The contradictions coming from this man are insane… one minute he would be content with one woman, next we swears no man would choose to be with one woman. One minute he admits he used the word cheap, another he is using the language of women but didn’t mean it… my guy you are so inauthentic! It’s sickening
yeah this guy is not it. i feel like he's no better than the "men" he tries to call out online. he just tries to reframe his words in a way that comes off as fake sophisticated. i can't imagine being in a relationship with this man, the levels of manipulation would be abysmal...yikes
im seeing so many comments like this and just 20 mins in the video I can see why ppl r saying he aint it im already sick of hearing him and all his excuses r blame it on the culture like no its not always about culture this guy comes from a religious stand point and its not a christianity one but he sounds like he needs Jesus.
@@sarausage yes exactly! it's funny because i also commented around the 20min mark because i had to leave to go for work. after coming back to finish the full video, he only further reaffirmed my point. he definitely does need help!
He keeps making generalised misogynistic statements, then Anna and Mandi would disagree with him or explain their pov, and then he immediately agrees with them and says what he thinks they want to hear. Classic manipulation tactic to get them onside lol. Side note, I’m not taking marriage advice from an unmarried man.
@@Jameali-s3w The same logic could be applied to men. Most men aren’t worthy of marriage- they aren’t providers, loyal, or mature. Easy example is this guy in the video, he thinks he is can get all this loyalty and lifelong commitment from 3 women at once but can’t offer them the same back 😂 Talking about all that “self discipline” a “real” man should have but he can’t even commit to one wife 😂 Likewise, a manipulator has nothing to offer in a relationship long term. This sort of behaviour might work short term but nobody is going to put up with the mind games, insecurity in the long run.
There are so many points to this video that confirm how weird this guy truly is e.g not understanding the 'stranger danger' concept and how women need to be more aware of men like him
People didnt hear the sly comment. ‘Ives seen your videos, if it was a billionaire would you say yes?’ So either a woman is submissive or a gold digger. These type of men are dangerousssss
stop getting in your feelings. it wasnt a sly dig. he implied that women will tolerate certain things depending on the man. women dont want to mess up their bag so they'll turn a blind eye. Many women with wealthy husbands do this. Look at these footballer wives, coleen rooney and others who stay despite the cheating. they want to maintain that lifestyle
@@OliviaVeea he said that because Mandi and Anna go on about rich men and how they don’t care as long as a man is rich. It’s in alottt of tiktok clips. That’s what he was referring to
This guy was literally talking to himself in tik tok videos pretending someone else was in the camera. Trying to build a platform from women by pretending he’s some sort of relationship coach. He’s very odd.
girls, I love you guys but pls do not put men like this on again. He thinks he's a know it all... pls his comments were narcissistic and he was very dismissive.
45:00 He thinks God’s rewarding him for having sex with women, but did he not say he’s not married? And he’s Muslim? Yeah this guy just not making sense 😂
Sadly a lot of people claim to be a Muslim or Christian or any belief but talk is cheap, what means someone is genuine is in their actions. And yes in Islam it is “haram” (forbidden and a major sin) to have any type of relationships outside of marriage - you are correct and could actually remind those claiming to be Muslim that too, so thank you for pointing out their hypocrisy. I am a Muslim revert lady too, so trust me this gets on my nerves just as much, the double standards hypocrisy of these men. God bless you and take care 🌸
Sorry but it’s so sad Anna you would’ve thought you’d be old enough and have had enough experience at 34 to see that this guy is a straight up red flag I guess some girls never learn .
I don’t think the horse riding date thing was the girl thinking it’s cheap … but actually she doesn’t feel safe in the middle of the woods on a first date
Why would you invite this man onto your platform and praise him. You two are not fighting the clueless allegations. Praising a man who is a walking red flag. Anna especially you, do better omg 😭 maybe find a therapist who can change your way of thinking
@@banandababa bro hes not even middle eastern and he got arabic tattoos when hes mixed race black/white and making islam his whole personality isnt it haram to get tattoos when ur a muslim and im not even muslim but I know this.
@ Yh, you are right it is haram, but I don’t care about what people do to their own bodies. I just hate his toxic views he shares with the whole world. He used to be really wholesome idk what happened. I hope he becomes better.
Imagine telling A Woman to against her natural inclination and desires. Women are just fighting their own desires at this point. They want s a strong masculine man to only want them lol good luck
This guy saying that if a girl slid into a dm they feel safe to go into the middle of the forest with them first date… he isn’t a woman, we don’t feel safe after talking online, we might not feel safe after a first date even. He doesn’t understand what women have to think about and how much we think of our safety
"i dont want to cheat with loads of woman" and "IDEALLY i want my wife to know i have a second wife" whaaaaaaatttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt ? that line is insanity at its best
Who cares what's a crime or not lol laws don't decide morality. Ironically, not letting A wife not know about another GF or side chick is not a crime ahah
Thanks for coming out of your cave again. If you cant figure out on your own that not disclosing information about your wife to a person who is not interested on poligamy relationship is detrimental to the person, clearly you need a law. n@@Jameali-s3w
I’m white/British and I love that masculine energy. I want my man to be obsessed like that. Idk what’s wrong with this generation but that’s how a man should be
and no one is saying they shouldn't be ur missing the point everything he said is not actually right when u think about it and dating nowadays has nothing to do with cultural differences when it all comes down to trends and patterns woman want a rich men they want a masculine man they want a provider and hustler so they dont have to work
@@sarausageI disagree. In my opinion these women you’re talking about want to work, they want to be independent, however they want a man who will provide and protect them. These are the key words. The meaning of provide is in a financial sense and in that sense meaning when they have children they can be at home and able to raise their children without having to go straight back to work after 9months to a year. In the uk, where I live women have such a short maternity leave they then have to pay for other people to look after their children instead of being able to take those 4 years off work to raise their child before they’re of school age and then when they are at school they have to work longer than school hours so they can’t collect their children from school or even have them at home for breakfast. This is where a providing man can facilitate that for a woman with children. As for the role protecter, this is in the sense that they will want to take care of them and their future children. Pick them up from where they’ve been, ensure they are safe at all times, have strong communication about where they’re going and with who. Not in the way everyone likes to assume is control and abuse. There is a clear difference between the two. One thing this man said that he was correct about was that women like to call these traits and actions abuse or abusive. When a man is controlling and abusive he will not want you to go anywhere with anyone. He wil make sure you can’t by isolating you, taking away your phone or forms of communication. If a man is asking where you’re going and who with from the perspective of a protector it is like when your parents ask these questions. If a man is trying to stop you from going places or being with people this is controlling and abusive behaviour. We need better education on abusive relationships and abusive tactics to ensure women and men can spot these and not mistake them for proper care for someone they love. If your mum asked you where you’re going and who with would you say she is controlling and abusive? No. She cares and wants to know the full story of your where about and who with so she can protect you if she needs to. Don’t be blinded, be aware.
This man don't know his own personality, says some finesse lines so make the girls swoon then his real personality comes out, says I'm joking but nah forreal eurgh
Wow this guy came on the pod with the wrong idea about these women. He was implying they were gold diggers. Ladies, I love you guys and always admire how you stand your ground and stick up for women!
still thinking about how he asked Mandi if she would be okay with her boyfriend *if* he was a billionaire. these men who come off like "too good to be true" trust me, something will be wrong with them.
this episode was so AWKWARD at times omg anna was such a good mediator between mandi and shakeel bc i could tell mandi was a bit bothered by his takes. so many questionable things said lollll
The generalisation is real 🙁 not all white British men are like this just like all Muslim men don’t have numerous wives. A balanced relationship is much better, it’s respectful to communicate with your partner on your plans etc … but I don’t think you should MUST to check in every hour I believe that’s controlling
The fact that this guy casually uses the word “witch” when talking about a woman he doesn’t agree with is a MOJOR red flag, that is highly disrespectful and to me shows deep down he doesn’t respect women, he thinks he is superior to them.
It’s so disappointing to see these girls inviting this toxic masculinity, incel man who clearly thinks women are beneath him we’ve seen his content and it’s vile but it lowkey makes sense because they both tolerated/ tolerate men testing them like shit and think it’s normal
Don’t bring whatever he is on here again. His first comment was about having multiple women and saying he was raised within that culture and it was “his norm” which means it is ingrained in him to be and think like that. His brain is wired like that. We are all wired from our childhood and then he starts denying it saying he’s a one woman man ? Go fool someone else please
And you're raised in a culture where a monogamous man is the norm. Stop trying to belittle someone else's beliefs and impose what you believe on them. His norm is his norm.
People like you would much rather a man sleep around and use and abuse women then for him to honour her and make her his wife and give her, her rights as a wife.
@ what are you even saying? Did you even read my comment. I’m not commenting on his norm or my norm. You don’t even know what my beliefs and norms are lol. Learn to read first
@@S-ds1br how about you learn to type. You mentioned multiple different issues beginning with "don't bring whatever he is on here again." Clearly you have issues
This was a tough watch. Men can not turn out like this please 🙏. It’s obvious this guy has been through shit relationships and thinks this will solve his own issues. As a man myself.. this is bullshit. A man can be strong and can trust the right woman. You can be caring without being obsessive. Brother needs to strive and focus on his own journey.
Sorry girls, I checked out halfway through the vid. It was incredibly unintelligent and lacked value as an episode (it was neither informative nor entertaining)
Doesnt seem like a happy guy. How is he trying to give relationship advice when he doesnt even have a wife. Who is he anyway an ex so solid crew member?
Very good topics discussed in this podcast! Well done for keeping it so real, I hope this reaches as many people as possible. Agreed with everything that has been said! The world needs more people like you guys. It would be a better place.
I am so scared for any girl watching this in a controlling/abusive relationship thinking that perhaps that behaviour is normal because it’s ‘masculine’. Women are not glass dolls that need to be cared for 24/7 Jesus Christ. For what reason do you need to know where your partner is 24/7? Not allowed to go anywhere without being picked up? What if I want my friend to take me home, they’re not allowed? This episode was painful I’ve never heard so much bullshit in all my life. Anna blindly agreeing was embarrassing and I do think it unfortunately comes down to intelligence, not cultural differences.
@@charisoliver7979 I'm so disappointed with Anna for going along with that, especially at her age. Those behaviours are abusive and not normal whatsoever
I actually really enjoyed this episode and I don’t usually leave a comment, but I would like more content like this from a male perspective. And Shakeel seems like a really interesting person. LOL, not sure why most of the comments are hate towards this guy🤣🤣🤣but overall good energy from all of them. LOVED WATCHING THIS❤
the 3-4 wives thing is so crazy what even is this. not even muslim but even in in their religion it's supposedly only acceptable so they could take care of the other women, not just to have multiple options. ew.
I am white British and I couldn’t agree more with you guys, something is really odd in UK and English men are not right. This guy is not controlling he sounds like a proper masculine man, his mindset is attractive AF.
the fact that u admitted to being gullible and show ur easily tricked by manipulation is scary to me girl u need help so r u ok with being the side chick wife
Honestly only toxic middle eastern men behave like that. I was brought up in the middle east and my dad doesnt behave like that. But yeah european guys are kinda feminine.
white english men are broke esp in uk hence cant afford women of a high calibre lol most women go for them because they are simps and are simple and not masculine.
Absolutely loved this ep and Shakeel has been my fav guest so far. He is what you call a proper gentleman. I feel as a society we don't appreciate the type of love he was talking about and thats why a- older couples lasted longer and b- were more happier and content. It was pure and simple. The ultimate goal is to have peace. Hope we all get to experience that type of love ❤❤
I just don’t think he’s genuine.. he’s the type that says what you want to hear.. after coming out of a long term Narcissist relationship and studying it for over a year I don’t think he’s genuine with anything he’s saying. Put it this way he knows how to “talk” to impress & win the women over. Ain’t buying it
Hopefully what he’s teaching men is how to BECOME the man their dream woman want. The last thing we need are more men who think they can shoot their shot with women they haven’t done the internal work to deserve. 🙈 It starts with us, men and women. Work on yourself to raise the caliber of those who are attracted to you.
He is controlling and his ideas come from a place of insecurities. He doesn’t even know what he wants and he stumbles over his words afraid of being judged… trying to sugar coat words doesn’t help u mate
I agree with Shakeel, there is something in the water that’s making men feminine and women masculine. There’s also nothing wrong with your partner picking you up and dropping you off from going out with your girls. Honestly, I would love it if my future partner would do that. I remember asking that to my ex, &he made it very clear he would never do that. We were together for almost 4 years. I really enjoyed this episode! 👏👏👏 great advice 😊
i want to cry: i slide in a unknown mans dm=i feel safe in his presence. for me its a hopeless case, how flawed your thinking is if you cant even make an effort to fathom that one may not equal the other. its like i guess saying, the guy slept with me, so he wants to marry me. i cant.
Not many can. He's cringe and just tries to play into women's insecurities and makes them pay a subscription. But hey they get 1 2 1 calls with Shakeel
31:31 he does things to get clicks. Worth more then her father, bro what do you do..please let us know business you run Shakeel. Enlighten us. Apart from finessing women who have trauma and charging them for it. What is he doing business wise.
bro thinks being muslim is different to being ethnically cultural does he realise that culture without religion would still be the way it is if u were to take away islam in the Middle East ppl would still be conservative and modest islam is just a belief of a certain god its a religion it doesnt make culture any better or conservative and he didnt grow up muslim his parents r not muslims he converted he was around ppl in his neighbourhood and friends in school that were most likely muslim what is he on about
Who is this man and why should we care about any of his annoying opinions
👏🏽 he's out here just taking advantage of traumatised woman and taking their money to subscribe to his cult
LMAOOO innit
@@Maryam-i3i1v he said so much that as a Muslim is haram..you should know better
@@abudujannah.yes going on “dates” 😂 May Allah protect us Ameen and taking i assume Muslim women on dates .. what is happening to these brothers.
The contradictions coming from this man are insane… one minute he would be content with one woman, next we swears no man would choose to be with one woman. One minute he admits he used the word cheap, another he is using the language of women but didn’t mean it… my guy you are so inauthentic! It’s sickening
@@kadraa4831 and so ironic because he was preaching that “he isn’t going to act to the camera”
yeah this guy is not it. i feel like he's no better than the "men" he tries to call out online. he just tries to reframe his words in a way that comes off as fake sophisticated. i can't imagine being in a relationship with this man, the levels of manipulation would be abysmal...yikes
im seeing so many comments like this and just 20 mins in the video I can see why ppl r saying he aint it im already sick of hearing him and all his excuses r blame it on the culture like no its not always about culture this guy comes from a religious stand point and its not a christianity one but he sounds like he needs Jesus.
Check his history.
@@sarausage yes exactly! it's funny because i also commented around the 20min mark because i had to leave to go for work. after coming back to finish the full video, he only further reaffirmed my point. he definitely does need help!
Bingo
36:04 confirmed my thoughts, he’s fighting the core sassy in him and trying to change 🤣😭
He keeps making generalised misogynistic statements, then Anna and Mandi would disagree with him or explain their pov, and then he immediately agrees with them and says what he thinks they want to hear. Classic manipulation tactic to get them onside lol.
Side note, I’m not taking marriage advice from an unmarried man.
THISSSSS
Hahah yes 🙌🏻🙌🏻 is he giving women advice to become worthy of a man to give them a ring 😂???
Misogyny doesn't exist, its a made up term.
Obviously W have to become worthy of a ring. You're not born deserving one.
@@Jameali-s3w The same logic could be applied to men. Most men aren’t worthy of marriage- they aren’t providers, loyal, or mature. Easy example is this guy in the video, he thinks he is can get all this loyalty and lifelong commitment from 3 women at once but can’t offer them the same back 😂 Talking about all that “self discipline” a “real” man should have but he can’t even commit to one wife 😂
Likewise, a manipulator has nothing to offer in a relationship long term. This sort of behaviour might work short term but nobody is going to put up with the mind games, insecurity in the long run.
Males with mics trigger me so I'm skipping this one! Lol. Hope you're well girlies.
LMAOO imagine being so fragile you can't hear another persons opinions without being triggered
@@Jameali-s3w Imagine taking a joke literally
LMAOOO That was NOT a joke ahhaha you was 100% serious.
@@Jameali-s3w Ok, you know me better I guess 🤗.
Every joke has a percentage of truth.
Hmmm idk about this guy😬
why ? truth hurts?
He great
There are so many points to this video that confirm how weird this guy truly is e.g not understanding the 'stranger danger' concept and how women need to be more aware of men like him
People didnt hear the sly comment. ‘Ives seen your videos, if it was a billionaire would you say yes?’ So either a woman is submissive or a gold digger. These type of men are dangerousssss
stop getting in your feelings. it wasnt a sly dig. he implied that women will tolerate certain things depending on the man. women dont want to mess up their bag so they'll turn a blind eye. Many women with wealthy husbands do this. Look at these footballer wives, coleen rooney and others who stay despite the cheating. they want to maintain that lifestyle
@@OliviaVeea he said that because Mandi and Anna go on about rich men and how they don’t care as long as a man is rich. It’s in alottt of tiktok clips. That’s what he was referring to
41:44 He was mocking black women😭
He doesn't sound very intelligent at all
@Maryam-i3i1v sister dtop being a fan girl. Watch it there's plenty..where do we start
So glad to see this comment. Awareness is in the chat
@abudujannah. if there's plenty then note one down like i asked???
@@Maryam-i3i1vwe found shakeel’s fake account
@@dimyeoj9527hahahah clocked it!!!
The honesty in the comments are killing me! 😂 it’s good that the fanbase holds you guys accountable
This guy was literally talking to himself in tik tok videos pretending someone else was in the camera. Trying to build a platform from women by pretending he’s some sort of relationship coach. He’s very odd.
@@0003-t6x 💯. Real sad
@@0003-t6x he's a 🤡
girls, I love you guys but pls do not put men like this on again. He thinks he's a know it all... pls his comments were narcissistic and he was very dismissive.
😂😂😂😂
You can tell Mandi and Shakeel don’t like each others views but they have to play it nice for the cameras 😂😂😂
45:00 He thinks God’s rewarding him for having sex with women, but did he not say he’s not married? And he’s Muslim? Yeah this guy just not making sense 😂
he’s what you call a munafiq
Twisted AF! The rewards are for a man and HIS WIFE!! Not fornication!!!!
Sadly a lot of people claim to be a Muslim or Christian or any belief but talk is cheap, what means someone is genuine is in their actions. And yes in Islam it is “haram” (forbidden and a major sin) to have any type of relationships outside of marriage - you are correct and could actually remind those claiming to be Muslim that too, so thank you for pointing out their hypocrisy. I am a Muslim revert lady too, so trust me this gets on my nerves just as much, the double standards hypocrisy of these men. God bless you and take care 🌸
@@RubaUddinI don’t think these London lads gets Islam basics
@@RubaUddin he thinks he’s getting rewarded for zina I’m deadddd 💀💀💀😂
Was hoping he'd be less cringe with more time to talk...I was wrong. He is hella inauthentic lol
it got worse and worse😭 Men shouldn’t be given mics
This was a hard one to sit through sorry girls
When he used the word ‘allegedly’ instead of ‘hypothetically’, I checked out. This guy is not it. I love you girls, this guy is not the vibe!
go get your indian lol 😂
High standards you must never make a mistake when talking wow
His first language isn’t English, and no one should be shamed about that.
Ooh girls I love you both but this guy ain’t it 🫣
Sorry but it’s so sad Anna you would’ve thought you’d be old enough and have had enough experience at 34 to see that this guy is a straight up red flag I guess some girls never learn .
You can tell Mandi sees through his bs atleast
Im sorry but no red flags here. All i see are green flags
They’re very different like that imo. I’ve realised Anna has more of a “pick me” energy whereas Mandi is more likely to call something out 👏🏾
@@missfiazaandzarraxxyou should work on that, it’s concerning
Maybe you're just a bitter hater
I don’t think the horse riding date thing was the girl thinking it’s cheap … but actually she doesn’t feel safe in the middle of the woods on a first date
Why would you invite this man onto your platform and praise him. You two are not fighting the clueless allegations. Praising a man who is a walking red flag. Anna especially you, do better omg 😭 maybe find a therapist who can change your way of thinking
I’m saying this as a Muslim woman, this man is nobody to be looking up to
Yeh it's hella concerning, Anna girl you're too old to fall for this 😩
@@banandababa bro hes not even middle eastern and he got arabic tattoos when hes mixed race black/white and making islam his whole personality isnt it haram to get tattoos when ur a muslim and im not even muslim but I know this.
@ Yh, you are right it is haram, but I don’t care about what people do to their own bodies. I just hate his toxic views he shares with the whole world. He used to be really wholesome idk what happened. I hope he becomes better.
Imagine telling A Woman to against her natural inclination and desires. Women are just fighting their own desires at this point. They want s a strong masculine man to only want them lol good luck
Can’t stand this man & I’m only 8 minutes in 😂😂
Maybe cause your a real woman and can see through his facade. Unlike the so called 3 that wanted to marry him at the same time 😂😂😂
At first he said he can work via sending a text but then later said his job was going to school and working with boys
This man believes his own delusions, scary.
This guy saying that if a girl slid into a dm they feel safe to go into the middle of the forest with them first date… he isn’t a woman, we don’t feel safe after talking online, we might not feel safe after a first date even. He doesn’t understand what women have to think about and how much we think of our safety
First dates should always be in a public place!
@@frankiechampion2169 he has no idea what women go through and the dangers we face
LOOOOOOOOL the imitation of him patting his weave JUST SAY YOU HATE BLACK WOMEN!!!!
thought the same thing, so unnecessary
"i dont want to cheat with loads of woman" and "IDEALLY i want my wife to know i have a second wife" whaaaaaaatttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt ? that line is insanity at its best
how is that insanity? cheating is when you're going behind your wife's back. he's talking about a poly relationship
Having multiple Wives does not equal cheating. It is totally natural for a Man.
@@Jameali-s3wnot letting one wife know about another wife is a crime, you are right its is NOT cheating
Who cares what's a crime or not lol laws don't decide morality. Ironically, not letting A wife not know about another GF or side chick is not a crime ahah
Thanks for coming out of your cave again. If you cant figure out on your own that not disclosing information about your wife to a person who is not interested on poligamy relationship is detrimental to the person, clearly you need a law. n@@Jameali-s3w
I’m white/British and I love that masculine energy. I want my man to be obsessed like that. Idk what’s wrong with this generation but that’s how a man should be
and no one is saying they shouldn't be ur missing the point everything he said is not actually right when u think about it and dating nowadays has nothing to do with cultural differences when it all comes down to trends and patterns woman want a rich men they want a masculine man they want a provider and hustler so they dont have to work
@@sarausageI disagree. In my opinion these women you’re talking about want to work, they want to be independent, however they want a man who will provide and protect them. These are the key words. The meaning of provide is in a financial sense and in that sense meaning when they have children they can be at home and able to raise their children without having to go straight back to work after 9months to a year. In the uk, where I live women have such a short maternity leave they then have to pay for other people to look after their children instead of being able to take those 4 years off work to raise their child before they’re of school age and then when they are at school they have to work longer than school hours so they can’t collect their children from school or even have them at home for breakfast. This is where a providing man can facilitate that for a woman with children. As for the role protecter, this is in the sense that they will want to take care of them and their future children. Pick them up from where they’ve been, ensure they are safe at all times, have strong communication about where they’re going and with who. Not in the way everyone likes to assume is control and abuse. There is a clear difference between the two. One thing this man said that he was correct about was that women like to call these traits and actions abuse or abusive. When a man is controlling and abusive he will not want you to go anywhere with anyone. He wil make sure you can’t by isolating you, taking away your phone or forms of communication. If a man is asking where you’re going and who with from the perspective of a protector it is like when your parents ask these questions. If a man is trying to stop you from going places or being with people this is controlling and abusive behaviour. We need better education on abusive relationships and abusive tactics to ensure women and men can spot these and not mistake them for proper care for someone they love. If your mum asked you where you’re going and who with would you say she is controlling and abusive? No. She cares and wants to know the full story of your where about and who with so she can protect you if she needs to. Don’t be blinded, be aware.
14:45 he works for himself taking vulnerable woman's money $30 a month subscription and he's got nearly 100 subscribers . Do the math. Man's a leech
This man don't know his own personality, says some finesse lines so make the girls swoon then his real personality comes out, says I'm joking but nah forreal eurgh
Wow this guy came on the pod with the wrong idea about these women. He was implying they were gold diggers. Ladies, I love you guys and always admire how you stand your ground and stick up for women!
still thinking about how he asked Mandi if she would be okay with her boyfriend *if* he was a billionaire.
these men who come off like "too good to be true" trust me, something will be wrong with them.
@@madeleinefinley506go get your minimum wage guy then like most white english men
Absolutely love you Anna and Mandi but this guy was not it
this episode was so AWKWARD at times omg anna was such a good mediator between mandi and shakeel bc i could tell mandi was a bit bothered by his takes. so many questionable things said lollll
Wasn't this guy accused of domestic abuse? Idk if it was true or not, but please can you vet your guests before bringing them on guys
Can he show us some qualifications for his psychology degree and qualifications he has for counselling woman and training woman.
The generalisation is real 🙁 not all white British men are like this just like all Muslim men don’t have numerous wives. A balanced relationship is much better, it’s respectful to communicate with your partner on your plans etc … but I don’t think you should MUST to check in every hour I believe that’s controlling
this guy is insecure AF
They’re both on the opposite ends of the spectrum of toxicity 😂 except mandi and anna can admit they’re toxic, this guy though… 😬
This was very tough to watch what a bum 😂
The only energy this guy is giving is red flag..
This guy is the biggest clout chaser with no morals, he’s desperate for attention and hanging on to whatever fame he thinks he has by a thin thread
The fact that this guy casually uses the word “witch” when talking about a woman he doesn’t agree with is a MOJOR red flag, that is highly disrespectful and to me shows deep down he doesn’t respect women, he thinks he is superior to them.
It’s so disappointing to see these girls inviting this toxic masculinity, incel man who clearly thinks women are beneath him we’ve seen his content and it’s vile but it lowkey makes sense because they both tolerated/ tolerate men testing them like shit and think it’s normal
ahhh not the incel allegation lmaooo pretending like the supporters of this pod aren't full blow fem cels
Don’t bring whatever he is on here again. His first comment was about having multiple women and saying he was raised within that culture and it was “his norm” which means it is ingrained in him to be and think like that. His brain is wired like that. We are all wired from our childhood and then he starts denying it saying he’s a one woman man ? Go fool someone else please
And you're raised in a culture where a monogamous man is the norm. Stop trying to belittle someone else's beliefs and impose what you believe on them. His norm is his norm.
People like you would much rather a man sleep around and use and abuse women then for him to honour her and make her his wife and give her, her rights as a wife.
@ what are you even saying? Did you even read my comment. I’m not commenting on his norm or my norm. You don’t even know what my beliefs and norms are lol. Learn to read first
@@S-ds1br how about you learn to type. You mentioned multiple different issues beginning with "don't bring whatever he is on here again." Clearly you have issues
@@aym5973 stop being manipulated by ridiculous men like him ur saying that ur ok with being a side chick wife
I hate how he thinks he knows everything bye. Men like this! Wild
go get your white simp like majority you see in the uk😂
Ngl I don’t like this guy or this kind of guest…
Lol 5 minutes into the podcast and please never bring this guy back.
This was a tough watch. Men can not turn out like this please 🙏. It’s obvious this guy has been through shit relationships and thinks this will solve his own issues. As a man myself.. this is bullshit. A man can be strong and can trust the right woman. You can be caring without being obsessive. Brother needs to strive and focus on his own journey.
taking care of your woman is not controlling your woman.
Sorry girls, I checked out halfway through the vid. It was incredibly unintelligent and lacked value as an episode (it was neither informative nor entertaining)
Doesnt seem like a happy guy. How is he trying to give relationship advice when he doesnt even have a wife. Who is he anyway an ex so solid crew member?
started off thinking this is kinda ??? But really enjoyed it by the end! I’d personally love a dilemmas ep ♥️
Comments are crazy…. I looooved this and the conversation was so natural and engaging
Mandi 'It must be the cups of tea im having!!😤👺' so funny😂😂
This episode was... 🙄 🚩🚩🚩
he’s clearly a grifter looool
it’s giving pearl, she doesn’t even believe in the things she says
Girls this episode ain’t it 🤢 he’s yuck
Very good topics discussed in this podcast! Well done for keeping it so real, I hope this reaches as many people as possible. Agreed with everything that has been said! The world needs more people like you guys. It would be a better place.
I am so scared for any girl watching this in a controlling/abusive relationship thinking that perhaps that behaviour is normal because it’s ‘masculine’. Women are not glass dolls that need to be cared for 24/7 Jesus Christ. For what reason do you need to know where your partner is 24/7? Not allowed to go anywhere without being picked up? What if I want my friend to take me home, they’re not allowed? This episode was painful I’ve never heard so much bullshit in all my life. Anna blindly agreeing was embarrassing and I do think it unfortunately comes down to intelligence, not cultural differences.
Completely agree
@@charisoliver7979 I'm so disappointed with Anna for going along with that, especially at her age. Those behaviours are abusive and not normal whatsoever
I actually really enjoyed this episode and I don’t usually leave a comment, but I would like more content like this from a male perspective. And Shakeel seems like a really interesting person.
LOL, not sure why most of the comments are hate towards this guy🤣🤣🤣but overall good energy from all of them. LOVED WATCHING THIS❤
I thought the same thing 😅❤️
Girls u need to chill let the guest talk as well 🙈
I love sisters and the city. I don’t mind any of their guests, every episode is interesting ❤
As someone happily married to a green flag for over 6 years, this guy gives red flag vibes.
the 3-4 wives thing is so crazy what even is this. not even muslim but even in in their religion it's supposedly only acceptable so they could take care of the other women, not just to have multiple options. ew.
This was such a good ep !! Love it girls 🌸💓🌸💓🌸💓🌸💓🌸
I think Shakeel articulates him self soo well on this podcast rather them short clips on insta…
I actually enjoyed this episode. I dont agree with all his comments but the discussions between them were very good. It's good to hear different views
I am white British and I couldn’t agree more with you guys, something is really odd in UK and English men are not right. This guy is not controlling he sounds like a proper masculine man, his mindset is attractive AF.
the fact that u admitted to being gullible and show ur easily tricked by manipulation is scary to me girl u need help so r u ok with being the side chick wife
Honestly only toxic middle eastern men behave like that. I was brought up in the middle east and my dad doesnt behave like that. But yeah european guys are kinda feminine.
white english men are broke esp in uk hence cant afford women of a high calibre lol most women go for them because they are simps and are simple and not masculine.
When you intro the guests please let them say a little bit about themselves 😊
Absolutely loved this ep and Shakeel has been my fav guest so far. He is what you call a proper gentleman. I feel as a society we don't appreciate the type of love he was talking about and thats why a- older couples lasted longer and b- were more happier and content. It was pure and simple. The ultimate goal is to have peace. Hope we all get to experience that type of love ❤❤
I just don’t think he’s genuine.. he’s the type that says what you want to hear.. after coming out of a long term Narcissist relationship and studying it for over a year I don’t think he’s genuine with anything he’s saying. Put it this way he knows how to “talk” to impress & win the women over. Ain’t buying it
He's trying so hard not to be like the other girls
Anna’s type
The tension between them lol
Yes mandi 🙌🏻🙌🏻 she just says it how it is
Hopefully what he’s teaching men is how to BECOME the man their dream woman want. The last thing we need are more men who think they can shoot their shot with women they haven’t done the internal work to deserve. 🙈 It starts with us, men and women. Work on yourself to raise the caliber of those who are attracted to you.
i love this, beautifully put!
We don’t want men on this podcast sorry
He is controlling and his ideas come from a place of insecurities. He doesn’t even know what he wants and he stumbles over his words afraid of being judged… trying to sugar coat words doesn’t help u mate
This episode was one of the best!
I wonder how much he practices of what he preaches
I agree with Shakeel, there is something in the water that’s making men feminine and women masculine. There’s also nothing wrong with your partner picking you up and dropping you off from going out with your girls. Honestly, I would love it if my future partner would do that. I remember asking that to my ex, &he made it very clear he would never do that. We were together for almost 4 years. I really enjoyed this episode! 👏👏👏 great advice 😊
i want to cry: i slide in a unknown mans dm=i feel safe in his presence. for me its a hopeless case, how flawed your thinking is if you cant even make an effort to fathom that one may not equal the other. its like i guess saying, the guy slept with me, so he wants to marry me. i cant.
Tough watch… cant stand this guy
Not many can. He's cringe and just tries to play into women's insecurities and makes them pay a subscription. But hey they get 1 2 1 calls with Shakeel
Disappointing start
Scrolled to 5 minutes after seeing the comments before I started watching them left after the cant live with them cant live without them🤢
@@kiranngrewal women say the same about men. you're so sensitive
Also he’s very arrogant when he won’t let the girls speak. “No no no lies lies no” 🤮
Ana I completely agree with you on the multiple wives stance. From my guy friends they say the same thing, wouldn’t prefer multiple wives
17 minutes of this interview and I was out.
This was such a good episode!! 👏🏼👏🏼
his points are valid but he needs to humble himself.
31:31 he does things to get clicks. Worth more then her father, bro what do you do..please let us know business you run Shakeel. Enlighten us.
Apart from finessing women who have trauma and charging them for it. What is he doing business wise.
No more men on the podcast moving forward please. This should be a safe girly space 😭
Great episode xxxx
Who is this man😅😅 girls don’t encourage this man to speak over a mic
bro thinks being muslim is different to being ethnically cultural does he realise that culture without religion would still be the way it is if u were to take away islam in the Middle East ppl would still be conservative and modest islam is just a belief of a certain god its a religion it doesnt make culture any better or conservative and he didnt grow up muslim his parents r not muslims he converted he was around ppl in his neighbourhood and friends in school that were most likely muslim what is he on about
He’s giving arrogant
These comments are wild lol, such a refreshing guest to have! An actual man with actual morals and understanding
exactly the ones that hate are just racist lets keep it real
The end was funny, “that’s ok, bye”
im not even at the end yet but if thats what they said good 20 mins in and cant stand him already deserves it but how funny now I wanna skip to see it
I wish they’d woulda let him talk more instead of talking over him
What’s he on about 🤣
'I drink highland springs, must be the cups of tea' DKMM 😭
I would love for you to have him on again but the challenge would be to not focus on genders and see how it goes
I want him back yoooh 😊
I actually really enjoyed this episode I feel like a lot of people are deeping what he’s saying
I really enjoyed this podcast. Part 2