QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK BEFORE GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP | NICE AND NEAT (S1, EP 2)
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- Опубліковано 27 лип 2024
- On episode 2 of Nice & Neat it’s a juicy topic and one that often goes overlooked! What questions are you asking before getting into a relationship? Before you decide to take that leap into a monogamous relationship you might want to gather some depth when it comes to the one you’re dating! Have you ever asked your about health issues, family history, past traumas?
Omar and Duke chronicled some of the many conversations they had prior to being in a relationship and even some they wish they had asked! You can learn a lot about a persons through their experiences and even family history and the fellas took you down this road with some key takeaways including their own experiences!
Halftime on this episode where questions are received on Instagram LIVE from our audience on this topic the question was asked, “When is too early to ask a question about past trauma?” The level of transparency within this question was honorable.
A story was given by Jalon on a major ultimatum he’s given in his past when it came to how he should be moving in his dating life prior to monogamy. Can’t miss episode!
This was episode 2 of 12 in season 1 for Nice and Neat The Podcast!
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Jalon is on point he really understands women, you can tell he genuinely likes and enjoys women. Sadly, that's rare.
It is rare for men to like women in this generation - modern society
I like the way Jalon thinks...”if I do not meet your Dad, we not going any further in the relationship...”
I like the intention. If daddy issues are a dealbreaker for him then he def found a way to filter those kinds of women out. But I’m wondering if he would see it through and visit the tombstone of a father or make the trip to prison for the ladies whose fathers aren’t in their lives. Bc there’s levels to what he said 🤔😂
You can meet the father in there still beef in there that you don’t know about so you have to dig deeper
JALON IS 🤘🤘💣💣💣💣💣
I need a Jalon in my life. He is so smart and mature. But Duke is an old soul.
The men always supporting their women, I love to see it 😍
Past traumas are SO important as they can reflect in all of your relationships especially the romantic ones if you don’t address and commit to fix them.
Yes Omar and Duke doing the shameless plugs for the girlfriends brand. Love to see it. 👏🏾
Yes guys, religion, finances, childhood upbringing, careers and the list could go on is VERY IMPORTANT. Dating is for collecting data! Great discussion....♥️
Jalon: “I have no problem having uncomfortable conversation”
Me: “Same” lol
Speaking of foreign… I think a great topic would be discussing the differences between dating others from different cultures and how to get over those differences
It’s so refreshing listening to young ambitious men
I love that these young men speak on the importance of meeting family and taking care of their family.
Jalon that is real talk!!! Women want to connect with a problem first and foremost. Don't solve the problem right not just understand my feelings.
New listener and I like this podcast already! I love hearing black men’s perspectives!
Y'all crushed this bros!! To shed more on the STD conversation just keeping it a bean, that talk should be had with every person you're sexually active with. Think of it like this, I would hate not to know who the girl I'm planning to be intimate with has had an std before and the timeline and what it was and then end up catching something from her because I didn't ask. Especially if I don't see myself with her in a relationship and then end up having to live with 1 bad decision the rest of my life. People just have to be mature about the conversations.
I love the way Duke explained the “it’s not you it’s me”!!! No lies told!!!
Is it always the dream girl or could it also be the need to work on oneself and fear of being distracted?
Also…
I’m not introducing a man to my family until we are official and/or have been seeing eachother over a year. Some people-regardless of how long you’re spending time- aren’t worthy of meeting your family . I also like to know we’re actually in it for the long haul. That’s how important family is to me.
First of all this video just looks like it smells like GREAT and high quality cologne. Love the mature and grown perspectives! Can we unpack the comment Duke made about the ‘it’s not you it’s me’ situation. Love to understand more of the topic and what he meant. Do lines of loyalty get blurred when situations like that arise? Is it called settling prior to that situation? Was it never that deep? Love to hear opinions
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it's not you its me
is as simple as that, it can be because one has settled
but also taking into consideration that as people we grow and evolve and if the situation doesn't work anymore for the person you trying to be or the best version of you that you working towards.. you have to leave.... but make sure the next person understands that they did nothing wrong
I’m not sure how I came across this podcast but I binged watch a few and I really like it. You all seem to be very mature and give an unbiased perspective on the topics you talk about.
Love that Omar brought up health history! So important and people don’t talk about it. Especially if you want to have kids with the person.
Man yall dropping gems fr! Taking notes & enjoying the insight! 👍🏾
The questions about std and health it’s super important. I need results before I get any type of sexual interaction.
The pod full of free game! Years of preparation to execute amazingly.
I love a good podcast to binge 🙌🏾 I was thinking this wouldn’t be targeted towards me as a woman but I’ve enjoyed these perspectives. Keep it coming
Didn’t want this episode to finish 👏🏾
This was dope and keep sharing these stories 😩😩😩🔥🔥🔥
Omar was like wait you mean our girls would be calling you? Lol 🤔
What if the woman doesn’t have a relationship with her parents?
Dropping major 💎s, keep them coming bros
Entertaining and informative - a male perspective is definitely a breath of fresh air
Love this podcast... great to see things from a guys point of view.
I am starting to watch this podcast. And it’s really good.
Thanks for recommending podcasts, as I'm always looking for new UA-cam podcasts to listen to as I go throughout my day! About to subscribe to MG Method. (Fyi I actually found this podcast bc I heard Duke on "Can You Relate", I started listening to Duke and Chanel's channel, then I think the algorithm might've recommended this podcast.)
Proud of yall growth!
This was great!!! Great conversations
Such a great convo and good info.
Omar: So our girls be calling you?????????
Ayoooooooo I screamed
The intro song is really vibes 😍
Loving this show, I love when Black men have transparent conversations like this
Factssssss family is important
How old are they? They seem mature to look so young. Most guys in South Florida aren’t talking like this
This was dope Fellas
I like this alot. entertaining though the whole thing.💯
Keep em coming !!!!
Yes I agree we like to know everything! Give me all the details. Take me there like you guys said 😂😂
I liked this! 👍🏾
The titles suck me in and the explanations keep me tuned in. 👏👏
Great videos fellas 💕💕
Awesome conversations!
Great episode!
It’s crazy cuz there’s more ppl who believe in God than there are ppl who practice believing in him (praying, fasting, communion, baptism, etc). Once I find out a guy doesn’t do both, I’m out. I would prefer my boo to be a Christian but I wouldn’t mind if he didn’t subscribe to a religion at all yet maintained a personal relationship with God (the same God as me 👀). I know a lot of ppl that don’t go to church but are spiritually rich. It’s possible. I wouldn’t commit to a relationship with a godless man just like Dr.Seuss wouldn’t eat green eggs and ham. I would not, could not, should not. Not here or there or anywhere 😭🙅🏾♀️
Love this. Definitely my first preference
THE COMPROMISE COMMENT GOT ITTTT 💯💯💯
Does anyone know what the song is called that played in the beginning?!
Another great episode
Yes, the spiritual belief is the most important 🥰🥰🥰🥰
And that’s that, on that😤🚀
Yes nice & neat!
Jalon’s energyyyt
I do think it’s important to break out of that old conditioning that may not be contributing to a persons holistic evolution.
Pledge of Allegiance by Xaroc intro song is FIRE! 🔥🔥🔥
I just love them! I just cannot stop smiling
Coming back to the early shows because I still got more learn. lol
I think I may binge all the seasons start to finish.
Literally what I’m doing I’m using it as a way to reprogram myself during my healing process
I'm need yall to put direct links to the ladies stuff in the description box....come on fellas.
Nah Jalon talking his shhhhhheeeeiiittt on dissss one
Nice👏🏾👏🏾
I love this shit... SOLID
Omar look like lil durk in the face😂 nah much love one of my favorite podcast
I was thinking Meek Mill
Good content
🙌🏾🔥 respect
Bald Head Michael Jordan lmaooo Omar is silly!
I was dating this guy and I met his family without being his girlfriend because they already know he’s with different girls so it’s a normal thing. He was African American. Personally he doesn’t need to meet my family until he’s my boyfriend. My family is Caribbean we don’t do that. My first boyfriend was white and I didn’t meet his family until we were official. So it depends
I’m the 100th like 🤟🏽
That opening song is nice lol who’s that?!
Sounds like I need to move back to California
It’s up! Y’all need beats for your intro?
The Ultimatum hehehehehe
Need that intro song!
ua-cam.com/video/HAKkI2trd2o/v-deo.html
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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What’s the name of that song
Xaroc - Pledge of allegiance
I listen to this podcast and I realize I’m in the wrong relationship. Yikes
Yikes is right 😳
who on the intro song?
Xaroc- pledge of allegiance
Song called at the beginning??
Pledge of Allegiance by Xaroc
JALON
42:33 👀
😂 @body count question hahaha I don’t care!
ion need to kno bout your body count I need to know you about your sexual health cuz baaaaby nu unnnn guys be out here knocking em DOWN!
Y’all missed the most important question you need to know before getting into a relationship which is “What is your Genotype?” If you plan on having kids as a couple. That question either break or make a relationship from progressing forward. It is an important question to know.
1st off I enjoyed the podcast. 2nd I value a man's HONEST perspective not just what's politically correct. So hear me out... I'm gon' need these conversations to be held prior to you all having intercourse...don't come with all these ?s that were fake deal breakers AFTER the fact. Men aren't willing to have those "tough" conversations early on because they don't want to risk/jeopardize the chance to go all the way. LBH OR they're willing to LIE to get "there" especially if they don't see being with a female longterm.
I'm not going to watch the video I'll just answer the question of the title. It doesn't matter if a black man is successful or not are dating and mating should be with black women only. Just because you throw the word successful in it doesn't mean a damn thing. Rather a dog and a cat live on the street or in a house a cat mates with a cat and dogs stay with dogs. Black men need to stay with black women and that's just what it is. When you ask the question it suggests already that you've made a decision, and in my mind that's already betrayal of the culture. Part of what it means to be a man is to lead your people and your culture and your families by your actions your words and your example. The standard and one of the requisites to be called a black man is that you must be with a black woman. And if you are not then you are not a man. Specifically you're not a black man.
Funny how they talk about the importance of God but then they think having sex outside of marriage is not only okay but normal. Very hypocritical.
My only disappointment with this podcast so far. Looks like these are 50 50 guys. Ill love to hear from provider men. They wouldn't care about the finances a woman's femininity is more important.