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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
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    Discover the 15 signs of dealing with an evil person and learn how to protect yourself. From lack of empathy to manipulative behavior, this video explores key traits and offers insights rooted in Buddhist Zen philosophy.
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  • @josemathew2954
    @josemathew2954 2 місяці тому +48

    15 signs of recognising an evil person
    1. Lack of empathy
    2. Manipulative behaviour
    3. Narcissistic behaviour , ( arrogance, lack of humility , self serving , selfish behaviour)
    4. Deception and lies ( lack of honesty and truth , habitual lying , exploitation, )
    5. Lack of remorse ( no guilt)
    6. Cruelty of animals or vulnerable individuals ( lack of compassion, power, control and satisfaction from others pain, physical abuse to victims , propensity for aggression )
    7. Enjoyment of others misfortune.
    Schadenfreude.. ( gossiping, bullying )
    8. Lack of boundaries .. respect for other's space and privacy . Tendency to exploit or dominate
    9. Controlling behaviour .. need to dominate and manipulate others. Coercion. Intimidation.Manipulation
    10. Inability to accept responsibility. Demonstrates lack of integrity, gaslights, distorts facts
    11. Destructive patterns in relationship.. dysfunction ..abuse, betrayal, Manipulation , prioritizing own needs
    12. Lack of empathy to strangers or outsiders. Xenophopia , racism, dehumanises other groups, encourages division and culture of exclusion
    13. Sadistic tendencies inflicfing suffering , pain , discord and humilation
    14. Gaslighting to distort reality and undermine the perceptions, feelings and makes people question their own sanity.. outright denial of facts,
    15. Lack of empathy to oneself. Inabilitt to recognise own emotions and vulnerabilities, engages in self destructive behaviour , creates feelings of emptiness, unable to break the cycle of self neglect and suffering

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for outlining these signs. Recognizing harmful behaviors is an important step in cultivating awareness and compassion, both for ourselves and others. In Buddhism, we seek to understand the roots of such behaviors and transform them through mindfulness and loving-kindness.
      For deeper insights on navigating relationships and fostering inner peace, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Together, we can explore ways to cultivate empathy, integrity, and harmony in our lives and communities. ❤️🙏🙏🙏❤️

    • @allimimi
      @allimimi 2 місяці тому +3

      ❤🙏🏽 Thank you for this!

  • @fcmiller3
    @fcmiller3 2 місяці тому +15

    All these evil traits can be helpful, BUT they appear in many different forms. A man, a woman, a teenager, beautiful woman, ugly woman, a priest, preacher, doctor, lawyer…..etc. PAY ATTENTION!!!

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for your insightful comment. The Buddha taught, 'As a solid rock is not shaken by the wind, even so the wise are not moved by praise or blame.' By staying mindful and discerning, we can recognize and overcome negative influences, no matter their form. If you appreciate this content, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and wisdom.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      ❤️🙏🙏❤️

    • @Rani-gr8yi
      @Rani-gr8yi 2 місяці тому +1

      @@fcmiller3 I don't get how evil traits can be helpful.

    • @fcmiller3
      @fcmiller3 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Rani-gr8yi meant that by him telling us about evil traits in this video is helpful.

    • @sandhyasunil1116
      @sandhyasunil1116 2 місяці тому +1

      Look deeper in to one's eyes for few seconds... It will give answer

  • @marytj1279
    @marytj1279 2 місяці тому +1

    MalayalamTransaction Please

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      🙏🙏🙏❤️🙏🙏🙏

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. The Buddha said, 'Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.' Evil traits can take many forms, but by being vigilant and wise, we can uncover the truth and protect ourselves. If you found this video insightful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and wisdom.

  • @StoicInYourLife
    @StoicInYourLife 3 місяці тому +36

    Marcus Aurelius once said, "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." Let's keep our minds clear and stay vigilant. Thank you, Buddham, for sharing such valuable insights!

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Welcome @StoicinYourLife, Thank you for your thoughtful comment and for sharing Marcus Aurelius' wisdom. The Buddha taught, 'With our thoughts, we make the world.' By cultivating clarity and vigilance in our minds, we shape our happiness and well-being. If you found these insights valuable, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings on cultivating a peaceful mind.

    • @VirginiaBeachAssninja
      @VirginiaBeachAssninja 2 місяці тому

      Please stay clear from the doors and it's not a good idea for spider man to close his window when he goes out of the window

  • @keyshi6257
    @keyshi6257 2 місяці тому +22

    I’m free from a evil husband

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience. The Buddha said, 'No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.' Finding freedom from a harmful situation is a significant step towards peace and well-being. If you found this video helpful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and support on your journey towards healing and inner peace.

    • @aurorawalls3177
      @aurorawalls3177 2 місяці тому +3

      And I am free from an evil daughter.

    • @shootits48
      @shootits48 2 місяці тому +3

      Heart breaking when family becomes that which you need to get away from but when you look at life it happens all the time.
      I wish you too good people in your life

    • @desereecaravalho9877
      @desereecaravalho9877 2 місяці тому +3

      Me too 1:07

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your heartfelt comment. It can indeed be very painful when those close to us become sources of harm. In Buddhism, we strive to cultivate compassion and understanding, even in difficult situations, while also recognizing the importance of protecting our own well-being.
      For more insights on finding peace and surrounding yourself with positive influences, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Let's explore together the path to inner peace and supportive relationships. Wishing you much happiness and good people in your life.🙏🙏🙏

  • @julienicks8691
    @julienicks8691 3 місяці тому +18

    I would like to know if a nascissist person can be mean to just 1 person or to all he comes in contact with? My son treats me like all mentioned above but is totally opposite to other people. No one will believe he has the capacity to hurt anyone. I just needed clarity.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  3 місяці тому +14

      From a psychological perspective, narcissistic individuals can indeed exhibit different behaviors towards different people. It's not uncommon for them to be particularly harsh or abusive to close family members while presenting a charming and likable persona to others. This discrepancy is often part of their manipulative tactics, which can make it difficult for others to see their true nature.
      From the perspective of Buddhism, all actions are driven by the mind, and negative behavior towards others is a reflection of one's own suffering and ignorance. The Buddha taught that everyone has the potential for enlightenment and compassion, but this potential can be obscured by delusions and unwholesome mental states.
      Buddhism encourages cultivating compassion, understanding, and patience. It also emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and protecting oneself from harm while still maintaining a compassionate attitude towards those causing suffering. It’s essential to recognize the suffering behind the actions of a narcissist and respond with wisdom and compassion, while also taking care of your own well-being.

    • @julienicks8691
      @julienicks8691 3 місяці тому

      @@Buddham-pt7vr Thank you so much for taking your time to respond with wisdom. Although it hurts to be on the receiving end but I also know it's karmic. Having gone through the sadness and disappointment I have embarked on my spiritual journey to make my mind stronger. I now understand it's all part of the cycle off life and I have to let go and move away from this toxic behavior as I've been stripped away off my pride of being a mother, the joys of being a mother and off course respect and dignity too. I'm letting go and embracing a new life in another country in my gurus village. I look forward to this life. It's always been a dream to live in this place and for the 1st time I can. All I want now is to live a simple life with dignity. I have had a wonderful career, a home and some beautiful friends but no one knew just how unhappy I was. I was getting afraid if he should marry he and his wife will ill treat me and I'm not going to allow that to happen. No mother should ever have to worry about being mentally or emotionally abused in their old age and stripped of her joy, pride, respect and even her smile. I fully trust the Universe will take care of me and I will smile again. Thank you for reassurance on me doing what I'm supposed to do without feeling guilt or desertion by leaving. Peace and love to all.

    • @KavaKavana
      @KavaKavana 3 місяці тому +14

      Narcissistic people are often the cruelest to the people closest to them and the nicest to people they are just meeting

    • @xolimajola2761
      @xolimajola2761 3 місяці тому +5

      I experience thing with my daughter 🤦‍♂️

    • @xolimajola2761
      @xolimajola2761 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@@KavaKavanathat's my daughter exactly....so so cruel and mean to me but so so so tender loving and caring to strangers and her friends

  • @aurorawalls3177
    @aurorawalls3177 2 місяці тому +15

    For years, I had to live in such inferno, this is all so true. It took me years to realize that only me could change the narratives. I broke away from that person, started putting distance, did not matter, the chase was on wherever I go, I always thought the maturity and time would makes this person change just to find the nothing have changed beside the abuse, there was moking, demands even threats. After an episode that made me realize that even my life was in danger., It was then that I realized that person was in the path to destroy me one way or another. It force me to look back and see that I gave life to this when all odd was against her and me, and realize I that I end up with a monster that never saw the wind that made her life with no worries, but at the expense of my own life. Finally, I realize that the only one that I could change was me, and I did. Today I live in complete peace, and this is the only time that I look back and glad that I finally tested peace. The peace and happiness is incredible. Everything in my life is like sailing ⛵️ in a beautiful day. The storm is past.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your journey. The Buddha taught, 'No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.' Your story of breaking free and finding peace is truly inspiring. By recognizing your own power to change, you have transformed your life. If you found this video helpful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and support on your path to continued peace and happiness. ❤️

  • @Wildflower_Sage
    @Wildflower_Sage 2 місяці тому +9

    I was fooled by all of this. And traumatized from all the yelling this person did to me. She would go so far as to control my life and I just one day have had enough and silently blocked her. She was not a very good friend. Same as my ex bf he became evil too. I saw him for what he was and stopped it before it got worse.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience. It's brave of you to recognize harmful behaviors and take steps to protect your well-being. In Buddhism, we learn that setting boundaries and choosing healthy relationships are essential for our spiritual and emotional growth.
      For more insights on navigating difficult relationships and finding inner peace, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Together, we can explore ways to cultivate mindfulness, compassion, and resilience in our interactions with others. Wishing you continued strength on your journey towards healing and growth. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

    • @avwel3827
      @avwel3827 2 місяці тому

      Awesome job!!

  • @carol-us4xn
    @carol-us4xn 2 місяці тому +5

    Where there is no integrity, there is no trust. Don't waste your time here.💯😇🙏

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your comment. Integrity and trust are indeed fundamental in any relationship. In Buddhism, cultivating these qualities within ourselves allows us to build meaningful connections based on honesty and respect. It's important to discern where to invest our time and energy wisely.
      For more insights on cultivating inner virtues and navigating relationships, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Let's explore how we can foster harmony and understanding in our lives. ❤️🙏❤️

  • @phoenixstarchild23
    @phoenixstarchild23 2 місяці тому +7

    My family are evil. 😢

    • @bossytruthy1573
      @bossytruthy1573 2 місяці тому +2

      Same narcissistic

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      😓😥😞

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      😞❤️

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about your struggles. The Buddha said, 'Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.' Remember to cultivate compassion and love, even in difficult situations. If you found this video helpful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and support.

  • @firozsanullah9571
    @firozsanullah9571 2 місяці тому +1

    So no god but evil exists

  • @ksb4160
    @ksb4160 2 місяці тому +1

    Every one of these characteristics of Evil, define trump.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. In the words of the Buddha, "Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule." Instead of focusing on labeling individuals, let's strive to cultivate understanding and compassion. By doing so, we can create a more harmonious and loving world. If you find our content valuable and insightful, please consider subscribing to Buddham for more wisdom and practical life advice. 🙏

  • @stephencolligan
    @stephencolligan 2 місяці тому +2

    They secretly like to burst the balloons at kids parties

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. It's true that harmful actions, even small ones, can be distressing. In Buddhism, we learn to recognize and understand such behaviors with compassion, aiming to transform negativity through mindfulness and loving-kindness.
      For more insights on how to navigate and transform challenging behaviors, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Let's journey together towards greater understanding and inner peace.🙏❤️🙏

  • @globalnomad1221
    @globalnomad1221 2 місяці тому +1

    Those who feel entitled to empathy compassion are often lost to slave morality and the tyranny of inferior

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. The Buddha teaches us to cultivate compassion and empathy without expectations. True strength and wisdom come from understanding that everyone is on their own path. As the Buddha said, 'Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.' Let us strive to rise above negativity and extend kindness to all. If you find our content enlightening, consider subscribing for more insights on living a mindful and compassionate life.

  • @zeroxox777
    @zeroxox777 3 місяці тому +14

    This is actually a very, very dodgy suggestion, spiritually speaking. There is no such thing as an evil human being. There are human beings overcome by evil, which is a power you don't understand, and it wins by convincing people like you that these people ARE evil, rather then victims of evil. If you judge another you judge and condemn yourselves. Let's see the light and stop judging and hating each other right now. Then we'll flower in goodness naturally. It's not about policing others - it's about liberating yourself and rising above the influence of others whether it be good or bad.

    • @clariba3452
      @clariba3452 3 місяці тому +9

      Sweet. You haven’t been abused by a narc or psychopath have you

    • @julienicks8691
      @julienicks8691 3 місяці тому +6

      @@clariba3452 the sad reality is these nascissist was also a victim of abuse, they repeat and it goes on and on.

    • @zeroxox777
      @zeroxox777 3 місяці тому +1

      @@clariba3452 Victim status: so impossible to let go of?

    • @robinhood6954
      @robinhood6954 3 місяці тому +1

      "Let's stop judging and hating each other"...
      Too naive! We're ALL under ubiquitous and subliminal attack through multiple insidious agendas by those who hate US! The Bible alone warns that throughout!

    • @WillMorales64
      @WillMorales64 2 місяці тому +4

      Blame is a character defect. Feeling superior than others, the karmic cycle will disclose that others is not the problem, we are our own enemy. When we attract negative energy, we must experience forgiveness, something that we have to realize we are all caught in the karma of unforgiveness, so will continue to repeat until we let go of all that resentments within our mind.

  • @shanavandepoel3451
    @shanavandepoel3451 2 місяці тому +6

    Listen to your intuation🌙

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your thoughtful comment. The Buddha said, 'Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.' Trusting your intuition and wisdom is key to navigating life's challenges. If you found this video helpful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more insights and teachings.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      🙏❤️🙏

  • @elsagrace3893
    @elsagrace3893 2 місяці тому +3

    Wow it’s all absolutely mom.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. It’s heartening to know the video resonates with you. In Buddhism, understanding and recognizing negative traits in others helps us cultivate compassion and wisdom, which can transform our interactions.
      For more teachings and insights, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Let's continue exploring the path to wisdom and inner peace together.🙏❤️🙏

  • @Poorni0195
    @Poorni0195 3 місяці тому +6

    I'm facing all these. Very true....

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  3 місяці тому +9

      "Walk the path of mindfulness and awareness. Trust in your inner wisdom and stay grounded in the present moment. Surround yourself with supportive and kind individuals. By cultivating a calm and clear mind, you can navigate the world with confidence and protect yourself from harm."

    • @Poorni0195
      @Poorni0195 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Buddham-pt7vr Thank you so much for your concern ❤🙏

    • @toyabdool5127
      @toyabdool5127 2 місяці тому +2

      I know what you are going through. It's not a easy life. What save me.Watching these videos and praising Jesus and God gives me strength.

    • @Poorni0195
      @Poorni0195 2 місяці тому +1

      @@toyabdool5127 👍🙏❤

    • @aurorawalls3177
      @aurorawalls3177 2 місяці тому +2

      Get out right now and start your life!

  • @sandrawimer6280
    @sandrawimer6280 2 місяці тому +1

    Not all evil people are narcissists

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your insightful comment. Indeed, not all evil people are narcissists. As the Buddha wisely said, "Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule." Recognizing the many forms that harmful behavior can take helps us respond with compassion and understanding rather than judgment.
      We explore these deep and practical teachings further on our channel, Buddham. If you found this video helpful, please consider subscribing for more content on applying Buddhist wisdom to everyday life. Together, we can grow in awareness and kindness.

  • @erzhikaparvanova2388
    @erzhikaparvanova2388 2 місяці тому +2

    Sounds like blocked entry system.
    Clear past trauma and person's character will change. Use holistic medicine only....

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      ❤️🙏

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for your suggestions. ❤️🙏

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      The Buddha taught, 'Every morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most.' Healing past trauma and cultivating a good character can transform our lives. If you found this video helpful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and wisdom.

  • @larryprimeau5885
    @larryprimeau5885 2 місяці тому +3

    Honoring one another

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. Honoring one another is a core principle in Buddhism. By recognizing and respecting the inherent dignity in every person, we cultivate compassion and wisdom, fostering harmonious relationships.
      For more teachings on living a mindful and compassionate life, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Let's explore the path of mutual respect and inner peace together.

  • @kyahblack3445
    @kyahblack3445 2 місяці тому +1

    Masochistic behaviours are a very telling sign of another’s perception of the world and of themselves…
    Active self destruction has deep root anchored within one’s self worth.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing such insightful thoughts. Indeed, as the Buddha said, “You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” When we see self-destructive behaviors, it often reflects deep-seated issues with self-worth. Recognizing and addressing these roots can be a path to healing and self-compassion.
      For more discussions on these profound topics and practical life advice rooted in Buddhist teachings, consider subscribing to our channel, Buddham. Together, we can continue exploring the wisdom of the Buddha and its application in our daily lives. 🌿🙏

  • @bulbulRoshni1963facebook
    @bulbulRoshni1963facebook 2 місяці тому +2

    I have an extremely evil And horribly abusive maid servant, Maya Baidya since the last eight 😢years whom I just can't evict from my promises. She is a energy sucker and ever since she began working for me in 2017 I have become very ill with severe Diabetes and Diabetic Colitis..

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds incredibly challenging. In Buddhism, we strive to address suffering with compassion and wisdom. Sometimes, creating boundaries is necessary for our well-being. Seeking support from community and loved ones can also be vital in such situations.
      For more insights on dealing with difficult circumstances and finding inner peace, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Together, we can explore ways to cultivate a harmonious and healthy life. ❤️🙏❤️

  • @kyahblack3445
    @kyahblack3445 2 місяці тому +1

    Coffs Harbour.👍

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for watching and for your comment from Coffs Harbour! 🙏 In the words of Buddha, 'Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.' We're glad you're present with us on this journey. If you found value in this video, consider subscribing to Buddham for more insights on practical life advice and Buddhism. Your support helps us spread wisdom and positivity to more people. 🌟🧘‍♂️

    • @kyahblack3445
      @kyahblack3445 2 місяці тому

      @@Buddham-pt7vr ❤️

  • @MashebaGibson
    @MashebaGibson 2 місяці тому +2

    I am free from a evil sister

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. It's a relief to hear that you've found freedom from a difficult situation. In Buddhism, we emphasize the importance of surrounding ourselves with positive influences and practicing compassion, even towards those who may have harmed us.
      For more teachings on cultivating peace and understanding, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Together, we can explore ways to foster inner strength and serenity.🙏❤️❤️🙏

  • @topbutton
    @topbutton 2 місяці тому +1

    So where the politicians’/priest’s smile?

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. It's true that sometimes, those in positions of power can mask harmful intentions behind a smile. In Buddhism, we are encouraged to look beyond appearances and cultivate discernment and mindfulness to see things as they truly are.
      For more teachings on understanding human behavior and cultivating inner wisdom, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Let's journey together towards greater insight and inner peace.

  • @珊晶添良
    @珊晶添良 3 місяці тому +1

    No one like this one. Alr proven alot alr show so much to me alr proof still keep on repeat
    Alr discover his extra evils why keeo repeating
    Is better for him face the break better

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience. The Buddha taught, 'Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule.' Sometimes, facing difficulties repeatedly can be challenging, but responding with patience and understanding can bring about positive change. If you resonate with these teachings, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more insights on overcoming challenges with compassion. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512
    @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512 2 місяці тому +2

    Yeah i spotted evil signs when my ex supervisor Jamal is emotionally immature when he pertend to be a actual caring person he was just manipulating others into thinking that so he'd pick on them take credit for their work and ridicule them on their accomplishments to make them feel terrible about themselves, in order to keep down walking on egg shells in confusion he played a lot of games so I'm staying away from him as much as possible especially when him and charelle are together.
    I trust her but not him i was like i don't under stand why I'm feeling so drained but i think it was something telling that i needed to stay away from to protect my well being my autonomy and inner peace...cause he was dangerous in the head he was a cruel mean bully who enjoyed hurting other's feeling to make jokes out of it like a killer shark to be relentless enough to kill anyone who gets his way or cross him...she dismissed his behaviors as she would to defend him when i never understood....i thought either she was secretly afraid of him or she didn't wanna get into a argument with him which is understandable....so i had to take matters into my own hands to do things on my own.
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    first i didn't know why i was feeling fear or being bullied i thought he was just taking his job too seriously, he'd say it's not that serious it's just a job.....and i was like....pfff and the way your acting describes everything you don't think your taking your job too seriously!??...i don't know what other planet he came from to think his behavior was alright but it ain't this one i was like why is she defending him knowing he's dead wrong.
    When i had a problem with something he was doing..an not doing anything about it...but i felt something was wrong there was no way she thought his conttroling behaviors was normal,so i had to be very careful i'm always careful around him cause i don't ever trust him so no worries angles I'm all aware of the dangers around me when i'm near him, and i kinda can't connect with some people cause it's dangerous i had to decipher who i was dealing with in the first place.
    I chose to keep focused on my goals and keep others away from me,away ftom circle so i don't put their reputations in danger if i gossiped about others i don't trust I'm not doing it again i go to work to do my thing, do my tasks,i mind my business help others out get my work assignments done get paid and go home...plus i gotten away with things like a anti criminalized fugitive it'll be hard for anyone to believe anything i'm saying about my work place bullying traumatic experiences...i endured P.T.S.D defensiveness and other problems...in other words I've fucked up several times where it'll be hard for anyone to believe anything i did was right since they had to correct my behaviors before him unfortunately i was pretty playing chess with a smart opponent who was using scheme and tactics to set traps for me,i almost gotten put out of my job at goodwill after being there for 4 years straight.
    I try to keep away from Don't no body need to be around that plus i have a temper like the incredible hulk if i get pissed off others might get hurt....when I'm around evilness to feed off energy like that...the darkness i carry is like a superpowered curse but I'm controlling it, doing exercises and medations i mean my service coordinator mela supports me as she understood i endured a lot of pain,rage,sadness and emotional abuse that messed with my head and my attuide even though good people are only there to help you and heal you still it's not easy as anyone thinks i have records like a criminal I'm not an innocent guy as much i gotten away with things for wrongful reasons.
    I use to have restless nights before from all that truma now I'm healing up with support to guide me she was very shocked that i was humiliated that much and discredited for my abilities an skills....i told her even though i made mistakes by not following instructions as i was put under a lot of pressure i had to figure out what was going and fix it...i didn't know i was being bullied or micromanaged at first till now....Jamal was a bully when he said he wasn't the devil was a straight lie could have fooled me huge time!.
    However if everything gotten worst I was gonna say to dear charelle it might too late and I don't want you to convince me to stay and you get into trouble I would have said like.. you don't need this...I'm gonna be fine you'll be fine without me..your a tough girl I see you grind on tasks doing your thing you'll find a better consistent team mate worker who has more better experience as me...but save your job and let me go...you got a awsome reputation Do not let me and my mess take that from you even if you report stuff..still don't let me ruin your reputations it's not worth being humiliated I would have said to her in the past...even though Jamal was just a manipulative snake of a bully I still would choose to leave if I had ran out of options if they've done nothing to stop him if it contuined and got worst...putting someone out regardless is like saying I don't care how sorry you are....I still want you dead...and parts of me never should have told charelle I was emotionally abused I knew I wasn't gonna be believed at first...just I was afarid to tell you what I've gone through if you wouldn't have believed me either..cause as many times as I've made mistakes and messed up I'm just to others taking my enemies's sides and not mine and that's the truth..I'm always use to being looked at like the bad guy then the actual good guy to be honest...but i still appreciate angles watching over me when i was battling dark forces to surivive..it was a exhausting battle but it had to be done i had to do what i had to do i did tried to convince him to take accountabilities for his action cause he was making a huge mistake but i wasn't hesring it,he wasn't listening to me so i had to do it myself.
    I didn't wanna talk about all this on this on this about how evil my enemies were as it brough anger pain,fatigue an stress to me cause I'm too emotionally burned out to give a shit but that's life what can you do except deal with it...I've been too kind when i was too blind to just walk away from some people who are self centered in themselves...I'm glad he burned me out because he gave me a reason to just step back an not go back in forth with him or anyone....as far as teaching me stuff if he was gonna go through all the trouble to try and get me fired if he was that jealous of me he should have never taught me nothing then...and that would have solved the problem..smh🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️.
    Other times half of my family members i pictured to be toxic too...my mom can get on my nerves but i can get on hers as well as my grandmother gets her nerves too she's 77 my mom's 48 and I'm 28 so ultimately we both have our problems we express them in many ways we're not perfect we don't try to hurt each other...instead we try to give as each other as much love as we can...but as far as evil people pff their snakes with I'd stay away from them so i don't bit other wise I'd have fight them if they came near...but by going to the gym to work out even medatiating to start my days off right to get stronger with extra energy levels I'd say I'm doing just fine as my activities give me therapy to heal from all the betrayal i endured...especially as I've been taking sea leutte pills to boost me up for my performances that was healing me a lot better.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for watching and engaging with this video. The Buddha said, 'Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.' By understanding and recognizing harmful traits, we can better protect ourselves and cultivate compassion and wisdom. If you found this video insightful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and guidance on your path.

    • @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512
      @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512 2 місяці тому +1

      @Buddham-pt7vr yes indeed I saw wickedness and fake people for who they truly are like a dumb ass I fell for these actors trick and they were good like how when Jamal tries to be all nice at my job when I already know he hates my guts for being blessed and unique I already know he has a problem with me like he think he don't,I was too kind to these damn people and that's the problem when I got token advantage and been manipulated but after what I've gone through I won't let that happen again...I let myself be torn apart by these fake people's motives their mind games messed with my head, I didn't pay attention to the waring signs of evilness, till now,especially my friends warned me about Jamal, they were telling me he ain't who he says he is he's a master manipulator with the autonomy to manipulate others he's a villian in my eyes we use to get along but things fell apart, so I'd just stay away from him...he take things the wrong way that's why I refuse to have conversations with anyone who's too self centered and selfish within themselves, I'm too much of good guy to have my loyalty used for stupidity against me...I was being a people pleaser for the wrong reasons I was treated like a servant and slave thinking I should serve their every need because of my kindness...I let my enemies get away with all that nonsense I felt disrespected all that went on for so long till I lost a lot of my inner power and my self confidence I'm learning to set boundaries now it ain't easy but I know I gotta do it ,I deserve respect I know we all have problems but being cruel and vicious out of spite is childish and unacceptable god would get them for that and karma is coming for them I already know it is.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your experience. The Buddha said, 'You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.' It's important to recognize your own worth and to set boundaries to protect your inner peace. By cultivating mindfulness and compassion, you can navigate through life's challenges with strength and clarity. If you found this video helpful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and support on your journey to reclaiming your power and confidence.

    • @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512
      @manofsteelgoodmanll.2512 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Buddham-pt7vr yeah I saw wickedness for what it is when I didn't know at least I don't have to put up with the drama I use to put up with...I forgive Jamal for bullying me but I'm not fooling with him cause since I saw him for the malicious evil snake he is he took the mask off so I know to just stay away from him and not talk to any of his little flying monkey servants that serve him and his every need....I'm not gonna be humilated anymore I don't care how wrong I was...no one had the right to yell at me...even if I set boundaries against Jamal in front of charelle my other supervisor...I'd say if she defends him to take his side then I'll have to battle my enemies in a different way... if I get into trouble for setting boundaries hopefully I won't.. I'll tell charelle I'm sorry but Jamal's wrong ,he had no right to treat me the way he did like a chump.if she stands by him an not me then I'll have do things on my own...I hope I don't get into trouble for telling the truth wish me luck though.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      you've been through a challenging situation, and it's commendable that you're standing up for yourself while also striving for forgiveness and peace of mind. In Buddhism, we learn that setting boundaries and recognizing harmful behaviors are essential steps in protecting our well-being and fostering inner peace.🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @boonraypipatchol7295
    @boonraypipatchol7295 2 місяці тому +2

    Don't do bad,
    Do good,
    Purify own mind...

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing these wise words. As the Buddha said, "Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment." By focusing on purifying our minds and doing good, we can truly transform our lives.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

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    • @Rani-gr8yi
      @Rani-gr8yi 2 місяці тому +2

      @@Buddham-pt7vr I see truth in a lot of Buddhist teachings. Realistically,PTSD, is not an all, 'be in the moment'. A goal to try to return to 'the moment'.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your insightful comment. It's true that Buddhist teachings offer valuable perspectives, and dealing with PTSD can be incredibly challenging. While mindfulness can help, it's important to recognize that healing is a journey, and being kind to oneself along the way is crucial.
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  • @robinhood6954
    @robinhood6954 3 місяці тому +1

    "How to spot an evil person"...
    They're into banking! Lol!

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. The Buddha taught, 'Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.' By cultivating mindfulness and understanding, we can discern the qualities that promote harmony and avoid those that lead to harm. If you found this video helpful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings on living a mindful life.❤️🙏❤️

    • @robinhood6954
      @robinhood6954 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Buddham-pt7vr whether past, future or present I know the Buddha didn't like mosquitoes. Lol!

  • @AnnetteWatson-y1i
    @AnnetteWatson-y1i 2 місяці тому +3

    So true!

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      The Buddha said, 'Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth.' Evil traits can take many forms, but by being vigilant and wise, we can uncover the truth and protect ourselves. If you found this video insightful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and wisdom.❤️🙏❤️

  • @yvindstensrd5350
    @yvindstensrd5350 2 місяці тому +2

    Amen ❤

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. As the Buddha said, 'Radiate boundless love towards the entire world.' May we all strive to cultivate kindness and compassion in our hearts. If you enjoyed this video, consider subscribing to "Buddham'' for more wisdom and guidance.

  • @James-yf2jv
    @James-yf2jv 2 місяці тому +1

    Ek toondo ,hazaron milte hain !

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. It's true that we may encounter many difficult people in life. In Buddhism, each encounter is a chance to cultivate patience, compassion, and inner strength. By transforming our response to negativity, we grow on our spiritual path.
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  • @robertfitzpatrick4580
    @robertfitzpatrick4580 2 місяці тому +1

    I will pay u

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your kind offer. The Buddha taught, 'Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.' Your support and engagement mean a lot to us. If you found this video valuable, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and insights. May you find peace and happiness on your journey.

  • @GheJhgi
    @GheJhgi 2 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your ❤️❤️❤️ comment. The Buddha said, 'Be vigilant; guard your mind against negative thoughts.' By staying aware and discerning, we can recognize and overcome negative influences, no matter their form. If you found this video insightful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and wisdom." 🙏❤️🙏

  • @tommyteeple1700
    @tommyteeple1700 2 місяці тому +1

    Ty so much!!!!

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your kind words. The Buddha said, 'Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.' We are grateful for your support and hope this video brings light and wisdom to your journey. If you found it helpful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more insights and teachings.

  • @soniacochrane1288
    @soniacochrane1288 2 місяці тому +1

    Indeed!!

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment! Recognizing harmful behaviors is an important step towards protecting our well-being and fostering compassion.
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  • @jeanniecampbell1374
    @jeanniecampbell1374 2 місяці тому +4

    Evil is a powerful word ..maybe "Damaged" is a better word and understanding a lower frequency .

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your insightful comment. You're right; the word "evil" can be very strong. Seeing such behavior as a sign of inner damage or a lower frequency aligns with Buddhist teachings on compassion and understanding. By recognizing this, we can respond with empathy and work towards healing.
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    • @Rani-gr8yi
      @Rani-gr8yi 2 місяці тому +2

      @@jeanniecampbell1374 Depends on what you have witnessed and seen.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your perspective. You're absolutely right; our experiences shape our understanding of such behaviors. In Buddhism, we aim to approach all situations with an open heart and mind, recognizing that everyone has their own journey and struggles.🙏🙏❤️🙏🙏

    • @MrMakemusicmike
      @MrMakemusicmike 2 місяці тому +1

      Some people are truly evil.
      You'd be surprised 😧

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @no8162
    @no8162 2 місяці тому +2

    Definitely donald trumpet

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your comment. It's important to recognize and reflect on the behaviors that we find harmful. In Buddhism, we focus on understanding and transforming negative qualities in ourselves and others with compassion and wisdom.
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  • @MichaelOSullivan-ss2zt
    @MichaelOSullivan-ss2zt 2 місяці тому +4

    Good and Evil are 2 sides of the same coin..

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your insightful comment. The Buddha taught, 'The way is not in the sky. The way is in the heart.' Understanding the dual nature of good and evil helps us cultivate mindfulness and compassion within ourselves. By focusing on our inner growth, we can transform our actions and perceptions. If you found this video meaningful, consider subscribing to 'Buddham' for more teachings and wisdom.

    • @williamsilva5701
      @williamsilva5701 2 місяці тому +1

      What coin is that?

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +1

      In Buddhism, we focus on understanding human nature and cultivating compassion and wisdom to navigate life's challenges.For more teachings on mindfulness and personal growth, consider subscribing to "Buddham." Let's explore together how we can foster inner peace and understanding. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Elaba_
    @Elaba_ 2 місяці тому +1

    So the solution is to avoid people in general because you were describing human nature.

    • @Buddham-pt7vr
      @Buddham-pt7vr  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for your comment. The intention behind the video is not to promote avoidance of all people, but rather to cultivate mindfulness and discernment in our interactions. In Buddhism, recognizing negative traits in others and ourselves helps us grow in compassion and wisdom. By understanding human nature, we can develop better relationships and foster positive change.For more insights and teachings, please consider subscribing to "Buddham." Together, we can explore the path to inner peace and enlightenment.❤️🙏❤️