No one is against anything, problem is most love marriage don't work properly. There is not much family support from behind, and after some time romance runs out. Parents has seen many such cases that's why they are bit alert and scepticle, if you sit with them develop understanding they will agree. Yes, if you are a girl then it will be bit difficult. Boy must have money, good family then it will work smoothly.
@@Death__0 😂😂😂oh! boy !! I have news for u... Most of the women and women don't wanna get married because of the trauma the f*ked up relationship of their parents left on them. Most of the women live like prisoners in marriage just tolerating it for the sake of their children because their whole life from birth the only purpose pushed onto them was being a wife and not a self sufficient human who could earn on their own while men were raised to be ATM machine for their parents while on the other hand sister was being raised alongside to do the same to her husband and children. ARRANGE MARRIAGES R HORRIBLE SETTINGS....TRULY HORRENDOUS!!!
@@Death__0 arrange marriage works because majority of female are not financially independent and parents force to have kids which acts as a anchor in the marriage so women can't leave the marriage.
Most Parents doesn't want to take the Risk of Marrying there Child in different Caste Because it is more Risky Food, Language accent, Clothing Style, etc In Same Caste there is high Chance most habits will be Same However habits are also changing by Family Profession Change & In Future with the Implementation of NEP it will change more Fast Then Regional Area will become Identity - Regional Culture will be Identity
@@Farhan.imator The liberalistic ideas of this guy are not good bro It leads to premarital affairs which definitely leads to zina Stay away from such things Follow the ISLAMIC PATH
??! Bro no one forcing you to marry!! But if you don't marry.. after 35,40 you'll regret it so it best to marry at good age even if its arranged marriages. I mean you can choose to accept or reject arrange marriages.
@@Death__0 Khud ke Selection Aur bacche ke Development mein difference hota hai Aur Conservative Countries me shaadi nahi ki toh parents ghar se nikaal sakte hain son ko, kabhi kabhi apni daughter ko maarte bhi
Yr mein.. to arrange marriage ko contract samajhta hoon... Aur iss contract mein sab stakeholder hai.. mainly agar family joint ho.. Isn't it.. Plus, iss hi wajah se divorce rate bhi kam hai.. apne india mein... Compare to western countries.. Kehte hai na.. ki indian mein rishta ., do pariwaron ke beech hota hai.. Na ki do individual ke beech.. Mein kitna shi bol rha hoon.?
It may sound wrong to many people but in India most of the arrange marriages couple have a lot of problems like domestic violence, no mutual respect, verbal abuse on daily basic but people continue it because of there family respect in society and family pressure. female who continue sometimes because they are dependent on the man of family for money but her contribution to family is never seen or recongized.
Haa mere khud ke ghar me maine dekha hai, compatibility in arrange marriage between couples is always very low, literally among relatives I know 3 arrange marriage couples and 1 love marriage,and to be true none of the arrange marriage couples have compatibility they barely have mutual respect and domestic violence is common in all 3(where in 2 the women is suffering and in 1 the man) whereas the love marriage couples are living much more happily they respect eachother and eachother's family a lot
My experience - ladke k papa ko cast issue tha but usse jyada ego issue tha..(meri bat nahi man raha means muze koi value nahi) Ladke ki maa ko caste issue nahi tha but she got insecure (abhi se beta itna stand le raha hai shadi k bad to wife k pass hi jayega) That’s why ladke k parents ko aaisi ladki se shadi karana hota hai k ladke ka emotional bond na bane ladki se.. Love less relationship me bandhana hota hai so that ladka bas parents ki sune Insecure parents.. Jo secure parents hote hai unko bas beta happy rahe itna hi chahiye hota hai
@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg konsi tribe Bhai, 90s me reh Raha he kya ki abhi bhi casteism ko support karta he. And second point beta he ki koi property, you've given a life to your child that does not give you the right to play with him like a puppet, and agar vo khud k life decisions sahi galat jo bhi khud nahi lega, so what is the point of having your own brain and consciousness. Giving respect does not implies ki andhe aur behre ban k jo vo bole karne lago.
@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg we were not living in that time, and idk uss time k kya reasons they ki varnasankara originate hua and it is discouraged, but in now times i do not think that isse badhava dena chahiye there is literally no sense to it, kitne shatriya armys me jaate aur kitne pandits scholars bante we know that. so casteism should not be promoted, nobodys is pure nowadays and nor any particular caste, earlier times were verry different. i do worship krishna ji, shiv ji, support my religion but i believe i do not need to support smthg negative if i find any. and if im considered a bad hindu for it let it be kalyug me mostly everyone is doing sins.
truth : They themselves did not got the chance to do love marriage at their time so as their own love life was unfullfilled they get jealous of their children doing love marriage, its hard to digest but that is a point
The only trait required is maturity. People falling in love in age brackets 18 to 20 themselves realize after crossing 27 and 28 that they didn't intended this relationship in life. Often maturity peaks after 25. Maturity means understanding your truest core and expectation from life. Unfortunately this sense of self understanding comes very late and people hurry in marriage before realising their own true self. Rest is a disaster then which can unfold in either arrange or love. Communicate openly with partner about your expectation in life and their are no perfect answers. Match your compatibility with a person having similar thought process. Marry, it hardly mattes then whether it arrange or love. Both formats are equally successful if couple is mature enough to respect and communicate in relationship.
It's so true that most women don't know where they will go after getting divorce so they stay. Even at times they have shelter but " parivaar ki izzat" is more important so they stay. Marriage is actually scary. If it's an arranged marriage you don't know enough about your partner, the person with whom you are supposed to stay your whole life, For women You don't the family, daheej or you can say GIFTS. And in love marriage, the horror of meeting each other's parents. You have to put so much efforts just to convince them. Receiving threats like " usse shaadi ki toh humari aaulad nhi hai tu", " mere beti/beta ko bhul jao" . Parents acting not interested in the marriage even if they agree. 🤡💀
@@Aishyhere Aree woh normal logo ke liye, meri harkate dekh ke mujhe yeh confidence nhi aata ki meri bhi girlfriend ho skti hain, mtlb mai toh ek second ke liye khud sadme mai chale jaaunga ki arre😶🌫️ meri bhi girlfriend hain🤯 Toh shaadi toh Durr ki baat hain
Most of the divorces in love marriage happen because parents completely cut contact with their children, leaving a hole in their life as societal beings. You gotta have incredible mental strength and maturity to go through fights alone and not divorce. One thing I agree about our culture that divorce shouldn’t be made so easy barring the cases of domestic violence.
@@vanshpaliwal-mh6gshow ? Can you tell ? Our parents are the one who marriage arranged and then we are here and when you will see divorce case it is more in love marriage than arrange marriage ig arrange marriage is better than love marriage even you can see in how actor/ actress married and then leave each other after some years but this case is not in arrange marriage
Mujhe toh lagta hai ki arrange marriage (ladko ke case me) mainly dahej ke liye kari jaati hai kyuki agar ladka love marriage karega toh vo most cases me dahej nahi lega.
Agr sirf Aisa hai to love marriage k liye ladki ki family kyu nhi maanti .. aise me unka daheej bhi bachega... Or mene mostly aisa dekha hai jisme ladke k parents love marriage k liye maan jate hai lakin ladki k parents love marriage k liye raaji nhi hote hai.........
I don't know about other states but in most Bengali household parents have no problem accepting love marriages. In fact they prefer it because It is very taxing to find a suitable bridge/ groom in Arrange marriage scenario
Bro then you are from upper middle class cause in lower middle class and lower class people,caste, religion matters and every thing mentioned in this video matters I myself a Bengali but literally my parents literally are "love marriage korbina" all those soft brainwashing done to show why arrange marriage is better is done,and same is about my relatives and my locality, although I also do soft brainwashing and have succeeded in making maa understand that even if I do arrange marriage I will date that girl for atleast 4-5 years before marriage or love marriage but don't know about baba
@@PULKITKAUL-great that's not true,I have seen so many cases they are just like parents of any other states, maybe things maybe different for bengalis living in ultra rich localities of Kolkata otherwise it's all the same
"kyuki unko ye lag sakta hai ki aap unke khilaaf jake koi decision le rhe ho ya aap unko respect nhi kar rhe ho. Unko ye lagta hai unki samaj mein kya izzat rah jaegi ki batao bacchon ki khushi k liye apni ego chhod di" ....nobody acknowledges this point but true indeed 🥺🤍
Mera to manna h ki shadi honi chahiye to unse honi chahiye jaha variations hai. For example, UP ka ladka ho, Punjab ki ladki ho, to kitna badhiya ho, khane me variations, culture me variations, logo ko janne ko milega etc.
You r matured when you realise there is no such difference between Love and arrange marriage. Only initial period is different and after some time everything is same
My parents had a love marriage themselves 😅. And my father's best friend married my mother's best friend. Now, their daughter is my gf. So, my parents kind of wants this marriage to happen.
I will be honest with you I have seen serious blunder in both marriages but arranged marriage blunder is way more expensive. I know a acquaintance who loved a boy and her parents came to know about it at age 19 . Her bf was of same caste and class, infact her family knew them and had cordial relationship but hated the fact that she fell in love without their permission and “ naak Kay di”. They got her married without her will to someone from their village to teach her a lesson. That man was not even a college graduate but they had overconfidence on their choice . They literally gave him dowry of around 2 crore because his family was from a reputable family in their community . That 2 crore was given to set up a business along with it a luxury car and a flat was also given to his family . The total dowry must have been around 5 crore since the flat her ex husband received was in prime location in city. After marriage his fmily wanted her to conceive but she couldn’t due to health , so she underwent ivf and all expenses were taken care of by her family . His family did not give single rupee. Her delivery expenses were also taken care by her family and not by his . They had a daughter and when the daughter turned 5 , he got addicted to to gambling and lost all his property and money to gambling and ran away for his life . His wife and daughter had to face exploitation by lone sharks in his absence. Now they both are divorced because he would not give a single rupee for girl child. Her fees money is also given by her nana. The lady in question tried doing job but developed severe psychiatric trauma and disease which are incurable . She has episodes of bipolar, mania, hypomania, depression, psychosis etc . Her list of diagnosis is longer than a recipe for a gravy. Even during divorce hearing her father for izzat and shit demanded no alimony and only wanted them to be together. She doesn’t get any child support or alimony because he is bankrupt and is not earning much but is preparing to get married again to an innocent village women. Many don’t believe it but parents can fuck up life pretty bad out of ego. Her life was messed up since age 19 and now she is 36 . Whatever gifts, dowry money her father spent on that man’s family is now of no use as her ex husband has lost everything and cannot even afford to pay the daughter’s school fee. He doesn’t even care to buy a pencil for her . Her sister wanted a daughter so she has almost adopted the girl because my acquaintance is mostly in psychiatric ward and her hospital bills are paid by her dad who tries hard to still save his face in society. My parents are genuinely one in a million and amazing people so I don’t have any complaints but I genuinely wonder why some parents are enemies of their own children. Her ex husband literally received a dowry almost worth 5 crores but has lost everything in gambling addiction. He doesn’t even care to give even 5 rupee to his ex wife and his girl child out of sympathy or sense of duty for hospital treatment or education. I wish parents actually looked at morals and kind of human being their children are getting married to instead of only caste or religion.
@@artist_anjalii_ that’s true…. A distant cousin I know got arranged married to someone he doesn’t love . He loved a girl for 10 years but didn’t had guts to stand up for himself so married the choice of his parents. The parents didn’t like his gf because some stupid Indian parent logic. The present wife’s family gave handsome gifts initially and hid the fact smartly that they have sons and their property is not fully theirs but is highly disputed among many brothers and cousins. The girl also looked very homely and sort of pretty but highly educated. The boys parents were mentally convinced she is only daughter with tons of property and she is extremely docile and submissive. They were under illusion that they will receive handsome dowry . Within few months after marriage they found out she has siblings and their property claim is disputed by everyone . They wanted to get her married desperately because she has psychiatric and neurological issues which her family hid even from her relatives . She wasn’t allowed friends because they didn’t wanted anyone to know . His family never received all the gifts and properties they expected and her brothers enter their home anytime she feels threatened. The girl is heavily influenced by her mother and father and would shut her bedroom door if things don’t go her way . She leaves for her hometown whenever she wants . If u try to have serious conversation with her she cries and cries . He can’t divorce because izzat he is a coward . Now they have a daughter together and the daughter is showing signs of autism like level 3 severe kind and adhd . That girl also has kidney disorders . They are planning another kid because one suffering isn’t enough.
@@shivampandey5978 I wish that cousin dude showed some guts and not became greedy or acted dumb. Can u imagine that guy had all the brains to do phd but no brains in choosing a girl.
@@adiroxlife generally ,,those who fell in luv doesn't have guts to accept it to their parents.. They want both parents money and excitement of love.. They do both but with different persons
I personally feel , the society is living with mindset that everything that 's part of western culture is wrong , and since love marriage is an essential aspect of western culture , it is viewed in such a way ... Another point is the ongoing cases in the society whether its rape , murder , case of physical violence which is often realted to relationship issues , so thats also one of the reason for parents to be cautious about there children !
How is love marriage is western concept h shree krishna ne mata rukmini ko bhaga kr shaadi ki thi wo love marriage hi thi ya fir jb mata subhadra ne arjun ko bhaga kr shaadi ki thi to love marriage ka concept tha pr wo humesha se upper class mein tha lower class mein parents humesha se rudhivaadi rhe hain dikkat ye h
And what about more than 80% of rapes committed by closest relatives of the girl? Who will talk about that? Is that also related with relationship issue? 🤨🤨
Thanks for supporting them who desires to love marriage, believe me, many youtubers or some youth is against love marriage, they say like- our parents know better than us like crap Some parents just Don't know parenting, they ought to taught parenting
Most important thing is the why indian parents against love marriage is unka beta hath se nikal Jayega. Samaj mein ab main dekh raha hu ki betiyon ko phir nhi izzazat mil rahi hai apni pasand ka ladke se shadi karne ki par in situation mein bete ka bura haal aaj bhi hain . Beta love marriage kar lega toh Bahu usse kabze mein le legi. Aise hazar bate hum apne parents ki nhi mante par love marriage ke baad agar galti se ek baat bhi nahi maani toh aise drama create karenge jaise humne unko thappad mar diya ho.
Bhai dil jeet lia! very realistic video! My husband Marwari from Jharkhad and I am Brahmin from UP and on the top of it my husband is bald with an opthalmic issue and I have vitiligo and it took us two years to get our parents on same page! 5 years down the line we still face issues on parents front sometimes!
Meri GF Tamil Brahmin hai main Bihari OBC. Mujhe to darr lagg rha hai future ke liye. But she said her parents is liberal & open minded. Still pta nhi kya hoga. We truely love each other..& Congratulations to for your marriage ❤🎉
Marwadi is not a caste. Marwadi is a regional identity. A Marwadi can be a Marwadi Baniya (Hindu/Jain), Marwadi Rajput, Marwadi Jaat, Marwadi Brahmin or Marwadi dalit.
I'm always looking forward for your video. Your way of narration is really catchy and enjoyable, 10mins video feels too small. Keep going sir, full support ❤️
Mere family me 3 generations se love marriage hua hai or 2 shadiya intercaste. Sab khush hai kisi ka divorce nahi hua ab tak. Ek member ki arrange marriage hui thi same caste me or she lost her life.
Love marriage me dahej ni milta, love marriage wali bahuye pitayi ni khati. Unhe manipulate karke mayke se paise ni maangana muskil hota h. Beta bahu k vash me ho jata h ......bla, bla, bla
According to Indian parents, if a love marriage fails then the couple made a bad decision by choosing each other as partner and if an arranged marriage fails it's just the luck ain't on their side🙃
Bro money is important , baap ka paisa chayiye toh log maan lete hain uski baat , warna kamane wali janta ( jo max audience hogi is video ki) ko ghanta farak nahin padta parents se
Mujhe lgta h fark padta hai par wait krne ki or manane ki ek limit hoti hai, thak jata h insan or parents ki zid ni khatam hoti, tb koi b independent insan apne man se hi decisions lega
@@sachinawasthiunscripted haan matlab farak naa padne wali stage aati hain max logon ki and yes looks are important ugly people like me thode kam rebel hote hain, pata hain khud se naa ho payega Baap hi karwayega naa
Time stamp 9:24 India is not a free country specifically for women ... Nah freely ghoom sakte hai rape k daar se ..nah freely hume choice hoti hai partner choose karne ki ....
Recently one of my brother and sister have gotten arrange married . Believe me.! I have seen in real both their parents met and they already knew each other so ladka aur ladki ko 5 minute akele baat krne k liye bhejte hain, after those 5 minutes everyone is looking at their faces and expecting a 'YES'. If by any chance you say No, first of all they will make sure there is no chance like this, but if still by any chance you managed to say a No.! Then remember both these families as well as the people related with these families will never talk for life and this will be made an issue of Pride and prejudice. Also ab unki marriage bilkul bhi acchi nahin chal rahi hai dono ki. SO BASICALLY THERE IS NO PROOF THAT IF YOU ARE DOING ARRANGE MARRIAGE BASED ON YOUR PARENTS TERM IT WILL BE A SUCCESS. HAN EK CHIJ MAIN BOL SAKTI HUN KI UNKE FAMILY MEIN BAHUT PROBLEM CHAL RAHI HAI DONON KI BUT STILL THE FAMILY IS PLAYING THE ROLE OF MAKING SURE THAT THEY BOTH DON'T SEPARATE. THIS IS THE ONLY THING THAT THEY ARE DOING FOR THEM. NOTHING ELSE SAMAJ KAHIN KAM MEIN NAHIN A RAHA HAI. IN FACT JO SAMAJ KE LIYE UNHONE SHAADI KI THI NOW THAT'S SO MUCH IS LIKE CHHODO HAMEN KYA LENA. Also nowadays if you are a person of this generation and thinking of getting arranged marriage remember u r probably marrying someone's ex.😂😂
Thank you so much yaar 🙏 Finally Koi toh hai internet par jo en sab muddo pe khul ke baat karta h 👍 Humare desh mein aap jaise influencers ki jaroorat h jo reform laane ki takat rakhte hain
Iam in my late twenties and i would never marry as love and arranged marriage are extremely superficial and most people including my friends are only marrying due to peer pressure and having no hobbies other than work and spending money on their families . Personally i have lots of hobbies from animation to game design, and i wouldn't spend my time investing in marriage as of now
I am not a matrimonial consultant but i can say Kids who do love marriage do because of love they dont oversee the family conditions of bride or groom past history salary etc So there are chances of the marriage to break after 3 yrs But in arranged marraiges i have seen in my family firstly there is no love in marriage but then gradually as time passes by love is involoved and the couple live a peaceful life So parents are always against love marriage in arranged marriage parents find a bride or groom wrt their family background salary etc In the long run salary is important because when u use the word men or women U state it that he or she is highly successful in their undertaking
They check finance more than caste or religion actually. I never saw any family saying no to a man who is rich bt has lower caste or even he is Muslim.
Not totally true humare yahan ldka humble background ka chlega but sirf ladka rich ho aur family mentally downtrodden hi ho toh koi nhi chunega.. Not true for everyone.
No brother. My partner is assistant manager in bank .good behavior. Everything is oke for me. But my parents are against it because of caste. Both us are belong to obc catagory .stilll😢.i tried a lot to convince them. They says that guy with no job from same caste is okey for them.
Bhai to be very honest. Who gives a F? This is your life and future, love marriage karo ya arranged karo ye poora ka poora tum decide karoge. Parents ko acche number chahiye, dediya, accha job chahiye, dediya. Future aur wife to tumhara hoga, wo to khud decide karo, parents kya bol rahe hai kya fadak padta hai tumhe? It's your whole life ahead of you, and you decide it, not 2 other people. Bade ho gaye ho, apne saare descisions khud lete ho, lekin fir bhi kya tum baccho ki tarah apne maa baap pe majboor rahige tumhare liye biwi dhoondne ke liye?
Love marriage me problem ye he ki usme biwi ke aage parents ki nhi chalti he , Isliye parents arrange marriage karate he taki ladka ladki parents ke hisab se chale , fir ladka , ladki khush rhe ya na rhe . Lekin parents ko apni chalani he ,
Humare parents jis generation se hai uss generation ke logo ne humesha aankh band kar ke apne parents, aur samaj ki baat maani hai. Aur isiliye vo bhi yahi humse chahte hai. Social conditioning is also one of those reason here. And our generation has opposite thought for it. Humari aane wali generation iss marriage aur career vale mamle me bahut lucky hogi.
Waise meri ek story hain last year ,ek ladki jisse main shaadi ke regarding baat kar raha tha use maine reject kr diya for some reason , pata nahin kahan se uski family mere mama ke relatives nikle toh , toh us ladki ki family ne mere mama se bol diya ke aapke bhanje ( yaani maine) ne shaadi karli hain and he is living in bangalore with his wife, when my moron mama told this to my parents they panicked and called me at 11 PM and mom say in sarcastic mode beta rakhi pe akele hi aaoge naa ghar , phir papa ne phone liya aur kaafi man to man conversation hui , then only thing with which i convinced them , ke papa mammi aapko lagta hain aapke bete ki aisi shakal hain ke usse koi ladki love marriage kar legi , tab bole haan beta woh toh hain , us din thodi rahat aur dher saala self doubt mila aur main so gaya !!🤣🤣
Meri GF Tamil Brahmin hai main Bihari OBC. Mujhe to darr lagg rha hai future ke liye. But she said her parents is liberal & open minded. Still pta nhi kya hoga. We truely love each other 🥰
@@abhijeetkumar2204 "ye set karna kya hota hai bhai ?", really bro, your girl is very lucky to have you. Mature men like you , who are in love, know how to address their women. I hope everything goes in your favour.
no bs and properly researched videos keep making these type of videos and all the best! P.S. dont frgt to make videos on ur other channel! (especially the mom ones, my mom gets so irritated when i show them to her)
bhai main khoob publicity kar rha hu aapke naye channel ki. theres nothing more enlightening than comic commentating on real life, even better if its well thought out like you. will continue to watch and support your channel. thank you very much for this
Acha banate ho video, apka comedy wale videos dekh aaya tha but yeh zyada acha laga mujh.....Lots of love and hope this gets much more success than the comedy ones!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯
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It's a good thing cause we too will get older and this thing will be less dominate
Parents ko bhej dijiye 😂
No one is against anything, problem is most love marriage don't work properly. There is not much family support from behind, and after some time romance runs out. Parents has seen many such cases that's why they are bit alert and scepticle, if you sit with them develop understanding they will agree.
Yes, if you are a girl then it will be bit difficult. Boy must have money, good family then it will work smoothly.
@@Death__0 😂😂😂oh! boy !! I have news for u...
Most of the women and women don't wanna get married because of the trauma the f*ked up relationship of their parents left on them.
Most of the women live like prisoners in marriage just tolerating it for the sake of their children because their whole life from birth the only purpose pushed onto them was being a wife and not a self sufficient human who could earn on their own while men were raised to be ATM machine for their parents while on the other hand sister was being raised alongside to do the same to her husband and children.
ARRANGE MARRIAGES R HORRIBLE SETTINGS....TRULY HORRENDOUS!!!
@@Death__0 arrange marriage works because majority of female are not financially independent and parents force to have kids which acts as a anchor in the marriage so women can't leave the marriage.
Bro is giving serious competition to pre existing youtubers in this category
Most Parents doesn't want to take the Risk of Marrying there Child in different Caste
Because it is more Risky
Food, Language accent, Clothing Style, etc
In Same Caste there is high Chance most habits will be Same
However habits are also changing by Family Profession Change
& In Future with the Implementation of NEP it will change more Fast
Then Regional Area will become Identity - Regional Culture will be Identity
Bhai neutral rhega yahi ummid hai ❤
@@Bring4545 ummid to h
@@Farhan.imator The liberalistic ideas of this guy are not good bro
It leads to premarital affairs which definitely leads to zina
Stay away from such things
Follow the ISLAMIC PATH
@@Priyaykanth2 Inn reasons ke wajah se agar kisi ko dusri caste wale se shadi karni h aur pyar bhi h to wo na kare fir ?
Fun Fact:Sachin made this video because he can't directly say this to his parents 😂😂
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Vo tumhare liye raste khol rha hai or tum uska rasta band kr rhe ho waahhh..
If Love marriage is tricky then arrange marriage is 100× scary🙂
kyu?
Who said?
Men are not going to understand how scary is to live with an unknown person
Apni gf se sadi karna always better than marrying someone else gf😂@@ZoldicsDiaries
@@ashutoshgupta2135 exactly
I'd rather die single than marrying a 'second hand used ' product
In India we don't marry because we want to but because we have to....in my opinion not marrying is better than forcibly marrying someone
That's true bt then also they say y, and ask plenty of questions and even think of smthng tht is our child is gay/lesbian or wht not 😂😂,
@@keshavvats6422Consciousness is not An Acceptable trait In Your Community
And by 'Your' I mean every Underdeveloped Country's Situation
??! Bro no one forcing you to marry!! But if you don't marry.. after 35,40 you'll regret it so it best to marry at good age even if its arranged marriages.
I mean you can choose to accept or reject arrange marriages.
@@Death__0yuck no
@@Death__0 Khud ke Selection Aur bacche ke Development mein difference hota hai
Aur Conservative Countries me shaadi nahi ki toh parents ghar se nikaal sakte hain son ko, kabhi kabhi apni daughter ko maarte bhi
Bro marriage is like a gamble , parents wants to play it , but consequences humko hi dekhne hain
Kya baat hai ✨
Yr mein.. to arrange marriage ko contract samajhta hoon...
Aur iss contract mein sab stakeholder hai.. mainly agar family joint ho.. Isn't it..
Plus, iss hi wajah se divorce rate bhi kam hai.. apne india mein... Compare to western countries..
Kehte hai na.. ki indian mein rishta ., do pariwaron ke beech hota hai..
Na ki do individual ke beech..
Mein kitna shi bol rha hoon.?
And yes , gamble to hota hi hai...
Consequence sab stakeholders hi face krte hai.. face karne ka percentage kam jyada ho skta hai..
@@ankitgrover-r6xsaare marraige contract hai, but men have more to loose.
@@ankitgrover-r6xThoda wait karo. Next 10 year ke baad arrange marriage mein bhi divorce rate same hoga.
nothing wrong in inter caste marriage
but inter religion marriage their should be a precaution and well researched and no religious motive
Sahi bola
Even as a guy, AGREED.
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@@PureRythm yha pe ladka ladki ki baat kahan se aayi 🤨
Bilkul sahi bolen hain
No matter who the boy gets married to the parents will eventually hate the bride.
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@@artist_anjalii_ Unfortunate but true
Property mein say hissa bhi to bhai and uski bride hi legi bahan and uskay groom ko kuch nhi milta thenga kay siwaay...
Fact
Sad part is that our parents are not gonna watch this video as well 😂😂
Prime Time with Sachin Awasthi..✔
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It may sound wrong to many people but in India most of the arrange marriages couple have a lot of problems like domestic violence, no mutual respect, verbal abuse on daily basic but people continue it because of there family respect in society and family pressure. female who continue sometimes because they are dependent on the man of family for money but her contribution to family is never seen or recongized.
Not must,
But yes many.
Not most
Haa maine bhi apne aas paas dekha h ye bohot 💔
Haa mere khud ke ghar me maine dekha hai, compatibility in arrange marriage between couples is always very low, literally among relatives I know 3 arrange marriage couples and 1 love marriage,and to be true none of the arrange marriage couples have compatibility they barely have mutual respect and domestic violence is common in all 3(where in 2 the women is suffering and in 1 the man) whereas the love marriage couples are living much more happily they respect eachother and eachother's family a lot
@@Lifestyle12360 well if things are so good in love marriage then why is there such a high divorce rate?
Love marriage ❌
Arranged marriage ❌
No marriage ✅
🗿 nice
kaash apne yeh comment 6 years pahle kiyaa hotaa.
My experience - ladke k papa ko cast issue tha but usse jyada ego issue tha..(meri bat nahi man raha means muze koi value nahi)
Ladke ki maa ko caste issue nahi tha but she got insecure (abhi se beta itna stand le raha hai shadi k bad to wife k pass hi jayega)
That’s why ladke k parents ko aaisi ladki se shadi karana hota hai k ladke ka emotional bond na bane ladki se..
Love less relationship me bandhana hota hai so that ladka bas parents ki sune
Insecure parents..
Jo secure parents hote hai unko bas beta happy rahe itna hi chahiye hota hai
@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg😂
😂😂😂😂@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg
Yehi h wo insecure parents @MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg
@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg konsi tribe Bhai, 90s me reh Raha he kya ki abhi bhi casteism ko support karta he.
And second point beta he ki koi property, you've given a life to your child that does not give you the right to play with him like a puppet, and agar vo khud k life decisions sahi galat jo bhi khud nahi lega, so what is the point of having your own brain and consciousness. Giving respect does not implies ki andhe aur behre ban k jo vo bole karne lago.
@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg we were not living in that time, and idk uss time k kya reasons they ki varnasankara originate hua and it is discouraged, but in now times i do not think that isse badhava dena chahiye there is literally no sense to it, kitne shatriya armys me jaate aur kitne pandits scholars bante we know that. so casteism should not be promoted, nobodys is pure nowadays and nor any particular caste, earlier times were verry different. i do worship krishna ji, shiv ji, support my religion but i believe i do not need to support smthg negative if i find any. and if im considered a bad hindu for it let it be kalyug me mostly everyone is doing sins.
In the country of KRISHNA people are ashamed of Love.
We are truly forgot our god's teaching and start following something else.
truth : They themselves did not got the chance to do love marriage at their time so as their own love life was unfullfilled they get jealous of their children doing love marriage, its hard to digest but that is a point
İn many cases, i agree.
Aapko like isliye kam mile kyuki ye point galt hai
Kisi ne mere dil ki baat kehdi idhar exactly parents ek time p jealous hote h ki unke bachhe apne choice k krlie
The only trait required is maturity. People falling in love in age brackets 18 to 20 themselves realize after crossing 27 and 28 that they didn't intended this relationship in life. Often maturity peaks after 25. Maturity means understanding your truest core and expectation from life. Unfortunately this sense of self understanding comes very late and people hurry in marriage before realising their own true self. Rest is a disaster then which can unfold in either arrange or love. Communicate openly with partner about your expectation in life and their are no perfect answers. Match your compatibility with a person having similar thought process. Marry, it hardly mattes then whether it arrange or love. Both formats are equally successful if couple is mature enough to respect and communicate in relationship.
Well said.
Bahut acche se explain kiye, isliye shaadi jo logon ko Karna pasand nhi, unpe bhi zor dalna logon ko band karna chahiye
It's so true that most women don't know where they will go after getting divorce so they stay. Even at times they have shelter but " parivaar ki izzat" is more important so they stay.
Marriage is actually scary. If it's an arranged marriage you don't know enough about your partner, the person with whom you are supposed to stay your whole life, For women You don't the family, daheej or you can say GIFTS. And in love marriage, the horror of meeting each other's parents. You have to put so much efforts just to convince them. Receiving threats like " usse shaadi ki toh humari aaulad nhi hai tu", " mere beti/beta ko bhul jao" . Parents acting not interested in the marriage even if they agree. 🤡💀
Abhi ek tisri class bhi aayi hai, jo ab marriage mei believe he nai karti.
"Marriage has lost it's relevance."
Those people live long and and peaceful than most of you😂
Real@@Here_we_go..557
just have multiple partners and explore porn style fantasies with them 😅
i m working on this concept
To aap ka kaya problem hay usme.
Jisko shadi na karna wo nahi karega.
Aap ko to koi na rok raha hay.
Toh dikkat kya hai?
Kisi ajnabi se shaadi karke dukhi rehne se toh acha hi hai na...
Or are you one of those old types?
Haan toh bhai mai toh gharwaalo ke bharose hoon, Pyaar toh hone se raha, bs darr lgta hain yeh mere bharose toh nhi
🤣🤣
Same😂
Nhi vo to taiyaar honge jb ha kr denge turant ladki khoj denge aapke liye💯
@@Aishyhere Aree woh normal logo ke liye, meri harkate dekh ke mujhe yeh confidence nhi aata ki meri bhi girlfriend ho skti hain,
mtlb mai toh ek second ke liye khud sadme mai chale jaaunga ki arre😶🌫️ meri bhi girlfriend hain🤯
Toh shaadi toh Durr ki baat hain
@@yashraghuwanshi3693bhai me ladki hu but my situation is same
Today I realised that divorce is not always a bad thing 😊
Teen?
Most of the divorces in love marriage happen because parents completely cut contact with their children, leaving a hole in their life as societal beings. You gotta have incredible mental strength and maturity to go through fights alone and not divorce. One thing I agree about our culture that divorce shouldn’t be made so easy barring the cases of domestic violence.
Bro arrange marriage is to much scary
definitely agree 💯
@vanshpaliwal-mh6gs well even love marriage is scary.
@@vanshpaliwal-mh6gsitni nahi hoti jitni love merrage
@@vanshpaliwal-mh6gshow ? Can you tell ?
Our parents are the one who marriage arranged and then we are here and when you will see divorce case it is more in love marriage than arrange marriage ig arrange marriage is better than love marriage even you can see in how actor/ actress married and then leave each other after some years but this case is not in arrange marriage
Most underrated creator
Your subscriber from main channel from the days it had 100k subscribers
Thank you so much ❤️
Mujhe toh lagta hai ki arrange marriage (ladko ke case me) mainly dahej ke liye kari jaati hai kyuki agar ladka love marriage karega toh vo most cases me dahej nahi lega.
Dahej to love marriage me v chalta hai
True 😂😂
Dehaj😂😂😂😂... Bhai extortion ka naam suna hai.. Ladki walon ki demand hi nahi kahatm hote..
agreed, same case here
Agr sirf Aisa hai to love marriage k liye ladki ki family kyu nhi maanti .. aise me unka daheej bhi bachega... Or mene mostly aisa dekha hai jisme ladke k parents love marriage k liye maan jate hai lakin ladki k parents love marriage k liye raaji nhi hote hai.........
You are a great orator, all the best for your new channel!
Ladke k parents ka reason hai ki love marriage me unko dahej nhi milega n second bahu ko control me bhi nhi kr payege
I don't know about other states but in most Bengali household parents have no problem accepting love marriages. In fact they prefer it because It is very taxing to find a suitable bridge/ groom in Arrange marriage scenario
Bro then you are from upper middle class cause in lower middle class and lower class people,caste, religion matters and every thing mentioned in this video matters I myself a Bengali but literally my parents literally are "love marriage korbina" all those soft brainwashing done to show why arrange marriage is better is done,and same is about my relatives and my locality, although I also do soft brainwashing and have succeeded in making maa understand that even if I do arrange marriage I will date that girl for atleast 4-5 years before marriage or love marriage but don't know about baba
I am a Bengali and I can assure you it's NOT true
Bengal is super woke
Bengali parents are playing until it's with another Bengali. Wahi wokeness khatm ho jati h unki
@@PULKITKAUL-great that's not true,I have seen so many cases they are just like parents of any other states, maybe things maybe different for bengalis living in ultra rich localities of Kolkata otherwise it's all the same
Love marriage ka sbse negative point h ki uske liye ldki hone chahiye vo bhi love mai 🫂
deep bhai deep
Us bhai us
Or jo arranged marriage mei sirf tere 💵 lootne k liye aate hai😂
Negative kyu hai ye🤔
DIL JEET LIYA YAAR TUMNE.... SAB KEH DIYA JO HUM SAALON SE ANALYSE KAR RAHE H🤌🏻🙏🏻GOD BLESS YOU MAN
"kyuki unko ye lag sakta hai ki aap unke khilaaf jake koi decision le rhe ho ya aap unko respect nhi kar rhe ho. Unko ye lagta hai unki samaj mein kya izzat rah jaegi ki batao bacchon ki khushi k liye apni ego chhod di" ....nobody acknowledges this point but true indeed 🥺🤍
Mera to manna h ki shadi honi chahiye to unse honi chahiye jaha variations hai. For example, UP ka ladka ho, Punjab ki ladki ho, to kitna badhiya ho, khane me variations, culture me variations, logo ko janne ko milega etc.
Genetic variation bhi
Bacho main
Jeevan sathi mein acc bana lo fir.. But beware
Kya kya ajeeb ajeeb thoughts rakhte ho tum log 😂
Punjab ki ladkiyon ko UP ki londe ni chahiye😂 bro wake up
You r matured when you realise there is no such difference between Love and arrange marriage. Only initial period is different and after some time everything is same
Bhai kya baat boli hai
Marriage ke baad responsibilities badh jaati hai
Everything is top notch here
Your content
Story telling
Editing
Pyari awaz
My best youtuber ❤
Thank you ❤️
Stay unmarried. 😊
Like this kind of content
Why?
My parents had a love marriage themselves 😅. And my father's best friend married my mother's best friend. Now, their daughter is my gf.
So, my parents kind of wants this marriage to happen.
I will be honest with you I have seen serious blunder in both marriages but arranged marriage blunder is way more expensive. I know a acquaintance who loved a boy and her parents came to know about it at age 19 . Her bf was of same caste and class, infact her family knew them and had cordial relationship but hated the fact that she fell in love without their permission and “ naak Kay di”. They got her married without her will to someone from their village to teach her a lesson. That man was not even a college graduate but they had overconfidence on their choice . They literally gave him dowry of around 2 crore because his family was from a reputable family in their community . That 2 crore was given to set up a business along with it a luxury car and a flat was also given to his family . The total dowry must have been around 5 crore since the flat her ex husband received was in prime location in city. After marriage his fmily wanted her to conceive but she couldn’t due to health , so she underwent ivf and all expenses were taken care of by her family . His family did not give single rupee. Her delivery expenses were also taken care by her family and not by his .
They had a daughter and when the daughter turned 5 , he got addicted to to gambling and lost all his property and money to gambling and ran away for his life . His wife and daughter had to face exploitation by lone sharks in his absence. Now they both are divorced because he would not give a single rupee for girl child. Her fees money is also given by her nana. The lady in question tried doing job but developed severe psychiatric trauma and disease which are incurable . She has episodes of bipolar, mania, hypomania, depression, psychosis etc . Her list of diagnosis is longer than a recipe for a gravy. Even during divorce hearing her father for izzat and shit demanded no alimony and only wanted them to be together. She doesn’t get any child support or alimony because he is bankrupt and is not earning much but is preparing to get married again to an innocent village women. Many don’t believe it but parents can fuck up life pretty bad out of ego. Her life was messed up since age 19 and now she is 36 . Whatever gifts, dowry money her father spent on that man’s family is now of no use as her ex husband has lost everything and cannot even afford to pay the daughter’s school fee. He doesn’t even care to buy a pencil for her . Her sister wanted a daughter so she has almost adopted the girl because my acquaintance is mostly in psychiatric ward and her hospital bills are paid by her dad who tries hard to still save his face in society.
My parents are genuinely one in a million and amazing people so I don’t have any complaints but I genuinely wonder why some parents are enemies of their own children. Her ex husband literally received a dowry almost worth 5 crores but has lost everything in gambling addiction. He doesn’t even care to give even 5 rupee to his ex wife and his girl child out of sympathy or sense of duty for hospital treatment or education. I wish parents actually looked at morals and kind of human being their children are getting married to instead of only caste or religion.
@@artist_anjalii_ that’s true…. A distant cousin I know got arranged married to someone he doesn’t love . He loved a girl for 10 years but didn’t had guts to stand up for himself so married the choice of his parents. The parents didn’t like his gf because some stupid Indian parent logic. The present wife’s family gave handsome gifts initially and hid the fact smartly that they have sons and their property is not fully theirs but is highly disputed among many brothers and cousins. The girl also looked very homely and sort of pretty but highly educated. The boys parents were mentally convinced she is only daughter with tons of property and she is extremely docile and submissive. They were under illusion that they will receive handsome dowry . Within few months after marriage they found out she has siblings and their property claim is disputed by everyone . They wanted to get her married desperately because she has psychiatric and neurological issues which her family hid even from her relatives . She wasn’t allowed friends because they didn’t wanted anyone to know . His family never received all the gifts and properties they expected and her brothers enter their home anytime she feels threatened. The girl is heavily influenced by her mother and father and would shut her bedroom door if things don’t go her way . She leaves for her hometown whenever she wants . If u try to have serious conversation with her she cries and cries . He can’t divorce because izzat he is a coward . Now they have a daughter together and the daughter is showing signs of autism like level 3 severe kind and adhd . That girl also has kidney disorders . They are planning another kid because one suffering isn’t enough.
@@adiroxlifeit's nightmare I am never gonna marry😂
@@shivampandey5978 I wish that cousin dude showed some guts and not became greedy or acted dumb. Can u imagine that guy had all the brains to do phd but no brains in choosing a girl.
@@adiroxlife generally ,,those who fell in luv doesn't have guts to accept it to their parents..
They want both parents money and excitement of love..
They do both but with different persons
I personally feel , the society is living with mindset that everything that 's part of western culture is wrong , and since love marriage is an essential aspect of western culture , it is viewed in such a way ...
Another point is the ongoing cases in the society whether its rape , murder , case of physical violence which is often realted to relationship issues , so thats also one of the reason for parents to be cautious about there children !
How is love marriage is western concept h shree krishna ne mata rukmini ko bhaga kr shaadi ki thi wo love marriage hi thi ya fir jb mata subhadra ne arjun ko bhaga kr shaadi ki thi to love marriage ka concept tha pr wo humesha se upper class mein tha lower class mein parents humesha se rudhivaadi rhe hain dikkat ye h
gandharv vivah kabse angrezo ki hone lagi siyane?? apne devi devta arrange kam love zyada kiye baithe h😂😂
@@ayushpal4518 even in upper middle class, they're the same especially the parents are blind followers of right wing conservative ideology
And what about more than 80% of rapes committed by closest relatives of the girl?
Who will talk about that?
Is that also related with relationship issue? 🤨🤨
Thanks for supporting them who desires to love marriage, believe me, many youtubers or some youth is against love marriage, they say like- our parents know better than us like crap
Some parents just Don't know parenting, they ought to taught parenting
Most important thing is the why indian parents against love marriage is unka beta hath se nikal Jayega. Samaj mein ab main dekh raha hu ki betiyon ko phir nhi izzazat mil rahi hai apni pasand ka ladke se shadi karne ki par in situation mein bete ka bura haal aaj bhi hain . Beta love marriage kar lega toh Bahu usse kabze mein le legi. Aise hazar bate hum apne parents ki nhi mante par love marriage ke baad agar galti se ek baat bhi nahi maani toh aise drama create karenge jaise humne unko thappad mar diya ho.
Bhai dil jeet lia! very realistic video! My husband Marwari from Jharkhad and I am Brahmin from UP and on the top of it my husband is bald with an opthalmic issue and I have vitiligo and it took us two years to get our parents on same page! 5 years down the line we still face issues on parents front sometimes!
Meri GF Tamil Brahmin hai main Bihari OBC. Mujhe to darr lagg rha hai future ke liye. But she said her parents is liberal & open minded. Still pta nhi kya hoga. We truely love each other..& Congratulations to for your marriage ❤🎉
As A Person with Vitiligo I can understand How much you would have faced !!
@@abhijeetkumar2204 teri koi gf brahmin nhi h tu brahman ko defame karne ko ye likh rha h bhimte ya obc ya mulla jo bhi tu h
Marwadi is not a caste. Marwadi is a regional identity.
A Marwadi can be a Marwadi Baniya (Hindu/Jain), Marwadi Rajput, Marwadi Jaat, Marwadi Brahmin or Marwadi dalit.
Bhai ne family group mein share kiya tha..
But bua ne bhai ko group se nikal diya 😂😂
Me Uttarakhandi brahmin my gf dalit Buddhist from Maharashtra. 😅I don't know how it will end up.
Simple boldo he Brahmin hu । Me tumse Marry nahi karskte he।
@@RakeshDey-rt4yk kyu
@@bhootiyabhoot6807 bro Brahmin dalit ke sath Sadi nahi karte । Tum suse shadi Karo to tumhara children ar Brahmin nahi rahega।
@@RakeshDey-rt4yk it's completely fine bro, children brahmin janam se nahi karam se bante h
@@RakeshDey-rt4yk karamo k hisab se varna milta h Bhagwat gita padho
I'm always looking forward for your video. Your way of narration is really catchy and enjoyable, 10mins video feels too small. Keep going sir, full support ❤️
Dhruv Rathee❌️ Sachin Awasthi✅️
Both are goods
Mere family me 3 generations se love marriage hua hai or 2 shadiya intercaste. Sab khush hai kisi ka divorce nahi hua ab tak.
Ek member ki arrange marriage hui thi same caste me or she lost her life.
Love marriage me dahej ni milta, love marriage wali bahuye pitayi ni khati. Unhe manipulate karke mayke se paise ni maangana muskil hota h. Beta bahu k vash me ho jata h ......bla, bla, bla
dahej se economy boost hota hai GDP badhti hai
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@ansumann
Dowry to illegal hai fir bhi kyu de rahe hai log 😑
İ think it's less to do with dowry, and more with the other points you mentioned...along with casteism. Casteism plays a major role in all this, yk...
@@PureRythm casteism? How
I am still waiting for the day when I will get a heart from my fav UA-camr Sachin Awasthi ❤😎
Mil gya heart, khush?
@@visheshrao5629 haa
your politeness hits me , also force to watch ur whole video 🙃
Beautiful bhai bahut bdia tarike se aapne explain kra hats off!
Thank you ❤️❤️
sahi ja rahe ho bro with this new channel..great content
According to Indian parents, if a love marriage fails then the couple made a bad decision by choosing each other as partner and if an arranged marriage fails it's just the luck ain't on their side🙃
Appreciable Content 🔥🔥
Bro's maturity level 📈📈
Well Asian people can know what is The reason behind
Sabse bada reason toh bola hi nahi: ladke walon ko lagta h ki hamara ladka gya hath se agar love marriage ki
Ye Mommas boy banake rakhne ki hi to problem hai
Bro money is important , baap ka paisa chayiye toh log maan lete hain uski baat , warna kamane wali janta ( jo max audience hogi is video ki) ko ghanta farak nahin padta parents se
Mujhe lgta h fark padta hai par wait krne ki or manane ki ek limit hoti hai, thak jata h insan or parents ki zid ni khatam hoti, tb koi b independent insan apne man se hi decisions lega
@@sachinawasthiunscripted haan matlab farak naa padne wali stage aati hain max logon ki and yes looks are important ugly people like me thode kam rebel hote hain, pata hain khud se naa ho payega
Baap hi karwayega naa
Dil se bol rha bhai tu😂❤@@adityaagrawal1731
Bhai Majaak karra☠️
Editor deserves a raise
Phle mujhe to mile😅
Best content and wonderful speech delivery 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Kya baat h bhai Comedy ho ya Serious Mudda, kya mast presentation h, Subscribe yaha bhi kar diya h, Keep Growing😍
Looking at his face...even serious topics feels like humour😂
WE NEED MORE SUCH CONTENT. Like, generational gaps, etc.
Parents ko ye video recommendation mein nahi aayegi.
Family group me daal do 😅
brooo😂😂😂😂😂
@@sachinawasthiunscripted bro me dal dunga lekin phir mujhe ghar roti bhi todni hai
Yahi sochenge ki yahi karna h isliye bta rha hai😂😂'@@sachinawasthiunscripted
Parents busy hai pookie maharaj k videos dekhne me
Fantastic video Sachin bro, loving this new channel
Most relatable channel of all time love you sachin bhai ✌️
Marriage itself is a scary thing. Parents play gamble and we pay the prize. Feels like its a Mahabharata.
We got Sachin Awasthi's true potential before GTA 6 🙃
Bawal video❤❤
Phla video dekhkr hi subscribe karliya👏🔥
Time stamp 9:24 India is not a free country specifically for women ... Nah freely ghoom sakte hai rape k daar se ..nah freely hume choice hoti hai partner choose karne ki ....
Abe rape har desh mai hota hain to world is not free
Bro content has been evolving so nice to see you spreading such a thoughtful information 😊
Recently one of my brother and sister have gotten arrange married . Believe me.! I have seen in real both their parents met and they already knew each other so ladka aur ladki ko 5 minute akele baat krne k liye bhejte hain, after those 5 minutes everyone is looking at their faces and expecting a 'YES'. If by any chance you say No, first of all they will make sure there is no chance like this, but if still by any chance you managed to say a No.! Then remember both these families as well as the people related with these families will never talk for life and this will be made an issue of Pride and prejudice. Also ab unki marriage bilkul bhi acchi nahin chal rahi hai dono ki. SO BASICALLY THERE IS NO PROOF THAT IF YOU ARE DOING ARRANGE MARRIAGE BASED ON YOUR PARENTS TERM IT WILL BE A SUCCESS. HAN EK CHIJ MAIN BOL SAKTI HUN KI UNKE FAMILY MEIN BAHUT PROBLEM CHAL RAHI HAI DONON KI BUT STILL THE FAMILY IS PLAYING THE ROLE OF MAKING SURE THAT THEY BOTH DON'T SEPARATE. THIS IS THE ONLY THING THAT THEY ARE DOING FOR THEM. NOTHING ELSE SAMAJ KAHIN KAM MEIN NAHIN A RAHA HAI. IN FACT JO SAMAJ KE LIYE UNHONE SHAADI KI THI NOW THAT'S SO MUCH IS LIKE CHHODO HAMEN KYA LENA. Also nowadays if you are a person of this generation and thinking of getting arranged marriage remember u r probably marrying someone's ex.😂😂
Bahut crisp, unfiltered and quality content!!! Bas baad me cringe mat kar dena bhai like others
Thank you so much yaar 🙏
Finally Koi toh hai internet par jo en sab muddo pe khul ke baat karta h 👍
Humare desh mein aap jaise influencers ki jaroorat h jo reform laane ki takat rakhte hain
Topic main hai, Creator nai
Bhai aapka content ...on both channel badiya hai .... Bas jaldi aapko fame mil jaye .... ❤🎉
Boht sahi bhai..ek number 👍🙌
Iam in my late twenties and i would never marry as love and arranged marriage are extremely superficial and most people including my friends are only marrying due to peer pressure and having no hobbies other than work and spending money on their families . Personally i have lots of hobbies from animation to game design, and i wouldn't spend my time investing in marriage as of now
Bhai Government Job mil Gayi tab toh badhiya Nature mein rahunga mai
I am not a matrimonial consultant but i can say
Kids who do love marriage do because of love they dont oversee the family conditions of bride or groom past history salary etc
So there are chances of the marriage to break after 3 yrs
But in arranged marraiges i have seen in my family firstly there is no love in marriage but then gradually as time passes by love is involoved and the couple live a peaceful life
So parents are always against love marriage in arranged marriage parents find a bride or groom wrt their family background salary etc
In the long run salary is important because when u use the word men or women
U state it that he or she is highly successful in their undertaking
They check finance more than caste or religion actually. I never saw any family saying no to a man who is rich bt has lower caste or even he is Muslim.
Not totally true humare yahan ldka humble background ka chlega but sirf ladka rich ho aur family mentally downtrodden hi ho toh koi nhi chunega..
Not true for everyone.
Then u r wrong rich ladka obc caste ka ni Kiya mere cousin ka ladki Brahman h
Just pride k Karan ki hm Brahman h neech jati me shadi ni karenge
No brother. My partner is assistant manager in bank .good behavior. Everything is oke for me. But my parents are against it because of caste. Both us are belong to obc catagory .stilll😢.i tried a lot to convince them. They says that guy with no job from same caste is okey for them.
Who is with
LUV MARRIAGE ❤
Knowledge with entertainment😅❤
Bro is leading in both Comedy & Informative catagory in youtube❤.. talent hai bhai talent hai👍🏻
Bhai to be very honest. Who gives a F? This is your life and future, love marriage karo ya arranged karo ye poora ka poora tum decide karoge. Parents ko acche number chahiye, dediya, accha job chahiye, dediya. Future aur wife to tumhara hoga, wo to khud decide karo, parents kya bol rahe hai kya fadak padta hai tumhe? It's your whole life ahead of you, and you decide it, not 2 other people.
Bade ho gaye ho, apne saare descisions khud lete ho, lekin fir bhi kya tum baccho ki tarah apne maa baap pe majboor rahige tumhare liye biwi dhoondne ke liye?
Yesss true
Main point toh bataya hi nhi mummy papa ko kaise manaya 😂 btw superb work ❤
Caste is ok but religion is not ok
Samaaj me izzat ki chinta sirf middle class ko hoti hai , ameer aur gareeb ko nhi
Love ur content sachin bhai ❤
Thank you ankur 🫡
@@sachinawasthiunscripted ❤️❤️🔥🔥
@@sachinawasthiunscripted bro next video kab
Bro your opinions are solid..i rarely comment on any video but i just couldn't stop after watching your video❣️
Love marriage me problem ye he ki usme biwi ke aage parents ki nhi chalti he ,
Isliye parents arrange marriage karate he taki ladka ladki parents ke hisab se chale , fir ladka , ladki khush rhe ya na rhe . Lekin parents ko apni chalani he ,
Humare parents jis generation se hai uss generation ke logo ne humesha aankh band kar ke apne parents, aur samaj ki baat maani hai.
Aur isiliye vo bhi yahi humse chahte hai. Social conditioning is also one of those reason here.
And our generation has opposite thought for it.
Humari aane wali generation iss marriage aur career vale mamle me bahut lucky hogi.
याद रखिए प्रकृति ने चेतना को सर्वदा चुनौतियां दी हैं♨️
Goori chamdi se obsession of Indians is personal.
Harsh Fact :- There is no selfless love in the world. Even Parent's love come with a lot of condition and expectation.
चेतना का उच्चतम स्तर समस्त जनो में नहीं है
कलियुग में तो अल्पता में भी नहीं
Sachin Awasthi ❤>>>>>>> Dhruv Rathee 🤡
Sachin bhai aap agee badho ham tumhare sath hai 😁
They are best friend 😂
@@rushi93338 bhaag chaman chu, ye abhi abhi is type ka content banane laga hai 😂
Bro....this channel is a hidden gem
..I was fan of your comedy videos...but this channel...omg..amazing 🎉
Mujhe bahut achcha lagta hai jab aap apna content late ho kyunki ismein mujhe bahut hi samajik jankari milati hai thank u ❤
People who got love so easily is promoting love marriage.... 🙂
What about those people who don't get love?
Waise meri ek story hain last year ,ek ladki jisse main shaadi ke regarding baat kar raha tha use maine reject kr diya for some reason , pata nahin kahan se uski family mere mama ke relatives nikle toh , toh us ladki ki family ne mere mama se bol diya ke aapke bhanje ( yaani maine) ne shaadi karli hain and he is living in bangalore with his wife, when my moron mama told this to my parents they panicked and called me at 11 PM and mom say in sarcastic mode beta rakhi pe akele hi aaoge naa ghar , phir papa ne phone liya aur kaafi man to man conversation hui , then only thing with which i convinced them , ke papa mammi aapko lagta hain aapke bete ki aisi shakal hain ke usse koi ladki love marriage kar legi , tab bole haan beta woh toh hain , us din thodi rahat aur dher saala self doubt mila aur main so gaya !!🤣🤣
Oohh god... That's sad and hilarious at the same time 😅
Tere mama >> shakuni mama >> kans mama >> Katappa mama
Very good summarised the problem. 👏👏
Meri GF Tamil Brahmin hai main Bihari OBC. Mujhe to darr lagg rha hai future ke liye. But she said her parents is liberal & open minded. Still pta nhi kya hoga. We truely love each other 🥰
@@abhijeetkumar2204 bhai kidhar se set kiya apne? College me?
@@619ry7 ye set karna kya hota hai bhai ?😂
@@619ry7shame on u
@@abhijeetkumar2204 "ye set karna kya hota hai bhai ?", really bro, your girl is very lucky to have you. Mature men like you , who are in love, know how to address their women. I hope everything goes in your favour.
parents aur society ke rules aur regulations insanon ke life aur peace se zayda important hain😭
Ha Didi isi bakwaas ko toh Culture kehte
Aur kya rakha humare Culture mein🤣
Ancient Culture vaha marr Chuka Dekh bi nahi raha idhar😂
Bhai aapka ye content style jyada intresting hai 😅
Keep doing it!!!
no bs and properly researched videos
keep making these type of videos and all the best!
P.S. dont frgt to make videos on ur other channel! (especially the mom ones, my mom gets so irritated when i show them to her)
bhai main khoob publicity kar rha hu aapke naye channel ki. theres nothing more enlightening than comic commentating on real life, even better if its well thought out like you.
will continue to watch and support your channel. thank you very much for this
Acha banate ho video, apka comedy wale videos dekh aaya tha but yeh zyada acha laga mujh.....Lots of love and hope this gets much more success than the comedy ones!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯