🦋 I got picked on for being "skinny" in school. I always hated being the skinny black girl! Once I discovered weightlifting and how to build muscle; I put on weight. And this has increased my confidence. Ooooo I thank God for the gym!
My husband is what a lot of women would call lil' ugly, but has the biggest heart I know. I love my lil' ugly 😂. Everywhere he works everyone loves him. No one has a bad thing to say about him. Treats me like a queen and spoils me. I chose him because I knew he'd be a good father and family man. He is boring, but I bring the fun to the family. Don't be superficial guys, give the ugly men a chance. 😂
From my experience ugly men treated me the worst and and attractive men always treated me much better. Glad it worked out for you but doesn’t mean it will work for others. If a woman wants an attractive man I don’t see why she has to compromise. I guarantee your man did not compromise in the looks department when he chose you. But you compromised for him.
Going by the title of this video, I had no idea what was going to be discussed. Who knew that this man would be so brutally honest? But honestly, he hit the nail right on the head. He said everything that I always think about marriages. He even used his own personality as an example. There were some funny points too. I appreciate someone who knows how important it is to tell the truth. That being said, some people just can’t handle the truth. I honestly wish I had started listening to him years ago. I just started listening last week. It is very important to pay attention to all aspects of your personality. You must pay attention to how you dress, speak, and behave. I understand that I don’t have to be perfect, but I do have to have qualities that someone would be interested in. This isn’t rocket science but make no mistake about it; relationships are hard. It’s important to keep an open mind and listen to feedback from others.
Yes! If multiple people say the same thing about you, take it into account for once. I had several people tell me that I was a certified a-hole. One day I finally said, “wait a minute, I might actually be one” 😂 I lived in two different states, multiple cities, and went to various schools. Wherever I was, someone was telling me that! I still have it in me, but since then, I definitely minimized my a-holeism. Like Tony said, sometimes it may be the other person that’s more of the problem, but you should still hold yourself accountable.
I know we should all strive to look & be your best but in all honesty no matter what you look like big, small looks challenged etc marriage is spiritual.If marriage is in God’s will for your life, it will happen no matter what you have going on
Get out of your cocoon in order to become a butterfly. I love your videos; thank you so much for allowing God to use you to be a blessing to others through your honesty and wisdom.
You are so right about getting braces! I’m so grateful that my mom got me braces as a kid because like you said it unleashes a new confidence. She also took us to get our hair done every 2 weeks & I’m now 30 STILL doing that. Your childhood habits really can play a part in your adulthood. Thanks for another great video Tony!
This video was right on time for me. I have a face that "only a father could love". I have big bones and a muscular build. Definitely tough pill to swallow watching TG's videos. Im taking in the wisdom and knowledge to make myself better. When im ready, i believe God will bless me with my husband. Thank you TG🙏🏾
It’s so important to see your own beauty first. God created your face and He makes no mistakes. I would encourage you to be more compassionate towards yourself. Thinking you’re not good enough will only lead to settling for less in all aspects of your life.
I too watched the Dallas Cowboys cheerleaders reality show both of them. And I was shocked by the fiancé of the devout Christian. But he could eat her up and she is TOTALLY in love with him. Her energy is just infectious and sweet. I REALLY enjoyed watching her story. Beautiful girl and an AMAZING inspirational spirit. A true cheerleader!! ❤❤❤
Thank you. Very much. 43, never married, always been looking in the mirror but I compared myself too much to others in previous years. Very useful will keep it on my TG playlist
Thank you for all your advice! I’m 29 almost 30, with braces. I never felt insecure about my smile until I was 22 and a guy I was dating told me, your teeth aren’t even all that, in an argument 😂but it made me feel self conscious about my smile since then, and although I was so hesitant about it, finally pulled the trigger and got braces earlier this year. I feel so insecure with them though, because I already look young for my age, but the braces make me look like a high schooler. In dating recently I noticed that guys don’t even care about my braces or they don’t even notice immediately, which makes me feel a little better. I get them off in December and cannot wait to be more confident! Thank you for sharing your story! ❤
The truth is usually uncomfortable, it is. But change is unlikely to happen without confronting it. We're being handed the kind of knowledge and wisdom that you can't really learn at university or college. It's comes from human observation and discernment, a certain annointing that's rare and isn't self-proclaimed, and from life experience.
29:42 TONYYY!!! I’m 🗣️Hollerinnn!! 🤣🤣🤣 No you did not just get up out your seat for a demonstration! 😹 Talking about some switching hips. I just about fell over! Lol!!
❤❤❤ Being completely honest this was good to hear as a married woman. I can do a whole lot better than what I’m doing and I know my husband would really appreciate it and love to see it. Thanks for the reality check. I can see my selfishness and I now have a different perspective; especially when you said your significant other has to look at you everyday. I’m working on my list of things.💯
Can't wait to listen. I'm stuck in my feelings right now. I desire marriage but it just don't seem like men want an ig model and just very shallow. And I'm not trying to get a bbl just to get married
Sis , not even being funny but you don’t want a man chasing IG models or a bbl. Men of real purpose don’t do that. That’s God’s protection. The right man will appear in God’s divine timing. That’s what I tell myself. 🙏🏾
I agree with the advice given here. I used to think like that but don’t let that limiting belief discourage you. If they chase those IG models, that says a lot about his character. Real recognize real so he is not on your level if he can’t even see your true value. Forget those men, they ain’t worth your time.
Heyyy everyone! I Was married once and was a serial dater when I was single. I was considered pretty and sweet by society but my ex husband was considered not on my level. He didnt have money either. I wanted a husband so I settled. I’ve dated very few “good looking” men . I liked them anyway and even loved some of them. My daughter would tease me and say I need to raise my preferences. Ive always been able to look past the physical. Love this video Tony!
Wow this message was amazing as usual! I dated this guy once and he didn’t want to open his mouth wide enough to talk because his teeth were crooked. I didn’t even know he had crooked teeth until we were hanging out with another friend one day and she gave a joke that made him buss out laughing where you saw all his teeth. The more confident a man is , the more of his good side he’ll give you. Tony is right! Sometimes it’s just the small things. He was trying to impress so he was more laidback and introverted. He wasn’t trying to impress my friend so she was able to see all his teeth. I even preferred that jovial side of him but his insecurities held him in a shell!
My two girl cousins my Uncle had them thinking they were better than everyone else just because he was an attorney and their mom was a college professor and yes they are both college graduates with graduate degrees but they both end up having a reality check when it came to relationships. They both have experienced an abusive relationship too.
In short what I got from the whole video is that constant introspection is mas importante and I have to work on the areas that keep me from being my most confident self. Well noted, Tony! Your content is always highly appreciated. 👌🏼 Also you're hilarious...I be here laughing like a retarted seal🤣🤣🤣
Hello Tony I was watching Toya Johnson and her husband Robert on a podcast show, he said that he takes a vacation by himself. He was only speaking about one day, but the also take vacations together. If you are not familiar with Toya , she has a daughter by Lil Wayne.
I know Tony probably won't see this comment, but I'm happy he spoke briefly about what happened on Harley initiated... Literally I lost so much respect for those two dudes with that one interview! Tony completely handled himself as a grown gentleman. No one can convince me that that was not a setup and Ace wasn't prepared to call in and pull that stunt... From what I understand I'm from Ohio and so is Ace.. he was absolutely a bad look for the state I can't even claim that behavior, it was disgusting
Tony can you talk about the motive behind why the popular guy in high school wants to date the person who was unpopular in high school all of a sudden ( many years later). They weren't interested in highschool and all of a sudden they are now.
I have my dad’s nose, but thank God he has a nice nose lol! I actually love my nose, but I have a friend that likes me and he has a nose on him and I would hate for our future kid to get it.
Hey Tony! I love your videos. I agree with most of your talking points. The part about what you said about women feeling like their degree is more valuable than it should be, I disagree with that point. Women on average value their degrees highly because historically women weren’t able to receive degrees. However, what she wants is a man who is established in his career. But if he doesn’t have a degree, most women don't care. Especially a black woman. This is why men who have a craft (barbers, plumbers, computer technicians, truck drivers, etc.) can keep women. A woman who holds the degree over a man’s head usually deals with a man who doesn’t have his stuff together. Either that, or she comes from an upper-class world where men are supposed to be white color workers. Your average woman is not going to tell a man to quit his good job and go back to college when he’s making good money. Lastly, degrees and certifications are more than just your ability to study and pass tests. Would you go to a doctor who's not qualified on paper to practice medicine? Would you see a lawyer who doesn’t have a license to practice law? These things are valued because you can say you can do it but there’s no proof of your work. Experience is more valuable than certifications. However, this is why when you apply for a job and you are applying for a higher level they ask for your certifications and they asked for the amount of experience you have. A degree has value but it doesn't mean that you don't need to apply what you learned and hustle to grow as a professional.
A degree doesn’t guarantee you a good life or a good husband. That’s the point he was making. You have to bring more than that. Your looks matter too upon other things.
@@ThePinkPillOfficial Absolutely! But my point is that what woman thinks that her having a degree makes her have a good husband? Really let’s think about it. Most women who have a degree know that. Men think that women are using their degrees as qualifications for a good husband. Woman are saying “I want a man with a degree!” But they really want a man with a good career who makes good money. Hence they don’t want a broke uneducated man. If he was established in his career, degree or no degree he would still get a woman’s interest.
I have been listening to messages you give,I'm young and was very stubborn..now I have children also a great guy..God blessed me with your messages.🇹🇹🌴🌹
Opinionated women verbalise their opinions. They may or may not care that others agree with it. Woman who thinks for herself moves in silence so everyone can SEE her opinion and she doesnt care whether or not they agree.
You always talkin about the overweight women 😢I’m overweight and I love your channel but it seems like you really go in on thickier women a little to much
@Eshababyyy Don't be offended, he is keeping it real. We have to work on ourselves. If everrrrything else about us is positive, we have to look at what the issue could be. I'm 5' .05", 243lbs. I have to work on that area. Anywhere feelings were hurt, is a place that needs examination.
You don’t quite understand women the way you think you do. I’m Normally on the same page as you but I feel like you missed the boat on women in this video. Especially women who have addresses poverty and oppression by doing whatever they can to achieve social mobility.
This conversation was funny super silly. Your curiosity of eggplant😮Black people especially miss out on soul mate experiences choosing only superficial aspects, we often lack on what's important...the most successful people are not the most attractive but yet here we are only focusing on looks.
The point I'm taking from this...work on your weaknesses...love yourself...mind your kindness. Thanks Tony
Tony’s videos are strictly about Forgiveness. We always gotta forgive him for something 😂
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😂😂😂😂 foreal
And we always do lol
One thing about Tony is that he is gonna ask for forgiveness on here, lol
🦋 I got picked on for being "skinny" in school. I always hated being the skinny black girl! Once I discovered weightlifting and how to build muscle; I put on weight. And this has increased my confidence. Ooooo I thank God for the gym!
I’m going through this struggle now…
@@jenesis_8 🦋 I understand. I would love to help if you would like!
That part!!!
My husband is what a lot of women would call lil' ugly, but has the biggest heart I know. I love my lil' ugly 😂. Everywhere he works everyone loves him. No one has a bad thing to say about him. Treats me like a queen and spoils me. I chose him because I knew he'd be a good father and family man. He is boring, but I bring the fun to the family. Don't be superficial guys, give the ugly men a chance. 😂
I tried that with a “lil ugly” and he thought he would have his cake and eat it too! It was thee AUDACITY for me😒
From my experience ugly men treated me the worst and and attractive men always treated me much better. Glad it worked out for you but doesn’t mean it will work for others. If a woman wants an attractive man I don’t see why she has to compromise. I guarantee your man did not compromise in the looks department when he chose you. But you compromised for him.
Imagine if he saw your comment, what would he think?
!!!!@@Mirpeace93
Get dwn 👏🏽💯…. babeee that good treatment will start to look handsome 😂
Unc said “ima hold your hand when I say this… you’re not special” 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
@@lorraineango2099 lol 💀
Just zoomin around corners… hittin corners… “GET OUT THE WAY TONY! “ 😩😩😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
👩🏾🦼👩🏾🦽♿. 😂😂😂😂
I’m dying 😂😭
Died on the cross right thr 😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂 💀 💀 💀💀💀💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
Going by the title of this video, I had no idea what was going to be discussed. Who knew that this man would be so brutally honest? But honestly, he hit the nail right on the head. He said everything that I always think about marriages. He even used his own personality as an example. There were some funny points too. I appreciate someone who knows how important it is to tell the truth. That being said, some people just can’t handle the truth. I honestly wish I had started listening to him years ago. I just started listening last week. It is very important to pay attention to all aspects of your personality. You must pay attention to how you dress, speak, and behave. I understand that I don’t have to be perfect, but I do have to have qualities that someone would be interested in. This isn’t rocket science but make no mistake about it; relationships are hard. It’s important to keep an open mind and listen to feedback from others.
Yes! If multiple people say the same thing about you, take it into account for once. I had several people tell me that I was a certified a-hole. One day I finally said, “wait a minute, I might actually be one” 😂
I lived in two different states, multiple cities, and went to various schools. Wherever I was, someone was telling me that!
I still have it in me, but since then, I definitely minimized my a-holeism. Like Tony said, sometimes it may be the other person that’s more of the problem, but you should still hold yourself accountable.
😂Me too
Note taken:
Accountability
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Thank you for sharing!
I love this!
I know we should all strive to look & be your best but in all honesty no matter what you look like big, small looks challenged etc marriage is spiritual.If marriage is in God’s will for your life, it will happen no matter what you have going on
it should also be your desire to
Get out of your cocoon in order to become a butterfly. I love your videos; thank you so much for allowing God to use you to be a blessing to others through your honesty and wisdom.
Everything this man says is hilarious the way he says things is so comical. Sooo entertaining and informative at the same time lol
😂😂😂 “His hips were switching.”‘I almost choked on my toothpaste. Hahahahaha!
He could not even do it because it's not in him 🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️ TG cracks me up!!!
This Message was very much needed but a hard pill to swallow
You are so right about getting braces! I’m so grateful that my mom got me braces as a kid because like you said it unleashes a new confidence. She also took us to get our hair done every 2 weeks & I’m now 30 STILL doing that. Your childhood habits really can play a part in your adulthood. Thanks for another great video Tony!
This video was right on time for me. I have a face that "only a father could love". I have big bones and a muscular build. Definitely tough pill to swallow watching TG's videos. Im taking in the wisdom and knowledge to make myself better. When im ready, i believe God will bless me with my husband. Thank you TG🙏🏾
You are very beautiful
@@candacebenford1734 You are an attractive woman, there's nothing wrong with your face!!
@@Thecurlmother Thank you! I appreciate you
@@maisha4379 Thank you😊
It’s so important to see your own beauty first. God created your face and He makes no mistakes. I would encourage you to be more compassionate towards yourself. Thinking you’re not good enough will only lead to settling for less in all aspects of your life.
I too watched the Dallas Cowboys cheerleaders reality show both of them. And I was shocked by the fiancé of the devout Christian. But he could eat her up and she is TOTALLY in love with him. Her energy is just infectious and sweet. I REALLY enjoyed watching her story. Beautiful girl and an AMAZING inspirational spirit. A true cheerleader!! ❤❤❤
Thank you. Very much. 43, never married, always been looking in the mirror but I compared myself too much to others in previous years. Very useful will keep it on my TG playlist
Thank you for all your advice! I’m 29 almost 30, with braces. I never felt insecure about my smile until I was 22 and a guy I was dating told me, your teeth aren’t even all that, in an argument 😂but it made me feel self conscious about my smile since then, and although I was so hesitant about it, finally pulled the trigger and got braces earlier this year. I feel so insecure with them though, because I already look young for my age, but the braces make me look like a high schooler. In dating recently I noticed that guys don’t even care about my braces or they don’t even notice immediately, which makes me feel a little better. I get them off in December and cannot wait to be more confident! Thank you for sharing your story! ❤
Girl I’m 39 with braces lol 😬
😂😂😂😂 “built like a defensive lineman and switchin’ hips. You know what the means…NEVER compare, focus on YOU‼️” 💎💎💎
TG.... THAT WALK SWITCH TOOK ME OUTTTTTTTTT. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's the same with men. I like watching barber videos. Dudes go from a 4 to a 9 just with a good cut.
The truth is usually uncomfortable, it is. But change is unlikely to happen without confronting it. We're being handed the kind of knowledge and wisdom that you can't really learn at university or college. It's comes from human observation and discernment, a certain annointing that's rare and isn't self-proclaimed, and from life experience.
29:42 TONYYY!!! I’m 🗣️Hollerinnn!! 🤣🤣🤣 No you did not just get up out your seat for a demonstration! 😹 Talking about some switching hips. I just about fell over! Lol!!
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I am screaming at the attitude in the wheelchair zooming around story 💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
I fixed my teeth and had laser hair removal. It was life changing. I'm still a work in progress.
“Come on Tony get out the way” “skrttt” man bye I’m not fooling with you today! Still watching all the way thru tho🤣
“You can’t be short and rude and nasty” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The way you are effortlessly funny 🤣🤣🤣 you keep it real but you throw in a lil humor to soften the blow!
Coach Tony can't even fake switching 😂😂
Thaaaat was funny
Ikr…. I was no more good after that 😂😂😂😂😂
At the end of the day, just be ourselves!! Stop being fake!!
I think he's trying to tell us to be ourselves, just the best version.
I thank God for all of your much needed information. You truly help so many people!
I was very blessed by this message.
Tony!! Why u tryna walk like the dude 😂lololol?? 30:18 I dunno why I’m so tickled…I didn’t expect to giggle this hard😂😂
That's so funny, you took me back to high school! I forgot all about that girl in the wheelchair who zoomed thru the halls & was rude lol
Lmfao !!!! Tony now that wheelchair 🦽 example and me envisioning her hitting corners hard 😂😂😂😂
This was really helpful, but TG is so funny and honest when he goes “okay, I could’ve lived without this…” 😂
Tony can talk about women making marriage an idol…
😂😂😂😂😂 I’m laughing so hard at the lady zooming
Bruh the story about the special Ed guy is crazyyyyy😂😭😭 when he said the guy had to get stitches I started crying laughing 😭
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Being completely honest this was good to hear as a married woman. I can do a whole lot better than what I’m doing and I know my husband would really appreciate it and love to see it. Thanks for the reality check. I can see my selfishness and I now have a different perspective; especially when you said your significant other has to look at you everyday. I’m working on my list of things.💯
Can't wait to listen. I'm stuck in my feelings right now. I desire marriage but it just don't seem like men want an ig model and just very shallow. And I'm not trying to get a bbl just to get married
Sis , not even being funny but you don’t want a man chasing IG models or a bbl. Men of real purpose don’t do that. That’s God’s protection.
The right man will appear in God’s divine timing. That’s what I tell myself. 🙏🏾
Trust me, I am a curvy girl and very feminine and still they are wanting the fake stuff bc it’s cartoonish, no thanks
Not true!! Find your strengths and know what you offer as a woman. And don’t waste your time on the wrong people
I agree with the advice given here. I used to think like that but don’t let that limiting belief discourage you. If they chase those IG models, that says a lot about his character. Real recognize real so he is not on your level if he can’t even see your true value. Forget those men, they ain’t worth your time.
@@clarissaamiata1448 you think they recognize real? Lol men just want what looks good and it doesn’t matter if it’s fake or real to them.
Heyyy everyone! I
Was married once and was a serial dater when I was single. I was considered pretty and sweet by society but my ex husband was considered not on my level. He didnt have money either. I wanted a husband so I settled. I’ve dated very few “good looking” men . I liked them anyway and even loved some of them. My daughter would tease me and say I need to raise my preferences. Ive always been able to look past the physical. Love this video Tony!
First one 🙂 I'm INFJ
Me tooo
ISFJ here 🤎
Me too😊
@@travelnurseneeneesame here!
I’m an INFJ as well.
Wow this message was amazing as usual! I dated this guy once and he didn’t want to open his mouth wide enough to talk because his teeth were crooked. I didn’t even know he had crooked teeth until we were hanging out with another friend one day and she gave a joke that made him buss out laughing where you saw all his teeth. The more confident a man is , the more of his good side he’ll give you. Tony is right! Sometimes it’s just the small things. He was trying to impress so he was more laidback and introverted. He wasn’t trying to impress my friend so she was able to see all his teeth. I even preferred that jovial side of him but his insecurities held him in a shell!
loved the diamond analogy ✨
This video was very needed! Thank you!
At the gym listening to this 🏋🏽♀️👏🏽👏🏽
A child lives what they learns.
Tony you are so funny like 😂😂😂😂 I Crack up every video I watch! ❤
“You’re not brushing your teeth”🤣🤣🤣 nah fr!!!! Not kissing you sir
But is she ready to be a wife? they like the idea of marriage but they still want to act like social media celebrities
You're hilarious 😂....but always on point for sure!
Ohhh myyyyyyy goodness. Tony taking about the girl in high school almost made me pass out 😂😂😂
Get out of my head Tony Gaskins . I have my father's nose and I just started at the gym . Hopefully my life can change 💫
Lmao i come on here for the lessons but the jokes be sending me 😭👏🏾
OMG. I was an INFJ for years then took the test this year and I am one oc the ENs now.
My two girl cousins my Uncle had them thinking they were better than everyone else just because he was an attorney and their mom was a college professor and yes they are both college graduates with graduate degrees but they both end up having a reality check when it came to relationships. They both have experienced an abusive relationship too.
Right on time!!
I just wear my hair because it’s so thick I know my wigs would give conehead 😂. This was very insightful.
🤣The scream I scrumpt at “zooming around in the wheelchair” being RUDE!!! Lord forgive me.
Lol this channel is not for the weak. You either get the message and grow or you get offended and don’t. There’s no in between.
Yay!!! I’m excited for the new gummies 🎉
You given great advice 😊 it’s something I can work on
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Tony thank you for your videos. I’m learning so much from you ✨💪💭
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NOT THE TRAK😮😢😢😂😂❤🎉🎉
In short what I got from the whole video is that constant introspection is mas importante and I have to work on the areas that keep me from being my most confident self. Well noted, Tony! Your content is always highly appreciated. 👌🏼
Also you're hilarious...I be here laughing like a retarted seal🤣🤣🤣
This is the one 🎯💎
Hello Tony
I was watching Toya Johnson and her husband Robert on a podcast show, he said that he takes a vacation by himself. He was only speaking about one day, but the also take vacations together. If you are not familiar with Toya , she has a daughter by Lil Wayne.
I’m an INTJ…the rarest personality type for women which is why I struggle w female relationships 😢
Mr. TG!!!!!! SIT DOWN RIGHT DANG ON NOW I SAID💀🪦⚰️😂🤣🤣🤣😂
Good video learned a lot
I know Tony probably won't see this comment, but I'm happy he spoke briefly about what happened on Harley initiated... Literally I lost so much respect for those two dudes with that one interview! Tony completely handled himself as a grown gentleman. No one can convince me that that was not a setup and Ace wasn't prepared to call in and pull that stunt... From what I understand I'm from Ohio and so is Ace.. he was absolutely a bad look for the state I can't even claim that behavior, it was disgusting
That SIDE
Tony can you talk about the motive behind why the popular guy in high school wants to date the person who was unpopular in high school all of a sudden ( many years later). They weren't interested in highschool and all of a sudden they are now.
He prolly trying to talk to several people from high school . Some people don’t leave the high school dating pool
To take advantage of you 😂😩
Open doors for marriage for me
I have my dad’s nose, but thank God he has a nice nose lol! I actually love my nose, but I have a friend that likes me and he has a nose on him and I would hate for our future kid to get it.
You are focused on the wrong thing
A nose is really not a priority....If has the qualities you're looking for,go for it.
What about. When a man thinks by getting to know you, that you’re too good for him, but you didn’t do or say anything for him to believe that?
Good video.. stuff to think about
Hey Tony! I love your videos. I agree with most of your talking points. The part about what you said about women feeling like their degree is more valuable than it should be, I disagree with that point. Women on average value their degrees highly because historically women weren’t able to receive degrees. However, what she wants is a man who is established in his career. But if he doesn’t have a degree, most women don't care. Especially a black woman. This is why men who have a craft (barbers, plumbers, computer technicians, truck drivers, etc.) can keep women.
A woman who holds the degree over a man’s head usually deals with a man who doesn’t have his stuff together. Either that, or she comes from an upper-class world where men are supposed to be white color workers. Your average woman is not going to tell a man to quit his good job and go back to college when he’s making good money.
Lastly, degrees and certifications are more than just your ability to study and pass tests. Would you go to a doctor who's not qualified on paper to practice medicine? Would you see a lawyer who doesn’t have a license to practice law? These things are valued because you can say you can do it but there’s no proof of your work. Experience is more valuable than certifications. However, this is why when you apply for a job and you are applying for a higher level they ask for your certifications and they asked for the amount of experience you have. A degree has value but it doesn't mean that you don't need to apply what you learned and hustle to grow as a professional.
A degree doesn’t guarantee you a good life or a good husband. That’s the point he was making. You have to bring more than that. Your looks matter too upon other things.
@@ThePinkPillOfficial Absolutely! But my point is that what woman thinks that her having a degree makes her have a good husband? Really let’s think about it. Most women who have a degree know that.
Men think that women are using their degrees as qualifications for a good husband. Woman are saying “I want a man with a degree!” But they really want a man with a good career who makes good money. Hence they don’t want a broke uneducated man. If he was established in his career, degree or no degree he would still get a woman’s interest.
I have been listening to messages you give,I'm young and was very stubborn..now I have children also a great guy..God blessed me with your messages.🇹🇹🌴🌹
Wow Tony i feel dragged, ur right my ex used to tell me all the time to take better care of myself, i try but most of my money goes on his chiildren
Divide that money up and spend more on you
39:07 knew he was gon say a lil meat 😅😅😅😅
Question: can you explain being opinionated vs a woman being one who thinks for herself?
Opinionated women verbalise their opinions. They may or may not care that others agree with it. Woman who thinks for herself moves in silence so everyone can SEE her opinion and she doesnt care whether or not they agree.
I don't know why they had you on there with Ace. I was like, they don't know Tony aint with the BS!?
I feel like I'm super quiet now but I used to talk a lot before I accepted God bad in my life.
🤣🤣🤣Conehead, I'm dead!!
WHAT!!! AN OLYMPIAN SHOT PUTTER!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is real
I got my ELDERBERRY GUMMIES ❤
How to get over the fear of being abandoned?
Therapy
@37:17 Lisa Raye Mccoy
You always talkin about the overweight women 😢I’m overweight and I love your channel but it seems like you really go in on thickier women a little to much
Don’t be offended it just is what it is. Work on loosing the weight, it’s really not that hard with some discipline.
@@anonamous6320I’m allowed to have my opinion.
But his wife isn’t that small from what I’ve seen so I wonder how big he’s talking
@@anonamous6320so says someone that probably has a big round head and is built like a lollipop
@Eshababyyy Don't be offended, he is keeping it real. We have to work on ourselves. If everrrrything else about us is positive, we have to look at what the issue could be.
I'm 5' .05", 243lbs. I have to work on that area. Anywhere feelings were hurt, is a place that needs examination.
I want to be a life coach...
My lace front not crooked🤣
That’s after u get married u get bigger
You don’t quite understand women the way you think you do. I’m
Normally on the same page as you but I feel like you missed the boat on women in this video. Especially women who have addresses poverty and oppression by doing whatever they can to achieve social mobility.
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This conversation was funny super silly. Your curiosity of eggplant😮Black people especially miss out on soul mate experiences choosing only superficial aspects, we often lack on what's important...the most successful people are not the most attractive but yet here we are only focusing on looks.
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