Psychologist REVEALS How To Develop MASSIVE CONFIDENCE! | Amy Cuddy & Lewis Howes
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Dr. Amy Cuddy is a social psychologist, bestselling author, award-winning Harvard lecturer, and expert on the behavioral science of power, presence, and prejudice.
Cuddy earned her Ph.D. from Princeton University in 2005 and was a professor at Harvard Business School from 2008 to 2017, Northwestern University’s Kellogg School of Management from 2006 to 2008, and Rutgers University from 2005 to 2006. She continues to teach at Harvard Business School in executive education.
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If you’re ready to learn how to harness your full personal power to reach your goals in business, life, and everything in between, then this episode might be a game changer for you! During our conversation, Amy and I also touch on how to stop being afraid of chasing your dreams, the ripple effects that overcoming trauma can have on your life, and so much more. And now, please join me for Episode 1,198 of The School of Greatness.
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Amy Cuddy is the kind of person who is actively making the world a better place! Great talk 😊. As always, you’re world class cool, Lewis. I really appreciate your work towards the betterment of humanity 💖
Really enjoyed the conversation
Louis you always do the best interviews. Open heart. Amy this is the first time I have learned of you... you are such a humble beautiful soul it has been my pleasure to listen to your message.
Louann, Amy also has a great Ted Talk.
Hi 👋 Louann, can I talk to you for a moment?
Always such beautiful conversations here
I've been watching your videos for over a year and I gotta say. In this interview your growth as an interviewer is on display!!!!!!
She is such a beautiful person, truly helping to empower other's and make the world a better place. I love it! Much Gratitude to all involved in making this video. 🥰🙏💕
“Anyone whose goal is 'something higher' must expect someday to suffer vertigo. What is vertigo? Fear of falling? No, Vertigo is something other than fear of falling. It is the voice of the emptiness below us which tempts and lures us, it is the desire to fall, against which, terrified, we defend ourselves.”
― Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness of Being
Very well spoken. Being a RN, at first it was awesome being able to treat the patients without the family interfering. However, this feeling quickly turned to heartache as our patients dyed while being in the arms of no one. Our heartache deepened for patients and the families we had an opportunity to care for!
I absolutely love her. Her Ted Talk helped me so much at a younger age and I still think about it now when I feel the imposter syndrome taking over.
I am so Thankful for programming like this. I have always dealt with feelings of inadequacy and not being good enough ever since I was a child. I have been meditating four to five months since finding this program and seeing Dr Joe Dispenza and changing the mindset that criticism is negative and now am able to take criticism as an opportunity for growth. I am so Thankful you are following the calling to help others 😊
Hi 👋 Regina, can I talk to you for a moment?
@@patrickmckinley6679 hello 👋
@@reginabest9865 Ok Regina but I don't think you will be okay talking here publicly, I suggest we talk about it on Email 🙏. what do you think? 😊😊
Thanks Lewis. Needed to here this since going through this divorce from a Malignant Narcissist
Same here Jamricka see ya on other posts 👑
Too much of everything harms so there must be balance even in your self-confidence and the right way how to balance your self-confidence is humility. Do not think too high about yourself but also not too low, find the balance. Be confident but also show respect to others, be kind. It is hard to achieve but it is worth it.
I am getting really hooked on your interviews Lewis! Your guests are great... and Amy lives up to the very high standard 😊💖👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
"It's hard to be nervous when your hearts on service" 🤲 love that
Affirm the values you love about yourself. So helpful! Thank you!
You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜
The "making your bed" conversation was funny. I actually talk about it in my TED Talk...making your bed is one of the most effective and easiest triggers of joy, because it gives you an immediate sense of success :). Love your channel Lewis...I do not comment a lot but I follow you a lot!!
Hi 👋 Angie, can I talk to you for a moment?
So am 50 yrs old and as a youngster studying at boarding school for 7 or 8 yrs we had the discipline of making our beds 1st thing in the morning..zo our dormitories looked neat ..n we were nit allowed to mess it up till evening .i still practise that today.
Courage and personal power, is one the most freeing acts of social bravery we can have. When we affirm to ourselves what makes us us, helps us perform better in all areas of life. I love the fact that Dr Amy is a pathological optimist. I must admit to feel very similar! Such an awesome interview Lewis, you rock.
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
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Lewis;. Look for and read the police interview transcripts from the Kobe Bryant rape accusation.. you will have your eyes opened
Although Amy gave many insightful messages and valuable information, her staccato speaking actually may be showing anxiety she is not aware of as she has probably had it all of her life. It actually gave me a stomach ache. Her facial features also demonstrate being uptight. She also is not a model of public speaking as she uses "um" a lot and would probably benefit from attending Toastmasters.
@@patriciaacove4602 I hear you and yes, she has self doubt like many of us. Some show it more than others. It takes courage to speak publicly and I commend her for it. The awareness of their own tension and tightness in one who has been with anxiety for a long time is often amiss, I see your point here. I hope she finds her way with this. Sometimes we develop in areas of intellect or skill set and not in bodily self awareness; often in the area that we specialise in. I specialised in stress management and was burnt out by it many years ago. Then turned to the skills I helped others with. This in turn transformed into a discovery of personal creativity with music and voice. All a learning and evolving. I hope this feedback finds her in a place to receive and go to the next level. What a power house she will be.
@@patriciaacove4602 Hi 👋 Patricia, can I talk to you for a moment?
I needed to hear this. Thank you so much 🤗
Just discovered your channel, I must admit I already watched multiple videos already. Very insightful, interesting and great advice from every person you interviewed on different subject. Keep on doing a great work!
Welcome to the community!!!
Thanks for fitting some of my emotional puzzlepieces and unadressed feelings in it's place.
Thank you for your time! I feel more confident hearing this! Much love & many blessings for you🙏
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Thank you for this video. I appreciate your interviewing skills, digging into the point for your guest to elaborate.
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
Lewis, thank you so much for bringing Amy Cuddy! Loved the interview and learned good lessons! Have an amazing weekend!
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All of Amy’s truths are EXACTLY what I live by. Didn’t always stand tall. Working on conquering my feelings of smallness. Thank you again, Lewis, for bringing another beautiful message to us! ❤️
Fabulous
Hi 👋 Misha, can I talk to you for a moment?
Thank the both of you so very much for this lesson...I truly NEEDED it on today.
So happy to hear we have supported you!
In order to not self doubt, one must be an amalgamation of many things, thoughts and beliefs in a cohesive whole.
Hi 👋 Kathleen, can I talk to you for a moment?
Excellent interview. Insightful questions. Revealing useful responses that help connect the psycho-social dots.
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
Lewis's studio is like a home 🙂Of course you are unique as an interviewer and the one who has the personal power your guest is speaking about For me you were the first who tried to change the man' s story, the myth
Thank you Lewis for bringing us these golden nuggets of life. U and the people u interview are here to help mankind evolve. Keep pressing on. You are awesome. We can raise our vibration as a species. 🤗
Really insightful conversations
She's 100% right-on target ... excellent interview! :)
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One day I will meet you Lewis and will give you such a big thankful hug😌🥰
Hi 👋 Bonita, can I talk to you for a moment?
You’ve given gold nuggets…& I am impressed. Grateful
She's able to connect this up spiritually holistically talkin about your authentic self she's wonderful
I listened to Amy’s book on audible a few years ago. She has a lot of positive and inspiring information to share.
Thank You!! You two are doing it ...
Thank you Amy and Lewis I got you’re book Presence and also gave it To my sister. Loved this.
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Very insightful, very helpful.
Yes, in a "on the edge" society, with individuals ready to jump into attacks,, and already dealing with online bullying, how do you gain the courage to show up?
love the way lewis interviews people.
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
Learning so much watching these podcast love the content ⭐️🔥
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she's Brilliant! & so right, i was in an abusive relationship when i was younger and wasnt allowed to look up when i was outside. that relationship ended 22 years ago & only 2 years ago i realised i was still doing what he told me to do and only ever walking with my head down. im much more happy and confident now
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I have never met Amy Cuddy, but she is the first person that described how I felt (that I was faking it) as a new professional and I also came to that realization that I was doing the job and I am not faking it any more and I cried when I heard her say it and felt freed that I wasn’t the only person who felt that way in the world. LOVE LOVE LOVE HER!!!
Oh my gosh, thank you so much, Shelley! 🥰
@@amycuddyphd6966 I have told so many people to go out and watch your Ted Talk because it is such a powerful message.
@@shelleyhuskey1870 Hi 👋 Shelley, can talk to you for a moment?
Great psychologist and great host. Thanks so much for this video.
You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜
Thanks, Sir. Be certain that I feel very fortunate having the privilege to see your videos as they are very explorative of situations, conditions, things, people. "More power !"
Love her words 💯
Great ! Humanity at its best, left me feeling hopeful...just beautiful how you described the nurses story with such genuine admiration and pure love, I was so moved by your love for her
OMG Lewis you are so on point about founding a courage.Listening to you like listening to my big brother I only imagined :) I am inspired
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Hi 👋 Violeta, can I talk to you for a moment?
When people criticize and bully it totally means they have a troubled life. I feel sorry for them, they are journeying thru life being miserable
I am grateful for the goodness you are promoting in the world. Truth speaks to our souls and reassures us. There is an inner ‘knowing’ that is activated and validated when we hear it. The cognitive dissidence we feel in today’s tumultuous world is ‘called out’ and made clear. So many reassuring ‘aha’ moments here. I too feel like the weird one with regards to my attempts to be optimistic and yet I’m fighting that inner pull to a negative bias. Old programming tries hard to keep me from growing but I see that I’ve always fought against it. I’m healing and gaining more true confidence in being ‘me’... realizing that it’s OK to just be authentically me... quirks and all. Letting go of worrying about what others think and setting boundaries, living truth, living and learning while setting goals yet not limiting myself by trying to orchestrate every moment as life unfolds. Learning to be ‘present’ is the biggest boon. Entering ‘possibility’ and growth is the result. Goodness and greatness go hand in hand. Thanks again, Lewis et ‘al for your contributions to the ‘world of greatness’ that is there for all of us willing to partake. 🥰😘🙏
You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜
Hi 👋 Michelle, can I talk to you for a moment?
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Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
So true about making the bed. It definitely does something psychologically.
I am so glad I clicked on the wrong screen! This was the best interaction between 2 people that were so captivating right away I loved this video I didn’t agree with some things but I loved hearing you don’t have to like it I loved the breathing practice as I had learned from my psychologist JUST WOW
Hi 👋 Bonzo, can I talk to you for a moment?
Such great conversations
Well done and thank both of you
Write Three Values Every Day
Hi 👋 Maryam, can talk to you for a moment?
LOVE this. So glad I found this tonight because I'm beginning to feel like an alien not giving up on the underdog and light workering. It's not easy, but it's fulfilling. And this world needs heroes. ha! just looked up your zodiac because I was thinking Leo, as I have a Leo moon and Mars in Leo in 5th and 6th house. Aquarius sun. I'm guessing Gemini or Aqua moon and Aries rising because you seem to have so much air/fire. and lol I now have a new ability to guess accurately people's sun signs (90% accuracy rate) and Lewis, you scream Pisces and sure enough, you are one! thank YOU, google.
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I love this talk. I'll have to find her Ted talks. Thank you!
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Powerful talk! Thank you both!
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Love the advice and thank you for your time 💫💞
You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜
Hi 👋 dear, can I talk to you for a moment?
Amazing lesson on confidence.
Hi 👋 Rafaela, can I please talk to you for a moment?
Absolutely
I've been more afraid of FALLING FOR THE TRIBE. I NEVER FOLLOW THE TRIBE! That's the KISS OF DEATH TO PERSONAL GROWTH IN MANY CASES SUCCESS! Some have argued you need to BREAK FREE FROM THE TRIBE to chart your own course. Eagles fly alone and soar high.
♥️♾ThankYou ThankYou LH,AC,families & ppls
Participating 🖖🏻, Happy Holidays !!! ThankYou ♾♥️
You're welcome 😊
Bless you dear soul, we stand with you! 🙏🤍✨
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Amy is great. But any method (like self affirmations) can be valid at any moment in a person’s life.
Saying that anything “doesn’t really work” is a mistake. It definitely works for a lot of people. Psychologists are more controlling or bossy about how stuff “works” I find.
Thats why many enter the job. Just like police officers.
You gotta have a dream, I have one but it’s more of a reality I’m that confident in it
Love Amy. Would love to see Rachel Cossar (the ballerina body language friend she mentioned) too.
Great interview! 👏🏾 👍🏽 ✅
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Love it ❤️
Really enjoyed this interview. Great questions and liked Amy's perspective and advice. I respect her Ted talk more than a academic"wanna-be". She's refreshing and positive.
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
Hi 👋 Joan, can I talk to you for a moment?
Lewis.. I believe you! You genuinely do care about people and I understand the depth of your words
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this may be the greatest video ive ever watched
Thank you Lewis again 🙏🙏🙏🌹
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He’s such a great interviewer!
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
To you who are reading this. Make your purpose your reason to live and you will reach success no matter what, I am the living proof.You will make it!
So true..
I love the end where Lewis gives Amy a big thanks and lots of appreciation. She really does deserve it. She uplifts so many people and I hope she does feel acknowledged and appreciated. ❤️
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Hi 👋 dear, can I talk to you for a moment?
Warrior poses in yoga is a great natural way to practice ☺️
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Fantastic interview!
Glad you enjoyed it!
“It’s hard to be nervous when your heart is on service.”
This lady is on point she has a beautiful mind every lady in this world just as beautiful if they use their mind as self respect understand of pending to be a boldly mind
I am always trying to be conscious about my posture wherever I go..the breathing exercise WORKS! I always had a hard time falling asleep and now puff 😴 less than 5 min and I sleep like a baby.
Honing my values
I was thinking of this song while listening and looked it up for correct lyrics. I thought youd appreciate it!
Rats it wont attzch..."Accentuate* the positive " by Bing Crosby.
I observe some people in our society like to bully successfu young l people especially when young women focusing on knowledge. No need to apologize or feel bad for being successful.
Don't question yourself about doing what you know is the right thing to do ~:-)
Maybe one of my favorite episodes
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I feel you amy
I had imposter syndrome at the University of Chicago. Sounds like I'm bragging but I'm not its the worst feeling.
Anybody who talks on haveing dyslexia who can’t use a pc or read books looking for there talants on what they good at and how to find it please. Good video I listen as I fall asleep thanks again
Awesome!
Thank you ❤️
Excellent video
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
@51 to 51:30 what words were muted?
I’m just starting the video and hoping to learn something more than my current knowledge of ‘imagine everyone naked’ 😂🤦🏻♀️
Two attractive people talking about confidence.,.
I'm so impressed with how her bangs never move. 😲
my three truths
1 love life
2 live free
3 make piece
Her talking about confidence doesn't seem to fit for me 🤔
“Congrats to Everyone who is early and found this comment”
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Got to get to the point faster. Not every interview should be hours long.
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Yes my son is 20 and still doesn’t want to get his DL and thinks he will have a perfect job and plays online games all the time on the Internet except for when he sleeps and eats maybe go out with family but would rather stay at home that encounter people….. idk what you really say to him or how to help him
Tell him he's got 60 days to move out
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Honnesty to acept watt i am ,just a human and courage to change watt fear change the perspektiv of my reality ,and its hurt but no pain no gain because the power its for meg love and belive idont need to be perfekt anymor.
Find a bathroom stall, I LOVE it 😊😊😊😊😊
I recommend yawning like a lion ro streach and grow 🥰💯🙏
We've now been lied to, loss of control, anger, manipulated, gaslit, punished, silenced for 2 years.
Hi 👋 Anne, can I talk to you for a moment?
Sure Charlie
@@saltymermaid697 Ok Anne
but I don't think you will be okay talking here publicly, I suggest we talk about it on Email 🙏. what do you think? 😊😊
@ 28:46 If you examined the motives of those colleagues making the comments, they are likely competitive and envious and cannot stand another person's success. Competition and belittling are often found together. I suspect having "thick skin" is important when giving TED talks.