A DEMONIC GAME A NARCISSIST PLAYS - The Blame Game by RC BLAKES
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- A Demonic Game A Narcissist Plays-The BLAME Game by RC BLAKES
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The last time my ex called me I told him that I couldn't talk that I was at a funeral. When he asked me who died. I said my feelings for you. And I hung up.
🤣🤣🤣
Ayyyyeeeee 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Well said. 😅🤣😂
Yes buried ex husband six feet under in the bottom of the earth while he's still alive..
Thier souls are casted in helll.
Until you've actually LIVED with Or EXPERIENCED one of these monsters up close and personal you won't EVER fully "get it"
Very true. You cannot talk about what you dealt with anyone because they look at you like you're crazy.
You are so right. I find its best not to try to explain to family and friends so I pray and focus on myself.
You sooooo right.DEMONIC TO THE FULLEST.
Exactly
No one will understand. They say just leave, I wouldn't put up with it, you're making excuses. But they don't know the half of it.
Being in a relationship with a narc is like living through a real life psychological thriller.
And at times a horror film
Definitely a horror film, waiting for it to be over
Trying to figure out when did you accept the invite or sign up for this. Who is this?!
no, it's like being in a real life horror movie
More like a horror story 🤔
Even when they get caught they never accept accountability. Lying is their strongest suit!
Never accepts accountability NEVER NEVER
Yep
When the devil can’t get to you... he sends a narcissist🙅🏽♀️
TRUE
I seen this last night stg
@ shug_no_ avery
Someone said it and I totally agree!
The Narc has the resemblance of the devil.
The Marro exactly
@ shug_no_ avery
We need to be alert. These Narcs are masters of deception 🙅🏽♀️
Listen closely to what a narcissist accuses you of, it's the closest thing to a confession you will ever get.
Man you are amazing at the points you state. The facts that maybe due to this being fresh to me its not been a full year since he abandoned me but of course not without the good old fashioned smear campaign and delusional as all get out telling he saw me get in cars with people that didn't exist and, oh that fool probably had like 970000 other supplies anyways i know for those of us who have, unfortunately experienced the tragedy of these animals, when we or I tell someone my ex they ask , oh how long ago I state 8 months been broken up its the same response, dang that was a long time ago haha um..first off we were together almost a decade, but mostly when abused by a narc healing process VERYYY DIFFERENT so i just dont bother.
@@TingleVerseASMR452 Its not just healing from the lies, abuse, betrayal, and abandonment. They took us away from ourselves and over time made us someone who was so used to pain that we don't feel normal anymore without pain. There is one plus side to going through this... when we find ourselves and our self worth again. We become stronger then ever. God bless you honey. I don't know you but know I love you. /hugs
@JamiWeeks awe man I love you too! When we go thru hell like this type of experience..and fight thru it no matter where you are in the world and have experienced this kind of atrocious pain, breakage, and everything that made us awesome and unique and light houses, if you will , has been sucked out of us and like pastor RC BLAKES who is spot on like so spot on which blows my mind and makes me.so happy he does I feel it's the holy spirit and God leading him etc but normally only tbr narc knows the game as well lol...but we are like our own sort of family and community because I tried to tell my fam sometimes and everything I read abt what a narc will do and smear u to ut fam? They'll make it look like all ur fault becuz to outsiders if you will ppl ask the same frustrating questions! Why don't you juzt leave? ( I want to I am silently screaming 😱 loud and need someone to love me and believe me etc.) Or they're just I guess to be kind ignorant to what's going on and I guess fot that I'm happy for I don't wish this pain on NOOO ONE. But it does leave us utterly alone..however I learned that sometime a big reason we even fall for toxic narcs is also something broken inside of us so thats how God sort of kills two birds with one stone. Sorry for the analogy lol but he uses that sickness in us attracted the devil lol..who then opens up more broken places and new junk etc exposes both us and tbe narc so we leave and get healthy (hopefully) and not waste anymore time with someone who will kill us for reals I was so skinny omg bones and literally not well and then my GOD MY HERO THR LORD JESUS VIOLENTLY SHOWED MY EX TRUE DEMONIC COLORS AND SHOWED ME JUSY A LOT IN ME THAT WAS DYING , HIS SICK AGENDA my ex and his WIFE hahahah wife anyways not here look back but God is so precious GLORIOUS STRONG AND MIGHTY AND FR THR FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE I FELT THE LOVE OF GOD THRU HIM CUTTINV THE STRINGS FROM ME AND MY EVIL PUPPETEER ONLY ONE WHO COULD AND I. Became stronger smarter a thousand times closer to the Lord finally allowed him to break me and remake me and it hurt like a son of a gun on me to tell you what but I'm so grateful and I thank you for I feel that those of us who have been abused like this are our own family because sometimes there's families in mine was very close to do away with us cuz they think that were just stupid heads saying something only know better and should get out and my touch's not reality that's not for me anyway that was not what was happening it's a sick mental psychosis crap at the Double it's hard to explain to just anybody but thank you for saying what you said it helps me to feel not so alone I think anybody I don't feel alone all the time anymore but I just want to know when I'm going to stop thinking about him everyday you know it's not like it used to be at all thank you Jesus I just think the healing just takes a lot longer for this is not any type of normal relationship God bless to anyone going through this just going through this or trying to get out and Miss Jami idk where you are in the world' im.in az haha but WERE FAMILY NOW
@@TingleVerseASMR452 I have a hard time with not thinking about him myself. It does get better. Just keep swimming. Keep praying and keep this king God for your freedom. The chain is broken. God is so good. And yes we family girl. Family through Christ and pain.
@@jamiweeks5775 man you said something so beautiful and deep. Family thru Christ and pain! Wow I want to start a blog or something I know there are many for this topic but the lord also told me.to write a book..and that's in the works but todY is so hard for me this day last year another new year's eve that I was having anxiety abt for I out if 10 years neber once got to have him ans yes if course id get all crazy like why not wth is going on and alwus same answer gonna be with my kids so of course in all why canf we all be together duh when you're blinded by a narc it's like a spell but anyways this time last year as we died our relationship his wife showed up at my house and I almost passed out cuz she come banging onnmu door as I would have if tables turned but I open mh door and she is like 4 ft 9 haha tiny im only 5 2 and she fell into mu arms weeping I was weeping cux she saw him on mh couch where he was everyday and I know tbe pain she felt and I didn't mean to cause it I DIDNT KNOW I SWEAR CUZ I. BEEN THERE I DONT DO THAT and ny whole world crashed she collected herself and she wasn't mad at me and we like in tnaf moment wer together against him for we jjsy found out abt each there and I'll never forget I am telling me to hold her in to console her can you believe that the. She released a ton of HEAVY ARTILLERY WOWOWOW SHS GOT PREGNANT HAD miscarriage just my mouth kn fbe floor and it all made sense in tbag moment and when that happened I was no longer able to be controls and of course he told me she was lying and beg me he worked it out with her first in my house I left my own house then he came back at like 3 in the morning as usual try to tell me a bunch of lies and that's when I didn't in right away because I was in love with him I didn't know what to do I didn't know who to believe but that's when his mask started to fall off and then it fell off hard and thn all hell broke loose and blah blah so today I didn't think would hurt so dang bad biy I woke myself up out of sleep crying haha however I know God saved me and I know he changed me I let him break me to heal properly so thank-you for being there and im here for you as well happy new years love ya
They never accept responsibility for anything that they do is wrong. It’s always someone else’s fault.
My ex husband keeps telling me that it was not him .. it was not him who did all the vile things to me... it was a monster !
I have a pastor who is a narsacist don't know what to think
I could really get help on this please
Never EVER!
Yep
OMG!!! I just recently called off my wedding in June of this year 2021 with a narcissist. I thank God for discernment🙌🏾I can’t stop praising Him🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank God 🙌🏽 …
run as far as you can , he will not rest until he destroys you . I been there
Very lucky for you
You did the RIGHT thing too!! Thank GOD!!
Close call!!! Wow!
A Narcisist can make you second guess yourself into thinking maybe you are the narcisist who is just not self aware.
Yes it is I definitely started question myself
Very true
Facts 🙌🙌🙌
So true. Done that many times.
Yes, and they make you so frustrated that your only teenage child tries to convince you that you are the narcissist. But the father is oh so good because he allows the child to do whatever. No emotional involvement. Warfare. Spiritual warfare.
When they ghost you please know they are also laid up with or entertaining someone else while you are left trying to figure out the total chaos!
Yup. My son’s father ghosted me for 6 weeks while I was pregnant. Had the nerve to come back talking about some woman wanted to be his girlfriend but he was cautious and told her no because he wasn’t sure if he and I would get back together. Can you believe the arrogance? I didn’t ever get back with him and before I left the house for good I ended up walking in on him and the new supply in bed. I had my sleeping baby in my arms, I turned around and never went back.
u think u know about mind games hope u know about these narc women
@@sweetkelllz you make me so happy that you were strong enough with or without a baby to walk away from that sick bastard. Stay NO CONTACT. God will take care of you.
Facts
@Lovieto this is so true. OMG!
They deserve an Academy Award for their story telling and acting!
🎉I swear !!!
And don’t let them be a physically attractive individual cause folks believe anything that comes out their mouth
You must talking about David aka Aileak Walden!
💯💯💯
Yes great performers indeed
A narcissist is an enemy in my eyes I don’t see it any other way. A lot of time us as women don’t feel this but it’s true the person you share a bed with could truly dislike or damn near hate you and you don’t even know it. Your man or your woman could become your enemy. I have experienced this.
I can see where men of this catastrophic character contaminate the dating pool. Dating is more difficult than any calculus and physicics course I have ever taken. Pastor you are the angel of mercy God has sent to warn the vulnerable as a cautionary tail. God bless you.
I slept with my enemy for 8 years. One day he just left. It was so traumatizing. I was blamed for everything he did including the cheating.
💯 I was with someone for almost a year, before that, I knew him (thought I knew him) for 5 years, we've had heart to heart conversations and he opened up about how he couldn't control his thinking but he was trying and I did see that. but after that he was accusing me of so many things and created the most outlandish scenerios (he could of taken that energy and wrote novels)
within that time I received back to back dreams of him choking me. I was like yea I'm definitely out.
ending peacefully with him wasn't easy, he became more vicious and blew up my phone with no lie 100+ calls and multiple messages trying to sound scary. I stood my ground though and after that I went silent. he wanted me dead anyway so I went ghost 👻🤍
@@theloveleeone 🙌🏾🙏
It's literally sharing your bed with a demon. 🤮
They play chess with the Emotions of their victims. Every move they make is Calculated!
I am seeing it now. Calculation from the inception of the relationship
They Will loose even the greatest chess players get a checkmate!
Not every, I feel like that gives them too much credit... some of them are so demented they can't even control their evil
Oh yes years in advance oh yes yes yes years in advance and then they like to rub it in your face and tell you what their evil plan was and then tell everybody else what a victim they are insane absolutely insane they will plan years in advance
@@Escobaz96 agreed.. I had to say agreed I told one they would need to medicate you so severely that you would surely OD
Celibacy has been a Tremendous Healing to my SOUL.
Lol
Amen!!! That's where I'm at currently.
Is celibacy using adult toys instead😳🤷🤦
No toys for me. I've never purchased any never used any and I'll be 40 in January.
@@indiahindiah7295 Lol masturbation is a step in the right direction (but we're not supposed to even be doing that).
When the narcissist comes back they traumatize you even more! The stress level is overwhelmingly strong! They never let you go!
I was with a narcissist for almost 8 years. Worst relationship ever. Towards the end I literally prayed and begged God with tears in my eyes to remove him. If he was never gonna change, to move him out of my life. He left my two weeks later and I'm finally at peace and beyond happier. I thank God for removing him out of my life.
You got lucky...Congrats, seriously, have a blessed life...
Good for you and how are you now?i did the same after 16 months Dating and God did it in 2 days for me😊
@@user-jf7dn1ff4j I'm good 😊 I lost weight, and feel so much happier and at peace!
@@rachelf2401 I’m reading your comment and beyond happy for you ❤ I’m in the same predicament
Yes its a demonisch evil, spirit in them, on clean spirit s the sell him or her soul by the Devil satan is a liar Father of all lies. People need too repent today don t wait for tommorow before its to late.
I just blocked the guy I had an almost 2 year situationship with the other day. I can't play his game anymore, watching myself block so many blessings because of my addiction to him and our toxic, codependent relationship. He is such a charmer but an even more skilled manipulator. Touch and agree with me that I won't repeat anything with him. My mind told me there's no one like him but shoot I'm going to just do without the little things. I don't want to ever feel the way he always made me feel on the silent days. LORD, guard me and let me only progress forward and evolve. I forgive him, but God, kill and demolish this demonic soultie, in Jesus' Mighty Name. Amen. 🙏🏾 I am free. 🕊
Amen
hi! i noticed that my blessings were being passed to him! thats when i started to realize i was being used.
You sound like me. I'm feeling like I'm going crazy in the mind. Thus is pure evil.
@@pricillageorge5028 I was there 7 months ago if you need someone to talk to I’m here for you I had no one to turn to but you don’t have to go through this alone ...
@@narc699 mine was even takin credit for everything while jokingly devaluing me
No more. I will have to do without the lil things too...the good that was there...the pleasantries....BUT I trade it TO HAVE ME BACK✌🏾
What they accuse you of, is what they are ACTUALLY doing right now. 😔
💯
Nailed it!
Yes so true!!
Yes I started to understand that, he accused me of everything he was doing to me including cheating
Thank you 👌
So many people need to hear this.....being with a narcissist causes soul damage and can take so much out of your soul. Thank you for your service to educate us! God bless you!
The only thing he couldn't take out of me is the God in me he sure as hell tried his best
Joy is a beautiful name the Joy of the Lord is our strength. Love won at CALVARY
Yes is definitely dose had me believing it was me buttttt God thank you Jesus
So true
God Is With You ! He Is So So So Good ! But they Pop Back Up ! And When God Deal with Them ! Stay Out Of It ! Go To Italy To Live ! But Stay Away! Live In The Peace Of God ! Because you are uncovering a whole lot’s of people. That live raggedy live’s. Mad 😡 Because you won’t participate in there’s craziness ! Thank You!
Basically when they come back and offer to “move forward with you” they are asking for another chance to abuse further… 😢
Can we stop calling them Narcissist and start calling them Demons? It puts things in better perspective that way
But they themselves are not demons. They are hurting people with demons in them.
@@hayleyyardley3408 JINN-tiled (Gen-tiles)...”demons in flesh”!
Exactly! A demon is A demon" no need to sugar coat it
@@hillbillyheadcam1729 Why Not!
Narcissism is the medical term. Demonic spirit is the spiritual term.
Extremely unhealthy to be around a narcissist. They are very manipulative!
Yes
Yep...so I'm not around/contact them ANYMORE
Very manipulative!!
Evil is a better word
And they act like they don’t know what manipulation is
MARCH 22, 2022. This happened to me in 2014. I have not recovered. Now l understand why. I’m searching for closure; that will never come. WOW, 6,000 comments here. I’ve been reading them for an hour, and these comments are the same thoughts going through my head for the last 8 years. We are all hurting in almost the exact same way. JESUS, reach down and heal all 6,000 of us! Thank you, pastor. 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
Thank U muchly lovely soul 💯💜🌸☮️🇦🇺😁 n blessings from Oz 2U n Urs ALWAYS xox Namaste 💌💯🙏🐻🙌❣️
Closure is knowing you have been rescued by the Most High. Now it is time to love yourself first. Blessings
❤
I spent 7 years with a narcissistic pervert, thank God this relationship ended. We have two young boys together, please keep them in prayer as narcissists also manipulate their own children. They have no empathy.
😭sad
I pray my son doesn't grow up to be manipulated.
May God continue to bless you and your family 💝 in all you do 🙏🏾. Let your truths set you free, protect your kids the b st way you know how. Don't look back 🎉
After the narcissist has "reversed" things and gotten the other person upset, they will sometimes 'act' like they don't know why that person is upset and try to make them think that they got their own self "worked up" like THEY had nothing to do with creating the drama in the first place. In other words, trying to make the other person believe that THEIR reaction is "overboard" and unnecessary. And the narcissist will sit back as cool as a cucumber and "smirk" because he's accomplished his goal of getting the spotlight off of what he's done and now the focus is on the other person's "erratic" emotions instead of the situation the narcissist stirred up in the first place. Narcissist think they are smarter than everyone else.
They need to meet our Dads! Something interesting my ex narc said to me once was your mom probably wouldn’t have liked me and I said she gave everyone a fair chance, the narcs tell on themselves in subtle ways.These are the things we can easily miss. I was on antidepressants and anti anxiety medication while I was with mine because I was so f’d up in the head. I’m finally getting over the attachment thank God! And feeling stronger so when if he comes back I will finally be strong enough to tell him to go back in his hole!
Happy late birthday 🥳
This is exactly what my man does to me. 😳🤔🥺
Yup it’s called Gaslighting...playing dumb and making you think you are seeing things wrong/or going crazy.
So sad but true.
They’re accusations are confessions.
They cannot face their flaws so the project them onto you. In their mind, you did what they did. They will tell all their friends that you did it too to strengthen the illusion. They are SICK individuals
Yes indeed✌
Heartless perverted cowards. I came into contact with a few. Didn't know what the medical name for it, But Demon. The devil time is near he is recruiting...Stay in the word of God people..Overcomer🙏
Yup my soon to be ex husband has started a smear campaign. Telling my dad, sister, mom, friends that I left him for my ex. While he was the one always talking and texting his.
Projection and blame shifting.
@@MsButterfly57 Yes, the accusations are really revelations.
Thank you for articulating this: the curse of desperately wanting to PROVE your innocence...they already know you are innocent, they concocted it.
I dated a narcissist. At the beginning of the relationship I thought he was an Angel. At the end of the relationship, I had lost 10 kilos out of stress.
Maybe people could use them as a new weight loss program. The only problem is that once they are in, they do not ever really go away.
They are evil 😢
Yes me too
My daughters father is a narcissist I learned from being w him to stay away from men like him....they prey on gd hearted ppl...
He says he kept me on punishment cause he thought i would never leave. He came at me with a knife and I reported him to the police. Then he called the officer and slandered me so that even he has turned his mind against me. Smh. I endured 10 years.
Yes I agree with you, they are predators but once you have the power of God and pray you overcome, I went to hell and back and I mean darkness and if it was not for God and my now 14 year old daughter I would not see the light. The soldiers of God was with me and I cane out with no scars. He had to run back to me for help , I was reluctant but when he needed food I did what the scripture said, but Only God showed me who he was was, I am a warrior in the spirit. God will allow you to prevail, pray pray and pray and he will leave don’t let your daughter get emotionally scarred. This world and people are evil but God is powerful he loves you and your daughter very much.
yes, and they will turn your own children against you.
@@princess373357 what do you do when the narcissist is your father, your own mother believes him and covers for him and the bible says to honor your father and your mother? I am really struggling even though I am 39 years old, they have destroyed my soul and I am trying to go no contact but it's not that easy when you are closely related.
Im living this now too. My daughter father is a text book narcissist. It used to be so draining until i just stop communicating with him. When i need to speak with him its all thru text now. I just cant😣
I try to tell people that they will never understand unless they experience it themselves. I don't wish these demons on my enemy.
Wtfys 💞🤦🤷
Exactly!! Narcissistic personality disorder is real. Im learning there are also different types of narcissists too... overt, covert, & malignant.
@@HandsofGlory1 and actually just when you think it couldn’t get worse, theirs dual levels combos .. sociopath narc, psychopath narc.
@@HandsofGlory1 wow now there's a fresh layer. to unpeel
@@Prettygirl-oo6mp right!! They hate it when you call them out on their bs too.
I broke up with a narcissist this summer. It’s was horrible. We went out for my birthday for dinner and because the attention wasn’t on him, he created a huge fight and abandoned me at the restaurant really late at night. He blamed me because apparently I didn’t like the photos he took of me. I was so confused
I know exactly what you mean! Every time we went out, it was always something wrong. He would get upset and start an argument over nothing! So glad I'm free of him!
Girl I'm sure your living your best life now.
They abandon/ ghost when you bring up how they have hurt you
They paint a different picture to the rest of the world- your common friends/ puppets. I feel like it was a constant battle between light and dark
Thanks for the confirmation 👏
You have to ignore them and expose them to everyone.
They are the most egregious--calling themselves clergy or godly and treating their partners like trash behind closed doors! Then lying and making it seem as if THEY are the one's being mistreated. It's sickening!
TRASH!!! at it's finest!
I'm going through it right now! everyone told me turn to God which I have, and the sad part about it everyone believes his lies
I pray and read my bible everyday, he was even bold enough to tell me he have another woman me I'm so done with my husband 8 years its over
THIS! My dads a minister & this describes him to the T’
My ex claimed to be a man of God . So how is that possible when you brought the devil into the relationship I asked ? Of course I got no response!
Yes, they are mine is a Jehovah Witness and he is two different people, a JW on Tuesday & Sunday and a demon otherwise, religion is a safe place for malignant & covert narcs, he was my dream man until the night before we married, I didn't want to marry but everyone said I was being too tough, society gaslights victims especially women, especially black women, so grateful for this channel!!!! Thank you Rev 😊
I remember when my ex cheated on me 2 months after our wedding, he accused me of making him cheat. I was devastated. He pushed me to our balcony and told me to jump the 3 story building to die if I couldn’t accept him cheating. He posted on social media how bad I was and all the “mental problems” I had. It almost destroyed me. They’re evil. God saved me from this man
ooh no😔
It most likely wasn't the first time that he cheated on you. It was the first time you caught him. He will definitely reap what he sowed. The devil in him will eventually throw him away like the trash that he is. I'm glad you were able to get away from him, because there are many who were unable to do so. There are many who were killed or died by the narcs hand or because of the abuse the narc inflicted upon them. Many of the narcissists in this world are rapists, child molesters, murderers, abusers and more! Make sure you are healed before dating again and that you know how narcs operate. Because you are susceptible to another narc coming to try and destroy you again. God Bless You and may He protect you and may goodness and mercy follow you all the days of your life, in Jesus mighty name!
I've had a lot of abusive relationships every last one since I was 18. I am sorry how you felt.ive been through that and way worse.i stayed single for 10 years.then married a narcissist husband. He is by far the worst he humiliates me so much I just can't take it Anymore I have to save my money and go back to work to escape this lizard man .my mom always said fight fire with fire lol I think it's time for me to stop being fearful
But God
Praise God you survived
My husband of 7 years has been doing this. I have gone crazy to the point that I questioned if I was sane or not. All I went through broke me for a moment but all I could do in my brokenness was humble myself before my God and plead my case to Him. He has fought for me, He continues to fight for me. I pray for people that are going through this.
❤
This is too accurate 😮 I can’t believe I got caught up with a narcissist for 10 years! I never even knew such personality disorder existed. But he was such a great person! I thought he was the best man I had ever met! I don’t know who to believe in anymore.
If it walk like a duck, quacks likes a duck, it's a duck. When people show you who they are, believe them. Don't loose or give up your life trying to figure out the truth for only the truth will set you free.
Same experience. It's the love bombing
10 yrs for me filing for divorce
God! Believe in him🙏🏽
The only way to deal with them is no contact.
🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯
I would love to, But we have a child
@@Toytatu 🙏🏽 for you and child
@@billion86 thank you lots
@@Toytatu Fast and Pray ... Cast the Demon out... if its Demonic Narcissism it's a Demon... Most likely more than one Why Christ Said Fasting and Prayer... necessary before Deliverace. .. You bind the Strong Man ... Satan .. First ... Then Cast.... Will spoil all the Rest. .. Take care of them All .. Shalom.
Never go back to a narcissist. They will destroy you if you do. Never ever open the door again to one of those demons.
When his eyes turned jet black while he made threats to my life, his face contorted in unnatural ways- shape-shifting, my soul understood he's 10 toes down for Satan. I left and had to fast and pray .I cried hard for days, then God showed up! God showed up!! I then remembered one of God's promises, " Vengeance is mine and I will repay." He set me free with a peace that surpasses all understanding. 🙏🏿
Wonderful... How are you doing now?
@LadyBugShaun Wonderful now! It's been 3 years and my life is back on track. My relationship with the Lord has grown more closer.
@@GoGo.. Oh what excellent news!! What would you say we're some of the things most helpful to your healing?
@LadyBugShaun I kept a journal of my experiences. During this time, I was experiencing crazy dreams. I kept a journal detailing the dream. I would then take it to the Lord in prayer to help me understand it. The dreams went on for months. Then He took over from there, and 1 day, a YT video popped up on my page constantly. I didn't understand why, but I clicked on it and was awestruck. The video explained some of my experiences I told no one of. That's how the breakthrough started. The journaling was the key because I didn't realize it until later how much of a fog of confusion has developed around me. The journal kept it real, The Lord kept me honest.
This happened to me and I ended up in a mental institution because of him causing me abuse, stress etc I'm calling the doctor to get myself a therapist!
So sorry... How are you doing now?
They never listen, its all about them. All of the time!! Walk away. Hide from them, heal yourself first
Indeed
True I know some people like that, go away
20 years and still in it kids in it when he realized I am going to knee was cheating he came home and say if I catch any thing is you give it to me I was lost wandering wat is he talking about but I said I go no where so you must be mad lol presently I didn't see him traveling but he wasn't having sex with me saying he tried so he come to me now i said u have do a test to god be the glory days after he traveled now he is back and don't to do a test so he is cursing me giving me silence cause am not giving him anything cause I remember that tric
EXACTLY ALWAYS LOVER OF SELVES
I never even knew what a narcs was until very recently but I remember saying to him "it's all about you" If something made sense to him then it became a very important issue to be dealt with, but if it didn't make sense to him - it was simply discarded. No amount of explaining made any difference - he simply was not going to take your viewpoint on board. He was selfish - but so giving when he wanted to be. It was all about him.
That reversal game will have you seriously questioning yourself!! I'm literally watching this with chills but GOD is a deliverer and healer.
They tell your stories but they don't can't tell the story rite.and then they eliminate you piece by piece from the stories and songs t.he things that were your good memories .I've even had friends that tell a story and they substituted themselves into a memory that you and your person only knew .or I've heard their voice and ideas comming out of a friend or strangers mouth .
Flip and turn the truth and make it look real! So DECEPTIVE !!!!!,!
Yes it will
Amen
Things they say. "I never told you that." "Your crazy" "Why would I say that" "Its your fault" never ever have I heard "I'm sorry" only a real man says that. Narcissist are not real men.
I'm going through this now...
I WAS LITERALLY SLEEPING WITH THE DEVIL FOR A YEAR AND A FEW MONTHS..
Man RUNNNNNNN at the 1st warning..seriously because this could end deadly
What State are u living in, Narcissistic men rampant in the winter, HoboSexual, Tax Season & Holiday Season ghosting & Hoovering out on the Prowl at this time of the year, maybe there's the same common denominator in the Man cause they get Around
You are so right! I had so many red flags in the beginning and ignored them! My family saw it as well. After 2 years of being with him, I finally left… literally ran
Thank you Pastor for breaking that demonic spirit down for me. I will never understand what I did to deserve such a evil person to enter my life. I suffer from PTSD now. I found you Pastor looking for more understanding about how I got here😞
These snakes are very manipulative
Yes, in every way, been there, done that. Not trying to revisit a toxic relationship like that again. It takes so much out of a person in this kind of relationships.
Exactly what they are
Had a dream before l ever met the man in person only on line
My dream a snake crawling around the edge of my bedroom
I believe it was a dream from the Lord
I put it on back burner
ALWAYS LISTEN TO GOD
When I see their name, hear their voice or they are in my presence I put up my gate, my wall I suit myself in heavy armor, and some Barbed Wire. I don't believe NOTHING they say I mean NOTHING. Do not engage with them. They CANNOT be true. Just sit and look through them like they are not there.
THERE SATAN IN SHEEP CLOTHING !
They don't apologize. They victimize.
Dead on to the millionth power
@Eternity With Christ SO TRUE! But most won't apologize "specifically". They'll say: "for anything that I might have done to hurt you" blanket statement which won't mk them feel shameful, but more importantly, and sickly, mk them feel more powerful...that they had the "control" enough to hurt.
That advanced narc apologizes in the beginning of the relationship, when he or she hasn't "gotten" you yet- created a soul tie where you feel obligated to "love". Because by then, they no longer HAVE to apologize- they know you'll be too nice and too connected to not give them another shot.
They never truly apologize.
OH YEAH THEY PLAY LIKE IF THEY NEVER MET YOU THEY WOULD BE THIS OR THAT! BUT YOU ADDED TO THERE LIFE WHILE THEY TAKEN FROM YOU!
They want apologies
I agree with you 💯
I didn’t know I was with a narcissist until I learned about this mental illness and the games they play. I was too innocent and that is why he took advantage of me an triangulated me, and still wanted to be with me. Yeah he blamed everything on me.
I ran into a couple of narcissists in my life and both times I didn’t “know” what I was looking at because I’d never had an encounter with one or knew what the word narcissist even meant. However, both times I knew something about them were just wrong! I dodged the bullet with both of them. I thank God I listened to the Spirit of God because I know now that it was Him that was warning me.🙏🏼
If you read this please pray for me🙏🏽The minute I found out I was being played I ask him to leave my home immediately, He had the nerve to try to convince me my eyes were playing tricks on me. Because he was embarrassed he literally laughed walking out of my house. Tell me that’s not demonic?!?! These narcissistic men don’t like a wise woman that expose them for the lying, cheating, no good Devil that they are. He’s so caught up on saving his image putting on for social media like he’s doing so many positive things in the blk community. The whole time you are the problem in our community tearing the blk family apart. He haven’t contacted me since & I didn’t call either. I’m still healing from this, happened about 4 months ago. Please keep me in prayer 🙏🏽
Praying for you now! In Jesus Mighty name!!!
Kelly Heflin Thank you ❤️
My dear be glad he isn't contacting you. Thank God for stepping in to protect you. Some women feel bad when these monsters don't try to reach out. But please see this as protection from whatever horrible plan the narc had for you next. They inflict trauma into your life constantly. Stay away from him, pray do not allow him back for any reason at all.
I am so proud of you! You are in my prayers and please keep me in yours.../hugs
Don’t let that energy hold on to you too long! Tell yourself that you are healed! Sometimes we can heal to long! Let that shit go mentally! Release him from your mind an your spirit immediately!
The worst are the "empathic" or vulnerable ones with knowledge of psychology.
The more subtle evil stuff they do:
-they act/are fake (no its not a personality trait
-they talk in movie lines
-they have a weird relationship with their mother (and sister) if its a man
-they are emotionally stable (because they dont have emotions)
-they tell you sometimes that they can lie really well if they want to and manipulate very well, actually only feel anger (dont ignore these, these are their honest moments, but they tell you to seem sensitive and open)
-fake empathy (you will know and feel that it is fake)
-they dont protect you
-they like gossiping (about you!!)
-emotionally cold during intimate moments
-they talk in I, not in we
-they dont help you grow (its your own responsibility but they do expect you to go out of your way to help them)
-fake crying or they say they cant cry and make you believe youre so amazing that you got these tears out of them
-they deny your intuition
-they make you go out of character (this is an important one)
-play victim, a lot of self pity but tell you to man up.
-evil smirk when you are hurting (yes yiu saw it, it wasnt your imagination)
-fake amnesia
-jealous of your character and personality traits
-act like theydont understand social cues like saying "thank you' and 'im sorry" (because they expect you to do everything for them, without anything im return)
Hope it will help 🙏🏾✨
100% acurate!
You sho right! ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️
Nailed it
Yessssssssss.
Exactly.
Right-ON.
I wish I could heart this
Thank you for the great content. Videos like these are so helpful to survivers of narcissist abuse. Prayers to all who are dealing with or healing from narcissistic abuse. Ghost them back.......permanently. These evil beings will destroy you if you stay around and let them. There is no human help ( aka therapy) for the malignant narcissist. I was nearly zeroed out by one myself. I kept allowing her back into my life. The final ending was unbelievably painful. I never thought a person could be so cruel and emotionally abusive. ( Although I should have realized this a long time ago). No contact is a must. You will never change them.
You are speaking directly to me I endured this for 28years I gave him 5 children never was I unfaithful he blames me for ruining his life I’ve been separated for 3 1/2 weeks finally found the strength to love my self and walk away thank you for you amazing wisdom
You're so strong, well done!!
I feel like narcs are suicidal but want the other person to kill them. Don't let them bring you down with them!
My ex narc would always say I am going to kill him because of the dirt he was doing behind my back. But why stay with someone you fear may kill you behind your actions but yet steadily doing the same crap? I believe he wanted me to kill him so it could ruin my life. That is how mean and hateful he is. He would take the L to see me suffer. They really are crazy like that.
My narc use to tell me to kill him, he was ready to die anyways. Well I didn't kill him, but I left him without a trace
Narsisstic people are not suicidal. They use this tactic to terrorize you. My narsisstic daughter used to do this for years ,I even took her to mental health facility over this until one day I started to tell her that "Isnt it time for you to suicide already,shut up or do it". She has not said it since. It's a powergame.
The best defence to a narc is to tern all threats and accusations immediately " See how powerful I Am game". Narsisstic people want POWER and ATTENTION. As soon as they start you MUST start saying how they" adore " you and how they " give power " to you. They do not have a response to this because with their evilness THEY WANT POWER OVER YOU.
Yes the signal good
Good point.
When they ghost you go no contact let them go you will heal in time
Thanks very much for this message
What if the ghost is the husband?
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
AMEN
That’s exactly what I did
This explains my ex husband perfectly. I listen to you every day on my way to healing.
I kicked out the narcissist 2 years ago. I'm so glad for the awareness. I realize that I'm surrounded by them and I can spot them anywhere. I talk to basically most of them, yet I call them out on their crap and keep it moving.
The narc's/psychopaths are so very good at "lying" - in all sorts of ways, (eg: part-truths, blatant & pathological lying, word salad, denying, joking, projecting; leaving, cutting u off, avoidng); the "silent treatment", "ghosting; "normalising" their bad behaviours, minimalising the situation, blame-shifting, projecting their "stuff" onto others - all to avoid admitting, taking responsibility & apologising for their own actions - like a normal adult should be able to do.
Patterns of Satan and the Demons if you believe in the bible. Definitely demonic.
Wow.. I just got out of in engagement and you named half of this once so gentle and loving man’s traits. I feel so disappointed in myself that I’m a smart girl but did not recognize this. He would speak of his past relationships and lead me to believe everyone wronged him and now all regret he left. When in fact right after I said yes.. his true colors came out. My God!
Lies about EVERYTHING...even stupid little stuff. Disgusting creatures.
Amen
Going through it now, but he has a new supply and demanded a divorce.
I call them energy vampires, they suck the energy out of you !
Yes, there spirit draining demons.
Yes- they have.
They OFFER Nothing.
@@Nicole-kx9vg you're right, Zero, zilch, Nada!!!!!!!
Honestly mine dumped me two months ago and he put all on the blame on me and he went around tanishing my image to every one who listens I thank God he left me and his family supported him ,he is a devil in disguise
They will make u feel u are the worst woman on Earth and that u keep doubting ur self value chaiii those creatures are demonic
A narcissist's main game is that of confusion. You never know where you truly stand with them. They can't take constructive criticism, as they are usually very well liked by others(that's to preserve their false image). Their abuse comes in many forms, not always verbal or physical, but it's always in an attempt to keep you confused and coming back to them for clarity, which you never get. Their "smear campaigns" are epic, and most people usually believe them, once again, think "image".
They are absolute control freaks, and the gaslighting is unreal. My narc ex girlfriend literally told me she was going to tell me what I was thinking when trying to explain myself about anything. The only reality that exists is "theirs". You can never be right with a narcissist. They rarely admit they're wrong or apologize for their behaviour because it's "always your fault", and when they do, it's always fake.
They use sex to keep you caught up, probably the best you've ever had. I've heard of eye color changes before with narcs during their rage moments, but watch out for eye color changes during sex as well. The irises of my narcs eyes would change colors during sex, not in an evil way, or so I felt, but almost like she was bonding me to her on a spiritual level.
Now that is a first for me. The eye color change is truly wicked!! I been with this pos for 38 yrs. I wasn't aware of a narcissist when I was just 17yrs old. It took me a while to figure out just what this walking stick of shit is. An a little bit to be able to not let this pos get to me. An call him out on his narcissistic ways.
I've seen someone who I thought was a narcissist eye changed colour. From blue to dark black pupils 😳 this was after I completely cut that friend off and after all their lies. They even spent a month to create a new self image
My narc has brown eyes but when the nice person is in residence, they are a gold color. This is a spooky thing to know and I wonder how many people notice this effect?
You're very right!!
Crazy.
Me and my boyfriend lived with his narcissistic brother, he would do everything he could to break us up and I could never understand how someone could be so unhappy to the point they have to make sure others around them feel the same
My son’s father is a narcissist. I called him "TOXIC" took my child and fled. Women have to be ok being, staying free and single.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Facts!!
I hope you realize that some women are narcissists. The one in my life has damn near destroyed me and everything I love
Yep. My fiancé was married to one and still suffers from PTSD. My older brother was married to one as well. He retired 5 years ago and died in 2018 from a stroke caused by her. A lot of women are Narcs.
Men or women, recognize the signs of these "fools" early on and save yourselves.
Narcs are famous for flipping scripts.
Oh yes!
u beat they ass flip it back
Faster than lightening....
This !
Leviathan
Thank you Pastor. I divorced my husband, rise my boy's age 5 and 7yrs alone. Today grown up married serving God. Thank you Give me strength . Always thankful to God🙏
I’ve never heard anyone who understands this more!!!!THANK YOU RC BLAKES!
As long as you allow a narcissist to come back and forth into your life whenever they want to they will continue. My experience is every time they come back they get worst. You literally have to stop all communication with them to give yourself time to become stronger so that you can resist them. Which is the process that I’m on now. Closure with a narcissist is impossible because they don’t have empathy so they can’t acknowledge or apologize for the trauma they bestowed upon you. My husband ghosted me for 2.5 weeks tried to contact me today I wouldn’t answer so he started calling all my siblings asking if I’m okay. He’s used to ghosting me and being able to just have access to me whenever he wants. Those days are gone. Yeah I’m okay. I actually feel better than I’ve felt in a while.
And when you feel weak!... Please reach out to your support system to hold you up!!
It takes time for all that bad energy to fall off!!
Stay Strong 💪🏾
Same here. Its been 1 1/2 weeks since being ghosted for the umteenth time. I would put him on block then miss him and unblock him to wait for his phone call. Well this time, I took him off block but heard that small voice telling me to keep him on block so I can remain on the course of healing. We share kids but the kids have been trying to reach out and he has been ignoring them as well so this is just more fuel for my strength to move the heck on!! He's never gonna change and I can NOT allow him to put my kids through the same emotional war zone.
Your amazing..... I’m going though this as well! Stay Strong 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽❤️
Going threw it now
My narc gets upset when I ghost him. He starts to call our kids to see where I am. This is after years of living a double life. They have NO empathy, compassion or human kindness.
2 Timothy say remove narcissists from your life. For they are lovers of themselves and not of God.
They are truly terrible people and you described them to a T.
Hmm. Interesting. Was WONDERING where in The Word are narcissists spoken about.
@Dr Z Divine meant a human with skin on example
Yes 2 Timothy chapter 3! My GOD!
@@billion86 yes!
3 But know this, that in the last days [a]perilous times will come: 2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 unloving, [b]unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, 4 traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! 6 For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, 7 always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth
Yes! Perilous Times and Perilous Men
3 But know this, that in the last days [a]perilous times will come: 2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 unloving, [b]unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, 4 traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! 6 For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, 7 always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth
Ten minutes in and I knew this was a message for me. I just experienced a similar situation. The narrative is slightly different, but the demonic narcissistic game is the same. He’s actually playing it on the new girl, who was his puppet during our relationship. Some parts of this connected with me so deeply that I been to praise God. It was as if I could visualize episodes of my trauma as he was speaking.
One thing about God’s Word, it transcends throughout the years because His word endearment forever. I’m thankful that God delivered me out of that situation unscathed because literally anything could have happened, But God allowed me to come out clean. To God be the Glory!
The blame-shifting game is real!
For 12 year's I dealt with a manipulative controlling,cheating,lying
mentally & physically abusive malignant covert narcissist.
Everything under the sun was done to me with evil intentional vindictiveness without limitation!
I was constantly told "you did this"😳!
The ghosting and silent treatment along with behavior as a complete stranger was unimaginable!😠
The demonic eye stares and unbelievable rages this psychopathic person would express was nothing less then experiencing satan here on earth,right in front of me.
I left that pathetic relationshit 3 years ago,blocked and absolutely no contact and that is what destroys the narcissist and their false accusations,it plunges them deeper into their insecurity & low self-esteem or worth.
Yes yes! The silly smirk on their face.
@@comfortzone5618 Oh,yes that devilish smirk was ridiculous.
Never try to make a narcissist be accountable for their actions just get out because they will have you questioning yourself
When the malignant narcissist starts an argument and disappears for several days and doesn't answer your calls, it's because he's out cheating on you. They project on to you what they themselves are doing.
Yes 🙌🏽. I experienced this many times
I wish he would disappear for real
I experienced this many times 💯🤢🤮🤬
Or to make you suffer 😂 But we sleeping like a baby 😊
Pastor Blake you are preaching a word. The Narc I had in my life did these exact things. Just flat out made up things. Just to stir the pot or to incite an argument so he could treat me horribly and say he had a reason. Just absolute craziness. It took me almost 3 years to wrap my mind around what was happening. Gaslighting, verbal and physically abusive. Undercover addict. Questionable sexuality. I'm 5months free from the Narcissist. I never people were evil but I never seen it up close like that. There were times I know I was speaking directly to the demon.
I was accused of seeing other people so many times… when all along he was just projecting his own misbehavior onto me! Then after I’d found out the truth and confronted him he accused me of being “miserable to live with” and that’s why he stepped out. It’s just surreal and so hurtful
When we were together, I was always Infected with STIs and I never cheated. He always accused me.
They are demon posessed.
I saw it in dreams and visions..that's what motivated me to finally leave.
Thank you JESUS!!!!
I did too. Thanks for sharing dear
They are sex addicts...it is truly demonic
Bless you Jesus Fav daughter... because you made it OUT with your life 🙏🏽 My Son was murdered by his Gaslighting Narcissistic MURDERER ! Our whole family loved her and My Son Adored her . We GET THIS by her rage and most vile evil rage , JEALOUSY and GREED was biggest factor as she became desperate enough to $ell her $oul for MONEY 💰 in doing this to someone as sweet as My Son was to her . It was the Most BLATANT BETRAYAL I have ever seen and believe I have seen Many . She is all over internet circuit trying to be a role model - for HIS CAUSE OF SUICIDE! He did not shoot him . Her and her band of devil worshippers did ! She is still celebrating 🥳 her horrendous actions . What can you do but LEAVE TO JEHOVAH SHALOM ! VENGEANCE IS HIS
YESSSS🐍 they are insatiable sex addicts who live :
BIG TIME DOUBLE LIVES THAT Get people MURDERED like the one that just murdered my Son and LIED from day one and has not took a break from lying and who has not even skipped one beat from partying since she GOT AWAY From this evil
most dangerous Spirit of CONTROL and serious WITCHCRAFT she had over him . The cruelty she showed him in exchange for all the wealth of his true love , giving his all and all for someone who was not meant for him ! GOD did not join them together . Satan did . Sometimes our Sons and Daughters have to have WHAT and WHO GOD ALMIGHTY tell them stay away from and the results MANY times is their own FUNERAL ⚰️ Because she sure put My Blessed Child in one and she has not Stopped dancing 💃🏽 on his grave with all her new friends in this new life she has DECEPTIVELY
Invented at the expense of my Son . All I can say is WHOA watch out to next poor soul DECEIVED AGAIN :( The very LAST OF LAST days are here people ❗️Stamp marked with the very endtime Sign of : BETRAYAL ... With a word to the WISE BEWARE ❗️Take the word of someone else tragedy so it does NOT end in YOUR own ⚠️
When they ghost you after an argument or break up they already have someone else awhile already to get their attention from, they are never alone while you trying to fix things and figure out what happened they sleep with the next one. They don't care about you and they don't have any respect for you. I went through this for 7 years.
I went through this for 39 years almost cost me my life
You have described my ex fiance too a tee with the accusations, waking up out of her sleep after having a dream about me cheating and talking, acting like it really happened. She has publicly embarrassed me on so many occasions, I should've left her long before I did. I remember the first time I visited her dad's home with her to meet the family (stepmom, sis,cousins and all). She embarrassed me terribly all night thinking I knew her cousin's girlfriend because allegedly she kept staring at her. This woman was sick and like you said narcissist behave, flipped our entire breakup on me. I think it's totally WRONG for folks speaking about this subject to refer to the narcissistic scenario with the woman victimized by a man. There are probably just as many if not more narcissistic women than men
*she woke up fussing at me after dreaming about me cheating and talking like it really happened. * *her cousins girlfriend was staring at me and she accused me of knowing her, smh*
So true. My narcissistic colleagues, clergyman colleagues, did a secret DNA testing on me - not believing that I could have such beautiful children. The DNA proved another man. But they failed to realize that my husband had Hodgkins Lymphoma , almost died and couldn’t have children. So we had an anonymous donor which was surgically implanted via IVF. I almost lost my job as a chaplain in the Navy and was taunted like I must bear a scarlet letter. ( I was tossed into the library rather than let me do my job). Religious narcissism is alive and well. And wreaked havoc in my now broken heart and home.
I was in a narcissistic relationship. He was taunting me while I was driving and when I pulled into a gas station on an interstate hwy he got out to use the bathroom. I pulled off and left him where he stood. He was 200 miles from our final destination. I was fed up. Every since that relationship I can see a narcissist a mile away. I have learned to detatch myself from being emotionally soultied to folk like that. So if they drop off the scene on me i act as if nothing happened and move on with my life. If they wonder why I didnt wait hmm where we do that at? I start blocking getting restraining orders and changing all I can without disrupting my life completely.
Thats right
Sound like you was the wrong one. Why leave him. Why you got him in the car with you in the first place. Sound like you was the controller not him. You a piece of shit
@@LovettbalngoodsLLC Sis, I just read a message where you said you're getting your butt whooped emotionally and this is what you tell her because she had the strength you don't have? Wow. Yeah, your narc has REALLY done a number on you. Smh Pray for healing.
Good for you sis! They ALWAYS choose themselves. We have to choose US!
@@LovettbalngoodsLLC emotional abuse is worse than any other abuse you can experience. She did the right thing. It was the last straw for her. Good for her for waking up to her self-worth. Trust me, he had another supply pick him up and i bet he let out his narcissistic rage on that supply. Those monsters do not deserve an ounce of kindness. Shoot, leave their butts on the side of the freeway if you must, GET AWAY FROM THEM!
During the time a narcissist ghost you and accuse you of doing something that you did not do. There are entertaining or cheating with someone Else. They put you on a shelf when they are done using you and expect you to still be there when they return. So that they can finish using you up some more.
Indeed. This is what my own mom is dealing with right now. Was married since June 2015(My high school graduation).
Stepdad still gaslights her, even though she stands up to him and sees through the BS.
So true!!
I’m praying and putting in the action to change my environment. I’m bruised but not broken. Thank you for making this video
Sooo needed to hear this! The Validation is motivating me to move on; God bless you! 🙏🏽
When they come back they bring salt for the wound they created
Great way to put this feels like a burning sensation in a bad way🤞🤷🤦
WHEW !
Yes they do. They rub it in and tell you it's your fault.
lool
I've struggled a lot trying to understand how someone could be so cruel to me while I tried so hard and sacrificed so much trying to love them back to health. I hadn't considered that those were demonic forces trying to break a child of God. This video gave me a new perspective and I think I can make peace with that. I really appreciate what you're doing. God bless you
I watched a good film that would help people who are struggling to get over domestic abuse.... Retribution. I am in a terrible state because of severe emotional and all kinds of other abuse,if I watched that film every day,it would keep me walking from every toxic person
Agree...
@@karriesaunders8597 what's the name of the film because I need to watch it too I'm so tired of the abuse for 38 years
@@1010QUEEN7 Retribution is the name of the film,it gives some accurate perspective about what's behind certain people.
@@karriesaunders8597 can't wait to watch it thanks again 😘
Thank you Pastor for being used by God to be that light I seen as I walked out of that darkness. I’m so grateful to have encountered your channel and appreciate your empowering messages. I ask that God continue order your steps in enlightening us women. God Bless you and thank you again Pastor, stay Blessed 😇
I have been dealing with a narcissist for 18 yrs on and off I ended up marrying him I don’t know why I thought things would change because I’m a spiritual person I got set free I had to give my life back to God for me to finally leave this man alone it’s real about what a narcissist posses it’s demonic and your going to need the lord Jesus Christ to bind him..Amen🎉
While I was still living in my marital home I saw something which totally shocked me. The entire pupils in his eyes and irises turned completely black. I almost jumped back in dismay because ut made me realize that all along I was dealing with a demonic spirit in him.
I have experienced this and thought I was crazy! Omg
I believe you ...
I have seen many demons show up in his eyes
I have seen this too. This happened while at my home. I was having a conversation with him and then it looked like his whole face shifted looking as someone else then he just gave a blank stare like he did not know we were talking and walked off. After that I started praying and annointing every entryway way into my home.
Yikes!
I’ve dealt with a narcissistic man before for the first time a year ago and he tore me down so bad that it felt like my world had ended but dealing with him taught me better judgment of the men I date, how to trust myself more, and walk away from things that are only meant to hurt me.
Me too... I dealt with that narcissistic man almost 2 years and that was way to long!!! I left and will never look back!!! Im glad you got away from it my sister... I didn't even know what a narcissist was our father God showed me!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 im so blessed and grateful and thankful to our father God for keeping me covered under Jesus precious blood... I pray he continues to keep you covered too!! God bless you my sister... Keep moving forward and don't look back!! God has way better for you coming soon!!🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💞💞💞💞💞
Mee too...but the sad part about it...there's more narcissistic men in the world than down to earth godly men...single moms are raising narc men bc he becomes the center of attention in her world now as a adult looking for another mommy...cycle of pain hurt abuse
You just said a mouth full. Thank the Lord Jesus Christ, for growth!
Tasha Garrett thank you and God bless you too ❤️
Cheryl Mcleod truth and i pray guidance over the single mothers raising young boys into men. Because my sister is a single mom of a baby boy and where praying for guidance every day
I was a healthy woman with great confidence and self esteem and after a relationship ended up cursing myself in front of a mirror.. could barely get out the the bed and function. Didn’t clean my house and it took a year for me to stand up for myself again. It was the saddest thing that ever happened in my life.
I was rapped at the age of 8 my step brother was 21 . My dad is still married to his mom. I'm now 35 years old. I tried to for years to talk to my dad not to bring up the situation but to get things off my chest. Not only that situation but my entire life and the trauma so that I can release it to free me on the bonds my dad always tells me that's history. When I finally learned on my own to forgive myself and others and give it to God. The lord releases the weight of the world from my shoulders 🙏 all glory to ours GodFather Lord Jesus Christ whom is my savior 🙏
This use to be my life. I praise God that I am free from it all... never again. NEVER.
🎯🎯💯💯💯 Amen my sister!!! NEVER again for me too!!🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽 God bless you!!💞💞💞💞
Amen me too sis I never thought I'd be here STRONGER than ever.. It's been 1yr since I left that bastard
I KNOW !
Amen!! Me three...I agree. Never ever again !!
Praying to get free now😭😭😭
It took me one year to fully heal from a narcissist. I kept battling with myself, lost my self Esteem, self confidence. Upon self reflection, I noticed I begun to speak in a toxic way to other people which drove away some great potential friends. Gradually I'm healing and getting better.
I can relate. I miss the old happy me.
❤❤❤
Wow only 1 yr
Keep healing! I’m just at the beginning of my healing journey. Please pray for me as I pray you and all others that have experienced this trauma.
@@damienwelch9067 yep..she was lucky...maybe she escaped right at the beginning..and had lots of support after...
This is 100 percent accurate. I have never heard this explained so well in all of my life. Thank you, Pastor Blakes.
Im so grateful for this, its important that the church calls it what it is. I spent so much time praying over the relationship until God removed me. As Christians we can be most vulnerable.
I left one 18 months ago. I trusted God bc I had nothing but our kids when I left. After 6 months of giving it all to God we are prospering and I have more abundance than ever in all aspects of life.
Beautiful
Praise God 🙏🏽💕
This gives me hope for myself and my children. I broke free just over a year ago. I've grown more in this last year than ever in my life. I still feel stuck, but I have such strong faith this time which I never had.
Saudia Broyard same!! 7 1/2 years of pure hell. He ruined my credit, hurt my family, caused me to literally lose my mind and give up all hope of a future that would be outside of his grasp and awful influence of sabotage and utter ruin. I picked up the pieces and dried my eyes and made excuses over and over and over until my mom died and my eyes were opened. I finally did what she always wanted for me. To see things as they were and remember what true love feels like!! GOD HAS RESTORED ME AND MY CHILDREN, AMEN!!! GOD HAS GIVEN US A NEW FUTURE FULL OF HOPE!!! He is mad and mocks all our blessings stability and peace. He wants me to feel guilty and bad for him. I’ll not be confused. No more!! I prayed and worked and desired GOOD. He has sewn destruction and chaos. We have both made our choices. Now I’m walking with God into MY destiny and his journey is all his own. Divorce finalized
Amen. Praise the Lord
The dangerous thing is that when you stop responding and being enamored with a narcissist, you won't want to associate with them at all. The awakened state is terrifying you can see what is really happening, you will not want to be even close to them, this may look to the narcissist as though you are ghosting them.
There now😒
Preach 🎉, the truth will set you free. Don't look back and continue to have a close relationship with God. If it walk like a duck, 🦆 quacks likes a duck, then it's a duck. Never feel guilty about saving your own life. Protect your mind, your body and your soul only then will you find Peace, love and happiness. Happiness is one of God's greatest Orgasim.
You have no idea....this is exactly what I needed to hear right now. It resignatated through my soul. And the prayer at the end made it even more special! 🙏
I am SO IMPRESSED! IF I stopped to speak to someone, I'd NEVER be able to pick up where I left off... you never miss a beat!!!
What is amazing is how alike they are and how their patterns are predictable. Like ROBOTS! Demonic for sure.
They operate from the same playbook.
yep
EMPTY SHELLS!! Smh
That is what is so amazing. The church needs to know about this in more detail. Not as they think. Just cast out a demon....multiple demons.
@@robertacurrier2362 the church knows
My ex narcissist husband told me at the beginning he was going to break me. He set out on a mission to do just that. For 8 years I experience the worst demonic attack ever imagined. I went on a 2 year healing journey and God has completely healed me through this ministry and through other counselors who educated me on narcissistic personality disorder. 🙏 I will forever be grateful!! ❤🙏💪
I knew a narc who promised me to break him in order to build me up to his likening. SICK man.
My husband told me he was going to break me and drag me through it and make me suffer. He did not know I am stronger than he thought and a warrior at the most. Stay strong
Happy for you so much peace when your not around them 8yrs myself I know how you feeling im getting out this month never looking back pure torment and hell Satin himself
@@umekademon3113 awesome! So happy for you! Make sure you NEVER LOOK BACK!!
@@infi1429 been 4 years for me so "won't"
Hi. l have been through this for 36 years and I have never known.Thanks for letting me know what I have been suffering that caused me so many cries
Everything you spoke from top to bottom has actually happened to me last year to the very words.
Happening to me now these people are demons