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@@cheerbowl13She thinks out of the box, as her origins are from an ancient civilization with rich spiritual wisdom. Lord Buddha was the greatest Indian scientist who knew the human mind at the best. Before him, Hindus developed techniques to understand our minds
@@cheerbowl13Dr. Tara, Kerala is calling you. She is the cradle of Ayurveda. She has given Calculus to the world. She use to trade spices with almost all ancient civilizations. Her Kalaripayattu was taken by Bodhidharma to develop Kung Fu in China
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
I disagree. The key is to do healing things not be healed before everything else. That statement is unachievable and anxiety provoking meant to set people up for failure. So healing takes time doesn’t mean put your life on hold.
Biggest takeaway: 1) We attract people with same stress level and wounding as we are 2) how to manifest from action board 3) I need to meet the standard of what I want in a partner 4) I could have hidden parts of me because my parents didn’t love it (meditation)
In addition to meditation for the hidden parts, I would suggest looking into shadow work questions. This way we can go deeper. You can't realise what you aren't aware of and shadow work questions can help with that. ❤
Dr. Tara Swart articulates her thoughts with exceptional eloquence, and I admire her bravery in addressing topics that might typically be met with skepticism within the scientific community. Her willingness to broach these topics is the true spirit of scientific inquiry, which is fundamentally about posing daring questions and venturing into the realms of the unknown. Thanks to both of you for such a treat.
Well the UA-cam channel Wholistic, has proven that the most happy and long lasting relationships are between people who have the same or similar frequency. Oftentimes that doesn't happen. I wish it was that easy. We attract people from past lives that we have unfinished business with.
Lewis, I would love to see you interview my Mentor Doc Rod Lyman at The Reiki Academy in Phoenix/Scottsdale. He wears many hats, and is a Medical Intuitve and Reiki Master. Thank you for this great content on your show. The Doctor is brilliant! Thank you for all you do, you are helping a lot of people! Keep inspiring us! ❤️ 🙏
Working as a nurse at a long term care facility, it was well known that the facility cat would lay or sit on the bed of the resident who was palliative and was near passing.
I can kind of see that. But the other part is that we eventually leave those people behind when we heal our wounds and they don’t. I can definitely see that.
So if a girl is showing interest in me there's a reason we have same frequency? Happened to me in the gym .... But my confidence is so low I never said "hi"
I am a yoga teacher and honestly I can not pin down just one of my biggest take aways from this. This has made me understand the reason why I love what I do and how it’s all connected. Ancient wisdom is not called ancient wisdom for no reason. And the fact we have someone like Tara also representing and backing it all up with modern science, the gratitude is seeping through me ❤ Thank you so so much for this podcast! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and thank you so much for listening to your heart and following it regardless. Neuroscience fascinates me so much. Brain heart coherence, mind body connection, combining spirituality with reality, I love it all! Thank you 🙏🏼❤️🤗
Hey, manifesting love is such a beautiful concept! It's all about putting out positive energy and intentions into the universe to attract love into your life. Whether it's through visualization, affirmations, or simply being open to love, the key is to believe in the power of love and stay open to the possibilities.
My frame of reference is very skewed; I am empathetic to a fault. People manipulate me all the time no matter how self aware I am of my own vulnerabilities. I cannot seem to set healthy boundaries in any of my relationships. Work, kids, romantic, I just suck at it. Being aware of it and working on it doesn’t help; I default to my frame of reference that most people are good. So I cannot rely on my own intuition or intelligence to make good choices. It is embarrassing but at least now I accept who I am.
@@CopingwithGrattitude I'm the same, I attract stoners and I don't know why? And dating a stoner is like being alone, they smoke pot to check out of reality. After my last relationship I decided I was done trying to find love. Years later no dating, low and behold some guy asked me if I wanted to be friends? So I thought sure why not he seems like a nice guy. After our 3rd interaction tells me he is a stoner, of course! why should I expect the script to change?!! I'm really not sure what this is about, why stoners, I'm not a stoner! I don't get it, this is all my life has shown me over and over.
Visualizing and hoping for something or someone and then not having the desired outcome, due to the fact you really don't believe you can, due to life experience and the resulting lack of self- confidence. A quote from Maya Angelou"Stand up straight and realize who you are, that you tower over your circumstances." These words are very encouraging for anyone. As far as who you attract is concerned, I believe hurt people are sometimes attracted to other hurt people without fully realizing the why of the attraction.
I absolutely love the smell of my husband. He also says my smell is intoxicating lol We've been together almost 18 years. Omg I'm LOVING this episode ❤❤
I love it when they talk about smell. It kind of takes me back to Marcel Proust’s Remembrance of Things Past “But when from a long-distant past nothing subsists, after the people are dead, after the things are broken and scattered…the smell and taste of things remain poised a long time, like souls, ready to remind us, waiting and hoping for their moment.” 🌸
Prepare for the blessing/bounty and pray for abundant provision. God We ask You to increase Our territory, Our land; return to Us what the enemy has stolen and what the locusts destroyed and keep Us close to each other in Our hearts💕, as You continue to heal them completely* Amen 🙌 ❤️🔥
I’ve been seeing repeated numbers and hearts everywhere since my mum died and I truly believe that her spirit is around me protecting me. Thank you guys for this video, very helpful information to keep believing and growing. I’m very grateful xx
You also leave people because of your own psychological wounds, not just if you evolve out of them. One of the clues as to which is how you leave them, and if you give them real opportunities to fix, or discuss your point of view. Or whether you lie to and betray them.
Well said. I can guess from this statement that you suffered from some abuse. For that reason, not a lot of people will be able to understand or resonate with what you're saying.
@@Astral.Artistry It is difficult to know what to say. One does not wish to go hard on another undeservingly. Even so, some hardness might be just what they need to strengthen their resolve. So: Learn not to be a doormat without losing who you are, without losing your soul. Remember the words of Jesus - "Love one another as you love yourself". Not more than. Not less than. That is the key. If you enable someone who wishes a person to be a doormat for them, what does that make you? At minimum an accomplice. Think of and set up boundaries founded on this principle (loving not more than or less than yourself). And take it from there. You will of course need resilience and courage, because it's easier to be a doormat if your tendency is to be a martyr. I bring up Jesus again (since you mentioned martyr) - he was not a willing martyr but willing to do the will of his Father. He asked if this cup (events that were going to take place) could pass (not happen) but that he would do what his Father wanted. This proved he was no masochist or crazy fanatic. If he had been a willing doormat his sacrifice would have meant nothing. It would have been his will not his Father's will and thus have undone his example of obeying God's will. In other words, do what you know is right. Not what she wants. Not what you want from her. And things will arrange themselves in the best manner possible. It may be an end of something or a renewal of something, but it will be the right thing.
love your self more choose you- people need to heal their trauma on their own not bc their forced to lose the person the secretly betrayed over 9 years.. you can love and let go
Peace is everything in life. Drama and argumentative people do my head in. We need to trust what we want is for us no one else. Truth means a lot also.
Truly appreciate this intelligent and accessible dialogue. Between Dr Tara’s science-based information & Lewis’s thoughtful, probing questions, they’ve uncovered & offered a wealth of easily digestible information. With gratitude.
The description hits home. My last heartbreak was almost a direct result of me trying to avoid the trauma of my last one. Both were girls from my university courses. And the former heartbreak was me trying not to repeat the mistake of the very first trauma from school. Just got to let them all go and accept I don’t need to make up for any of them. It’s hard though. I really think the last girl could have been great but I overthought and was in the grip of ego given my previous experiences. But then I did get an absolutely horrible response when I tried to reach out and get closure. Time to go all in on me and stop ruminating.
Let all that go and open the door for new and greater possibilities. What the universe "GOD" has prepared for you is someone much more unique special and unique. Those experiences were just the stepping stones preparing you for the next Lady who you can't afford to lose. When you see her your intuition" will let you know. Have faith and believe that the Higher power has your back. Just do the right thing and all the stars will align for you. ✨
@@camuchanomellini903 thank you. Just wish my brain would let it go. Focusing on me now. But tbh I never want to bend myself out of shape for anybody ever again.
@@tedbless8237 I behaved somewhat erratically looking back. But the real issue was after mixed signals I thought I’d be making up for the first heartbreak by making a big play the second time. I thought I knew this woman and if it didn’t come off I’d be let down easy. Just little closure around her blocking/unblocking blocking when she ended it then. I know in the surface that’s mad behaviour anyway but I can’t help but blame myself for getting to that point. Forgiving myself and concentrating on self love. Just wish I didn’t wake up thinking about it everyday
@@TravelItaly14if he is safe to be trusted with your son you could share custody or he can have visitation. If he's not safe or abusive or using then your son is better off with a stable mom.
@@TravelItaly14thank you. There are so many options before walking. Yes there are the bad scenarios, but by and large that is not the case. There is a breakdown in the relationship but it isn’t all garbage. As one moves to higher ground, the other will see this and see they have a choice. I wish marriages had a sabbatical period where couples can learn to grow and become whole to help their family.
I hope you find the strenght to put your wellbeing first. Your son will be much happier with a happy fulfilled mom. And because you deserve to have your romantic life filled with genuine love and proper respect.
This is profound. When i was in a different mental state i attracted the like over the years i have worked on myself and have attracted like minded people. Manifestation is real people.
We give our wounds far too much credit and power in my opinion. While they do contribute to whatever frequency we emit out into the Universe, they are not the totality of what we manifest and attract into our lives. There is LIGHT inside of us as well - a lot of it. And given the opportunity to dominate our awareness over empowering our wounds to run the show, what we attract into our lives will be much more empowering to our existence in this current 3-D experience.
I guess Tara is not the only one connecting spirituality and science. Joe Dispenza is another great example that brings both elements together. I also believe we have reached a level of consciousness that help us all link science with something higher than we know. The more we know, the more questions we discover, the more of the wrong teachings we also uncover, so yes, science will inevitably bring us closer to the source, since science is all about the search of the truth.
An interview with Dr. Elaine Aron would be great. She's an HSP expert. Highly Sensitive Person. I love your show Lewis! Your channel has helped inspire and educate me a lot! Thank you to everyone that makes this show happen! 🙏 ❤
This should be the video everyone should watch in their manifestation journey. Believing is everything it takes to attract what we want, but believing is attached many times to our own perception of worthiness. ❤
This is the duo I never I knew I needed...lol cuties...love this conversation...Thank you both! 😀 My Takeaways: Nature is a powerful healer; 80% of my vision board will come through and when I am on a manifestation hot-streak to ask for more while the energy is incoming; meditation and exercise and nature and cognitive health can be more beneficial and powerful than psychedelics!
I had a friend who spend a while in hospital and he told me once that he had a conversation with a nurse that told him about a case where there had been a heart transplantation and the cured person had dreams about an accident after that regularly. It turned out that the heart came from a person from this accident. Maybe thats why Dr. Swart sees heart shapes all the time, because it is a sign for her to study also the other "brain" in our body. The heart.
Dear Lewis, You are are so good at drawing out Tara’s brilliance and so sincerely interested in what she is pursuing! I found this podcast fascinating! Your kind acceptance and appreciation of her neuroscience investigations supports her efforts.
I just learned about manifestation in 2022. I told myself i will try it out so i started making vision boards. I had achieved a 4.0 gpa in my class and had also achieved a scholarship. I believe that vision board is definitely one hundred percent effective in achieving goals! Dr tara swat is definitely very insoirational. I love her😊
Biggest takeaway: The fact that grief is such a predominant emotion in us. Honestly, it gave me hope. It resonated within my heart that one day I may be able to reach that level of connection with my loved one.
One great thing I got out of this episode is that I should wait to have sex until I have a solid connection with a future partner instead of immediately.
This was an interesting episode, by no means that any less than the others. One personal experience I wish I could share with Tara to have her response: In 2021 when I was walking home a giant hawk was sitting on a very low branch of a tree and a squirrel on another tree was continuously screaming. Squirrels are all over the place where I live but a hawk was near impossible to see. Everybody was recording but scared because the hawk was too close to the ground and we had to walk through there- I was honestly worried about small dogs, squirrels,etc. Later realized the hawk was directly starring at me. This is late evening but not dark yet. Seeing those sharp eyes locked on me scared me like nothing can describe. I did not take my eyes off of the hawk until I get to my building. Next day very early morning I woke up feeling like there was no air to breathe at home. Also I wasn’t feeling ok. Something was off. No brushing teeth or nothing, just grabbed my beanie, winter coat, boots and headed to my favorite dog run to watch them play to feel better.. even texted a friend and told what’s going on. 6 months later accidentally found out that night/early morning my dear grandpa passed away. Nobody even told me- that’s another toxic family story. But how the hawk appeared in the crowded apartment complex and found me to look me in the eyes and next morning the way I woke up and literally got out of the house like there was no oxygen inside…. I still cannot explain. I wonder what would Dr. Tara say 🥺
Native here... hawks are very very spiritual to in our culture. I can almost guarantee the hawk was your grandpa coming to see you one last time before he made his journey 🤍🥹 I hope you can find peace in this.
Delightful voice and very intelligent woman. All the senses are very important. One of the joys of being a carnal being, we get to experience all while living on this earth. Thank you
It is a good question about too much of gratitude. I recently realized that when I am too grateful expressing too much gratitude, I feel like I was not deserving what I am grateful for. Like I am too lucky to have everything. And then questions like “why me?” “why I have it and others don’t?” come along, and I start feeling doubts about myself
Wow. I love Dr. Tara. She gets both streams of consciousness and is open to the historical, mythological, shamed side as well as the hard science. Beautiful.
After watching the whole podcast I just want to say your podcast made me get closer to my religion i.e. Islam. Everything you said has been mentioned in it or is a practice of it. What TARA said about being able to talk to your loved lost ones. I want to share my experience on that. So I lost my father at the age of 15 and to still have that connection here's what I experienced. You can have that experience through dreams. Every time he has come in my dreams and talked to me I have felt the cold and calming energy in my dreams. When I would wake up from having a conversation with him in my dream it would be fajar time i.e muslim morning prayer which is around 4-5 AM. Another time which he would come in my dream is in afternoon. When I would wake up it would be 3 PM. Those dream meetups felt so real and peaceful and I actually had conversation with him. I talked about this to my mother she experienced the exact same thing. She would also see him at those exact same times. I was talking about it to my bestie who lost her mother and she experienced the same things. It's crazy to even think that you can still have a bind after their physical death.
Another thing I would like to add that just popped up in my brain. I remember when he was alive we all were just sitting talking and we started talking about grandma. Now I had never seen her as she passed away before I was born. But something strange happened. We were talking about her and suddenly a sharp smell of flowers or just a very pleasant smell I don't even know what was it but it just filled the room and when we pointed it out it disappeared and I looked at the time it was 3 PM. Ngl we were all like that's strange maybe it was grandma. It's a crazy thing.
it might be true if you are unaware but once you realize about your own psycholgical wounds you simply reject those and open to other people, its not that hard.
Have you ever heard of repetition compulsion? It isn't a conscious pattern. We can be careful of red flags and take things slowly, but when we are dating while wounded, we find that eventually, the other person "makes us" feel the same emotional pattern that a caregiver made us feel (usually whichever caregiver has had their attachment with us broken in some way, whichever parent you're more likely to hide things from, lol). We respond to our partner in the same way we responded to our parents as very young children. Which is why the threat of abandonment is taken so seriously when a person doesn't have secure attachment. They're being thrown back into their childhood, their partner in the here and now is seen as betraying them; the body knows this betrayal and taps into the old energy, piling it on, basically: "here, all of THIS is relevant, might as well move it along since this is the feeling that's tapped on." Healing includes approaching the familiar dynamic in an entirely different way. If we attempt to avoid that dynamic entirely and haven't figured out what we are doing "wrong" in the way we respond, haven't identified the way we want to proactively handle the concern, I have found that the very same pattern will simply show up in a different way, different type of relationship or context. To remove ourselves from the puzzle, we do have to solve it, and be able to take those actions in the world (not simply internally understanding but being able to apply and embody the lesson regularly in our interpersonal behaviors). That has been my experience with it, the last few decades. I was aware of it and what it indicated but I didn't know the information in depth enough to know how to get out of the cycle.
Am I the only one that remembers how people are attracted to each other because of smell and smelling others immune system compatibility with ours from biology??? Why are people so surprised by this when I still remember this from 7th grade bio
All the info is old, but younger generation with more initials behind there names, with a slightly new spin on things.. when we are ready, we can hear things differently ❤🎉😂
This is great. Nearly everything Tara talks about here sounds like Jung. He was sooo ahead of his time. Good to see his theories coming into the mainstream. Great talk! Thank you!
I prefer the form: I appreciate, better than expressing gratitude because gratitude has a connotation of being not good enough to have or receive so you feel thankful for it. Feeling less than and not powerful.
The neurologist's insights is remarkable! However, the interview could have been more enriching if it covered topics like manifestation, the impact of beliefs on health, and the role of a higher power, instead of primarily focusing on relationships.
Yes. Loved it. LEWIS I feel you are always carrying out self therapy whilst interviewing. Very skilled way to self sooth your inner child as well as get great interviews with your guest. Love Tara's work too, she explains it all in laymen terms. Thank you ❤
I love her!! I have meditated in the past. I’m going to make a commitment to do again on the regular. I want to tell you about a recurring dream that I had about my deceased mother and met someone who had the same recurring dream about her deceased father. Come to find out our parents died on the same day!! I met her in Albuquerque New Mexico. I was from Michigan and she was from New Jersey. 🤷♀️. I would love ANY explanation. Thank you 🙏
Listening to Lewis and Dr. Tara its seems to me that it is high time that neuroscience finally collaborate intensively with spirituality. The scientists will find a lot of their questions answered in really diving deep into all forms of meditation, rituals and communication with all that there is.
What a delicious interview! Dr. Tara is so clear and fascinating and she so clearly loves neuroscience and Lewis is so deeply curious and wondrous! What a probing and spiritual/scientific deep dive! I feel so grateful to have heard this 🎉
I think it’s dangerous to say the Shaman’s who’ve been doing Auyahsca ceremonies “don’t need to purge”. If they said “the plants 🌱 “ told them what to do to have this experience, there’s got to be a good reason for the purge.
Plants don't talk or send messages to any one. In the Andes of Peru the Shamans there do not use Ayahuasca to purge people. its wrong its use differently in a more spiritual way. check out "Cuzco Machu Picchu in the country of Peru.
@@Atarabatsarah I believe it is chacruna which containes DMT, Ayahuasca is the conductor wich supports the intake of the molecule through the digestive system.
Thank you Lewis and Tara for one of the best episodes I have listened lately ;) And for clearing out that meditation, healthy food, nutrition, sleep and exercise can do as much or more as psychadelics ;)
The best friendship of my life started from the compliment to my voice. It was something on a very deep and personal level. It's really interesting to hear about it from a neuroscientist.
I enjoyed the entire episode - I’m obsessed with neuroscience and love to learn from her. Thanks for having her on - your Podcast is my favorite, thank you!
I genuinely want to learn, badly... very much so... Will You please* help Me see what in Hindu is like Muslim? I was raised as a Southern Baptist, by My Grandfather Preacher of the Christian(*Baptist only, in His opinion, was the only* acceptable religion. It didn't work for Him, or Our spiritually broken HUGE family...My Mom is 1 of 7->the oldest, who doesn't speak to Me and has encouraged the rest of the family to do the same, as She's the oldest/eldest, and leader...)❤. Need help desperately. Any thoughts of help?
You might enjoy reading about Advaita Vedanta… the basic principle of this ancient Hindu tradition is that external reality and internal reality have no division. Hope it helps, much love!
@@jennifermullin6258 Will You please* help Me see what in Hindu is like Muslim? I don't understand you properly. I know Baptists are a bit extreme in their faith. Attend a Vipassana meditation and any form of meditation to get into touch with Christ's consciousness
Having gratitude within the context that all we could possibly ask for need or want is already in our hands... This is where we create and receive from x
She’s always talking about things I’ve no experience of ie smell, relationships, sex, love etc but still I find her enthusiasm for these topics fascinating!
I can listen to you guys talk about this for several hours. Every topic was so rich with information. I love this stuff and I can tell you really love this too Lewis. Thank you for this, have her back soon!
Me: I suffered a lot because of my alcoholic father. After I graduated from the university my only hope was to marry a man with a beautiful and peaceful family background without wounds from childhood like me. Because all I needed was a partner with happy memories. That's much I was tired with my childhood. Because of that I had to refuse some good guys who asked my love. Just because they had painful childhood too.
Dr. Tara is a real blessing to this world. Thank you, Universe, for bringing her here because she opens my eyes so widely. Thank you, Dr. Tara; you’re simply awesome 🙏
41:07 yes I appreciate this angle cause I’m huge on it and now after years of slowly opening up and showing people I feel more affirmed in my knowing that I’m not crazy lol
Could our thoughts be linked to generations of dna? Not simply an individual self but a cluster of dna that belongs to your lineage - so those thoughts could’ve been your grandfathers or great grandmothers and therefore don’t feel like our own. Super fascinating conversation.
Tara I'm sure you are researching Fibonacci's Sequence -Golden Ratio. I paint clouds and at times integrate this spiral into the visual format of my art. My intention is to create beauty that reflects peace and hope. Check out that in bee hives you can take a hive at any given time and divide number of males by females and it will come out roughly to Fibonacci ratio of 1.618. That is mind blowing to me. Lewis I've been watching your pod for years! Thank you. Natalie
"you can take a hive at any given time and divide number of males by females and it will come out roughly to Fibonacci ratio of 1.618."? This is not true. Male bees are there only during the summer then they are left to die out of the hive. SO this is bullshit
Seeing signs and synchronicities does not mean you should or shouldn't do something, necessarily, it's just an indication that you're attracting that sign you're looking for. You're manifesting it BECAUSE you're thinking about it. You're creating your signs. So, be careful what signs you look for and respond to. Make sure they are ones you WANT to be manifesting. ;-) I LOVE the manifestation topic. And it's wonderful to hear the perspective of a neuroscientist on it. Thank you both for having this amazing discussion!
Lewis, I got up and was driven to your channel, with your amazing guest! I've been listening to you for years, and I used to practice making, "vision boards, and gratitude expression." Thank You for your podcast, and bringing home to remember what we've learned, and implement again in our lives! 😎🎻♥️
Lewis asks if there can be too much gratitude or can it have an adverse effect. Based in research, yes it can, and dependent on culture. For example, in certain cultures, gratitude can prompt feelings of guilt or that “I should have” behaved in certain ways to express I am thankful. When you practice gratitude be mindful it is not accompanied by thoughts or feelings of guilt. Otherwise, it is a signal to deal with the guilt to clear it. ❤
I love this! The entire conversation. Tara is an amazing person and so are you! I’ve become highly interested in learning about neuroscience/neuroplasticity. One thing I’ve noticed though, after watching many you tube videos and listening to many podcasts is that the age differences between the genders when it comes to loving relationships between a man and a woman has never really been discussed, talked about, explained, or addressed. We all know that it is ok or acceptable in society for a man to date or marry a younger woman but when flipped and the woman is 5, 10, 15, or 20 years older than a man, it is not ok, acceptable, and in fact, looked down upon. What say Dr Tara Swart and you about this subject?
Thanks to Tara for sharing her wisdom with us! Leave a “YES” if you enjoyed this and share the biggest moment for you. And make sure to subscribe to never miss out on inspiring content like this again UA-cam.com/lewishowes
Yes!
@@cheerbowl13She thinks out of the box, as her origins are from an ancient civilization with rich spiritual wisdom. Lord Buddha was the greatest Indian scientist who knew the human mind at the best. Before him, Hindus developed techniques to understand our minds
Very accomplished Indian Classical musicians like Aruna Sairam do practice inside their minds.
@@cheerbowl13Dr. Tara, Kerala is calling you. She is the cradle of Ayurveda. She has given Calculus to the world. She use to trade spices with almost all ancient civilizations. Her Kalaripayattu was taken by Bodhidharma to develop Kung Fu in China
Yes. I love most of the episodes you make.
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
is there an ebook for this book?
Heal yourself first before everything else
You are never fully healed 😂
Or learn how to heal in relationship with whomever you are with ;-)
I disagree. The key is to do healing things not be healed before everything else. That statement is unachievable and anxiety provoking meant to set people up for failure. So healing takes time doesn’t mean put your life on hold.
Absolutely!
Sometimes you heal by being in a relationship. It’s common for Borderline patients. Experience can be healing and is sometimes necessary.
Biggest takeaway:
1) We attract people with same stress level and wounding as we are
2) how to manifest from action board
3) I need to meet the standard of what I want in a partner
4) I could have hidden parts of me because my parents didn’t love it (meditation)
thank you!!
What’s the time stamp for point #1
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Thank you @@danielleroyal2911
In addition to meditation for the hidden parts, I would suggest looking into shadow work questions. This way we can go deeper. You can't realise what you aren't aware of and shadow work questions can help with that. ❤
Dr. Tara Swart articulates her thoughts with exceptional eloquence, and I admire her bravery in addressing topics that might typically be met with skepticism within the scientific community. Her willingness to broach these topics is the true spirit of scientific inquiry, which is fundamentally about posing daring questions and venturing into the realms of the unknown. Thanks to both of you for such a treat.
Fully agree with this
We attract those who have the same hurts/hertz; ones who are of the same energetic frequency.
Sometimes love don't feel like it should;
it Hz so good!
Well the UA-cam channel Wholistic, has proven that the most happy and long lasting relationships are between people who have the same or similar frequency. Oftentimes that doesn't happen. I wish it was that easy. We attract people from past lives that we have unfinished business with.
Lewis, I would love to see you interview my Mentor Doc Rod Lyman at The Reiki Academy in Phoenix/Scottsdale. He wears many hats, and is a Medical Intuitve and Reiki Master.
Thank you for this great content on your show. The Doctor is brilliant! Thank you for all you do, you are helping a lot of people! Keep inspiring us! ❤️ 🙏
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This MF Spittin!!!!!!!!!!!
Hurts and HZ (wow!)
Working as a nurse at a long term care facility, it was well known that the facility cat would lay or sit on the bed of the resident who was palliative and was near passing.
Wooow !!! It's one of the things that blew my mind
You had a cat in the ward??
Yes a nursing home. A long term care facility, not acute care. It's more like their home.
@@theresabond8827 Oh that's nice.
I work at a hospital and the environment is so sterile I get happy when I see a moth flying around 😅
I always thought this was something they just put in scary movies. Had no idea it was a real thing 😕
We attract people based on psychological wounds, in other words we attract people of the same frequency
I can kind of see that. But the other part is that we eventually leave those people behind when we heal our wounds and they don’t. I can definitely see that.
@@LeveragedInvesting true 💯
So if a girl is showing interest in me there's a reason we have same frequency?
Happened to me in the gym ....
But my confidence is so low I never said "hi"
@@lavatr8322 exactly
Be the Energy you want to attract 🎉
I am a yoga teacher and honestly I can not pin down just one of my biggest take aways from this. This has made me understand the reason why I love what I do and how it’s all connected. Ancient wisdom is not called ancient wisdom for no reason. And the fact we have someone like Tara also representing and backing it all up with modern science, the gratitude is seeping through me ❤
Thank you so so much for this podcast! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and thank you so much for listening to your heart and following it regardless. Neuroscience fascinates me so much. Brain heart coherence, mind body connection, combining spirituality with reality, I love it all! Thank you 🙏🏼❤️🤗
Very interesting
Hey, manifesting love is such a beautiful concept! It's all about putting out positive energy and intentions into the universe to attract love into your life. Whether it's through visualization, affirmations, or simply being open to love, the key is to believe in the power of love and stay open to the possibilities.
I believed for a long time, all I attract are narcissists. I gave up!
@@CopingwithGrattitude But why
Same here...@@CopingwithGrattitude
My frame of reference is very skewed; I am empathetic to a fault. People manipulate me all the time no matter how self aware I am of my own vulnerabilities. I cannot seem to set healthy boundaries in any of my relationships. Work, kids, romantic, I just suck at it. Being aware of it and working on it doesn’t help; I default to my frame of reference that most people are good. So I cannot rely on my own intuition or intelligence to make good choices. It is embarrassing but at least now I accept who I am.
@@CopingwithGrattitude I'm the same, I attract stoners and I don't know why? And dating a stoner is like being alone, they smoke pot to check out of reality. After my last relationship I decided I was done trying to find love. Years later no dating, low and behold some guy asked me if I wanted to be friends?
So I thought sure why not he seems like a nice guy. After our 3rd interaction tells me he is a stoner, of course! why should I expect the script to change?!! I'm really not sure what this is about, why stoners, I'm not a stoner! I don't get it, this is all my life has shown me over and over.
Visualizing and hoping for something or someone and then not having the desired outcome, due to the fact you really don't believe you can, due to life experience and the resulting lack of self- confidence.
A quote from Maya Angelou"Stand up straight and realize who you are, that you tower over your circumstances." These words are very encouraging for anyone.
As far as who you attract is concerned, I believe hurt people are sometimes attracted to other hurt people without fully realizing the why of the attraction.
I absolutely love the smell of my husband. He also says my smell is intoxicating lol We've been together almost 18 years. Omg I'm LOVING this episode ❤❤
@@lisa-marieshy9673 ty
@@lisa-marieshy9673 what did you sleep with him the first night..
My hubby and I are quite similar. I love the smell of hubby, especially when he sweats..We've been married 4+ decades
Awwwhhhh beautiful
I love it when they talk about smell. It kind of takes me back to Marcel Proust’s Remembrance of Things Past “But when from a long-distant past nothing subsists, after the people are dead, after the things are broken and scattered…the smell and taste of things remain poised a long time, like souls, ready to remind us, waiting and hoping for their moment.” 🌸
I love that book. It may be time to re-read it.
Madeleine experience. He knew about the strength of sense of smell much earlier ❤️
I learnt something new that's, leaving space for the universe for more possibility .
Prepare for the blessing/bounty and pray for abundant provision. God We ask You to increase Our territory, Our land; return to Us what the enemy has stolen and what the locusts destroyed and keep Us close to each other in Our hearts💕, as You continue to heal them completely* Amen 🙌
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I’ve been seeing repeated numbers and hearts everywhere since my mum died and I truly believe that her spirit is around me protecting me.
Thank you guys for this video, very helpful information to keep believing and growing. I’m very grateful xx
The School of Greatness is one of my favorite podcasts, and Dr. Tara is one of my favorite guests! I love you two together. Thanks Lewis and Tara! 🙏🏼🩵
Big thanks for watching! I appreciate your support! 💯🙏🙌
You also leave people because of your own psychological wounds, not just if you evolve out of them. One of the clues as to which is how you leave them, and if you give them real opportunities to fix, or discuss your point of view. Or whether you lie to and betray them.
Well said. I can guess from this statement that you suffered from some abuse. For that reason, not a lot of people will be able to understand or resonate with what you're saying.
@@Astral.Artistry We've "all" been there. I'm no young 'un. I would have appreciated such clarity earlier in life. All the best to you.
@@Astral.Artistry It is difficult to know what to say. One does not wish to go hard on another undeservingly. Even so, some hardness might be just what they need to strengthen their resolve. So:
Learn not to be a doormat without losing who you are, without losing your soul. Remember the words of Jesus - "Love one another as you love yourself". Not more than. Not less than. That is the key. If you enable someone who wishes a person to be a doormat for them, what does that make you? At minimum an accomplice.
Think of and set up boundaries founded on this principle (loving not more than or less than yourself). And take it from there. You will of course need resilience and courage, because it's easier to be a doormat if your tendency is to be a martyr.
I bring up Jesus again (since you mentioned martyr) - he was not a willing martyr but willing to do the will of his Father. He asked if this cup (events that were going to take place) could pass (not happen) but that he would do what his Father wanted. This proved he was no masochist or crazy fanatic. If he had been a willing doormat his sacrifice would have meant nothing. It would have been his will not his Father's will and thus have undone his example of obeying God's will.
In other words, do what you know is right. Not what she wants. Not what you want from her. And things will arrange themselves in the best manner possible. It may be an end of something or a renewal of something, but it will be the right thing.
love your self more choose you- people need to heal their trauma on their own not bc their forced to lose the person the secretly betrayed over 9 years.. you can love and let go
Peace is everything in life. Drama and argumentative people do my head in. We need to trust what we want is for us no one else. Truth means a lot also.
Heal first so you can attract joy love according to who you become
Truly appreciate this intelligent and accessible dialogue. Between Dr Tara’s science-based information & Lewis’s thoughtful, probing questions, they’ve uncovered & offered a wealth of easily digestible information. With gratitude.
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
I console myself with meditation. It switches off worry ,it rests the brain and rejuvinates it and helps anxiety
The description hits home. My last heartbreak was almost a direct result of me trying to avoid the trauma of my last one. Both were girls from my university courses. And the former heartbreak was me trying not to repeat the mistake of the very first trauma from school.
Just got to let them all go and accept I don’t need to make up for any of them.
It’s hard though. I really think the last girl could have been great but I overthought and was in the grip of ego given my previous experiences. But then I did get an absolutely horrible response when I tried to reach out and get closure.
Time to go all in on me and stop ruminating.
Let all that go and open the door for new and greater possibilities. What the universe "GOD" has prepared for you is someone much more unique special and unique. Those experiences were just the stepping stones preparing you for the next Lady who you can't afford to lose. When you see her your intuition" will let you know. Have faith and believe that the Higher power has your back. Just do the right thing and all the stars will align for you. ✨
@@camuchanomellini903 thank you. Just wish my brain would let it go. Focusing on me now. But tbh I never want to bend myself out of shape for anybody ever again.
You have to stay in a love vibration to attract love. You can’t limit your gift to give love. This is prob what happened in your second relationship.
@@tedbless8237 I behaved somewhat erratically looking back. But the real issue was after mixed signals I thought I’d be making up for the first heartbreak by making a big play the second time. I thought I knew this woman and if it didn’t come off I’d be let down easy. Just little closure around her blocking/unblocking blocking when she ended it then. I know in the surface that’s mad behaviour anyway but I can’t help but blame myself for getting to that point.
Forgiving myself and concentrating on self love. Just wish I didn’t wake up thinking about it everyday
@@johndtwaldron understood John we are all learning and all being force to change
This is true… did a lot of meditation and work on myself, and then realized my husband mistreated me. Couldn’t unsee it, so I had to leave.
Good luck ..you have chosen u❤
@@TravelItaly14if he is safe to be trusted with your son you could share custody or he can have visitation. If he's not safe or abusive or using then your son is better off with a stable mom.
Wishing you peace! @@TravelItaly14
@@TravelItaly14thank you. There are so many options before walking. Yes there are the bad scenarios, but by and large that is not the case. There is a breakdown in the relationship but it isn’t all garbage. As one moves to higher ground, the other will see this and see they have a choice. I wish marriages had a sabbatical period where couples can learn to grow and become whole to help their family.
I hope you find the strenght to put your wellbeing first. Your son will be much happier with a happy fulfilled mom. And because you deserve to have your romantic life filled with genuine love and proper respect.
This is profound. When i was in a different mental state i attracted the like over the years i have worked on myself and have attracted like minded people. Manifestation is real people.
We give our wounds far too much credit and power in my opinion. While they do contribute to whatever frequency we emit out into the Universe, they are not the totality of what we manifest and attract into our lives. There is LIGHT inside of us as well - a lot of it. And given the opportunity to dominate our awareness over empowering our wounds to run the show, what we attract into our lives will be much more empowering to our existence in this current 3-D experience.
Beautiful
I love the passion in her voice and eyes - she really loves what she does
I guess Tara is not the only one connecting spirituality and science. Joe Dispenza is another great example that brings both elements together. I also believe we have reached a level of consciousness that help us all link science with something higher than we know. The more we know, the more questions we discover, the more of the wrong teachings we also uncover, so yes, science will inevitably bring us closer to the source, since science is all about the search of the truth.
An interview with Dr. Elaine Aron would be great. She's an HSP expert. Highly Sensitive Person.
I love your show Lewis! Your channel has helped inspire and educate me a lot! Thank you to everyone that makes this show happen! 🙏 ❤
Yes…. That would be enlightening and meaningful to watch.
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This should be the video everyone should watch in their manifestation journey. Believing is everything it takes to attract what we want, but believing is attached many times to our own perception of worthiness. ❤
Also taking action is very crucial in manifesting
This is the duo I never I knew I needed...lol cuties...love this conversation...Thank you both! 😀 My Takeaways: Nature is a powerful healer; 80% of my vision board will come through and when I am on a manifestation hot-streak to ask for more while the energy is incoming; meditation and exercise and nature and cognitive health can be more beneficial and powerful than psychedelics!
The most astounding thing about this episode is that she said she started studying this 30 years ago.
As a 72 year old who has been involved with meditation and all kinds of things since I was 22 her 30 year journey makes sense to me.
I had a friend who spend a while in hospital and he told me once that he had a conversation with a nurse that told him about a case where there had been a heart transplantation and the cured person had dreams about an accident after that regularly. It turned out that the heart came from a person from this accident. Maybe thats why Dr. Swart sees heart shapes all the time, because it is a sign for her to study also the other "brain" in our body. The heart.
Dear Lewis, You are are so good at drawing out Tara’s brilliance and so sincerely interested in what she is pursuing! I found this podcast fascinating! Your kind acceptance and appreciation of her neuroscience investigations supports her efforts.
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
I love what she said about gratitude moving us from cortisol to oxytocin (at 11:10 ish)
I just learned about manifestation in 2022. I told myself i will try it out so i started making vision boards. I had achieved a 4.0 gpa in my class and had also achieved a scholarship. I believe that vision board is definitely one hundred percent effective in achieving goals! Dr tara swat is definitely very insoirational. I love her😊
Action is also why you achieved
Biggest takeaway:
The fact that grief is such a predominant emotion in us.
Honestly, it gave me hope. It resonated within my heart that one day I may be able to reach that level of connection with my loved one.
Do you mean its because grief is such a dominant emotion in humans?
Predominant=before it was dominant? Confusing
Tara, may you be blessed with Peace, Beauty, Freedom and Truth ❤
One great thing I got out of this episode is that I should wait to have sex until I have a solid connection with a future partner instead of immediately.
....*IF* that's what you want!
This was an interesting episode, by no means that any less than the others. One personal experience I wish I could share with Tara to have her response: In 2021 when I was walking home a giant hawk was sitting on a very low branch of a tree and a squirrel on another tree was continuously screaming. Squirrels are all over the place where I live but a hawk was near impossible to see. Everybody was recording but scared because the hawk was too close to the ground and we had to walk through there- I was honestly worried about small dogs, squirrels,etc. Later realized the hawk was directly starring at me. This is late evening but not dark yet. Seeing those sharp eyes locked on me scared me like nothing can describe. I did not take my eyes off of the hawk until I get to my building.
Next day very early morning I woke up feeling like there was no air to breathe at home. Also I wasn’t feeling ok. Something was off. No brushing teeth or nothing, just grabbed my beanie, winter coat, boots and headed to my favorite dog run to watch them play to feel better.. even texted a friend and told what’s going on. 6 months later accidentally found out that night/early morning my dear grandpa passed away. Nobody even told me- that’s another toxic family story. But how the hawk appeared in the crowded apartment complex and found me to look me in the eyes and next morning the way I woke up and literally got out of the house like there was no oxygen inside…. I still cannot explain. I wonder what would Dr. Tara say 🥺
Thank you for sharing it touched me deeply.
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
Native here... hawks are very very spiritual to in our culture. I can almost guarantee the hawk was your grandpa coming to see you one last time before he made his journey 🤍🥹 I hope you can find peace in this.
Delightful voice and very intelligent woman. All the senses are very important. One of the joys of being a carnal being, we get to experience all while living on this earth. Thank you
It is a good question about too much of gratitude. I recently realized that when I am too grateful expressing too much gratitude, I feel like I was not deserving what I am grateful for. Like I am too lucky to have everything. And then questions like “why me?” “why I have it and others don’t?” come along, and I start feeling doubts about myself
I also find Dr. Tara s altogether loveliness, such a charming soothing person. 💙✨
Wow. I love Dr. Tara.
She gets both streams of consciousness and is open to the historical, mythological, shamed side as well as the hard science.
Beautiful.
After watching the whole podcast I just want to say your podcast made me get closer to my religion i.e. Islam. Everything you said has been mentioned in it or is a practice of it.
What TARA said about being able to talk to your loved lost ones. I want to share my experience on that. So I lost my father at the age of 15 and to still have that connection here's what I experienced. You can have that experience through dreams. Every time he has come in my dreams and talked to me I have felt the cold and calming energy in my dreams. When I would wake up from having a conversation with him in my dream it would be fajar time i.e muslim morning prayer which is around 4-5 AM. Another time which he would come in my dream is in afternoon. When I would wake up it would be 3 PM. Those dream meetups felt so real and peaceful and I actually had conversation with him.
I talked about this to my mother she experienced the exact same thing. She would also see him at those exact same times. I was talking about it to my bestie who lost her mother and she experienced the same things. It's crazy to even think that you can still have a bind after their physical death.
Another thing I would like to add that just popped up in my brain. I remember when he was alive we all were just sitting talking and we started talking about grandma. Now I had never seen her as she passed away before I was born. But something strange happened. We were talking about her and suddenly a sharp smell of flowers or just a very pleasant smell I don't even know what was it but it just filled the room and when we pointed it out it disappeared and I looked at the time it was 3 PM. Ngl we were all like that's strange maybe it was grandma. It's a crazy thing.
it might be true if you are unaware but once you realize about your own psycholgical wounds you simply reject those and open to other people, its not that hard.
Depends on how deep your wounds are.
Yes I respectfully disagree on the difficulty point. It can be incredibly hard to break old habits. Simple but not easy, perhaps.
Have you ever heard of repetition compulsion? It isn't a conscious pattern. We can be careful of red flags and take things slowly, but when we are dating while wounded, we find that eventually, the other person "makes us" feel the same emotional pattern that a caregiver made us feel (usually whichever caregiver has had their attachment with us broken in some way, whichever parent you're more likely to hide things from, lol).
We respond to our partner in the same way we responded to our parents as very young children. Which is why the threat of abandonment is taken so seriously when a person doesn't have secure attachment. They're being thrown back into their childhood, their partner in the here and now is seen as betraying them; the body knows this betrayal and taps into the old energy, piling it on, basically: "here, all of THIS is relevant, might as well move it along since this is the feeling that's tapped on."
Healing includes approaching the familiar dynamic in an entirely different way. If we attempt to avoid that dynamic entirely and haven't figured out what we are doing "wrong" in the way we respond, haven't identified the way we want to proactively handle the concern, I have found that the very same pattern will simply show up in a different way, different type of relationship or context.
To remove ourselves from the puzzle, we do have to solve it, and be able to take those actions in the world (not simply internally understanding but being able to apply and embody the lesson regularly in our interpersonal behaviors). That has been my experience with it, the last few decades. I was aware of it and what it indicated but I didn't know the information in depth enough to know how to get out of the cycle.
This is exactly how I found my husband. It is possible.
Thanks for reminding me that we humans have Psychological Disorders ❤❤❤ It’s great to hear from a Neuroscientist ❤❤❤
Came here from insta reel..glad i found this podcast... One of the best i have heard until now... 🙌🙏
Am I the only one that remembers how people are attracted to each other because of smell and smelling others immune system compatibility with ours from biology??? Why are people so surprised by this when I still remember this from 7th grade bio
I remember that too.
All the info is old, but younger generation with more initials behind there names, with a slightly new spin on things.. when we are ready, we can hear things differently ❤🎉😂
healthy , not toxic smells
Never heard of attraction by smell. I'm 46. Perhaps I didn't listen in biology class.
@@jessejules2092 pheromones?
This is great. Nearly everything Tara talks about here sounds like Jung. He was sooo ahead of his time. Good to see his theories coming into the mainstream. Great talk! Thank you!
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
I absolutely loved the energy between the both of you. Makes everything you both spoke about even more interesting. Thank you 👍😊
I prefer the form: I appreciate, better than expressing gratitude because gratitude has a connotation of being not good enough to have or receive so you feel thankful for it. Feeling less than and not powerful.
The neurologist's insights is remarkable! However, the interview could have been more enriching if it covered topics like manifestation, the impact of beliefs on health, and the role of a higher power, instead of primarily focusing on relationships.
Yes. Loved it. LEWIS I feel you are always carrying out self therapy whilst interviewing. Very skilled way to self sooth your inner child as well as get great interviews with your guest. Love Tara's work too, she explains it all in laymen terms. Thank you ❤
“Change 10 things by 1 percent, not one thing by 10 percent.” That’s The Aggregation of Marginal Gains.
I love her!! I have meditated in the past. I’m going to make a commitment to do again on the regular. I want to tell you about a recurring dream that I had about my deceased mother and met someone who had the same recurring dream about her deceased father. Come to find out our parents died on the same day!! I met her in Albuquerque New Mexico. I was from Michigan and she was from New Jersey. 🤷♀️. I would love ANY explanation. Thank you 🙏
This doctor is a brilliant visionary with groundbreaking facts that absolutely improve quality of life. ❤
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
I love the self-empowerment anecdotes here. A lot of what we need can be found in nature and by extension-- in us. Thank you!
Listening to Lewis and Dr. Tara its seems to me that it is high time that neuroscience finally collaborate intensively with spirituality. The scientists will find a lot of their questions answered in really diving deep into all forms of meditation, rituals and communication with all that there is.
@@katinkakulensfeistl yes it always comes down to spiritual..
What a delicious interview! Dr. Tara is so clear and fascinating and she so clearly loves neuroscience and Lewis is so deeply curious and wondrous! What a probing and spiritual/scientific deep dive! I feel so grateful to have heard this 🎉
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
I think it’s dangerous to say the Shaman’s who’ve been doing Auyahsca ceremonies “don’t need to purge”. If they said “the plants 🌱 “ told them what to do to have this experience, there’s got to be a good reason for the purge.
Plants don't talk or send messages to any one. In the Andes of Peru the Shamans there do not use Ayahuasca to purge people. its wrong its use differently in a more spiritual way. check out "Cuzco Machu Picchu in the country of Peru.
@@Atarabatsarah I believe it is chacruna which containes DMT, Ayahuasca is the conductor wich supports the intake of the molecule through the digestive system.
Thank you Lewis and Tara for one of the best episodes I have listened lately ;) And for clearing out that meditation, healthy food, nutrition, sleep and exercise can do as much or more as psychadelics ;)
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
Loved this conversation 🙏 I really appreciate the honesty and authenticity of you both - bringing a new paradigm to the world.
The best friendship of my life started from the compliment to my voice. It was something on a very deep and personal level. It's really interesting to hear about it from a neuroscientist.
Super guest, super questions, and where they were going - It kept me watching. This is worth forwarding to others.
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
The analogy of cats being able to smell death is true.
What do you mean by this ?
Absolutely true! Africans know this fully well. In the case of cats, sometimes they disappear a couple of day before the death occurs.
Truly enjoyed this thoughtful conversation. The chemistry between Dr Tara and Lewis is just refreshing. ❤
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
Thank you for freeing me because you're free & truthful to yourself.❤
I enjoyed the entire episode - I’m obsessed with neuroscience and love to learn from her. Thanks for having her on - your Podcast is my favorite, thank you!
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
What an incredible well spoken, charming and spiritually deep woman. Thank you!!!!!!
Dr. Tara as a scientist of indian origin is actually talking about the ancient Indian spiritual wisdom be it Hinduism or Buddhism. Thanks
I genuinely want to learn, badly... very much so... Will You please* help Me see what in Hindu is like Muslim? I was raised as a Southern Baptist, by My Grandfather Preacher of the Christian(*Baptist only, in His opinion, was the only* acceptable religion. It didn't work for Him, or Our spiritually broken HUGE family...My Mom is 1 of 7->the oldest, who doesn't speak to Me and has encouraged the rest of the family to do the same, as She's the oldest/eldest, and leader...)❤. Need help desperately. Any thoughts of help?
You might enjoy reading about Advaita Vedanta… the basic principle of this ancient Hindu tradition is that external reality and internal reality have no division. Hope it helps, much love!
@@jennifermullin6258 Will You please* help Me see what in Hindu is like Muslim? I don't understand you properly. I know Baptists are a bit extreme in their faith. Attend a Vipassana meditation and any form of meditation to get into touch with Christ's consciousness
@@iankibria1600 thank You
Having gratitude within the context that all we could possibly ask for need or want is already in our hands... This is where we create and receive from x
You had an amazing guest,liked what she had said,be careful what you wished for. Peace must come within you not from the outside.😊❤
She’s always talking about things I’ve no experience of ie smell, relationships, sex, love etc but still I find her enthusiasm for these topics fascinating!
I can listen to you guys talk about this for several hours. Every topic was so rich with information. I love this stuff and I can tell you really love this too
Lewis. Thank you for this, have her back soon!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Me: I suffered a lot because of my alcoholic father. After I graduated from the university my only hope was to marry a man with a beautiful and peaceful family background without wounds from childhood like me. Because all I needed was a partner with happy memories. That's much I was tired with my childhood. Because of that I had to refuse some good guys who asked my love. Just because they had painful childhood too.
You two were siblings in a past life (or many lives) :) very cute energy here & loved all the topics from Tara!
Dr. Tara is a real blessing to this world. Thank you, Universe, for bringing her here because she opens my eyes so widely. Thank you, Dr. Tara; you’re simply awesome 🙏
I think I’m getting closer to my match, I’m attracting guys closer to what I’m looking for 😊
She has so much credibility that her speaking about these subjects is groundbreaking and will help many ❤❤
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
I struggle. I try to be positive and grateful. How do you deal with a negative spouse?
Love love love this woman and this conversation ❤
Thank you so much for watching!
Please have Tara back on, she's great! Really fascinating, intelligent and wonderful human!
Thank you for this wonderful conversation and the great energy between you two.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!
@00:13:45 I heard one thing. When you wake up in the morning and you have 3 things, then you are a King:
1.Health
2.Food
3.A roof over your head
It’s all very complicated, but our senses can be manipulated by our environment. Staying in the now helps us to remain in our vision.
My biggest takeaway was to brave the Universe and its messages for me, for the collective and for this world and beyond. Thank you, sincerely. ❤
So many take aways. Excited to see her sacred geometry project. Keep us posted.
41:07 yes I appreciate this angle cause I’m huge on it and now after years of slowly opening up and showing people I feel more affirmed in my knowing that I’m not crazy lol
It's all about frequency.
Tara, you are so good combining all existing knowledge. Thank you so much ❤❤ From Toronto 🇨🇦💞
I’m big on smells. There’s something about a persons natural scent that just draws me to someone
Could our thoughts be linked to generations of dna? Not simply an individual self but a cluster of dna that belongs to your lineage - so those thoughts could’ve been your grandfathers or great grandmothers and therefore don’t feel like our own. Super fascinating conversation.
Great question
Yes relationships are defo give and take,its not a relationship if you are the one giving all the time
Tara I'm sure you are researching Fibonacci's Sequence -Golden Ratio. I paint clouds and at times integrate this spiral into the visual format of my art. My intention is to create beauty that reflects peace and hope. Check out that in bee hives you can take a hive at any given time and divide number of males by females and it will come out roughly to Fibonacci ratio of 1.618. That is mind blowing to me. Lewis I've been watching your pod for years! Thank you. Natalie
"you can take a hive at any given time and divide number of males by females and it will come out roughly to Fibonacci ratio of 1.618."? This is not true. Male bees are there only during the summer then they are left to die out of the hive. SO this is bullshit
Seeing signs and synchronicities does not mean you should or shouldn't do something, necessarily, it's just an indication that you're attracting that sign you're looking for. You're manifesting it BECAUSE you're thinking about it. You're creating your signs. So, be careful what signs you look for and respond to. Make sure they are ones you WANT to be manifesting. ;-) I LOVE the manifestation topic. And it's wonderful to hear the perspective of a neuroscientist on it. Thank you both for having this amazing discussion!
Love this podcast. You both have given us a great conversation to listen to. Much appreciated, thank you
Loved her from the previous interview. I’m so excited to learn more from her. Thanks for this interview, Lewis !
You're welcome, thank you for tuning in 🧡
@@lewishowes do you believe in God?
Yes, from Canada. I ordered her book yesterday, and it just dropped on my doorstep. I can't wait to dive in!
Lewis, I got up and was driven to your channel, with your amazing guest! I've been listening to you for years, and I used to practice making, "vision boards, and gratitude expression." Thank You for your podcast, and bringing home to remember what we've learned, and implement again in our lives! 😎🎻♥️
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
Have gratitude for everything I always think happiness and HEALTH is IT. WITH THOSE TWO THINGS EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE...... ❤
Lewis asks if there can be too much gratitude or can it have an adverse effect. Based in research, yes it can, and dependent on culture. For example, in certain cultures, gratitude can prompt feelings of guilt or that “I should have” behaved in certain ways to express I am thankful. When you practice gratitude be mindful it is not accompanied by thoughts or feelings of guilt. Otherwise, it is a signal to deal with the guilt to clear it. ❤
Then one is shifting in & out of gratitude to those other "wobbles" of guilt etc. Guilt is different vibe that gratitude.
I love this! The entire conversation. Tara is an amazing person and so are you! I’ve become highly interested in learning about neuroscience/neuroplasticity. One thing I’ve noticed though, after watching many you tube videos and listening to many podcasts is that the age differences between the genders when it comes to loving relationships between a man and a woman has never really been discussed, talked about, explained, or addressed. We all know that it is ok or acceptable in society for a man to date or marry a younger woman but when flipped and the woman is 5, 10, 15, or 20 years older than a man, it is not ok, acceptable, and in fact, looked down upon. What say Dr Tara Swart and you about this subject?