Is Mama Spoiled? 🤔💜

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  • Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
  • Mama wouldn't listen OR eat before I arrived. I got there, and she acted as if nothing happened.
    Whether your loved one is in a facility or at home, it is not easy. My husband planned a date and I was super late trying to make sure Mama ate dinner.
    This video shares our story of navigating the unpredictable path of dementia with love, resilience, and the stress that comes along with our new normal. Discover how we face the tough days with courage and celebrate the blessings, reminding us of the strength of family, love, and never giving up.
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    ✅ About Divas and Dementia.
    Welcome to "Divas and Dementia," a heartfelt journey shared by a daughter dedicated to her mom's care in the face of Dementia. My channel brings you into the daily life of love, laughter, and the realities of caring for a loved one in a memory care facility.
    Through daily visits, I keep the spirit alive, ensuring that loneliness and forgetfulness are kept at bay. Dementia might challenge me, but it brings unexpected moments of joy, thanks to Mama's vibrant personality. Join me to normalize Dementia and spread awareness with a touch of love.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 76

  • @traceywilkins4616
    @traceywilkins4616 4 місяці тому +31

    I opened up UA-cam and immediately saw Ms Norma. I was like there go my girl. She isn’t spoiled. Ms Norma is blessed to have a daughter like you.

  • @staceygaspard2671
    @staceygaspard2671 4 місяці тому +23

    Absolutely NOT spoiled......Ms. Norma is LOVED DEARLY by her caring, loving, kind-hearted, pillar of strength daughter Crystal!! Your AWESOME!! It is WELL!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰👏🏽👏🏽💜💜

  • @Oliviab20
    @Oliviab20 4 місяці тому +29

    I wouldn’t say spoiled. I would say she wanted her daughter there. You’re both lucky to have each other! I love your videos! 🩵🙏🏼

  • @benitahunter7874
    @benitahunter7874 4 місяці тому +18

    She doesn't verbalize it, but she appreciates you for what you do and being there.

  • @karenanderson372
    @karenanderson372 4 місяці тому +7

    Gurrrl I know it’s tough but enjoy your time with her because I can’t even finish because I started thinking about my own mother it’s still hard but I know she’s with the most HIGH😢😢😂😂❤❤❤

  • @prospering100
    @prospering100 4 місяці тому +12

    I will call her what we call my grand daughter, she is Blessed and highly Favoured, so are you my love :)

  • @Sunlinkd1
    @Sunlinkd1 4 місяці тому +3

    ler her clean babygirl, that keeps her functional.. she definitely wants your company, it gives her a reason to care abt eating. She just needs you period. Youre blessed to have her, even in that shape, keep being soft and kind, she still has her mind, God is watching. He loves you😇😇🥰🥰👌🏼🙏🏼🫶🏼

  • @wandaw.5616
    @wandaw.5616 4 місяці тому

    Yup, Ms. Norma is spoiled...as she should be!Seems as though she spoiled you also (obviously well deserved), which allows you to return ALL of the love, patience & strength that you have to care for her.Bravo & blessings to you both.P.S. I mustn't forget your wonderful & supportive husband.So blessed you all are.

  • @dianac1411
    @dianac1411 4 місяці тому +3

    The thing I learned with my grandma is if she said no she wasn’t eating the staff could not make her. So we always had to go in and make sure she ate because we as family could force her.

  • @ReneePavy-ev5rm
    @ReneePavy-ev5rm 4 місяці тому +6

    Mamas so sweet and she got a sweet daughter too

  • @rainbyrne691
    @rainbyrne691 4 місяці тому +2

    Your a blessing crystal mamma is so lucky to have you every mother deserves a daughter like you! I bet she was a really proud lady when you were growing up and I bet she worked very hard. I love to see how your both getting on but I hate this disease it’s so dam cruel. Much respect for both of you
    God bless
    🌺🌸 ♥️

    • @nessalee1974
      @nessalee1974 4 місяці тому

      We should all be so lucky to have a daughter like crystal.

  • @dejavue54
    @dejavue54 4 місяці тому +2

    She is loved by her precious daughter 😊

  • @wandag.simpson3357
    @wandag.simpson3357 4 місяці тому

    I think you’re a wonderful daughter, you try and be so patient with her.

  • @michellesoo-tim9653
    @michellesoo-tim9653 4 місяці тому +1

    Awww she just wanted her babygirl there!! She's not spoiled at all. Just blessed to have you!!! ❤

  • @kitamartin45
    @kitamartin45 4 місяці тому

    Your mother is truly blessed to have you in her life ❤ 💖 💛

  • @nessalee1974
    @nessalee1974 4 місяці тому

    Very loved amd deserves to be spoiled. Her daughter takes such good care of her!! I love them!! ❤

  • @CajunLady
    @CajunLady 4 місяці тому +5

    Crystal you are best!!! Just admire you so❤ much

  • @madonnaperdue6682
    @madonnaperdue6682 4 місяці тому

    Awww Ms.Norma do sweet just wanted to see her baby. ❤

  • @queenbrown7695
    @queenbrown7695 4 місяці тому +2

    What a beautiful and wonderful daughter you are!May you be blessed!

  • @ellevatewithelle
    @ellevatewithelle 4 місяці тому +4

    I love the way you love on your mama. It’s so endearing 🥰❤️

  • @rainbyrne691
    @rainbyrne691 4 місяці тому +1

    I love mama Norma I hope she is happy in her own little world I pray that she does 🙏 xxx

  • @gloriaprayer2864
    @gloriaprayer2864 4 місяці тому +2

    Awwww sweetie baby, I love when you get her to do what she needs to do. She's my best friend and so are you ,. These videos are priceless to me . I look forward to the both of you

  • @cindymoore5642
    @cindymoore5642 4 місяці тому +3

    She is such a beautiful woman!! You guys marvelous job with her you guys are beautiful!!!

  • @kimperry9341
    @kimperry9341 4 місяці тому +2

    I wouldn’t say spoiled, I will say very much loved by you for sure.

  • @deborahbrown1753
    @deborahbrown1753 4 місяці тому +5

    Im praying with you 🙏🏼

  • @ysheppard9940
    @ysheppard9940 4 місяці тому +4

    My Favorite Girl ❤

  • @charesseslaughter3778
    @charesseslaughter3778 4 місяці тому

    Can I just give a shoutout to Jesse??? I’m so glad Ms. Norma has you Crystal. I know your story all too well. But I’m even more glad that YOU have Jesse!!! Not only does he allow you the space and time to care for her, but he actively participates in her care with you! My husband walked through the process with me and my mom and can’t imagine not having his HELP in addition to his love and support! Blessings upon you guys ❤

    • @divasanddementia4925
      @divasanddementia4925  4 місяці тому +1

      But wait. lol Jesse is my son. William is my husband. But William does allow me the space to care for her and he’s very active with her care. 🥰🥰🥰

    • @charesseslaughter3778
      @charesseslaughter3778 4 місяці тому

      @@divasanddementia4925 Gotcha! 😅Blessings upon Jesse too. He’s also in the fight! 💗

  • @donnacain9692
    @donnacain9692 4 місяці тому +3

    Beautiful 💐

  • @charris4340
    @charris4340 4 місяці тому +1

    She well loved❤

  • @opalmaytoday5625
    @opalmaytoday5625 4 місяці тому +1

    Crystal to the rescue! Yes! So cute, she let you hold her hand. I love her she’s eating and praying at the same time! 😂😂😂

  • @ruthmitchell6135
    @ruthmitchell6135 4 місяці тому

    I KNEW as soon as you giggled about getting her in her room so easy that you were going to hit a bump in the road!!! Ms Norma strikes again!!!!!

    • @divasanddementia4925
      @divasanddementia4925  4 місяці тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 exactly! She did NOT let me put her pajamas on. And that was fine with me. I
      pick my battles.

  • @junebug7923
    @junebug7923 4 місяці тому

    Man, i commend u....you have patience!

  • @ILoveMyLord51
    @ILoveMyLord51 4 місяці тому

    Ma’am your mama is not spoiled. She is blessed and loved properly as she should be. I’m quite she she has been a great mother and have showered everyone with lots of love. Now, she’s just getting all the love that she gave y’all. And it’s ok if she is spoiled because she deserves it even tho she be cuttin up sometimes 🤣🤣🤣 just please enjoy her for as long as she’s here. Some of us don’t have mothers anymore 😢. Tell Ms. Norma that her internet daughter’s love you🥰 God bless you

  • @monicajohnson5334
    @monicajohnson5334 4 місяці тому

    Your are amazing I know how hard it is to care for the elderly. I use to take care of my grandparents and the went on to take care of the brain injuried and it's work.
    But when it comes to your mom you are what we call heaven sent. She's not spoiled she's blessed to have such a caring and beautiful daughter like you. Reminded me of my older middle Sister she's been caring for mom ma in her home for years along with holding down a manager job for the postal service. I pray that God just continue to give you the strength,love and patience that you have been doing. I have added your family to.my morning devotions and prayer list every morning. When I stumbled onto your video's I was amazed how attentive, calm, cool and collective you always are. Trust me I know there are good and bad days but you still keep moving like a true champ. May God continue to bless, keep you safe with a lot of love. Have a wonderful blessed and safe day.♥️🙏🏼💜

  • @SaveLivesSpayandNeuter
    @SaveLivesSpayandNeuter 4 місяці тому +1

    Loved. Not spoiled.

  • @DownSouth08
    @DownSouth08 4 місяці тому +3

    Ms Norma is loved. When she behaves any other way she won’t be well. Not spoiled,loved. My Mom died 30 yrs. Ago. I wish she was here for me to spoil her.

    • @divasanddementia4925
      @divasanddementia4925  4 місяці тому +2

      So sorry for your loss. My dad has been gone over 30 years and I sure wish he were here. I didn’t get enough time with him AT ALL.

  • @jenniferhamby7667
    @jenniferhamby7667 4 місяці тому

    GOD Bless you. It shows how much you love your Mama. She was a Great momma to you by the way you treat her. Much respect

  • @ari333
    @ari333 4 місяці тому

    Ms. Norma is loved, and cared for.

  • @micheledacosta8192
    @micheledacosta8192 4 місяці тому +1

    Just loved!

  • @nikkilove4434
    @nikkilove4434 4 місяці тому +1

    Not spoiled.loved and cherished.❤just continue and post videos ❤😂😂

  • @theresawebb1968
    @theresawebb1968 4 місяці тому

    My mother is like her.

  • @esthershaw8658
    @esthershaw8658 4 місяці тому

    Such a Sweet Soul❤

  • @gailpenhale6141
    @gailpenhale6141 4 місяці тому +1

    Not spoiled....loved a lot 💗

  • @1969doowop
    @1969doowop 4 місяці тому +6

    SHE IS ABSOLUTELY NOT SHE IS WELL LOVED ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LindaGilbreath
    @LindaGilbreath 4 місяці тому

    ❤!

  • @brendawrightel7432
    @brendawrightel7432 4 місяці тому

    Spoiled no... Loved yes❤❤

  • @Ambitious1987Girl
    @Ambitious1987Girl 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @jessicag4297
    @jessicag4297 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @glendareid2470
    @glendareid2470 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @lesliealmodovar
    @lesliealmodovar 4 місяці тому +3

    I just have a question. Have you noticed if her taste buds have changed since having dementia. I was wondering if people with dementia if there taste buds have change. Because I know sometimes they forget to eat

    • @divasanddementia4925
      @divasanddementia4925  4 місяці тому +3

      I always wonder that myself. She can’t tell me but I assume her taste buds have changed because she used to really season her foods HEAVY. Now, the food at the facility is sometimes bland. She never watched her diet and ate WHATEVER she wanted. Including lots of sugar. When they serve rolls with no butter and she eats it, I’m like…her taste buds MUST be completely changed! lol

    • @kimquisha3061
      @kimquisha3061 4 місяці тому +3

      My grandmother never liked spaghetti or pizza. When she got dementia she would eat it and say that was good😂.

    • @goodgirlee01
      @goodgirlee01 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@divasanddementia4925 alot of people say dementia should be called type 3 diabetes ❤🙏🇺🇸

  • @MarshaCotton
    @MarshaCotton 4 місяці тому

    No she is not spoiled,she is loved.

  • @bettybelongia7213
    @bettybelongia7213 4 місяці тому

    😊😊❤❤

  • @pamelahoward3892
    @pamelahoward3892 3 місяці тому

    She wanted to see your sweet face. That's why she wouldn't eat, lol!!

  • @missbk66
    @missbk66 4 місяці тому

    The way Ms. Norma just said it "No"! 💙💙💙

  • @user-oi7mh7gt5n
    @user-oi7mh7gt5n 4 місяці тому

    I just want to ask a question what keeps your Mom calm when she's getting her hair cut I love her hair?

  • @lorrainelambert2943
    @lorrainelambert2943 4 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @biscuitZnGravy
    @biscuitZnGravy 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @kimwingate4541
    @kimwingate4541 4 місяці тому

    No suga is not spoiled 💜💜

  • @cdmc965
    @cdmc965 4 місяці тому +2

    I have a feeling she may be a tiny bit stubborn! Lol

  • @sharonparis8916
    @sharonparis8916 4 місяці тому

    Norma wanted to eat with her daughter.

  • @KK-hw2nr
    @KK-hw2nr 4 місяці тому

    I don't think she likes the facility's food

  • @1teema
    @1teema 4 місяці тому

    Are you serious??? How can you spoil who no idea of what's really going?😮

  • @way2hotcuttie
    @way2hotcuttie 4 місяці тому

    You are so naturally beautiful ❤️🥹inside out ….