehope Thank you for your presence and holding space for me to share ♥︎

  • @eirawinter2107
    @eirawinter2107 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this video, it spoke to my heart and made me happy and relieved, I really feel closer to finding my spark again. Actually expressing gratitude and accepting help was very hard for me in the past, but since you mentioned the inner child, it feels ironic that gratitude and acceptance was something I was great at as a little girl. I was extremely curious and admired anyone that crossed my path, so I just wanted to tell you that it's really admirable of you to be able to find your true self and in turn help others. It feels like a gift, you are really cool.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@eirawinter2107 Wow, thank you so much for this message and your kindness. This made me so emotional, I too have had those “aha” moments when you realize all that little you embodied, that somehow got lost in the journey of life. You are on your way and I couldn’t be happier for you. Sending you all of my love and empowering energy as you ignite your spark again 🫂

  • @soniadelatorre5700
    @soniadelatorre5700 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for your loving words, vulnerability and all that you are! This video is a gift for us all. 🫶🏻🎁✨

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@soniadelatorre5700 Thank you for this message, it made my heart explode! 🥹 sending you a big love hug

  • @samirahelhadi
    @samirahelhadi 2 місяці тому

    I very much loved this video and opened my heart to

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  2 місяці тому

      @@samirahelhadi I am so happy to hear this, thank you 🥹

  • @trystann599
    @trystann599 3 місяці тому

    Such a beautiful truth! Loved this video, it found me exactly when I needed it 🥺 it’s okay to evolve and change is what I needed to hear

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@trystann599 🥹 Thank you, I’m so happy this found you! I’m sending you love on your journey 🤍

  • @niamhaliceverity22
    @niamhaliceverity22 4 місяці тому

    Just subscribed from this video alone! Adore EVERYTHING in this

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@niamhaliceverity22 Eeeek 🤍 thank you angel, so grateful you’re here!

  • @bernadettemclean5238
    @bernadettemclean5238 4 місяці тому

    Loved this video I fully believe everything your saying is correct I’ve spent a lot of time alone and so had a lot of time with myself I used to hate that but now I don’t and I also have made some more friends ands it’s been great and things are falling in place in my life but it was only when I started to accept myself all parts and accept the season I was in and now my life is so much better but to get there you have to be willing to find you and change your attitude towards life

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@bernadettemclean5238 This is so incredible to hear, I feel like embracing all of you opens up an entire new world and it’s so beautiful to hear how this is happening in real time for you. I’m rooting you on and sending you so much loving energy 🤍

  • @sl7shed
    @sl7shed 5 місяців тому

    We’re the same age and I’m feeling the same way. It truly feels so good to not be alone

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      It really does 🤍 It’s such a relief that we can hold space to talk about it and support each other instead of navigating it alone

  • @dani-tk3vl
    @dani-tk3vl Місяць тому

    this video is everything!!

  • @Richgirlshana305
    @Richgirlshana305 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing this . I was just saying this about myself I don’t know who am I and I want find my own authenticity.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@Richgirlshana305 You will find it! I’m sending you love while on your journey

  • @chychy27
    @chychy27 4 місяці тому

    i hope one day i can see my true self in all spaces

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@chychy27 You will 😊 i’m sending you so much support and love as you navigate the journey

    • @chychy27
      @chychy27 4 місяці тому

      @@sakaessentials aw thank you i appreciate that very much 🫶🏾

  • @kolbyy3539
    @kolbyy3539 4 місяці тому

    definitely appreciate this i've definitely been going through the same thing as well just really getting to learn myself and know that things are going to happen and i'm going to make mistakes but its how i look at it and like how i become a better person and giving myself that space to learn and explore with compassion. loved this video!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@kolbyy3539 Yes exactly, I love this - it sort of feels like a first dance with yourself but over time, you get better and better at just being you. I’m sending you so much good energy on your journey and I’m so grateful you resonated with this, thank you! 🫶🏾

  • @clairesnoeij1157
    @clairesnoeij1157 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this video ❤ this is so helpful in a time were I feel a bit lost

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@clairesnoeij1157 Of course, I’m sending you loving and supportive energy as you return home to yourself 🤍 you got this

  • @aliciaslices
    @aliciaslices 5 місяців тому

    Turning 21 soon and as an older sister THANK YOU for sharing your experience 💞🙏🏽

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      🥹 So happy to share! Sending you early birthday love 🤍

  • @yuyu0091
    @yuyu0091 4 місяці тому

    Thank youuuu🤍

  • @DavidKnicks
    @DavidKnicks 2 місяці тому

    Great video and vibe. I just subscribed.

  • @ElizabethTaylor98
    @ElizabethTaylor98 Місяць тому

    This gave me the confidence to go hug those trees 😭 every part of me wants to when I do my daily walks but I've always said no to myself because "it's weird" I needed this one and I'm so glad I accidentally clicked on it thank you 🫶

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  22 дні тому +1

      @@ElizabethTaylor98 Ahhh this makes me so happy, yes hug those trees! They love our hugs ☺️ I’m so grateful you did as well, thank you for sitting with me 🤍

  • @eggtarte8974
    @eggtarte8974 3 місяці тому

    you are officially my comfort youtuber 😭

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@eggtarte8974 I’m squealing 🥹 love hanging out with you

  • @klovessunsets
    @klovessunsets 5 місяців тому +1

    I love this!! Thankyou for sharing❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      I’m so glad! Thank you for hanging out with me 🫶🏾

  • @lvdl6052
    @lvdl6052 5 місяців тому

    I am also on a journey to rediscover myself and you are truly a great source of inspiration with such a beautiful aura around you and so much love to give to yourself and others. i'm so grateful that I have the
    opportunity to meet you and learn more about myself, thankyou for your love and light

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      This made my heart burst. You are incredibly kind and loving, thank you so much 🤍 I am equally so grateful we have crossed paths and that we can continue this journey together

    • @lvdl6052
      @lvdl6052 4 місяці тому

      thankyou so much 🥹 ✨✨🩷 Keep on going with this beautiful channel. one love 🫶🏻

  • @FemmeFatalePod
    @FemmeFatalePod 4 місяці тому

    This is the first video i found of yours but I love your insight! You have such a talent to putting these experiences into words!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      Wow thank you so much! I’m so grateful this video found you and that it resonated! 🤍

  • @celinejb9107
    @celinejb9107 4 місяці тому

    i love this sm , watching this healed apart of me

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@celinejb9107 thank you, wow, I’m so grateful this was healing for you 🥹🤍

    • @celinejb9107
      @celinejb9107 4 місяці тому

      @@sakaessentials would you mind if I ask you for some advice, im currently a bit lost in my healing journey and I would love to just gain some insight from you

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@celinejb9107 I don’t mind at all! Dm me on insta

  • @niajahdine
    @niajahdine 5 місяців тому +1

    thank you for sharing your heart, I really needed to hear it all. 💗

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      thank you for receiving me 🤍 i’m so happy to hear this was helpful

  • @thekhadejah.j
    @thekhadejah.j 3 місяці тому

    Omg Sakari !!! We went to elementary school together it’s nice to see you’re doing well. Loved this video definitely subscribed.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@thekhadejah.j Ahhhh hi!! 🫶🏾 this made my day, so nice to connect with you again. I hope you’re doing well and thank you so much for joining 🩷

  • @Carole-s7b
    @Carole-s7b 3 місяці тому

    I’m 67. Do I like apples or does my mom like apples was so simple but sooooo eye opening. A question we all should ask ourselves. Bravo 🎉

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@Carole-s7b It’s truly the simplest questions that can lead us to profound realizations! Thank you so much Carole, sending you my love! 🤍🤍

  • @noonno-v6u
    @noonno-v6u 5 місяців тому

    The book in your cover photo - Be Here Now - literally one of the DOPEST finds!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      Right?? Hands down one of my favorites ✨

  • @Trynafindmyniche
    @Trynafindmyniche 4 місяці тому

    Wow i loved this video so much a tear fell out my eye

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      🥹🫂 sending you so much love and a big hug, I’m so glad it resonated

  • @breoshawilliams6656
    @breoshawilliams6656 5 місяців тому

    So beautifully said ❤️, currently in this same space and soo appreciate running across this video. Wishing you the best on this journey!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      I’m sending you such a big hug and so much love as you navigate this space 🤍 thank you so much! 🫂

  • @lubnamohamed6113
    @lubnamohamed6113 5 місяців тому +1

    I love your content. Thank you!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      so happy to hear this 🤍 thank you for your presence 🫂

  • @TyraMudiwa-le3js
    @TyraMudiwa-le3js 5 місяців тому +7

    This made me automatically subscribe 🩷🥺

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      This made my heart so full, thank you for being here 🥹🤍

  • @allmylovemish
    @allmylovemish 5 місяців тому

    feeling the same way at 25!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      It’s so comforting to know that we all can relate so much

  • @Jiminsboost
    @Jiminsboost 5 місяців тому +1

    This came at the right time wow thank you 😮❤ and new subscriber I really did enjoy this content.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      I’m so happy to hear this, thank you for landing here with me 🤍🤍

  • @nhlalirose
    @nhlalirose 5 місяців тому +1

    I loved this, this is so phenomenal!!! Can you please do a detailed Q&A get to know me video, so that we can connect more with you!!! ❤❤❤ You gained a new subbie here!!!💞💞

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much! 🤍 Yes of course, would absolutely love to. I’ll plan a video for it 🫂

  • @fatimazahra76039
    @fatimazahra76039 5 місяців тому +1

    love love this! I resonated with your story so much so happy you're fully embracing yourself xo

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      I’m so glad it resonated with you! we’re truly in this together, thank you 🤍

  • @caitlowen
    @caitlowen 4 місяці тому +1

    LOVE THIS.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@caitlowen Thank you!!! 🤍 I’m so happy you do 🥹

  • @Ishtarbeyanderson
    @Ishtarbeyanderson 4 місяці тому

    "Unbottifying the self"

  • @briaa3204
    @briaa3204 5 місяців тому

    I love this video and your vibe happy you came onto this platform ✨🫶🏽🌸

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      I appreciate you so much, thank you 🥹🤍

  • @capricornreform
    @capricornreform 3 місяці тому

    This was such a good video.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому

      @@capricornreform Thank you so much ❤️

  • @yuka3322
    @yuka3322 5 місяців тому

    You have a really nice and beautiful vibe❤ sending you love and support

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much 🫂 so kind, sending you so much love right back 🤍

  • @TheWellnessAbbey
    @TheWellnessAbbey 5 місяців тому

    Profound reflections and life lessons. Thanks for sharing x

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much, I’m so grateful it resonated with you 🫂🤍

  • @Vloggers10
    @Vloggers10 Місяць тому

    I always thought that in order to help myself grow I had to push myself and if I did something awakard I had to remember it and technically punish myself so I wouldn't do it again😢 I think I was just waiting for someone to say that I don't have to do that

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  22 дні тому +1

      @@Vloggers10 you definitely don’t and shouldn’t 🤍 honestly I believe we’re all beautifully awkward and everyone’s just playing make believe - I’m sending you a big hug! 🫂

    • @Vloggers10
      @Vloggers10 22 дні тому

      @sakaessentials Thank you for this🥺

  • @Zarahsz
    @Zarahsz 4 місяці тому

    I am very lucky to start my morning with your video🩷

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      @@Zarahsz 🩷 You made my morning, thank you so much for being here

  • @mtomazp
    @mtomazp 4 місяці тому

    Saka this is beautiful and much needed at the moment ❤
    Can you share some shadow work prompts and questions that helped you?

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@mtomazp Thank you so much 🤍 I’m so glad it resonated with you. Yes of course, I’ll gather those and share them soon!

    • @mtomazp
      @mtomazp 4 місяці тому

      @@sakaessentials brilliant thank you 💕

  • @clairearagon
    @clairearagon 4 місяці тому

    Love this video ❤ I’m on the journey to embodying my authentic self as well. I used to feel scared being in solitude and now I feel the most at home in solitude and the most love for myself. I find it hard to balance finding that time to connect with myself in a relationship. 😅 it’s only when one of us is traveling that I feel like I can fully come home to myself and just be me. I have a fear of being seen & at the same time I like attention 😂 I’m working on letting my partner see all of my different parts. But it’s hard for me to kill the part of me that cringes at myself, so I’m working on that. Thanks for your video 😊 much love

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@clairearagon Thank you so much 🤍 I completely see you, I live with my partner as well and have to be extra intentional about making time for my solitude! I went through my own journey in feeling comfortable showing him allllll of my parts too 😂 I am rooting you on while you navigate the journey

    • @clairearagon
      @clairearagon 4 місяці тому

      @@sakaessentials OMG 🥹 thank you for replying! I just found your channel I would absolutely be so grateful if you made a video on that. I feel like there’s isn’t much content on how to navigate it in a relationship especially one that allows you to grow and shine that is healthy.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому +1

      @@clairearagon Of course! I’m so glad we’ve crossed paths 🤍You’re so right, I actually had been reflecting on this theme so I’ll be sure to plan it sooner than later

  • @umedemarej
    @umedemarej 3 місяці тому

    Keep going!

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому +1

      @@umedemarej 🥹 Thank you for this, I’m sending you so much love

    • @umedemarej
      @umedemarej 3 місяці тому

      @@sakaessentials our teacher is most silent during our tests in life; you got this. I see it.

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  3 місяці тому +1

      @@umedemarej keeping this message close to me, you are an angel

  • @kimmyy8376
    @kimmyy8376 5 місяців тому +1

    I have similar feelings about truly finding myself without any limitations but still finding it difficult to get out of my bubble. I understand that this is all a learning experience and I have to have patience with myself. Thank you for sharing your story !!
    Would you be able to share any books you've read that has help you have a better understanding?

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for sharing this, I see you 🤍 it’s definitely not a walk in the park so i’m celebrating you for showing up for yourself and embarking on the journey!
      Would absolutely love to share some books that have helped! I’ll reflect on this and compile a list for you 🫶🏾

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  4 місяці тому

      Hiiiiii 🤍 I was reflecting on the books I’ve read within this realm that I believe impacted me the most and I’d say Women Who Run With the Wolves (pictured in the thumbnail) and The Courage to be Disliked! I have a long need-to-read book list so I’ll make a video on good reads eventually as well 🤍

  • @Aly-p5k
    @Aly-p5k 4 місяці тому

    Beautiful video ❤

  • @DAClub-uf3br
    @DAClub-uf3br 4 місяці тому

    Sounds easy when you say it.

  • @divyajangid6615
    @divyajangid6615 4 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @missamsalah8913
    @missamsalah8913 5 місяців тому

    Thank you ❤that help me ❤❤❤

    • @sakaessentials
      @sakaessentials  5 місяців тому

      Sending you a hug, I’m so glad 🤍🤍