7 Things I GAVE UP To Reinvent Myself *life changing* (literally)
Вставка
- Опубліковано 15 лют 2023
- 🚀 The Feminine Protocol: UPGRADE CLUB vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/t...
---
[FREE] done-for-you Physical GLOW UP guide 🎀
vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/g...
Time Stamps:
---
⤵️ Books I recommend:
Art of seduction: a.co/hSs9bvA
The Five Levels of Attachment: a.co/hSs9bvA
The Laws of Human Nature: a.co/hSs9bvA
⤵️ My Feminine Self-Care Products
www.amazon.ca/shop/influencer...
---
⤵️ Other Videos To Watch:
How To BEAM Feminine Energy *life-changing*: • Video
Girl To Woman Transformation | How To Be A High-Value Woman: • Video
I've Attracted Every Man I've Ever Wanted...: • Video
How I Manifest ANYTHING Using Scripting | Manifestation Journal | Law of Attraction Success: • Video
---
⤵️ Let's Connect
Instagram → / vickita.trivedi
Tik Tok → www.tiktok.com/@vickita.trive...
Private FB Group → / 3075883615997194
---
#dating #datingadvice #datingapps #datingadviceforwomen #datingvsmarriage #datingcoach #datingredflags #datingexpert #datingtipsforwomen #feminine #femininity #hypergamy #manifestation #lawofattraction #lawofassumption #affirmations #selfcare #femininehygiene #hygiene #youtubeislife #subscriber #youtubeguru #youtubecontent #newvideo #subscribers #youtubevideo #women #womenempowerment #youtuber and #youtubevideos
Affiliate Disclosure:
The products listed in this description are affiliate links, which means that I make a commission every time you make a purchase using these links, at no extra cost to you
#levelup #reinventyourself #bestyearever
get him hooked course: vickitatrivedi.mykajabi.com/gethimhooked
thanks for sharing this video sis. I'm 32 and One thing I learnt in life is that no matter how little, no matter the age it's never too late to get started and having the mindset that every day of your life you're evolving. Life becomes unpleasurable when you add too much pressure. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations ma'am! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on... I hope it is useful to you.
How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you girl that's a great accomplishment keep it going 👍
I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
01. Mindset
02. Self talk
03. Environment (people and places)
04. Physical appearance
05. Health
06. Consumption (people, social media etc)
07. Routine
I'm stuck on 03... I love my family, but I need a change in scenery 😭
Im 43 and just became aware of my inner bully . Self love means a whole other thing now. ❤
It amazes me how women misjudge themselves and don't see themselves as the beautiful creatures they are. I am seeing this channel for the first time and I was shocked to hear that you could ever see yourself as not being beautiful. I am a straight hetero woman but when I first clicked on this I thought " wow what a beautiful lady, big beautiful eyes, lips, dark hair, well spoken, intelligent, and obviously living in a nice place. That's what i saw in the first few seconds. But it seems there are so many women that are blinded by their unique exquisitness. It is unbelievable how hard women are on themselves.
1. Mindset 2:09
2. Going through old stories and reframing beliefs those are not serving for oneself 7:27
3. Environment (people and physical environment) 9:47
4. Dressing how you felt 16:05
5. Health 19:39
6. Consumption 22:23
7. Routine 24:24
After our mindsets changed, my man and I suddenly upgraded from a mobile home (with his mom living down the street and electrical issues), to a luxury apartment with a mountain view and all the amenities. The mindset shift changed our tolerance level for bs and now we are enjoying our lives more, along with independence. 🎉 There was an adjustment period having to deal with the move, but after we got our new routines together, it’s been peaceful and refreshing. We’re getting $18k from selling the mobile home next week so that’ll help us feel even more secure. Mindset is a big deal.
I LOVE THIS!
So happy for you sister
Please help me out with any advice on how it works out for you changing mindset, I'll appreciate it alot.
I'm a teacher and I love how you state our learning objectives at the beginning of this video 🤣
Babe. U suffered the consequences of low mindset and therefore u want to help other women is noble. Also proud of your journey
"Girl, You need a Whole New Personality" She Spoke to ME directly!!!
you dont though, lean into your positive qualities
For a period of time not only did I dress masculine, but I started acting and talking super boyish and even dating girls at one point because I was so traumatized. You're so spot on with our outside reflecting our inside
this resonates a bit. i started dressing a bit less feminine after taking a month off of socials and opening my mind up to how much we as women seek validation from men all. the. time. it's been a process of deciphering what is for me and what is for men and letting the pendulum swing back to a more level place. i'm taking another month off for january to reset my mind again and reconnect with my values etc. i do love being feminine, it's just a matter of being clear on intentions etc.
Love your channel! Im a 44 year old mom, and really lost my "identity" over the years. Your vids have helped me so much!!! Thank you!!!!
you deserve to honor yourself mama! ❤
Same here, we are getting US back!
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my UA-cam channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,128 subs and > 900 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
Very inspirational 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 it's alla bout the journey enjoyy
@@bushrasaid195 Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my UA-cam channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a UA-camr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this UA-cam thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)
Don’t give up!! It looks like you’ve gotten more subscribers but stopped posting videos. Keep going!!
The four agreement book is a nice staple for shifting reality. I completely deleted my Facebook account and deactivated Instagram and I feel like my close circle downsized to a handful. All new behaviors are awkward but now I feel spoiled w the life I'm building and learning to harness my feminine energy and it is a beautiful thing but the intake and routine are key !
Refraining old stories and rewriting beliefs is such a game changer
I recently found your channel and I’m hooked. It is beyond me how someone as beautiful as you could think that she’s unattractive. It only proves how important mindset is.
I’m so glad you’re here ❤️ and I really appreciate your kind words - mindset is everything
Super honest and I can attest to “needing a new personality” even if it hurts a lot hearing it the first time.
Hey new bestie! Just found your channel, I've been doing a lot of this already but its nice to have confirmation sometimeswhile youre still processing, literally just dumped my whole family because of how toxic they get. It's hard, I've had feelings of loneliness but I've never been more productive, I've never felt more like the mom and wifey I want to be. It's really crazy that I am already a whole different person!
I'm a professional astrologer/psychic & tarot reader & your videos kept popping up in my feed so I clicked. And I'm glad I did. Thank you for creating a space for other women who want to make something of ourselves & seek our purpose here.💞 Mindsets have the biggest impact on us & I honestly didn't understand the concept of self-worth until I started doing my work professionally. As women we just have so much to give & we deserve to live as abundantly as we can. I'm proud of you for mentioning cutting off all old friends, I did the same. Society frowns upon it so loudly because they inherently think of women as servants. I felt awful for the longest time for finally putting myself first whilst business was suddenly oddly booming & I was making all these new connections... That's when I realised how much they were holding me back whilst I was always uplifting everyone. Our mindsets & environments can either build or destroy which is exactly why we need to choose wisely. The best investment we'll ever make is investing in ourselves first & foremost.
Hmm, I used to be very much into consulting psychics years ago. Later, I got saved and repented, and at one point I learned that psychics (the real deal ones, that is) get their supernatural information from a familiar spirit (which is a demon). Yikes.
eh, to each their own. I'm glad you chose another path ♥ but please don't "yikes" someone just because they don't share your beliefs :(@@AI-ch3if have a good sunday!!
Thank you soooo much for putting this out. I resonate most with the obsession with social media. I recently made the decision to get off social media and it was the best decision I could have ever made to help with my mindset shift. Before that, I purged my feed and content, but it really didn't help because you can't help the algorithm and it's need to reach you. I'll absolutely be purchasing your course very soon.
Glad you made such a powerful decision for yourself queen 👊🏼 I'll be here when you're ready to enroll!
Hello sis how are you? I'm just noticed your comment as I love scrolling through comments to see people opinion. I started watching her videos few days ago and I'm so happy with the great insight in life that I'm learning about which I have been looking for and I wanted to get her course but all I can say is everything always worked out for me just like how I stumbled on her channel few days ago so I want to beg a favor from you please anyhow you can help share the course with me I'll be really grateful , I have always wanted to buy courses like this but I haven't been able and I never ask anyone to help me out with a course like I'm doing now. I'll really be very happy if I can get it shared with me. Thank you so much sis
I love seeing this from a young woman and you are bringing these truths in a unique way. Between you and Mina Irfan I am finally learning to
“See” myself and beginning to heal and change and embody the new belief systems.
i love to hear this!!
I told a friend like this, that the day she started supporting me and paying all my bills I would do what she wanted me to do over what I needed to do for myself. Needless to say we haven’t been friends in over 10 years.
Probably the 3 video I've seen of yours. Didn't expect to love it this much. & you weren't kidding, you undeed are really funny 😂😂
Thank you girlllll. I needed to hear this today
Really love this! ❤️
Great videos, I am in the middle of this process! So it is very nice that I run into your videos :)
Omg girl
It really works❤
Everything you said is on point!😮
I've re-invented myself a few times and I'm about to level up again after a[nother] redirect?! Thank you for these tips 🎉
“If I could just feel good enough to clean my room” that’s where I’m at because of health issues for the last year. I have toxic family and environment but can’t work due to this but want to start a business.. but you know… $$$ yikes. So it’s tough and seemingly impossible. I’m very spiritual myself but there has to be a way out. Environment is a big one for me and I’ve been stuck for too long.
you hit the nail on the head with ALL of your videos. Really glad I found you and love love love your channel.
I love you so much. You have no idea how much you’ve impacted me. As a life path 11, I'm inherently sensitive. Even tho I’m enriched with wisdom from years of spiritual exploration. Until now, I hadn't encountered a woman who reached the end of the tunnel, proclaiming, "I made it, and so can you, here's how." You've introduced me to the unknown unknowns, inspiring not just me but countless others on this journey. Thank you for being that guiding light, sister. 🙏 Now we have someone to look up to and not give up.
More power to you✨
This was great thank you ! My home environment is already in line with what I’m achieving. But I can definitely work on the other things you mentioned. I’m so happy for you for doing the work and breaking out of negative habits. New subscriber here ! ♥️
New subscriber! I love your channel! I worry a lot and have constant intrusive thoughts, I am taking over and I’m tired of it.. I want to change. Thank you🥹😭💗 Let’s heal ladies! #universehasmyback 🌙
This is extremeley helpful thank you❤
You and your channel are pure Gold. I'm grateful i found you
Excellent!!!! Love the straightforward words.
Do a lot of this.
Your videos are a blessing 🙏🏿
Gurrrl mic dropp on that iLOVE THAT . Your personality reflects your personal reality. Mic dropp loloo
I still would like to give some love and hug the past version of you. Thanks for being vulnerable. Its so easy to love on stranger, and so hard to give yourself
Thank you for your videos! I’m in a space where I’m wanting to better myself and being more feminine.. going with the flow etc.. thank you for walking in your purpose! You’re helping so many women! God bless you girlfriend! 🫶🏾🤎
I’m so glad I found your channel!!!
You are such a queen! 👸🏽 I love your content and trust me they have been helping me in certain areas! Tysm! ❤😊
I can relate on so many levels ❤❤❤ Currently working on my environment and health
Thanks Vickita you've literally changed my life thx thx forever you're perfect 😢❤
This was surprisingly helpful, thank you. Glad I clicked on this video even though I've heard it all before, you explained things in a straight forward and enlightening way. Loved the emphasis on spirituality, that is my priority in life. Feminine energy... "I used to dress very masculine because I didn't like attention from men" same girl, same. Living in a Canadian city where most women dress masculine, I stood out way too much when I wore dresses and heels, so it was just easier to dress like everyone else unless I was going out for a special occasion, but slowly that "basic look" became my wardrobe and I got used to being comfortable. Yesterday I dressed in a cute but cozy feminine weekend look, did my makeup, wore pink lipstick and went out... Wow, I was magnetic. Not only people were nicer to me, but I also won $20 from a lottery ticket, walked into a wine tasting at a store and enjoyed some expensive wine for free, received a gift card from a beauty store. It was just incredible how being in a relaxed, receptive feminine energy truly made me a magnet for positive experiences. Not sleeping on this power anymore! 💗
I'm loving you Vickita, thanks !
Thank you UA-cam algorithm! Vickita popped up in my feed, I’ve now watched three of her videos in a row, and oh my gosh…she is preaching GOSPEL! Listen up because she knows what she’s talking about. 👌 ⬆️ ⬆️ ⬆️
Very insightful
I did all this 5 years back…
Thanks for validating
I love this! Thank you! 🤎
Glad you like it!
That health part was so relatable - currently sick but I knowwww the breakthrough and turn around is HERE. I am gonna be healthy! ❤
I have found your channel yesterday and am loving the content. The way you break things down and are so matter of fact is very helpful
i love to hear that! and welcome aboard gorg
Vickita, thank youuuuu
I feel depressed these weeks even though the year has just started...
doung everything what I can to save myself...
I love this video even if I’m so much older than you. By the way I’m 47. You are so wise and beautiful. Thank you for dropping this wise knowledge on UA-cam 😊.
so proud of you for how you are handling chronic illness
I had to cut off almost all my friends because they were not just toxic, but highly narcissistic(covert ones). They did not say it out loud, but I could feel it deep down till my tissues that they did not want me to be happy, successful and thriving. They were a bunch of jealous, insecure people who delighted in pulling others down. Some of them were 100% takers who leeched off my good energy and left me feeling like shit every damn time I spoke to them. I'm so glad they're gone. The problem with such folks is that they don't let go of you easily- they know if they lose you, they'll have no sounding board for all the negativity they carry within themselves and then they'll have to deal with inner demons on their own(which they cannot).
Now I need to cut off my toxic parents. Again, not going to be an easy one but they need to go. The reason I attracted toxic friends into my life was because I had not just one but two highly toxic parents. It sucks that here in India, parents are put on a pedestal and worshipped like they can never do anything wrong! Nobody wants to see the elephant in the room.
Great content, Vickita! You're wise, intelligent and gorgeous! I hope you manifest everything good that you dream of :) Best wishes!
Great talk. Especially the spirituality part.
Your message is amazing ❤
Loved the video and adore the outfit - such class!
aw thank you!
Love it when you say i am giving u the green light😊
Inspiring. Thankyou x
Very good points here. All 7. Thank you.
Wait, what? You thought you were ugly??!! Oh my goodness, in all sincerity, you are GORGEOUS!! I just happened to stumble on to this video and you know what? Soo glad I did! This content is what I'm trying to be about and this video has some really helpful advice. Thank you for creating this content and wanting to help! Btw, I subscribed immediately! 🤗♥️♥️♥️
so grateful for your videos.
Thank you for your content. I don´t align with 100% of it, but I do think very similarly about the steps and importance of self improvement, and when I talk about it people say I´m too structured and obsessive, and I feel boring by sharing my experience since I have a similar background that I´ve been leaving behind for some time now. You are so clear and unapologetic, I find validation and feel less alone. It´s ok to self improve and the right people will be happy for you and not make you feel shitty about it because they aren´t capable of making the effort.
Dear Vickita, thanks so much for all your videos and your knowledge! I totally love your authenticity and I really learn a lot from you!❤️
I’m really drawn to her uniqueness she’s so fresh, different and interesting
Damnnnnn...yes. You're awesome and I love all you're dropping. I did a lot of similar shifting in my early 20's and it made ALL the difference in my life. I'm super grateful for you and your videos b/c now I find myself a mom of 2 and ready to shift into my new best life--I love the real talk and the depth
PS: I love that you mentioned "worry time"- so helpful: I used to do what I would call Meditation in motion where I'd walk on the treadmill first thing in the am (bilateral stimulation) and notice what thoughts came through--often negative self talk/ worry thoughts-- then actively notice them and shift them into neutral or positive ones. Now I dont have access to that so I wake up and do automatic writing or worry dump journaling and then end with at least 3 specific things I'm grateful for= so helpful to just release and shift.
Gold summary section ❤
Please make more videos on improving, self growth, level up, dating and all those..
Smart, beautiful and powerful. I love you!
Sacrificing friends and family for our new identity and life is so real❤
Vickita, when you talked about your health and your condition, it was like looking into the mirror. I am currently out of work and in so much pain that I am almost bedridden. I know exactly what it feels like to be unable to stand up and clean my room because this is my current reality. And no, I am not dependent on social media 😊 because I watch educational videos on YT, and I am not active elsewhere. I agree with you. If I had a business, that would be another story to be active on social media. That is necessary.
Im so sorry to hear what you're going through. I hope it gets better for you soon...
Keep up the educational content, this might be a season of growth for you that just seems like an awful thing. It gets better, I promise.
@VickitaTrivedi Thank you 💖 Yes, I look at this period as such. As far as I can, I improve myself. You said that you were a spiritual person. I am a religious person, and I also believe that things are happening for our benefit. God never abandons us. Or, as you say: The Universe has your back.
Thank you Vickita!
You are so welcome!
So happy about the Women’s Self Improvement Movement ❤
Intelligence with beauty, so refreshing! I love your content. I read a lot of books and hear so much of them in a comprehensive way in your videos. I like watching your content because it’s such a great inspiration. Everyone knows knowledge does not equal practice lol
I don’t want to reference the authors (Joe D.). No one is here for my opinion lol
I hope you read meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Stoicism is such an incredible philosophy/mindset to live life by
I need work on my look and my health and lose more weight and routine. I’m good with others. This was helpful.
I stumbled across your channel and I’m really happy I did! I have a bit of a personal question. Were you happy in high school and college? Do you believe that ppl who party frequently in high school and college are happier? I know I shouldn’t generalize. I was a bit of a loner in high school. I still have this mentality that the people who were popular and partying are better or happier than me
That they are “cooler” and socializing comes easy for them and people like to be around them. I have a lot of social anxiety and I have depression as well
I don’t know why I have this mentality. I guess I put popular kids on some kind of pedestal and think they are better than me
Thank you for reading this
I don’t think we necessarily need to cut everyone off completely, but definitely distance yourself from negative energy, focus on yourself, level up in private and stop caring so much about what other people think
Looking stunning and gorgeous ❤
I found your content today & I’m loving it. Thank you ❤ regarding the negative self talk, we all know what that sounds like, but what does positive self talk even sound like? What goes through the head of an emotionally mature & secure woman?
Starting stick to my routine.
I have a routine now I am making it timely is the first step❤
Thank you for this video
no problem!
I can really resonate with this.
love watching your videos
thank you!!
Ohh my god. Your story is so similar with mine. When I was in the first year, I made friend each bring the worse in me, I started to gossip too much. I got so afraid to not be accepted. However, at some point, I took action that I was not proud of, and then I left, and I lost mostly of my friends at once. And it hurt a lot, but I just love myself and my values more, I end up decide to be alone.
So thankful I found your channel. Thanks girl 🩷
You are a gem 💎
Ooh, me too,had to drop every single friend ~ now it's about navigating thos toxic, fake family members! I've been putting distance from them and now they're trying to come for me harder than ever!😒
Omg, this is for me 🎉🎉
Glad it resonated lovely
Hey! Could you do a video on how to be more charismatic and confident? Thanks!!
Thank you I thought I was alone in dropping friends. Lol almost everyone I kind of knew back then doesn't exist anymore, but the few and true ones do. Haha
Shower 2x a day. Damn 😂 love this video! Thanks!
girl u are gorgeous makeup hair everything happy i found u
As if you were ever hideous you gorgeous soul ❤ RESONATE WITH DIS! cheers sis, so grateful you came up in ma feed You bad bish xxx 🎉❤😘💋🙏🏻
you are so pretttyyyy and inspiring....💌
Worry time is a game changer for me
Awesome video ❤
One suggestion please remove this mirror 🪞 which shows your bed and according to Vastu and feng shui it’s said that if there is a mirror in front of a couple’s bed there are chances of third party involvement in the couple’s life .
5:43 - you won me 🤣🤣🤣😍 hahahaha i „laugh“ the same way as you lool😁
I’m in the space right now. It hurts. IT HURTS. But I can see that it’s going to work out
Thank you 💜
You are welcome!