THE 5 STAGES AFTER A BREAKUP

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  • @JayDiazVideo
    @JayDiazVideo  4 роки тому +971

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    • @labibahhamdilah
      @labibahhamdilah 4 роки тому +2

      K

    • @zinah2261
      @zinah2261 4 роки тому

      Please what the the musics that used in the video.
      I want 'em all please🙏❤

    • @chambiec280
      @chambiec280 4 роки тому +3

      Just got cheated on and I didn’t cry but then after I threw up on my dad

    • @weirdscience6820
      @weirdscience6820 3 роки тому

      Hilarious video

    • @sundayaduma6170
      @sundayaduma6170 3 роки тому

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  • @ncuziaangel8273
    @ncuziaangel8273 5 років тому +27662

    We don't miss the person .. we miss the memories.. we miss the promises.. we miss the feelings..we miss our cute conversations ..

    • @nayelilopez1066
      @nayelilopez1066 5 років тому +98

      omg yea

    • @montannakohler1049
      @montannakohler1049 5 років тому +382

      You should put we don’t just miss the person because I would miss the person and all that.

    • @laurenmagnison
      @laurenmagnison 5 років тому +24

      so flippin true

    • @jonc.4405
      @jonc.4405 5 років тому +468

      Basically, you miss the person.

    • @SoteloJ93
      @SoteloJ93 5 років тому +38

      This is so spot on! I went through a really bad divorce and I miss my wife so bad.. but what you said is so spot on

  • @rashirathore6460
    @rashirathore6460 5 років тому +8408

    "Just because someone is good to you doesn't mean he's right for you"
    Words of wisdom

    • @theaateam687
      @theaateam687 5 років тому +2

      Yup

    • @teglizzy5428
      @teglizzy5428 5 років тому +17

      That makes no since at all some one could be a great person and treat the person great and they will still do the stuff they do cause they don’t care never did

    • @DiSaTLC
      @DiSaTLC 5 років тому +39

      A man can be a good son, good brother, good cousin, good friend.. But cannot be a good lover or a husband.. And yes they exist..

    • @kariighot6193
      @kariighot6193 5 років тому +8

      He is very loving, and kind and makes me feel warm but still he broke up with me coz he feel that I dont love him.

    • @leighannmcgowan5239
      @leighannmcgowan5239 5 років тому

      So true

  • @magicalcatpiss1256
    @magicalcatpiss1256 5 років тому +8482

    When I was younger I thought people where being dramatic about this situation...but now I'm in it and I can't control my emotions.

    • @neerabc
      @neerabc 5 років тому +43

      Same

    • @kyvi4872
      @kyvi4872 5 років тому +16

      MagicalCat Piss i feel u

    • @edg.salupeza583
      @edg.salupeza583 5 років тому +53

      We can... Soon. It will be over. Just be strong. Its hard but we need to.

    • @bieke9027
      @bieke9027 5 років тому +6

      MagicalCat Piss same

    • @anushka8762
      @anushka8762 5 років тому +3

      Same

  • @nmissp
    @nmissp 3 роки тому +2242

    Best breakup advice I have heard that makes sense:
    You cannot suddenly stop loving someone. But you can slowly start learning to live without them.

    • @anthonyedet9529
      @anthonyedet9529 3 роки тому

      I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

    • @anthonyedet9529
      @anthonyedet9529 3 роки тому +6

      He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

    • @anthonyedet9529
      @anthonyedet9529 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him"**

    • @anthonyedet9529
      @anthonyedet9529 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 8 1 4 0 7 9 9 3 2 3

    • @umarsuleiman9532
      @umarsuleiman9532 3 роки тому

      Hello dear I can recommend you to the same powerful Dr who helped me get my ex back to me permanent with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly.

  • @lexiemaep7930
    @lexiemaep7930 5 років тому +13558

    We dont miss the person, we miss the potential of who they could have been.

  • @reyess9807
    @reyess9807 5 років тому +2994

    And this is the reason why there’s so many broken people. They don’t go through these stages. They just jump into another relationship without healing themselves.

    • @shav12
      @shav12 5 років тому +104

      Reyes S my girlfriend of 3 years was with another guy within a day of us breaking up. Some people just can’t be alone

    • @reyess9807
      @reyess9807 4 роки тому +94

      shav12 That guy was there before y’all broke up buddy.

    • @NathanStrafes
      @NathanStrafes 4 роки тому +13

      Reyes S most definitely

    • @shav12
      @shav12 4 роки тому +4

      Reyes S Yeah I know lol didn’t even surprise me to be honest

    • @vansnroses
      @vansnroses 4 роки тому +21

      shav12 my boyfriend of 3 years also started installing tinder and seeing a new girl a few days after we broke up, they ended up getting together but 4 months after that he broke up with her and he told me that they were different people, i was happy that he realized that it was too quick to “replace” a real long relationship but when i thought he would be taking time for himself, he started being in another relationship with another new girl, you’re right some people just cant be alone when some people cant be with someone else before they completely move on and im that person

  • @clp480
    @clp480 5 років тому +3956

    For those who just got dumped today and is watching this: IT’LL BE OKAY. If you need someone to talk to lemme know!!

  • @joselinesauceda6729
    @joselinesauceda6729 3 роки тому +3075

    The sad part also is that people say “ someone else will come along “ or “ there’s plenty of fish in the sea “ but you don’t want anyone else, just that person.

    • @queensterbempah246
      @queensterbempah246 3 роки тому +53

      Hit me hard

    • @ameliadora8524
      @ameliadora8524 3 роки тому +29

      True love never die don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.

    • @ameliadora8524
      @ameliadora8524 3 роки тому

      Love's is life, i know a powerful man that can help you get back your ex or crush forever within 48hours without stress and delay. he helped me too immediately.

    • @ameliadora8524
      @ameliadora8524 3 роки тому

      Text him via WhatsApp

    • @ameliadora8524
      @ameliadora8524 3 роки тому

      + 1 ( 8 1 8 ) 7 9 8 0 9 0 5......

  • @heather5391
    @heather5391 5 років тому +1282

    I thought I was the only one crying randomly throughout the day after my breakup. Nice to know I’m not alone.

    • @ishy8723
      @ishy8723 4 роки тому +13

      I don’t know how you are theee months later I’m going. Though the same but it’s been the second week now and I feel the first stage ending the crying is stopping and belief and hope is coming back.
      I feel blocking all contacts Nd deleting photos help if you don’t block they prevent you from healing and moving forward most people who cry months later is because they are still reminded of what they had where ss when u block it’s like deleting their existence.
      We miss the potential people could turn into bht I promise with patience we’ll all find someone better
      I really Want all this time nd but I’m happy thst I’m feeling better now she has a bf already 2 weeks In she cheated on me once a few months ago I forgave everything. Everything will get better stay strong and warm hugs to you ❤️

    • @ashlynnhannas9169
      @ashlynnhannas9169 4 роки тому

      Me lol

    • @refilwelioma8868
      @refilwelioma8868 4 роки тому +6

      I cry randomly about 3 times a day.Did that for the last 3 days.havent cried yet today and its 9am so...

    • @ishy8723
      @ishy8723 4 роки тому +6

      Refilwe Lioma hey the start is always hard but when your brain learns to accept it you will start to embrace these little blessings in everyday life thst we usually neglect and we’ll realise we can live without a dependence or attachment to anyone else. I pray it gets easier for you and I promsie it always does and a little tip is when your wound is healing don’t pick it’s scars so don’t look back okay just keep moving forward don’t keep any contact don’t message delete any photos anything that has a sentimental value to you remove it throw it away and keep moving forward and it’ll all erase like the writing off a pencil all the best xxx talk to someone if you can meet with friends going out everyday with my friends for 3-4 hours helped me numerous if you have no friends when you start the day do a little 30 min walk or excersixe because excersise rlly Elly helps ur brain and fresh air rlly rlly drains away your negative thoughts and stay in comncextion with god warm hugs to you 💜

    • @refilwelioma8868
      @refilwelioma8868 4 роки тому +1

      @@ishy8723 Thank you so much,i really am getting better everyday.God bless you.

  • @oliviacraig8943
    @oliviacraig8943 5 років тому +2752

    My bf literally broke up with me today and I think UA-cam knows
    Thank you all for the support

  • @Angel-pt9xo
    @Angel-pt9xo 5 років тому +4706

    Relationships suck.... we get so comfortable with someone, and love someone and become attached to one person. And things could change in a second. It hurts so bad right now. I want to cry and lay in bed all day sleeping so i don’t have to face reality. I feel lost... i hope i can get through this

    • @Adefunke16
      @Adefunke16 5 років тому +167

      That's exactly I how feel. Like you literally put your heart on the line for someone , love them unconditionally and they disappoint you so bad. But you are not alone, it's ok too cry . It hurts like hell but we all will get through it and slow rebuild with time. Take care of your self .

    • @Angel-pt9xo
      @Angel-pt9xo 5 років тому +7

      Funke Adegoke thank you, the same goes to you ♥️

    • @mallorymallory1518
      @mallorymallory1518 5 років тому +56

      Angel Hang in there sweetheart. I go through the same but I just say things to myself everyday and somehow after repeating them over and over again I hope my mind will believe it and act like it.
      You have to tell yourself that you’re not crazy, it’s just a reaction of your brain, called the fright or fight reaction, because you were basically addicted to someone and now that thing is taken away from you. Your brains will react the same way as someone who is addicted to drugs and you take away the drugs.
      Also know that it’s just your dopamine and serotonine levels in your brain that dropped instantly the moment your ex broke your heart. That’s why you cant feel happy about anything and feel sad all the time. If you understand the physiological reactions in your body, you will get calmer and not judge yourself.

    • @LilyLoveschu
      @LilyLoveschu 5 років тому +6

      Faricia Danoe thank you for this, i really needed it

    • @vivekkumar-ju2pv
      @vivekkumar-ju2pv 5 років тому +20

      i am feeling same right now i was so so so attached and now she broke up and whole day i was just on bed and sleepless night and i am still stalking her and waiting her messages but nothing i check my mobile every 2 minutes omg i dont know what to do and its maked me more cried she is dating with someone else now

  • @justwhy8614
    @justwhy8614 4 роки тому +2531

    *When you experience loss, people say you’ll move through the 5 stages of grief….*
    *Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance.....What they don’t tell you is that you’ll cycle through them all every day.*

  • @Avivaferreira
    @Avivaferreira 5 років тому +16693

    Im i the only who isnt able to eat after breakups??!!

  • @cupcakedaycare8140
    @cupcakedaycare8140 5 років тому +5062

    who’s here after a break up ? (me) 😂😅

  • @cindychampion7836
    @cindychampion7836 5 років тому +701

    Someone told me you grieve the person you wanted. Not the person you had.

    • @NikkoYM
      @NikkoYM 5 років тому +10

      Also: Grieving being in relationship with potential (where the relationship is heading). Grieving the person I myself had (potentially) hoped to be in the relationship.

    • @hatergeneral4298
      @hatergeneral4298 4 роки тому

      Nah

    • @H_E_R_
      @H_E_R_ 4 місяці тому

      Wow

  • @felipesadventures
    @felipesadventures 4 роки тому +281

    I was devastated. My ex said he moved on immediately. For two years I cried. I had panic attacks. I got bullied by people that called me annoying for always talking about my breakup. It took a long time of being alone and fighting all of those uphill battles. But it slowly became easier and easier. I worked on my degree, started cooking new foods, starting dancing and learning new hobbies, started meditating and practicing mindfulness, had amazing memories with friends, got offered a job, led a seminar, and eventually loved myself more than I could ever imagine. My ex eventually said sorry, but that same week I had just met someone else. I wish my ex all the best in the world and I am grateful for becoming the person I am today.

    • @EzequielSanucci
      @EzequielSanucci 3 роки тому +9

      Beautiful! This is a great example of strength and how take the break up as an opportunity for personal growth.

    • @yec4044
      @yec4044 3 роки тому +4

      This is beautiful. I need this

    • @BradyDoesntMiss
      @BradyDoesntMiss 2 роки тому +6

      I’m sorry friend. I hope you are doing well in life. I have been crying for months and months after we have broken up and im struggling to find any happiness. I would love to believe im close to achieving that. Good luck in life 🥺

    • @hey-iq5ji
      @hey-iq5ji 2 роки тому +4

      I wish i could have this breakthrough one day. Right now everything is just hard. And painful. And devastating.

  • @irislaluna5620
    @irislaluna5620 6 років тому +3027

    “NO, SHE IS NOT READY” I need girlfriends like that 😂😂😂

    • @melbell3250
      @melbell3250 6 років тому +3

      Iris Doeven Yeah, me too!

    • @domet80
      @domet80 6 років тому +4

      1 month passed.. are u ready now?

    • @sarahjiang8033
      @sarahjiang8033 5 років тому +1

      @Autumn Whittington Ahahaha

    • @sakshi0686
      @sakshi0686 5 років тому +1

      me also

    • @brendabalzan1994
      @brendabalzan1994 5 років тому

      @Autumn Whittington my favourite line! Gotta love them!

  • @offline_-wk8ig
    @offline_-wk8ig 4 роки тому +474

    The worst feeling is that you are still in pain but he is happy now.

  • @Tayxx-yv4pf
    @Tayxx-yv4pf 5 років тому +1044

    The worst thing is that i had a dream of my ex a week later after we broke up and we just cried and he promised me that he would never leave me. I started crying when i woke up and realised it wasnt real.

    • @enrriquechinchilla936
      @enrriquechinchilla936 5 років тому +31

      Tayxx the same exact thing happened to me. He told he was so sorry for having to do this breakup and when I woke up I felt some type of relief, but at the same time I felt a big nostalgia. It’s a process.

    • @ahmadrahimkhan
      @ahmadrahimkhan 5 років тому +4

      Oh! That must had been too painful
      Hey
      Shit! So i m not gonna share my story but I don't feel like I mma ever gonna recover

    • @enrriquechinchilla936
      @enrriquechinchilla936 5 років тому +7

      Ahmad Rahim Khan you will eventually. Of course you will always remember that person, but I feel like the first step is acknowledging that the breakup happened regardless of what that person said or did to you that made you think it was going somewhere. After you’ve acknowledged the breakup try to detach the emotions that that person made you feel and put them on yourself; meaning that you have to work on loving yourself. Read a book called the mastery of love by Don Miguel Ruiz, and This is Me Letting you go by heidi priebe. These are helping me a lot through the process. I hope you find your peace ☮️ ❤️

    • @jackelinesanchez1516
      @jackelinesanchez1516 5 років тому +9

      omg the same thing happened to me I had fallen asleep and I had a dream my ex texted me saying he wanted to get back together but I woke up and I realized it was a dream ):

    • @DanielLopez-kb6tj
      @DanielLopez-kb6tj 5 років тому +3

      SAMMMMEEE😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

  • @laestherminator
    @laestherminator 3 роки тому +514

    I'm currently in the withdrawal stage. Thought I was finally over it, until the grief randomly hits and I'm crying while holding a houseplant lol. Thank you for normalizing this. As my first real heartbreak, it totally sucks

  • @leticyajuca714
    @leticyajuca714 4 роки тому +1140

    “just because someone is good to you doesn’t mean they’re right for you” that hit hard

  • @jennyfisher1615
    @jennyfisher1615 5 років тому +928

    I watched this video on the first night of my breakup and I felt horrible. It truly feels like you will never be able to love another person ever again and you want to know exactly what they are doing. you feel helpless and like you're going through a literal withdrawal. it sucks. I'm here to tell you don't contact them, block them on social media, focus on you. cry when you need to cry, spend SO much time with friends, it's so important. if you have something to say journal it, say it, call a friend, LET IT OUT. And do NOT blame yourself for anything that happened. People break up because of life, it's nothing you did. I promise you even though it's so hard to believe it, you will be okay. you'll wake up one day and accept it and realize that you have happy memories and life lessons learned.
    I PROMISE each and every one of you. you will be okay.

    • @aamiahpapaya9154
      @aamiahpapaya9154 5 років тому +5

      It was literally my fault though

    • @kamaliudathaara7778
      @kamaliudathaara7778 5 років тому +5

      I decided to break up and now I miss him so badly. We are still friends. we talk and honestly it has helped the both of us. If you still have so much respect to the person you broke up with even after a heartbreak, don't cut them off. Who knows if you were to be the best friends forever?

    • @kamaliudathaara7778
      @kamaliudathaara7778 5 років тому +3

      @@wilted_rose510 I know there's a big insecurity about it. I also wouldn't be able to take in any information about his new interests in other girls. But for us, I really really hope that we would be able to get back together and never make the same mistakes again which is why I didn't cut him off completely 😔

    • @yousra.9639
      @yousra.9639 5 років тому

      How do you feel now ?

    • @moon-xf1il
      @moon-xf1il 5 років тому

      Thanku😭

  • @Okay182
    @Okay182 5 років тому +2543

    When you're in stage one and crying at this video 😭

  • @LydsVyds
    @LydsVyds 3 роки тому +2307

    I want to see the male version of this. I already know what a girl goes through cause I am one

    • @victorialhellen4244
      @victorialhellen4244 3 роки тому +20

      Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. I have a broken relationship for 3years, but now I we are back together through his help. He can really help you as he helped me.

    • @victorialhellen4244
      @victorialhellen4244 3 роки тому +4

      Text him on WhatsApp

    • @NekoChit
      @NekoChit 3 роки тому +72

      just got my heart broken, it hurts, it burns, but i know its for the better of 2 of us, i miss her, and everything, its similar to basically everything that happened in this vid, but i prefered to be alone, like friends trying to help is nice, but like my pride is just gone and i want to hide from society, hope you get better too though.

    • @victorialhellen4244
      @victorialhellen4244 3 роки тому +5

      @@NekoChit Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

    • @NekoChit
      @NekoChit 3 роки тому +16

      @@AfterTheHurt indeed, we are all human inside, try to contact her in the future in maybe a few weeks and ask for why, we all got your back, stay strong king 👑

  • @fernandacapaceta
    @fernandacapaceta 5 років тому +1308

    Me: goes through break up
    UA-cam recommendation: 5 stages after a break up
    Me: clicks while crying in .0001 seconds

    • @fernandacapaceta
      @fernandacapaceta 5 років тому

      Satanist or is it satan? Idk who but they really are...haha:(

    • @fernandacapaceta
      @fernandacapaceta 5 років тому

      @Satanist amen to that

    • @tbone6826
      @tbone6826 4 роки тому

      How do they know.. our algorithm of recently viewed videos

  • @thesatarupaganguly
    @thesatarupaganguly 4 роки тому +4355

    We never stop loving someone
    we just learn to live without them.

    • @dollimasubbavlogs9683
      @dollimasubbavlogs9683 4 роки тому +8

      Yeah.

    • @farukvic9010
      @farukvic9010 4 роки тому +84

      Yo that’s so fucking deep..... I just broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me......It fucking hurts

    • @lachiephillip
      @lachiephillip 4 роки тому +19

      faruk vic you deserve better g😔 don’t let yourself go back to her

    • @andrea5833
      @andrea5833 4 роки тому +3

      @@farukvic9010 im sorry bro

    • @bull9172
      @bull9172 4 роки тому +7

      Yeah, me too, I just broke up with my GF because she disrespect me and that really hurts, but I kinda miss her

  • @sulyanighazali3832
    @sulyanighazali3832 5 років тому +664

    It's been 7 months now and i think i'm at stage 4. Its hard, so freaking hard to let go all the things that happened. I'm even still cry randomly and it is sucks. For those who are still struggling like me, i pray we will find our happiness soon. xoxo

    • @MikeJackson690
      @MikeJackson690 5 років тому +17

      We're about the same. 10 months for me now. Thought I was improving but cried a couple of times this year already. I miss her smile, friendship, comfort, laugh... Just not the bad stuff, I suppose, like the clinginess, lack of space, the guilt I used to feel for making plans without her. I'm in a different place mentally now, however. Would I rather be looking forward to a future together that involves getting married and having a family? Yep. I am ready but it's too late. 😔
      (Sorry to start rambling. It's so tough, right?)

    • @fhebemaglanoc6863
      @fhebemaglanoc6863 4 роки тому +8

      6 months for 6 years of waiting and loving this man. But he found someone. At stage 4 - crying again and again. Just need sometime for Stage 5, but I know im/were getting there soon. hugs to us!

    • @baglankarmulgi
      @baglankarmulgi 4 роки тому

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @BlueAngel2397
      @BlueAngel2397 4 роки тому +9

      Sulyani Ghazali It’s been a year and now I’m at stage 4. It’s hard. I will cry randomly and have this weird feeling of emptiness. I’m trying to find my way to stage 5. I’m struggling but hoping it will be okay.

    • @gamer_grl9050
      @gamer_grl9050 4 роки тому +2

      Just curious, any update on how you feel now?

  • @jeevithar5261
    @jeevithar5261 2 роки тому +129

    2 years ago when I watched this video, I thought that moving from stage 1 to 5 is impossible. I'm doomed to feel this way is what I thought. Now after reaching the last stage, all which I went through was worth it. To anyone going through the toughest times, I have only one thing to say. Please don't give up. You will reach there soon. Until then you will have my prayers.
    Cheers 😇✨️

    • @missmukherjee111
      @missmukherjee111 2 роки тому

      Hey thank you ❤️

    • @jasr3526
      @jasr3526 7 місяців тому +2

      Same thing!! I went through a break up a few years ago and watched this video a million times and just couldn’t wait to get to stage 5. It took time and a lot of healing, finding myself and now I’m married and have a baby on the way and I couldn’t imagine life being any other way! It always gets better if you give yourself time and the chance to find someone who can’t live without you either… because there is someone who will fight for you ❤

    • @wabbaaaiaiai
      @wabbaaaiaiai 4 місяці тому

      2021 & 2024 same person same break up... Deep pain now.

    • @VirtuousJerm
      @VirtuousJerm 3 місяці тому

      @@jasr3526how much time ? is it okay to not have a time frame on healing? I feel like I pressure myself mentally/emotionally to feel a certain way ( healing wise ) and it causes me anxiety. Little triggers like people moving from relationship to relationship in a matter of months freaks me out. im still hurt and there’s things that I still would NOT want to hear/see about my ex ya know. I try my best to move forward in healing the best way i can, it just seems that i can get in my own way of that. past couple of days have been hard. it’s all mostly anxiety & worryness. I guess it’s also finding out and knowing that where im at in my life in my healing process/moving on/moving forward is okay , it’s hard to accept that for some reason.

  • @lussacmomin6178
    @lussacmomin6178 4 роки тому +2333

    Can you imagine a heartbreak ..when you just have phone and nothing else ..when going out is illegal and no distraction and ya no friends...

    • @selina3668
      @selina3668 4 роки тому +85

      I hate it so much

    • @lussacmomin6178
      @lussacmomin6178 4 роки тому +31

      @@selina3668 Thanks god I'm not alone

    • @Stephanie-zb1rb
      @Stephanie-zb1rb 4 роки тому +28

      Hi there I have the exact same thing. Do you want to talk to each other?

    • @lussacmomin6178
      @lussacmomin6178 4 роки тому +5

      @@Stephanie-zb1rb sure😅

    • @coolkidsread
      @coolkidsread 4 роки тому +4

      Ugh I'm in the same boat 😭😭

  • @colonial4ever2
    @colonial4ever2 5 років тому +768

    ugh, I'm in a mix of all 5 stages. It's such an emotional roller coaster.

    • @aimees4990
      @aimees4990 5 років тому

      Same 😥😥

    • @aimees4990
      @aimees4990 5 років тому +2

      We can get through this!

    • @DrNiloufarhayath
      @DrNiloufarhayath 5 років тому

      Same

    • @IldaCavcic
      @IldaCavcic 5 років тому +1

      Don’t worry it took me 10 months to realize waiting for what we had to come back was so dumb of me, trust me like they said all you need is self love it’s helps so much!

    • @mr.awezome2938
      @mr.awezome2938 5 років тому

      tiff isasian How are you now? I went tgruba breakup 2 weeks ago

  • @roniamanhombo3804
    @roniamanhombo3804 4 роки тому +728

    To everyone watching this with a heavy heart and teary eyes.. we'll get through this. No pain is forever. Love and light. WE WILL BE FINE!😢😫❤

    • @roniamanhombo3804
      @roniamanhombo3804 4 роки тому

      @@patriciapatfamily6605 i dont want him back. Thank you though

    • @roniamanhombo3804
      @roniamanhombo3804 4 роки тому +3

      @@patriciapatfamily6605 he hurt me and I don't want to put myself through that again.

    • @allif2282
      @allif2282 3 роки тому +1

      I hope so 😭

    • @salmabh210
      @salmabh210 3 роки тому +1

      We will be fine ...

    • @pumpkinsmiles
      @pumpkinsmiles 3 роки тому

      Help

  • @svenblu7776
    @svenblu7776 3 роки тому +181

    I'm laughing at this now but I was BAWKING MY EYES OUT while watching this 5 months ago. She's pretty accurate.

    • @gtak8137
      @gtak8137 3 роки тому

      Text him on WhatsApp,

    • @gtak8137
      @gtak8137 3 роки тому

      +2347048781104,🙏

    • @layeokoh8006
      @layeokoh8006 3 роки тому +1

      I hope I feel this way soon, right now I want to fall apart

    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

      Hello dear, I’m happy to let you know that my 4 years broken relationship has been restored permanently with more love and commitment more than before through the help of a powerful spells caster… He can also help you too💯

    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

      What sapp him

  • @shilloe13
    @shilloe13 4 роки тому +1514

    *NO, she's not ready*
    *Leave her alone*
    Those are some true friendships right there.

    • @michaelkiddo8401
      @michaelkiddo8401 4 роки тому +2

      Shivani Narendran if you need any assistance in getting your ex back immediately and I know it will work for you contact Bob Believer on WhatsApp...
      +2348065472550📲📲

    • @02.aryajayakusuma15
      @02.aryajayakusuma15 4 роки тому +8

      But, how about the guy feelings though?

    • @Firegirl483
      @Firegirl483 4 роки тому +4

      @@02.aryajayakusuma15 what about them?

    • @abdolpix4581
      @abdolpix4581 4 роки тому +3

      This is comedy. Don't be such a rude person in real life.

    • @harshkaila2862
      @harshkaila2862 3 роки тому +1

      @@02.aryajayakusuma15 it's so hurting how can people break someone's heart!

  • @mykharose
    @mykharose 5 років тому +1983

    First heartbreak of 2020 🙃

    • @jushuamike9753
      @jushuamike9753 5 років тому +4

      Rosé d you need help to get your love back?

    • @unicornajmg5078
      @unicornajmg5078 4 роки тому +2

      Jushua mike i do

    • @northtown3816
      @northtown3816 4 роки тому +3

      Same here

    • @minariimoon
      @minariimoon 4 роки тому +6

      here...im crying so much rn, whats worse is that my bf is supposed to be my valentine for this feb but he kinda separated us apart

    • @northtown3816
      @northtown3816 4 роки тому +10

      Dear Lord, you know me better than I know myself . You know my fears and my desires. You know how much I want this. You know how much I will be devastated if this doesn't happen. I know u 💙 me. I know you have a plan for me Please, Lord don't let my desire blind me to your will if this is not within your plans for me, throw up a briccs Wall 🧱. Give me an obstacle I can not get past . Help me follow your will, Father. Give me peace about whatever come. If this failed thought I know it is your 🙏🏾 thank you for loving me, in Jesus Amen 🙏🏾

  • @Caprioly
    @Caprioly 4 роки тому +349

    STAGE 0: Starting watching youtube videos about breakup management.

    • @spex4714
      @spex4714 3 роки тому +4

      None of them are good I’m scared

    • @Caprioly
      @Caprioly 3 роки тому

      @@spex4714 You will get through it. :) It will only make you stronger.

    • @Foreverlovely-dg7xd
      @Foreverlovely-dg7xd 3 роки тому

      @@spex4714 lmk if you found some good ones yet, a sista is down bad rn

    • @natashalee4472
      @natashalee4472 3 роки тому

      Hello dear, I’m happy to let you know that my 4 years broken relationship has been restored permanently with more love and commitment more than before through the help of a powerful spells caster… He can also help you too💯

    • @natashalee4472
      @natashalee4472 3 роки тому

      What sapp him

  • @glukeye7229
    @glukeye7229 3 роки тому +88

    Just went through a breakup recently and reading all these supportive comments made me feel so much better 🥺🥺🥺 LIFE WILL BE BETTER, WE GET THROUGH THIS ONE DAY AT A TIME, AND LET'S WORK ON IMPROVING AND LOVING OURSELVES!!!

    • @madelyn9231
      @madelyn9231 3 роки тому

      Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you for a second chance. He was the one who helped me restore back my broken relationship of 3 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him

    • @madelyn9231
      @madelyn9231 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him*

    • @madelyn9231
      @madelyn9231 3 роки тому

      + 2 3 4 7 0 4 4 5 0 9 7 9 2.!!

  • @hamdahzahrath
    @hamdahzahrath 5 років тому +2940

    *Anyone with no sleep here due to heartbreak????*
    *Hey! Time heals everything* 😊🤗

    • @mysticfawn6812
      @mysticfawn6812 5 років тому +31

      I been having nightmares

    • @JacobiEllsberry
      @JacobiEllsberry 5 років тому +9

      Well ya. Esp when he dumps you at 2am over a phone call.

    • @confire8550
      @confire8550 5 років тому +2

      Yup, next thing you know you are gonna be waiting up next to a stranger

    • @Kukuyoutube9
      @Kukuyoutube9 5 років тому +6

      I don't know how to find sleep while he is chatting with some one or he is just falling asleep early always

    • @moon-xf1il
      @moon-xf1il 5 років тому +19

      Am going through that, my stomach is paining I got headache and am feeling so lonely

  • @sarahann7721
    @sarahann7721 6 років тому +1165

    Withdrawal stage here! Who else?
    I thought I am so over him, till I opened Facebook and suddenly saw another female friend, who I felt was always interested in my boyfriend, now dating him. I feel super awful now :'(.

    • @gerardistired7278
      @gerardistired7278 5 років тому +22

      Stage one...she broke up with me yesterday

    • @aranzajamilethlechuga1971
      @aranzajamilethlechuga1971 5 років тому +9

      Wow me too thats why im here

    • @huongthao5446
      @huongthao5446 5 років тому +70

      Here we are. He has moved on so quickly. I thought what we have is unique and nothing can replace. But it's not true

    • @baileeboyd1
      @baileeboyd1 5 років тому +2

      MEEE

    • @maraequine984
      @maraequine984 5 років тому +41

      me, he told me to never worry about her and as soon as we broke up they're dating.. he moved on so quick

  • @jessnvu
    @jessnvu 5 років тому +1359

    Why do I feel like I’m stuck on stage 1 forever

    • @pevivirtudazo4958
      @pevivirtudazo4958 5 років тому +10

      I feel youuuu

    • @sherinp.1418
      @sherinp.1418 5 років тому +10

      Jessica Bambi I hope you’re fine now:(

    • @tayloremriectx
      @tayloremriectx 5 років тому +4

      How about now?

    • @tayloremriectx
      @tayloremriectx 5 років тому +15

      I was with a girl for 5 years then she met one of our “friends.” Ended up getting addicted to meth with our “friend” and started sneaking around with him. I waited up every night waiting for her to come home (she eventually did a week later) she was in a meth psychosis. I stuck around for about a month trying to help her. Then I realized I was wasting my time and she didn’t and couldn’t love me anymore. Then I found a girl I love like 100,000,000 times more, and a girl I can actually fucking trust (which was a hard thing to do at first, given my previous circumstances.) moral of the story, life goes on, and there really is another human out there waiting to meet you. If they don’t appreciate you, then FUCKKKKKKK THEMMMM. You just gotta give yourself a chance.

    • @heyitsmariabanana
      @heyitsmariabanana 5 років тому

      Hows u

  • @refkak7226
    @refkak7226 3 роки тому +129

    I cried throughout the whole thing.. 3 years of my life.. it's been a month since the break up..

    • @bellaheals875
      @bellaheals875 3 роки тому

      @@eleanorgrace8339 hi suzan, is this for real? should i text dr frank

    • @thesexygreenllama9
      @thesexygreenllama9 3 роки тому +11

      Me too exactly. He left so unexpectedly and we were supposed to get married. I am going through withdrawals right now and am still so lost.

    • @amichelle0370
      @amichelle0370 3 роки тому

      Im going through it too. We were together 3.5 years planning marriage and we broke up. It hurts like hell

    • @cidajohnny2938
      @cidajohnny2938 3 роки тому

      @@amichelle0370
      getting your lover back shouldn't be a problem I got my ex back with the help of Mr osekhametalor

    • @cidajohnny2938
      @cidajohnny2938 3 роки тому

      @@amichelle0370
      Whstapp him

  • @tinkerfex9289
    @tinkerfex9289 5 років тому +594

    Warm Huggies to everyone who is crying right now!....
    Don't worry everything will be fine

  • @84LA84
    @84LA84 4 роки тому +815

    We always forget the bad things about that person and just see everything through rose tinted glasses when looking back...

    • @SpaceDementia_
      @SpaceDementia_ 4 роки тому +14

      That's the hardest part. Your brain replays all the happy memories and fantasises about the plans you had, erasing all the arguments and put-downs and unhappy times. Get the people around you to remind you that you are better off now. My dad told me yesterday that while I might be in a bad scenario now (partner of 7 years has left me, I'm on my own and during lockdown), an alternative scenario is that I could be stuck on lockdown in a relationship that is getting worse and worse with both of us feeling more and more miserable, and it was an important thing that I needed to be reminded of. My brain likes to tell me that my relationship was happy and loving and that couldn't be further from the truth, particularly in the later days.

    • @yanruwang7946
      @yanruwang7946 4 роки тому

      yes is ture

    • @benjaminlimoges9801
      @benjaminlimoges9801 4 роки тому +3

      I have so much resentment for how I was treated when I think back but also some days I have nothing but good memories. I was treated so unfair but I tried so hard and gave 100% of myself to try and make things work. But in the end it didnt yet like you said ill go through photos and just smile and forget about all of the bad and terrible things I had to go through. Not sure what to do with this information but ya lmao

    • @mylahsmith1711
      @mylahsmith1711 4 роки тому +5

      @M I really felt that. My ex and I broke up less than a week ago. He really hurt me but I’m still in love with him. I texted him yesterday and told him how I feel and asked if we could get back together even though I was the one who left him and didn’t stay when he begged me to. We set some rules and boundaries and are now back together. But now I’m wondering if that was the right decision and if I’m just looking past the bad things in the relationship and letting my crazy emotions decide what I should do. Anyone in the comments please feel free to give some advice on my situation because I have no idea what to do.

    • @SpaceDementia_
      @SpaceDementia_ 4 роки тому +8

      @@mylahsmith1711 hey lovely, I don't know your situation but the fact that you're wondering whether you're letting your emotions make this decision for you is very telling. If the relationship was worth it, I don't think you'd be having these doubts. You left him for a reason. I'm now 2 months post breakup. The hardest part is the first few weeks, I felt the same as you, I missed him, I wondered if I'd made the right decision, I was heartbroken. As the weeks have gone on, he's disappointed me more and more, and I've been analysing our relationship, and it's got to a point where I can't believe I spent 7 years with this person and I'm annoyed at myself for putting up with the way he treated me. In a few weeks time, you may well feel the same way. The best thing to do is to limit your contact with him as much as possible (don't speak to him at all if you can) and surround yourself with family and friends. Focus on yourself and make yourself feel fabulous.
      Edit: missed the bit where you said you'd got back together already, sorry! Just watch out for any red flags. Don't make excuses for him - we're all guilty of this when we're in love. You deserve to be treated with the utmost respect. If he doesn't do that, know your self worth and get out of there, you'll be much happier. But only you know your situation - trust your instincts.

  • @kathrynprice5731
    @kathrynprice5731 4 роки тому +451

    I remember watching this after a breakup and desperately wanting the pain to go away. It takes time but you seriously become so stronger

    • @janewilson3260
      @janewilson3260 4 роки тому

      Kathryn Peters
      Contact him on WhatsApp
      +2348140610301

    • @eashadas7776
      @eashadas7776 3 роки тому +6

      How long does it take? I am the middle of it and it hurts so bad I want it to end soon lol

    • @kathrynprice5731
      @kathrynprice5731 3 роки тому +7

      @@eashadas7776 I wish I could give you an exact amount of time. I know it hurts and it feels like your soul is crushed. But slowly each and everyday you’ll start to feel a little better. Take care of yourself during this rough patch and know you’ll come out of this on top!

    • @eashadas7776
      @eashadas7776 3 роки тому +1

      @@kathrynprice5731 thank you for your kind words they mean a lot and help ❤️

    • @chibaby0306
      @chibaby0306 3 роки тому +1

      thank you this gives me hope

  • @idontbekarennn21
    @idontbekarennn21 4 роки тому +150

    I remember watching this video after my first break up lmao. I was so sad and would cry while watching law & order. I thought I’d never find anybody else that likes me smh. It gets better ladies and gents

    • @layeokoh8006
      @layeokoh8006 3 роки тому +1

      I hope so

    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

      Hello dear, I’m happy to let you know that my 4 years broken relationship has been restored permanently with more love and commitment more than before through the help of a powerful spells caster… He can also help you too💯

    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

      What sapp him

    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

      ±12562696013❤⏯

    • @nylalara3805
      @nylalara3805 2 роки тому

      @@layeokoh8006 did it get better?❤️‍🩹

  • @elidiaguzman8765
    @elidiaguzman8765 4 роки тому +376

    We miss ourselves. Because we put ourselves in to another person. When they leave we feel lost.

    • @darkshantelle5542
      @darkshantelle5542 4 роки тому +3

      Youre rright i lost myself because i give him everything

    • @elidiaguzman8765
      @elidiaguzman8765 4 роки тому +3

      @@darkshantelle5542 now take it back! You got this!

    • @darkshantelle5542
      @darkshantelle5542 4 роки тому +2

      I just broke up with my bpyfriend yesterday,here i am this is my first heartbreak

    • @elidiaguzman8765
      @elidiaguzman8765 4 роки тому

      @@darkshantelle5542 ❤️ sending you lots of well wishes and hugs. You’re going to be ok, one day at a time, one step at a time.

    • @cloudy38
      @cloudy38 4 роки тому +1

      YES OMG

  • @annatrott9254
    @annatrott9254 5 років тому +358

    “if there’s one thing you don’t want, it’s what you had” 😭that hit hard dude

    • @joshnahuirem9710
      @joshnahuirem9710 5 років тому

      And you have 111 likes

    • @GenZ_Zillenial
      @GenZ_Zillenial 5 років тому +2

      I still want him.. Just minus some of his flaws but overall he was almost the perfect guy for me

    • @nunalina1850
      @nunalina1850 5 років тому

      002348036559824 contact this man and he will bring ur bf back to you he brings mine

    • @candy-crush
      @candy-crush 4 роки тому

      Truee

  • @emilyxo4918
    @emilyxo4918 4 роки тому +652

    *”Sometimes the person we would take a bullet for is the person behind the trigger”*

    • @jasmineberry1229
      @jasmineberry1229 4 роки тому

      Emily I can recommend you to the powerful man who help me restore my ex back love permanently

    • @jasmineberry1229
      @jasmineberry1229 4 роки тому

      Text him up on whatsapppp

    • @jasmineberry1229
      @jasmineberry1229 4 роки тому +1

      (+234 8086 180 793)

    • @bikepacker87
      @bikepacker87 4 роки тому +6

      Wow this is true. I love her so much that I would die for her. But in the end, she's the one who's going to kill me from the heartache, from not being able to eat, sleep and do things the way I used to be. Its just been 3 days and I feel like I'm dying little by little

    • @josephjulissa
      @josephjulissa 3 роки тому

      So true

  • @Hidiv9827
    @Hidiv9827 2 роки тому +12

    "Just because someone is good to you doesn't mean he's right for you" - I felt that!!

    • @steveholmes61
      @steveholmes61 2 роки тому

      I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest 🥰🥰

    • @steveholmes61
      @steveholmes61 2 роки тому

      He helped me bring back my ex permanently few days ago, without any delay, after six(6) years of separation 🥰🥰

    • @steveholmes61
      @steveholmes61 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp him***..

  • @ahstiasummers5583
    @ahstiasummers5583 4 роки тому +667

    You forgot the stages where:
    1) you're trying to reason out why they left you and to pin blame, usually entirely on yourself or them. Sometimes this stage is illogical and you pinning blame on things that neither you or them had control over
    2) figuring out how to improve yourself and learn from the mistakes of your previous relationship

    • @MsDeedee68
      @MsDeedee68 4 роки тому

      Yes

    • @kellylim4214
      @kellylim4214 4 роки тому +8

      This is creepy, this is EXACTLY what I'm doing...

    • @funkiebutch9690
      @funkiebutch9690 4 роки тому

      1). That could be stage 1 or 4
      2). That would be the last stage

    • @gratitude123
      @gratitude123 3 роки тому

      This thing seems to never fade away, even after a long time, the 'blame game'... whether it's you or them

    • @scaparrottijack3586
      @scaparrottijack3586 3 роки тому

      Hello how are you doing

  • @년단방탄소-y7p
    @년단방탄소-y7p 5 років тому +569

    I just broke up with my first boyf...and I don't think I want to falling in love with anyone anymore.I told you SINGLE IS BETTER

    • @TheShadowWolf1
      @TheShadowWolf1 5 років тому +16

      I feel exactly like you, single is better.

    • @pandagirl245
      @pandagirl245 5 років тому +6

      feel the same....

    • @synnvelange7062
      @synnvelange7062 5 років тому +26

      I had just gone through a hard breakup. He left me straight after our first kiss. Said it didnt feel right.
      I had fallen head over heels for him.
      I thought so too then. For months. I couldn't even blush. I didnt feel any romantic attraction. I didnt want anyone. I even identified as aromantic.
      Then I met *him* and everything changed. *He* loved me. *He* cared. *He* made me smile. *He* made me feel safe.
      I didnt think I ever wanted a relationship again.
      But now I have my current boyfriend. And I would move heaven and earth for *him*.
      *He* would do the same for me.
      Don't give up. You'll find someone better.

    • @년단방탄소-y7p
      @년단방탄소-y7p 5 років тому +2

      Synnøve Lange maybe i need a moment to forget him

    • @synnvelange7062
      @synnvelange7062 5 років тому +4

      @@년단방탄소-y7p There is no rush

  • @TheMoonrise007
    @TheMoonrise007 7 років тому +901

    But just because someone is good to you, doesn't mean they're right for you ❤

    • @perewinkle3039
      @perewinkle3039 7 років тому +17

      rachel widd exactly..I have a man that too good to be true..but we are not meant to be..it's hurts but need to let him go..

    • @lainaluna12
      @lainaluna12 7 років тому +1

      You will feel awfull

    • @lainaluna12
      @lainaluna12 7 років тому +8

      well, I let my man go, i lied to him to be able to let him go and now I feel guilty and alone, but I know it was for the good, but I don t know what to do right now with my life. But ir will pass

    • @rosamendieta4579
      @rosamendieta4579 6 років тому

      *PREECH*

    • @takeyashou4653
      @takeyashou4653 6 років тому +1

      Ouch

  • @anitaandreaflaviano6644
    @anitaandreaflaviano6644 2 роки тому +31

    hi. i remember watching this video when I was in high school with my first love, learning how to move on and forget. 6 years later, I’m back watching it again. While going through a break up with my ex fiancé. And rewatching this video made me realize, no matter how old you are, love is love. And it hurts you, big time. It makes you crazy, selfish and selfless, jealous and loving. It doesn’t matter if I was young and that heartache wasn’t as much scary as this one, it’s still pain, but the different kind of pain. Idk why im commenting this at 2am. Just, thank you- for this video, again. Will have to play this while sleeping to cry along with her 🥂

    • @steveholmes61
      @steveholmes61 2 роки тому

      I recommend you to a great man who can help you manifest whatever you wanna manifest 🥰🥰

    • @steveholmes61
      @steveholmes61 2 роки тому

      He helped me bring back my ex permanently few days ago, without any delay, after six(6) years of separation 🥰🥰

    • @steveholmes61
      @steveholmes61 2 роки тому

      Whatzapp him***..

    • @zizi9028
      @zizi9028 2 роки тому

      Hey how are you now ?

  • @jessicajayne7856
    @jessicajayne7856 6 років тому +812

    I'm going through stage 1 right now. My boyfriend and I broke up last night, I can't stop crying, I'm absolutely heartbroken and what hurts the most is that he didn't have much to say, no fight in him, he just stopped bothering with me 😔

    • @makeupmina3800
      @makeupmina3800 6 років тому +16

      jess waldron same :( last night

    • @ashlynn1853
      @ashlynn1853 6 років тому +31

      The same happened to me he didn’t even bother to say anything I quote on quote said you’re not even going to say anything and he said no.

    • @Marentthu
      @Marentthu 6 років тому +2

      Same, happened to me 3 days ago ):

    • @jessicajayne7856
      @jessicajayne7856 6 років тому

      MakeupMina Hey hun, I’m so sorry you’re going through this too! It’ll get a little easier as time goes on I promise x

    • @jessicajayne7856
      @jessicajayne7856 6 років тому +1

      Marentthu Hey chick, I’m so sorry you’re going through this! I know how heartbreakingly upsetting it is! If you need anyone to talk to let me know x

  • @gennabergeron9631
    @gennabergeron9631 7 років тому +758

    Currently in stage one, and I just cannot stop crying. It's so hard.

    • @zeeblast3140
      @zeeblast3140 7 років тому +26

      Genna Bergeron same and it can be so random at times.

    • @lilyilylilyily
      @lilyilylilyily 7 років тому +3

      me too

    • @annakruger5354
      @annakruger5354 7 років тому +19

      Same... just was broken up with yesterday. I know it is for his mental health and he needs to get better before we can be together the right way but my god it hurts so bad...

    • @molatelochokoe1867
      @molatelochokoe1867 7 років тому +4

      how is it going Genna. My stage one is just begining

    • @gennabergeron9631
      @gennabergeron9631 7 років тому +9

      Molatelo Chokoe it’s better. it takes time for it to get better but trust me it does. live life to the fullest! live every day one day at a time. and don’t worry about the small things. it’s going to be very hard but trust me you’ll get through it

  • @theclovis.
    @theclovis. 4 роки тому +3575

    my 5 stages after a breakup:
    1. pain
    2. pain
    3. pain
    4. anger
    5. anger and pain

    • @refilwelioma8868
      @refilwelioma8868 4 роки тому +71

      Me right now.Im so pissed off.Mainly at myself though.

    • @yanruwang7946
      @yanruwang7946 4 роки тому +5

      haha i am sorry. but you are very funny

    • @cecip8697
      @cecip8697 4 роки тому +12

      Yes I feel so frustrated and angry and sad

    • @user-zq4lp9bb6n
      @user-zq4lp9bb6n 4 роки тому +37

      It was yesterday and I can’t help but just have that pain the my throat and the sinking feelings in my chest. But also at the same time I’m genuinely so angry because he wasted my time.

    • @a.a6615
      @a.a6615 4 роки тому +9

      @@user-zq4lp9bb6n exactly the same for me sis I feel exactly the same
      He broked my Heart so hard 💔 😢

  • @Dania.q
    @Dania.q 4 роки тому +55

    My heart wasn’t broken - my expectations were.

    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

      ±12562696013❤⏯

    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

      Message him now on WhatsApp for help

    • @bobomaina
      @bobomaina 3 роки тому

      True this is me my "expectations"

  • @proudslytherin0218
    @proudslytherin0218 5 років тому +583

    I think that maybe after some time, you don’t actually miss the person, you miss the feeling which this person gave you during the relationship . You were loved and appreciated by someone. I had suffered from low self esteem before I met my boyfriend and now that my boyfriend has left me, I suffer from it again, because there’s no one who shows me that I’m worth something and I’m too weak to prove it myself. Of course I miss him, we had such a wonderful time, but I’m not sure if I miss him as my boyfriend or as my best friend. The only thing I know for sure is that I miss the feeling of being loved, which I was able to experience because of my ex.

    • @gingerblue7774
      @gingerblue7774 4 роки тому +14

      Damn..we in the same boat..i think im the one who exicted in the relationship..i dont feel his excitement..and now i get my low self-esteem again...

    • @onlyalifetime
      @onlyalifetime 4 роки тому +6

      Same thing is happening with my ex. We've split 3 days ago (after 2 years). Before, she was depressed, she loved everyone except herself. She is a wonderful person. When we were together I loved her so she didn't need to. Now, even if it's hard for me I believe it's much harder for her. I hope she won't end up with a douchebag that would take advantage of her, because she's beautiful and a bit naive.

    • @estabonita
      @estabonita 4 роки тому

      Damn, on point..

    • @nadiarichxrds
      @nadiarichxrds 4 роки тому

      Relate alot

    • @aproxamillionwasps474
      @aproxamillionwasps474 4 роки тому

      You miss the good things

  • @elizabethmejia1416
    @elizabethmejia1416 5 років тому +543

    im at the withdraw.. and the moment she cried... man did i burst into tears.

    • @nuritgraff556
      @nuritgraff556 5 років тому +3

      Me too😭😭😭💔💔

    • @tangerinetamzie2165
      @tangerinetamzie2165 5 років тому +8

      I'm on stage 4 too and the thing that sucks about it is you honestly thought you were okay.... then boom it hits you back to to that dark place.... I hate it! But I'm trying not to fight it!! The only thing getting me through is my relationship with God.... hoping for the best because being stuck in this stage is so unhealthy

    • @tangerinetamzie2165
      @tangerinetamzie2165 5 років тому +1

      @@mrmarkrichards7004 I live in Africa, central Africa. Believe me!! Never trust thoes people!!!!! They use evil spirits and are money scammers!!!!! Just trust the process and allow yourself to heal with time, if others have done so, so can You, change is meant to help you grow.... we are all in this together, don't use short cuts!!!! Just allow yourself to walk through this! Embrace change, embrace growth!!!!

    • @noelashaoona
      @noelashaoona 5 років тому

      Me too

    • @juliar8379
      @juliar8379 5 років тому +1

      i cried too hahah

  • @christinlarry5451
    @christinlarry5451 5 років тому +1185

    It’s been 8 months since the end of a 7 year relationship and I’m still on stage one. I don’t know what I’m going to do

    • @babysalazarsmommy
      @babysalazarsmommy 5 років тому +113

      7 yrs too. Just broken up with. Idk how to get through it. I tell my friends to go out somewhere but they always have excuses to not go. So im like fuck u guys so i go try and distract myself but i just feel more lonely and still think of him.

    • @Athvna
      @Athvna 5 років тому +54

      Not Normal one day at a time love, baby steps, sending love

    • @scarlett-alvc
      @scarlett-alvc 5 років тому +46

      that’s also me! 7 years and just 2 weeks ago he told me he met someone else, it’s strange though, i went through stage 1 without a tear, up to stage 2 now and very afraid of step 4, hope you are doing fine!

    • @aliciachidlow6753
      @aliciachidlow6753 5 років тому +52

      My nearly 10 year relationship ended last year and yes it is awful at the start but trust me it gets easier and better as time goes on 🤗

    • @mariahjoy2678
      @mariahjoy2678 5 років тому +42

      I swear its the 7 year itch. My fiance just left me 2 days ago after seven years together. He just packed up everything while I was at work and left. Then he ambushed me in the driveway after I got home from work and took the car too. No explanation, or anything. Just that "we're done".

  • @khaoulaabader8578
    @khaoulaabader8578 3 роки тому +151

    It is weird that my stages went like? :
    1-pain
    2-distractions
    3-feeling good
    4-so much pain

    • @gavinjames6025
      @gavinjames6025 3 роки тому

      you can stil get back to him if you want to

    • @thesexygreenllama9
      @thesexygreenllama9 3 роки тому +3

      That's exactly my stages right now. He left one month ago. We were together over 3 years and were planning to get married. Covid changed that. Then he left out of no where.. :(

    • @khaoulaabader8578
      @khaoulaabader8578 3 роки тому +4

      @@thesexygreenllama9 how do you feel now? I hope you're doing alright
      That was my case also, he dumped me after a very long term relationship (6 years)

    • @thesexygreenllama9
      @thesexygreenllama9 3 роки тому +3

      @@khaoulaabader8578 Aw thanks for checking in. You know what.. I feel SOOO MUCH BETTER! I never thought I would feel like this or get to this stage back then. Everyone told me it takes time and it truly has helped so much.

    • @khaoulaabader8578
      @khaoulaabader8578 3 роки тому

      @@thesexygreenllama9 @thesexygreenllama9 I'm so happy to hear so dear, yeah they were totally right time heals everything, I'm just like you I feel so much better, I can't say I'm totally over him because it still haunts me sometimes, but at least I'm feeling inner peace and I accepted what happened.
      I wish you all the best and success in your life ❤️

  • @_sammie5397
    @_sammie5397 6 років тому +657

    This is so accurate for me. My ex whom i had relationship with for 2 years cheated on me and left me. The pain brought by betrayal and unfaithfulness of someone you loved so deeply was unbearable. The first 4 weeks was horrible. I cried myself to sleep. I cant eat. I cant sleep. I cant focus. I cry whenever Im alone. I cry with my friends.I cry on my way commute to work. I cry in the office. I cry on the train. And eventually i woke up one morning and realized i got tired of crying. Thats when I started to focus on myself and able to rebuild myself slowly.

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    • @malachhangte7709
      @malachhangte7709 6 років тому

      Samantha Isabel Pornel i feel you

    • @kierstin2712
      @kierstin2712 6 років тому +5

      Hey my boyfriend of a year did the same thing to me. In the first month He cheated with his ex multiple times and I chose to forgive him. I made him cut her off and we were together for a year after that we got an apartment and I felt happy. 2 days ago he told me that he was still in love with her and that he wants to be with her again.. it is so hard because I found out that they started hanging out again today. How long will this take? How are you doing now?

    • @kaylaisnotstudyingtoday1917
      @kaylaisnotstudyingtoday1917 6 років тому +17

      Kierstin Schwarz hey, I broke up with my boyfriend (no, actually he broke up with me) four days ago. He broke up with me when I found out that he was lying to me and hiding the fact that he is going to New York with his ex girlfriend without letting me know. Yes, he is an asshole. But I freaking still missed him until... I noticed when I looked at mirror: this isn’t me! I hate this ME! And he is the one who did wrong! He is asshole! Just keep telling yourself that he is the one did wrong! I know it’s hard! I totally know!!! But girl! You never needed or will need a man!!!! You can fucking get over him! And eventually you (and I) will even not hate him or love him or any feelings about him anymore. He is just a random person who passed by us. So Let Him Go! Let it go!

    • @Vabarbieblack
      @Vabarbieblack 6 років тому

      I love your comment.. Its so true..

  • @bearly882
    @bearly882 4 роки тому +1486

    When you barely just started at the first stage... ;'(( Now we're stuck in self-quarantine, the pain is even harder to get rid of... 😭 I can't stop thinking about him every day... ;-; I'm regretting everything..
    EDIT: Holy! Thanks for the likes guys!! Thanks for the comments as well, I'm currently doing alright thanks for asking. :) I ended up telling him how I felt, he knows, and well things didn't go so well of course. But yk what that's fine... tbh I'm still working on forgetting all the feelings since it's hard forgetting someone so amazing. But in the end, we're still friends. So I'm ok with it and I'm happy as long as he is happy too.
    For all those feeling the same, I hope you all the best during this time. Hope you'll get over it soon. Because there are plenty of fishes out in the sea. There's gotta be at least one that's perfect for you out there somewhere. Just gotta look/hope and stay positive! :))

    • @janewilson3260
      @janewilson3260 4 роки тому +2

      bearly882 I know someone very powerful who can help you get your ex back

    • @janewilson3260
      @janewilson3260 4 роки тому

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    • @janewilson3260
      @janewilson3260 4 роки тому

      bearly882 text him on WhatsApp

    • @sitiwajihah7861
      @sitiwajihah7861 4 роки тому +1

      Me too 😭

    • @chaelinesp7873
      @chaelinesp7873 4 роки тому +33

      I feel you 😢 quaratine sucks esp. when you're broken hearted. You're not alone just focus on yourself and pray. Try not talking to him either that's what I've been trying to do though I miss him. Journalling helps a lot too. 🙂

  • @anapatriciia8059
    @anapatriciia8059 5 років тому +957

    i was the one that broke up with my boyfriend exactly one month ago, but it doesnt mean its easier for me, i broke up because he was too cold and distant and i needed more than that, more love and affection, smt he couldnt give to me. last night i hit him up because i was just too sad and thinking too often about our good moments, but he didnt seem to care, it actually seems like he lost all his feelings for me in such a small amount of time even tho i am the one that still cries every night. it sucks. desperately waiting for the last stage to finally arrive...

    • @leamarye923
      @leamarye923 5 років тому +21

      Ana PatriCiia sounds like you made the right decision ❤️

    • @anapatriciia8059
      @anapatriciia8059 5 років тому +34

      Lea Marye yea its kind of a messed up situation right now, he decided to come back and fight for me but i dont think its worth it, i dont want to go through everything again

    • @ola1707
      @ola1707 5 років тому +17

      Ohh the same I am the one that break up my boyfriend and I really loved him....today is my last day I talk with him and break up .....it is really hard I don’t know what to do

    • @brittanys505
      @brittanys505 5 років тому +5

      @@anapatriciia8059 I mean if you're tired of his messes don't go back.If you couldn't feel happiness when they texted you again,you shouldn't.

    • @danielfeiteira5066
      @danielfeiteira5066 5 років тому +1

      @AnaPatriCiia Hey, I'm going through a breakup too rn and am just wondering: did you two got back together? How is it going?
      I don't know if I should get back together with my ex (she wanted to breakup and I did not, so we broke up anyway), because I still love her, what shoul I do?

  • @HistoryShell1786
    @HistoryShell1786 2 роки тому +12

    My 5 stages:
    1- Extreme sadness
    2- Anger
    3- Questioning my worth
    4- Realizing how ugly I am
    5- Learning to live alone and never showing myself to people again for their own good.
    And it usually works. I don’t get into another relationship unless some girl loves me so damn much that I just get pulled in and hit it off from there

  • @mysterymadness3728
    @mysterymadness3728 4 роки тому +2749

    *Last time I saw this video* was a year ago. I remembered watching this crying my eyes out because my ex broke up with me since he thought I was a crazy bitch for having so many problems.
    Basically left me, in my most vulnerable state even though I gave him everything and all I ever wanted that time was emotional support.
    That situation drove me insane and I felt suicidal afterwards because he made me feel like shit. So looking at this now is beyond relief, I have finally moved on from him and it's true, time really do heal wounds. I succeeded at reaching the final stage and I'm happier now, finally realizing my self-worth, that I deserve so much better.
    *So to anyone reading this and is going through a heartbreak. You can do it, don't hold your emotions back and just feel the pain, cry as much as you want to. Eventually, it'll pass and one day you'll wake up realizing you're over him. I promise it'll be okay. You are much stronger than you know* 💖

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      @susanella8097 4 роки тому +2

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      @susanella8097 4 роки тому

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      @johnlucas1759 4 роки тому

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  • @thesence
    @thesence 4 роки тому +464

    I think what we miss is just the fact that you realize that you won't have any new memories/dreams with this person you loved. It's similar if people die, while there are here you don't care to much. When they die you realize you will not be able to talk or create memories with that person any more. I guess that plays a huge part in all that. PS: Well done video... i enjoyed it. Specially after i broke up with my girlfriend just 2 weeks before our 10 years aniversary.

    • @MuhammadRizky-bm9ov
      @MuhammadRizky-bm9ov 4 роки тому +9

      I'm so sorry about your break up. But, how's your feeling now? I just broke up from my first relationship, and I feel like the earth is crumbling down my feet.

    • @thesence
      @thesence 4 роки тому +8

      @@MuhammadRizky-bm9ov well, it helps to stay away. It still hurts somehow, but i can deal with it now and look forward. In my case it's a bit different. We moved in a other country, gave up everything for that, tool care for more than 150 cats and stuff like that. So what i miss are the cats thats what hurts me thr most. But regarding rhe girl i can tell you it will get better. Try to take care for yourself, get fit, change yourself (haircut, clothing style etc), maybe a new hobby... It's like a rebuilding process to get strong again and be open again for a new relationship. But don't rush, reflect the old one, think about what worked fine and what caused problems. Keep the good things and drop the bad things for the next (or same) girl. Whatever might be your way. Stay strong, you will get through, but it will take a bit time.

    • @Tiffanynyc2323
      @Tiffanynyc2323 3 роки тому

      Going through the same wanna talk about it

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      @cidajohnny2938 3 роки тому

      @@MuhammadRizky-bm9ov
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      @cidajohnny2938 3 роки тому

      @@Tiffanynyc2323
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  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 7 років тому +867

    It was not easy to deal with a breakup and how people are going to get over it. I think this video is a big help to all the people who have experienced a breakup.

    • @l.2121-l9e
      @l.2121-l9e 6 років тому

      A True Love Official yes it is. This video helped me relate to this and has helped me out

    • @carlitayika1186
      @carlitayika1186 6 років тому +2

      A True Love Official i am not ready to face the stage 4.. actually my boyfriend give up in our relationship as his reasons is were not match, everytime we fight and we never respect each other. and i know i have so many mistakes. i wanted him to be back and correct all of the misunderstandings. :( but how?

    • @louisegrigg1118
      @louisegrigg1118 6 років тому

      A True Love Official I agree

    • @khalidakhoja2121
      @khalidakhoja2121 6 років тому

      Carlita Yika omg same situation I am trying to get him back hopefully I willz

    • @iamhappythingy9258
      @iamhappythingy9258 6 років тому

      The most depressing thing I ever experienced! Fun!

  • @kenyafrr
    @kenyafrr 2 роки тому +8

    came back to this video months months later, let me say ... this video helped me mentally and physically. Every time i watched it it made me stronger. im back with my partner who i took a break with and things are better. LADIES !! pain is temporary but healing is forever.

  • @Abigail-ld5bl
    @Abigail-ld5bl 5 років тому +161

    reading all the comments on this video literally calms me after i just broke up with my ex.... it's like having so many people encouraging and comforting me that it's gonna be okay....
    to those reading this: I'm sure you'll be happy again, maybe not now but time will heal your wounds. you'll be alright, I promise you ❤

    • @birkedicik
      @birkedicik 4 роки тому

      how are you now

    • @Abigail-ld5bl
      @Abigail-ld5bl 4 роки тому

      @@birkedicik i'm doing much better now, thanks ☺️ how're you?

    • @birkedicik
      @birkedicik 4 роки тому

      @@Abigail-ld5bl thanxx I'm so much better 💖 I hope you'll find the greatest person in the universe

    • @Abigail-ld5bl
      @Abigail-ld5bl 4 роки тому +1

      @@birkedicik aww I'm so happy to hear that!! you're too sweet 😢🥺 I wish you the same 💞❤

    • @jeyakodi9158
      @jeyakodi9158 4 роки тому

      Thank you.

  • @rissrose3470
    @rissrose3470 7 років тому +608

    I wish this was a 3 hour movie

  • @Admilly101
    @Admilly101 6 років тому +214

    It’s been 3 weeks since I was dumped by the guy I thought was going to be my soul mate. I watch this video almost everyday and it really helps remind me that I’m not alone and everyone goes through this and that there is hope!

    • @cokieloverl
      @cokieloverl 5 років тому +1

      Aubree Miletich did he ever come back? It’s been 2 weeks and I miss him 😭

    • @camilayg7244
      @camilayg7244 5 років тому +1

      What happen?

  • @melovetolaugh6417
    @melovetolaugh6417 4 роки тому +25

    “Just because they’re nice to you, doesn’t mean they’re the right one for you” dang...

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      @haleyhebert7142 4 роки тому

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  • @missphase7329
    @missphase7329 7 років тому +202

    Withdrawal is the absolute worst. If you make it through that stage, you'll be okay. It's really make or break at the point. Self destruct VS Self love.

  • @brainscrambledeggnothinkin3897
    @brainscrambledeggnothinkin3897 6 років тому +728

    A free advice to all who's going through a break up, please stop stalking them and seeing them. The more you see them, the more time it'll take to move on. Block your ex in all social media sites, block his/her number and delete all their photos and don't reach out the things that remind you of your ex. Out of sight, out of mind. It's not an easy things to do but trust me it'll make you much more easier to move on. I personally tried this and yeah it was worth doing. Best wishes to all, have a great life ahead.

    • @chelzygomez9331
      @chelzygomez9331 6 років тому +2

      Should i try?!😭😭😢😢🤧🤧

    • @brainscrambledeggnothinkin3897
      @brainscrambledeggnothinkin3897 6 років тому +18

      @@chelzygomez9331 Communicate once and figure out things before doing this if both of you're equally invested and there is some hopes of a better future together, but if your feelings are one sided and you don't see a future with him by anymeans then you better move on and don't look back. Trust me don't step into a relation or try to be friend with your ex if both of you're not on the same page, it's not worth keeping and chances are you're only delaying the process of moving forward and heal yourself. Think twice before doing this because cutting of contacts is a bold step, but not thrice and once you make your mind about it stick to it, you may feel bad for few days but after that you'll get your life back and thank yourself. Best wishes ❤

    • @chelzygomez9331
      @chelzygomez9331 6 років тому +3

      I am in the middle of this .. thank's for u'r advice .. i hope i will become better sooner or later ..but as of now .. i really don't know .. what im going to do .. 💔💔💔😭

    • @carmenilie8945
      @carmenilie8945 6 років тому +18

      My grandma once said (at ~70yo) that she regrets ripping off a photo of her ex boyfriend and told me to never delete photos of mine so ill just take her advice since i also believe in it

    • @linhtran9172
      @linhtran9172 5 років тому +4

      Oh gosh we are the same class so it seems like I have no choice but being friend with her

  • @magugugoge1897
    @magugugoge1897 4 роки тому +168

    You break up and you go through all these stages than you stalk his social media and find that he has moved on already while you out here crying yourself to sleep. Am done with this whole dating thing always ends in tears all the time

    • @Neno657
      @Neno657 3 роки тому +5

      Same here don't worry u are not alone they act like they are the one u can't find any one better then him and then what they do like every other they leave fuck this love iam so done with this it's baccaly bullshit iam sorry use abusive language I just had my broke up

    • @blaircorneliawaldorf5101
      @blaircorneliawaldorf5101 3 роки тому +5

      I feel u so much. It’s always the same, dating, u fall in love, make cute memories together and then someday a bad thing happens, you’re hurt and then break up. I’m so done with this, my heart is broken enough. I can’t do this anymore.

    • @79464f
      @79464f 3 роки тому +1

      @@Neno657 i felt that on another level

    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

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    • @leekerr1638
      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

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  • @mistie480
    @mistie480 Рік тому +6

    He broke up with me 2 years ago and this video helped me a lot back then
    Today i am having a happy life totally moved on and trust me anyone who is in this situation will get through it somehow Don't loose hope once you move on you have a new journey to start again
    Good luck
    Had my second breakup today and here im again hopefully i will heal soon and everyone else too lets hope for the best ❤️

  • @sanneismuziekdoos
    @sanneismuziekdoos 5 років тому +399

    I think after nearly three months i'm finally beginning to go into stage 5. I remember watching this video on the day we broke up thinking how i'd probably never even make it to the last stage, but here I am. Thank you so much

    • @hellothere8812
      @hellothere8812 5 років тому +5

      sanne gruijs I think we should just be friends

    • @annahammarlund413
      @annahammarlund413 5 років тому +1

      Well it’s been 9months for me and Im still on stage 1

    • @Vero-hm7il
      @Vero-hm7il 5 років тому

      sanne gruijs YES! ♥️🙌🏽

    • @angelinaj.3903
      @angelinaj.3903 5 років тому +1

      same sis 🙏 felt like my breakup was THE worst and nobody has ever experienced something that bad before... haha now I'm laughing. Almost every breakup feels like THE worst but in the end... we eventually get over it, grow so much and move on. It takes time but time heals everything. It will leave a scar tho but it will heal

    • @nicwasenda
      @nicwasenda 5 років тому

      Same

  • @mariahamores8481
    @mariahamores8481 5 років тому +131

    Know your worth.. know the difference between what you get and what you deserve. Self love.

  • @vania134
    @vania134 2 роки тому +23

    Don't always blame the person who says 'I'm not ready for something serious'. They might want to be with you at that moment, but for some reason they don't feel ready and don't want to play with your feelings. They just want to save you from disappointment because they know that at that moment they cannot give you what you are looking for. :)

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      @makojacko6686 2 роки тому

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      @makojacko6686 2 роки тому

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    • @dalesandro1628
      @dalesandro1628 2 роки тому

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    • @dalesandro1628
      @dalesandro1628 2 роки тому

      Whatsapp him now

    • @sherlocknothelock
      @sherlocknothelock 2 роки тому +3

      we’re not supposed to wait for them either. they’re either with you or they aren’t

  • @thatexcalifornian6124
    @thatexcalifornian6124 4 роки тому +536

    My stages of a breakup:
    1. Pain
    2. Pain
    3. Numbness
    4. Realization
    5. Low self esteem

    • @patriciaikhalea4084
      @patriciaikhalea4084 4 роки тому +1

      I know one great man who can help you restore your relationship

    • @patriciaikhalea4084
      @patriciaikhalea4084 4 роки тому

      Just the way he helped me

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      @patriciaikhalea4084 4 роки тому

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    • @anjanaj5985
      @anjanaj5985 3 роки тому

      I'm trying hard not to fall into that fifth stage

    • @jessicahurley5251
      @jessicahurley5251 3 роки тому

      I call one phase the fog and lord did I hate it but right after 2 months of it I got better. It took me awhile to even get there.

  • @user-ig6yb5qw5v
    @user-ig6yb5qw5v 5 років тому +1229

    Why do all the bad ex’s start with a J lmao

  • @AJGalecki
    @AJGalecki 5 років тому +300

    7 months from my breakup... Stage 4: Withdrawal just hit hard. Feels like dying

    • @dramishayoung2814
      @dramishayoung2814 5 років тому +3

      A.J Galecki be strong u will be ok ... good time will come ... be happy who ever u r

    • @TheXxdarkangel10xx
      @TheXxdarkangel10xx 4 роки тому +1

      I hope u feeling better, am going thru this rn, while my situation is very particular, and I don't want to bore u guys with details, I will Say it's been 3 weeks in withdrawal stage and boy I think it getting worse and worse, but better at the same time, am going to the gym focusing on me nd I tried cutting off communication but we have a son and I take him to school she picks him up, so it's like we talk almost everyday, it's very hard on me but am focused and am just ready to get over this, if destiny and time bring us together than awesome, if this is to be over than am okay with it too.

    • @ParisianBreakfast
      @ParisianBreakfast 4 роки тому +1

      Omg. Same. 7 months and the withdrawal is happening. Damn... I hope you do feel better now.

    • @MrJooooaninha
      @MrJooooaninha 4 роки тому

      A.J Galecki it’s the worst part!! You
      Will make it and in the end you will become better than ever. ☀️🌍

    • @northtown3816
      @northtown3816 4 роки тому

      No bs

  • @whatrtheodds
    @whatrtheodds 4 роки тому +136

    For me it has been:
    Stage 1: feeling sick, sad, crying, waves of hardcore pain, following I know I'll be ok feelings. Thinking about him excessively mainly his good qualities. Refusing to think about the bad stuff, and then slowly thinking of some of the reasons it's not a good idea we were together to help me deal with it. Accepting the uncertainty of life in general, Trying to understand his point of view in my mind. Talking to friends about him.
    That's some of it so far it's been a week now.

    • @haleyhebert7142
      @haleyhebert7142 4 роки тому +1

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    • @karendelgado653
      @karendelgado653 4 роки тому +1

      Are you doing better now?

    • @malina5712
      @malina5712 3 роки тому +1

      How long have you been datinh

    • @whatrtheodds
      @whatrtheodds 3 роки тому +4

      We dated for 9 months. It was the worst pain I think I have been through. But it comes to the point where you must get better, because sustaining that kind of grief is just to much. Although I wondered if it would be ok. I still get waves 🌊 of bad days but I'm greatful for the longer and longer periods of time when it's good. I do miss him but I also know it's not healthy to hold on forever. 🦋💞

    • @cidajohnny2938
      @cidajohnny2938 3 роки тому

      @@whatrtheodds
      Whstapp him

  • @Iiiivvvvvyy
    @Iiiivvvvvyy 5 років тому +160

    Love yourself first. Because in the end of the day it's only you, you stay with yourself and lay down with your thoughts.❤️

    • @professormey2082
      @professormey2082 5 років тому +1

      Ivona Cizma I feel like crying when she got to that stage 😭idk why

  • @lilybarry4520
    @lilybarry4520 4 роки тому +224

    If she was really crying that sound would break your heart to hear. The difference between a deeply painful sob out of fear of being alone and feeling sorry for yourself and the guttural unyielding sob of someone who is crying from longing for another who they truly love. It is unbearable almost to even bare witness to it, I can’t imagine having to endure that level of emotional pain. I watched my friend cry herself almost to death over the loss of her husband, I’ve never personally seen a couple more crazy in love than them. The howling sobbing cries were almost palpable. As god says “love is as strong as death and jealousy is as cruel as the grave”

    • @pallavibanerjee244
      @pallavibanerjee244 4 роки тому +5

      Lily Barry a very heartfelt message Lily. More power to your friend. I know how the tears feel when they roll down your cheeks.

    • @xxs4760
      @xxs4760 4 роки тому +2

      wow that text called me out

    • @psngrl7677
      @psngrl7677 4 роки тому +17

      This is so true.
      My ex broke up with me one month ago, this is the firts time in my life I've been dumped. I never really truly understood the pain people feel after being left by the one they love. Until now.
      It's soul ripping, it's almost like you want to die. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't do anything. I don't know what to do.

    • @rosiepettals9645
      @rosiepettals9645 4 роки тому +6

      Psn Grl im going through the same thing, my boyfriend well now ex boyfriend dumped me last night I haven’t ate or slept since :/ idk what to do

    • @annamaria9334
      @annamaria9334 4 роки тому +5

      Does she feel better now? You sound like such a good friend for her

  • @wendycordova5943
    @wendycordova5943 5 років тому +66

    "Just because someone is good to you, doesn't mean they are right for you." I need to implement this in my love life.

  • @natureloverbangladesh
    @natureloverbangladesh 2 роки тому +4

    The most sad part-- not knowing it coming .When you are planning for something they might be planning to breakup..and suddenly the storm comes and you are blindfolded bewildered, clueless ,hurt ,At sea with nothing to hold.

  • @charlesm.d8577
    @charlesm.d8577 5 років тому +194

    I saw myself in this video going through a divorce after 18 years to be left with my 4 kiddos for another woman. Healing does happen!!!!

    • @keithpate4586
      @keithpate4586 5 років тому +8

      My wife asked for a divorce 3 days ago, after 17 years. And I gave her 100%!!!!!

    • @NoahAllison1998
      @NoahAllison1998 5 років тому +9

      cant imagine what your feeling, man im sorry.

    • @Ramen551
      @Ramen551 5 років тому +2

      God will heal you

    • @Gigglypuffx3
      @Gigglypuffx3 5 років тому

      Omggggg i must talk to you it happened to meee

    • @byhisgrace9777
      @byhisgrace9777 4 роки тому

      Yr ex is a monster.

  • @amalali5730
    @amalali5730 5 років тому +79

    ladies.. think with your head not your heart and always leave before u are left..

  • @sandieneilan467
    @sandieneilan467 5 років тому +218

    Getting through the self love phase now. So much happier:)

    • @haileymejia
      @haileymejia 4 роки тому +3

      I’m proud of you !

    • @sandieneilan467
      @sandieneilan467 4 роки тому +2

      haileymejia thank you🥺🥺💕💕

    • @ishy8723
      @ishy8723 4 роки тому +1

      Feel stage one ending off now 🤞🏽

    • @chelsy356
      @chelsy356 4 роки тому +1

      Same ☺️🌸🌸

    • @scoob1670
      @scoob1670 4 роки тому

      Can you teach me how to do that?

  • @simoneleighharrison6848
    @simoneleighharrison6848 3 роки тому +5

    Love the friends that "bark off" any guy who comes near; even though I related to the pain, I felt glad she had support... No one should go through heart ache all alone. Beautiful!!

    • @wendycoker144
      @wendycoker144 3 роки тому

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    • @wendycoker144
      @wendycoker144 3 роки тому

      What sapp him;

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      @wendycoker144 3 роки тому

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      @briellelepine9560 3 роки тому

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      @briellelepine9560 3 роки тому

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  • @jelynolpinda7090
    @jelynolpinda7090 5 років тому +418

    5 yrs.of building a relationshit and building dreams ,it takes only 5 seconds to fall apart. So sad.😫😥..why is this happening on earth??

    • @karissebtanoy
      @karissebtanoy 5 років тому +1

      Going thru the same shit rn ☹️💔

    • @rerease
      @rerease 5 років тому

      No offense but your spelling makes me wonder "How in the world did you pass english class?"

    • @MudlarkDiggingUpTheThames
      @MudlarkDiggingUpTheThames 5 років тому +4

      Did you deliberately spell it relationshit?

    • @kutisbayag1309
      @kutisbayag1309 5 років тому +1

      MudlarkDiggingUpTheThames
      Yes, that's the way it should be called.lol

    • @kutisbayag1309
      @kutisbayag1309 5 років тому +4

      Liam McNeely
      Its deliberatey spelled man, that's the way it should be called. Lol

  • @sarahbouyaiche4139
    @sarahbouyaiche4139 4 роки тому +40

    My breakup was in May 2018. I used to watch this video all the time. It’s crazy, to look back on it.
    Today is April 2020. The progress I made is crazy.
    Folks, trust me. No matter how bad the breakup, you will get through it. ☀️

    • @MaryJane-gb9lh
      @MaryJane-gb9lh 4 роки тому

      Sarah Bouyaiche i know someone who can help you

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      @MaryJane-gb9lh 4 роки тому

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  •  4 роки тому +417

    Going through my first ever break up atm... I never thought it would hurt this much losing someone that meant everything for me!😩💔

    • @cidblock6760
      @cidblock6760 4 роки тому

      Kevin Byström message the great spell caster that helped me

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      @cidblock6760 4 роки тому

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    • @isabellenemoianu8781
      @isabellenemoianu8781 4 роки тому

      did it work tho

    •  4 роки тому +4

      @@isabellenemoianu8781 I actually feel great now to be honest. Thanks for asking! :)

  • @nickodelacruz2920
    @nickodelacruz2920 4 роки тому +45

    My 5 stages of break up
    1.Feeling cheated
    2.Being cheated
    3.Pain
    4.Angryness
    5.Fuck love
    Im.now emotionless and i wont ever love anyone again fuck

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      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

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      @leekerr1638 3 роки тому

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  • @yellow4295
    @yellow4295 6 років тому +238

    Because this might help someone, here is my story:
    I started dating my significant other around two years ago. Things were fine for the most part, we had our ups and our downs like anyone else. Due to my job, we were put into a temporary long distance relationship. I was going to be away for six months. My first month out there, we got into an argument, and he decided he wanted to take a break. I thought it was dramatic, but it was like okay, whatever. A few days passed and we decided we wanted to work things out. We eventually started to talk a bit more, but out of the blue he started acting odd and subsequently broke things off again. I later found out that he lost his v card with our coworker and he started to date her behind my back. I was crushed. I didn't understand why he'd do something like that to me. He lead me on the entire time saying that he loved me, etc. until a mutual friend felt bad and told me what was happening. The girl ended up sleeping with his best friend after 2 months (karma) and he started to give me attention again. I was only a few months away from making it back home, and I told him I'd decide if I wanted to try again when I came back. Long story short, we ended up together. He bought me an expensive ring, and told me that he realized he messed up, and that he loved me. The emotional scars lasted, but I was thrilled. I finally was good enough. Things seemed like they were really going two work out.
    Fast forward to this month. He got angry because I was upset that he wasn't home when he said he would be. Not even close. He was out partying all night. When he woke up the next day he decided to break up with me because he didn't want to be held to a standard when going out with friends, he didn't feel like being around me, and he wanted to play more video games. I begged for him to just wait a month because we had been stressed, and he agreed. Maybe all of this was due to stress.
    But it didn't work. A week later, we got into another argument, and he said the same thing. At first I started to beg again, but suddenly something washed over me. A sort of confidence. Knowing that I had done nothing wrong, and that I had fought the good fight. I had some resistance in the back of my head. I really didn't want to break up. THEN, this man had the BALLS to say that he "hopes I don't move on because he still loves me and wants me to be his wife someday", AKA he wants to act the way he wants to and then when he's done, he wants me to take him back like every other time he has done this. That's when I KNEW I was making the right choice. Not by just letting him leave, but me actively dropping him.
    He thought I wouldn't move on.
    He thought I would wait for him.
    I came back a few days later to grab my stuff from his place, and he threw a fit because I wasn't wearing the ring he got me. He then was going off because I hadn't been answering his texts.
    He's mad because I finally figured out his game. He's mad that I'm moving on. And boy, am I.
    TL; DR LADIES, YOU DO NOT WANT YOUR MAN BACK. IF YOU BEG FOR HIM BACK, HE WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. AND THAT IS IF HE EVEN TAKES YOU BACK. ACCEPT THAT THIS IS HAPPENING FOR A REASON AND MOVE. ON. YOU ARE GOING TO BE OKAY.

    • @freepalestine7687
      @freepalestine7687 5 років тому +8

      Julie Ann Im glad you moved on. He just wasn’t the right one and You deserve better!

    • @DianaRoseYanni
      @DianaRoseYanni 5 років тому

      You are beautiful and you deserve better. Thank goodness, we finally woke up.

    • @Devilish1975
      @Devilish1975 5 років тому +2

      Julie Ann Thank you for your story. It is just what I needed. My boyfriend is the same as ypurs. I do not need him in my life.

    • @dr.ekshitaangel9585
      @dr.ekshitaangel9585 5 років тому +1

      Even mine was like that I begged him a lot to stay with me until I told my mom everything and she gave me the strength to break up with that guy and I did. I am currently in stage 2 but I know I'll move on and I deserve better than him. You are right men like these like to play these games. My ex did same thing with his previous girlfriend and think m also like her but I told him I don't fucking care about him. I am happy that I left such a man.

    • @juliar8379
      @juliar8379 5 років тому

      this reminds me of my bf/ex rn sooo much

  • @um3153
    @um3153 5 років тому +46

    Stage 5 is so so difficult . There's always something that would come out suddenly out of nowhere and you're back to stage 1 and feeling sorry for what happened

  • @claritywithteekay
    @claritywithteekay 5 років тому +737

    The above-mentioned 5 stages defo don't apply to everyone, still this was cool to watch. My 5 stages would be :
    Stage 1 : feeling crushed, perplexed while trying to remain active.
    Stage 2 : find reasons why they weren't the one
    Stage 3 : accept the reasons why it didn't work out
    Stage 4 : after a few months of self growth, writing, parties and therapy, go out there and date someone new
    Stage 5 : fall for that someone and give them everything till they leave again for no apparent reason
    Repeat indefinitely

    • @isabellacosby3339
      @isabellacosby3339 5 років тому +18

      This is so discouraging. I don’t ever want another boyfriend. Lol

    • @mailmandouglas664
      @mailmandouglas664 5 років тому +2

      yo the same thing happened to me neither me or her was making a move so I asked her out and she said no and just flat out broke up with me and never even told me why

    • @dianazetina3880
      @dianazetina3880 5 років тому +3

      You’re so handsome

    • @pearlythobz
      @pearlythobz 5 років тому +3

      True.
      Due to your stage 5,which also happens to me all the time, im shutting all romantic love out. Hopefully forever. This "being disemboweled by a loved one" thing isnt for me

    • @claritywithteekay
      @claritywithteekay 5 років тому

      @@dianazetina3880 thank you :)

  • @diyasharma4660
    @diyasharma4660 2 роки тому +2

    5:00 that’s the part which helped me a lot in truly being a better version of myself and accept life’s uncertainties . Thank you.