WHEN THE SMEAR CAMPAIGN FAILS

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  • @gangGreenthumb
    @gangGreenthumb 5 годин тому +43

    I have no idea what was said in the smear campaign. I did notice that after the breakup, many people whom I once thought friends... including some family.. distanced themselves. I'm a people pleaser with high empathy, I did a lot for others, often to my own detriment. The smear campaign made me realize these people were never on my side. It made me realize that I am too trusting, too giving, too naive. While some of these losses hurt, I am glad because now I see the very few who stuck by my side, and those who did not. Some of the trash took itself out, I put others who remained in contact with the narcissist on the curb and walked away. I should thank the narcissist for waking me up. She did me a huge favor giving me sight! This was a hard lesson to learn, tho... the hardest lesson of my lifetime.

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  5 годин тому +4

      Thank you for sharing..😌😌🙏💜⛰️

    • @johncbr650re
      @johncbr650re 4 години тому +7

      In my case even ppl didn't know me started to know me I had no idea how bad the smear campaign was
      I had to change work place
      And just leave that shit behind
      Never look back
      Thankfully my health return my peace of mind and inner peace no contact forever

    • @venitagreer1404
      @venitagreer1404 15 хвилин тому +1

      I agree with you

  • @steveobaby6048
    @steveobaby6048 5 годин тому +32

    There were so many lies told about me over the years people can believe what they want to believe but I know my truth and I know that I'm a good person I have a kind heart and soul

  • @doriscasto5336
    @doriscasto5336 5 годин тому +53

    The narcissist will chew you up, spit you out, and then move on to their next meal!

  • @marieeakin8534
    @marieeakin8534 4 години тому +31

    They have to smear to hide or deflect the truth which points to them 😈
    Right Andrew, cowards & bullies!
    Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘

    • @badomaji
      @badomaji 4 години тому +6

      So true! It's a deflection to take the gaze off what they are doing.

    • @marieeakin8534
      @marieeakin8534 2 години тому +3

      @badomaji
      Yes & some can see right through them....they expose themselves with such acts.
      Pathetic & planting into their own karma!
      Have a nice evening! 👍💥
      🌈🎀😘

    • @Beth00009
      @Beth00009 2 години тому

      They do they're energetically dark Machiavellian abusers, they project their traits onto us during it, and all of our good traits (and things that make us, us they make us out to be opposite

    • @JHavaJoe2-m1z
      @JHavaJoe2-m1z 12 хвилин тому +1

      All it takes is one finger pointer, lies, false accusations and Fear will drive a crowd with a sick lust for drama and entertainment . Then begins the gathering of the mob of "Witch Burners." We do it differently to men and women in "modern times," but it's still vicious.

  • @KimGabaldon
    @KimGabaldon 5 годин тому +27

    Andrew, you were the first to ask if any 'friends & family' of me & the narc reached out before during or after the discard that destroyed so much. No one ever has. It's been terribly painful, but the realization they did nothing has saved me investing anymore care in them. And I never have to be exposed to their toxicity again. Thanks for calling out bystanders like this, and know that they made my decision to sever ties actually easier. In the long run, it's cost his bystanders sooooooo much more than they'll ever realize - physically, financially, emotionally, spiritually. Again, Andrew I can't thank you enough for the insight

  • @DesertLife4me2
    @DesertLife4me2 4 години тому +17

    Best advice ! Proof in behavior of "friends". They will ignore you. They knew about the cheating. Don't kid yourself.
    You are 💯 spot on!

  • @rodneyjarvis676
    @rodneyjarvis676 5 годин тому +28

    Karma's smear campaign is Hell

  • @janicemurphy4373
    @janicemurphy4373 44 хвилини тому +2

    Andrew, thank you 🙏!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Divinely_Guided444
    @Divinely_Guided444 5 годин тому +38

    I think the smear campaign begins long before the relationship ends. They are probably smearing your name right from the get go to their other supply, whether it be to family or friends. Underhanded comments and pretending it was just a joke or misunderstood are pretty bad, as well. Wolf in sheeps clothing is quite the understatement!

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  5 годин тому +6

      💯💯😌🙏

    • @franksimmons9242
      @franksimmons9242 5 годин тому +7

      Yes for sure as I got to know her parents I found them to be some of the most generous loving people ever, it was too late, she had already enlisted her dad and brother through negative triangulation I had enemies I didn't know I had and she was controlling the whole circus. It took 20 years to play out.

    • @Wench1888
      @Wench1888 5 годин тому +1

      Exactly. It was going on about two years before I finally got rid of him. He made a messenger group chat and in that group chat he twisted my adult children. I couldn’t quite put my finger on why they were being kind of off with me. Eventually after he was stealing money and putting it in his secret bank account I reported him to the benefits. They then closed down his claim on the grounds of financial abuse. But the biggest loss was the smearing of me turning my children against me. Three years on I can’t believe the level of cruelty against me. Birthdays and Christmas are just sad. Only my middle son stood by me. He was the one that sent me screenshots of what the narc was saying about me. So am here and he has a new supply and tried to triangulate me through a mutual friend back in June. We have been separated for over three years and the new supply was kept hidden for around a year before the failed triangulation attempt. I am now in the process of divorce and he doesn’t know it yet. Soon I will be legally free. It’s so strange why he never initiated the divorce.

    • @mss80308
      @mss80308 3 години тому +5

      Absolutely, mine was started at least 6 months prior to discard. Including fake help from flying monkeys who made the discard and parental alienation possible.

  • @Divinely_Guided444
    @Divinely_Guided444 4 години тому +14

    If my name is being smeared to someone I thought was a friend, and they don't stand up for me, or at least approach me with what was said, I don't want that "so-called" friend anywhere near me. That's a wus.. an inauthentic person, and I don't care whatever the excuse is. My self worth means too much now, for any people that just can't be real!

  • @thomasdonau5140
    @thomasdonau5140 47 хвилин тому +4

    I appreciated the "shame on you". Yes, Shame On Them!

  • @thejavandenberg4509
    @thejavandenberg4509 3 години тому +10

    To be honest my family left me when I was six months old , at the age of four I got two narccistic foster parents and that is the reason why I attracted later in in my life narccistic people , but no more , I got to learn en still do about narccisism and how to protect myself , glad I found this community and grateful for Andrew 💜🙏🐶

  • @MsBrooklyn62
    @MsBrooklyn62 Годину тому +4

    I'm used to being painted as the villain. I don't care because I will always do what I want.

  • @FernFokes-tu6vs
    @FernFokes-tu6vs 25 хвилин тому +1

    Disturbing and dishonest and a great tool discernment 🙏 Thanks Andtew.

  • @DarrenAdams-z7z
    @DarrenAdams-z7z 5 годин тому +15

    Thank you again. These videos have helped me immensely to come to terms with my marriage ending the way it is.
    Narcissists don’t realize that their house of cards is going to crumble, and when it does it’s going to be extremely harmful to them.

  • @rickdworsky6457
    @rickdworsky6457 Годину тому +2

    Disparagement is a very embarrassing and uncomfortable social 'vibe'. Some people are always putting other people down, every chance they get. But apparently that's just 'normal' behavior for a narcissist.

  • @hellomeekness
    @hellomeekness Годину тому +5

    He smeared my name, used me as his scapegoat. However, everything I exposed about him was confirmed by his own behavior. Ha!

  • @phyllistouchstone7136
    @phyllistouchstone7136 Годину тому +3

    Everything they have said about me exactly they are talking about themselves.

  • @Temp97
    @Temp97 4 години тому +10

    Just like politics… Through experiencing narcissistic abuse one of the things I learned is discernment and I also learned scripture teaches us that too… it was horrible going through it but looking back it’s just the experience I needed and I am grateful!
    For those of you in it or just getting out please know it gets better… way better dont give up ❣️💡❣️

  • @teagunn
    @teagunn 4 години тому +8

    Boom! And suddenly it all makes sense!!! Thank you!! ❤

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 4 години тому +10

    Yes narcissistic Family,i got used to it all through my childhood,,and has continued.,,until i blocked them all,,they hated my Truths,,and still do,,,the truth burns them,,t.y.Andrew💜🦋💎stay strong and live in your Truths,,💜💜💜💜💜🙏

  • @manniebonafide752
    @manniebonafide752 44 хвилини тому +2

    💯

  • @ericjane747
    @ericjane747 3 години тому +7

    As kids in the 1950s we were taught to recite " Sticks and stones will break my bones but names will never hurt me. Call me this and call me that and call yourself a DIRTY RAT!". Great message and advice Andrew. You are an incredible guiding light for humanity. Got quite a tickle about the Shout Out of SHAME pointed towards the Flying Monkeys and the spineless.

    • @kimsteed9401
      @kimsteed9401 3 години тому +1

      Sticks and stones can break your bones, but words can break your heart.

    • @kathleencondit1660
      @kathleencondit1660 3 години тому +2

      Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words will never hurt me.... That actually went through my head when the flying monkeys were active. What amazed me was that older people could behave that way, especially when I know full well that they were raised better. I also kept imagining washing out their mouths with a bar of soap. I looked at the whole group as being very juvenile. Child of the 1950's, thank goodness. It made me rather tough in showing no reaction when it came to the name calling.

  • @nvbccjarmst
    @nvbccjarmst 4 години тому +9

    I am so sorry what you had to go through. I have no words to express it. Take care and we all here care about you very much. 💗

  • @mysticallymary
    @mysticallymary Годину тому +2

    God Bless You Andrew!!

  • @wendynash2587
    @wendynash2587 3 години тому +8

    How do you defend yourself from something that didn't happen??? It's impossible. The narcissist told everyone that I cheated and when I was pregnant it wasn't his. I was just gob-smacked. I wonder if people look at me and think I actually did that. I would never do that - 5 years divorced and I'm still scared to even date. Single. I would NEVER do that when I was married, no matter how bad the marriage was. I moved away - and the smear is over, no fear of that anymore, but it's lonely without my friends and family.

  • @dianepinkyharman1346
    @dianepinkyharman1346 4 години тому +9

    You are exactly right. That was my mother and sister. I was the scapegoat. I am taking care of the smear campaign. I still care about people, however, no longer an empath or a people pleaser.

  • @Resilience13
    @Resilience13 Годину тому +3

    Don't chase lies, if you do you are chasing death. Boundaries up Family❤💪🏾💪🏾

  • @johncbr650re
    @johncbr650re 4 години тому +9

    I was surprised how she smear my name
    Even ppl that didn't know me started to know me !
    I had to change numbers emails and work place
    These creatures wants reaction don't do it
    Set boundaries and heal you must heal
    Become they're parasite they work on your weak point go no contact and set yourself free
    Heal your childhood wounds heal everything
    And be better version of yourself
    Take your time don't rush it's long way but worth it you will be stronger and wiser and it's like you're wearing a shield after you heal
    And listen to this man and never go back no matter what

  • @ERElena8856
    @ERElena8856 3 години тому +5

    The narcissist thrives on attention. If you defend yourself the narcissist will know this bothers you and will continue to spread the lies to get under your skin.

  • @Faith-gr8ig
    @Faith-gr8ig 4 години тому +8

    Knowledge Is Power
    Keep Shining A Light
    Enough Is Enough
    Stand For Something
    Or Fall For Anything
    Stand In Your Integrity
    Your Truth Will Set You Free
    😔 🙏 ♥ XX ⚖ 1010 🌟 🕯 🌹 🔹 ☯ 🕊

  • @TheTarotDJ333
    @TheTarotDJ333 4 години тому +8

    That was the most rightous "SHAME ON YOU!", HECK YEAH! Great pep talk, Andrew!✨️🌟

  • @bizinsky
    @bizinsky 5 годин тому +11

    If you can try being the person who doesn’t allow gossip and drama. Anyone who retaliates was never someone you wanted around anyways. Harmony is the goal.

  • @Isildurrrrp
    @Isildurrrrp 5 годин тому +6

    Growing up I thought it was normal to judge every single person by their faults.
    Now I enjoy the diverse talents of others, hope the best for their faults, worry more about fixing my own faults and have a general peace about relationships. Their false self is one big smear campaign and it must be sad to not see the talents in others.

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 4 години тому +9

    My son is going through this ,,,hes sucessful but has many Haters,,Spiritual attacts flying at him,,💜💜💜🙏🙏

    • @badomaji
      @badomaji 4 години тому +4

      Seems there is an epidemic of envy. They look at what someone else has accomplished and think they were born with something they didn't get. No one is born knowing how to tie their shoes - they don't want to go through what it takes - it would derail them from sharpening their skills of deception.

    • @Martin-rh7mf
      @Martin-rh7mf 2 години тому +1

      Oh Flowerpower 🌸🌻 I hope he can rise above them 😇
      I'm glad he's doing well, & his good shall prevail 🙏🏽
      I always like seeing your comments 😊
      There's an Emily & Holly who occasionally appear here ~ hopefully, the three of you are well. Andrew is so reliable 👏🏽
      Am watching him every night here. Things are a bit up & down here, but am okay. Later, I go for a long swim 🏊🏽‍♂️ therapy in the pool 🐬
      Hope the rest of your week is peaceful 🌳

  • @glendaanderson1119
    @glendaanderson1119 3 години тому +6

    Karma knows all addresses, no one walks free...🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 50 хвилин тому +2

    praise God...namaste❤💯

  • @malcolmwaddilove1822
    @malcolmwaddilove1822 3 години тому +6

    Very good Andrew! I'm going through the smear campaign X3 months, it hurts,but becoming like water off a ducks back!!!

    • @jbuntine1255
      @jbuntine1255 3 години тому +1

      Keep strong.
      You have too.

  • @alysiahite7086
    @alysiahite7086 3 години тому +5

    The Narcissist really are hilarious in their attempts to smear me. My grown children never believed him. He is getting God's karma. I live a stoic dont care what he says because it no longer affects me. 😂 love your videos, Andrew. You are so point on.😍🤗

  • @louiseedwards9589
    @louiseedwards9589 4 години тому +4

    Thank you Andrew.

  • @RachelH.B
    @RachelH.B Годину тому +1

    Your intensity scared me yesterday, but thank you for beating up the bullies on our behalf.🥊

  • @tutubalogun484
    @tutubalogun484 4 години тому +12

    I currently have two smear campaigns that had done a number on me because I had to stay quiet... 😢 But I'm dealing with both now (I have to its affected my entire life and I've been at a standstill for a long while until now, it's been enough time and I have evidence galore! 🎈

    • @janetromey7522
      @janetromey7522 2 години тому +2

      Me too. The last 2 finished Me off .
      I'm here. Jesus is my only source! Waiting on him. I must he pretty Shiney, the narcs keep coming. I can see the cracks in people now early. Trust your gut! 😊

    • @tutubalogun484
      @tutubalogun484 2 години тому

      @@janetromey7522 I'm trusting Jesus too. And yes, he told me to speak up! Tell the truth and shame the devil! But my story is wild!😔

    • @tutubalogun484
      @tutubalogun484 2 години тому

      @@janetromey7522 stay strong Jane! We are the brilliance of the world, we deserve to feel brilliant bright energies as we share ours with others. 🎈🙏🏿

    • @tutubalogun484
      @tutubalogun484 39 хвилин тому

      ​@@janetromey7522I replied but Yt didn't upload! Thank you and stay strong Jane... We are bright lights and deserve to shine! I'm trusting only Jesus 🙏🏿

  • @jeanettecook1088
    @jeanettecook1088 2 години тому +2

    This one was just chock full of content... wow, you do a lot of work on these. Thank you for your efforts... I've been no contact for 35+ years. Greatest way to live. 🎉

  • @ERElena8856
    @ERElena8856 4 години тому +6

    Be classy, wear your best outfit , look and sound great and if anyone asks you respond “ I don’t discuss my personal life”.
    There is a reason lawyers always tell their clients “ respond with no comment “.
    You should always look and act better than the narcissist.

  • @SD-rm5ty
    @SD-rm5ty 40 хвилин тому +1

    I know they will get theirs too, keep playing with fire 🔥 and see what happens.

  • @tinarustman8832
    @tinarustman8832 3 години тому +5

    I was friends with the narc’s current supply a long time before she met him and I know he’s spread lots of lies about me. When I would be out walking and she would see me, she’d either walk by me really fast or avoid me completely. It’s a very sad situation. Her family doesn’t like him but can’t really say anything about it. She’s a recent widow with lots of resources which I know he zeroed in on her.
    He also tried the smear campaign to other friends of mine in my neighborhood. Thank goodness these people didn’t believe what he was saying because they’ve known me longer than him.

  • @ruebenbrown2409
    @ruebenbrown2409 4 години тому +7

    Thanks for good posting. It's a collective of mental illness and exploitive cruelty.

  • @Dream_suburb
    @Dream_suburb 5 годин тому +8

    All sooooo true 💁‍♀️

  • @jennifernewton4637
    @jennifernewton4637 5 годин тому +19

    Hey Andrew and friends!!! 🙌❤️💜❤️💜

  • @tanyaprendeville9425
    @tanyaprendeville9425 4 години тому +5

    Love you Andrew!

    • @juttalarosa4944
      @juttalarosa4944 3 години тому

      Love Andrew more! Lol!
      Seriously so happy I found him several years ago! Where would I be now without his brilliant teaching full of wisdom and love! Thanks from the bottom of my heart.
      Greetings from Germany ❤

  • @41yazz
    @41yazz 4 години тому +6

    Andrew you are god sent to me❤ Helping people get through the nac aftermath healing your work is amazing keep up the good work👍

    • @juttalarosa4944
      @juttalarosa4944 3 години тому

      Absolutely!!!! Thanks from the bottom of my heart! ❤

  • @GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp
    @GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp 2 години тому +2

    Thank you Andrew for this information about Smith campaigns now I know more about it

  • @Sevenfold7777
    @Sevenfold7777 5 годин тому +10

    Amen 🙌🙏✝️🐑

  • @roslyncerro1263
    @roslyncerro1263 3 години тому +4

    I am praying for comfort throughout each day for my ex because he is my two children's Dad. Ex hasn't spoken to me in 15+ years. It is working for me. Thank you Andrew and gang.❣️

    • @emilywilson7308
      @emilywilson7308 56 хвилин тому

      You have a big heart, Roslyn❤

    • @roslyncerro1263
      @roslyncerro1263 42 хвилини тому

      ​@@emilywilson7308 Thank you for understanding. I experienced three NDE's ten year's ago I am grateful I can be here for my two adult children.❣️

  • @DENISEASTUNO-ow1qz
    @DENISEASTUNO-ow1qz 2 години тому +2

    ❤Thank you Andrew ❤❤❤❤❤🍂🍁👻🎃🦋🍁🍁🙏🙏

  • @louiseedwards9589
    @louiseedwards9589 4 години тому +6

    I gone no contact now and im getting stronger. Stop giving it life. Don’t fan the flames. He has destroyed me but I’m stronger than him.

    • @Glyn-r
      @Glyn-r Годину тому

      He failed to destroy you because of your strength of character and because you realised how weak minded they really are. Well done 🙏

  • @hannastrack4310
    @hannastrack4310 2 години тому +2

    so true

  • @marywratten416
    @marywratten416 4 години тому +5

    He keeps on trying to smear me every day

    • @mss80308
      @mss80308 4 години тому +1

      It’s very common for them to stalk you online. I deleted all my social media and started over. It’s worth it.

    • @ThePerfectHaven
      @ThePerfectHaven 3 години тому

      Same even though my ex husband’s been with his affair for almost ten years. She’s never met me yet also smears my name 🤬

  • @risky1
    @risky1 4 години тому +3

    You put some "essence" in this one Andrew. You are passionate about it and it shows. And yes.... She smeared my good name.
    It will come back around on her. I hope sooner rather than later.
    And i don't have to lift a finger.

  • @marypalmer1062
    @marypalmer1062 39 хвилин тому +1

  • @lizzi151uk5
    @lizzi151uk5 5 годин тому +5

    Thanks

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  5 годин тому +1

      Welcome..🙏💜😌

    • @lizzi151uk5
      @lizzi151uk5 3 години тому

      @@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone sounds like you are borrowing my story to the tee. Hopefully it does everyone some good 👍

  • @marywratten416
    @marywratten416 4 години тому +4

    This has been going on for a while. The police called today and I'm so tired of all this

  • @marypatterson8053
    @marypatterson8053 3 години тому +9

    Narcs ignore God, the Bible and His commandments. Have nothing to do with these people.
    Thank you for your strength Andrew, and your Good Work.

  • @Violet-jp7cd
    @Violet-jp7cd 5 годин тому +6

    Go Andrew I changed my whole home I can’t move I know I want too tho I sold every thing in it nearly and replaced it I will move when things r sorted x

  • @anneyoung2310
    @anneyoung2310 2 години тому +1

    I can count on you for a dose of reality. It's painfully true, real and a forewarning about dealing with narcs. in the future. Thank you, Andrew, for shaking and waking those of us who cannot believe what happened, and may be in shock the rest of our lives.
    BTW, I relocated twice-another city, then another state, and the narc. was still running their trafficking campaign. Who does this, but a very mentally ill psyco?

  • @marypalmer1062
    @marypalmer1062 37 хвилин тому +1

    never stop

  • @GoldFeather123
    @GoldFeather123 5 годин тому +5

    The Narc I was with did infact try this because we ran a business together for the 7 yrs. I built my own relationships with many and 6 months out I have heard some of the lies he told about me. They can't believe that he was this way. Fortunately for me NONE of them (women) believed what he said and they don't hear anything from him anymore. He is nowhere to be found...Go figure 😊

  • @elizabethtowers3321
    @elizabethtowers3321 5 годин тому +4

    Oh yea, the smear campaign. OMG. Hugs and namaste

  • @collegegirl201418
    @collegegirl201418 5 годин тому +4

    awesome video keep up the preaching andrew you are doing great work 😂❤love you handsome have a blessed night 🤩🤪

  • @mariefrancebourget1749
    @mariefrancebourget1749 5 годин тому +18

    Hi Andrew, just wanna say that in my case all the narcs i had in my life who ran a smear campaign against me, well they all succeeded. They made my life hell and got most people to believe their crap. I am hoping that one day i will see them fail at it because they are doing the same thing to others too. Have a beautiful evening Andrew ☺️🫶💜🙏

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  5 годин тому +4

      Thank you for sharing..😌😌💜🙏⛰️

    • @tigereye508
      @tigereye508 4 години тому +5

      @ mariefrance
      Same story. The depth of betrayal grew from family to neighbors. He even plagerized his brothers cancer illness story to manipulate his way into... 🛌
      He is now smaller than a speck of dust in my mind. I am no longer a people pleaser.
      I wish this for you
      Marie, that you can
      have peace.🫶

    • @mariefrancebourget1749
      @mariefrancebourget1749 2 години тому +1

      @@tigereye508 thank you. You are so kind 😘 i wish you all the best in your life. 💞🙌🙏

    • @emilywilson7308
      @emilywilson7308 46 хвилин тому +1

      Oh Marie, I'm so sorry that happened.😢 You seem very strong.

  • @hollylorn131
    @hollylorn131 3 години тому +2

    Thanks for the education of what to do if a narcissist starts a smear campaign -take the high road and not react because what the narc says isn't true. I will take this advice. Namaste 🙏❤️🌻🌷

  • @ARKT2116
    @ARKT2116 2 години тому

    💛💛

  • @marypalmer1062
    @marypalmer1062 40 хвилин тому

    You have to pick up the fragmented pieces and turn them into a work of art. Thats what came from my am meditation today

  • @JacK-qn4zh
    @JacK-qn4zh 29 хвилин тому

    The people you met under the may-tree ark queen ...who already set the ugly so they disliked you from the start. After knowing them for a few years and you just left...understand but , don't wanna be you! The will....at some point, be you!

  • @marypalmer1062
    @marypalmer1062 21 хвилина тому +2

    ,,,and I'll be in Scotlad before ye

  • @TanjaT-od4nw
    @TanjaT-od4nw 3 години тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @marypalmer1062
    @marypalmer1062 22 хвилини тому +1

    we could either take the high energy road or the low energy road, I think

  • @leef8063
    @leef8063 4 години тому +2

    Andrew I've been following you since you left Costa Rica. You were a mess. I was a mess too. Okay anyway I think it was Costa Rica but that's not the point here. You must be a very intelligent guy, forward thinking and reverse thinking. And I appreciate that because you have helped me in my life. There are others online that have helped me also but when you put it all together you understand exactly what's going on.
    My mother picked me to be the executor of her will over two older sisters. Just as you say in this video is because no matter how horrible she was to everyone she knew I would come through for her. And that put a target on my back. And I'm only learning about this now because I learned about narcissism. I'm not happy that I've learned about narcissism because that's taken away a lot from my life about loving people. But Andrew, as you and I are about the same age, I realize that going forward I am only going to make sure that I am happy and if I make other people happy that's great. I'm not going to go out of my way to make other people happy that hurt me. What I'm saying here is not selfish, it's self You're doing-preservation. Thanks for all your help in keeping up the great work.

  • @sanchinchong
    @sanchinchong 5 годин тому +6

    There were red flags but i was so stupid i simply was love blinded i. Was needing company i guess

    • @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone
      @NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone  5 годин тому

      😌😌💜

    • @kimsteed9401
      @kimsteed9401 5 годин тому +1

      Same with me. I thought I had chosen wisely. I can see every red flag in hindsight, too numerous to count. 💖✨

    • @sanchinchong
      @sanchinchong 5 годин тому +2

      Thank you so much! Whoever you are i love you! Thank you so much, i tough i was alone and losing my mind its been decades being deceived and trapped into doing stuff i shouldnt say or do, so blind so stupid, thank you thank you

  • @Coolingfin
    @Coolingfin 4 години тому +1

    Really? I would like to see it fail, but......

  • @zoilavalezmoro-zr3rx
    @zoilavalezmoro-zr3rx 3 години тому +1

    I didn't understand the last part.

    • @emilywilson7308
      @emilywilson7308 45 хвилин тому

      He was talking fast! I would rewatch it.

  • @marywratten416
    @marywratten416 4 години тому

    He is writing messages on my Facebook. Tumors

  • @teresacastanedacastaneda6555
    @teresacastanedacastaneda6555 2 години тому +1