I hear of women saying he won't let me go. It's not about him letting you go, it's about you taking control of yourself and leave. Show him he's not in control.
Men know a good woman however, that doesn’t mean they deserve that good woman. Was in the same thing for 8 years. Luckily, I was able to escape and change my life. You can do it too.
A man saying he wants a good woman is all relative. To some men, "a good woman" is someone that will lay on their back all of the time. It's important that us women are clear what a man considers what HIS definition of a good woman.
My ex was getting closer to a woman at work. Eventually I could see he wasn't really in the relationship anymore. I broke it off after 3 and a half years. He still wanted to be friends after this , but I told him no. My reason , " No, If you can't be a friend to me in the relationship then you're not going to be my friend out of it."
You hit it. Don't be a side-friend or a side-chick because they just want benefits whether it be emotional, mental, physical, spiritual or financial. Nope.
My ex called me regularly and visited me, for 2 years after he broke up with me. Would cuddle me up, go on trips with me, say I love you, etc. But while I was waiting for him, he was out living his single life. Was always interested to know if I was dating anyone even though he was for sure dating around. I was always holding onto that hope with all my might but it eventually the disappointment and toxicity made me say enough is enough and cut him off. He reached out to me months later, trying to see me and acting like I was the one in the wrong for cutting him off. Selfish people are not going to let you go as long as you benefit them so you have to find the strength to let them go. Know your worth and don't be desperate.
I agree ... maybe the block doesn't work on her phone 😞 once an older woman told me to don't let him he a priority while I remained an option ...... never did that again ....only had to tell me ONE time
Exactly, it's easy to blame them for holding on to you but you have to take responsibility for chasing after them or standing there being their placeholder.
He doesn't want to let you go because you are an ASSET You do not know your worth, that's why you're still entertaining him. You are a valuable asset, he sees your worth. He knows that he doesn't deserve you, but he's holding on to something he should not have.
OMG "I Yield I Yield What Must I Do To Be Saved ?" He Knows Your Worth He Knows He Doesn't Deserve You.... !!! Sistah Gurl U R Giving Me LIFE RIGHT NOW !!! 😭😭😭
So true. I stopped cooking for husband, sex, cleaning (to a certain degree), including, caring and overall checked out. I'm just waiting for the lease to be up in August so I can move, just me and my son.
Women should stick to their guns because men are sticking to theirs. He even has a limit and a cut-off time if he's not getting what he want so women need to stick to what they say and do the same. He values his self enough to do so.
My ex is a liar. I was basically with someone just like my father a liar so I ended things again. He will try to get back with me it’s what he does. He will cause a scene, he will probably even pretend to lose his mind but I’m done. He never changes.
See. This is why I don't play those going M.I.A games. We were in a full committed relationship and he went 2 days without responding to text and not returning phone calls. I quickly walked away, respectfully. 🏃🏾♀️🚶🏾♀️
My husband did that alllll the time. Days on end wouldn't answer my calls, return my calls or respond to texts. After I left... that's when he wanted to call and text. My my my how the tables have turned 🤔
“ It’s not a loss if you learned from it.” That is what every woman needs to hear so she can start acquiring the knowledge, setting standards, and recognizing her value. Thank you Tony Gaskins for your enlightenment.
She needs to let him go completely, block his number, keep watching the videos and take the soul tie course. He’s ridiculous and doesn’t want to see you happy. Thank you and be blessed.
I am soooooooo proud of this woman for the fact that she saw her worth and said “I will absolutely never go back.” It takes a lot of strength and courage to leave a toxic situation. If it were so easy, there would be no need for relationship coaches and therapists. Great job ma’am for leaving!
Literally in tears because I keep allowing an ex to treat me like a yoyo and your vid pops up in my notifications. You are always right on time Tony. Thank you 🙏🏽
You are entirely too beautiful 💛 A man only comes back when he sees you standing still. Move on and get to such a place in your life that he couldn’t catch up if he tried. He keeps opening the door because you haven’t changed the locks. Be blessed ✨
Ladies, you know when you deserve better. If a man does not appreciate and love you......put on those track shoes and run. Thank you Tony Gaskins for all that you do to help women. NEVER GIVE A MAN YOUR MONEY!!!!
From my unfortunate experience, when there's pressure to give up your body, that's a demon looking to sap your soul. Wherher you give in or not, other forms of abuse usually follow that pressure if you stay with that man...
Wow, and I would sense that it was deeper than him just wanting to have my body. One time he even mentioned that men can place a sickness into a woman's body and it wouldn't show up til much later and even the doctors would not be able to detect it but she would know it's there. If doctors were to detect it they wouldn't know what to do with it. I thought, this man has a little too much knowledge on things like this. At first I thought it was because he was Nigerian but I'm not sure that was the only reason.
Felt this video the most, because it’s what I went through. Fast forward: wished my ex-fiancé well and then blocked him on all media. To this day, he tries to reach out and email me lol. Mate all I’ll say is, the only way a man will ever reach out to me will be by going through God. Giving Jesus the wheel and no longer wasting my time tryna love a grown boy who won’t appreciate me the first time 🤷🏽♀️
He is an abuser, they never want to lose control. He hasn't changed he just know what to say to get her to come back.She has to block him and never respond to him EVER!
Confirmation!!! Toxicity in a relationship is a non-negotiable...Toxicity will always be Blocked and Deleted, because my Peace Of Mind is the most important exercise I can do to protect my energy! Stay Blessed! 🙏🏼
He wont let u go cuz he kno deep down u the only one want him..n nobody eles really studdin his butt. Men wont let go when u the only option really..n the famous one we kno is they don't want u to move on wit a man better then them..
After a year of being put on his back burner after he broke up with me for another girl (on Valentine's day!) he insisted he still wanted me in his life and that I was his "best friend", I finally cut it off and blocked him after several attempts of disrespecting me. He always found a way back into my life but this time I'm completely done. He was never grateful for me and always loved to play in the gray area with me emotionally. I'm not going to wait around for a boy to decide when he wants to become a man, especially if I don't see any growth. Not my job. I do not have time for overly selfish grown boys. Making room and opening my heart to the man who can respect and cherish the love I have to offer.
The only thing she needs to understand is how she feels about that situation and what she wants going forward. She should leave the why to God and strengthen that block game. 😔
It's not even as deep as he won't let you go. The Demonic Ego says "Who do you think you are to Ghost him, he was supposed to Ghost you, and he would've if you let him. Don't allow him anything else. Don't be weak. You misjudged and allowed mistreatment. Never do it again.
Wow "Your virginity is the only thing you can give to 1 man and you gave it to someone who gave you...part time effort." TG It is never too late to learn. These words are for our growth, not our regrets. Be blessed 🌸
Great video and teaching ! ♥ Must-learn life lessons: 1. always know your worth. 2. always know the difference between what you're getting and what you deserve. 3. always know the difference between someone who wants you and what you have to offer and someone who values, loves and cares for you. 4. don't let anyone pressure you, manipulate you, mistreat you and take advantage of your kindness, love or trust. ♥ Thank God and Tony for giving us the knowledge and the game so we can change our lives !
I never gave my ex money but he would never let me go. Always came back time and time again smh but actually ran into yesterday and it didn't phase me like I thought it would. He stopped and approached me but I simply just kept it moving. Gave him my heart and it wasn't good enough. So there's nothing to say. Had to go! Sometimes you have to let go of the life you have planned, to accept the life that's waiting for you. Thank you Tony for your word. It's appreciated!! ☝🏾🙏🏽
Tony got me HOLLERING!!!! Only excuse 1. Coma 2. Submarine 3. Space ship 🚀 bc even a man in jail can call 😂😂😂😂😂 man I dated a man in the streets and he would always have excuses about being busy handling business. You soooooo right Tony!!!!
Our egos get a boost because we mistakenly think that he wants the same thing we want. He’s back because he has not been able to find an adequate doormat replacement. Don’t fool yourself into thinking things will be better. He has not changed is why he’s back for more supply. Run!! He keeps pursuing because she keeps listening to him.
As old as I'm, I am still learning! I am a long term relationship woman and thank God the men in my life were very respectful to me unlike that vermin I was once in love with! 🐍
Soul ties develop from sexual involvement...we are spiritual creatures..we have to denounce..repent..walk towards healing leaving the past behind not holding to the plow looking back.
Tony Gaskins...you are hilarious😂. God bless you Sis...keep your head up and learn the lesson...We all have been burned at some point like this...Put your crown back on and take back your power👑
Girl same here, but power through it. I was just in a similar situationship as described so I got all types of frustrated listening but Tony does include empowering points.
I really love your message on no sex till marriage, I talked about it on my channel a lot it’s hard at times but you get used to it and it’s the key to healthy self relationships 🙏🏾
After the manipulation, the lies, cheating caught red handed and still have nerve to deny a double life 🤦🏻♀️ AND try to still play like everything back to normal with both women 😂 🤡 it’s a dam lifetime movie 🎥 out here. 🍿 anyone?
I don’t know 🤷♀️ why most men are like that, it’s crazy and selfish. I caught him red handed he lied many times I was abele to leave twice he came back begging. And when I forgave him and got back with him, he’s doing it again and this time more serious. Yet he doesn’t want me to leave. Yet he told me I know you’re gonna leave me one day that’s why I’m looking for other alternatives.
Now LORD I ask that every woman that needs to hear this message and all messages that YOU have given Tony Gaskins to share with us, that they not only hear it but listen and gain wisdom LORD and that we as women wake up and know who we are through YOU CHRIST who strengthens us and the abundance of our self worth, in JESUS NAME AMEN.
I was once this woman giving my money to men to say I had someone. I didn’t love myself and was taking all kinds of mistreatment. But when God strengthen me, I walked away with my head high!! He kept calling trying to make it right, but I was WOKE!! I changed my number. I was so proud of myself for letting that toxicity go!! And now if I meet someone and they are not a Real man holding his own, I get lost quick!! I love me now and happy being single until.......
Tony I just love you, like a son, I’m 65 so let just add that😊. God has truly blessed you with wisdom and understanding in your profession. Sad you was not around in my day. Keep up the good work son.
This is so sad to hear!!! My heart beats for this young lady, myself and all the others that may have a hurt heart!! We have got to LOVE one another people and stop tearing each other down!! Men and Women alike... we are much better than this 🙏🏾
Who else started crying laughing when coach went underneath the desk? 😂😂 Once again great delivery for a serious subject. (And then segway into information about the ads 😂😂😂😂) Coach you need your own stand up series! *********************** (Handing MBJ cash just for being him 🤣) *FILLET MIGNON*
I agree TG, sometimes you gotta go through it to learn the game. Only thing that matters is learning from it and recognizing it right away in future. I learned.
I love Tony because he serves the Lord and tells the truth in a way that is humorous. He doesn't hold back, he is totally honest with us as women and isn't that all we ever ask??? God bless you Tony and everyone listening
Tony this video still hits until this day! Please bring these videos back cause I’m getting a lesson and crying of laughter at work all at the same time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t breathe !!! They finna kick me out the office !!!
Ohhh you got me cracking up at that 37 min mark. Plantation owner/ runaway/ Harriet Tubman. That one got me hollering this early in the morning. TG your still a poet, a humorous one, got the gift of jokes galore!
Some people hold onto you not because they want you, but because they don’t want anyone else to have you.
Yes and they do have the audacity to tell you that too! Tell you they don’t want no one else to get you🤦🏻♀️ no shame out here 😳
And sometimes it's because they got no one else who can entertain their behavior apart from you.
That's a dangerous situation to be in too.
That’s the truth!
Real!
I hear of women saying he won't let me go. It's not about him letting you go, it's about you taking control of yourself and leave. Show him he's not in control.
Amen!
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽Truths Sis
There we go!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
You better say it sista....
Aka take your power back ladies!!!
To anyone else dealing with a broken heart and crushed spirit ... we’re in this together. Jesus heal us all speedily 🙏🌈💝
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@@constanceeaton5871 I wouldn’t either sis😢
AMEN!!!
🙌🏽
Thank you!! I receive it in the name of Jesus.
Toxic is when they can't let you go...and can't treat you right either.!
This topic is made for me😩
@@lindalovehearts I feel you...I've been there
@@jayjamal685 Me too!
My man does not love me bc I am not pretty enough for him to his liking but the dumbass is still creeping around.
@@disnalee let him go!
Men know a good woman however, that doesn’t mean they deserve that good woman. Was in the same thing for 8 years. Luckily, I was able to escape and change my life. You can do it too.
Right! These be the guys saying how they want a good woman then when they find one they don't know what to do with her.
Same. Twice! 7 years and 4 years. 🤷🏼♀️
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 speak on it
On my way out ✌🏾💯
A man saying he wants a good woman is all relative. To some men, "a good woman" is someone that will lay on their back all of the time. It's important that us women are clear what a man considers what HIS definition of a good woman.
My ex was getting closer to a woman at work. Eventually I could see he wasn't really in the relationship anymore. I broke it off after 3 and a half years. He still wanted to be friends after this , but I told him no. My reason , " No, If you can't be a friend to me in the relationship then you're not going to be my friend out of it."
You hit it. Don't be a side-friend or a side-chick because they just want benefits whether it be emotional, mental, physical, spiritual or financial. Nope.
That’s right!
🗣🗣🗣🗣👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@@joycenash8271 speak facts
Same thing I said, someone who deceives you is not a friend.
My ex called me regularly and visited me, for 2 years after he broke up with me. Would cuddle me up, go on trips with me, say I love you, etc. But while I was waiting for him, he was out living his single life. Was always interested to know if I was dating anyone even though he was for sure dating around. I was always holding onto that hope with all my might but it eventually the disappointment and toxicity made me say enough is enough and cut him off. He reached out to me months later, trying to see me and acting like I was the one in the wrong for cutting him off.
Selfish people are not going to let you go as long as you benefit them so you have to find the strength to let them go. Know your worth and don't be desperate.
This is stated well young lady. 🤛🏽
@@CMALady72 Thank you ☺
Now let the church say....AMEN!
Amen, when we really wake up to these games it doesn't fly anymore
@@tjaspire yes, Tony said men are territorial.
A house built on anyone's tears will never stand... Praying many blessings and abundance over this woman's life
I’m keep this saying in my head . ❤️
So true.
Amen
Prayers are POWERFUL
It's not always "Why can't he let me go" it's Why can't "I" let go of someone that I know isn't good for me ?
I agree ... maybe the block doesn't work on her phone 😞 once an older woman told me to don't let him he a priority while I remained an option ...... never did that again ....only had to tell me ONE time
Exactly, it's easy to blame them for holding on to you but you have to take responsibility for chasing after them or standing there being their placeholder.
That part ☝️😒😩
@@jenniferthompson5146 I've definitely learned this recently. I haven't gone back in 2 months now.
He's not going anywhere if she is allowing him to treat her this way. He will be done when she is done allowing him to treat her this way.
He doesn't want to let you go because you are an ASSET
You do not know your worth, that's why you're still entertaining him. You are a valuable asset, he sees your worth. He knows that he doesn't deserve you, but he's holding on to something he should not have.
OMG "I Yield I Yield What Must I Do To Be Saved ?" He Knows Your Worth He Knows He Doesn't Deserve You.... !!! Sistah Gurl U R Giving Me LIFE RIGHT NOW !!! 😭😭😭
“He was emotionally distant because you were emotionally present.” TG
I felt that 1! Glad My lesson is learned 🙌🏾
sometimes...dont they yet chase what they could not have?
My lesson is learned
Fwf morning babe
Dude simply wasn't emotionally available to you. It's a blessing when there's an available and better person for you
"Don't ever give a man money if you want him to take you serious!." That was my mistake. Smh
Money change people.
@@disnalee you ain't lying about that.
You think you are really helping them cause I do not like to see ppl in need
@@ms.watson8098 that's a different way of putting it. My thing was trying to get them to like me more. Shoot, I was so wrong.
@@stargoldqueen5894 Me too Star. The more I gave, the more he hated me.
When a women’s fed up 💪🏾he will have to let U go cuz u won’t give him anything to hold on to💋
True, when we are done we are DONE!!!
You better let the people know 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🗣🗣🗣🗣
So true. I stopped cooking for husband, sex, cleaning (to a certain degree), including, caring and overall checked out. I'm just waiting for the lease to be up in August so I can move, just me and my son.
FACTS 💯💯💯
Yaaaassss!!!
Women should stick to their guns because men are sticking to theirs. He even has a limit and a cut-off time if he's not getting what he want so women need to stick to what they say and do the same. He values his self enough to do so.
I say this all the time. Men do don't compromise their standards or beliefs and aren't as forgiving.
Boom 💥 there you go you said it
My ex is a liar. I was basically with someone just like my father a liar so I ended things again. He will try to get back with me it’s what he does. He will cause a scene, he will probably even pretend to lose his mind but I’m done. He never changes.
"He gave you nothing but he got everything "-TG
I sent one of your videos to a guy I was dating. He called you a lame 😒. I’m finna block him🤣🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ Love your vids Tony.
But I bet he's watching Tony's videos now. 😒
@@blacksongbird100 Right SMDH 😒😂
Did the same after mine kept defending his female "friendship". Now he's an EX.😂
You just saved yourself some valuable time!!!🙌🏾
@@helenlovell8587 👍🏽
Block these toxic people
See. This is why I don't play those going M.I.A games. We were in a full committed relationship and he went 2 days without responding to text and not returning phone calls. I quickly walked away, respectfully. 🏃🏾♀️🚶🏾♀️
@@tjaspire thank you! And.. yep. That's why I walked away so fast, with no questions asked. Lol
My husband did that alllll the time. Days on end wouldn't answer my calls, return my calls or respond to texts. After I left... that's when he wanted to call and text. My my my how the tables have turned 🤔
@@redvelvet6618 wow. Smh
Just blocked a recent ex after one year. Too many chances. Everytime I came back i had less desire to be with him...destined to fail
This is how it be
“ It’s not a loss if you learned from it.” That is what every woman needs to hear so she can start acquiring the knowledge, setting standards, and recognizing her value. Thank you Tony Gaskins for your enlightenment.
She needs to let him go completely, block his number, keep watching the videos and take the soul tie course. He’s ridiculous and doesn’t want to see you happy. Thank you and be blessed.
That’s why it’s important to make a man earn your love. to the evil end. And spot allllllll the red flags. As if your life depended on it.
🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 selah
The "evil end". 🤣🤣🤣 Nope!
I am soooooooo proud of this woman for the fact that she saw her worth and said “I will absolutely never go back.” It takes a lot of strength and courage to leave a toxic situation. If it were so easy, there would be no need for relationship coaches and therapists. Great job ma’am for leaving!
Literally in tears because I keep allowing an ex to treat me like a yoyo and your vid pops up in my notifications. You are always right on time Tony. Thank you 🙏🏽
You are too beautiful and Gods special creation for any man to play with you . Blessings too you ❤️
@@beautifullymade6773 thank you ❤
Pls dear sis, you deserve so much better , leave ♥️♥️♥️
You are entirely too beautiful 💛 A man only comes back when he sees you standing still. Move on and get to such a place in your life that he couldn’t catch up if he tried. He keeps opening the door because you haven’t changed the locks. Be blessed ✨
@@Denise_Cocoa wow that "cuz you haven't changed the locks" is the whole truth. Thank you sis. I felt that 🙏🏽
Tony is the Harriet Tubman on the plantation because he knows the games. 😂😂😂. This man is hilarious 😆
Yes! 😂😭😂
😅🤣🤣😂
I’m soooooo done 😂😂😂😂 love TG!
💀🤣😭
Tony, for every hour you give us, may God give you bonus hours on earth in Jesus name.
Amen!
Amen cos its invaluable
Well said , and I'm so grateful to God that you're able to speak in our lives God bless you ,and your family .
Cause you know we the reason his hairline is thinning 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🖤🖤
I agree.
“He pressured me to have sex” is the same as “I pressured me to give him sex.”
“He won’t let me go.” is the same as “I won’t let him go. “
They don't hear you tho
@@nikkyshamz2696
If only we held ourselves to the standards we do men.
Damn factsss
I'm glad somebody gets it.
I understand what you are saying, but what about stalker's?
“He only had to give you minimal effort but he got maximum return” wow... a WORD!
Ladies, you know when you deserve better. If a man does not appreciate and love you......put on those track shoes and run. Thank you Tony Gaskins for all that you do to help women. NEVER GIVE A MAN YOUR MONEY!!!!
The problem with most of us young women is simply lack of enough knowledge. Thank you Tony. I smile now when I see a grown boy 😄
I know that's right.
Right
Y Do U Smile ?
From my unfortunate experience, when there's pressure to give up your body, that's a demon looking to sap your soul. Wherher you give in or not, other forms of abuse usually follow that pressure if you stay with that man...
Wow, and I would sense that it was deeper than him just wanting to have my body. One time he even mentioned that men can place a sickness into a woman's body and it wouldn't show up til much later and even the doctors would not be able to detect it but she would know it's there. If doctors were to detect it they wouldn't know what to do with it. I thought, this man has a little too much knowledge on things like this. At first I thought it was because he was Nigerian but I'm not sure that was the only reason.
Felt this video the most, because it’s what I went through. Fast forward: wished my ex-fiancé well and then blocked him on all media. To this day, he tries to reach out and email me lol. Mate all I’ll say is, the only way a man will ever reach out to me will be by going through God. Giving Jesus the wheel and no longer wasting my time tryna love a grown boy who won’t appreciate me the first time 🤷🏽♀️
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 that's right
Amen, a man cannot love you right if he can't love God.
“I got ta go...i got ta go...I got ta go” -> then under the table 😂🤣😂🤣
My my my 😅😅😅😅😅 Tony gives me the comic relief in need in this here life ,God bless him
I’m in tears after that 🤣
😂
I was done with Tony when he did that 😂
Facts ,but I was laughing so hard when he want down ,laughing and crying at the same time LAWD!!!!!
He is an abuser, they never want to lose control. He hasn't changed he just know what to say to get her to come back.She has to block him and never respond to him EVER!
“He gave you nothing and he got everything” 🥺 profound!!
Confirmation!!! Toxicity in a relationship is a non-negotiable...Toxicity will always be Blocked and Deleted, because my Peace Of Mind is the most important exercise I can do to protect my energy! Stay Blessed! 🙏🏼
AMEN Sis ❤️🙏‼️
AMEN I'M IN AGREETMENT WITH YOU👍💪
Yes cos these men KNOW what they are doing, get to blocking ppl, protect your sanity and life at all costs
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AMEN! HALLAJUAUH! YES INDEED! SO RIGHT!
"Now when you have found your worth and you trying to escape the plantation" 😭😭
😄 "only excuses if a man is unable to call you every day; a hospital, submarine and space station."
He better be unconscious in that hospital.
@@user-kpkxgtj 🤣
@@user-kpkxgtj ok😂🤣😭🙌
Okayyy!! 🤦🏽♀️🤣
Smh 😂😅🤣🤣🤣
My favorite part...”It also ain’t gone be that good because it’s out of wedlock, It’s in SinT” 😂💀 Tony be in his bag on these videos 😆.
Okay😅😅👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 he told no lies. Nothing like guiltless sex
"when you don't know your worth you are an asset because you do more work for less."
He wont let u go cuz he kno deep down u the only one want him..n nobody eles really studdin his butt. Men wont let go when u the only option really..n the famous one we kno is they don't want u to move on wit a man better then them..
You’re so young. He doesn’t deserve you, never did. Come to terms with that!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he went under the desk!
I'm at work sitting here laughing SO LOUD!!!
After a year of being put on his back burner after he broke up with me for another girl (on Valentine's day!) he insisted he still wanted me in his life and that I was his "best friend", I finally cut it off and blocked him after several attempts of disrespecting me. He always found a way back into my life but this time I'm completely done. He was never grateful for me and always loved to play in the gray area with me emotionally. I'm not going to wait around for a boy to decide when he wants to become a man, especially if I don't see any growth. Not my job. I do not have time for overly selfish grown boys. Making room and opening my heart to the man who can respect and cherish the love I have to offer.
Never given them money never given them shit
She was his supply.
“You got to go through the game to learn the game”...” Game recognize game”. TG. Game time quotes from the player’s playbook. Thank you Tony!
Yes INDEED! So RIGHT!
The only thing she needs to understand is how she feels about that situation and what she wants going forward. She should leave the why to God and strengthen that block game. 😔
Yes. Nailed it. 🙏🏾
This one brings back some bad memories for me but the lesson is learned
You wanna be free....follow Tony G. 🙏
I feel so bad for her. I'm in tears especially when he said he gave you nothing and you gave him everything.
I know poor thing😢 i felt terrible for her
It's not even as deep as he won't let you go. The Demonic Ego says "Who do you think you are to Ghost him, he was supposed to Ghost you, and he would've if you let him. Don't allow him anything else. Don't be weak. You misjudged and allowed mistreatment. Never do it again.
Wow "Your virginity is the only thing you can give to 1 man and you gave it to someone who gave you...part time effort." TG
It is never too late to learn. These words are for our growth, not our regrets.
Be blessed 🌸
Great video and teaching ! ♥ Must-learn life lessons: 1. always know your worth. 2. always know the difference between what you're getting and what you deserve. 3. always know the difference between someone who wants you and what you have to offer and someone who values, loves and cares for you. 4. don't let anyone pressure you, manipulate you, mistreat you and take advantage of your kindness, love or trust. ♥ Thank God and Tony for giving us the knowledge and the game so we can change our lives !
I never gave my ex money but he would never let me go. Always came back time and time again smh but actually ran into yesterday and it didn't phase me like I thought it would. He stopped and approached me but I simply just kept it moving. Gave him my heart and it wasn't good enough. So there's nothing to say. Had to go! Sometimes you have to let go of the life you have planned, to accept the life that's waiting for you. Thank you Tony for your word. It's appreciated!! ☝🏾🙏🏽
When you disappeared under the desk, I hollered 😂
Im 34 now n bad relationships made a beast out of me..
Yes mam!!!!
@@nikkif9873 speak on it 🗣🗣🗣
Tony got me HOLLERING!!!! Only excuse 1. Coma 2. Submarine 3. Space ship 🚀 bc even a man in jail can call 😂😂😂😂😂 man I dated a man in the streets and he would always have excuses about being busy handling business. You soooooo right Tony!!!!
Our egos get a boost because we mistakenly think that he wants the same thing we want. He’s back because he has not been able to find an adequate doormat replacement. Don’t fool yourself into thinking things will be better. He has not changed is why he’s back for more supply. Run!! He keeps pursuing because she keeps listening to him.
Tony tell the game so good only if I had known before I got played
As old as I'm, I am still learning! I am a long term relationship woman and thank God the men in my life were very respectful to me unlike that vermin I was once in love with! 🐍
Mr. Gaskins, when you sunk down in your chair 🪑 Hollering 😂😂🤣 ( Steve Harvey, needs to cut you a check. )
Women gotta stop getting so emotionally attached to these men and to start to move around.
Soul ties develop from sexual involvement...we are spiritual creatures..we have to denounce..repent..walk towards healing leaving the past behind not holding to the plow looking back.
Coma. Submarine. Spaceship... got it ✌🏼
Tony Gaskins...you are hilarious😂. God bless you Sis...keep your head up and learn the lesson...We all have been burned at some point like this...Put your crown back on and take back your power👑
Wow needed to hear this. What's crazy is, this was so triggering that I had to shut it off.......be back later Tony ❤
Girl same here, but power through it. I was just in a similar situationship as described so I got all types of frustrated listening but Tony does include empowering points.
Big Brother went under the desk 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 he was tiredddddttttt, bless him
He slid under the desk a d had me laughing so loud😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@nikkyshamz2696 Exactly 😂😂😂
@@TINAVTATUM Me too, when his head popped up...😂😂😂😂😂
I really love your message on no sex till marriage, I talked about it on my channel a lot it’s hard at times but you get used to it and it’s the key to healthy self relationships 🙏🏾
Lol, I’m laughing because I survived all this foolishness, just SMH.
Ditto, glory to God
After the manipulation, the lies, cheating caught red handed and still have nerve to deny a double life 🤦🏻♀️ AND try to still play like everything back to normal with both women 😂 🤡 it’s a dam lifetime movie 🎥 out here. 🍿 anyone?
Yes 100% the last lie he told me was his last lie. I ghosted him.
I don’t know 🤷♀️ why most men are like that, it’s crazy and selfish. I caught him red handed he lied many times I was abele to leave twice he came back begging. And when I forgave him and got back with him, he’s doing it again and this time more serious. Yet he doesn’t want me to leave. Yet he told me I know you’re gonna leave me one day that’s why I’m looking for other alternatives.
@@lessonlearnt5560 he's a fool. Leave him.
I can attest! The gaslighting and narcissism is absolute madness. Cut em’ off and keep it movin! 🙋🏾♀️
That part when you said “still have the nerve to deny a double life”, I felt that in my soul lol!!!! 🤣 fr
It’s late but we’re here 🙏🏾❤️
🗣 “Never give a man money!”
Now LORD I ask that every woman that needs to hear this message and all messages that YOU have given Tony Gaskins to share with us, that they not only hear it but listen and gain wisdom LORD and that we as women wake up and know who we are through YOU CHRIST who strengthens us and the abundance of our self worth, in JESUS NAME AMEN.
The best teacher ever 😄. Unforgettable illustrations ✨
Class is in session 👏🏾😁💪🏾✍🏾
I was once this woman giving my money to men to say I had someone. I didn’t love myself and was taking all kinds of mistreatment. But when God strengthen me, I walked away with my head high!! He kept calling trying to make it right, but I was WOKE!! I changed my number. I was so proud of myself for letting that toxicity go!! And now if I meet someone and they are not a Real man holding his own, I get lost quick!! I love me now and happy being single until.......
"This is what took the cake Anna Mae" lol
Crying😅
@@lindalovehearts 🤣🤣
😅😅😅
Tony I just love you, like a son, I’m 65 so let just add that😊. God has truly blessed you with wisdom and understanding in your profession. Sad you was not around in my day. Keep up the good work son.
When Tony slid out that chair!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, priceless....Preach!!
"and I had a whole hair line" 😂
This is so sad to hear!!!
My heart beats for this young lady, myself and all the others that may have a hurt heart!!
We have got to LOVE one another people and stop tearing each other down!!
Men and Women alike... we are much better than this 🙏🏾
Don't worry about him letting you go..you need to stop going.
Here for the lesson!
Who else started crying laughing when coach went underneath the desk? 😂😂 Once again great delivery for a serious subject. (And then segway into information about the ads 😂😂😂😂)
Coach you need your own stand up series!
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(Handing MBJ cash just for being him 🤣)
*FILLET MIGNON*
Meeeee!!! 😂😂😂 We got like 10 commercials to answer that question though.
😂😂😂😂😂 I almost fell out!!! HILARIOUS!
I agree TG, sometimes you gotta go through it to learn the game. Only thing that matters is learning from it and recognizing it right away in future. I learned.
“You Got to Go Through the Game To Learn The Game” ‘TG’ Facts 💯 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️and every Game I’ll Get a Little Bit Better‼️‼️
My bell must be broke. Im late, but here, whew!
I love it Mr. Gaskins! Your relationship has to have a FICO score! Yes sir!
It’s not a loss if you learned from it... and I love the credit score idea. Thanks TG!
Lmaooo not you turning this into slavery example “if you wanna be free follow me” 😭😭😭
Giiiirrrllll 🤣😭
I hollered😀😂😂🤣
💀💀💀
I hollerdttt
😂😂 Not he Harriet Tubman too.
I’m “hollering”The Petty Cash!!!🤣🤣🤣
Lmao that cracked me up too 😂😂 I’m finna be petty with this cash 😂
Tony..... On the floor and I'm HOLLERING 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Happy Friday blessed tribe🥳🙌🏿💜
I love Tony because he serves the Lord and tells the truth in a way that is humorous. He doesn't hold back, he is totally honest with us as women and isn't that all we ever ask??? God bless you Tony and everyone listening
This girl is STRONG so proud of her for not giving in.
The only excuses a man gets:
1. Coma
2. Submarine
3. Spaceship
I don’t mind the commercials!! I’ll wait, I’ll still watch you no matter what !!
Tony @30:40🤣🤣🤣🤣... it’s not funny but it’s funny. This UA-cam for 15.99 is so worth it for the wisdom and laughter. Can’t be beat.
Especially, when he starts doing his demonstration examples 🤣😂🤣😂
@@queenvic83right💀 I be over like now come on now how am I not supposed to laugh 😂
Tony this video still hits until this day! Please bring these videos back cause I’m getting a lesson and crying of laughter at work all at the same time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t breathe !!! They finna kick me out the office !!!
Ohhh you got me cracking up at that 37 min mark. Plantation owner/ runaway/ Harriet Tubman. That one got me hollering this early in the morning. TG your still a poet, a humorous one, got the gift of jokes galore!