Having Messy Friends | Nikki Glamour
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- Опубліковано 2 гру 2021
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Unfortunately childhood trauma and hyper-sexuality often goes hand in hand… I really respect you for standing up for her
Ashley Lee Not only that but I respect Samantha for being honest with Nikki😁😁😁
Women will always go after the other woman and never check their men and at 13 years old they were too young to be calling those little pubescents their man 💀 I really hope Samantha got the help that she needed though. Situations like that are so sad.
This is one of the reasons why school should be the top priority for kids, and not having boyfriends or worrying about who is doing what. It's less drama that way. 🤷🏿♀️
I also hope that Samantha is in a happier and peaceful place in her life.
I respect the shit out of you for defending her. No one knows what these kids go through and I get it, it’s frustrating. But you were the voice of reason in that moment.
Andrea Corona I know right I respect that so much bless Nikki’s heart❤️❤️❤️
I can’t help but think about Samantha, I hope she’s doing well and has the peace and happiness she deserves 🥺❤️
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I know exactly what “Samantha” felt, I unfortunately disrespected myself just like her for many years. Now I am happily married, my husband knows the WHOLE truth & I am finally happy.
💔❤ So glad you are in a good and safe place now. I felt for Samantha too.
Same girl same.
I went through something similar, my innocence was taken from me when I was around 5 years old and in my young teens I ran towards it then as I got older I went the opposite direction where any male attention made me feel so uncomfortable and disgusted
@@almaliciapg same have found a way to deal with it because I haven’t and it’s starting to affect my friendships
@@loveinterest8714 if you were asking I haven’t found the best way but the best advice I’ve heard is basically that you are not what happened to you, you are not your circumstances, you are whatever you want to become and by not “forgiving” (I put it in quotes because they don’t deserve forgiveness) in whatever way you can you’re only giving them more of your time and energy. Constantly thinking about whatever trauma/pain they cause, letting what happened keep you from being happy, letting it affect your life even after it happened , it’s like you’re giving them that power. I know it almost seems impossible to not think about it but remember you will always have the power to be and do whatever you want for yourself, don’t let anyone or anything stop you.
This is truly a sad story I hope Samantha got the help she needed. I hope she found happiness.
I recently lost a friend similar to Samantha. She wasn’t quiet at all & was considered the life of the party. I stayed friends with her for so long because of her story. I wanted to be there for her bc literally everyone in her life had abandoned her. I pray she’s resting well in heaven.
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I’m sorry for your loss🤍
god bless her soul❤️
I hope Samantha is flourishing and living her best life today
My heart really goes out to Samantha and all the girls like her. As a kid you don’t realize that certain behaviors can clue you into what a person has experienced. I hope we teach our sons & daughters to be gentle with their classmates even in situations like this. I hope Samantha is healing and growing.
Ya'll, when she said that little girl grabbed her friends scalp and Nikki sucker punched her, I fucking hollered 😂😂😂😂 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Ngl kinda love how unbothered Samantha was not saying she was in the right or anything but ✨unbothered✨ energy is such a goal 😆
I hope Samantha is doing well and she overcame her demons 😔
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I can totally relate to Samantha. My husband and I started dating when we were both still in high school, and all the girls who had a crush on him started acting petty af towards me for no reason.
I also knew a girl in my high school that was very sexually active like Samantha. All the girls hated her and talked ish about her. Idk if it's true but it came out after we graduated that she was abused by her dad as well.
Nikki when you recreate the scene after the fight at time 33:06 and you put your middle finger up that got me laughing so hard!!! Love you!
I have noticed girls who are like Samantha go through with that. It makes me ashamed for judging girls like her when I was younger.
37:10 LOL Nikki is so good at retelling stories, when she imitated the bully's facial expression trying to hold it in after she saw her bf's number I could totally see it HAHA
😭😭😭😭😭😭SAMEEE
You know someone's good at telling a story when you're trying so hard not to choke up because of the amount of emotions running through your mind... Nikki I cantttt 🤣😤
I experienced a level of hyper sexuality as a child but for the longest time I didn't connect the dots in my head as to why I did what I did. SA can really fuck with a child's mind.
This makes sense to why I did a lot of what I did. It’s really sad and I’m so sorry. I hope we ALL heal💖🥰🥺
I relate to Samantha so much. As a kid I ran towards to sexuality and the attention I got from being lusted after and as I got older I ran away from sex
Kinda sounds like you got sent to be a friend for Samantha and stand up for her , maybe she needed it the most at that time and that’s why you were there for a short while :)
I hope that Samantha was able to heal and move on with her life positively and happily. NO ONE deserves to be treated that way, especially not a child. Praying for her, for you Nikki in hopes that you have been able to heal through your own trauma, and any other person who may have gone through something similar. I promise things get better.
I wish I had a friend like Nikki back in middle school. I was a loner and didn’t really have friends. I feel for Samantha and relate to her to some degree. I really hope Samantha is doing better in life and get the help that she needs. This story time made me cry 😔😪❤️🩹
Every single one of the girls involved had some level of trauma. That’s sad. As much as I want to take up for “Sam” & I do feel sorry for her, but I’m really mad @ ALLLLLL the grownups in their lives. Shame on the ones involved in causing their heartaches.
Why aren't the girls mad at their boyfriends for perving on Samantha in the first place? Be mad at the boys who are so willing to engage in this predatory behavior.
because she knew, from Nikki's words you don't do that shit to another woman just like you would call a mistress a homewrecker if she did some shit like this...also how is it predatory behavior when they are the same age that doesn't make sense?
@@emixxixx3001 Even though she knew, those boys are to blame as well. If they were faithful, they wouldn't have even thought about going after Samantha in that way. A lot of girls, and society in general, tend to push all the blame onto the woman rather than address the root of the problem, AKA their boyfriend/husband. If somebody is willing to cheat, they are going to do so even if they aren't provoked, and from what Samantha said those boys approached her first.
Obviously, nobody should be getting with another person's boyfriend/girlfriend, but I believe that putting all the blame on the other person is simply wrong. I also believe that calling the person outside of the relationship a homewrecker is incorrect. In my opinion, the term homewrecker should be used to refer to the person who cheats because you can't wreck a relationship that is already broken. In other words, if somebody is willing to cheat then that is nobody else's fault but the person who decides to be disloyal. And that word is just an excuse to put all the blame on the other person. Those boys are the ones that owed their girlfriends loyalty. Not Samantha. They should've went after their boyfriends instead.
Don't get me wrong, though. I'm not saying that what Samantha was doing was okay, but based on her past I can understand why she acted the way she did. Trauma, especially sexual trauma, can really mess with a person's mentality, especially a child's. And it breaks my heart that some children have to deal with that. We need to be more empathetic towards situations like Samantha's.
Given that,it explains ariel's behaviors,too.oh,yes.we all know of the hss stories.
We know about middle school girls being passed around like grass at a snoop dogg concert.
Not like grass at a Snoop Dog concert! ROTFL
The way Nikki was imitating the dudes in her computer class at 13:33😂
It sucks reading comments with how many women relate to Samantha and what she’s been through. Rachel is an icon, love her. It seems like insecure girls didn’t like you Nikki because you don’t take shit from anybody and will stand up for yourself, I hope I raise my kids like that. I’m gonna be the type of parent to take my kid for ice cream after fighting with someone at school if it’s for the right reasons.
Rachel saved the day. Never expected that, lol.
i hope samantha is doing well now a days, she deserves it
WE NEED MORE STORIES WITH RACHEL 😂😂
“ TRUST , we do not have a problem with miss Samantha . “ LMFAOOOO 😭😭😭 plsss .
Hi Nikki, thanks for sharing a bit of your story about your experience with SA. I didn’t know this, is this something you’ve shared about before & I missed? Or something you’d be willing to share about? I think it’s great to speak on our own experience and spread awareness, especially of the long term effects like you explained with Samantha
I’m definitely coming around to the thought of talking about it publicly, I haven’t yet but I’m working towards it, if it can help any of you guys absolutely 💕
I kind of had some speculation that something had happened to you (SA) because those same signs I saw in myself. But at least you got help / therapy from your very strong protective mother . As someone who suffered as a child I think your story about what happened to you will help not only girls but boys as well . The strength you display and the logical woman you are today is a testament to the care you received . And not everyone knows what to do or how to go on about getting help. And I think that’s the first step to healing yourself.
@@NikkiGlamour please do this can help a lot of young women who might be currently going through SA. When I was around 13-14 I went through similar things Samantha had in this story. I tried to find ways to tell my family what was happening to me at that time (2012) and it was hard to find recourses on the internet to help me speak up about it because I didn’t understand I was being SA and I felt so alone. I look up to you Nikki and I really think you sharing your story can be very helpful to woman who may have experienced this or who might currently be experiencing SA . ❤️
@@NikkiGlamourHi Nikki, can you please elaborate on your experience. I know this comment was left two years ago and maybe you have addressed it but I am so curious to your perspective growing up in it, because watching you touch on this coming from a self assured woman like yourself would empower many of the soft spoken ones. Thanks Nikki 🤞💞💖
"It was saying cheese" 🧀 lmaoooo I died in this part
I hope Samantha got the help and support she needed to get through life and I hope she’s living a great life today.
Did anyone else not know Nikki is a s/a survivor,? I feel like everyone’s handled it so calmly and I’m over here freaking out
Right! I’ve always had a feeling tho idk just some sort of pain you see in some SA survivors. I haven’t heard her mention it on her channel until now.
@@sandraguzman9891 I remember a few years ago mentioning it, but that she didn't feel ready enough to go into it.
I'm so so so sorry that happened to you Nikki, and im so so so sorry for Samantha and anyone who's been a survivor of SA. Y'all are so strong.
As much as I would love to be one of the first people to watch, I need to savor this video and watch it after I get some work done and I wanna reward myself. This is going to be my one good thing that happened today coz today was a bad sad day.
Rachellllll has me rolling 😭 I don’t know what I was expecting but I was expecting her having the number in her book bag
You are THEE QUEEN of story times 👑❤️I’ll never get tired of hearing about your interesting /crazy/authentic life.
It a good Friday when both my favs you and Alexis Jayda posted Storytimes. It like you planned it 😏
I just came from Alexis!
Me too I just watched Alexis!!!! I’m trying to get through the last stretch of work.
I Loooove Alexis Jayda, But Nikki is better at story telling 🤗
Yesssa
I love Alexis too!
Nikki your friend had a trauma bond. All she wanted was to feel loved because her parents never gave it to her so she tried to find it
Not Nikki fighting for her friend yesssssss🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You should have a scripted show based on your life. It's so interesting. I love your storytelling and storytimes.😊
We need more stories about Samantha! Racheal is iconic!
I don’t think Samantha was in the wrong. She can’t help what she’s been through and it’s 100% on the boyfriends. She doesn’t owe those girls anything. It’s the boyfriends responsibility to respect the relationship. Samantha simply existed, if they came to her they came to her. But kids are incredibly immature and they don’t have the empathy to understand hyper sexuality. Being that way isn’t the best circumstance to be introduced to that part of life but people shouldn’t attach so much negativity to sex. As long as the participants are being safe and consent nobody should be degrading people especially because nobody truly knows what anyone has been through. Also just because someone is sexual doesn’t necessarily mean they have been SA. Some people just enjoy sex and that’s okay. It’s not bad to participate and enjoy it. But regardless nobody deserves what that girl been through.
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Wait Nikki was inappropriately abused as a child? Does she ever tell about this on her channel?
I dont think so ive been following her for years and this is the first time I heared it.. im so sad that happened to her 😞
I was wondering the same thing!! I NEVER heard about this before and I’ve seen pretty much every video she’s made. 😩🥺
No I don't think she has. I've been subscribed for years and have been following her on other social media for a while so this is my first time hearing about this. I'm very proud of her for sharing tho and not judging Samantha. She has shared other traumas that have happened in her life so im not surprised she was comfortable enough to let her subscribers know that shes a survivor too.
she talks about it in her onlyfans
I was sure she shared it passingly in a video before
Being hyper sexual at a young age is so sad to see, and is usually a very common result of trauma 😔
IM SORRY BUT THE “ it was saying cheese 🤗” KILLED ME OMG
I’m upset she stopped the BESTFRIEND dance at the start too sooon like gurlll I was vibingz to that😂
I hope your short friendship helped Samantha see that she is still worthy of love
I had a friend like Samantha back in highschool & now she’s happily married & has 3 baby boys 🥲❤️ but yeah she was wildin back then but I knew why & I always just felt bad & wanted to be a good friend to her, but look at her now lol
Hold on. Nikki you are brave for even stating you were SA and so compassionate to someone who delt with it differently than you❤️
That trauma 💔 even tho she shouldn’t be doing that! I just feel bad because it’s a chain reaction (physical, emotional, mental, & spiritually) smh! -Anyia
You remind me so much of my little sister but an older version lol I think that’s why I love you sm. The way you talk, your demeanor, yalls personalities are so similar!
Heeyy Nikki!
Thank you for posting on UA-cam it’s been foreva! I love to watch your story times!
Sorry off topic but I’m so excited to see this 🥳 I finally got out the hospital yesterday - I’m finally back homeee 🥳🥳 thank you for getting me through my rough spot Nikki and the glam fam - you all really helped me through it and not help me feel so alone 🥺
I hope you're doing alright. We're all here for you. I'm happy you found comfort in our little glam fam.
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i’m CRYING at the “ladies….” after the fight 😂😂😭🤣🤣🤣
Hey nikki i just want to thank you. I haven’t watched ur vids in a while but i just want you to know your storytimes were a big part of my teen-hood and that you basically taught me american english. You are such a sound person and a beautiful soul and i always feel safe watching u❤️❤️❤️
“Who want it first?!”
“YO MAN DO!!” 😅
We all have stuck up for friends that done messed up too, girl I get it. “We’ll you don’t need to come at her like thaaaaaat”!
So basically the boyfriends of these other girls are going to Samantha and basically flirting with Samantha. So the boys are making the 1st move towards Samantha knowing that they have a girlfriend. So it's not really samantha's fault.
FINALLY and I LOVE the new background
i’m so happy you posted today 🥲 i love you nikki! 💓
Yess I needed a juicy story time pleaser keep em coming 😭😂
you are my saving grace. your videos are so good lmao long time supporter 🤞🏽 texan gang 4L
“It said cheeseee” 😂😂😂😂😭
Okay so I was going thru your old videos and refreshed the screen and was like oh I haven’t seen this one. I screamed so loud in my husbands ear when it said 9 minute ago lmao
These are my favorite type of storytimes yasssss Nikki!
Omg girl I love your storytimes and all the details you include! Xoxo
Heyy bessfraaaannnn💖 Spending the whole day at the library doing my school work, video is just on time for my break✨
I’m kind of living for Samanthas energy
GIRL I came here with my whole chick-fil-a MEAL 😂❤️
I feel like yes girl code but if your boyfriend is talking to other girls you need to break up. Yes you might have history but if it’s not a girl you know it’ll be someone you don’t know.
With it being in middle school I know relationship are important to young girls so they can be upset and not thinking it’s more on the guy than Samantha
also i feel like she didn’t owe any type of loyalty to those girls. it’s the most annoying thing when girls don’t say shit to their POS loser boyfriends but the girl instead
Ahh yes! It’s Friday having dinner while watching you!!!!!! Yassss bestie!
NIKKI I LOVE YOUR STORY TIMES! I've been watching since high school, currently in my second year of uni :) never stop making them!
Oooh bestie this came at the right time!! 😩
This is legit what my life was like in middle school😂😭
I remembered why I forgot I heard this story. I’m so sorry she went through that. I’m glad you were kind to her.
I literally screamed when you uploaded. I've been binging your story times all week!
I legit love your storytimes 🖤
Hey nikki love you're storytimes I was watching this one while washing dishes 🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤😂😂😂😂
LMFAO THE PANTING NIKKI I CANTTTTT
I literally screeched when I saw posted 22 minutes ago!
I get so excited for the new tea when I see ur notifications pop up 😩
I’m sorry Nikki that that happened to you as well ❤️ I hope you are doing better and able to feel secure❤️❤️
Nikki i just wanna say ilysm and thank you so much for your content. 🤍
it’s the heavy breathing “fuck you” 😂😂😂😭😭
33:02 lol you're reaction is perfect ❤️ please do more storytimes often please Nikki
I miss you let me binge watch all the videos I’ve missed out on!!!!!
I literally just said the same thing 🤣🤣
I have so much to watch while I’m at work🥳🥳
You really spoke on this topic so well. You are such a beautiful soul!
I usually dnt like middle school highschool stories
But when u tell them I’m tuned in lol
“IT WAS SAYIN CHEEZE” 👏👏👏📸
Yessss, Happy Friday Glamazons!
I love you Nikki! And missed you so much!!!!
Ohhh, I'm early. Because its story tiiiimmeee...😂🥰
GIRL I WAS JUST REFRESHING YOUR CHANNEL LIKE WHEN IS SHE HONNA POST AGAIN IVE MISSED YOUUUU
Girl! I’m sorry! Thank you so much for keeping up with my sh*t 🥰 I really appreciate you
Not u messing up my sleep schedule hehe but sending love from Uganda ❤️❤️love u gurll
12 seconds in and I already liked the video 😭😭 love u silly girl
Thank youuuuu 💕
That is so funny and that girl Samantha will never forget you for being a real one