A year ago, I got rejected twice at work (once for an internal role due to a lack of confidence, and another for a promotion to my title). I finally mustered up the courage to quit. Fast forward to today, I’m earning almost double what I was same time last year and in a job I’m thriving in. Now….time to apply a similar mentality to my dating life AFTER I work on being happy alone first.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
You always come through with the specifics and receipts for everything you talk about, and most impressive, how unique your delivery is amongst many speaking on similar subjects.
Vickita I am your biggest biggest fan and I am watching your videos since years and years ago you are my inspiration and I wish you have a blessed weekend🩷🩷🩷
Really love this video. Have been battling with this idea for quite sometime... This just clarified it all. I love the maybe mindset that you have added here today. Honestly i firmly believe that rejection is redirection towards what is most favorable for you personally.
That is such great advice that I've been seeking. The game of getting a "No!" is really important in business as well, which is where I will use this. I'm interested in sales so the notion that a rejection is also a win is great (for example, I've made an effort to connect, introduced myself to someone and they rejected me now but they may remember me in the future.)
Oh vickita I love you girl. I just got rejected and fall into moderate depression. I tried to bring myself up again by watching videos about rejection but none of them really changed my mind. Before watching this video I was hesitated that maybe your content too will not be able to change me. But by the end of this video my mindset changed..hahaha yes you did it girl! That game at the end is really a game changer. I never knew that rejection can be a fun game. Thanks a lot..you really saved me today. Love you girl! Keep doing what you're doing! I really love all your contents. ❤❤❤
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Beautiful Woman, Beautiful Halter top. I very much appreciate you addressing this topic & all subjects you bravely & so gracefully & strongly address. ❤U Thank You
This is such a good exercise, thanks so muck Vicki ❤ I need to try this “rejection seeking” to conquer my fear of awkward silences in a conversation. Basically I’m always talking/asking questions to avoid any silence as it makes me feel socially awkward and rejected if there is a silence and I don’t “fix it”. So so scary though..am I the only one with this fear?
Been watching your videos forever & love them. I know the marketing tactic of highlight the problem & show the solution, I know you have to make bold statements in the first 5 secs to get people to stay but I’m almost turned off from watching the video by having you speak negative in such an affirmative way. Yes I want help on rejection . However I do get what I want . To says words like “you never get what you want” just don’t sit right in my psyche lol. I get it’s marketing & “never” is a bold word but maybe say “*maybe you’re someone* who never gets what they want” You can delete this comment after you read it. Just offering an unsolicited opinion as someone who loves your content but cringes at those statements. Read with love xoxo
Lol I just asked this guy if I could get a discount on my orange juice and he said for what and I was like I don’t know for anything and he said if I was a first responder😅
Lol I just asked this guy if I could get a discount on my orange juice and he said for what and I was like I don’t know for anything and he said if I was a first responder😅 I told him I wasn’t a first responder, should I have told him yes. I don’t have a way to prove it. Do you think he would’ve just believed me? I don’t wanna lie, but I kind of just wanted to see you know if I could get the discount. Because I know the point is to get rejected, but when he says for what I kind of feel stupid or dumb because it’s like I obviously didn’t do anything to earn the discount, but that’s not the point of this exercise. But then it makes me think what could I do to earn a discount. But is that not the feminine way to think or am I like acting entitled or could it be something else that I’m missing?
You are not covering the lack of desirable options which is a major reason why ppl dont walk away the first time from lack of effort. Only way to be ok with rejection is to have evidence that there is plenty of desirable alternatives otherwise you reject rejection and your still alone.
This is such a good exercise, thanks so muck Vicki ❤ I need to try this “rejection seeking” to conquer my fear of awkward silences in a conversation. Basically I’m always talking/asking questions to avoid any silence as it makes me feel socially awkward and rejected if there is a silence and I don’t “fix it”. So so scary though..am I the only one with this fear?
My favorite saying is “if not this, then something better”
A year ago, I got rejected twice at work (once for an internal role due to a lack of confidence, and another for a promotion to my title). I finally mustered up the courage to quit.
Fast forward to today, I’m earning almost double what I was same time last year and in a job I’m thriving in.
Now….time to apply a similar mentality to my dating life AFTER I work on being happy alone first.
I really like the Chinese farmer story. It definitely shows how we can't see whether or not something is truly good or bad. We have to wait and see.
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Watching this has showed me how much I grew and can’t identify with being scared of rejection. Your videos have helped and self concept.
Please stay on the internet, this is so good ❤
This content is so valuable, I mostly integrated into my mindset but some topics are more slippery… Needed the reminder! Thank you girl❤
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Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
Vickita, you're so inspiring! You matter! And you are fulfilling your UA-cam purpose! ❗️❗️
You always come through with the specifics and receipts for everything you talk about, and most impressive, how unique your delivery is amongst many speaking on similar subjects.
Vickita I am your biggest biggest fan and I am watching your videos since years and years ago you are my inspiration and I wish you have a blessed weekend🩷🩷🩷
Love the edits to this video with the text on screen!
I love your tip "Try to get rejected" it's genius! I'm gonna try this daily, so excited.
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Really love this video. Have been battling with this idea for quite sometime... This just clarified it all. I love the maybe mindset that you have added here today. Honestly i firmly believe that rejection is redirection towards what is most favorable for you personally.
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That is such great advice that I've been seeking. The game of getting a "No!" is really important in business as well, which is where I will use this. I'm interested in sales so the notion that a rejection is also a win is great (for example, I've made an effort to connect, introduced myself to someone and they rejected me now but they may remember me in the future.)
I feel so uplifted thank you so much ❤❤
Hello Vickita, thank you for the video. Also, I really love the new style, makes it easier to remember the key concepts. Cheers ✨
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Love this so much!! Facts for sure!!
Great topic! Thanks again vicketa😊
rejection is redirection
Oh vickita I love you girl. I just got rejected and fall into moderate depression. I tried to bring myself up again by watching videos about rejection but none of them really changed my mind. Before watching this video I was hesitated that maybe your content too will not be able to change me. But by the end of this video my mindset changed..hahaha yes you did it girl! That game at the end is really a game changer. I never knew that rejection can be a fun game. Thanks a lot..you really saved me today. Love you girl! Keep doing what you're doing! I really love all your contents. ❤❤❤
This is definitely one of my favorite videos on your channel!!! 🎉
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
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This was amazing! You rock Vikita 🙌🏼💚 thanks for this valuable content
Love the new subtitles style, pleasant looking and useful!
I needed this video and I love the editing here wayyyyy more
These videos are my therapy❤
This is a really good video! I always look forward to your videos and I love your energy✨
I love your videos. I am glad that i came across your channel!💗
I like your game 😂❤ so helpful
Thanks Vickita, I appreciate this. 💚
Beautiful Woman, Beautiful Halter top. I very much appreciate you addressing this topic & all subjects you bravely & so gracefully & strongly address. ❤U Thank You
Great video! Thank you
This is such a good exercise, thanks so muck Vicki ❤ I need to try this “rejection seeking” to conquer my fear of awkward silences in a conversation. Basically I’m always talking/asking questions to avoid any silence as it makes me feel socially awkward and rejected if there is a silence and I don’t “fix it”. So so scary though..am I the only one with this fear?
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I love ur videos ❤
Been watching your videos forever & love them. I know the marketing tactic of highlight the problem & show the solution, I know you have to make bold statements in the first 5 secs to get people to stay but I’m almost turned off from watching the video by having you speak negative in such an affirmative way.
Yes I want help on rejection . However I do get what I want . To says words like “you never get what you want” just don’t sit right in my psyche lol.
I get it’s marketing & “never” is a bold word but maybe say “*maybe you’re someone* who never gets what they want”
You can delete this comment after you read it. Just offering an unsolicited opinion as someone who loves your content but cringes at those statements.
Read with love xoxo
Lol I just asked this guy if I could get a discount on my orange juice and he said for what and I was like I don’t know for anything and he said if I was a first responder😅
Why did you do it??
I need more details to ur story.
I did it bc in this ^ video vickita said to
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Not me hearing this farmer story on bluey 😭
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Lol I just asked this guy if I could get a discount on my orange juice and he said for what and I was like I don’t know for anything and he said if I was a first responder😅 I told him I wasn’t a first responder, should I have told him yes. I don’t have a way to prove it. Do you think he would’ve just believed me? I don’t wanna lie, but I kind of just wanted to see you know if I could get the discount. Because I know the point is to get rejected, but when he says for what I kind of feel stupid or dumb because it’s like I obviously didn’t do anything to earn the discount, but that’s not the point of this exercise. But then it makes me think what could I do to earn a discount. But is that not the feminine way to think or am I like acting entitled or could it be something else that I’m missing?
You are not covering the lack of desirable options which is a major reason why ppl dont walk away the first time from lack of effort. Only way to be ok with rejection is to have evidence that there is plenty of desirable alternatives otherwise you reject rejection and your still alone.
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This is such a good exercise, thanks so muck Vicki ❤ I need to try this “rejection seeking” to conquer my fear of awkward silences in a conversation. Basically I’m always talking/asking questions to avoid any silence as it makes me feel socially awkward and rejected if there is a silence and I don’t “fix it”. So so scary though..am I the only one with this fear?
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