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Ma'am this Video is the only video that helped me to relate to...Yes,I am questioning my sexuality. And my celebrity crushes (all of them) are females or 'feminine' men! Yes!!!!💜💖💜
So I had a boyfriend but I didn't feel comfortable with him at all. And when I go out with my friends they only look at the boys But when he tells me look how beautiful it is, I say mhm.. It's very nice. The other problem is that I kissed a girl and i liked (I played truth and dare). And I still don't know what sexuality iam .
“You're only attracted to fictional men or celebrities” **Takes off glasses** I cannot see **Takes out earbuds** I cannot hear. Therefore, these facts cannot affect me 🗿
Wait I’m more confuse I thought I just don’t like kissing........And I mean french kissing... but I also feel that gay kissing is also a bit uncomfortable.
A big gay flag for me was realizing that I was only attracted to guys who had personality traits that I wanted for myself. Like I don't want to date you, I want to be like you
SOOO ME, i liked only two boys irl for 3-4 years when i was in primary and secondary school, but now i think that i just wanted to be like them. They were popular, funny. All my classmates liked them as well. Also one of them told me that he had a crash on me too, after that i was feeling rlly upset and dissapointed for some reason, cuz i thought that i liked him as well. Now ofc i understand that if i had just admired him, then my reaction makes sence. I am still questioning if i am a lesbian or a bi with woman prefer. But my bi bestie understood that i have a crash on her (my face was as red as blood) and she tried to explain me that i might be a lesbian, (we are not together unfortunately, but even thogh she helped me a lot a we are still good friends) I have 7/10 signs and also i have read a lesbian masterdoc. I guess i am sure for 70% that i am a lesbian for real. Maybe after 2-3 years i will be able to finally decide who i am
One time my mom went on about marrying a man that will love you, and then she said "or a women" as she looked at me. It's like she had a feeling. . . Mothers know everything. . . Edit: holy this got so many likes, thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰. And I still haven't even came out if the closet yet🥲🥲🥲. UPDATE: My parents, sister, and my friends all know now
Omg same!! I remember doing this when I was about 5 or 6, I had this sketchbook and I'd draw EVERY SINGLE DETAIL of how I imagined my potential wedding would look like, but not even once thought about "the MAN" I was going to "marry". Looking back now, I can definitely imagine myself marrying a girl ^^
The biggest sign that I got was that I would notice particular girls A LOT and I would want to be best friends with them and I would try to get their attention and I would get really exited when they talked to me. I always thought I just wanted to be friends with them but those were all crushes
Holy shittt I have waifu and I feel like I am lesbian because I think I like girls more than those piece of shitty boys, sorry about that langauge. Just bad memories
that happened to me earlier this year, there was a new girl at school and she happened to be in my English class and I thought she was cute and really wanted to be friends with her...then after some thought, a few months later I realized I didn't just want to be friends with her, I have a crush on her.
@@farfalina im the same! My friends can show me a girl and a boy and i wont see anything in the boy but i can point out everything in a girl. I have a pan girlfriend now and i am able to cuddle with her but i never ever! wanted to cuddle or hold boys hands. i think its obvious enough. its a gut feeling at this point. buy oh the dreams i have...
I love a girl, but here in Saudi Arabia we can't declare our love or be together, and unfortunately we don't have the money to go to countries that support homosexuality. We just live with all disappointment and fear that we won't be able to be in one house and embrace each other. Or kiss each other😔💔
Does she know? And if you work hard you will be able to fly to another country! My dream is the same, so i got you! But u don't have to wait for a kiss that much just kiss bro somewhere other ppl won't see you 🙆♀️
@@Zen_le Yes, she knows my love for her and we love each other, but being in a country that criminalizes homosexuality, everything becomes difficult, but we will not give up.
@@sun-lm3bz Ayee great that she knows! In my case she doesn't even know it :( and gotcha same here in my country :( but in future everything will be fine, let's keep our hopes! :)
I just realized I’m a lesbian and not just bi like yesterday, I think the most telltale sign was that I had to choose what boys to have ‘crushes’ on in elementary 👀
Lesbian here. Been so for a while now. None of this happened to me... I grew up in a fairly conservative society. Getting into a heterosexual marraige was kind of considered a norm for me. So I did dream about it. I had "crushes" on traditionally "masculine" men. To be very honest, all of these gendered things that are mentioned are not indicators of your homosexuality. I am a complete femme myself. I love dresses and makeup and baking and women. So the only true way to find out if you're gay is to put yourself out there. To date and meet new people. Don't put yourself in a box. Be open to new experiences. You'll eventually figure it out. And if it turns out that you don't like being with a woman, that is ok too. Just because you like motorbikes, you don't automatically become a lesbian. Just because you like cooking doesn't ncecessarily mean you're straight. Just because you find a guy on TV cute doesn't mean that you would find him cute IRL (and vice versa). The only way to truly know if you like something (or someone) is to be open and honest with yourself and the other person. Try it.
@jankinair9934 hon this was exactly what I needed to read today! Thank you with all my heart! I grew up in a box "not literally " and now I'm figuring out and learning who I am..its a tough road at 42 but I'm on a path to rediscovering myself..❤
@@laurenelloise omfg fr also y weeb ass got called out when you said you are attracted to fictional or anime men and women i was like don't call a gurl out
Here are a few things that helped me realize I'm a lesbian: - Picking a guy to like when you were younger or recently. Or liking the same person your friend liked just because they liked them - Being excited or proud of yourself when you 'like' a guy - When you see a straight couple, you're never looking at the guy, but you're always looking at the girl. Also, thinking that the woman is more attractive or "too good" for the guy. Another thing with this is imagining yourself as the guy (I did that A LOT) - Being an avid ally of, being super defensive of, or being kinda obsessed with the LGBTQ+ community (don't come for me, I know straight allies exist, I'm just saying that it could be something you might want to consider if you're questioning your sexuality) - Always thinking/talking about how much easier it would be to be a guy because you could date girls and not have to be a lesbian - Liking the idea of having a boyfriend more than the actual boy (being excited to say "I have a boyfriend" or "he's my boyfriend" more than the idea of spending time with that guy) *This next one was HUGE for me* - You want men/boys to like you, but you couldn't imagine dating them. Wanting male validation is different than having attraction to men. I always viewed it as this: could you imagine yourself actively pursuing a romantic relationship with a man? Like asking him out or something? Or is this something you've always wanted a man to do for you?
Omg the last one😳 always when I think about being in a relationship with a guy I want him to make the first step and basically ‘lead’ the relationship. Imagining the same with a girl I feel WAY more comfortable
the one about being an avid ally was a personal attack 😭 i had that one so bad i wrote a passionate essay about homophobia and brushed it off as wanting to defend my friends or hating how people could be this cruel (which i literally wrote into the essay... to what? defend myself?) and my english teacher was probably a little concerned because she sent me a 2 minute long voice response about how she was there for me if i needed to talk and ohhh the last one too! i had a few boys crush on me in 6th grade (this was before i knew gay people existed) and i was like proud? but i couldn't bring myself to like them back while simultaneously wanting more boys to like me because it felt validating since i never had a crush on one
haha i’m bi and i feel kinda called out- i was questioning but one of my friends came out to me as lesbian the day i came out to her as questioning but i didn’t know if i was so i was like the most lgbtqa+ protective ‘straight’ and i was asked my sexuality and lied 5 times and this was all in a week haha. i’m still not out yet 😑
Oh my god, That was me! Picking who to have a "crush" on. ALL THROUGH ELEMENTARY AND MIDDLE SCHOOL. I actually wasn't aware that that wasn't how crushes worked.
Attracted to "feminine" men. That describes my dating life up until now. Except now I don't know that I was necessarily sexually attracted at all, I always loved snuggling/cuddling, hand holding, etc, but I didn't enjoy much past that too well. I think for years and years I told myself that that was what kissing (and other things) were supposed to be like. And still only told myself I was Bisexual because the first party with alcohol I went to, all I wanted to do was make out with one of the girls there (I never in my entire life felt that way about making out with men, I kind of just tolerated it lol). But practically every man I have dated in my 30 years of being alive, have been "feminine-looking" to an extent. And about 4 or 5 of them actually were already bi or ended up being gay later on. It makes complete sense now.
@@laurenelloise my first kiss was with my boyfriend at the time. we were dating for 6 months and he kissed me and you wanna know what i felt absolutely nothing after that i just didn’t say anything to him and never knew why i never felt anything (i just ignored it until after we broke up) also we kissed multiple times after that but i never initiated it and every time i was dared to by him or my friends or something i got so awkward and didn’t wanna do it. about a week later we broke up cause he “lost feelings”. anyways i cried all night and for like a week after that thinking that it was cause i liked him but now i realize that it was just cause i literally loved hanging out with him cause we were super close friends and i don’t have the best relationship with my brother so he was like a brother to me and i just loved being around him. in the end i mistakenly thought that feeling was me having feelings for him but i was wrong lmaoo. now i realize that i just wasn’t into guys (also i was bi curious at the time and just never mentioned it to literally anyone not even my boyfriend) and today ima proud lesbian but watching this anyways. (update we are friends again and he has a new girlfriend and he knows i’m gay, so does my mom, a portion of my school, all my friends, my siblings, and none of my extended family cause apparently their all homophobic so great times 😬😭)
Oh my god I did the same thing, I avoided him like the plague lmao. I felt really bad because I felt like a jerk, but god I was so uncomfortable around him. Eventually we broke it off on good terms though
I am a lesbian and I’ve only had a total of 3 crushes on real life men. All 3 of them acted dressed and looked super feminine. I think one you forgot was the feeling of wanting men to be attracted to you but not necessarily being attracted to them . I still find myself doing this but as a kid if I saw a boy my age in public I would always try to make myself presentable or feel accomplished when guys noticed me. But when it came to deciding if they were attractive I always drew a blank. Another thing is if you confuse anxiety around men for butterflies. If you find yourself feeling nervous around men, especially the loud boisterous “masculine” type, and you think it’s butterflies, you might just be feeling anxious. I always found guys like that just a bit unnerving.
Maybe a few other signs could be: - feeling extremely uncomfortable in the dressing room with girls, thinking everyone feels like that - imagining s*x with men but never really picturing a specific face or personality - having a very very very specific type of men “if he’d had curly hair, I’d like him more” or “if he would be more like (add an unreadable person here) I’d like him more” etc. These were some signs I should have paid attention to earlier in my life. I am a proud lesbian now.
growing up i never imagined myself being married at all, like you said, it never crossed my mind. but now if i imagine dating any of the women i know i start smiling. shit
Fr. like I'm still 13 and all but I have never imagined getting married and I have a crush who is a girl I have never had a crush before and I am so cunfused. I realized that I found girls attractive but also but also men. it was different for men. I found men cute and handsome but never wanted to kiss them cuddle hug e.t.c and I want to do that with my crush. I found girls pretty. I smiled anytime I see them and sometimes looke at them unconsciously. Before I had my crush I started questioning my sexuality and never admitted it because of my religion but then my crush came out and I saw myself finally accepting it. I feel I am lesbian.
"Straight girls don't have these thoughts about other girls" Me: 🤯 I'm such a simp for Kristen Stewart, btw *2 months later:* My biggest fictional character crush is Villanelle from 'Killing Eve'. Jodie Comer was BORN to play this role.
I don’t blame you for simping over Kristen Stewart. In fact, I also simp for her tbh. I have tons of pictures of her saved and I use different ones here and then.
This helped me realize I might be les because yes I've had "crushes" on boys because people would ship me with them but I never really found them attractive
Sameeee my best friend shipped me with a friend and then she said that we should all hang out together so we did this but when they let me alone with him I felt so uncomfortable... it felt like I had a date with my brother and that wasn't nice... I told her that I might be gay and she never shipped me with any boy anymore and I'm so thankful about that
Funny thing is - I've obsessed myself into unavailable men. One was gay, another one was in love with his bestie and the next one didn't like me. He really hated me lmao. It was safe for me because it never got real. But the one time I kissed a boy I was like "uhhh I feel kinda weird about this" But it was really just me telling myself to like these dudes. Then again I had these girls in primary school I found extremely interesting and when puberty hit, I realized, I was crushing on them Turned out I am a lesbian and have been in denial for a looong time
I was super confused in middle school bc I had dated guys but only really for validation and bc I had dependent personality disorder, and I was slowly losing all romantic attraction to men. (I also liked a homophobic girl I met at a park when I was 9 more than all my bfs combined). Ik lots of people are comfortable being questioning or unlabeled but it was making me really uncomfortable bc of rumors abt me circulating around school after my toxic ex bf found out that I liked girls. At one point I had had enough and went to my best friend (who is kind of a sexuality expert because of their coming out journey) with a list of everything I knew about my sexuality, including the fact that I felt comfortable with the label of lesbian but felt like I wouldn’t be accepted bc I had dated guys. Their final verdict: “ idc if you’ve dated guys, sexuality is about self discovery and 3 things on this list are just you writing GIRLS ARE HOT in all caps, girl ur lesbian”
Today my aunt was taking to me and then she asked me “do u like boys?” And my stupid self said “no” then I realized what I said- good thing she was just asking if I had any crushes on boys at school- 💀
Yeah lol I was like that in school, felt like girls were on the rival team hahaha. I did actually fall madly for a few of them, but never felt comfortable enough to approach them about it. Ended up suppressing myself throughout my entire schoolhood… wasn’t nice.
I seem to identify as a lesbian but I’m scared to come out because I have a bunch of homophobic brothers and they already bully me a lot ;-; maybe u could do a video of how to come out safely?
You know that must guys don't mind lesbians i am a guy aswell and I never understood why people were gay or anything beside being straight i think my sister is lesbian but doesn't wanna come out today I talked to her and said this if you are just like you used to be and be my sister ri don't mind try and talk to them they will understand if you are serious about it trust me
I have trouble with my bf (I just want to be with him, but my mom is ill and I'm financialy unstable). I used to think I was an issue, but I know he loves me so much
I had a boyfriend for a year and a half😬. I broke up with him because it stressed me out being with him and I HAD A CRUSH ON A GIRL?! and I still thought I was straight😐
1. Feeling unconfortable with straight kissing in a film 2. Can't imagine being in a relationship with a man 3. You haven't ever felt attracted to a man 4. You don't get other women saying men are hot 5. You are attracted to feminine men 6. You are only attracted to unattainable men 7. You only see a guy is hot if someone else tells you 8. You feel you could live with another woman 9. You think all women have girl crushes 10. Your favourite TV characters/singers look or act gay, or you have obsessions with them
I'd had kids too.. I just wanted too be a mom and my best I miss her so much I was in love with her but she isn't in too me anymore 😭😭.. I miss the touch of woman I am bisexual but I cant stand hiding behind my fake lifestyle good god 😩😩😩 I want to marry my best friend but she didn't want too. God god 😭😭😭
This video actually helped so much. I’ve been questioning myself for so long now, and this video puts things a lot more into perspective for me. For the longest time I was scared, I think. But I relate to the majority of these points.
i know but i simp of muzan kibutiji and akaza but also i cant when it come's to choosing who i like in anime and yesturday i shifted and it was so fucked up in there like wtf
I remember when I was younger I would always play the "dad" or the "husband" with all of my female friends and thinking about it's like maybe I already knew I was gay lmaooo
I always imagined myself marrying a boy because that’s what everyone said was ‘right’... As soon as I found out girls could love girls I suddenly felt very different about that.
I have a stupid little question... I'm straight. A lesbian girl asked me if I wanna hang out with her ( she already confessed ). I like her a lot like a friend and I don't mind hanging out with her. Is it ok to hang out ? I mean...will she be hurt at the end coz I can't marry her. ( I have already told her that I'm straight )
This is how I felt too when I realised that love is love its not defined by gender and I ended up completely falling for one of my friends I’ve liked her now for 4 years but I’m trying to move on while simultaneously feeling physically attracted to another girl 😳😫
GIRL u have EVERY right to not be attracted to Troy from High Schol Musical. PERIODT P.S. Im bi and I was attracted to about every single person on EARTH aside from Zac Efron. 🤦♀ smh
"attracted to feminine men" me: *pauses to see jack dylan grazer* me: *kind of freaks out a little* me: *continues watching video and sees finn wolfhard* me: "...hM" *but also has a mini heart attack*
One time I asked my cousin if two girls could get married. She said yes and I responded “Okay, I might do that.” 7 years later and I’m trying to find out how to tell my parents I’m gay.
The first sign I had shown a lot when I was growing up was that I was always attracted to the other girls on my softball team and my athletics team and I was never attracted to the boys and I remember my first experience when I won a race and this girl ran up to me to congratulate me for winning the race but not after she congratulated me she had put her hand on chest and started to touch my body and that was when I knew that I was gay because I realised that I was starting to enjoy what she was doing to me and ever since then I have always had been attracted to girls and I had never really had an interest in boys.
I'm still confused, but I know I'm wlw: I've always been really uncomfortable when a man is shirtless (in movies and tv shows too) it's always just made me want to look away.
irl (+ in rl shows and movies)it is VERY weird for me (unless it is family or someone ik REALLY well and even then it is kinda strange) but in like anime or cartoons it is okish
If you're still attracted to fictional or celebrity men then you're not a lesbian. You still have attraction to men. Lesbians dont like men even fictional ones.
I have a boyfriend... Bt before him I was in love with Suho from true beauty webtoon, Todoroki from MHA, levi from AOT and cha eun woo, park hyung sik..😆😅...
im a bisexual female and the way i knew was 1. i thought girls were pretty but like really pretty 2. i only had slight crushes on men and kinda thought they were attractive 3. i had crushes on female characters in shows 4. watching lesbian kiss scenes were cute to me edit: welp im a lesbian now so
"They wear a beanie in the summer for no reason A baseball tee when its not baseball season You check her nails and they're always trimmed If K Stew is their style twin If she knows a little bit too much about the L word She rolls her sleeves up when she's wearing pocket TShirts If she looks like she wants a few cats If her closet is full of snapbacks You lock eyes, that implies that you're in luck my friend Cause shes probably a lesbian" - Ally Hills
Guys, I am so confused. I don't know who I am because I don't get that butterflies in my stomach when I see 2 girls or a girl and a guy kissing, I get them only seeing 2 guys kissing. I can't imagine myself in a harmonious relationship with a guy, but can imagine myself in a harmonious relationship with a girl. I tried to date guys, but I only get envious about the guy's position in our relationship. I don't really want a guy, I rather want to be that guy. But I am definitely 100% not a transgender because I don't have any dysphoria with being a girl...I love my body and the fact that I am a girl. Please, help me.
thats exactly how i feel too , i think im bi but i never got butterflies during a lesbian or straight kiss . if you ever figure out why u feel this way please update lol .
It's okay to be confused ig. It's okay to mess up. But one day you have to stop avoiding yourself and confront yourself and accept who you really are. That day will be the beginning of your freedom from inside.
It’s scaryyyy😭😭 like I’ve been going as “bisexual” for a whileeee but I’m just now realizing that I’ve never drooled or had a hard crush on any guy at all (not even celebrities) and I’ve never got that crazyyy feeling I get when I see a attractive girl, I’ve never got that feeling for a man 😭 And it’s like shit I feel like I could be lesbian but for me it feels so scary to go under that title , and I’ve only been in real relationships w a guy.
@@CasandraLeahhh lmao I feel you😭 but ig it would help if u tell that ur a lesbian (if you are) to someone… like it helps when u say it out loud, like actually:D
I would love to be this way but I would be leaving 99% of my whole life to go down this path and for once in my life I don’t know if I wanna take that risk
Everyone talking about how they realized they were🌈🏳🌈 at 13... Me: being thirteen and realizing I might be gay uwu also my mom kinda knew I was gay before I even knew myself and she keeps teasing me for it but back then I was confused and believed I was straight
I know im 100% a lesbian but im still watching this also THE FACT THAT ALLO OF THESE WERE ME ??? Ive always though i was a late bloomer turned out i was just gay, gay as hell 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I am gay but idc seeing straight people kiss on tv or anything. Maybe that’s just me but I don’t think that’s a thing. Like that would mean that straight women feel uncomfortable seeing gay women kiss which I don’t think is the case (unless they’re homopobic)
This helps so much! 💓 As an asexual lesbian... this has helped me a lot. And what made me realize I'm romantically attracted to women (homoromantic) was the desire to spend my life with a woman, date her, kiss her, cuddle her, spend time together and be close to her (not neccesarily in a sexual way but there's a chance too). I am a lesbian! Thank youuu 🥰
Asexual lesbian is kind of contradictory …I am gay boy and gay and lesbian is sexuality ….you mean you are asexual homoromentic…..but I have my friends ( a girl and boy ) both gay but they are married happy from 6 years and I think they are say they was comfused and now they turn out straight and I was like what the hell …..you identity is created by your mind and stick to identity and be confident in that ….like I am confident gay .
@@jayjoseph-r5t you are right. We’re technically not lesbians but homoromantic instead. It’s just easier to explain it as “lesbian”. My relationships are lesbian presenting to people; they just see two women in a relationship. People don’t know and have no business knowing what we do/don’t do in the bedroom (nothing but sleep and cuddle because we’re ace).
there was one time i was at the ice rink with my best friend and i was just like _crap i have a crush on her_ and then i spent the whole time hanging out convincing myself it was just a "friend crush" and i didnt have a crush on her i spent like 3 weeks i think before i was able to stop having a crush on her
I don't know if anyone has this as well but sometimes when I play on my console late at night I can picture a girl like snuggling next to me is that weird?
When a teenage girl doesn't wanna watch two people kissing or don't ever understand a romantic relationship it's not always a sign of being a lesbian maybe this girl might be a Muslim. In Islam it's completely unexpected to watch someone naked or kissing with each other.
@@JKing666 SAME i remember looking around the room and being like “hmm… which boys am i gonna like this month” 😂 there was one boy i had a huge “crush” on but i think it’s because he was unattainable, there were some rumors that he liked me and i was nervous around him for that, and when i found out he didn’t like me after all i was calm and relieved and the stressed feelings hust went away and it was much more peaceful
Here are a few that helped me figure out I’m lesbian *and kinda asexual* 1. When you see something just straight(like movies, tv shows, maybe even family members, etc) you feel grossed out or maybe uncomfortable 2. Maybe you already know that your lesbian or bi or gay or pan sexual but you don’t feel any(or most sexual things you hear about) 3. You get uncomfortable or grossed out hearing about sex Bye bye😊
I know I'm a tad bit late but... One key thing was all the "crushes" I had on guys were me forcing myself to be attracted to someone because I thought it was normal and because they had more typical attractive features... And thanks to that I didn't notice I had a crush on my best friend for about 4 years...
okay so i used to do that to so ofc i would try to like fantasize about cuddling or whatever with my "crush" but every time i tried to i ended up thinking about cuddling with my friend and i had to like force myself to stop thinking about it. oml.
ive Brain my Broken trying to find a definite answer so could you help me a little?it got to the point where i dotj even know what attraction is.. i want to know what exactly you felt for her like whats the difference between a what you feel with the e usual female friend??
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**Note on Number 6: A few people are getting this mixed up. If you genuinely like men who appear slightly more feminine, you are not a lesbian since they're still men. Please DON'T only use this sign to determine if you're gay. You must experience an attraction to women, so make sure you go through all the other signs to help figure out if you're lesbian x
I support you
Ma'am this Video is the only video that helped me to relate to...Yes,I am questioning my sexuality. And my celebrity crushes (all of them) are females or 'feminine' men! Yes!!!!💜💖💜
I related to four and I really feel a little bit confused 0-0
@@anjithaa4521 same.
Yes, YES I GOTTA KNOW!!!!! (I hope she iiiissss!)
another hint: you find yourself "fake crushing" on a man because you think that you have to, so you can fit in
ouch. Me
Truuueeee
So I had a boyfriend but I didn't feel comfortable with him at all. And when I go out with my friends they only look at the boys But when he tells me look how beautiful it is, I say mhm.. It's very nice. The other problem is that I kissed a girl and i liked (I played truth and dare). And I still don't know what sexuality iam .
i've done this way too much in elementary
Point 5 and 6 rang a bell for me.
“You're only attracted to fictional men or celebrities”
**Takes off glasses** I cannot see **Takes out earbuds** I cannot hear. Therefore, these facts cannot affect me 🗿
the way this video called me out tho lmfao😭💀✌️
Well
That hit me *HARD*
This just confirmed my sexuality
🥲🥲
sweats
Wait- you're telling me, some people ENJOY those straight kissing scenes?!
YEAH CRAZY RIGHT???
They're so uncomfortable omg
Wait I’m more confuse I thought I just don’t like kissing........And I mean french kissing... but I also feel that gay kissing is also a bit uncomfortable.
Right! that was news to me I thought it used to make everyone uncomfortable.
IKR LIKE PEOPLE LIKE THOSE SCENES??
A big gay flag for me was realizing that I was only attracted to guys who had personality traits that I wanted for myself. Like I don't want to date you, I want to be like you
Omg yessssss! I am exactly like this. I don’t like them, I want to be like them. Whenever they are around me, I feel sick and unnerved
SOOO ME, i liked only two boys irl for 3-4 years when i was in primary and secondary school, but now i think that i just wanted to be like them. They were popular, funny. All my classmates liked them as well.
Also one of them told me that he had a crash on me too, after that i was feeling rlly upset and dissapointed for some reason, cuz i thought that i liked him as well. Now ofc i understand that if i had just admired him, then my reaction makes sence. I am still questioning if i am a lesbian or a bi with woman prefer. But my bi bestie understood that i have a crash on her (my face was as red as blood) and she tried to explain me that i might be a lesbian, (we are not together unfortunately, but even thogh she helped me a lot a we are still good friends)
I have 7/10 signs and also i have read a lesbian masterdoc. I guess i am sure for 70% that i am a lesbian for real. Maybe after 2-3 years i will be able to finally decide who i am
@onemanarmy4908 soo me LOL🙄🙄😮💨
DUDE EXACTLY
Why everyone seems idiot here?
how is she so pretty- oml
*brb blushing*
I agree dude
Makeup
She’s so pretty
Idk but she just is 😌
haha I realized that straight girls don’t get butterflies when girls kiss
Wait , they don’t ? Why the hell not ?
Bruh i get butterflies.
@@Hannah-no8yh Idk
IT DOSNT HAPPEN TO EVERYONE!?
WAIT
THEY FR DONT?
Not even to some degree 👀
One time my mom went on about marrying a man that will love you, and then she said "or a women" as she looked at me. It's like she had a feeling. . . Mothers know everything. . .
Edit: holy this got so many likes, thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰. And I still haven't even came out if the closet yet🥲🥲🥲.
UPDATE: My parents, sister, and my friends all know now
OMG my mom did something similar she said "You're gonna end up marrying an Asian man... Or woman" and I was looking at her like 👀👀👀👀👀👀👀👀
They really do
A mother knows
Damn my moms so clueless 😂
My mom did that to me once to
i just don’t think i’m ready to admit to myself, but i might be 99.99999% attracted to women and .00001% attracted to men
What method did you use to come to this conclusion?
@@entertainedsheep7668 myself
I really like ur pfp Alberto
@@garythesnailsmom thank you kind sir
@@garythesnailsmom or ma’am
Me since a child: ehh I don’t really have a “type” of guy I want
Me now: yeah there’s literally just no type of guy I want
Can we be friends I'm Bella
I gotchuu fam...
Ah see my type of man is ✨fictional men✨
It’s weird when I’m tv and two straight people kiss I get uncomfortable but when I see gay/lesbian people kissing I feel relaxed
I promise its not weird, and you are not the only one with this feeling. That's how I feel, as a lesbian and so many others too.
Thanks Lauren!!!! I needed that...
I get it, but for me it depends me who the straight couple is 😌
Yep its comforting, thats y I want a gay bestie 😎💅
SAME!!!
When I was younger I always imagined my wedding dress and how i wanted it to look, but I never thought about marrying a man🤭
Omg same!! I remember doing this when I was about 5 or 6, I had this sketchbook and I'd draw EVERY SINGLE DETAIL of how I imagined my potential wedding would look like, but not even once thought about "the MAN" I was going to "marry". Looking back now, I can definitely imagine myself marrying a girl ^^
The biggest sign that I got was that I would notice particular girls A LOT and I would want to be best friends with them and I would try to get their attention and I would get really exited when they talked to me. I always thought I just wanted to be friends with them but those were all crushes
YES YES YES. THIS. so very relatable.
The same thing happened to me can you give me some tips?
Holy shittt I have waifu and I feel like I am lesbian because I think I like girls more than those piece of shitty boys, sorry about that langauge. Just bad memories
that happened to me earlier this year, there was a new girl at school and she happened to be in my English class and I thought she was cute and really wanted to be friends with her...then after some thought, a few months later I realized I didn't just want to be friends with her, I have a crush on her.
@@farfalina im the same! My friends can show me a girl and a boy and i wont see anything in the boy but i can point out everything in a girl. I have a pan girlfriend now and i am able to cuddle with her but i never ever! wanted to cuddle or hold boys hands. i think its obvious enough. its a gut feeling at this point. buy oh the dreams i have...
I DID NOT EXPECT TO GET CALLED OUT THIS MUCH
IM SORRY 🙈
ME TOO😅
this hurt
Same
SAMEE
What does thinking of a boyfriend make you feel?
Me: *ew*
Me: hmm, no thanks? Ummm..... Kinda?
Omg same
Same just ''ew.''
Me: I just don’t want to 🙄🙅♀️
I'm like ehh rather have a girlfriend
I love a girl, but here in Saudi Arabia we can't declare our love or be together, and unfortunately we don't have the money to go to countries that support homosexuality. We just live with all disappointment and fear that we won't be able to be in one house and embrace each other. Or kiss each other😔💔
Does she know? And if you work hard you will be able to fly to another country! My dream is the same, so i got you! But u don't have to wait for a kiss that much just kiss bro somewhere other ppl won't see you 🙆♀️
So sad Hopefully your dreams will materialize
@rihdey ex870_
@@Zen_le Yes, she knows my love for her and we love each other, but being in a country that criminalizes homosexuality, everything becomes difficult, but we will not give up.
@@sun-lm3bz Ayee great that she knows! In my case she doesn't even know it :( and gotcha same here in my country :( but in future everything will be fine, let's keep our hopes! :)
her: “you are attracted to really feminine men”
also her: shows a picture of bts
me: a kpop stan 👁👄👁
Same🖐 👁👄👁
Same besties
Same here
Same lol
Sameee like ---
Me watching this even though I know I’m lesbian
Thank you emma!!! You lil legend
@@laurenelloise haha :)
same
me to bitch i was just watching wlw tiktok
Same
I just realized I’m a lesbian and not just bi like yesterday, I think the most telltale sign was that I had to choose what boys to have ‘crushes’ on in elementary 👀
Same
same
Same
HAHAHA YEP ME TOO
That’s my biggest tell for me too but i’m still not 100% sure
Lesbian here. Been so for a while now. None of this happened to me... I grew up in a fairly conservative society. Getting into a heterosexual marraige was kind of considered a norm for me. So I did dream about it. I had "crushes" on traditionally "masculine" men. To be very honest, all of these gendered things that are mentioned are not indicators of your homosexuality. I am a complete femme myself. I love dresses and makeup and baking and women. So the only true way to find out if you're gay is to put yourself out there. To date and meet new people. Don't put yourself in a box. Be open to new experiences. You'll eventually figure it out. And if it turns out that you don't like being with a woman, that is ok too. Just because you like motorbikes, you don't automatically become a lesbian. Just because you like cooking doesn't ncecessarily mean you're straight. Just because you find a guy on TV cute doesn't mean that you would find him cute IRL (and vice versa). The only way to truly know if you like something (or someone) is to be open and honest with yourself and the other person. Try it.
me and my wife bisexual..and my gay partner is her dad,,happy family.
@jankinair9934 hon this was exactly what I needed to read today! Thank you with all my heart! I grew up in a box "not literally " and now I'm figuring out and learning who I am..its a tough road at 42 but I'm on a path to rediscovering myself..❤
Me realizing that wanting to kiss girls was not a straight thing 🤣🏳️🌈😳
The only man I have ever wanted to marry is Harry styles 😝
@@kileevlogs1353 never wanted to marry a man haha, only CATE BLANCHETT AND BRIDGET REGAN
i- its not?
@@kileevlogs1353 I just thought he was good looking, but never really was obsessed with him or his looks...
@@theratintrans9809 no wanting to kiss a girl is not a fraught thing (only if you are a girl tho)
THE ONE WHERE U THINK EVERYONE HAS THE SAME PHASE WAS THE BIGGESSTTTTT CALL-OUT
AHHH IM SORRY
@@laurenelloise omfg fr also y weeb ass got called out when you said you are attracted to fictional or anime men and women i was like don't call a gurl out
Here are a few things that helped me realize I'm a lesbian:
- Picking a guy to like when you were younger or recently. Or liking the same person your friend liked just because they liked them
- Being excited or proud of yourself when you 'like' a guy
- When you see a straight couple, you're never looking at the guy, but you're always looking at the girl. Also, thinking that the woman is more attractive or "too good" for the guy. Another thing with this is imagining yourself as the guy (I did that A LOT)
- Being an avid ally of, being super defensive of, or being kinda obsessed with the LGBTQ+ community (don't come for me, I know straight allies exist, I'm just saying that it could be something you might want to consider if you're questioning your sexuality)
- Always thinking/talking about how much easier it would be to be a guy because you could date girls and not have to be a lesbian
- Liking the idea of having a boyfriend more than the actual boy (being excited to say "I have a boyfriend" or "he's my boyfriend" more than the idea of spending time with that guy)
*This next one was HUGE for me*
- You want men/boys to like you, but you couldn't imagine dating them. Wanting male validation is different than having attraction to men. I always viewed it as this: could you imagine yourself actively pursuing a romantic relationship with a man? Like asking him out or something? Or is this something you've always wanted a man to do for you?
Omg the last one😳 always when I think about being in a relationship with a guy I want him to make the first step and basically ‘lead’ the relationship. Imagining the same with a girl I feel WAY more comfortable
the one about being an avid ally was a personal attack 😭 i had that one so bad i wrote a passionate essay about homophobia and brushed it off as wanting to defend my friends or hating how people could be this cruel (which i literally wrote into the essay... to what? defend myself?) and my english teacher was probably a little concerned because she sent me a 2 minute long voice response about how she was there for me if i needed to talk
and ohhh the last one too! i had a few boys crush on me in 6th grade (this was before i knew gay people existed) and i was like proud? but i couldn't bring myself to like them back while simultaneously wanting more boys to like me because it felt validating since i never had a crush on one
haha i’m bi and i feel kinda called out- i was questioning but one of my friends came out to me as lesbian the day i came out to her as questioning but i didn’t know if i was so i was like the most lgbtqa+ protective ‘straight’ and i was asked my sexuality and lied 5 times and this was all in a week haha. i’m still not out yet 😑
Oh my god, That was me! Picking who to have a "crush" on. ALL THROUGH ELEMENTARY AND MIDDLE SCHOOL.
I actually wasn't aware that that wasn't how crushes worked.
I’m questioning if I’m a lesbian and I fit ALL THESE BOXES… and now I think I am more so then ever. Ty
Attracted to "feminine" men. That describes my dating life up until now. Except now I don't know that I was necessarily sexually attracted at all, I always loved snuggling/cuddling, hand holding, etc, but I didn't enjoy much past that too well. I think for years and years I told myself that that was what kissing (and other things) were supposed to be like. And still only told myself I was Bisexual because the first party with alcohol I went to, all I wanted to do was make out with one of the girls there (I never in my entire life felt that way about making out with men, I kind of just tolerated it lol). But practically every man I have dated in my 30 years of being alive, have been "feminine-looking" to an extent. And about 4 or 5 of them actually were already bi or ended up being gay later on. It makes complete sense now.
Never related more to a comment before holy
When she Sayed sleeping with a boy I just when like 🤢
You and me both 😂
OMG ME TOO
@@whatwhatwhatwhatwhat9013 SAME I COULD'T EVEN IMAGINE DOING ALL THAT WITH A GUY EW😭
Hahahahaha yes me too I was like “ewww no thanks 🤢”
Agreed 🤮
I knew I was a lesbian when I could not touch my boyfriend 2 years ago and I had a crush on Katy Perry. I had a girlfriend once and it felt great
naw hahah
I had a major crush on katy perry too haha
@@laurenelloise my first kiss was with my boyfriend at the time. we were dating for 6 months and he kissed me and you wanna know what i felt
absolutely nothing
after that i just didn’t say anything to him and never knew why i never felt anything (i just ignored it until after we broke up) also we kissed multiple times after that but i never initiated it and every time i was dared to by him or my friends or something i got so awkward and didn’t wanna do it. about a week later we broke up cause he “lost feelings”. anyways i cried all night and for like a week after that thinking that it was cause i liked him but now i realize that it was just cause i literally loved hanging out with him cause we were super close friends and i don’t have the best relationship with my brother so he was like a brother to me and i just loved being around him. in the end i mistakenly thought that feeling was me having feelings for him but i was wrong lmaoo. now i realize that i just wasn’t into guys (also i was bi curious at the time and just never mentioned it to literally anyone not even my boyfriend) and today ima proud lesbian but watching this anyways. (update we are friends again and he has a new girlfriend and he knows i’m gay, so does my mom, a portion of my school, all my friends, my siblings, and none of my extended family cause apparently their all homophobic so great times 😬😭)
Coool :0
Oh my god I did the same thing, I avoided him like the plague lmao. I felt really bad because I felt like a jerk, but god I was so uncomfortable around him. Eventually we broke it off on good terms though
I told my parents I was lesbian and since then they haven’t stopped buying me pride stuff they’re so sweet 😭😭
some parents ..such sweethearts😍
that's so heartwarming🥹
youre lucky to have parents like that. being queer in india is so hard
Ahhh that's sweet...I already gave my parents some hints bout lgbt ppl but they were just disgusted🤯
@@vinniehan0124 that’s foul 😟
Ever get that thought when you see a girl with a guy and you just think “too bad she’s straight.”
Yep 😔
yep.
Mhmmm
Yeah
*yes*
I am a lesbian and I’ve only had a total of 3 crushes on real life men. All 3 of them acted dressed and looked super feminine. I think one you forgot was the feeling of wanting men to be attracted to you but not necessarily being attracted to them . I still find myself doing this but as a kid if I saw a boy my age in public I would always try to make myself presentable or feel accomplished when guys noticed me. But when it came to deciding if they were attractive I always drew a blank. Another thing is if you confuse anxiety around men for butterflies. If you find yourself feeling nervous around men, especially the loud boisterous “masculine” type, and you think it’s butterflies, you might just be feeling anxious. I always found guys like that just a bit unnerving.
I'm definitely gay
Omg so true!
brave
I am scared of men . I think they can be dangerous. They can just shout at you with their deep low voice.
it dont matter ur the same
Maybe a few other signs could be:
- feeling extremely uncomfortable in the dressing room with girls, thinking everyone feels like that
- imagining s*x with men but never really picturing a specific face or personality
- having a very very very specific type of men “if he’d had curly hair, I’d like him more” or “if he would be more like (add an unreadable person here) I’d like him more” etc.
These were some signs I should have paid attention to earlier in my life. I am a proud lesbian now.
I have one VERY specific type of guy that I might have genuine feelings for, but maybe I just have major gender envy (I'm in between female and nb)
Standing in the corner of the changing room
100% me
ok yeah I'm definitely gay
Same
“your only attracted to people who are unobtainable”
Well. guess I’m not bi anymore
I might have to join you on that mate
Relatable 😅
Same
Now I am a lot more certain that I am lesbian 🏳️🌈
Same cuz women are 🥵 but so is harry styles lmao
My daughter is lesbian and I'm so proud 😁
that’s great!
@TCT you're just a failure :) also wtaf are you watching this video like 😭 someone's on denial huh
aww thats so nice :D
AWESOME
Ur such a great parent! So supportive, ur great :D
growing up i never imagined myself being married at all, like you said, it never crossed my mind. but now if i imagine dating any of the women i know i start smiling. shit
Why sh*t?
Fr. like I'm still 13 and all but I have never imagined getting married and I have a crush who is a girl I have never had a crush before and I am so cunfused. I realized that I found girls attractive but also but also men. it was different for men. I found men cute and handsome but never wanted to kiss them cuddle hug e.t.c and I want to do that with my crush. I found girls pretty. I smiled anytime I see them and sometimes looke at them unconsciously. Before I had my crush I started questioning my sexuality and never admitted it because of my religion but then my crush came out and I saw myself finally accepting it. I feel I am lesbian.
The way she pointed me out
As soon as she said “if your attracted to fan-fictional or celebrity men-“ I knew 👁👄👁 🏳️🌈
Sameee, also love the profile pick feilx and changbin are the cutest (ofc so is the rest of skz)
Its kind of true for me and my friend 😯🤣
Same!
Totally make sense Tht why i only like Tv shows guys or Celebs only that totally make sense
haha especially if the fanfiction guys are guy and you just read male x make fics... i’m a cis girl too haha
"Straight girls don't have these thoughts about other girls"
Me: 🤯
I'm such a simp for Kristen Stewart, btw
*2 months later:* My biggest fictional character crush is Villanelle from 'Killing Eve'. Jodie Comer was BORN to play this role.
I don’t blame you for simping over Kristen Stewart. In fact, I also simp for her tbh. I have tons of pictures of her saved and I use different ones here and then.
Kristen Stewart HAWT
me: surprised pikachu face
I can’t even process that I don’t understand straight people
Me for her and for cate Blanchett I just can't take my eyes off her🥵❤
This helped me realize I might be les because yes I've had "crushes" on boys because people would ship me with them but I never really found them attractive
Sameeee my best friend shipped me with a friend and then she said that we should all hang out together so we did this but when they let me alone with him I felt so uncomfortable... it felt like I had a date with my brother and that wasn't nice... I told her that I might be gay and she never shipped me with any boy anymore and I'm so thankful about that
theres this one guy i liked for years and i still like him, however i only find him socially attractive
My sister is a lesbian so I watched this and now I know she definitely is and I am telling everyone I know
Me too
Funny thing is - I've obsessed myself into unavailable men. One was gay, another one was in love with his bestie and the next one didn't like me. He really hated me lmao.
It was safe for me because it never got real. But the one time I kissed a boy I was like "uhhh I feel kinda weird about this"
But it was really just me telling myself to like these dudes.
Then again I had these girls in primary school I found extremely interesting and when puberty hit, I realized, I was crushing on them
Turned out I am a lesbian and have been in denial for a looong time
POV: your me watching this and at 6:02 you feel attacked bc you watch The Owl House, She-ra And The Princesses Of Power, and listen to Girl in red
What if when you see straight people kiss it doesn’t bother you because you think the guy is so lucky, because he’s being kissed by a girl?
@@itachiUchiha-hf7cj
Huh?
@@avery8467 huh?
@@avery8467 Huh?
What’s with the replies 😂😂
@@avery8467 Huh?
I’d imagine my dream wedding but there would never be an actual groom only a vaguely human shaped person in a suit
I could only ever imagine a venue, never a person. Never thought this was strange until now whoops
I was just thinking the exact same thing holy shit
Same tbh
OMG EXACTLY
I was super confused in middle school bc I had dated guys but only really for validation and bc I had dependent personality disorder, and I was slowly losing all romantic attraction to men. (I also liked a homophobic girl I met at a park when I was 9 more than all my bfs combined). Ik lots of people are comfortable being questioning or unlabeled but it was making me really uncomfortable bc of rumors abt me circulating around school after my toxic ex bf found out that I liked girls. At one point I had had enough and went to my best friend (who is kind of a sexuality expert because of their coming out journey) with a list of everything I knew about my sexuality, including the fact that I felt comfortable with the label of lesbian but felt like I wouldn’t be accepted bc I had dated guys. Their final verdict:
“ idc if you’ve dated guys, sexuality is about self discovery and 3 things on this list are just you writing GIRLS ARE HOT in all caps, girl ur lesbian”
As guy i think lesbians lucky cause i really can't get why girls need men seems like 95% or 99% don't want learn how to be empathetic, kind
Today my aunt was taking to me and then she asked me “do u like boys?” And my stupid self said “no” then I realized what I said- good thing she was just asking if I had any crushes on boys at school- 💀
Yeah lol I was like that in school, felt like girls were on the rival team hahaha. I did actually fall madly for a few of them, but never felt comfortable enough to approach them about it. Ended up suppressing myself throughout my entire schoolhood… wasn’t nice.
My parents would kill me if I said I liked girls.
I seem to identify as a lesbian but I’m scared to come out because I have a bunch of homophobic brothers and they already bully me a lot ;-; maybe u could do a video of how to come out safely?
You know that must guys don't mind lesbians i am a guy aswell and I never understood why people were gay or anything beside being straight i think my sister is lesbian but doesn't wanna come out today I talked to her and said this if you are just like you used to be and be my sister ri don't mind try and talk to them they will understand if you are serious about it trust me
@@noiseflow4306 That’s because some guys fetishise lesbians and that’s not okay
Yes pls make a vid about coming out Safely
It's okay not to come out when you're not in a secured and safe environment.
Don't come out unless it's 100% safe
Not me realizing I am gay after coming out as bi for MONTHS now... I don't know what I am going to do
Samee and i already came out as asexual, aromantic asexual, lesbian asexual, unlabaled and bi
hey
IM IN THE SAME BOAT...... wow. I’m overwhelmed
It’s ok to change labels :)
Omg same-
I remember looking at so many of these types of videos and online quiz when i was younger ...today I'm pretty sure I love 😺
I used to have a boyfriend but it just never felt right it felt sick but now I am with a woman and I love her and feel happy 🌈🥰
did the fact it felt weird with your ex bf give you a hint?
I have trouble with my bf (I just want to be with him, but my mom is ill and I'm financialy unstable). I used to think I was an issue, but I know he loves me so much
I had a boyfriend for a year and a half😬. I broke up with him because it stressed me out being with him and I HAD A CRUSH ON A GIRL?! and I still thought I was straight😐
Good for you xD
@@violetanderson9697 wow
1. Feeling unconfortable with straight kissing in a film
2. Can't imagine being in a relationship with a man
3. You haven't ever felt attracted to a man
4. You don't get other women saying men are hot
5. You are attracted to feminine men
6. You are only attracted to unattainable men
7. You only see a guy is hot if someone else tells you
8. You feel you could live with another woman
9. You think all women have girl crushes
10. Your favourite TV characters/singers look or act gay, or you have obsessions with them
Yes all of it above
Omg... my whole life I never know... my whole life 😩
I'd had kids too.. I just wanted too be a mom and my best I miss her so much I was in love with her but she isn't in too me anymore 😭😭.. I miss the touch of woman I am bisexual but I cant stand hiding behind my fake lifestyle good god 😩😩😩 I want to marry my best friend but she didn't want too. God god 😭😭😭
When I also see two women kissing
I get a beautiful sensation of “AWWW” and I think its really adorable I also get comfy lol
everyone can feel uncomfortable seeing kisses in films
Ok now i think im lesbian even more. This helps alot thank you.
im so so so glad this helps! wishing you the best on your journey
How are you 7 months later?
@@JKing666 I still like females.
This video actually helped so much. I’ve been questioning myself for so long now, and this video puts things a lot more into perspective for me. For the longest time I was scared, I think. But I relate to the majority of these points.
She’s like there are girls who have never thought of kissing another girl and I’m like 🤯
I mean how could they not
same lol like wtf
Ok I'm lesbian but ✨anime boys ✨
TRUE
YOUR NOT WRONG
As a bi i only have simped for 3 anime boys but anime girls broke me more pretty sure i have simped over than 100 anime girls
i know but i simp of muzan kibutiji and akaza but also i cant when it come's to choosing who i like in anime and yesturday i shifted and it was so fucked up in there like wtf
YESS
I’m now sure I’m a lesbian. Number five got me
welcome to the club then ;-) haha
Same
Lmao same
I heard this sign somewhere and this also applies to me, but it's being "attracted" to super chads and "manly men".
“You only like men that you can never get with”
Me ~thinks about Wilbur soot~
Me: *actually yea that does make sense now-*
Me thinks about cat noir
@@avastars3393 true xD
I thought of bakugou-
I have a huge list of gay anime characters-
OMG THATS WHY IM HEAR IVE BEEN GOING BY LESBIAB ABD THE ONKY MAN I LIKE IS WILBUR FOR HIS LOOKS I Dint even watch him
I remember when I was younger I would always play the "dad" or the "husband" with all of my female friends and thinking about it's like maybe I already knew I was gay lmaooo
Bruh😂😂😂😂😂
Lmao same...
I would hate the role in school tbh. Sometimes I would never show up for class projects XD
I too do it, bcs men are the privileged ones and they are "shown" more powerful than women. That's why. But I too doubt that, I am bi.
... i did that wait
I always imagined myself marrying a boy because that’s what everyone said was ‘right’...
As soon as I found out girls could love girls I suddenly felt very different about that.
Exactly what I thought
Yees
I have a stupid little question...
I'm straight. A lesbian girl asked me if I wanna hang out with her ( she already confessed ). I like her a lot like a friend and I don't mind hanging out with her.
Is it ok to hang out ? I mean...will she be hurt at the end coz I can't marry her.
( I have already told her that I'm straight )
same i just came out to most of my friends in 2021 as bi but i fell like im likeing more girls then guys
This is how I felt too when I realised that love is love its not defined by gender and I ended up completely falling for one of my friends I’ve liked her now for 4 years but I’m trying to move on while simultaneously feeling physically attracted to another girl 😳😫
Omg number 6 hits so hard😂😂😂😂 thanks a load sis!!!!!
OMG THE BOY FEMININE THING MAKES SOOO MUCH SENSE
LITERALLY OMG
🥴😳😳
Me asf 🥴
I-
When I see people making out on the tellie I just sit there watching the girl.
Omg. Wait. I do that not knowing. That was one of the only numbers I could relate to. Witch means I guess I did. Omg. I think I really am gay.
samee i would cover the guy with my hand and just stare at the girl
I- in movies when there's a kissing scene I just look at the girl-
Same. Idk if straight girls do that or not, but this just gives me that huge feeling that I’m les or bi.
Yeah... ok I am definately not a lesbian, I'm probably bi or pan. This video was really helpful tho
so glad it was still able to help!
GIRL u have EVERY right to not be attracted to Troy from High Schol Musical. PERIODT
P.S. Im bi and I was attracted to about every single person on EARTH aside from Zac Efron. 🤦♀ smh
this makes me feel a lil better hahahah
"attracted to feminine men"
me: *pauses to see jack dylan grazer*
me: *kind of freaks out a little*
me: *continues watching video and sees finn wolfhard*
me: "...hM" *but also has a mini heart attack*
i was like: they’re not feminine WTF
i started squealing so yea im healthy
PLEASE I GOT SO HAPPY WHEN I SAW THEM
me, a bts stan : oh 😀
bro i just went through this arc where i thought i was bi then ace aro but i just got my first crush on a girl lol
One time I asked my cousin if two girls could get married. She said yes and I responded “Okay, I might do that.” 7 years later and I’m trying to find out how to tell my parents I’m gay.
PRFFFFFT
NO HELP - THE BTS AND ROSS LYNCH PHOTOS 😭 IVE BEEN CALLED OUT
IMSORRYYYYY AHHH
The first sign I had shown a lot when I was growing up was that I was always attracted to the other girls on my softball team and my athletics team and I was never attracted to the boys and I remember my first experience when I won a race and this girl ran up to me to congratulate me for winning the race but not after she congratulated me she had put her hand on chest and started to touch my body and that was when I knew that I was gay because I realised that I was starting to enjoy what she was doing to me and ever since then I have always had been attracted to girls and I had never really had an interest in boys.
I'm still confused, but I know I'm wlw: I've always been really uncomfortable when a man is shirtless (in movies and tv shows too) it's always just made me want to look away.
irl (+ in rl shows and movies)it is VERY weird for me (unless it is family or someone ik REALLY well and even then it is kinda strange) but in like anime or cartoons it is okish
Same
@@theratintrans9809 Yeah, same...
same
Well I don't really feel anything unless it's a girl btw I'm bi (girl)
Me: I’m probably not gay...
Also me whenever two straight characters kissed: 🙈
same, or just look at the girl and cover the guy.
"Your only attracted to fictional men"
Looks a MHA post*
Thinks of bakuhoe*
Yup sounds right-
yes my fello bakuhoe simps and i also cosplay bakuhoe
If you're still attracted to fictional or celebrity men then you're not a lesbian. You still have attraction to men. Lesbians dont like men even fictional ones.
I have a boyfriend... Bt before him I was in love with Suho from true beauty webtoon, Todoroki from MHA, levi from AOT and cha eun woo, park hyung sik..😆😅...
@@saamiyaahmed8888 agree. Having crushes on male fictional characters or celebrities still makes you bi
Oh. My. God. This has helped SO much. Now I just need to figure out how to come out...
I also went through a period of time where I identified as ace because women never even crossed my mind as an option lol
You and me both 🖤
Me literally a week ago now finding out I’m lesbian
i honestly don't know if i'm in denial but i'm still entertaining the possibility that i'm ace heh...
compulsory heterosexuality is fun, kids!
And there is me, being an ace lesbian
Me one week ago: “why do a lot of these fit me-“
Me now: *today I confessed that I like my friend/a girl*
how are you now?
@@JKing666 welp turns out she doesn’t like me and she was my best friend 🥲
@@Relstlay dang that's rough...
@@JKing666 But she’s still my friend so I’m glad but it’s kinda awkward at times
CONGRATSSSSSS
I know I’m gay, 100% ,, but I feel like this video would help so many people. Thanks Lauren!
this is such a nice thing to hear, i hope it reaches the people who need it 💖
Yw *my name is also lauren lol*
No your name is blueberry banana
Lol ❤️
im a bisexual female and the way i knew was
1. i thought girls were pretty but like really pretty
2. i only had slight crushes on men and kinda thought they were attractive
3. i had crushes on female characters in shows
4. watching lesbian kiss scenes were cute to me
edit:
welp im a lesbian now so
Pretty same for me too
Hey
"They wear a beanie in the summer for no reason
A baseball tee when its not baseball season
You check her nails and they're always trimmed
If K Stew is their style twin
If she knows a little bit too much about the L word
She rolls her sleeves up when she's wearing pocket TShirts
If she looks like she wants a few cats
If her closet is full of snapbacks
You lock eyes, that implies that you're in luck my friend
Cause shes probably a lesbian"
- Ally Hills
Oh my god this is a trip down memory lane. Ally will forever be known for this banger 👏
When you sing it and not only read it.you know you are a lesbian 🤣🤣Ally songs will allways be a hit
Hahahahaha I did the same thing
Guys, I am so confused.
I don't know who I am because I don't get that butterflies in my stomach when I see 2 girls or a girl and a guy kissing, I get them only seeing 2 guys kissing. I can't imagine myself in a harmonious relationship with a guy, but can imagine myself in a harmonious relationship with a girl. I tried to date guys, but I only get envious about the guy's position in our relationship. I don't really want a guy, I rather want to be that guy. But I am definitely 100% not a transgender because I don't have any dysphoria with being a girl...I love my body and the fact that I am a girl.
Please, help me.
Well, that how exactly I am feeling
thats exactly how i feel too , i think im bi but i never got butterflies during a lesbian or straight kiss . if you ever figure out why u feel this way please update lol .
and some times i think i am ace
Gynosexual maybe?
Wait people get butterflies when seeing to people kissing (straight and gay).
It’s weird bc my type of girls (when I thought about it) is ones that have similar physical traits to me, so am I lesbian or just narcissistic?
I feel the same. My face is ugly as neck, but I feel like my type has the same body type and hair and stuff. I look straight but amn't lol
@Heidi Wolff you cant be "mostly lesbian" youre either lesbian or youre not
Her: imagine yourself with a man
Me: dies of gayness
It's okay to be confused ig. It's okay to mess up. But one day you have to stop avoiding yourself and confront yourself and accept who you really are. That day will be the beginning of your freedom from inside.
i love this! very wise words
It’s scaryyyy😭😭 like I’ve been going as “bisexual” for a whileeee but I’m just now realizing that I’ve never drooled or had a hard crush on any guy at all (not even celebrities) and I’ve never got that crazyyy feeling I get when I see a attractive girl, I’ve never got that feeling for a man 😭
And it’s like shit I feel like I could be lesbian but for me it feels so scary to go under that title , and I’ve only been in real relationships w a guy.
@@CasandraLeahhh lmao I feel you😭 but ig it would help if u tell that ur a lesbian (if you are) to someone… like it helps when u say it out loud, like actually:D
@@CasandraLeahhh I understand most of that Ik it’s scary but we are both gonna either have to ignore it or come out
@@tilda.alina723 ty I needed to hear that as well
Im lesbian and I don't care about what others say🥺
Go you! that's the right attitude, you do you
Same I don't care what they say
I would love to be this way but I would be leaving 99% of my whole life to go down this path and for once in my life I don’t know if I wanna take that risk
you don’t understand how much this helped me, I’m glad I finally found myself :)
I’m so so glad this helped 🖤🖤
Everyone talking about how they realized they were🌈🏳🌈 at 13...
Me: being thirteen and realizing I might be gay uwu
also my mom kinda knew I was gay before I even knew myself and she keeps teasing me for it but back then I was confused and believed I was straight
@LxndonVlogs same but for me it was pre-k and second grade
you really had to call me out with the feminine boys and celebrities 😀 (jack dylan grazer, finn wolfhard, conan gray)
omg same 💀
same- 💀
SAME
Lmao, the same people
I know im 100% a lesbian but im still watching this also THE FACT THAT ALLO OF THESE WERE ME ??? Ive always though i was a late bloomer turned out i was just gay, gay as hell 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I love this!! ♥️♥️ I’m sorry for attacking you with every single one ahhahaha
So if u don’t relate to all the sighns and just most ur gay?
I am gay but idc seeing straight people kiss on tv or anything. Maybe that’s just me but I don’t think that’s a thing. Like that would mean that straight women feel uncomfortable seeing gay women kiss which I don’t think is the case (unless they’re homopobic)
When she said " When you like fictional characters-" I went OH SHI- I'm into robots and aliens
This helps so much! 💓 As an asexual lesbian... this has helped me a lot. And what made me realize I'm romantically attracted to women (homoromantic) was the desire to spend my life with a woman, date her, kiss her, cuddle her, spend time together and be close to her (not neccesarily in a sexual way but there's a chance too). I am a lesbian! Thank youuu 🥰
Me too.
Same here 😊
Asexual lesbian is kind of contradictory …I am gay boy and gay and lesbian is sexuality ….you mean you are asexual homoromentic…..but I have my friends ( a girl and boy ) both gay but they are married happy from 6 years and I think they are say they was comfused and now they turn out straight and I was like what the hell …..you identity is created by your mind and stick to identity and be confident in that ….like I am confident gay .
It seems harder to figure it all out when asexual. I'm currently working on it. Thinking this way makes a lot more sense to me
@@jayjoseph-r5t you are right. We’re technically not lesbians but homoromantic instead. It’s just easier to explain it as “lesbian”. My relationships are lesbian presenting to people; they just see two women in a relationship. People don’t know and have no business knowing what we do/don’t do in the bedroom (nothing but sleep and cuddle because we’re ace).
id say a good sign is like when your with your girl best friend and you start to feel awkward
yes!!!!
Yes, we ended up having a crush on each other without even knowing it!
im dating mine-
What if u suddenly want to kiss your bff
there was one time i was at the ice rink with my best friend and i was just like _crap i have a crush on her_ and then i spent the whole time hanging out convincing myself it was just a "friend crush" and i didnt have a crush on her
i spent like 3 weeks i think before i was able to stop having a crush on her
I don't know if anyone has this as well but sometimes when I play on my console late at night I can picture a girl like snuggling next to me is that weird?
i think that is really cute, not weird at all.
Her: “You think you might be a late bloomer bc you haven’t felt attracted to men yet.”
Me currently questioning my sexuality: 👁👄👁
When a teenage girl doesn't wanna watch two people kissing or don't ever understand a romantic relationship it's not always a sign of being a lesbian maybe this girl might be a Muslim. In Islam it's completely unexpected to watch someone naked or kissing with each other.
"People you'd never have a chance with"
That-
Yeah I feel attacked ✨
16 yo me : "yeah, I like men, I'm in love with Harry Styles"
God, if only I knew 😂😂😂
that's me rn
Me lmao
i recently came out as bisexual, and i feel so much happier 😊
edit: turns out i’m a lesbian :)
I am tooooo uwuuu♡˖꒰ᵕ༚ᵕ⑅꒱
Love you madam 💋🌹
Just lying
👿👿👿👿👿
Wow thanks!! I am definetly straight female💅🏻
The only guy that I could picture myself with is Light Yagami 💀
Mine is todoroki bakugo kaminari kirishima midoriya mello L eren armin and levi...........
I see myself with L 🤣
Ah yes, the only exceptions are anime men
The only reason I hate on L is because I know that this fictional character has a better chance of being with my crush than me 💀🥲
the only guys i could picture myself with were celebrities 💀 but i can easily picture any kind of girl
The thought of being with a man feels like a group project
"take a look trough all your boy crushes"
Me having none and never had one😂
I chose which boys to crush on..... I feel bad now
@@JKing666 Omg same. I always had logic behind any boy crush I had and it was well thought out. lol. Idk if I'm even bi, so.
I never had one so when I was younger I would choose someone to crush on, so I could relate to the other girls.
But the next day I would give up because I disliked the idea
@@JKing666 SAME i remember looking around the room and being like “hmm… which boys am i gonna like this month” 😂 there was one boy i had a huge “crush” on but i think it’s because he was unattainable, there were some rumors that he liked me and i was nervous around him for that, and when i found out he didn’t like me after all i was calm and relieved and the stressed feelings hust went away and it was much more peaceful
Here are a few that helped me figure out I’m lesbian *and kinda asexual*
1. When you see something just straight(like movies, tv shows, maybe even family members, etc) you feel grossed out or maybe uncomfortable
2. Maybe you already know that your lesbian or bi or gay or pan sexual but you don’t feel any(or most sexual things you hear about)
3. You get uncomfortable or grossed out hearing about sex
Bye bye😊
I know I'm a tad bit late but... One key thing was all the "crushes" I had on guys were me forcing myself to be attracted to someone because I thought it was normal and because they had more typical attractive features... And thanks to that I didn't notice I had a crush on my best friend for about 4 years...
okay so i used to do that to so ofc i would try to like fantasize about cuddling or whatever with my "crush" but every time i tried to i ended up thinking about cuddling with my friend and i had to like force myself to stop thinking about it. oml.
Me 😩
ive Brain my Broken trying to find a definite answer so could you help me a little?it got to the point where i dotj even know what attraction is.. i want to know what exactly you felt for her like whats the difference between a what you feel with the e usual female friend??
and good for you i really hope she reciprocates your feelings
Why am I here? I already know I'm a FLAMING lesbian 🤣😅
Ya know, just the once a week double checking thing we seem to all do hahah
Bravo Honey. Go gal go. Nilani.
Bravo Honey. Go gal go. Nilani.
Bravo Honey. Go gal go. Wow. Nilani.
@@laurenelloise true LMAO
Me knowing damn well I’m not a lesbian:
“Ooh let’s see”