THE GOOD WOMAN VS THE RIGHT WOMAN (S1, EP 10)
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- Опубліковано 7 кві 2021
- On episode 10 of Nice & Neat, “Good Woman vs. Right Woman” was the topic of the hour. The fellas explained the difference!
Often times we come across many “good” women or people but it’s the “right” woman or person that’s hard to get our hands on. The overwhelming sense of complacency can take place allowing us to settle for a good woman but not the right one!
Duke and Omar elaborated on the value the right women have brought into their lives and how they have grown from it!
This is episode 10 of 12 in Season 1 of Nice and Neat the Podcast!
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I look forward to the day my man talks about me like this. Being a good woman to the wrong man is heart breaking- but I know the love and life I want is attainable . My time will come
I join you in the prayer line sis. One day. They almost made me cry talking about their women like that. One day a man will talk about me the same way God willing.
Amen !
A woman 100% want to know the impact they make for their man. It makes us feel appreciated and yes we will want to do those things more often. A man just expressing his appreciation for his woman in general is soooo important!! It will lift her up for sure.
“Six flags everyday” was a mic drop. Excitement, different levels of fun, nourishment, chill zones, challenge, strategically eduring, taking risks…and more. Much respect!
“The right woman is specifically designed for you”🔥🔥🔥
The way Duke and Omar speak about their women, it really makes you feel and see the love they have for them. Loving this podcast
It’s so refreshing to see black men speak so eloquently about meeting good women! In today’s climate it gives me hope! Thank you!
They said being a good woman is not enough
That’s exactly why I don’t like when someone asks, “What can you bring to the table?” I can list a bunch of attributes, but it really takes getting into someone to see what they really bring to the table, and if you even want that.
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
Exactly!!!
SIMPLE.
Precisely!!
Initially this was hard to watch because I’ve been told that I’m a “good woman” and felt really low about losing who I thought was a “great man”. Until I realized him and I being great people had nothing to do with us being great for eachother. This video helped to stamp my thoughts.. thanks Guys 👌🏾
Yeah this is also hard for me to hear. But it makes sense.
righttttt!
Lead in respect, lead in compliments, Lead in love… I absolutely love that. Everyone wants to be the boss but the cost is leading by example and being influential enough to touch your audience.
KEEP THE EPISODES COMING…New subscriber!
I don’t think we ever stepped into Good woman vs Right woman as women. This just gave me another perspective about good woman.. Jeez this is deep..
Me too
I really appreciate how positive these guys are . As a young dude looking for guidance and lessons on the internet and outside of it a lot of the "advice" and man focused content we're getting these days has really become the He-man women haters club and these guys are tryna lead in a healthy direction
I just watched this episode 3x’s. I have never thought of good woman vs the right woman. I’ve been with good woman but something that I couldn’t explain or put my hand on , something was missing. I couldn’t explain it. After watching this episode. I found my answer. I want to be the right man, and I want to be able to say I got the right woman. Thanks for this! 💯
Whew Jalon, that part, "when you don't communicate, the devil will narrate"!!! ♥️
Wowwwww. This episode was BOMB. The topics and conversations just keeps getting better and better. Its so cute seeing how Omar just gushes over Candice. That man is IN LOVE. And the way Duke speaks of Chanel, you can tell he VALUES her and doesn't take her presence for granted. Jalon, you're in the company of great energy. Soon, that energy will flow onto you and you too will meet your Queen. Nonetheless, as a woman, I love listening to you men speak. Grown men tingz!
Yasss
I loved this episode I personally would love to hear from Candice and Chanel as to the process of them knowing that they found the right man. How to distinguish a good guy from the right guy!
Please!! An episode with the ladies would be amazing
Love this content. I’ve been blessed to marry a good woman who is/has been the right woman for 17 years. I appreciate you guys always being so transparent, so forthcoming with knowledge and so willing to share personal experiences
That transformation that she causes in you is not always peaceful and sweet either.
This is my favorite video ever!
To be honest, I have never come across a man that speaks about their woman the way that you men do. It’s beautiful, and I love that you are encouraging men, all men, black men, to love their women out loud. Thank you for this, it helps us women see that there are good men left out there, and reinforces that I am not asking for too much in this area. Love this podcast
I really love the analogy about a man being a “house” but the right woman will make him a “home”. That’s so real and true ❤️
To see these big smiles on the faces of these men all because of their woman is so beautiful❤ This is how it should be! That is true happiness!
You know what! I have to applaud you all! You may not realize this yet or maybe you do… but you all are leading a generation of men and women in new paradigm shifts. Finding your podcast has confirmed that GOD is moving and still desires family as the initial foundation! The way you speak about your women the way you realize you are better together. It’s what this generation needs and what older generations forgot. Love everything about this and I speak the totality of blessings to your endeavors and your future marriages! God bless you all. This is so wonderful! You have no idea the encouragement I received! Keep up the good work fellas!
Exactly you said it all.
When Jalon said “I know what I want to feel when it’s time” just struck a NERVE cause that’s it! You just know it’s really the intangibles that make it align RIGHT for you
I believe the right person is a lifetime partner. That's the person that evolves and grows with you. Yes, there will be difficult times, but you choose to move and grow together, because you know it's best for the both of you. Good people are placed in our lives for seasons, but the right one is forever.
I can’t explain how scared I am to go through the dating process all over again, but this podcast gives me hope … Thanks y’all.
It’s dope to hear men speak positively regarding relationships, I must say that I’m confused on why Duke and the gentleman with the light colored shirt aren’t married since they can admit to being so happy.
Ugh this is why I love this channel! Great men talking about real stuff in a way that makes women listen and pay attention. I actually learn something from this channel
This podcast, I AM ATHLETE," who can relate" best 3 podcast in the game. Dropping free game, I’ve learned a lot.
All facts
Love 'Who can relate'!
Preach!!
Fresh and Fit podcast
@@Cuddyy1k fresh & fit?? Ew pls no
What a conversation as a woman, I feel super honour you Kings tap into it..
13:21 I love hearing men talk about a feeling. I've thought I'm being a ridiculous womanly woman for basing dating off of a feeling I want to feel, but it's great to hear that men experience it too.
So refreshing to see black men dive into topics of vulnerability. This is beautiful. I love it.
I have so much respect for this podcast, 3 wise, knowledge man who speak into a generation who do not understand. I love you guys so much, I pray y'all receive an award for this podcast.
“Make you feel” yup! Things on paper isnt everything... now I have a list of things like are they forgiving ? what are their values ? can they communicate well? ect. Things that aren’t tangibles love this video 🙏🏽
Exactly
This the one! I’ve been trying to explain this to so many men because they always say “I’ve had several good women” but she wasn’t THE RIGHT ONE . They always agree ! This was goooooddddd stuff
I am so glad it was brought up that the same can be said for “the good man vs the right man”. I have seen so many woman get chastised and criticized for not choosing “the good man” or knowing when a man is “a good man” or appreciating “a good man” when they have one. And maybe, like they are saying, he is a good man, but just not the right man. Great discussion to give everyone a lot to think about.
Why haven't I heard of you fellas sooner?! GREAT episode. Y'all should have your ladies on the show sometime 🙂
Mannnnnnnnnnnnnnn this was good! There needs to be way more views on this. I'm bout to share this everywhere! I am now a fan!!!
Answering Duke’s 1 question. Initially I was confused about the difference, but I get it now. I have met a few good men, but they just didn’t have that umph that I needed, that certain spice I was anticipating. I LOVE THE PODCAST and I like y’all pov.
That total holistic feeling of completeness I’ve found is essential in the discovery of the right woman. There are a lot of good women and men out there. The focus should be on the right one that fits. I love the way yal speak on your women.
"I was literally just a vessel, part of her plan," ....whewwwww!!!
Such a hidden gem. I love this podcast 🤎
When y’all were talking about the “it’s not you it’s me” it made me think of the new edition “you’re not my kind of girl” song
Speak it Jalon... a lot of wisdom in the point about life changes and people changing - don't discount that they were right for you at that point!
I LOVED this episode! It's so nice and refreshing to hear young, black, successful men be happy and joyful and vulnerable about their love and how they feel. Also for someone single like Jalon, sharing that desire to want to experience that was nice. Beautiful episode, Keep it up guys!❤🙌🏾
This was refreshing and I have been educated. The delivery from you all made this quite easy to digest. Correct me don't condemn me.
My thing is I feel like in order for a man to realize if the good women is the right women, he would have to have some sort of emotional intelligence. He can have a good women/right women but if he’s not aware in himself or is able to change his toxic behaviors, he’ll push the good/right women away.
Wow coming from a woman’s perspective is amazing to hear this! 🙏🏼👏🏼
I love these conversations you all are bringing us. Keep them coming. Keep doing y’all thing! Great work! Much love and blessings to you all.
Omg this just brought me into reality…I appreciate the honesty coming from these brothers!!! I will definitely be checking out your other videos
Just discovered this page, definitely binge watching! Already love you guys
I needed this so much and I’m so grateful for you guys 🥰❤️💫 thank you
Fav part was when Jalon said “I need a home” 😍😩
This is so so eye opening from a woman’s perspective. I love the objectivity in the conversation, you gentlemen discussed this topic from different view points. Very neat (no pun intended 😌) 🥃 👏🏾👏🏾
“Even If you’re a good woman it doesn’t matter” someone please tell Kevin Samuels this!!!
This is my favorite podcast. You guys are intelligent and transparent
I love the messages in the episode. The only thing that I kind of disagree with is communicating all of what you need "up front." I think that when we as humans hear a person of interest tell us they're looking for or need XYZ, we subconsciously try to be whatever that person wants, regardless of whether or not it's behavior true to who we are, rather than just letting it unfold organically.
I really enjoyed this episode! I’ve been tuned in since episode 2, and I have to say you guys are doing a wonderful job! I enjoy hearing the perspective of black men! Thank y’all! Can’t wait for next weeks episode!!!
I'm just gonna go ahead and call y'all the 3 wise men of nice and neat cause you men dropped so much knowledge in just 1 episode. Great topic, I enjoyed listening and from a man's perspective because im always hearing about men and women and what the right men/women looks like from a women's perspective, so this was a good episode and a very informative one too. Definitely got you a new sub and im looking forward to more episodes
I am used to the old school marriage FOR LIFE PERIOD, ONCE ALL THE rest of it is FLUFF. THIS FEEL LIKE PRAISE for the moment until I change. After 30 years I many want to change
I literally discovered y’all THIS month and I have to say y’all are the best podcast I’ve listened to.
Mature, healthy, wholesome black Kings and I think we need more and more talks like these and then the actions to help heal the community.
15:54 Jalon’s face says it all 😂. Amazing stuff guys. Really enjoying your wisdom.
Great episode! My partner played this last night while we unwinded from the gym. This is so spot on! Love this! ♥️
So good!! It’s great to hear things topics from men’s perspective.
I’m extremely grateful for the growth you guys inspire in me. Peace and blessings
It's a lot of jewels dropped here brethren...greatness!
My friend sent me a link to this and wow! I love this podcast already. Real and wise knowledge, great job and much respect 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
I learned a new perspective that was really affirming for me. Thank you 🙏🏾
Wow, I love the realness one these men. I thought a lot of this was lost in our generation. I hope their message gets out to all men and women. it’s an eye opener for women too. Now I know that I don’t have to feel rejected just because something didn’t work out with a particular man. I just wasn’t the right one for him, doesn’t mean my value is any less. Thank you guys❤️
This episode really made me see my woman differently
Love every topic covered in this episode. Love the vulnerability and transparency.
I think the best way to explain to a woman she’s not the one for you is by simply being honest and how you deliver the message. Some women may not understand in that moment depending on her own self awareness and if that’s the case, it’s not the man’s issue to deal with. Respectfully❤ it’s the woman responsibility to have the self awareness and emotional stability/intelligence to accept the words of “you not the right one.” It may hit the ego initially but you’ll get over it because the truth is freeing✨💖
When Omar started talking about Candice 💯🔥🥺 ***claps it up for my boiiii***
Man, i just found yall podcast.. yall go hard mayne .. earned a new subcriber .. yall sound real mature and real asf ! keep up da great work
This was so good, and made so much sense
This is the most mature shit I have ever seen/heard. Packaged and delivered perfectly. Thank you fellas
Like Always another AMAZING episode... and knowing Because your a Good women.. doesn't always make you the right one (for a particular person)... is a powerful statement.. learn something new every episode.. this podcast is good for both genders for sure!!..
3 Melanated Men Who Appreciate And Speak Highly Of Good & Decent Woman🖤
Man yall was spitting on this one, great episode!
I’m loving the jewels gentlemen!! Thank you for sharing!!!
Dopest episode I’ve seen on any podcast! Nothing but facts stated.
Just found this today, but seeing it when I needed it. ❤
Amazing content! I appreciate the honesty and transparency
Absolutely love this episode!
These two are in love love & I love it!!!
I'm a new Subscriber. However, you guys are touching some old struggles I was dealing with..... Thanks,Guy's 🥰🤟🏾💯
Just found your podcast today and I've watched 4 straight episodes. You guys are doing a great job. What if a man thinks that you're the right woman but you don't feel like the man is the right one for you?
This was an excellent conversation. I myself believes that every man needs a cheerleader...Thanks guys. God bless you all.❤
Great podcast and content. The convo was fire!!!
This was a rewarding episode, gave me so much perspective and allows me to give grace to the guy from my last relationship
This convo was needed !!!!
This is a great conversation piece
yall went crazy on this segment!
I love this conversation, you men are great.
(2 Things) 1. Women should NOT lead men...they should inspire, encourage, and affirm but, that should not be confused with Leading 2. I PROOOMMMISSSE YOU...I didn't understand New Edition's song " You're Not My Kind Of Girl" ... Ralph sings about "It's not your looks, you're very pretty / It's not your style, the way you dress..is oh so fresh / It's not the way that you carry yourself" ... I was saying to myself how can you say all of this dope stuff about a woman but, she's STILL NOT the ONE... HUH? ... well, this video gave a seminar that complements that song. Bravo Guys!!! #My2Cents
Thank you Duke, Omar, and Jalon for your time. Keep up the great excellence!
The good woman and the right woman can also be compared to the shoe that fit Cinderella . A good woman can be too tight, too big or mediocre. But the right woman is the right fit in every way. Like a glove . It just feels like home . You get each other without any words spoken.
The fact that Duke didn’t use Chanel as an example of him finding the right woman is interesting 🧐
This episode gave me a whole new perspective didn’t know I needed
always a great message. look forward to new videos every week . 👌🏾
Very enlightening! Love hearing male perspective
I loved this episode so much!!!
This is also a great way for women to know who to stick with as well
Loved this episode very inciteful.