One of the best feelings is when you're talking with a girl, and the conversation flows naturally and doesn't stop, and it doesn't end until either of you decides to stop talking. Those are the girls you want to date, not those who aren't interested in you and don't want to hold up a conversation with you. Interest and conversation go both ways, and if she's not interested in holding up the conversation with you, she isn't the girl you should be dating. Don't settle for anything else.
Definetly dont be playful and flirty unless you wanna get jumped 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ its high risk high reward and most ppl cannot do it right. Plus if youre ugly dont be playful just rely on being funny. But the rest is really good advice
@@R9naldo anyone with common sense would just make their physique better before trying to get girls, so why are you saying “if ur ugly don’t be playful and just rely on being funny” like stfu 😂
Notes: - admit you often have dry or boring texts with a girl rather than being arrogant. it is always better to accept your flaws and use them to improve than staying in denial where you are - stop asking boring questions - ei: "hey wyd haha?" "hey whats up?" "how was your day?" - be playful, flirty, and s*xual with your messages - ei: instead of says "wyd," say something playful such as "I bet you're stepping on snails right now" *- do not let her burn the conversation to the ground.* *- if she asks you a boring question such as one of the ones listed above, just ignore it and move on to whatever you want to say* *- ei: she might text you saying "how was your day?," and you might respond with "I bet you're stepping on snails right now"* - make her emotionally invested in you - make her think about you, even if it is a negative emotion - the more emotions you can appeal to, the better it will end up for you
its so strange how that stepping on snails line works so easily. it confuses them so they then get more invested in the conversation than they would be with a normal response.
Hamza, I just wanted to say, your daily uploads keep me going everyday. I have been going through a rough breakup and realized how stagnant in life I have been. I finally began my pursuit of manhood, and I want to say your daily uploads remind me to keep pushing forward. I never comment on videos but I just had to personally thank you on the off chance that you do see this comment.
Damn, I been stagnant for like three years now, and just starting a month after you. More so than Hamza, seeing a person going through same stuff, you are my inspiration bro. I hope you still stay strong.
For having testing this concept just recently. I can assure you that what Hamza states is awfully true. Girls who feel nothing for you, don't even look at you, don't come near you, never text you because YOU, yes YOU, the Supposed to be man, haven't made her feel anything. So you're no one to her. If you can't spark any emotions in girls, you will struggle. Seeing that keeping always the positive mindset didnt work most of the time, I chose the more realistic approach possible. A girl makes you mad, then react. Don't ever be afraid of a girl's reaction. If you're afraid of her leaving, chances are 1000 to 1 against you, that she's just using you or that she couldnt care less of you and you know it but you prefer lying to yourself. GIrls who hate you, will still sleep with you. The most important thing is that GIRLS must speak of you. Girls don't ever talk about guys they aren't interested in. Don't care if it's positive or negative, the fact that they talk about you, means that they acknowledge your existence and if you aren't looking like Gollum. Then you are on the right path. Nothing works for you with girls ? Try the opposite. It has done wonders for me ! Just never go to an extreme.
Everything he said, I look back and also realize is true in this video. All the girls I didnt particularly care for, I treated exactly how he said to do, and they were wayyy into me. But all the ones I was seriously interested in, could not have gave a fuck. The problem for me is getting rid of that disconnect and not caring about the ones im interested in haha
@Gav Liddle that is true but some girls do it on purpose to get a reaction from you. Some girls I had were turned on when I was Mad and angry and when I was cussing at them ... I had a really freaky afternoon just after getting real Mad at one girl and she said those words : "You're so handsome when you're mad" just after finished business. I would have never known this side of girls if I would have forever stayed a nice guy
You literally confirmed what I've been doing this whole time, and a couple days after watching this video I got the girl that I first started my self-improvement journey for... Thank you. Along the way I have gotten way more confident, I haven't felt depressed ever since I got a gym membership, and even if we eventually break up with this girl, I know I won't be broken or sad. Self-improvement is a beautiful thing.
I remember sometime in October I was texting a girl and it was going well then she left me on read for 16 days. When she finally responded and was all like "sorry I took so long, I suck at responding" I didn't say anything to her I just moved on, never texted back and got to a bag 💰. It felt so good.
Man tbh the reason she probably stop responding was because you was just wasting time and texts were reaching nowhere she must have been just waiting to say lets link up on some shi
Most people dont operate at a higher level spiritually thats why most women need this "bad boy" persona to keep her busy with dopamine or seeking another kick. Its for low quality people. Ive dated women who did not need this superficial bs. Sadly rare to find these kind of people.
In this context yeah it's a video game. In the real world, when you're trying to make actual friends and connect with them, is when you wanna take interest.
Hes made plenty of videos about that, so yes. Think about it, you wanna date someone who doesn't take care of their health or hygiene? Why should women?
@@louisstout9952 they mean genetically unattractive....what ur talking about is circumstantial unattractiveness. An example is someone whos fat, but if they lost weight would be very handsome/beautiful. But what the person was talking about was a person who is actually unnatractive. No amount of muscle,skincare products will change it
*The importance of incorporating humor and light-heartedness into conversations can’t be overstated. Keeping things fun not only avoids dryness but also helps build rapport.*
The most useful thing I did for my texting game was to go on dates in person. Learning how to talk to someone in the most difficult/intimidating way makes easy popcorn conversation like texting so easy.
Something Ive noticed. Chicks are more masculine over text, but as soon as you try a phone call or in person conversation, they shut down. Kinda crazy.
@@50shadesofcerakote yeah they’re used to that dynamic where dudes are too scared to talk and then they want to be cute enough that you’ll be into them
What I've Learned: 1. Always ignore their questions 2. Reply with an accusation. Preferably related to stepbrother porn 2. Make your receiver emotionally distraught. 4. Repeat
I think you misinterpreted it. These are just some ways to tap into other emotions apart from happiness (which literally everyones tries to do). I agree that these example are a little too harsh so I too wouldn't use them.
I wasn't convinced after the video I got to be honest. But after trying it, I couldn't believe how easy that was. The conversation just flowed effortlessly. Thanks Hamza much love.
The phone is for setting dates dont overtext and spill all your secrets, have a quick exchange, make an excuse you're busy after a few messages if it drags on and then set the date, works best.
Just started a chat with a girl over IG she complimented my eye colour and now I have nothing to say. And you uploaded this video. Bro you are a G . Thanks
ever since I started watching your videos, I've been seeing major improvement in my life man. thanks a lot Hamza, you're my lifesaver, that's why I consider you my life mentor. ❤️
Hello sir ( Anyone reading this please reply) This is my daily schedule 7-8:30 - Yoga, and preparing for office. 8:30-10 - Travel to office 10 - 6:30 - office 6:30 - 7:45 - travel back home 8 - 9 - Gym 9 - 9:30- Prepare dinner 9:30 - 9:45 - dinner 9:45 - 10: 30 - video editing 10:30 - 11:00 - learn new songs on guitar/record vocals 11 - 11:30 - read book Sir how should I get more time as I am unable to get success and still struggling. How should I get success faster and escape this 8-8 job loop. Please help as I am suffering this since 3 years and people behind me came forward and are successful.
1.5 hour commute... see if there's a way you can work remotely, or find a job closer to you. You can also same time on prepping for dinner by cooking a week's worth of meal at once, separating it into tupperware, and keeping it in the fridge/frozen until you're ready to eat it.
I don’t know how helpful this will be but a few weeks back I saw a video to save up enough money for atleast a few months of living expenses so you can quit your job and learn to make money instead Goodluck 😅
Thank you Hamza, my social skills have gone up a lot these last months. I used to be a loner, and. now I have a lot of friends and have been getting more successful with girls
Any time I send out a text message to a chick I get a panic attack because I’m literally putting myself out there to get ghosted. Texting is a scary world, man.
This video is helping me connect the dots. Whenever I send random shit whether its offensive or hilarious, I get a response. Never understood why I got responses every time.
Thank you Hamza, I've been with a lot of girls in my life, I'm older than you and usually these dating videos aren't super relevant to me. BUT! I've ALWAYS sucked at texting, I don't like it and exactly like you say I've had almost every tinder conversation die out. IRL I'm comfortable and have no problems hooking up because I don't think too much about what I say and why I just do it. But you just taught me why my texting is shit, this was super useful and feels like an eye opener. I'll be implementing these tips, I wrote them down to remember them. Thanks man!
HAMZA! Theres this girl thats into me and I didn't want to fumble, so I did the thing where you ignore her dry question and respond as if she never even asked and bro it actually works shes been complementing me and all sorts of stuff! THANK YOU HAMZA legitimet advice
Hey Hamza, I'm pretty good in texting and also actually talking. But the issue is exactly what you said, most girls are completely boring, and I can't get my head around the "one night stand" culture anymore. It's okay for some time, a year or two, but then it's literally impossible to maintain even a short-term relationship because no matter how atractive someone is, they can prove to be the most uninteresting and uninspiring human being. I get so excited to talk to a new beautiful girl sometimes that it's actually heartbreaking. Anyone else gets this feeling?
All day. Most women are one dimensional because they don’t have real life experiences, they live through social media, so their conversations always fall flat
I'm a G and I still know I can ALWAYS improve my masculinity and how I present myself to others. Not just for dating but for every aspect of life like business, family, etc. I want to be the master of my own reality. Full self control and discipline is pure masculinity.
I will say, these tips imply that its the guy still chasing. I would rather promote ATTRACTION tips so the girl is doing the pursuing and you've baited her interest in. Chasing women is the worst downhill slippery slope that men don't even realize they're slowly becoming the submissive chaser without realizing it - just ramping up in pursuit/chase every time they talk to a new girl.
Self improvement has helped me with girls, and I can confidently say there are girls going crazy for me. I'm so thankful for discovering Hamza because my life is so much better now.
You are a great man Hamza. First time I stumbled upon your channel I was critical like I was with a lot of things. Then I actually took some time to view your videos and I respect you and what you are doing very much. Your content is something many men don't like to hear, but need to.
even a year later, I had to come back and listen to Master Hamza, I was off the dating scene for about 2 years and recently tried getting back into it. One thiing was very clear, I was not half of what I was 2 years ago i've lost my game so this vid was really helpful. Lmao I was allowing the girl to burn the conversation to the ground
8:44 had me rolling, that is so accurate 😭 I just realized how boring it is when a girl leads the convo after you talked about your tactic, I'm gonna use it when I get the chance.
Man I'm really glad that we are getting actionable advice here. Most advice on how to get girls nowadays is to be on your path but what about the guys who have been on self improvement for 5 years and just need the simple behavioural tweaks to start attracting. Thank you for the info in this video Hamza
I saw this video TODAY. And right TODAY I applied some concepts in here and it worked like magic. Reaaally smooth. Just text for now but hopefully I will keep learning.
Hamza first of all thank you and love from India and you help millions of teenager to improve their life through self improvement and I'm the one 16 years old working on their dreams who played games all day 2 months before Thank you hamza❤
Out of the topic of this video Hamza, I wanted to thank you for every single vid you've delivered. Right now I am a 16 year old, from India. Inspired by examples like you and ICEcold JT, I've come the farthest I ever did on self improvement, it's almost like a spike from a flatline base in the self improvement graph ever since I got into watching you two. The amount of valid confidence I've built over the already existing but kinda invalid one is just absurd. I'm legitimately doing better at studying, at basketball, was already proficient in social interaction but getting even better, getting girls to notice me (not AS important but yeah it's natural for us men to desire that as well) and overall becoming a better person. I saw your "welcome to the cult" vid where you gave the pyramid illustration, and I can proudly say I've recently reached level 3, a bloomer, and huge part of that goes to you. I always had it in me but angels like you and JT have amplified the drive so much more. Thanks a lot, and I'll keep pushing further and further even after this. :)
Honestly texting is so frequent and accessible now I think it's a moot point to try to build any engagement over text and to build it in person. Sure text them back to make plans and such but keep your personality for in front of someone until you build a relationship with them. This goes for dates and friends as well imo - I prefer to be on my phone less now and build relationships in front of people. When professionally networking, text properly and be necessarily verbose. But with women and friends, the best connections are built with in-person time
100% agree , once i started texting my girl more and complimenting her more via text and replying faster, she would give me dry responses and didn’t seem as interested in me- the times she seemed most intrested was when i didn’t answer her texts for some time funny how that works
@@ghost0861 The weird thing is i accidently used the not reply tactic involuntarily with my now ex-girlfriend and i didn't even realize i was doing it bruh no wonder
Hey! Need answer ASAP... Should i firstly go and talk to the girl in direct conversation in person or to message her via IG? We had a whole week of just looking at each-other from distance, like keeping eye contact for 5-6 seconds a few times when we see each other on bus... (btw i am 16, and also i never had gf before)
@@borutotwobluevortexx Man okay well I would suggest you try and talk to her direct but I feel the others might have better advice but I personally think direct should be the best
@@borutotwobluevortexx bro talk to her in person first. From the way she replies and talks to you, you'd get to know if she is actually into you or not. Starting a conversation with a girl for the first time via text makes her think you lack confidence. Hopefully this helps
bro, thank you for all these advice vids, I started watching your videos almost 2 yrs ago, I have been with my wife for 2.5 yrs thanks to your vids which helped me fix our relationship. thx much brother
Hamza your channel has been a saviour for many people including me brahh, I started hitting the gym, I meditate every day, I journal and Life is going only up from now on ❤️❤️
Guys if u are the one always starting the conversation don’t. Wait for her to talk first to check if she is interested and tell her that u done it on purpose that u didn’t text her because she will reply and understand that u care about her and she is going to want to talk more and have u on her mind knowing that there’s you being there for her
Oh my god I'm so glad I don't use tinder Texting tech support BC u got dumped just made my day But now you are a leader Hamza You yourself said to learn from your mistakeful past Never stop improving Kings!
It’s also important to understand that a playful approach won’t always work either even if you’ve matched. I sent the same message to 2 different girls and 1 wanted to meet up and the other unmatched me.
Hamza id dont know how, but in all my time of watching a lot of youtubers talk about getting girls etc, you are the only channel when after watching a video, i have a clear image of what i am doing wrong and how to do it right. Thanks brother
Secret #3… another thing to do is say you’re doing something really cool .. make her laugh and think no way that’s true (but maybe?) it’s mysterious, keeps her thinking about you
Bro Hamza you're right ,i just tried it and i saw a Little results,most of men are not confident and afraid of says things that we think are not polite,thanks brah,you opened my eyes a Little bit
God damn. I didn't know how bad I needed this added into my self-improvement journey. Still wondering if we can get a Video to refresh our knowledge about Self-Improvement and how to get back on the right track if we failed (because I did and it's wierdly not the same as the point I started). But still a fucking legendary video. Grateful that you exist Hamazaza. ❤
When i talk to a girl i do these secrets but not in a conscious way. Like i can speak to girls using the secrets you talked about its really easy and the conversation doesnt die out. I also do that to some of my friends and they will be confused as hell. They said im the most undriest person to speak to and its quite nice that you, Hamza, do the same
I tested this out while i was watching this video and texted a girl saying: "i bet you $20 you're laying on the floor rn" and that INSTANTLY made our conversations more funny and engaging good stuff Hamza.
If one thing is certain, these are very VERY effective tactics, I've been talking to this girl for 2 weeks and she always seems eager to talk to me, several convos happened in real time, and she's always quick to respond to me ASAP.
I just realised something, the goal should be to annoy all the girls you meet (in a playful way of course) instead of trying to make her happy. Don't give her what she wants (which is happiness), just confuse the fuck out of her
A follow up vidoe to this should be…once you’ve texted, secured the date or whatever, then what? So you don’t come across dry in person, you can continue the fun!
Just sent a flirty sexual test to a girl I matched with a few days ago while watching this video. She went from 1 text a day to texting me 4 times in the last 10 minutes. God how have I forgotten all the tricks to this dating crap. I've been out of the scene for too long. My knowledge and form are shot. Time to do the Hamza refresher course hasha
Hey Hamza, could you make a video on how people younger than 18 can start to improve their relationship with girlfriend/friend and how to make a move. Thos would mean the world to me as I'm struggling. Cheers.
Nah tip 3 actually works crazy. Its funny when a girl asks you a question like that and you ignore it like she didn't say anything, but she returns to the conversation even more invested and engaged
Yup.. I can confirm this. I have done this unintentionally because I want to amuse myself. Only realised it after a girl pointed it out. 'The man that would always give different answer when asking question'. Meaning that that girl remember me eventhough I rarely talk to her.. Lol
I don't have conversations over text. If I'm texting someone, it's to set up some time to meet up in person. Texting isn't even remotely comparable with talking - body language, cadence, inflection et cetera are all absent. Heck, people don't even have the same personality over text that they do in real life.
You need be a certain level to use that step brother line. Most guys wouldn't be able to pull it off and a lot of girls will find you weird or creepy. That being said Hamza's advice to be random is very effective. To that I'd add on the idea that you should always have a purpose in your conversation. Don't just ask 'what u up to?' but maybe ask her for her opinion on something interesting or start a conversation about taking her out or making her your girlfriend. For example if it's the first time you're speaking to this girl, don't start with 'Hey, what you up to?' but maybe text her 'What time am I taking you out?' or 'What are we naming the kids?' That's the kind of playful texting that's going to show her that you're interested in her while keeping her engaged and showing that you're confident. It won't always work on everyone but once you've levelled up your looks and self-confidence, you'll find many more girls playing along.
One of the best feelings is when you're talking with a girl, and the conversation flows naturally and doesn't stop, and it doesn't end until either of you decides to stop talking. Those are the girls you want to date, not those who aren't interested in you and don't want to hold up a conversation with you. Interest and conversation go both ways, and if she's not interested in holding up the conversation with you, she isn't the girl you should be dating. Don't settle for anything else.
you are a total Jeffrey bro!
@@dabocousin bro exactly I was abt to say the same thing, he a whole npc 😭😭
He has typed this 3 times before
No hate guys 🤣
So true mate
1) stop asking boring ass questions
2) be playful and flirty
3) do not let a conversation burn to the ground
Definetly dont be playful and flirty unless you wanna get jumped 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ its high risk high reward and most ppl cannot do it right. Plus if youre ugly dont be playful just rely on being funny.
But the rest is really good advice
@@R9naldo only use text to set up video calls and you can be flirty all you like + you can't get screen shotted
@@wxntta good advice right there brother
yeah man we have seen the video.
@@R9naldo anyone with common sense would just make their physique better before trying to get girls, so why are you saying “if ur ugly don’t be playful and just rely on being funny” like stfu 😂
I swear I don’t even text anymore, it makes real life interactions 10x better
saame
Yah
GOAT
King shit
True
Man it's embarrassing how many times i come back to this video
It's ok, idk how to text either, there is no face to face, it's weird
Your not the only one man
Real
You're not alone man, it's oka
Man it's all good because your not alone I had to today and probably gonna next time to
Notes:
- admit you often have dry or boring texts with a girl rather than being arrogant. it is always better to accept your flaws and use them to improve than staying in denial where you are
- stop asking boring questions
- ei: "hey wyd haha?" "hey whats up?" "how was your day?"
- be playful, flirty, and s*xual with your messages
- ei: instead of says "wyd," say something playful such as "I bet you're stepping on snails right now"
*- do not let her burn the conversation to the ground.*
*- if she asks you a boring question such as one of the ones listed above, just ignore it and move on to whatever you want to say*
*- ei: she might text you saying "how was your day?," and you might respond with "I bet you're stepping on snails right now"*
- make her emotionally invested in you
- make her think about you, even if it is a negative emotion
- the more emotions you can appeal to, the better it will end up for you
its so strange how that stepping on snails line works so easily. it confuses them so they then get more invested in the conversation than they would be with a normal response.
@@redssign does it have a meaning i don't know or it's just random nonsense ?
@@gougouga it's just random stuff that makes no sense but it will get an emotional response out of that girl.
@@Octaviusss808 how do you get into a convo with that??
@@haydenlee4804did u not watch the vid? It’s just a convo starter to replace “how are you” or other simple stuff like that
My friend is in jail after watching this video
My friend died after watching this
😂
Hamza, I just wanted to say, your daily uploads keep me going everyday. I have been going through a rough breakup and realized how stagnant in life I have been. I finally began my pursuit of manhood, and I want to say your daily uploads remind me to keep pushing forward. I never comment on videos but I just had to personally thank you on the off chance that you do see this comment.
Stay strong bro
I feel you mate, don`t give up
Your a real man already 🫡🗿
Damn, I been stagnant for like three years now, and just starting a month after you.
More so than Hamza, seeing a person going through same stuff, you are my inspiration bro. I hope you still stay strong.
Not gonna lie. Used number two and 3 and she literally texted back saying "you're really weird but I like it"
For having testing this concept just recently. I can assure you that what Hamza states is awfully true.
Girls who feel nothing for you, don't even look at you, don't come near you, never text you because YOU, yes YOU, the Supposed to be man, haven't made her feel anything. So you're no one to her. If you can't spark any emotions in girls, you will struggle.
Seeing that keeping always the positive mindset didnt work most of the time, I chose the more realistic approach possible.
A girl makes you mad, then react.
Don't ever be afraid of a girl's reaction. If you're afraid of her leaving, chances are 1000 to 1 against you, that she's just using you or that she couldnt care less of you and you know it but you prefer lying to yourself.
GIrls who hate you, will still sleep with you.
The most important thing is that GIRLS must speak of you. Girls don't ever talk about guys they aren't interested in. Don't care if it's positive or negative, the fact that they talk about you, means that they acknowledge your existence and if you aren't looking like Gollum. Then you are on the right path.
Nothing works for you with girls ?
Try the opposite. It has done wonders for me ! Just never go to an extreme.
W comment bro
Everything he said, I look back and also realize is true in this video. All the girls I didnt particularly care for, I treated exactly how he said to do, and they were wayyy into me. But all the ones I was seriously interested in, could not have gave a fuck. The problem for me is getting rid of that disconnect and not caring about the ones im interested in haha
@Gav Liddle that is true but some girls do it on purpose to get a reaction from you. Some girls I had were turned on when I was Mad and angry and when I was cussing at them ... I had a really freaky afternoon just after getting real Mad at one girl and she said those words : "You're so handsome when you're mad" just after finished business. I would have never known this side of girls if I would have forever stayed a nice guy
Thank you, May God bless you and everyone. ❤
Gollum?
You literally confirmed what I've been doing this whole time, and a couple days after watching this video I got the girl that I first started my self-improvement journey for... Thank you. Along the way I have gotten way more confident, I haven't felt depressed ever since I got a gym membership, and even if we eventually break up with this girl, I know I won't be broken or sad. Self-improvement is a beautiful thing.
I remember sometime in October I was texting a girl and it was going well then she left me on read for 16 days. When she finally responded and was all like "sorry I took so long, I suck at responding" I didn't say anything to her I just moved on, never texted back and got to a bag 💰. It felt so good.
Any bitch that doesn’t respond like that and then makes an excuse is even worse bro 😂 good stuff
Good job 👍
Man tbh the reason she probably stop responding was because you was just wasting time and texts were reaching nowhere she must have been just waiting to say lets link up on some shi
Chad
@@SJTheGiant could be could be not
So basically anyone who wants to text genuine and nice and take an interest in her are gonna end up alone, great message
That's 20s dating for you.
:( oh but she wants a nice guy
Most people dont operate at a higher level spiritually thats why most women need this "bad boy" persona to keep her busy with dopamine or seeking another kick. Its for low quality people. Ive dated women who did not need this superficial bs. Sadly rare to find these kind of people.
HATE THE GAME NOT THE PLAYER
In this context yeah it's a video game. In the real world, when you're trying to make actual friends and connect with them, is when you wanna take interest.
FYI, this only works after step 1 & 2.
Step 1: Be attractive
Step 2: Don't be unattractive
True 🤷🤷
If you’re unattractive and trying to catch a girl by being sexual in texts, the only thing you’re gonna catch is a court date.
Hes made plenty of videos about that, so yes. Think about it, you wanna date someone who doesn't take care of their health or hygiene? Why should women?
Then what's stopping you from being attractive, Jeffrey? Too afraid to put in the hard work?
@@louisstout9952 they mean genetically unattractive....what ur talking about is circumstantial unattractiveness. An example is someone whos fat, but if they lost weight would be very handsome/beautiful. But what the person was talking about was a person who is actually unnatractive. No amount of muscle,skincare products will change it
*The importance of incorporating humor and light-heartedness into conversations can’t be overstated. Keeping things fun not only avoids dryness but also helps build rapport.*
The most useful thing I did for my texting game was to go on dates in person. Learning how to talk to someone in the most difficult/intimidating way makes easy popcorn conversation like texting so easy.
Something Ive noticed. Chicks are more masculine over text, but as soon as you try a phone call or in person conversation, they shut down. Kinda crazy.
@@50shadesofcerakote yeah they’re used to that dynamic where dudes are too scared to talk and then they want to be cute enough that you’ll be into them
What I've Learned:
1. Always ignore their questions
2. Reply with an accusation. Preferably related to stepbrother porn
2. Make your receiver emotionally distraught.
4. Repeat
I think you misinterpreted it. These are just some ways to tap into other emotions apart from happiness (which literally everyones tries to do).
I agree that these example are a little too harsh so I too wouldn't use them.
Sir, my daughter hasnt came out of her room for an entire week. And all we hear is intense crying, what have you done
Still better than my texting
This video is just wtf
@@FFFr3sHHH bruhhh 💀
I don't think I ever saw Hamza broke the flow of the intro. That was a nice change of pace. Keep up that authenticity Hamza! ❤
I wasn't convinced after the video I got to be honest. But after trying it, I couldn't believe how easy that was. The conversation just flowed effortlessly. Thanks Hamza much love.
bro u just saved a conversation with my crush rn amazing timing with the upload
The phone is for setting dates dont overtext and spill all your secrets, have a quick exchange, make an excuse you're busy after a few messages if it drags on and then set the date, works best.
thank you hamza for saving my life
Secret to make a girl obsessed with you:
make her think about you all the time
🤯🤯🤯
was this before you were famous?
You are me but Kai
i never expected to see kaiguy here LOL
It’s kaygay 😮😮😮
@@TheChannelOfThings blud has commented 55 times on this channel
Just started a chat with a girl over IG she complimented my eye colour and now I have nothing to say. And you uploaded this video. Bro you are a G . Thanks
"Alright then let me and you link up so you can get a chance to stare at my pretty eyes as much as you want" or something like that
I already know this advice will work even before trying it. Thank you so much for reaching me what nobody else will.
ever since I started watching your videos, I've been seeing major improvement in my life man. thanks a lot Hamza, you're my lifesaver, that's why I consider you my life mentor. ❤️
Man I was successful in secret number 3
Hello sir ( Anyone reading this please reply)
This is my daily schedule
7-8:30 - Yoga, and preparing for office.
8:30-10 - Travel to office
10 - 6:30 - office
6:30 - 7:45 - travel back home
8 - 9 - Gym
9 - 9:30- Prepare dinner
9:30 - 9:45 - dinner
9:45 - 10: 30 - video editing
10:30 - 11:00 - learn new songs on guitar/record vocals
11 - 11:30 - read book
Sir how should I get more time as I am unable to get success and still struggling. How should I get success faster and escape this 8-8 job loop. Please help as I am suffering this since 3 years and people behind me came forward and are successful.
Dude... U r waisting so much of time... And not even getting enough sleep
1.5 hour commute... see if there's a way you can work remotely, or find a job closer to you. You can also same time on prepping for dinner by cooking a week's worth of meal at once, separating it into tupperware, and keeping it in the fridge/frozen until you're ready to eat it.
I don’t know how helpful this will be but a few weeks back I saw a video to save up enough money for atleast a few months of living expenses so you can quit your job and learn to make money instead
Goodluck 😅
@@KG-sy5go please provide the link
Have exercise and yoga in one session.
Thank you Hamza, my social skills have gone up a lot these last months.
I used to be a loner, and. now I have a lot of friends and have been getting more successful with girls
Hell yeah
honestly same. i wasn't horrible before, but ive noticed my social skills skyrocketing.
U hitting the gym yet?
Wish I could get there too man! Good job 👏🏻
Hell yeah bro
Hamza is like the big brother we've never had, even if we are supposed to be the big brothers
Any time I send out a text message to a chick I get a panic attack because I’m literally putting myself out there to get ghosted. Texting is a scary world, man.
This video is helping me connect the dots. Whenever I send random shit whether its offensive or hilarious, I get a response. Never understood why I got responses every time.
Thank you Hamza, I've been with a lot of girls in my life, I'm older than you and usually these dating videos aren't super relevant to me. BUT! I've ALWAYS sucked at texting, I don't like it and exactly like you say I've had almost every tinder conversation die out. IRL I'm comfortable and have no problems hooking up because I don't think too much about what I say and why I just do it. But you just taught me why my texting is shit, this was super useful and feels like an eye opener. I'll be implementing these tips, I wrote them down to remember them.
Thanks man!
So you're good talking then..
HAMZA! Theres this girl thats into me and I didn't want to fumble, so I did the thing where you ignore her dry question and respond as if she never even asked and bro it actually works shes been complementing me and all sorts of stuff!
THANK YOU HAMZA legitimet advice
Hey Hamza, I'm pretty good in texting and also actually talking. But the issue is exactly what you said, most girls are completely boring, and I can't get my head around the "one night stand" culture anymore. It's okay for some time, a year or two, but then it's literally impossible to maintain even a short-term relationship because no matter how atractive someone is, they can prove to be the most uninteresting and uninspiring human being. I get so excited to talk to a new beautiful girl sometimes that it's actually heartbreaking. Anyone else gets this feeling?
Yeah… they all kind of blend together
All day. Most women are one dimensional because they don’t have real life experiences, they live through social media, so their conversations always fall flat
I got bullied in school and im a neanderthal when it comes to conversating,thanks for the advice.
Keep up the great work man! The societal impact of this content on humanity is huge! 🏆🥂
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A simple “Guess” changed my life, thank you Hamza
The bit of dating advice that changed my approach to dating is: change her feelings, not her mind
I'm a G and I still know I can ALWAYS improve my masculinity and how I present myself to others. Not just for dating but for every aspect of life like business, family, etc. I want to be the master of my own reality. Full self control and discipline is pure masculinity.
I will say, these tips imply that its the guy still chasing. I would rather promote ATTRACTION tips so the girl is doing the pursuing and you've baited her interest in. Chasing women is the worst downhill slippery slope that men don't even realize they're slowly becoming the submissive chaser without realizing it - just ramping up in pursuit/chase every time they talk to a new girl.
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Self improvement has helped me with girls, and I can confidently say there are girls going crazy for me. I'm so thankful for discovering Hamza because my life is so much better now.
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You are a great man Hamza. First time I stumbled upon your channel I was critical like I was with a lot of things. Then I actually took some time to view your videos and I respect you and what you are doing very much. Your content is something many men don't like to hear, but need to.
Hamza Has honestly changed my life.
im going to watch this video every day man
From watching pewdiepie back in the day with meme review and giving us a bonus meme to watching hamza and giving us bonus secret tip....PROGRESS
even a year later, I had to come back and listen to Master Hamza, I was off the dating scene for about 2 years and recently tried getting back into it. One thiing was very clear, I was not half of what I was 2 years ago i've lost my game so this vid was really helpful. Lmao I was allowing the girl to burn the conversation to the ground
Hamza as always on point
I attempted Tip #3 and it worked flawlessly!?!? Ty Hamza the big brother I never had
8:44 had me rolling, that is so accurate 😭
I just realized how boring it is when a girl leads the convo after you talked about your tactic, I'm gonna use it when I get the chance.
Man I'm really glad that we are getting actionable advice here. Most advice on how to get girls nowadays is to be on your path but what about the guys who have been on self improvement for 5 years and just need the simple behavioural tweaks to start attracting. Thank you for the info in this video Hamza
Very Helpful Hamza Gives The Most Realistic Advice
I saw this video TODAY. And right TODAY I applied some concepts in here and it worked like magic. Reaaally smooth. Just text for now but hopefully I will keep learning.
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Hamza first of all thank you and love from India and you help millions of teenager to improve their life through self improvement and I'm the one 16 years old working on their dreams who played games all day 2 months before
Thank you hamza❤
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@@Ishaan66SH yeap bro🗿🤜
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hamza is fr saving my life rn
Hamza you are leading such an amazing cult dont stop! You have saved tens maybe even hundreds of thousands of people's lives... Thank you
Dude, you really build really good tension for your 3.advice!!!
Out of the topic of this video Hamza, I wanted to thank you for every single vid you've delivered. Right now I am a 16 year old, from India. Inspired by examples like you and ICEcold JT, I've come the farthest I ever did on self improvement, it's almost like a spike from a flatline base in the self improvement graph ever since I got into watching you two. The amount of valid confidence I've built over the already existing but kinda invalid one is just absurd. I'm legitimately doing better at studying, at basketball, was already proficient in social interaction but getting even better, getting girls to notice me (not AS important but yeah it's natural for us men to desire that as well) and overall becoming a better person. I saw your "welcome to the cult" vid where you gave the pyramid illustration, and I can proudly say I've recently reached level 3, a bloomer, and huge part of that goes to you. I always had it in me but angels like you and JT have amplified the drive so much more. Thanks a lot, and I'll keep pushing further and further even after this. :)
Hamza you changed my life bro thank you so much you are a real life saver
So basically say something funny that makes you laugh and have conversation that actually is fun for you
Exactly
Its really good to see that hamza is becoming a real youtuber
Honestly texting is so frequent and accessible now I think it's a moot point to try to build any engagement over text and to build it in person. Sure text them back to make plans and such but keep your personality for in front of someone until you build a relationship with them. This goes for dates and friends as well imo - I prefer to be on my phone less now and build relationships in front of people.
When professionally networking, text properly and be necessarily verbose. But with women and friends, the best connections are built with in-person time
100% agree , once i started texting my girl more and complimenting her more via text and replying faster, she would give me dry responses and didn’t seem as interested in me- the times she seemed most intrested was when i didn’t answer her texts for some time funny how that works
@@ghost0861 The weird thing is i accidently used the not reply tactic involuntarily with my now ex-girlfriend and i didn't even realize i was doing it bruh no wonder
Hey! Need answer ASAP... Should i firstly go and talk to the girl in direct conversation in person or to message her via IG? We had a whole week of just looking at each-other from distance, like keeping eye contact for 5-6 seconds a few times when we see each other on bus... (btw i am 16, and also i never had gf before)
@@borutotwobluevortexx Man okay well I would suggest you try and talk to her direct but I feel the others might have better advice but I personally think direct should be the best
@@borutotwobluevortexx bro talk to her in person first. From the way she replies and talks to you, you'd get to know if she is actually into you or not. Starting a conversation with a girl for the first time via text makes her think you lack confidence. Hopefully this helps
bro, thank you for all these advice vids, I started watching your videos almost 2 yrs ago, I have been with my wife for 2.5 yrs thanks to your vids which helped me fix our relationship. thx much brother
Hamza your channel has been a saviour for many people including me brahh, I started hitting the gym, I meditate every day, I journal and Life is going only up from now on ❤️❤️
By far one of my favorite Hamza video, not only was it good but it was hilarious and I was invested the whole time. 💀
Everything you do for the community is amazing and I hope you’re enjoying Dubai as much as I am.
the light behind you makes you look like a angel
Guys if u are the one always starting the conversation don’t. Wait for her to talk first to check if she is interested and tell her that u done it on purpose that u didn’t text her because she will reply and understand that u care about her and she is going to want to talk more and have u on her mind knowing that there’s you being there for her
Hamza, the value you put in your videos is 10 out of 12.
Oh my god I'm so glad I don't use tinder
Texting tech support BC u got dumped just made my day
But now you are a leader Hamza
You yourself said to learn from your mistakeful past
Never stop improving Kings!
It’s also important to understand that a playful approach won’t always work either even if you’ve matched. I sent the same message to 2 different girls and 1 wanted to meet up and the other unmatched me.
Definitely needed this a few months ago. Gonna nail it for the next one. Now we grind.
Hamza id dont know how, but in all my time of watching a lot of youtubers talk about getting girls etc, you are the only channel when after watching a video, i have a clear image of what i am doing wrong and how to do it right. Thanks brother
Keep encouraging the young men of our generation 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
I just burned rule number 3. She asked my age n i just answered. Then realized, the conversation is over. Thanks dude
Hamza!!! I have to thank you. For my whole life I’d never thought it’d come true, but it finally has. Ty so much for your advice.
You are literally my teacher. The girl is now into me thanks HAMZAAAAAA!!!!!!
bro hamza deadass your so funny bro, i love you no homo
Secret #3… another thing to do is say you’re doing something really cool .. make her laugh and think no way that’s true (but maybe?) it’s mysterious, keeps her thinking about you
Bro Hamza you're right ,i just tried it and i saw a Little results,most of men are not confident and afraid of says things that we think are not polite,thanks brah,you opened my eyes a Little bit
God damn. I didn't know how bad I needed this added into my self-improvement journey. Still wondering if we can get a Video to refresh our knowledge about Self-Improvement and how to get back on the right track if we failed (because I did and it's wierdly not the same as the point I started). But still a fucking legendary video. Grateful that you exist Hamazaza. ❤
@@dale2283 Definitely man. I’m back into it, it’s time we succeed. 💯
@@404akimbo watch the video 'never get complacent' by hamza.
Hamzas like my second older brother, love you bro ✌🏼❤️
When i talk to a girl i do these secrets but not in a conscious way. Like i can speak to girls using the secrets you talked about its really easy and the conversation doesnt die out. I also do that to some of my friends and they will be confused as hell. They said im the most undriest person to speak to and its quite nice that you, Hamza, do the same
Damn really whatd you say to start the conversations
Could you give any examples what to say instead of these boring questions?
Ayo bro don't ditch the boys man 😂
The timing on this is absolutely perfect thankyou
I tested this out while i was watching this video and texted a girl saying: "i bet you $20 you're laying on the floor rn" and that INSTANTLY made our conversations more funny and engaging
good stuff Hamza.
Thanks bro I needed this
"obviously dont go to jail "
when heard that i genuinely laughed so hard for no reason there lol
I actually used the "I bet your stepping on snails right now" and I got the gir
Haha hows it going?
when you said it was she confused or wierded out
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Really needed that! Thank you!👍🏽
I can't describe how my life has changed from watching your videos, thank you!
If one thing is certain, these are very VERY effective tactics, I've been talking to this girl for 2 weeks and she always seems eager to talk to me, several convos happened in real time, and she's always quick to respond to me ASAP.
Yo amigo gimme some tutorial on how to start the conversation?
im texting with a girl rn and did half of boeing mistakes glad u here hamza
I just realised something, the goal should be to annoy all the girls you meet (in a playful way of course) instead of trying to make her happy. Don't give her what she wants (which is happiness), just confuse the fuck out of her
Keep in mind though that everyones different and not all tips will work for everyone
A follow up vidoe to this should be…once you’ve texted, secured the date or whatever, then what? So you don’t come across dry in person, you can continue the fun!
Just sent a flirty sexual test to a girl I matched with a few days ago while watching this video. She went from 1 text a day to texting me 4 times in the last 10 minutes.
God how have I forgotten all the tricks to this dating crap. I've been out of the scene for too long. My knowledge and form are shot. Time to do the Hamza refresher course hasha
Hey Hamza, could you make a video on how people younger than 18 can start to improve their relationship with girlfriend/friend and how to make a move. Thos would mean the world to me as I'm struggling. Cheers.
Nah tip 3 actually works crazy. Its funny when a girl asks you a question like that and you ignore it like she didn't say anything, but she returns to the conversation even more invested and engaged
How do you responds if she calls you out on not answering her question?
@@joshcordeiro368 you just keep talking about anything, or you can answer it but with a cold response
Yup.. I can confirm this. I have done this unintentionally because I want to amuse myself. Only realised it after a girl pointed it out. 'The man that would always give different answer when asking question'. Meaning that that girl remember me eventhough I rarely talk to her.. Lol
I don't have conversations over text. If I'm texting someone, it's to set up some time to meet up in person. Texting isn't even remotely comparable with talking - body language, cadence, inflection et cetera are all absent. Heck, people don't even have the same personality over text that they do in real life.
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You need be a certain level to use that step brother line. Most guys wouldn't be able to pull it off and a lot of girls will find you weird or creepy. That being said Hamza's advice to be random is very effective. To that I'd add on the idea that you should always have a purpose in your conversation. Don't just ask 'what u up to?' but maybe ask her for her opinion on something interesting or start a conversation about taking her out or making her your girlfriend. For example if it's the first time you're speaking to this girl, don't start with 'Hey, what you up to?' but maybe text her 'What time am I taking you out?' or 'What are we naming the kids?' That's the kind of playful texting that's going to show her that you're interested in her while keeping her engaged and showing that you're confident. It won't always work on everyone but once you've levelled up your looks and self-confidence, you'll find many more girls playing along.
I’ve seen one of this guys videos on tik tok and followed his advice and it worked so I think that deserves a subscribe
1:34 yeah obviously why would i be here if not for advice