hi, me too. i have already breakup and i also in the same situation with u, hate him but still love him. do you want to contact w/ me, have sbd to overcome together maybe better
Trust me, it seems to be hard at the beginning , but with time you start accepting whatever happened. Life must go on. If something was not meant to be yours, then there is something much better waiting for you. And i am grateful that that break up happened to me bcoz i discovered the other side of mine, how deeply i love, how strongly i respect love, and how brave i am to handle all that post break up sh*t. I remember crying for him at 2 am, going to school with swollen eyes, writing him letters, and now after 9 months of my breakup i am the happiest person alive, i am much more productive, i respect people for their actions and not words, i have now the freedom to make friends ( in that relationship i was not even allowed to talk to any other male except him, not even as a brother , yes he was very toxic) I now know to take stand for myself, i know how to cut people off, i feel I am a better person now. ALL thanks to that breakup. ALSO thanks to that girl with whom he cheated, otherwise i would never have known the real side of him , good wishes to them , and i know that I DESERVE THE BEST .....any heartbroken person reading this, remember you are not alone , and you will get over him/her , xoxo🎀🎀
i broke up with my first partner a month ago, and it's still very painful for me. thank you for sharing your story, i'm doing my best to get over it and get better. who knows, maybe in a while i'll come back and find this comment and see how i am then :)
it’s been eight months now since the breakup now! I hope you’re still doing as good and better. I hope this video reaches out to the people that need it and I wish you luck on your journey going forward
@@hannah.hj.kim_yt I am going through a break up today she broke up with me for no reason saying she needs to be alone and she has lots of IRL problems to deal with and work on herself? I begged her and told her we can go through it together and I am going to help her with her problems no matter what but he just said no... yep day 1 for me rn
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
that’s so beautiful to watch and hear. I’m so happy that you are over. Went through a similar process and it’s so relieving to see how we actually heal and get better ❤
needed this, seeing you smile at the last portion, I hope that I can get to that phase, where I can get over her and just smile and laugh at the thought of what I have gone through with her.
Trust me, you will. It took me so long and the process was so painful. I don’t know what happened between you two but it is a huge mistake of her to letting go someone who will be in pain because of her absence. I hope you feel better one day and I hope that day can come sooner than you think.
We are surprisingly in the same situation girl. But in my case it's 2 years and 1 month. He was my first love and I was his. He made a song and painted me. However, he found another girl in just 1 week. Got to move forward because we should always be on top rather than be a victim. Sending virtual hugs to those who are suffering for guys that are trash.
Omg me too I fucking missing him every day ik it’s wrong to text and call him even i did he didn’t answer at all Idk what to do to get over im just trying to no contact 😔💔he left 1month ago
in 2020 I came of a 9 Year relationship with my Highschool sweetheart. She was my first. but Watching this I totally went through that process. 2 years ago I met the love of my life and were getting married soon. Time does heal, it depends on what we do with it. Im glad to see you doing good sis. ALSO THANK YOU FOR SHARING BAD OMENS. when you showed it I had to search and listen🤣🤣🤣
Trust me, it seems to be hard at the beginning , but with time you start accepting whatever happened. Life must go on. If something was not meant to be yours, then there is something much better waiting for you. And i am grateful that that break up happened to me bcoz i discovered the other side of mine, how deeply i love, how strongly i respect love, and how brave i am to handle all that post break up sh*t. I remember crying for him at 2 am, going to school with swollen eyes, writing him letters, and now after 9 months of my breakup i am the happiest person alive, i am much more productive, i respect people for their actions and not words, i have now the freedom to make friends ( in that relationship i was not even allowed to talk to any other male except him, not even as a brother , yes he was very toxic) I now know to take stand for myself, i know how to cut people off, i feel I am a better person now. ALL thanks to that breakup. ALSO thanks to that girl with whom he cheated, otherwise i would never have known the real side of him , good wishes to them , and i know that I DESERVE THE BEST .....any heartbroken person reading this, remember you are not alone , and you will get over him/her , xoxo🎀🎀
I really appreciate you and this video. My boyfriend broke up with me 2 nights ago.. I woke up with such a terrible headache and I’ve been nauseous the entire day, so I had to submit a sick absence to my college. It’s almost evening, I ate a bit of my lunch which was meant to be for college, I’ve drank a good amount of water, just woke up from an unexpected nap since I fell asleep watching a UA-cam video, so I’m feeling a little better.. but… I feel so empty. I miss him. I know I’ll be okay eventually, but 6 months is the longest I’ve ever gone in a relationship- that’s double the time that my previous ones were. I don’t know how to heal from this, but I know it’s possible from past experience and your video. Thank you, and I’m rooting for everyone else going through a break up, we can do it guys 💗
Just came across this video :( I am also going through the same thing. I knew I couldn't force him to stay with me so I had to remove myself from his life. He told me that I was stressing him out and making everything worse. I cried so much because I just couldn't accept the fact that we couldn't be together anymore. I'm getting better everyday but I still cry once in a while. Hope I can get to the point where I am completely over him just like you. Thanks for this beautiful video 화이팅 hwaiting for everyone out there!
Same... we broke up a few days ago and it feels like my world is crashing. I cried so much and begged him to stay. Thank goodness for my friends... they've been helping me so much. You got this!!! WE got this!!! ❤
I’m on day 3. Always nice to see people get over breakups. Like I know I will too but at least right now it fkin sucks. I can’t sleep and it even feels a bit harder to breathe
Trust me, it seems to be hard at the beginning , but with time you start accepting whatever happened. Life must go on. If something was not meant to be yours, then there is something much better waiting for you. And i am grateful that that break up happened to me bcoz i discovered the other side of mine, how deeply i love, how strongly i respect love, and how brave i am to handle all that post break up sh*t. I remember crying for him at 2 am, going to school with swollen eyes, writing him letters, and now after 9 months of my breakup i am the happiest person alive, i am much more productive, i respect people for their actions and not words, i have now the freedom to make friends ( in that relationship i was not even allowed to talk to any other male except him, not even as a brother , yes he was very toxic) I now know to take stand for myself, i know how to cut people off, i feel I am a better person now. ALL thanks to that breakup. ALSO thanks to that girl with whom he cheated, otherwise i would never have known the real side of him , good wishes to them , and i know that I DESERVE THE BEST .....any heartbroken person reading this, remember you are not alone , and you will get over him/her , xoxo🎀🎀
I feel you, I was together with someone for a long long time and it sucks how im friends with him to this very very day, i wish i could just stop being heartbroken bc of that lol. but watching this has given me courage to confront my own feelings! :D Thank you! :) Hope ur better now
its so weird how yt algo works, i broke up like a month ago and am realy shaken up by it and am very confusing what will happen from now on i cant seem to be happy for a longer period of time like how i used to but seeing you laugh and be happy ig makes me feel lil good abut myself.
You're doing great, my friend. Take time, effort, and patience to heal. I finally stopped talking about my ex and it took me a year and a half. The beautiful part about healing is that you're building a better version of yourself and your ex will never get the chance to see that new version of you.
Thank you for this video. I am writing this comment on the 33rd day since she broke up with me. I feel like it's better now (especially after watch your recovering process). Everything is slowly dissipating and I am also not miss her as much as I thought although I still miss her, or more specifically her in the past (cause now she have changed). I also think that mostly everything I miss is the old memories, the old habits and the familiar of having someone by my side. However, one of the most struggle part in my process is we're still in the same class at university, the good news is that I only have about 1-2 months in the class before internship (she do internship at uni while I choose to do my internship abroad). Believe me, I'm better at controlling my emotion now; adn the decision of doing internship at another place is also done long and long time before the break-up. One last word, THANK YOU SO MUCHHHHHH ❤🔥
glad to have come across this, been over two months and its gone a little better but i hope i can have closure like you showed near the end of the video, you're inspirational and I hope it gets better like you said.
its ok to not be ok my babe............ik u have gone through a lot enough is enough........life is beautiful and sending u loads of love...... keep smiling just like tht.......u gorgeous honeyyy :>
i would like to say thankyou for sharing the journey with us, wherever you are right now, if you still having the emotion i believe you can get throught it, you deserve better and you're not alone! :) break up with my gf from 1 year relationship really pain me as my first time in relationship. it's been 3 months and still keep going to recover. 기운을 내다 !
i only dated him for 1 month. it's been almost 6 months since the break up but i find myself still crying and stuck. i cannot imagine how hard it must've been for you. you are so strong. i think my problem is i get too attached quickly, but i am finding it so difficult and still crying myself to sleep often. i do not know what to do.
i recently got dumped after a two year relationship, i'm 18 but we had loved each other since we were 14 we were each others first everything, i thought we'd get married one day. it tears me apart still, she said my ptsd was too much for her, that i need to focus on getting better. i understand her but i wanted her to stay with me, i still need her :(
i don't know you will see it or not but . Bless you, and I hope you do well in the future. Stay happy in life. I'm in the same situation right now, except my relationship has been going on for 6 years , i don't know will i ever be able to recover or not . But i like your these type of videos a calming talk i will definetely subscribe you and hope you will post videos like these
My soulmate broke up with me after 8 years. We met in high-school. It’s been 6 months but everything kind of just hit me all over again. I was okay for a bit but that was just me being hyper focused on work and school and myself. Being on Prozac helped but I hate myself because it also dulled my relationship with her before she broke up with me. I don’t blame the meds, but I wish she could understand I wasn’t myself. I’m trying to fight for her. She’s my soulmate after all. I hope we can make it.
You're so strong! I literally appreciate that , as a person who gets easily overwhelm by emotions and cries on small things (I'm kinda sensitive and emotional,heheh) this was really tough for you to recover from a 2 year relationship,it is so hard I literally feel you😢 because I was in a ONLINE relationship(on roblox,actually don't think that I'm a online dater😭💀 but we actually liked each other deeply and we wanted to meet eachother) and this guy was kinda nice but his cousin sister always copied me💀 (my style and all those blah blah) and my friends didn't liked her either+they didn't liked my bf too because they told me I don't think he deserves you(and more stuff,I don't wanna say) but yea eventually my bf sis convinced him to break up with me and block me on roblox and unfriend me,I was confused but later I found out that he broke up without saying a word and left me..I cried for straight weeks.(ik that crying for weeks and years are different but I didn't actually cared that juch bcz it's just a online thingy and it dosent last too much. But I was emotionally attached to the guy , and my friends were right that he's really bad for me , because he went with another girl , broke up with me without saying anything(T-T). AND THE FACT between our relationship he had a accident because a kid accidentally passed by his bike and to save the kid he quickly turns the bike aisde and falled down(IDK IF I SHOULD LAUGH OR CRY,but I was really sad at THAT TIME) so I told him to take care of yourself because I COULDN'T BCZ ONLINE RELATIONSHIP. Eventually he recovered but the problem of all time was that his parents never let him play roblox so what he does is hides and then plays,lol. And at PRESENT MOMENT he quited and he has another gf and he only comes for her to play and he did the same for me.he..I convinced him to come online and play w me at the time we were in relationship but now we're not so he only comes for his gf (idk if they are still in relationship or not) but I also quited roblox and I just come 8-10 times in a month to check what's going on and the reason I quited was that half of my male friend , female friends have quited too and now nothing is left and everyone is 16-18 years and i think they want to focus on their studies and life now because this is the age. Also I've been in a LOT online relationships but I didn't care because ITS ✨️ONLINE✨️,lol but this relationship hurted me a lot (but there's another guy whome I like and he likes me back but I'm not really ready for a relationship online again.) ;(
i got broken up after NYE into 2025 :( it sucks because he suddenly switched and he wasnt able to give me reassurance and thats why he broke up with me
When going through something like this, it is best to only focus on God instead of your hardships. So please take care of yourself and read some Scripture and pray, okay? With much love!!!
He just broke up with me, because he realized he still loves his ex. He decided to tell me 6 days before our first (1 year) anniversary... I don't know what to do, I really had my whole life pictured with him, I don't feel like doing anything and I really don't know how to move on... I love him too much :(
I honestly feel your pain💕 it had been 4 years and we broke up 5 months ago. It’s been hard but I’m slowly coming to the realisation that it’s better this way and that he never truly loved me. I based my whole identity in someone who never valued me and now I’m trying to figure out who I am again. Just know you’re not alone. 💕 Jesus loves you.
Two years ago my girlfriend left me. We were together for only 4 months... I can't cope with the breakup. It's getting worse, after two years I have no strength left. I am so attached to her and I have an obsession with her, despite her flaws, I love her more and more. It's devastating for me. I don't know how to turn from this path of suffering and live normally. Please help
It’s been three months since me and my ex of 2 1/2 yrs broke up. I’ve was very heartbroken at first and I still think of him a lot but I’m doing better. I go out and do things and I no longer stalk and cry and cry and stalk lol. He recently contacted me and while it was confusing at first I didn’t feel very bad or upset and I think that’s how I know I’m healing. He told me he’s almost fully healed and we said we’d go to the gym together when school starts again as friends since before anything that’s what we were. It might be a bad idea but I’ve been healing and growing and I don’t think I want him that way anymore. I pray to God and ask if it’s not right that he gives me guidance and strength to let go. But yeah
The process was similar in my case as yours... I was in a relationship for a year and 3 months... It's sad but we have to move on... I suggest you to never lose yourself for others... You are unique which is why you are special... Stay strong and always improve little by little everyday 👍🏻... P.S.:- ♂️
I've never been into a break up, but my girlfriend who's korean had to go back to Korean, this day was the most painful day I've ever felt, I felt like my world was crumbling, and it felt like she was letting me alone (of course not). I'm still really sad but I don't cry about it. Before I met her I used to not cry a lot and I don't remember the last time I cried back then, but because of her I became a bit more aware of my feelings and that It's ok to cry. Of course It's not as painful as a break up and I hope nobody experience that.
i've been through 2 relationships in early 2024 i got played so hard which ruined me and i'm in a relationship now which now that i think about it im such an idiot for not giving myself time to recover from the past. i've been with her for 5 months now but i still have my doubts mainly cause i dont want to be hurt again plus i wouldn't blame her if she left me im not even good looking i've always found myself ugly and i think im a horrible person. But at the same time i don't want her to leave i want to be loved and cared for. Also im an overthinker so evertime im away from her or feel like she doesn't like me anymore it causes me pain not just emotionally but physically if you read this to the end just tell me im an idiot.
wow... good luck for you. if you really care and try convince him to back again to you well that mean you're truly love him. sometimes some people just dont understand that. fyi its been a couple days i broke up with my ex. tbh i did the same thing like you.
I see it as part of my history. I don’t think continuous relationship is a success either. If you are in a relationship that doesn’t make you a better person then I think it’s failure as well. Even if you go parted, but if that tough time gives you life long lesson and make you a better person, I don’t think it is a failure. We always have to move on with our lives doesn’t matter if we want or not. Relationship and love is just part of the journey. I think I can say this because I experienced a relationship with someone that helped me learned these(not the person in this video),, I might make a new video of me just talking about this, I feel like it might be helpful for some people
@hannah.hj.kim_yt happy for you! I hope I can also moved on before this year ends, my ex already got someone new also tho it's just been a month after our breakup, aside from that the reason why we broke up is that because she still love her ex.
Its been almoast 30 days since she broke up with me and Im still randomly letting down a tear I miss her and I dont know what to do (I messed up but I still cant accept the consequences)
I am a boy 26 years old now, never in a relationship , never got the chance to fall in love, when i see these , i think , how a guy lefts his girlfriend for the reason that he is now interested in an another girl now. I always wanted a partner for me, always think that if ever i will get a girlfriend, my love, she will be the most important person to me. I have no Interest in playing with multiple girls just for fun, no interest in just connecting with girls for fun. I always feel like how a guy who gets a lot of girlfriends in his life takes everything for granted, and here i am, who is searching for my first ever love in my life, and there is nothing in my life in terms of love and relationship. I don't why god is unfair, giving girlfriends to those type of guys and give nothing to a person like me who is seriously willing to care and love that one girl for entire life.
Thank you for sharing this. I was in a 3 years relationship things were getting bad from 4-5 months suffering from his bad behaviour physical probelms hypothyroidism and heart problems financial problems everything at the same time but he started to follow girls I asked him to unfollow someone (this is not about following list this about my instinct showing me something which I wanted to ignore) And I literally said so many things to him I was really hurt and he decided to break up and the funny thing is in November he did take to movie and in December first week on my birthday week and the exact day of my birthday he break things up I was so pissed off that I just lost all my controls yesterday I beg him to stay but he really did treat me so bad he said he don't care get out my life etc which really is hurting me I lost my appetite I lost my weight I lost my happiness and glow everything feeling like dumb we are in same college have to face him and the girl he is having feelings. I am just so mad and not able to focus on anything. I don't wanted to tell people about this I don't wanted to say bad things about him but he really pushed me so much. He is so heartless I beg him and he did not stay. Just wanted to be feel free or nothing.
Going through the same situation rn In the morning we broke up (was a mutual decision)n I didn’t feel anything cuz of my numbness (that’s how I cope w things ) but now I understand it’s toxic for myself so I wrote a letter to him ofc didn’t send him n unfollowed each other on our main account but still following in the 2nd account we made for each other n i really respect him n I hope I get over him soon
im on my day 72 too!! (same as your last clip) i still struggle a lot, but im trying my best to be happy thank you for sharing this i really aspire to be healed like you. thank you for giving me hope :,D Edit: Day 143. I am finally healed 🫶
You will heal too!! For me, there were some more other factors that I couldn’t talk about in the videos that made me healed much faster than I thought so… thank you for watching, I hope you get better soon! Im here for you
@ I really hope you will, but tbh… I thought I would be in pain for whole year,, I just got “lucky” to move on faster because of how horrible his action and words were,, even though 70 days is not a short time,,
It’s almost 2 months since he broke up with me. I still think about him every single day and cries every day. I hate him yet I still love him
hi, me too. i have already breakup and i also in the same situation with u, hate him but still love him. do you want to contact w/ me, have sbd to overcome together maybe better
Trust me, it seems to be hard at the beginning , but with time you start accepting whatever happened. Life must go on. If something was not meant to be yours, then there is something much better waiting for you. And i am grateful that that break up happened to me bcoz i discovered the other side of mine, how deeply i love, how strongly i respect love, and how brave i am to handle all that post break up sh*t. I remember crying for him at 2 am, going to school with swollen eyes, writing him letters, and now after 9 months of my breakup i am the happiest person alive, i am much more productive, i respect people for their actions and not words, i have now the freedom to make friends ( in that relationship i was not even allowed to talk to any other male except him, not even as a brother , yes he was very toxic) I now know to take stand for myself, i know how to cut people off, i feel I am a better person now. ALL thanks to that breakup. ALSO thanks to that girl with whom he cheated, otherwise i would never have known the real side of him , good wishes to them , and i know that I DESERVE THE BEST .....any heartbroken person reading this, remember you are not alone , and you will get over him/her , xoxo🎀🎀
Time will chnage every thing@@Chèđậuđỏ-w4t
i broke up with my first partner a month ago, and it's still very painful for me. thank you for sharing your story, i'm doing my best to get over it and get better. who knows, maybe in a while i'll come back and find this comment and see how i am then :)
it’s been eight months now since the breakup now! I hope you’re still doing as good and better. I hope this video reaches out to the people that need it and I wish you luck on your journey going forward
Thank you! I’m still doing as good and more things happened since then :) thank you so much for watching this video
@@hannah.hj.kim_yt I am going through a break up today she broke up with me for no reason saying she needs to be alone and she has lots of IRL problems to deal with and work on herself? I begged her and told her we can go through it together and I am going to help her with her problems no matter what but he just said no... yep day 1 for me rn
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
It's fascinating! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in touch with one most effectively?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
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that’s so beautiful to watch and hear. I’m so happy that you are over. Went through a similar process and it’s so relieving to see how we actually heal and get better ❤
needed this, seeing you smile at the last portion, I hope that I can get to that phase, where I can get over her and just smile and laugh at the thought of what I have gone through with her.
Trust me, you will. It took me so long and the process was so painful. I don’t know what happened between you two but it is a huge mistake of her to letting go someone who will be in pain because of her absence. I hope you feel better one day and I hope that day can come sooner than you think.
We are surprisingly in the same situation girl. But in my case it's 2 years and 1 month. He was my first love and I was his. He made a song and painted me. However, he found another girl in just 1 week. Got to move forward because we should always be on top rather than be a victim. Sending virtual hugs to those who are suffering for guys that are trash.
Remember to take care of yourself, sending love ❤
Omg me too
I fucking missing him every day ik it’s wrong to text and call him even i did he didn’t answer at all
Idk what to do to get over im just trying to no contact 😔💔he left 1month ago
2 years exactly for me.. and he also found a girl 1 week after. I'm trying my best to move on and believe it's for the best, but it hurts so bad.
in 2020 I came of a 9 Year relationship with my Highschool sweetheart. She was my first. but Watching this I totally went through that process. 2 years ago I met the love of my life and were getting married soon. Time does heal, it depends on what we do with it. Im glad to see you doing good sis. ALSO THANK YOU FOR SHARING BAD OMENS. when you showed it I had to search and listen🤣🤣🤣
Omg I’m so glad that you met the love of your life ❤️ I’m so happy for you!!!
Trust me, it seems to be hard at the beginning , but with time you start accepting whatever happened. Life must go on. If something was not meant to be yours, then there is something much better waiting for you. And i am grateful that that break up happened to me bcoz i discovered the other side of mine, how deeply i love, how strongly i respect love, and how brave i am to handle all that post break up sh*t. I remember crying for him at 2 am, going to school with swollen eyes, writing him letters, and now after 9 months of my breakup i am the happiest person alive, i am much more productive, i respect people for their actions and not words, i have now the freedom to make friends ( in that relationship i was not even allowed to talk to any other male except him, not even as a brother , yes he was very toxic) I now know to take stand for myself, i know how to cut people off, i feel I am a better person now. ALL thanks to that breakup. ALSO thanks to that girl with whom he cheated, otherwise i would never have known the real side of him , good wishes to them , and i know that I DESERVE THE BEST .....any heartbroken person reading this, remember you are not alone , and you will get over him/her , xoxo🎀🎀
I really appreciate you and this video. My boyfriend broke up with me 2 nights ago.. I woke up with such a terrible headache and I’ve been nauseous the entire day, so I had to submit a sick absence to my college. It’s almost evening, I ate a bit of my lunch which was meant to be for college, I’ve drank a good amount of water, just woke up from an unexpected nap since I fell asleep watching a UA-cam video, so I’m feeling a little better.. but… I feel so empty. I miss him. I know I’ll be okay eventually, but 6 months is the longest I’ve ever gone in a relationship- that’s double the time that my previous ones were. I don’t know how to heal from this, but I know it’s possible from past experience and your video. Thank you, and I’m rooting for everyone else going through a break up, we can do it guys 💗
Just came across this video :( I am also going through the same thing. I knew I couldn't force him to stay with me so I had to remove myself from his life. He told me that I was stressing him out and making everything worse. I cried so much because I just couldn't accept the fact that we couldn't be together anymore. I'm getting better everyday but I still cry once in a while. Hope I can get to the point where I am completely over him just like you. Thanks for this beautiful video 화이팅 hwaiting for everyone out there!
Same... we broke up a few days ago and it feels like my world is crashing. I cried so much and begged him to stay. Thank goodness for my friends... they've been helping me so much. You got this!!! WE got this!!! ❤
I’m on day 3. Always nice to see people get over breakups. Like I know I will too but at least right now it fkin sucks. I can’t sleep and it even feels a bit harder to breathe
Trust me, it seems to be hard at the beginning , but with time you start accepting whatever happened. Life must go on. If something was not meant to be yours, then there is something much better waiting for you. And i am grateful that that break up happened to me bcoz i discovered the other side of mine, how deeply i love, how strongly i respect love, and how brave i am to handle all that post break up sh*t. I remember crying for him at 2 am, going to school with swollen eyes, writing him letters, and now after 9 months of my breakup i am the happiest person alive, i am much more productive, i respect people for their actions and not words, i have now the freedom to make friends ( in that relationship i was not even allowed to talk to any other male except him, not even as a brother , yes he was very toxic) I now know to take stand for myself, i know how to cut people off, i feel I am a better person now. ALL thanks to that breakup. ALSO thanks to that girl with whom he cheated, otherwise i would never have known the real side of him , good wishes to them , and i know that I DESERVE THE BEST .....any heartbroken person reading this, remember you are not alone , and you will get over him/her , xoxo🎀🎀
I feel you, I was together with someone for a long long time and it sucks how im friends with him to this very very day, i wish i could just stop being heartbroken bc of that lol. but watching this has given me courage to confront my own feelings! :D
Thank you! :) Hope ur better now
its so weird how yt algo works, i broke up like a month ago and am realy shaken up by it and am very confusing what will happen from now on i cant seem to be happy for a longer period of time like how i used to but seeing you laugh and be happy ig makes me feel lil good abut myself.
I haven't been in this situation, but I'm so glad you've healed! ❤
You're doing great, my friend. Take time, effort, and patience to heal. I finally stopped talking about my ex and it took me a year and a half. The beautiful part about healing is that you're building a better version of yourself and your ex will never get the chance to see that new version of you.
It’s been three months ., still can’t get over it.. I’m looking forward for the day I won’t feel anything about her.. 😢
Thank you for this video. I am writing this comment on the 33rd day since she broke up with me. I feel like it's better now (especially after watch your recovering process). Everything is slowly dissipating and I am also not miss her as much as I thought although I still miss her, or more specifically her in the past (cause now she have changed). I also think that mostly everything I miss is the old memories, the old habits and the familiar of having someone by my side. However, one of the most struggle part in my process is we're still in the same class at university, the good news is that I only have about 1-2 months in the class before internship (she do internship at uni while I choose to do my internship abroad). Believe me, I'm better at controlling my emotion now; adn the decision of doing internship at another place is also done long and long time before the break-up.
One last word, THANK YOU SO MUCHHHHHH ❤🔥
i am really happy for u .time heals, relationship is not worth it !
glad to have come across this, been over two months and its gone a little better but i hope i can have closure like you showed near the end of the video, you're inspirational and I hope it gets better like you said.
Thank you so much for watching this crappy video,, you will be fine, it just takes time to get completely over. I’m here for you :)
I hope you get every happiness you deserve , Thankyou for making this video this really helped me ❤
its ok to not be ok my babe............ik u have gone through a lot enough is enough........life is beautiful and sending u loads of love...... keep smiling just like tht.......u gorgeous honeyyy :>
i would like to say thankyou for sharing the journey with us, wherever you are right now, if you still having the emotion i believe you can get throught it, you deserve better and you're not alone! :)
break up with my gf from 1 year relationship really pain me as my first time in relationship. it's been 3 months and still keep going to recover.
기운을 내다 !
Thank you so much! I hope you will recover too!
고마워요 :)
i only dated him for 1 month. it's been almost 6 months since the break up but i find myself still crying and stuck. i cannot imagine how hard it must've been for you. you are so strong. i think my problem is i get too attached quickly, but i am finding it so difficult and still crying myself to sleep often. i do not know what to do.
You have to do new things and create new memories. Travel to a different place and you will forget him completely.
this is a really good video im sorry you had to go through this and i hope your feeling better
So proud of you! My breakup was a year and 3 months ago and I still can’t let go of him
I had the courage to block her and those who were involved...
I still think of her...
i recently got dumped after a two year relationship, i'm 18 but we had loved each other since we were 14 we were each others first everything, i thought we'd get married one day. it tears me apart still, she said my ptsd was too much for her, that i need to focus on getting better. i understand her but i wanted her to stay with me, i still need her :(
i don't know you will see it or not but . Bless you, and I hope you do well in the future. Stay happy in life. I'm in the same situation right now, except my relationship has been going on for 6 years , i don't know will i ever be able to recover or not . But i like your these type of videos a calming talk i will definetely subscribe you and hope you will post videos like these
I’m so proud of u ml at least u did ur best in the relationship ❤
My soulmate broke up with me after 8 years. We met in high-school. It’s been 6 months but everything kind of just hit me all over again. I was okay for a bit but that was just me being hyper focused on work and school and myself. Being on Prozac helped but I hate myself because it also dulled my relationship with her before she broke up with me. I don’t blame the meds, but I wish she could understand I wasn’t myself. I’m trying to fight for her. She’s my soulmate after all. I hope we can make it.
You're so strong! I literally appreciate that , as a person who gets easily overwhelm by emotions and cries on small things (I'm kinda sensitive and emotional,heheh) this was really tough for you to recover from a 2 year relationship,it is so hard I literally feel you😢 because I was in a ONLINE relationship(on roblox,actually don't think that I'm a online dater😭💀 but we actually liked each other deeply and we wanted to meet eachother) and this guy was kinda nice but his cousin sister always copied me💀 (my style and all those blah blah) and my friends didn't liked her either+they didn't liked my bf too because they told me I don't think he deserves you(and more stuff,I don't wanna say) but yea eventually my bf sis convinced him to break up with me and block me on roblox and unfriend me,I was confused but later I found out that he broke up without saying a word and left me..I cried for straight weeks.(ik that crying for weeks and years are different but I didn't actually cared that juch bcz it's just a online thingy and it dosent last too much. But I was emotionally attached to the guy , and my friends were right that he's really bad for me , because he went with another girl , broke up with me without saying anything(T-T). AND THE FACT between our relationship he had a accident because a kid accidentally passed by his bike and to save the kid he quickly turns the bike aisde and falled down(IDK IF I SHOULD LAUGH OR CRY,but I was really sad at THAT TIME) so I told him to take care of yourself because I COULDN'T BCZ ONLINE RELATIONSHIP. Eventually he recovered but the problem of all time was that his parents never let him play roblox so what he does is hides and then plays,lol. And at PRESENT MOMENT he quited and he has another gf and he only comes for her to play and he did the same for me.he..I convinced him to come online and play w me at the time we were in relationship but now we're not so he only comes for his gf (idk if they are still in relationship or not) but I also quited roblox and I just come 8-10 times in a month to check what's going on and the reason I quited was that half of my male friend , female friends have quited too and now nothing is left and everyone is 16-18 years and i think they want to focus on their studies and life now because this is the age. Also I've been in a LOT online relationships but I didn't care because ITS ✨️ONLINE✨️,lol but this relationship hurted me a lot (but there's another guy whome I like and he likes me back but I'm not really ready for a relationship online again.) ;(
Also which app you use for editing thumbnail,they are so perfect like damn~
i got broken up after NYE into 2025 :( it sucks because he suddenly switched and he wasnt able to give me reassurance and thats why he broke up with me
When going through something like this, it is best to only focus on God instead of your hardships. So please take care of yourself and read some Scripture and pray, okay? With much love!!!
i really needed to see this video.. thank you so much. x
He just broke up with me, because he realized he still loves his ex. He decided to tell me 6 days before our first (1 year) anniversary... I don't know what to do, I really had my whole life pictured with him, I don't feel like doing anything and I really don't know how to move on... I love him too much :(
you strong girl! I'm still in the process 6 months after :))
Thank you for this video ❤
thank you
I honestly feel your pain💕 it had been 4 years and we broke up 5 months ago. It’s been hard but I’m slowly coming to the realisation that it’s better this way and that he never truly loved me. I based my whole identity in someone who never valued me and now I’m trying to figure out who I am again. Just know you’re not alone. 💕
Jesus loves you.
Two years ago my girlfriend left me. We were together for only 4 months... I can't cope with the breakup. It's getting worse, after two years I have no strength left. I am so attached to her and I have an obsession with her, despite her flaws, I love her more and more. It's devastating for me. I don't know how to turn from this path of suffering and live normally. Please help
hey hope youre okay now! may god bless you always
It’s been three months since me and my ex of 2 1/2 yrs broke up. I’ve was very heartbroken at first and I still think of him a lot but I’m doing better. I go out and do things and I no longer stalk and cry and cry and stalk lol. He recently contacted me and while it was confusing at first I didn’t feel very bad or upset and I think that’s how I know I’m healing. He told me he’s almost fully healed and we said we’d go to the gym together when school starts again as friends since before anything that’s what we were. It might be a bad idea but I’ve been healing and growing and I don’t think I want him that way anymore. I pray to God and ask if it’s not right that he gives me guidance and strength to let go. But yeah
I’m sending all the love your way ❤ you aren’t alone and we love you
Thank you…❤️
This was hard but lovely to watch you are a lovely person ❤
Thank you .. ❤️
The process was similar in my case as yours... I was in a relationship for a year and 3 months... It's sad but we have to move on... I suggest you to never lose yourself for others... You are unique which is why you are special... Stay strong and always improve little by little everyday 👍🏻...
P.S.:- ♂️
@@YOU-iw4ur thank you…❤️ you as well, please stay strong
You look like a pro max of yourself now. He and everyone else will start thirsting over you😎🔥🙌🏻
Thanks for using my song❤
!!!! Thank YOU! Thank you for making such a great songs!!
I've never been into a break up, but my girlfriend who's korean had to go back to Korean, this day was the most painful day I've ever felt, I felt like my world was crumbling, and it felt like she was letting me alone (of course not). I'm still really sad but I don't cry about it. Before I met her I used to not cry a lot and I don't remember the last time I cried back then, but because of her I became a bit more aware of my feelings and that It's ok to cry.
Of course It's not as painful as a break up and I hope nobody experience that.
Long distance is painful as well… I understand it
thank you so much for this video
i've been through 2 relationships in early 2024 i got played so hard which ruined me and i'm in a relationship now which now that i think about it im such an idiot for not giving myself time to recover from the past. i've been with her for 5 months now but i still have my doubts mainly cause i dont want to be hurt again plus i wouldn't blame her if she left me im not even good looking i've always found myself ugly and i think im a horrible person. But at the same time i don't want her to leave i want to be loved and cared for. Also im an overthinker so evertime im away from her or feel like she doesn't like me anymore it causes me pain not just emotionally but physically if you read this to the end just tell me im an idiot.
wow... good luck for you. if you really care and try convince him to back again to you well that mean you're truly love him. sometimes some people just dont understand that. fyi its been a couple days i broke up with my ex. tbh i did the same thing like you.
People often consider love that isn´t lifelong a failure; Do you see this breakup as ´´failed loved´´ or something else entirely?
I see it as part of my history. I don’t think continuous relationship is a success either. If you are in a relationship that doesn’t make you a better person then I think it’s failure as well. Even if you go parted, but if that tough time gives you life long lesson and make you a better person, I don’t think it is a failure. We always have to move on with our lives doesn’t matter if we want or not. Relationship and love is just part of the journey. I think I can say this because I experienced a relationship with someone that helped me learned these(not the person in this video),, I might make a new video of me just talking about this, I feel like it might be helpful for some people
1.8 months idk how to cope with this pain, day 8 for me, im gonna see her at school i dont know how to break down if i see her, im on winter break rn.
Will i ever move-on?
damn im two weeks into my breakup and i miss him icl :(
huh what was the guy like, i cant imagine bc u showed a lot of emotions😢😢iwant to understnad😢
He was not worth any of these 😂
@@hannah.hj.kim_ytare you okay right now? have you already moved on?
@ yeah, I’m okay now:) finding out he had cheated on me & made new gf within two months helped me move on a lot faster than I thought
@hannah.hj.kim_yt happy for you! I hope I can also moved on before this year ends, my ex already got someone new also tho it's just been a month after our breakup, aside from that the reason why we broke up is that because she still love her ex.
Its been almoast 30 days since she broke up with me and Im still randomly letting down a tear I miss her and I dont know what to do (I messed up but I still cant accept the consequences)
I am a boy 26 years old now, never in a relationship , never got the chance to fall in love, when i see these , i think , how a guy lefts his girlfriend for the reason that he is now interested in an another girl now. I always wanted a partner for me, always think that if ever i will get a girlfriend, my love, she will be the most important person to me. I have no Interest in playing with multiple girls just for fun, no interest in just connecting with girls for fun.
I always feel like how a guy who gets a lot of girlfriends in his life takes everything for granted, and here i am, who is searching for my first ever love in my life, and there is nothing in my life in terms of love and relationship. I don't why god is unfair, giving girlfriends to those type of guys and give nothing to a person like me who is seriously willing to care and love that one girl for entire life.
🥹I’m jealous of your future gf
Im on day 5. 2 years, 4 months.
if he got a new girlfriend, he was probably using her as distraction after the breakup
Why did this pop into my feed? I feel sad now :( I hope you're feeling better!
Dw! I am!!
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I'm here 😎
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고마워요 （ ; ; ）
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Thank you for sharing this. I was in a 3 years relationship things were getting bad from 4-5 months suffering from his bad behaviour physical probelms hypothyroidism and heart problems financial problems everything at the same time but he started to follow girls I asked him to unfollow someone (this is not about following list this about my instinct showing me something which I wanted to ignore)
And I literally said so many things to him I was really hurt and he decided to break up and the funny thing is in November he did take to movie and in December first week on my birthday week and the exact day of my birthday he break things up I was so pissed off that I just lost all my controls yesterday I beg him to stay but he really did treat me so bad he said he don't care get out my life etc which really is hurting me I lost my appetite I lost my weight I lost my happiness and glow everything feeling like dumb we are in same college have to face him and the girl he is having feelings. I am just so mad and not able to focus on anything. I don't wanted to tell people about this I don't wanted to say bad things about him but he really pushed me so much. He is so heartless I beg him and he did not stay. Just wanted to be feel free or nothing.
Going through the same situation rn
In the morning we broke up (was a mutual decision)n I didn’t feel anything cuz of my numbness (that’s how I cope w things ) but now I understand it’s toxic for myself so I wrote a letter to him ofc didn’t send him n unfollowed each other on our main account but still following in the 2nd account we made for each other n i really respect him n I hope I get over him soon
im on my day 72 too!! (same as your last clip)
i still struggle a lot, but im trying my best to be happy
thank you for sharing this i really aspire to be healed like you. thank you for giving me hope :,D
Edit: Day 143. I am finally healed 🫶
You will heal too!! For me, there were some more other factors that I couldn’t talk about in the videos that made me healed much faster than I thought so… thank you for watching, I hope you get better soon! Im here for you
Do you think I will be okay in day 72? Im really exhausted now
He left me last month
@ I really hope you will, but tbh… I thought I would be in pain for whole year,, I just got “lucky” to move on faster because of how horrible his action and words were,, even though 70 days is not a short time,,
@@hannah.hj.kim_yt
Im happy for you. You feel better now ❤️
I just try too and it’s hard😞
Did he come back to you? During no contact?
@ no he didn’t, I’m glad that he didn’t haha