heartbreak, one year later.
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2018
- This video is a reflection on my last year, after letting go of something that was really difficult for me. It was amazing what that led to.
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Last summer I finally pulled the trigger and removed someone from my life that I really cared about. I was scared to do this, but I knew it had to be done because I wasn't growing and able to move on. In todays video I want to reflect on that decision I made a year ago, how I found myself, and eventually was able to open up.
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Sometimes it’s so hard to really understand that you’re not the problem.
Marianto Bravo he was hooking up with other girls and refused to commit to her. She obsessed over him for three years without ever even being in a relationship with him. How the hell is she not the problem lol
Marianto Bravo I know
I really needed to hear this. This made me she'd many tears.
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So true
Sometimes the biggest heartbreak is walking away knowing that they don’t treat you right even though you want to stay 1000 times over and keep loving that person despite all the bullshit they put you through.
I had to do this in December, hasn’t stopped hurting sinceeee:(✌🏻
@@ameliahadgett1074 same with me & it's been 6 months & still feels like yesterday. I wonder if this pain will ever go away!
I did it 4 days ago and I'm still heartbroken, I had to leave cause she didn't love me anymore.
Then you need to love yourself more
Going through it
Tip here: Never remain his friend. If he is not sure, distance yourself from him. That's the only way he might value you. Please notice that I said might.
Problem is some people cant come thru to say sorry. They See how they Hurt you and feel so Bad that they will never come back even If they Wanted to. They are scared of you hurting then Back with what they did.
Wish my 17 year old self knew this
@@sylvia6474 I believe that when you truly care about or love someone, you shouldn't let your pride get in the way, especially if you are the one who wronged the person you care about.
We tried to be friends and it really didn't work. Her texting me, asking whatsup when im trying to move on was tough.
She would text me, i would answer and it would take days for her to answer back. I spent those days peeking on my phone.
She was out dating and couldn't care less about me, but she demanded to be my friend and as heartbroken as i was, i was just happy with any kind of contact.
I wish i had walked away earlier but i will learn from my misstakes. But i have no regrets. I did my best for it to work but it didn't work.
I'm able to feel again, believe in myself and i have hope for the future ❤
I wish i read this sooner. I reamined his friend im done ah
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Y
@@irot.4322 because if he likes you and wants you he will tell you. He will be scared to lose you! if hes confused he will give you mixed signals and lead you on.
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THIS
Emily Damjanovska because nowadays there’s a lot of fuckboys and guys who just wanna use girls and play with their feelings.. so then they manipulate them and play with their feelings sometimes they pretend they like them and then when they find a new hoe they leave them
I wish there was an option to forget some people..
Edit: guys, its okay. Its been a year, I'm over it. It was my first breakup ever so thar kinda explains it. Now I'm in a good and healthy relationship with another girl and its my longest relationship yet :D
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2 year relationship down the drain....2 months into the breakup and I’m so heartbroken...this is my first heartbreak and it feels like I’m dying
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I'm really sorry you're going through this, I'm on the brink of a break up with my first proper love. I don't know your situation but I can say never regret anything, it was probably good back then, but people change and grow and sometimes it's at different rates or directions, it doesn't mean everything is down the drain, even though it feels that way, but it just means, you don't need them anymore. It's so hard to figure out what you need and what you want when they're two different things. You can always take away the things you learned from the relationship. I hope you're doing well.
You'll be ok! 😙 right now, you may not know how but you'll be ok!
I am convinced that falling for someone who doesn’t feel the same way is the most painful thing one can experience.
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I think getting cheated on is worse
@@Bittlelit Is that painful? Sure. But in that case you'll at least have some closure in realizing that they were never the right person for you. But to know that someone out there is quite literally perfect for you? To know that you can never be with that person? To know that you'd probably end up with them if the circumstances were different? I can't even begin to describe how painful that is. It is a kind of pain you'll only understand once you've experienced it yourself.
If someone wants to leave, let them. They are saving you from a lifetime of pain and more heartache.
Amen. I need to remind myself this
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Facts!!
I dated a girl for almost 4 years. Thought it was the one I was going to marry. She out of nowhere decided she wanted to break up. 3 different times within 2 months she led me on to make me feel we would work it out, but then would just say I don’t know what I want. Stringing me along as a backup. After her emailing me constantly saying how can I get you back and never lose you again I decided to take her back to work things out. 2 weeks later a best friend had to tell me the truth. She was sleeping with the doctor she worked for and was sending nude photos to my sisters husband- now ex husband. I still tried to make it work and look past it all. We planned to move out. I put a deposit down on a apartment. She told me she would quit her job where she worked but didn’t. Told me she didn’t want to move out and wouldn’t quit her job for our relationship. I finally got the balls to tell her goodbye. Told her I love you, kissed her and said I’m done. I haven’t looked back since. Probably the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Telling someone you love so much goodbye when you made the decision to leave. You may love someone so much but know your worth and never let someone change who you are.
Here’s what I learned: heartbreak is awful and truly feels like you are dying. You just have to walk through it. There’s no magic cure. It takes months or maybe longer. You won’t always feel as bad as you do in the midst of it and you will love again, even though it seems impossible now.
Very well said!
But after 12 years I'm still not able to move on....he married someone else...it hurts me so bad no contact nothing ....dying almost everyday...hope find someone who take his place in my heart....
@@ankitasinghrajput4024 Dear, it sounds like you're feeling the most intense pain you've ever had in this very hard time of your life. Only your Creator can heal your ruptured heart now. His name is Jesus...
@@ramoth777 hope so😭😭I want to erase that memory from my mind...it sucks
@@ankitasinghrajput4024 No doubt. But if you repent (forsake your sins) and believe in the Savior King, He will save you from your sins and the Hell that you deserve for them. He can give you the gift of life eternal (Ephesians 2:8-9) and the second birth (John 3:3) that you need. He came to die for our sins above all, and He also came to heal the brokenhearted (Luke 4:18)...
It’s been almost 5 months and yet sometimes it feels like it happened yesterday. It’s crazy how fast people can change and turn into someone you’d never imagined they could. If I’ve learned anything through this breakup is that nothing lasts forever and that’s okay. Because some things are not meant to. People leave. People change and so do you. Life goes on and you are better for having left something so toxic behind and remembering that there are far better things ahead.
Estefania F,You deserve better 🙏🙏🙏
I try to remember that this is true, but sometimes its just depressing.
@@cowz1497 hang in there!! It's been almost a year now and I feel SO MUCH BETTER. Time really does heal most wounds but you also have to keep busy. Build yourself up, do things you want to do, travel, read, go to the gym, etc. And know that is for you will never pass you! You will be okay, sending you all the positive vibes!!
@@hola1707 I have a question! Recently when I was broken and crying I came across a video that said emotions change. So my question is does love last forever? Does that feeling change overtime?
@@gvshe996 I think you can love someone forever or have love for them but not be “in love” with them as you once were. Love changes you for sure and the impact people have on us/ love has one us does last a lifetime but I’m not sure if you can love someone forever like in the fairytales lol. I’d like to think it’s possible for some people but who knows… love is a choice. We chose to love the other and sometimes love ends and that’s okay.
Everyone going through a heartbreak.. it really does get better. Let time heal you. I went through a heartbreak that I thought I’d never get over. It was a two year relationship and the breakup was off/on for almost a year. I finally got closure when he started seeing a mutual friend. I realized how toxic he is and how happy I was I let him go. He wasn’t worth my hurting. Today, I just got back from an amazing trip with the love of my life for our two year anniversary.
Im currently going through a heartbreak and he was my first love. he broke up w me bc i won’t be in town for 4 months then come back bc he can’t do long distance. I feel like I’ll never get over him and I’m hurting so bad. I don’t even eat anymore and he said maybe when I come back we could date again. I’m absolutely broken idk what to do.
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you honestly gave me hope, i was in a2 year toxic relationship as well. but this is out second break up. first time i did 3 months no contact and he came back but i missed him so much. so now i understand that it’ll take longer than 3 months for me to heal. and i’ll never let him back
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Ultimate respect sounds like a doormat to me.
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I broke up with my boyfriend who I dated for 2 years because 5 days ago I found out he had been cheating on me for a month
Angie Longdon thats fucked lol I mean if you never had sex with him and you one of them boring girls then yeah you kinda had it coming but if not then that’s still messed up lol
Anz Boii183 fuck you and no. Relationships aren’t about sex.
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Wow. I watched this video in 2020 when I was so depressed and heartbroken after a really harsh breakup of a long term relationship. 2 years later now 2022, and this came up again on my suggested videos. After thinking I would never bounce back from that, I can safely say, it does get better. Don’t get me wrong, I still think about him from time to time but I’m not sad, im not looking for a way to escape from life, im not crying every day anymore. Im okay. Life moves on and you do find yourself again :) im still single, but now im very independent and ready for something new.
#1 take away of dating. Stop asking if the other person wants you and ask if you want them. Someone who isnt sure about you isnt someone you want to be with. You will never change someone's mind!
Also, girls we often hold on too long and then blame the resentment on the other person. At some point the ball is in your court. If someone says "I dont know" it's a no. Dont wait around, dont hope they'll change, dont be their support while they figure it out.
This all comes with age and experience so be kind to yourself while you figure it out.
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I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships.
Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot.
And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends.
Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone.
Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.
So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
This is so true. Do not settle for “I don’t know.”
we talked about forever, but he woke up one day and realized he didn’t love me anymore
At least he's being honest. Gonna be a tough road but it's time to heal and move on. A better life awaits!
This just happened to me too.
Same here :( I’m so sorry
That doesn’t happen in a day. It’s prob been in his mind for at least a few weeks
maybe you took him for granted and acted different, just maybe
One of the hardest thing about heartbreak/rejection - seeing the other person so happy, laughing and smiling, without you.
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Sucks! It's hurt.
My ex got a girlfriend the day after he broke up with me. Me? I can’t even get out of bed sometimes let alone date someone new
Yeh I fell hard for someone and she ended it to focus on her school but I love her
Same...mine got a new girlfriend and then got her pregnant a week after we broke up. They are now living together
It's been a little over six months and I have never felt anything more liberating. It really hurt at the time, still hurts some times but when I wake up and miss anxiety, a turning stomach and a closing throat caused by the fear of being treated wrong by someone I dearly love(d) I feel at peace. I hope everyone going through a heartbreak gets to experience the calmness that I am experiencing. It gets better I promise.
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“Man’s rejection is God’s protection”
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So true!! A breakup is always so hard but each time it happens I end up leaning so much about my self!
I am so blessed with financial independence, wonderful family and friends and love my life! At my age I will not date unless they have a lot to bring to the table.
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It's been 3 years and I'm still healing..
So it is normal to take time to heal righy? its been a year and im still not over it
Wow. :( Why do you think that is ?
Are you stil in contact with him at all?
I’m afraid it will take me just as long especially cause he’s my bd but knowing im not the only one helps
Hes a relative...and i havent seen him since then but i know alot of him from our family and it hurt knowing he moved on from me ..did i mention we were engaged
Reo Rose I’m scared I’ll never heal. I was with this man for seven years. This pain is debilitating
What’s worse is when they lie about they’re feelings
their*
Life is beautiful nobody likes you.
Ikr eight months and healing
Mhm :(
Ya, she literally just said she still love me, just can't love me anymore blah blah blah, told me to wait for her. So... half month later now, she got a new bf. I'm so over her now.🙄
I love how you said " Life is NOT a movie! This is what we all NEED to remember" Let's not get confused between reality and unrealistic expectations of hollywood. Life is all about letting go, moving on and learning from it. That's exactly what you did!
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Went through a breakup 3 days ago, with a fiancée of 5 years (she's 23, I'm 29). Everything was going amazing, we were super happy. full of joy and interest in life, going on random adventures... We were engaged and had already planned the next 10 years together, names for our kids, places we will live in, and last week we chose a house to move in to literally next week.
But on Saturday she went to a friend's party. She had fun, drank and then in the morning I had a really ominous feeling (intuition) that something bad happened so I texted her if she's okay and if anything bad happened. She responded only to select few messages that would give vague answer that she's physically okay. Then in the evening she finally talked to me and said that we need to breakup. And I asked why, what's wrong, is it something I or we can fix and work on? And she said no, everything is good with us and we had a perfect relationship full of happiness and excitement. However, she never had "butterflies" for me and that she feel because of this our love is wrong and that the way she loves me and the way I love her are not the same. She said that she loves me more than anything in life and that she thinks I deserve better, she deserves better. So we broke up so she could go chase butterflies.
Over the years she had become my best best friend and she says she still wants me in her life and that we remain friends... And I don't know if I can do that.
I had no say in this, I have no way to fix this, there was not something wrong that I did to cause this and it feels really bad. Everything was going super well and then a bomb came from nowhere, from whom I thought was the love of my life. It hurts more than anything ever hurt or that I imagined anything could hurt.
And what hurts the most are that these were the most amazing 6 years, full of amazing and great memories together, but what hurts the most is that there will not be any more amazing memories with this person and that she will now remain only a memory, rather than a life partner.
For her this breakup is essentially like losing a friend, for me its losing a life, partner and unfulfilled future. And it hurts that 5 years can mean so little to someone that they are willing to throw it on a whim, just to chase a biochemical reaction (butterflies) that always pass at some point...
But I am trying to move on somehow, and it's getting a bit easier every day...
2 years down the line, I hope you’ve healed and are doing good now ❤
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She is so so so young at age 23.....and your 29.....its like dating a child....neuroscience states men and women develop into adults by age 36.......if you date that young expect that outcome....its normal.
A couple of days ago my boyfriend of two years broke up with me because he said he needs time to figure his life out and that I am a distraction. It was a total blindside, as the relationship was going so well and when we were together it was nothing but laughs and joyful time together. We had even begun discussing marriage just a month ago. My heart is shattered and I can’t imagine myself with any one else. I find myself hoping and praying that he will come back even though deep down I know I should just trust that I’ll be okay no matter what happens. It is not easy
My boyfriend broke up wugh me 2 days ago for the exact same reason! It’s tough because there’s nothing you can do to change his mind, since it’s so personal. :(
My ex broke up with me second week of January for a very similar reason
Same here :( and at the same time as yours. It sucks
exactly this.. I just have a weakness for him and I still pray that one day he’ll go back to me.
How are you feeling now?
First love always hurts the worst but realizing now I missed so many red flags in the relationship that were toxic
same
Most people say that but not in my case, my first love was toxic and a rollercoaster. My second love (7 years) was pure and good but because she want kids and I did not know at that point, if I was ready for kids. She waited 2 years and after that left with tears In my house. Its 1 year later and I still think from the morning till the night about her and what happend. Feelings are getting worse.. its really painfull
Same, and I thought I'd marry the man lol
I wish I could move on and forget, it's crushing my being
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Omg that’s what I am thinking too
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Damn same
Wow. This story “dated and never dated the guy” is sooooo real. Thannk you for this it means a lot.
Khrystyne Linao yessss, labels truly mean nothing it can hurt just as bad.
Literally just ended things with someone who did the same things to my heart. How did UA-cam know I would need this video right now?? To anyone who feels heartbroken- we can find happiness in ourselves again. We are not broken or leftover. We are precious, and we are priceless.
YAY for success stories! A friend told me "if you are okay, life will be okay" and at the time I did not understand that, but I'm starting to come to terms with it: if you focus on healing you, then whatever happens (your ex coming back, you meeting a new person, or you being single but loving the freedom) will mean that you're living a good and happy life.
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left after 34 years, he cheated the whole time, I raised 3 children, he lied to a lot of women, not just me, con artist, etc. now I'm free, so happy I cry!
I was married to someone just like that, 17 years, 2 kids, but guess what? I left HIS ass first! No one deserves that constant cheating mess from some selfish man who can’t control themself. You’re WAY better off and so am I!
Same here :(
@@Cinder1987 BUT your the one who married him right? You knew that he slept around before you meet him right? You knew that he COULD get other women that's the reason you were interested in him in the first place.
You put yourself in that position. If he cheated he had a good reason unless he is a psychopath. That's why communication IS REALLY IMPORTANT. A RING AND CHILDRIEN WON'T KEEP PEOPLE TOGETHER.
redmaskpil ref Excuse me? No, I never knew he slept around before we got married. He did this AFTER marriage. Don’t come on here with your silly lecture as if you know the details of my life. I don’t believe in marriage anymore. Wake up... ALL men cheat unless they cant get anyone to cheat with them which there’s usually always someone that will open their legs. Communication..... does not always work. Take your rose colored glasses off.
Jake Garcia Lol.
That last part, life is not a movie, was amazing. My situation was similar and yesterday I finally decided that it was time to move on. It hurts but I know it was the right decision. Thank you for your video. This truly helps
This is so empowering. Thanks for sharing your stories. Breaking up may be a loss, since you lost someone special the catch here is, you found yourself, you were able to know the real you. And what you want.
One thing about men that is set in stone: If they love you they will change for the fear of loosing you
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But men are not people that are by default shitty and we would have the duty to change and make them decent people. They should be it by themselves. You rarely hear boys say « she will change for me » or wtv.
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If there is no change you ain't the one
@@SabatSch95 I think the same when men say that about women. In truth it shouldn't be gender based to be fair.
Wow the timing of the video could not have been better...But I am not ready to let go yet..
eleni karbi take your time and grieve 💛
Same here
Honestly same...
me neither...
I am the same position right now. I keep coming back to this guy even though I know he’s a toxic. I finally tried to separated myself and now I’m all sad and I don’t know what to do. He was telling me he likes me, he wants to be with me but he can’t commit right now but I had to cut him off because I’ve been waiting for a year, it just sucks that I work with him I see him everyday and it kills me every time I see him.. I don’t know what to do 😢 I’d feel better when I don’t see him but the second I see him my heart breaks into pieces
Good for you for being strong, letting go, and choosing you! I'm so glad that you moved towards the unknown. Change is always hard but doing what's the most difficult and is inevitably going to cause yourself pain temporarily, can be sooooo right!
this week has just been so difficult, and literally sis you put all these feelings pent up inside me into words. Thank you for being so brave, a little part of my heart feels pieced together again
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"people don't really change" so true, don't get with someone hoping they'll change, trying to change them, or hoping they'll change you :/ it's so unhealthy
100% True
People do change. Reason why my relationship ended. Can you say you’re the same person you were 10 years ago? I know I’m not.
I thought helping him be better is love. But it gave me pain. On iur 7th month i caught him cheating.
Note to self " it's not my job to fix someone" thats not love..
This is literally the plot of the movie 500 Days Of Summer
My first love is crazy! I was Monica for 2 years, and when we “broke up” it hurt like hell...worst time of my life. But...he came back, and he worked his ass of to take me back. He’s a different person, he loves me deeply, im his priority, he cares so much...❤️ its insane how happy i am today and how messy and different it was before we actually dated officially. People can change, but they dont necesarilly change when you need them to, and maybe he/she isnt the one for you
It’s awful bc they go living their life while you’re still waiting. It really messes you up... but as soon as you try moving on they come right back in. It sucks.
Ana Ramirez-Zurita how do they always know right lol
Ana Ramirez-Zurita right! :)
Girls plays with guys mind all the time
Dane Richards a lot more then guys do
I wish they could come back at all. :-(
I’ve never commented on any video on UA-cam! But I could not stop. I’m so glad that you shared your story, it takes so much courage! It gives me some power to retrospect my own issues. I’m so grateful to you💕
8 months post breakup, i went through the worst of it, but being friends just doesn’t work and it feels like a breakup pt. 2. He blocked me on insta but still pops in on text and i think that breaks you more. Letting go is hard and so is healing but its starting to get better. Everyone heals at their own pace.
THE FIRST EVER HEARTBREAK IS THE HARDEST! LOVE YOU GIRL!
I think a year ago!
For everyone going through a heartbreak.. trust time. Everything is going to be alright sooner or later ❤️
Thank you for the hope
I agree. It wasn't really a breakup for me. It was the death of my husband. Took me about eighteen months. I was crying everytime I went to bed. I was crying every time I woke up. Then eventually, the sobs started to get seldom and the grief to relent. In the end after all that time, I was myself again. Time is the best healer.
It’s been 2 years.... still healing, still trusting the time..
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I find myself comparing every guy who comes into my life, to him. Even though it was so long ago. This video and the way she described exactly how i feel is beautiful. Thank you Monica!💚🦋
How are you now? x
3 years later, Ur a successful Real Estate agent and youtuber. 😍
I'm 23 and I went through the worst heart break of my life on January 28th 2018 and I am still recovering from the pain and loss of that person who I was with for 5 years. I thought I was going to marry him and it was life shattering. I felt like he owed me the future I pictured. Now 9 months later I can honestly say I am glad it happened. The pain is still there and I still cry sometimes, but I have learned so much about myself and my insecurities and parts of myself I needed to work on that I didn't see before. I think it's important to have time in your life to reflect and be alone completely and FEEL. Being in love when your young is hard because you are still growing as a person and sometimes it ends in heart break. I hope anyone who is going through a heart break right now reads this and realizes it WILL BE OKAY. Maybe not in a week or even 5 months but it does get better. I never thought i'd get through it. Thank you for sharing your story. I can definitely relate. xo
Cassidy I’m 23 too and went through the EXACT same thing this past August. 5 years and it hurt more than I could imagine. Why did your relationship end? :/
I'm sorry to hear you are going through this... It is so hard but hold your loved ones close and talk about what you're feeling! My relationship ended because of a long pattern of jealousy issues.. Why did yours? Sending hugs your way. xx
Cassidy I keep reading these hoping I’ll stop feeling this terrible. I keep seeing people saying that so much time after they still hurt. It feels never ending.
It does feel that way... the painful memory of it really doesn't go away.. but you move forward and pick yourself back up and the pain lessens and looking back you can see why it happened with a more clear mind. keep pushing forward. sending hugs. x
Cassidy I can so relate to your comment 💕💕💕
Yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me. My heart broke. Because
It was like that
He’s looking at my eyes and says “I don’t love you anymore”
And everything inside me just dropped. I couldn’t breath and I couldn’t say anything. Because it’s my first love and my first long serious relationship. I was shocked because I’ve never even thought about it. I never had one thought in my head that something is wrong. It was so unexpected. It’s been one year and 3 months of every day meeting and dates and sleeping in one bed. And now It feels like I lost a huge part of me.
Hey, I don't know if you're still here but I went through the exact same thing 3 years ago. It hurt, it absolutely crushed me. I know it feels like you'll never love someone again, but I promise you will. It takes time, and there will be good and bad days, but you will heal and move on. Trust me, I've been there and you'll build yourself up into a stronger person. Don't lose hope beautiful. If you ever need to talk then I'm here, I promise.
Evy Grace thank you. You made me cry. It’s been a month already, and I’m better.
Thanks for those words, I agree with everything you said.
It’s crazy how stranger can make your day.
Truly appreciated
this hurts so much & i hate that people’s feelings can change so fast. how are you now?
You'll get through this i promise. I just broke up and he said he fell in love with someone else. We dated almost 2 years and im still trying to heal myself
I feel really bad, because I kinda did that with my boyfriend about four months ago. We dated for 2.5 years and everything was great... but I noticed that actually I was more in love with the idea of being in a relationship than I was in love with him. And realizing that hurt really bad. But having to tell him was by far the worst. I never intended to hurt him and I know it came out of the blue for him. I really hope he's doing better!
I know how it feels like! That's the most important thing to take care and focus on ourselves. Unexpected people usually knocks. I'm happy for you
Me and this guy really loved eachother. He actually made me so so happy. Our relationship was truly amazing. I can't even describe it in words. Sadly . We had to seperate....😔it's been very hard lately to move on.
@Guadalupe Ramirez
You're not alone. It's been 3 days I broke up with my boyfriend. We love each other very much. It's just that we got together at the wrong phase in our life. If we were to patch back, we would let nature takes its course.
It's difficult to move on right now but I think we have to take baby steps. We have to heal ourselves first and then we will be able to open ourselves again. Take care ♥️
@@matildalieu8139 its similiar with me - broke up yesterday, we still love each other. maybe bad timing in life - we live far away. one thing i know is if two people are meant to be, they will find each other again eventually :)
*It’s funny when they’re the toxic one and THEY break up with you :( Even tho you loved them so much.*
He broke up with me. I didn’t do anything:/ he’s making me feel I broke up with him when I wanted to stay. One week ago. So confused
Yup :/
@@selinashiny6343 it's a manipulation. Let go. Its a blessing in disguise.
He broke up with because he may he wanted to protect me from him, he said, I love you, I don't want to hurt you anymore, I'm sorry. For that, I can't hate him, I respect him, even though I'm hurt
Stephanie Beau my bf did that to me too, we were 4yrs together. he said he did not deserve me, and that he does'nt want to hurt me anymore. I respected his decisions but still i'm here a year later still hurting, crying, confused and left with so many questions on why he just left me like that.
but like why am I crying
Sarah Belle same :(
Same
Ahhh it’s like she took the words out of my head
I just send the msg to my ex and it really hurt me cs she’s was my first love and I lost her
Hi 👋
I treated this person with so much respect and compassion, but all he did to me in the end was betrayal and disappointment. I got so done with this person but along with it was a trauma thinking of how badly he hurt me and how badly i let that happen to me.
Probs for knowing and listening to this will destroy you☀️
Im going through a breakup that happened a few weeks ago. It's helpful listening to you, thank you! Much love x
Loving someone who doesn’t love you hurts so much. Makes you feel crazy, you can’t eat, sleep, laugh. I hope I can laugh again. I feel like I’m not good enough. I need to heal but idk how to?
Its hard letting go of someone you love dearly, but doesn’t want you. It’s honestly there lost and one day they might realize they messed up but it’ll be too late. But you can’t have the constant hope they’ll come bc you’ll go crazy, trust me. Hopefully this helped its okay things get better as cheesy as it sounds.
@@melaniequiroa9830 my ex broke up with me over a month ago.we are on long distance for 6 years but official for a year and a couple of months.he was the one who relentlessly pursued.I'm still suffering from the pain even if it's been a little over a month.our relationship was unhealthy and he said I didn't treat him right.he was the needy and clingy one.I was OK with that.there were many times I wanted to break up with him but I always considered how he felt. I had my temper outbursts.I feel it stems from my current situation of having low self esteem and other personal issues.so I feel I always raise my voice at him.it's like I project my anger at him.he put up with it and was patient.he always wanted me to rely on him to open up to him.there were times he was disappointed cuz I close myself off and he said I'm the person he wanted to know and to be close with but I'm the one shutting myself away.I didn't want to rely on anyone but eventually I fell for it.there were many times I wanted to break up with him and work on myself and he always said he was going to be there.and he said he loved me for who I am and there's no need to change.4 months ago he he came here as his usual annual visits.I realized I loved him more than before.and 3 months after broke up with me cuz he said I need to be independent and along with some reasons I already mentioned. Maybe at the end of our relationship I was becoming needy and clingy.throughout those 3 months he knew I already loved him more than before and I didn't know he was already contemplating on our breakup. Throughout those 3 months he acted like his usual cheesy and sweet self.sending me pics and messages everyday.he was the one who always wanted me to be a part of him so he always have video calls and we do our own stuff.so I thought our usual problems we could carry them cuz he always said it's OK.I feel blindsided and I feel he led me on to believe that we could carry our issues. I just wanted to have proper communication and not make me feel my actions were ok for him when it was actually not.sorry for venting out.
@@melaniequiroa9830 I understand it's my fault and he deserved to be treated better.but what I can't accept is how he led me on to believe he was OK with everything cuz he said he was.so what am I supposed to think.now I feel really bad for hurting him and guilty.I can't do anything to make amends and it hurts me so much that he could turn 180 on me.I told him I felt you build my feelings up and pushed me off a cliff.
Schuyler Wednesday I can relate to what you said a lot. We weren’t long distanced, but we wouldn’t see each other as much as we could bc of school work etc. I invested a lot into the relationship and at some point he did to but idk I guess there was a switch that occurred where he just stopped trying and I kept giving. I knew it wasn’t right and I had confronted him two months before our breakup saying he was being distant and not being the same. He cried and said he loved me and if I wanted to breakup he would always tell anyone who asked that he did love me. My intentions weren’t to break up I knew we should but I thought we could work through the problem and he promised he change but he didn’t in the end. I know some parts of the relationship I sucked at which was communicating but every since we broke up I’ve gotten better at talking and expressing my feelings to others. I don’t blame myself for anything and you shouldnt either yeah there were issues with yourself, but you’re only human and with this breakup you’ll learn to become a better person and fix the things you don’t like or want to improve. When my ex broke up with me he said he had contemplated doing to it for 2 months and I felt betrayed and lied to as well bc it felt like he was pretending to love me just because he didn’t know how to break up with me. But I just stopped thinking these thoughts. I love him a lot but he didn’t try anymore and that’s not my fault. I didn’t receive the closure I needed and he knew I was hurting really bad, but he didn’t reach out to me and I won’t reach out either because I deserve better and if he truly wants to talk to me he will and I won’t force it. Maybe one day your guy will come and you’ll rekindle, but you just need to keep moving forward. You’ll learn to love yourself a bit more and as days go by you’ll begin to slowly let go
@@melaniequiroa9830 thank you so much for replying. I can see some similarities in your situation. The thing is when he broke up with me he still loved me and he still wants to be there cuz he knows I don't have anyone to talk to cuz he was my only confidant. So I was pathetic throughout the first week.he was having problems with his bank (he's currently in another continent pursuing his studies so he's already stressed out about it so he said when I sent him messages before that I was mad at him his whole day would be ruined) and I left a message hoping stuff would be ok.when he replied thanks I left it at that.I did no contact then.after 15 days he reached out asking how I was.I was actually starting to feel ok.of course not completely healed.so he said he's still there for me.he used to send messages and pics of his travel after the breakup. Now he said he doesn't send messages anymore.he doesn't but when I send a message asking if we could talk he calls me and listens to me.still calls me by our pet name and told me he loves me but can't be with me.he even said are you going to be miserable if I die?do you think I would want you to be like that?he wants me to be independent.but I feel if I don't contact him he will really realize that I'm a terrible person and leaving me is the right decision and paint me as a bad person. I feel this is out of my character cuz before being with him even during our relationship I felt I didn't need him that I could survive on my own but now when he left the tables have been turned.he was like me before.I just want to prove to myself and to him that I can be better and I really feel bad about what I did to him.thanks again for taking the time to read and reply.it's good to know and to actually feel that there are people listening.
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This made me laugh. Thanks for the humor. I actually was thinking the same.
Same
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Thank you for this. I feel like I just saw my future self talking to me. I'm on the same boat right now where you were last year. Your message made me think a lot and get myself ready to let go.
What I learned is that if a man makes you cry for any reason, move on. It’s not normal. Unfortunately, it took me a long time to learn this.
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Just ended a 11 year relationship,i even moved to another country to be with her. Ive never felt pain like it.
May God heal you Scotty.
:( 10 years over here...... Not moving to a different country though....
Blessings 💖 may your heart heal fully
This message is right on time! You have to know when to let go, when you're no longer being served at the table, get up and keep it moving....self love is very important! When you truly love yourself, you won't put up with just any old thing, nor will you settle for it. I love this message...thank you!
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I think honestly...we just forget how many people are on this planet...it’s very challenging at first because we are fixating on this person but always use these partners as learning experiences. Not everyone is your forever person. And most of us are going to experience people who take advantage of us. So, just love yourself as much as you can and eventually you’ll meet someone who be great to you!💜💖💕
The brain can't understand that the other person doesn't love you anymore... When I could comprehend this my heart started rebuilding it self
Even if I intellectually understand the reasons why, somehow I'm still don't understand why. But it's not about understanding, it's about accepting. Accepting that the feelings of the other person were fickle and not reliable.
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I was in a toxic relationship for 4 years, the guy cheated on me many times and now 2 years later I still have major trust issues; love is a dangerous thing
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That was never love.
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Love is a hoax never believe in love I'm done with this :(
Really sad she's dealing with this again
Miku Miku :(
History always repeats itself
Just like me ! Ihear this the last year and helped me now im passing this again
This is why I don’t want to have a relationship again :(
Why??
I’m crushed at this point I truly loved her and I still do. It’s been 4 months since it ended. I’m trying to move on and forget but it still gets to me. I hope I allow myself to love again
Hello, I am wishing you the best :)) I am going through a break up right now as well, very fresh actually but i am trying to love myself, which is somethig I have always struggled with even before dating this man. I am praying for your happiness. Take care, my friend :)
@@patchchay3942 I’m praying for yours too thank you ,-)
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one month into the breakup with my first love, it still hurts really really bad but watching videos like these make me feel a lot better tysm
I needed this. I wish I could hug you.
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"it's really not cool when someone doesn't know if they want to be with you" 2 minutes in and it's already so relatable. thank you for putting yourself out there for this heartbreak update.
Feel that situation when he doesn't know if they want to be with you. Now I'm already in a 50 days of no contact. I wish its easy. :(
Small Pinay I’m in the same situation right now. I asked him if he still loves me and his answer was “I don’t know”. Our break is just a way of breaking up with lesser pain but I doubt it
I honestly don’t even wanna be around people at this point. I just want to be alone, not sad or lonely, but just by myself in peace
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It’s been 10 months for me , every thing you said , bang on for me , it’s getting a tiny bit easier every day , thank you beautiful lady
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"It's not a loss, it's a gain, you are enough" yes girl 💪🏼💖
Girl I just saw this on my recommended and clicked on it because I’m going trough a heartbreak right now. It’s crazy you uploaded this yesterday because yesterday was actually my ex fiancés birthday, the first birthday in 3 years that I didn’t spend with him. Our relationship was so toxic and I can only pray and hope that one day I’m sitting somewhere like you are looking back and knowing that I made the right choice walking away. I hope anyone going trough this finds their peace and their happiness. Thank you for making this.
kat perez omg this year marked the first birthday my ex had that I wasn’t apart of in 5 years!😩 he wanted me to tell him happy birthday and I didn’t want to because I wasn’t apart of it ..plus I need to get over him. I literally feel like I’ll be sad and hurt forever. I know that’s not the truth so I’ll just be patient 😊
I feel so good looking at women like you, that I'm not alone. Oh god
It is really difficult for me to find the true love of my life. After the death of my wife, I think of rebuilding my life again with a woman who I can trust, who will love me with whom I can spend the rest of my life.
Went through a similar situation that lasted almost five years. It really does feel like a death that you have to mourn and it took me a long time to realize that you never get over it, you just get used to what happened, and you find a way to heal and love yourself. Thanks for sharing your story.
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This video popped up out of no where and I definitely needed to hear this 😩 OMG thank you 🙏🏼
I don’t need a restore thank you though
UA-cam be recommending the videos I need at the perfect time
Rightttt
God won’t allow anyone in your life that doesn’t belong!
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@Rebecca Gladue Yes, if you chose against God’s will then he will help you. But not necessarily take you out of the situation. He will hello you through it!
@@AM-oq6cf you are right
This way of thinking is a sure fire way to get hearth broken.
There is no god and he doesn't do anything. It's you. You start liking something about someone and build up attachment and then when you finally realize that you are all alone in that love relationship you get hearth broken. You were holding on to an illusion. Stop thinking that way it's really bad for you.
This video has been on my feed for a long time, but I never watched it. Today I did and I think it was for a reason. I was in a very similar situation only me and the guy dated. He dumped me twice, this most recent being a month ago, because he “wasn’t sure where his head and heart were at” and “needed to figure out what he really wanted”. I’ve been really struggling with not feeling good enough, and rebuilding. But seeing this video and seeing you find not only someone who truly loves you, but you finding yourself again. It really gives me hope 💕🙏🏻
How did you get thru it?
@@anamariawolfie I would just remind myself if I keep doing this I’m gonna have what I actually want soon
Really needed to see this today
My heart was tremendously broken over 2 years ago. I wonder sometimes that I'm still not over it, which stops me having any chance with someone new
Its very reassuring to see your positive outcome after and incredibly difficult time and I'm pleased you found your happiness.
Thank you for this video 😄
Hope you’re okay now?
This helped me finally delete the pictures and realize it’s not gonna happen. Sis, He’s. Not. Worth. It.
You go girl!!!
don't want to say we were something, we were nothing. but going to be an year and time didn't heal, it's just making pain worse
My "high school sweetheart" and I say that loosely, and I were together almost 2 years, he went to college on the other side of the country. We broke up the summer before I started college and he told me to "wait for him and that he still loved me, he just didn't think the distance was good for us." He lead me on for two years, he'd come back every break that he could, we'd hang out and everything and I'd hold on to the hope that one day he'd ask me to be his girlfriend again. Then one Christmas he wants to see me, gets mad at me for "taking my time" to get home (which I was home with my family celebrating Christmas). I got there, he kissed me, we started making out and his phone rang and he stopped and answered and said he had to go and left. I looked down and a condom had dropped out of his pocket and was just laying there on the floor...I then realized I was just the silly girl who he thought he could hook up with when he came home. From then on I stopped answering his phone calls and texts and vowed to move on. I started taking care of myself and threw myself into school and transferring to a University. Little did I know that six months later I'd be transferring to the University of my choice and meeting the man of my dreams. I was 20 when that happened, I'm 26 now, and had I not moved on that night, I would've never met my now husband. So, totally agree with you Monica, life has a way of figuring itself out, but you need to work on you and take time to heal. Self care and discovering your self worth is so freaking important and you never know what will happen when you take that big leap.
This gave me chills!!
fucking gorgeous, I love this story
This truly helped me, thank you.
Of course!
Your story was beautiful !!
Thank you so much for sharing and being vulnerable. It sure can help.
I must say, no one can make you feel not good enough in those ways you listed. That is our own choice to think that. And while you may base those thoughts on someone else, then it's externally based. Once you truly love yourself and love is inside you it can not leave you. No one has power over that.
You should be so proud you stepped into your own power.
Trauma occurs in relationship (whether family, intimate etc.) yet also heal in relationship. We can be okay on our own and heal to feel good, yet when in relationship we can get triggered by our shadow, and old patterns come up.
People do change however. I used to be one of those guys by the sounds of it. Then I did my own work. Which is constant.
My boyfriend of 4 years, fiance of 1 just broke up with me on the phone yesterday. We were supposed to get married in September and this was the biggest failure I have ever felt in my entire life. Thank you Monica for sharing your life experience. Hopefully I can feel the same way a year later.
I am so sorry, I feel the same way after breaking up with my boyfriend of 6 years a month ago. I was so ready to spend the rest of my life with him but everything changed when I found out that he's been quite unfaithful for a while now. I hope 2023 is gonna be kinder to us and be filled with self love and healing 💖 happy holidays!
Its so hard to see the one you love being with other people now
Well that depends on you, if you will let it affect you. You CHOOSE your emotions.😅😃
@@fortevond yes sure we can choose to "stay" in an emotion, but arrival of emotions, that we have no control over in my opinion.
Dojocho i feel you, love can make you and break you
I worshipped the ground he walked on. I waited 3 years for him. He told me I wasn't good enough & that nobody cared about me, one night when he had a few too many drinks at a party. I finally saw him for what he really was *NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME & THEN I STARTED LOVING MYSELF MORE. 💖
I needed this video. So badly. Thank you
literally the first time i see you on youtube and this is what i needed to hear for so long. thank you for your openness. what you're saying makes so much sense with what i've been through. this video is so inspiring. you just said things i wasn't able to put into words and i feel happy to finally hear it. you're amazing
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For anyone who needs it: the music in the beggining is called "Beige" - Yoke Lore. It was hard to find so I am saving you that work.
I dont even remember how I found that song a couple years as go but its one of my absolute favorites. I wish I knew what instrumental she used a couple minutes in though...
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I’m tired of being sad all the time
I’m tired of missing someone
I’m tired of doing things for him and not me
I’m done with him 💪❤️
Ashlyn Backes good for you !! ive been there , i showed him look i can cook, i can be ur wife, i can be the mother of ur children.. and u know what if someone is not worthy of you , they will never know how special u are.
I am right in it now your not alone .its very hard i would rather someone stable me with a knife than to carry the heavy pain with me all the time i would rather die
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Ashlyn Backes I’m with you there girl
Ashlyn Backes good for you!! You got this!❤️❤️
I'm so glad I stumbled on this wonderful story! Thank you. You rock!
Watching this expecting that i would be able to move on. Hearing your story, i did realize that my "ex" is in a better place now with her new boyfriend who made her feel sure about herself. And i saw her point if view as she was in the same situation as you. Now i can finally let her go and fix myself. Thanks.
seriously, I was hung up on my ex for almost a year after we broke up. worst pain I had ever felt in my life hands down. But what really helped was was switching perspectives on what happened. I thought of things as an outsider looking at it, seeing the situation, free of emotion. I began to get angry, because I had let someone break me that way, make me feel worthless after everything we had been through. Thats where my self love began to blossom. ever since ive been free. i love it. no one could ever hurt me again. I am enough for me first and foremost, and thats my foundation. I am My own queen.
Yes queen say it louder
DAMM go off sis!! Self love is the #1 thing in life. Cant love another person till you love yourself
Heartbreak is like that moment when the butterfly breaks loose from the cocoon.
Heartbreak is that moment if you choose to upscale or down scale your life. It cant be avoided but what you do with it is up to you.
Growth minded individuals usually witness 10x growth after heartbreak cos you see clearly, learn differently and avoid repeating mistakes.
Heartbreak made me an outstanding person willing and ready to love again and again. I love your post.
Proud of you Paul.
That was great to hear, thank you for that
This inspires me so much. I watch this when I need a pep talk. I can’t wait till it’s my 12 month mark.
Definitely needed this unfortunately my heartbreak came after 8 years and a son later….but I’m realizing that … you can’t make someone love you and you can’t wait around for them to change that…
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