LEXI ALLEN Married The Wrong Man Out of Loneliness | How Do You Deal With Loneliness? | EP. 814
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- Опубліковано 2 кві 2024
- 🌐 Loneliness can show up in all forms. How we self-medicate during our lonely seasons can provide growth or emotional death. Lexi Allen keeps us laughing on social media, but it was birthed from navigating her darkest moments after losing the love her life and marrying someone who was degrading. Her journey of self-discovery created the woman she's become today. Watch this dynamic episode titled, "Healing My Soul."
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Lexi is NUTS! She's not supposed to be this funny talking about grief!😂😂😂😂😂😂
Like for real 😂😂😂😂 JOY RAIDATES OFF OF HER ❤❤❤
Im crying tears laughing
I had to pause the video because I just can't
#MikesPlace
HILARIOUS!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Why??!!!!🤣🤣🤣.
I know exactly what she's talking about. I married for the first-time at 52 years old. Divorced 6 months later due to physical & emotional abuse. I didn't even like him... real talk. Loneliness & desperation leads to disaster. 4 years later, I am healed & happy, truly blessed as a single...Serving God.
I'm glad for you! -- from California ❤
Thank you for this!❤🙏🏾
@melbarton2966 I get it, I married a friend of 13yrs at 36, experienced abuse physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially…divorced and now in a custody battle but God has healed me and I facilitate classes for women who experienced the same. I pray that someday you’ll tell your story of how you made it through and out…blessing
@@mz.keesha577 🙏🙏
This is ABSOLUTELY TRUTH!
There is nothing more lonely than being with someone who isn't in love with you. Men and women please let the Lord orchestrate the relationship He has for you when He knows you are ready. ❤ 🙏
Loneliness can make you make some really bad decisions. I know as a 48 yr old woman. Sometimes you have to stand in that loneliness and endure.
Yes ma’am
She healed. The ungodly spirits were attracted to her brokenness , now she's healed, and they're scared to approach.
Exactly. This
THAT’S RIGHT! There are still some broken people out there that are lusting over Lexi’s physical attributes. They are not mentally and spiritually mature. They must have some intellectual depth to manage a good relationship with her.
You right, when y’all step out it should be together.. she has an amazing voice maybe she could sing the female version of your song.. glad your healed queen and praying a good man finds you
Precisely
This a real one …. Def something to know about life and Love
Loneliness allowed me to go back to a person that disrespected me on so many occasions expecting different results.
It could’ve been more than just loneliness; maybe it was a lack of boundaries. I did the same thing, but I just lacked firm boundaries in my life. I was also going through spiritual warfare at the time, so other factors were at play as well, unbeknownst to me at the time. A witch was manipulating my destiny with witchcraft, causing me to go on the wrong path and make bad decisions. Things were just not working out the way God intended. I am now fully healed and delivered, so I would never date anyone like the people I’ve dated in the past. I’m currently in my 11th year of abstinence and it has never crossed my mind during that time to settle, which is why I don’t think my previous choices were solely due to loneliness. Sometimes we have deeper issues that we are not aware of until years of choosing wrong.
You are worthy of love. Don't accept less.
Same girl same
Same
Same
Being in relationships with men that I never wanted to be with because of loneliness is definitely a REAL PLACE 💯
The DMs slowed down bc she's HEALED. The abundance in calls/DMs is the attraction to the brokenness.
I want to add light to her experience..If she counts the time they were just friends, God gave her more than 5 years with him. She was his wife for 5 years but she had years and years of friendship with him, which I'm sure added to the devastation. Anndd God likely graced her specifically with the love she had for him to be the one who cared for him in his time of illness.
Losing a friend is death in itself, so I'm sure it felt like she lost twice. Her memories of him are still so current. She loved him deeply. It's beautiful and sad at the time.
Aww Love that? So true❤❤❤
This is sooooo true.
YEEEESSSSSSSS!😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Beautifully stated!❤❤❤
I agree. ❤
Lexi is literally a one woman party.......She is so entertaining. She is truly God's precious jewel to humanity. May her latter be greater than her former. IJN Amen
A one woman party. Wow. ❤❤❤❤ thank you 🙏🏾
Haggai 2:9 one of my favorites✨
Truest statement she carried this thing in her own and he cracking up
@@lexitelevisionlex we love you your longevity speaks for u❤️❤️❤️❤️ I laughed so hard
We exist! Nasty,Thick, Prophetic Prayer Warriors! Married 28yrs! 🙌🏾
Yesssss
This comment… 😂😂
GLORAYYYYYYY
❤ Yes we do
😂😂
“Thick, nasty prayer warrior!!” I am hollering!! Great interview. 💛
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The funniest part 😂😂😂
HI-larious!!!😂😂😂
“Come out the grave.” My God. That gave me chills. Thank you, Lord for your true servants you’ve given the ability to speak to your people.
Yes... that word hit the core. God is good
Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.
I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?
Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.
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God Bless You and I’m sorry for your pain
I laughed and cried all same time, but before he stopped the camera, I paused the program to get out the grave, lost a daughter and husband.
God bless you!
I spent my 50th birthday in Montego Bay last year and I loved it! And I did it by myself!
That's nice to hear you encourage me in my 30 thirtees right now I'll also visit a beach ....in December here in Kenya
I just came back from Montego Bay for the 1st time at 53 yo and it was awesome!!!! I ziplined for the first time I horse back road for the first time I had a massage on the beach at sunrise 🤗 I hope U had an amazing time as well 💛 good for U life is short let’s get to living intentionally 💛
He should interview reesa tesa. Prime example of what loneliness and desperation can do.
Who is that?
We know herstory already 😂
Yesss!!!!
I would LOVE to see that! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I hope he doesn't. The Reesa Tesa YT videos are enough.
It’s my worst nightmare to find the love of my life and then lose him. My heart goes out to her. ❤️
This right here! I've been single for 24 years finally have love been going for 7 months. Had 2 surgeries already and never had one, before. Had a set back , and is currently having surgery now. So it scares me, but trusting God to bring him through it I he'll be ok. I don't want to lose him since it's been too long since having love in my life that I never thought I would have. ❤
Ms. Lexi, that self-forgiveness part is real. I'm still having those moments where I tell myself "it wasn't your fault, you did the best with the information you had"
It's so hard..sometimes I be so mad at myself 😢
@@nickylnr especially when you recall the length of time you gave to the relationship.
@@sheswhoiam yes...and I totally understand what she means when she said you entire a relationship when you were not yourself because that is exactly what happened to me
After my dad ascended. I didn't know I had checked out either. I thought I was handling things well, too. Until I saw a quick glimpse of myself in a mirror in Target. I heard myself thinking, "Ooo, she's tow up. She looks familiar, tho." And then I realized it was me. The cry I cried!
That must have been a tough time❤. So sorry for your loss❤❤❤
@@eunicenwanehiudo3866Thank you!!!!! It was so bad. Thank GOD for deliverance. ❤
😢😢sis ,strength is OTW. I know how you were feeling, because I'm still finding my strength after losing my BF(My Daddy,) 12/21/23. Yeah it was a big time shakeup , and denial at its BEST, cuz I'm a Daddy's girl.. I'M Still trying to look past my grief, cuz my Daddy would want me to be GREAT. I love you sis, and I know victory is OTW❤❤
Going through this. Lost my bestie/father last month. Worst pain I've ever felt and this process sucks. 😪
@valenciacaroline3068 sooo sorry 4 ur loss
She definitely doesn’t look like what she’s been through! I can’t help but notice that the people who have been through a lot are also the funniest! They turn pain into laughter 😂
I love her humor and personality.
God does that. It's a beautiful feeling
🗣Mike's Place
🗣Thick like cold grits
🗣Don't hug me tender!!!
The word though: Come out the Grave
When she spoke about loneliness. I experienced that and the mistakes I made became the biggest regret of my life. Even though I am married to an amazing guy, I still cry sometimes when I think of the people I allowed into my life in the past because I was lonely and angry at God
Forgive yourself my love 💓
"He said some stuff and cussed and left... in a truck that I bought."
The scream I screampt! 😂😂😂
I just love her!
I am in TEARS do you hear me?!!?
Hahhahhahahahhahahahaha
😂😂😂
I’ve been following Lexi for a decade and remember her posting videos of herself on the beach when she broke her engagement! I remember when she started her weight loss journey! I can’t believe she’s in her 50s looking amazing and STILL killing it! Hearing her story never gets old! I love her transparency and sense of humor 😂😂
Wow. Thank you so much. ❤
@@lexitelevisionwe love you Lexi your the realest in Gospel.
I'm sitting here shook like.... 'She Fifty SIX". She motivated me to get serious bout my health I know that! LOL
Yesss, I remember this too! Bawdyyy
Absolutely amazing.
“The hug need to make sense!” I’m with you sis!💪🏾🤣🤣
Lexi please turn this into a stage play??? I see folks laughing crying and HEALING!! COME ON SIS!! ❤
This👏 the👏 One👏 Sis...👏
An entire Word...........
I'd rather be alone than married and miserable.
💯💯💯 sho you’re right!!
@melanie_carmella Amen!!!! Amen!!! 100% agree with your comment.
It’s infinitely better than being miserably married. Trust me!
Lost it when she said “first ladyyyyyyy” 😂😂😂😂
And the camera stayed on him. I needed to see her say it!!! LOL
She's a whole trip. I love it
How LW laughs with his whole body is wholesome😂
Agreed😂
“Loneliness can show up in ALL forms”, 🤯listennnn! I’m just sitting here thinking over life and my lonely periods!
When you are lonely and broken, you will settle for not God’s best. Heal yourself with God. Speaking from experience.
Don’t I know!
I am not a widow, but when she said the Prophet said she laid down in the grave with her husband when he died--I just burst into tears. ❤️🩹
We are going to need a Part 2 interview with Lexi. Plus, we need to see who she vetted as a potential Future Wifey for you. 🙂
I went to Dunamis with her. Lexi has always been Lexi! Love her realness! ❤
"Everybody love her but you."
Preach, Lexi!!!
Ooooohhhh that stung a bit! Ouch !
WOOOO DOGGY!!! Abba AINT playin wit me!!! Just this morning I wept acknowledging my sadness and loneliness to Him. He then graciously revealed that it was a cover for the grain of unbelief that kept sprouting in my heart. BUT GOD!!! I confessed! LORD, I believe. HELP MY UNBELIEF!
Loneliness made me go back to my ex. Worst decision I ever made.
Lexi is the best friend in my head that I didn't know I needed. Great conversation among believers!
Loneliness will have you in places and spaces that you definitely wouldn't normally be in.
😂😂😂😂😂 I LOVE LEXI!! She is The best. She Tells it like it is and is a master storyteller. She’s hilarious and brilliant. Her story is heartbreaking but her growth and healing is so inspiring. ❤🙏🏽
Wow. Thank you 🙏🏾
She is a real talker. That's why they don't call her directly.... I love 😂❤❤😅😅
This is was me. This is confirmation. Im free. I really climb out the grave. I literally felt that crossover last week. I woke up. Thank you, Jesus. ❤
Her entire explanation about why she decided to date her ex husband - was his “best friend” but got jealous when he was about to get serious about another woman - is the reason I don’t date men with so called best friends who are women.
Nope. Don’t be afraid of that. We had a different story boo. Totally different
But from her story, he was already on love with her. He probably went through the same mental gymnastics weighing whether it was worth risking the friendship. My daddy taught you should marry your friend. Too often relationship don't start that way.
So I hear what you're saying.
My point is that a heterosexual man and woman who spend a significant time together bonding and experiencing each other will eventually develop romantic feelings for each other. They called each other friend but were falling in love. Hence the reason she interrupted his relationship with the other woman. I avoid these messy situations by not dating men with female best friends.
I thought I was the only one that felt that. I actually was in the same situation. But I end up ending a 20 something friendship to allow him to luv correctly because I knew we lived each other on another level.
Exactly. No close opposite gender friends period.
Laterras, can we start doing these as premiere’s so the LIT fam can chat while watching?
Ooh good idea
I was just thinking this.
That would be nice
That would be great!
Great suggestion!
I wish they would've talked about how they Lexi & Mike got married and expounded more on their relationship dynamic throughout their time together....Please have a part 2!
She was on Tim Ross podcast a few weeks ago, she went deeper on there
She is speaking facts! She is hilarious with truth. Totally enjoyed this.
I am SO GLAD KevOnStage 🎬 introduced me to the AMAZINGNESS of Lexi Allen!!!
I'm sure she's gonna have me laughing and crying and she's gon' sprinkle gems 💎 throughout the interview! 😁👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
lol passion you on every channel I’m on
@@AllThingsLoud_ - Let's start a Club for people with EXCEPTIONAL TASTE in UA-cam content! 😌😏😄😁
🙌🏽🔥🙌🏽🔥🙌🏽🔥🎬🎬🎬 hey sis
@@AllThingsLoud_ - You have GREAT TASTE in content! 😌😏😄😆
I hope you're doing well
@@KamikazeSP06 Hey bro! 🙌🏾🔥🎬🙌🏾🔥🎬
Lexi is hilarious! I was walking around Marshall’s crying laughing and didn’t care who saw me. 😂😂🤣🤣 Great episode! This one I’ll be watching again and again.
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I am at work cracking up she preaching.
She is Crazyyyyy😂😂😂😂😂Slight cardiac arrest. She’s realistic…. the Lord made her just the way her crazy self is, Love it!!!!
Now I’m not trying to hook Laterras up but him and Lex would be AMAZING together. I love their chemistry. I hope they make a love connection!
Im struggling in relationships as we speak. I been hurt, lied to, and manipulated so many times, I don't know how to trust completely it's scary. Praying God heals me 🙏🏾
It's weird that you two were describing each other. I enjoyed this episode.
Ha...I was saying the same thing ..like wait what if they date
So I wasn’t the only one thinking this!
🎉agreed but I think she is too much for him and her past is too much for him
Exactly, I'm like yall stop playing and go on a date :)
Literally 😂😂
I found Lexi in March of 2016 on UA-cam, I watched episode after episode after episode nothing but LAUGHTER and healing❤ my children and I just happened to be watching the episode “The things black people say at funerals” we were laughing hysterically!!! IRONICALLY as we were laughing, my 1st husband of 30 years, the father of ALL 7 of my children was falling to his death in the same hour. The Lexi Show was the show that I didn’t KNOW we needed in that season. My LORD. I’m Loving this 💜💜💜
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HER ENERGY IS EVERYTHING🦋
I didn't have to get out of the grave but I did have to stop letting my husband control me from the grave. #healed
I just want to touch and agree with Lexi. Mind of Christ, body of Meg Thee Stallion 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
"Unspeakable things." 😂😂😂😂 "First Lady!!!" 😂😂😂
I felt that in my Shondo!!!😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂
I knew Lexi first husband very well, we grew up living across the street from him and his parent The Rev and Mrs Diane Allen. When he was in the hospital during his last days and she is right now one could see him. We sat and talked to his parents and brother and we understand very well. He definitely was a wonderful guy.❤ R.I.P Michael Allen.
I never saw Lexi as funny but a story teller she IS !! And is HILARIOUS
I didn’t know Lexi before this podcast… But Wow! I love this woman energy 😂 personality, sense of humor❤
Care Take!!! Wow, this explains a lot for me at 38. I lost my dad at 12 and I had to help my mom be his caretaker while he was dying of cancer. It make sense now why I am attracted to those individuals that need care, but it is not reciprocated.
Sending flowers 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🌹💐💐 kindly take heart I also lost my dad at a tender age but I'm standing strong in the grace of God with my beautiful daughter here ....always rejoice in the Lord
Letteras you have THE Best guests. I have enjoyed all of them. You never disappoint. Thank you for what you bring to this world❤
That is actually a Hallmark movie. The woman didn't get married and went to the resort by herself. Congratulations on your healing Lexi.
I had climbed into the grave when my ex-husband / kids dad passed in 2021. I understand exactly what she is talking about the grief! It is truly a dark place! But God!
Lexiiiiiii, ma’am don’t ever change. I can’t stop laughing 😂❤😂
I couldn’t change if I tried ❤
@@lexitelevisionyou are so beautiful inside and out. May God send you the love of your life in Jesus Name
Wow. I lost my baby girl, son, mother, grandmother all gone. I have layers of pain. My son was 24, and it has been 3 years now from fentanyl poisoning. Total devastation, and my husband has been using every thing we ever been through to create more drama between us. I see I am in the grave. I am in therapy, on meds., but I'm not sure how much good it is doing me. This is eye opening, the devil is definitely busy. He is seeking to devour our families.
This was the BEST hour 1/2 I’ve spent alone on a weekday in a long time. It was entertaining, inspirational, encouraging and on point!!! Thank you both!!
Lexi!!!!! I'm crying!!!! "Mike's Place " though... chill!! lmbo
I loved when she keep saying that
This is the first time I ever wanted to have a session go on for 3 hours. This spoke to my very cells, forget my heart and soul, this is just what I needed for my life!
This was such a great sit-down!
Love her transparency and authenticity
In my Maverick City voice:
Get up, Get up, Get up
Get up out of that grave 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️
This is my ALL TIME FAVORITE out of ALL of the shows. I luv me some Lexi. Her personality is in a lane all by herself. She keeps it REAL but you can tell she has a personal relationship with God. Her truth she shared brought tears to my eyes. I laughed out Loud throughout the entire show. She spoke what other Christians think. Thank you Lexi!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽
Wow. Thanks so much it means so much to me ❤
It doesn't get rid of itself. You gotta kick it out. WORD RIGHT THERE
That's 👏the👏 on👏
Unspeakable things!! I crack up laughing at him, laughing at all his guests when they hit that funny bone!! Hysterical.
"Mike's Place" 😂😂😂😂
I love Lexi’s authenticity. As a widowed person, so much of what she shared resonated with my experiences, especially very early in my grief. Thank you for giving a voice to the young & widowed community. This blessed me & made me LOL!❤
I love Lexi's transparency and candor.
All women listen up especially when a love one or anyone in your life transitions beware of wolves praying your vulnerability the Lord showed me that and till this day I am forever grateful to him for keeping me from falling 💕
Absolutely true
Amen and Amen thank you for sharing
I hope we continue to recognize as a culture the power of mental health! Proud of her!!!
I didn't want this to end, she's absolutely HILARIOUS !!!!!!
I had no idea I loved Lexi until now. She’s great! I can see so much of me when I look at her when it comes to her sense of humor and her honesty
I LOVE this crazy, funny, hilarious wonderful lady!! She is so funny. She said "when you hug me I need it to make sense!!" 😂😂😂😂😂
Crying! 😂😂
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WOOH I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH!! I ALMOST MARRIED SOMEONE OUT OF LONELINESS….BUT GOD, MY GOD 🙌🏽🙏🏽
I love me some Lexi! Her energy is off the charts. Those skits used to have my side hurtin'... I also love when she has her son Mike on with her. He is just as funny as his mama. They say the funniest people oftentimes are dealing with or have dealt with the deepest pain. Thank you sir for having this great lady on your show.
Thank you Jesus for Lexi. When she spoke of the prayer Lord!!!! I immediately began to cry....then Laterras had her to come back to it!!!!! Jesus something broke for me. Lexi is funny, gifted and ever so transparent.
I know a married couple that happened to. The ex’s mother died and she went to “comfort” him and wound up back with him and left her husband. Lexi was 💯 FACTUAL on keeping boundaries
That’s deep!! 👀 and…I DO understand, almost happened to me!!!!!!
Lexi is GOLD 😂😂😂😂 God bless her ❤️🫶🏾
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The rawness of Lexi was refreshing. Great interview
This is one of the best episodes. I love the transparency and laughter! This is the one right here!!!! Real and Raw... LIT
Where is the second like button! This lady is speaking real stuff!!
Loved this episode. I identified with a few things. The main one is the fact that I'm a widow too. I was beat down but month after my husband died I started therapy and grief support. I always say that if a widow/er wilds out after losing their spouse give grace because all you want is for the pain to go away.
So needed!! perfect timing! This it home on MANY levels!
This is why I love Lexi so much, especially this last 30 minutes. I love her grief journey and how she made it to the other side of it.
Lexi, I didn't want a pastor, prophet, a deacon. I wanted someone who loved God. Lexi, you are crazy. You are correct
Wow! I’ve never heard Lexi’s testimony in depth. What a mighty God we serve!
Oh my goodness! I laughed and cried through this. One of the best, most thought provoking, transparent interviews I've seen in a long time. Lexi, thank you for this!
Watched so many of Laterras' podcast trying to figure out why a partner can call you the love of his life and just not being able to commit. In all loving him relentless and just giving my all was just not enough. The danger is not just being lonly but trying to find ones identity back when someone else crushed it.Thanks for these podcasts.Letting go!
The WAY I CLICKED SOOOO FAST. Lexi Allen and Laterras R. Whitfield? #Laughter&ShenanigansLoading
I always try to remember HALT - Hungry, Angry, Lonely & Tired .. never make decisions when in any of these states...
I started listening this on Spotify to avoid interruption... Then had to run back to YT bc i was missing all of the physical gestures and facial expressions that were adding colour to Lexi's comments..
AaaaaaaaaaannnND.. they did not disappoint... I can't even catch my breath.. I'm laughing w/o any sound! #BodyOfAStripper 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love that Analogy👌🏾👏🏾
Hilarious!