"This KEEPS 99% of People Single!" - FIX THIS TO FIND LOVE| Joe Dispenza
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Dr. Joe Dispenza is an international speaker, researcher, author, and educator who is passionate about the findings from the fields of neuroscience, epigenetics, and quantum physics to explore the science behind spontaneous remissions. He uses that knowledge to help people heal themselves of illness, chronic conditions, and even terminal diseases so they can enjoy a more fulfilled and happy life as well as evolve their consciousness.
Dr. Joe is the New York Times bestselling author of You Are the Placebo: Making Your Mind Matter, which explores our ability to heal without drugs or surgery, but rather by thought alone. His most recent book, Becoming Supernatural, talks about how we can intentionally change our brain chemistry to initiate profoundly mystical, transcendental experiences and develop a more healthy body, mind, and spiritual life.
Dr. Joe didn’t always work in the field of neuroscience. He started out as a chiropractor, earning his doctor of chiropractic degree from Life University in Atlanta, GA. He had a successful chiropractic practice, but one day he had a dangerous accident. In 1986, while cycling in a triathlon, Dr. Joe was hit by a truck. He broke six vertebrae in his spine, and his doctors told him he would never walk again.
Dr. Joe asked four different surgeons what he should do, and all four of them prescribed a complicated surgery. The surgery would relieve some of his pain but nearly guarantee he would never walk again. But that wasn’t good enough. He refused to have the surgery and instead began to imagine himself totally healed. He visualized each vertebrae healing and reconstructed his spine in his mind. In just ten and a half weeks, Dr. Joe was back on his feet, and in twelve weeks, he was training again and back at work at his chiropractic clinic. He fully healed himself with just his mind.
I’ve had Dr. Joe a couple of times on the podcast now (Episode 826 and Episode 679), and in the past, we’ve talked about unlocking the power of the mind and breaking the addiction of negative thoughts. But in today’s episode, I wanted to change it up and ask Dr. Joe about relationships. Our conversation blew me away so much that I had to split this interview up into two parts, so stay tuned for the second part on Wednesday!
But for now, join me on Episode 1,054 to learn about how to transform your mind for lasting love and magnetic relationships with the incredible Dr. Joe Dispenza!
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Biggest take away there is nothing like self love 💘
Just phenomenal.
I listen/read Joe Dispenza stuff constantly. Always hitting the right nerve.
I love hearing him acknowledge his own insecurities, that he, too, has to reign his thoughts and emotions in from time to time.
Makes doing the work and following his lead, guidelines, philosophies that much more relevant and motivating.
My mom was right. Raise others up to your level, never sink to theirs.
I was painting and all of a sudden I felt the most intense anger directed at god for putting me on this planet and asked what sort of piece of _____ would do such a thing. That's the PG 13 version. I actually said much worse.
@@chrisbova9686 There's a part of you in 3D that believes you are not divine, sovereign, Good, God, so therefore you're blaming Him. Accept and allow that there's a misbelief within you that you have to release to believe/know you create your whole reality. You can do this. Ask for assistance.
I became the person I wanted to marry so now I am happily single LOL
your statement is hilarious , I could not stop laughing , showed your comment to my family after briefly outlining the contents of this video to them . Now we are all rolling on the floor laughing our heads off . Top marks , your comment was so funny , and actually very good , given what the guest on this video was saying . Have a good day .
Me too 😂
@@andrewmiller4885 😂
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Ha ha me too 😂😂
I found my person when I was completely focused on bettering myself, & they were doing the same.
Love this 🤍
@@jerryevans5843 Nice fake account dude
It’s been 2 days since this video was posted, 31k people have watched and relate to this information - surely I can manifest my one and only from this point. Who can relate? 🙌🏼❤️☺️
You loved yoursefl enough to know what it is to be whole so they recognized you because they are your mirror! Bravo! Way to go, so wonderul, what a gift to yourself and to your mate.
Wow amazing
Your life will be a masterpiece when you learn to master peace.
If you’re reading this I pray you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏🏼
You too ❤
You, too. ❤️✝️
You too ❤
"You only look for it when you feel lack."
Well that can be a good motivator too
“People that are happy with themselves won’t look at others and see their flaws, they’ll look at others and see a part of themselves that they connect with...” interesting...
Nonsense. I will still see flaws in others if am happy. That's why we have teachers. Again, something that sounds like making sense but is wrong. In fact if you are happy with yourself that means you are doing a lot of things right. And you will see even more clear in others those same things when others don't do them right. So he is just saying nonsense that is no rule or law. Just nonsense
@@christophersmith49 notice I put “interesting” afterwards… I think people that are happy aren’t “looking for flaws” nor are they judgmental of everyone they meet”…. I’m not sure if he meant it the way I interpreted it, but to your point: you definitely will see qualities in people that aren’t good if they exist… while some are masterful at hiding who they are, eventually the mask comes off...
You also have to have discernment, when I was younger I only looked for the best in men overlooking the red flags so it’s a balance, no one‘s perfect but you have to be realistic too.
Beautiful thought @Pauline. Very deep. ♥️
@@christophersmith49 No. You see the best in others. Even if you give them a bad note in school, you see beyond their flaws. You see the flaws too, but you give more attention to their true capabilities even if you don’t know them. You simply know that they are worthy of more
Be the person you're looking for. You don't chase. You attract. You atract what & who you are.
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But does that mean they chase you?
@@ToFunForThis No.
@@ToFunForThis i would say no chasing, no mind games, no manipulation, no hot and cold, just genuine connection and attraction
@@ToFunForThis yeah they tend to. Kuz there is space open for it. Like when I was initially manifesting my dude, it was almost startling, the fervor he pursued me with like, jfc 😂😂 like an anxiety-ridden bucking bronco. He looked like he was going to faint because i was even so much as talking to him omg. But I was just like 🧐🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️.
So it actually also is not true how ppl say u attract what u are, kuz i was chill af and that guy was just about losing his mind over me 😭🤣🤣🤣 it was hilarious, and adorable tbh.
I was intending my dude be more reciprocal etc in some certain ways tho, and I was open to receive etc and then suddenly several guys started trying to pursue/chase me 😬🤌 as I made that space. Often they will say the specific things I intended and that's odd bkuz these are basically strangers saying things a significant other/life partner would say. It can get weird.
So uh, there's that that can happen too 🤣🤣😭
Voids tend to automatically be filled.
Like when you align yourself and elevate and suddenly maybe a striking number of ppl are attracted to your light, tho that isn't always a good thing... but for sure ppl are attracted like moths to a light tbh.
And when I meditate and empty my mind and I'm all zen, and then suddenly my mom will come round and feel the need to literally fill my brain with her chaotic messy dramatic nonsense.
But yeah when you are vibing high and allowing, etc, it often will result in some hardcore interest like full on, hopefully from your significant other but I do tend to attract a load of riffraff as well 🤷♀️ lol sighh.
I wish every person whose been hurt and chose not to do the work and heal would listen to this. Frankly it should be mandatory. What a different world it would be. Way too many unhealed toxic folks walking the earth. This is why it’s so hard to find someone at the age I am. People are settling and staying in relationships or dating all the wrong ones. I’ve done the work and continue to do so. I’m healthy and happy. I’m also ok staying single because settling isn’t an option for me. I love my life and love that I’ve arrived to this place. Hard work though. I pray this for everyone.
You can only understand and react to it, when you’re ready for it!
You sound exactly like me 💛
I settled for most of my life. No more...
Mandatory? The fact it is not mandatory is the reason you find it difficult to find someone? Everyone your age is "settling" in bad relationships, due to unhealed toxicity? So you would literally compel someone else to conform to your world view so you can get laid? For such a loving person you assume and project a lot of very negative things about people and their relationships. Maybe most people "your age" have figured a few things out you haven't and maybe they are happy in relationships. Maybe "there are more things in heaven and earth..." (and relationships).... Than are dreamt of in your philosophy ..."
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"Tell the story of your future more than you tell the stories of your past"- BRILLIANT!
So much great content here! I've watched this many times over the past 2 years and I always find different tidbits of brilliance that I need that day! Thank you Joe and Lewis for such a great interview!
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
I feel like I'm receiving therapy here.
Everytime I try and think of the future my ex always seems to fall into it which causes more lack. It feels good thinking of a future with her but I don't think it's possible at all
Yes!! Then, that replaces those past thoughts over time. love it!! I'm still whole without you now. I'm no longer in need or lack!! Yes!
Joe , u know what i mean ?
I wish I hadn’t spent so much time remembering the past 🙄 and instead remembered my future. Time to change.
Also when you wrote that comment you were also remembering your past because you were wishing you weren't remembering your past!
It's a subtle game this one :P
This our biggest problem, we all live in our past, either glorify it or despise it and it really robs of the time we do have to be all that we can. I am glad you have realized just as I have and have begun working on the best version of yourself. Here's to our BEST! 🍸❤️
Remember ur future but don’t think about it create it from the unknown
Learn from the past, plan for the future, but live in the present.
Ok
“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” - Mark 11:24
@@NewYorkNadia thankyou ❤️❤️❤️
@@hariharan-ze2zq my pleasure, hope it helps!
@aNgÉlica dEl ciELo read your statement again as hard as you could...needy vibration , lack midnset .....manifestaion is effortless and in abundance mindset
@aNgÉlica dEl ciELo Oh YAY!!! I'm SO happy to hear that!!! Wishing you EVERY blessing!!!
@aNgÉlica dEl ciELo The mere fact that you didn’t even got angry about Nadia’s comment and that you actually read it and absorbed it speaks volumes about your growth! I really wish you lots of light and an unmeasurable love for life!
44:51 I smiled at this statement because this is how I am now. When I look at people who try to hurt me I smile I don't get worked up. I am so much at pace with everything, with no guilt or shame. I just understand them and hope they get past it. When I learned to forgive completely this was the biggest peace.
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I am there too. Isnt it beautiful!
I was like this since i was a kid. Pure and loving. Then I realised noone act s like me so I started acting like others , others started to get to me and i had an emotional responses.
It is just amazing i had the right way of acting in me while the world brought up the other way of acting.
I need to get back to wy wise self again . Thank you for that comment
Some individual born with it 🙌 some sounds like philosophers but for me it is deeply attached within you ❤❤❤ and people ask why do you know to much?
Thanks again 🙏 liked this interview best of the best ❤
Lovely!
I love the part where " When you are in love and your connected and you are feeling those elevated emotions
That part ..
I like how Lewis Howes rarely interrupts his guests.
You can tell that he is really listening
You see his fece and you know he is all in haha
Yes!
Lewis is a good listener!
Rarely? You are kidding, right ..?
"People always ask me, like, 'How do I create the person of my dreams that I want in my life?' I always say, 'Take out a piece of paper. Write down everything you want in that person and then become it!'"
"Would you go out with you?"
@@slncvt1224 Yes 🙌!!! This is such a profound question!
@@slncvt1224 of course, become what you want
As a man you must be masculine and are generally attracted to feminine women.
So you can not become the woman or feel like her. I think to know that you are desirable will make you more desirable
Wow great advice 👍
I've been working on this for 3 years and I'm now literally living my dream. I'm mind blown - this is REALITY!! Keep growing - push past your blocks - there is breakthrough!!!!
That is fantastic 👏 😀 what have you experienced?
Please don't stop telling that in comments. People can't hear that enough. Especially with Dr. Joe videos. Such inspirational stories being shared are what's changing my life and the world. Share share share. It matters because the professionals can teach how to do it but without the students doing the work and confirming their story then beginners or people with limiting beliefs only think it works but only for the rich, gifted, special and highly educated. It wasn't until I started reading the 1000s of comments like yours that I started believing what he teaches could work for anyone including me. It takes practice, persistence and Patience and.trusting the process. Listening to him and other people's interviews everyday was what I had to do for myself.dr Joseph Murphy, Dr Bruce Lipton, Neville Goddard and 100s more from around the world from thousands of yrs ago to present, from every culture or religion I learned their powerful messages of encouragement on how they found the peace that passes all understanding and drive to share their testimony with the world was what has kept me going.im so grateful for Dr Joes work today because he's used his platform as a Dr to bring the scientific data to prove whats happening when we meditate. I just started doing Mudras, tantras, and using color and sound therapy while meditating on my energy centers and OMG when I did his go love meditation and pictured myself as a 7yr old giving my heart as an adult into my inner child heart I cried so hard for the first time in 5yrs my heart opened and my other chakras followed I'm excited to have hope for the first time in decades and riding this thi g called life out with a blast❤❤❤good luck ❤
Remember that repetition is the key. You will become the person you want to be as long as you keep at it. It's the overcoming process that is the becoming process. Embrace discomfort and something magical will happen soon.
Thank you
Here is what I learned: you have to want something more than you experience the feelings of not having it.
I can’t believe how magical this life actually is when you no longer chase anything but witness it coming towards you because you wanted it.
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This does make sense 😇
Solid statement. I use the exact same sentence for change lol. Change can happen gracefully or naturally. However, often in our lives change happens when the new reality is prefered over the old one, i.e. when you can't stand the suffering that your old lifestyle causes you anymore.
“Witness it coming towards you because you *wanted* it”
Yea all those kind sweet things will come right on back to ya
I love how he let’s his guests talks without interrupting them💯
He's the next Johnny Carson, knock on 🌴 🪵
I was Just thinking that!! That is a true respectful gift.
Unlike Oprah??
Yes, so many do and it's annoying
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns exactly. seems to me Oprah operates primarily from an ego (I am Oprah, this is My Show, I control every single bit of it). Lewis on the other hand operates from the perspective of mutual understanding, respect and trust.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today, I have to stop being the victim, from today forward, I will not be a victim. Thank you.🎉❤
4:45 victims of what makes us think/feel in a certain way
5:30 when the response to the environment is weakening you: you become more vulnerable
6:01 practicing elevated emotions (out of survival) - what do you practice feeling???
7:38 re-thinking to an event, is causing the same chemistry/feeling in the body as when was occurring
8:43 the (memory) response in the body consumes the energy to create - it becomes a sub-conscious program (not conscious!)
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13:37 safety to relax into the present moment
14:25
32:28 bond with your future
36:53 moving energy to the brain
40:32 things they thought they wanted...
43:24 when you're in lack and separation, time gets crazy
44:23 how long are you going to react for? Shortening the reaction! The only person that is effecting is YOU. Ask: " Is it loving towards me?"
58:50 telling the story worst than it is
01:04:05 !!!
01:07:00
1:11:43
“Is it loving towards me?” Is EVERYTHING I was trying to understand about self love.
Thank you, you're a star 🌟 👍
@@jasminejones9937 thanks
"People in relationships will compromise themselves out of obligation, necessity, obedience and in the end, they will forget who they are" This is very true.
Happened to me
@@wyleecoyotee4252 happened to me too
i knew a great person who was so much like me even kind of looked like me even though opposite gender and i think i saw them as a great friend because we were like siblings or something but 20 years later i think it was love lol maybe i'm just lost
Happening to me now 😞
@@amyitis Since you know it, you already halfway, much love to you
I do not want to find love in someone else, i just want to learn how to love myself.
Mirror work, and through the day. Look at yourself and tell yourself ,that you love you. Tell yourself you are a good, kind loving person. I love everything. Forgive yourself for all things. You did what you did, you will try not to react the same way, forgive when you do and go forward. Repetition is the key and understand sometimes your ego jumps in you repeat what you don't want to ... that's ok, try again. You are worthy and will get there (evolving).
Same. The rarest & most fulfilling love is the love we have for self❤️
its impossible. you are not 2. u cannot love 'yourself"
If you feel beautiful,you will be beautiful. If you love the way you are,really enjoying life,others will be attracted to you. But believe in yourself.
YES!!!!!
I was living my best single life . I attracted my best friend of 8 years . I initially said no to the advancement . I didn’t want to ruin our relationship as best friends . I gave in we dated got married . I’m now divorce my life flipped upside down . I never knew my best friend was bipolar narcissist verbal abuser cheater. This was the worst relationship in my life . I’m working on getting myself back. The ex still constantly shows up wanting me to still be available as a best friend . The most toxic mess ever . I have no idea how the hell I attracted this when I was at my best . I’m working on my best again but I’m staying single forget about it
It's because when you were younger and friend zoned him you were not attracted to him then, and you still weren't when you took him off the back burner because he seemed like a good father and provider. Problem was you were never attracted to him and he wasn't your first choice. You probably subconsciously resented him for this. He didn't have to the tools to understand what was going on and lashed out in the toxic behaviors you said he did.
👏🏼 👏🏼 this!!!!!
@@jwill9877You just described what happened to me and my ex husband. I’m just terrified to do it again
2 years later and I watched this whole episode again. when I saw the "2 hour" mark I was like "no way I'm sitting through this whole thing".
and here I am. having sat through it with pleasure. again.
amazing episode!
Thanks for being here!
Same!! 😂. And I’m planning on listening again!
met my wife, we were both 18 married at 20... 43 yrs later still together..let your partner be themselves..i think too many couples try to change eachother into their preconceived ideas of what an ideal relationship is.. just our opinion is all..all the best to you all.
🌹I agree 100%
This is absolute.
Thank you man! I'm so done with taking love and relationship advice from single people. Awesome to hear from you! Advice duly noted :)
You're very lucky
@@coredadventure1 some say that however, as in almost all relationships we have had our ups and downs so, it takes work, for us it's just been a case whereby we have never encountered a problem that we couldn't solve..maybe an element of luck though is part of the equation..cheers m8 all the best to you and yours.
“Write down everything you want in that person, and become it”. Just wow.
Love that so much -
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kind of stupid if you are not gay.
I did it, it worked for me, im in the best relationship of my life
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@1:00:55 I just had a "ahh ha!" moment... I've was saying this affirmation daily for over a year and just realized I have already been feeling this way without realizing it. - " I am whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious and happy!" Thank you for this episode Lewis. I love how answers constantly show up for me.
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I am whole, perfect, strong, powerful, loving, harmonious, beautiful, valuable, rich, happy and I am here!
Every aspect of my life has improved since I started doing meditations by Dispenza. I agree...during meditation I don't heal the inner child, I just tap into the feelings I had as a child and heal the trauma / tap into the "real me" that I stopped being as I aged. It's extremely powerful!
I’m not trying to find Love ... Love is what I am
Hot
Yes ♥️
When we are high age we slowly to forget about feeling Inlove withsome one. Being single more happyness. Like me lol 😜
I don't think you should sleep around. Love means not hurting others just to be single.
Come to me
Lewis’ energy is so pure like a kid in a classroom engaged and eager to learn. So sweet 😄
Your right I love it...
The sweetest, so grateful of his existence in this world and in my life 😍🙏🌎🌍💖✨
Yes 🥰
Like a kid in a Candy Store
Love that Look!
Thank you so much, this knowledge is so much powerful.
39:09 "where you place your attention is where you place your energy" 40:22 healing
This has to be the most profound conversation I have ever heard. I was so ready for this message. Thank you so much both of you. ❤️
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
Well said
I thought the same thing :D
I have found the love of my life! My boyfriend, my soon to be spouse has found me the true love of his life too. We are each other's soul mate as well as each others twin flames. We are "old" and it still happened "all of a sudden" in the most perfect unimaginable way. We are connected in such a deep powerful way and he's literally a mirror image of me. He is me and I am him. And my forever love is more than anything I ever wanted, visualized, desired, prayer for, and asked God for. So I want to give you, the person who's reading this comment, HOPE! Nothing is impossible with God! Just trust in the process and BELIEVE it will happen to you too. 😊❤😊
Thank you 💕
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing! I love it! This gives me hope! That's what I want for my life - my true Soul Mate! I can only imagine how amazing it feels! So exciting! Keep on loving and sharing with others! We all need hope:)
Congrats!!Be so happy,that you,yourself don't even,believe it...I wish you,from the bottom,of my heart!!
Katherine, congratulations ! ♥️
So happy for the both of you.
*May the love and joy continue for all of your days.*
Congratulations, Catherine!! I thank you so much for sharing that...
God bless you and your new relashionship 🙏❤️
"This is not positive thinking, this is creating"
"Make a list of everything you want in another person, and become those things"
"Forget the story, heal the emotion"
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Yesss
YES! The Law of Attraction.... you draw to you what mirrors your inner self.
Yes it's called a lovelist. There is only one ultimate partner out there for every person. 💖
@STARDUST Yes i did. It's different like everything elese you know about relationships. There is just love. Like joe said healing, growing together. You feel it in your core.
You know how i got her in my life?
I made the wish to have the perfect partner in my life.
It works, your choice is so powerful.
When I was in the process of looking for my partner, I was not looking for anyone except a soul who resonated. I put aside all the other things I thought mattered, was open as if I’d never been hurt, and I found him. ❤
Poor guy
@@Youknowwhoin2024 it’s unfortunate when someone is so bitter and miserable, that they seek complete strangers online to say nasty things to. I’m sorry to tell you, but it doesn’t diminish my happiness. I hope you find a way to heal someday.
@@CosmicCat23 Thanks for your confession
@@Youknowwhoin2024 this describes you, not I
@@CosmicCat23 Thanks for your confession
Watching this caused me to read his book Breaking free from Yourself, and now I am half way through Becoming Supernatural. I have read so many quantum coaches, but this guy is the best, hands down. I have had so many breakthroughs and transformations in just one month! I feel like I am in a renaissance into my higher self, and doing some serious shedding. So grateful!
I want to read both of these books too, which one would you recommend me reading first?
My Biggest Takeaway ♥
"Stop romancing Memory, Be Present ." Shivers***
Kimberley Chilcote,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🌷🌺
Romance your future
Being single was the best thing that happened to me. I realized being single or in partnership does not define my happiness. ❤
@@wifelife2023 Different individuals have different needs. But being happy alone saves you from settling, that is certain.
I don't know what D is!
@@sohara.... Nor do I. But his response gives us a really good idea why he is single !! Yrrch. Not a catch!
Facts be the best one can be for ourselves
The gut knows
Eckhart Tolle, Abraham Hicks and the like! This is love and joy!!! I have known these truths since I was a young child. We tend to lose sight of the truth as we become conditioned but our experiences. So grateful to continue to learn and understand that we are the creators of this time space continuum. How damn amazing!!!!
I love the both of you! Having podcasts like these is like having you over in my living room. Dr. Joe is amazing and so matter of fact! It sounds so easy and simple coming from him and the more you do it, the easier it comes! I would love to sit in person with the both of you! Such profound advice! Love it and you both! Such amazing positive energy!!
This man is so advanced for this world. I love him!!!
He is so advanced for this world, he should get a noble peace prize!
He is the most incredible human on earth. Thank you Dr Joe Dispenza for you have truly changed my life and it will continue to improve day by day through your teachings. 🙏
Not really. Look at hindu philosophy and theosophy
@@BenjaminBBB Yes he is the most incredible human on earth!
@@annamarie3288 yeah what he talks about is not new.
I’ve been listening to Dr. Joe for approximately one year now. He came in to my life, & literally crushed my old belief system into pieces.... the thoughts that created my severe depression, bipolar disorder, extreme anxiety, suicidal tendencies, self-injuring, borderline personality, on & on, along with my under lying subconscious mantra of “I am not worthy”. What a difference a year makes. Thank you, Dr. Dispenza, for sharing your incredible gifts with the world and changing my life. Much Love 💜
What helped you with depression. ?
Wow I did not realize how simply it is to snatch out of complex mental illnesses such as BPB and bipolar juts by listening to Joe dispenza!, how crazy is that ? Most probably you never suffered these diagnoses you claimed to. Just minor depression that your mind blew it out of its proper dimension and made you believe you actually had those diagnoses.
Believe me it takes much more than Mr Dispenza to cure BPD. You made him sound as a magician
@@zinasherif7791 what a prick, let her celebrate her well-being !
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Wow!!! Profound. That is wonderful!!!
My main takeaway is, to be so in love with myself that I can ALLOW others to be HOWEVER they want to be........I have been angry and I want to tell everyone How to be.....but this took me like 3 days to listen to while driving home, and NOW Iam feeling good.....good about me because I put everyone else first but now , last 2 days I'm not. Not returning calls I dont want to, going home watching hummingbirds, and loving ME. It's my first step , and going to release others or should I say my angry response. Just letting it GO!!!!
There is SO much information that it needs to be re-watched many times. :) While I appreciated much of what was brought it, I liked the part when it was said that you need to get sick of being where you are at and want better.. I also am grateful to "not respond" and to learn how to work on that and to be more happier. I loved this. Thank you
btw ~ Not everyone wants or needs another person in their life to be happy. I have been single & celibate since 2012. Life is more peaceful, happier. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.
Agreed 👍
Some Aspies seem happier alone
The familiar emotion is the past. The long version would be, the familiar energetically draining emotion is the past. I started this video in a really good place with another transforming thought, but I still want to listen to the end although I'm anxious to jump into my life it's so good now!
I have touched the divine😃💃
Marry a clear intention with an elevated emotion. Intention is huge because the universe wants to deliver.
Overthinking, overanalyzing separates the body from the mind. - Maynard James Keenan
thats also called "worry"
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Another Tool fan here! :)
The only way I found to stop overthink was throught meditation. which I practice every day now. as soon as I realize that Iam judging my thoughts I take a deep breath and just observe and it goes away.
"Every living thing is made of energy, frequencies."
When you listen to music and you don't like a song, you change the channel to something you enjoy. It's the same thing within yourself.
I love how he brings up Gratitude!
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Wow the part around 30:00 - so killer. I'm beginning to realise that Joe is a very special mind with a real gift to share to the world. Let's create a future where we're all supporting each other in our collective journey through consciousness. 🙏
Yes! Exactly how I feel: I do not want to "fix" anyone, so we can be together. Love is not "a battle field", on the contrary! "Love is gentle, easy, patient, kind, forgiving". Thank you for saying things the way they're really are.
Is it really all of those things? Not neglecting, judgmental, accusatory, disrespectful, emotionally & mentally abusive, that makes you go crazy and tears you down until you just don’t even know who you are anymore??
@@lacie623 nope. thats abusive, unhealthy, controlling
Not a battlefield but it is No man's land
Women always wanna change the guy. Because it’s easier to change him than it is To change themselves.
Yes, it's not my way or the highway..
Best interview ever!!! Please more interviews with Joe Dispenza. #greatness
Biggest takeaways:
1. Practice connection to the future.
2. When creating from the heart, you don't go anywhere because experiences come to you.
3. Activate the heart. Get the body out of survival.
4. Feeling before experience. You can teach your body emotionally what will feel like if you arrive into your future.
5. Believe in your future and tell the story of the future, not the past.
I don't understand the point number 2
No joke Is activating the heart just feeling good? Like thinking happy thoughts?
Try and be optimistic... got it
What a load of shite. The love I have for my Dog's and their love for me is, unconditional, simple, stress free and the best love there is. imo
@@mayarwasily5610 Perhaps this Rumi-poem might help:
"When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety; if I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without pain. From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me. There is a great secret here for anyone who can grasp it."
One of the deepest talks I’ve ever heard from Dr. Joe. I’ve been listening to this podcast on repeat for the past 3 days & every time I hear a new information. Thank you for sharing, Louis ❤
Thank you for sharing the story about your dad turning off the TV when medicine commercials came on. I do the same thing, and now I feel even more confident that I'm not only protecting my kids from programming but also helping them build a unified mind as a family.
"Thoughts are the language of the brain, feelings are the language of the body"
Hello Maureen
Very good!
my takeaways
I WAS victimized by someone
I VICTIMIZE myself by living in the emotion of that experience
Glad you got out in time.
Thankful for you. Explained it perfectly
Beautifully explained Lori ❤️
@@SheldonCarvalhosc there is always time Sheldon. That’s the thing about the silly saying it’s cliche but I can’t not say it so say it with me “IT IS NEVER TOO LATE” AND “ITS BETTER LATE THAN NEVER” repeatedly recite that to yourself like it’s your religion 🗣 time has nothing on the strong ass Sheldon superhuman that’s waiting for you to tap into it’s all in you! Maybe even try listening to feel good music it makes a monumental difference in managing mood and making it thru anything. I think music is magical if you let it be for u pro tip to that I’ve learned is to just know to be disciplined about sticking to stuff and sounds that make you feel good because music can be like medicine each type servers to treat specific stuff ya know :) here’s a link to a good station on UA-cam and it will give u similar options once you try that one to see which one you like best and suits you to feel the way u should feel to feel good ua-cam.com/users/TheGoodLiferadio
@@missbrazil3916 thank you. I'll check it out.
Finding love... Seems like that boat has sailed. My life is all twisted right now. I got diagnosed with an autoimmune condition and it's flipped my world. I'm questioning everything I've done and not done.
Everything seems like a mess and I'm digging myself into a deeper hole.
This condition it's gonna make socializing a lot of work. Don't know which woman would want all of this extra baggage.
So yeah I'm hopefull but I am also holding back. Like I've lost my confidence in me.
The older one gets the pickier they get too. And here I am. Beaten. 🥺
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15:08 You remember your future, so your body adjusts to be exactly what you are imagining when you are enjoying the emotions of what you are thinking, when you think about the future you want.
Best interview with Dr Joe yet.. Ever!! Ever!!!
Thank You Dr Joe for stepping more deeply and explaining the intricacies of this whole realm. This helps me to enter into your meditations at a whole 'nother level.
This is amazing.
Thank You Lewis!! ❤💛🌋🌷
I am 38 but after almost 6 weeks of mediation of Joe Dispenza and reading his book, I feel I am 26 again and everyone is asking me what happened with my skin and they see me I am glowing and blooming and they ask me what did I do? Am I in love again? I FEEL whole.... I am sure till Dec I will be in love with the best match 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🙌🙏😊😇🥰🥰🙇♀️🙇♀️💕💕💕💞💞💞💞💞
@@changeoffocus1074 The Bible.
@@changeoffocus1074 no I would not understand it.
farzahne did you find his guided meditations anywhere? Thank you and congrats on your acomplishment ;-)
@@ellaklippel search his name on Spotify. There are a few there.
You look great
I wish everybody understood what he talks about, this feeling is called unconditional love and true happiness, that nothing and no one can take from you.
Dr Joe Dispenza, please never stop teaching people.
I want to meet you Dr. Joe DiSpenza your my Hero. Godbless you good information. Thanks for the school of Greatness... Good work
Yes
I understood everything what he says.
Love is conditional though..to be vulnerable and true to myself its with a condition
What? You wish everybody would understand? Why wouldn’t we, we are listening just like you.
I listened to this 2 years ago and I have grown so much!! I totally feel so happy with me n who I am and it’s like a 180 since then.. thank you for your teachings🥰
Feeling my whole being vibrating with this divine truth! My chakras are dancing with delight❤ So full of gratitude 😊
I watched this a year ago and never thought almost a few months later I’d meet my soulmate. I’m in love and am love
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Congratulations❤
Congratulations Sara ❤
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Where’d you find him?
Trading survival emotions for elevated emotions.... now you’re talking about something that takes courage....
Why such a thing should take courage is surely an important question, why do we choose to live the way we do?Many thinkers either because they've had some kind of epiphany or whatever have tried to help us but we choose to remain addicted to pain and suffering, why?
@@davideatwell6577 good question Dave, why do you?
Wow! I'm only 20-30 minutes in and he has blown my mind! I already feel better and has learned a lot! Thank you for this interview! ❤
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
Same I already feel like writing out most the interview and redoing over it all night ♥️IJCN
I used to think that listening to podcasts was something boring but this. This video changed my mind absolutely. Thank you for making this and bringing the knowledge to us. Both of you are wonderful
We do not need to FIND love. We only need to believe that we are lovable. Once we love ourselves truly, then other good things (like be with someone) will happen automatically.
Wow that’s a great point. To believe that I am lovable. I don’t know that I really believed that before.
Yesss
When I find I'm lovable, here comes the user guy who wants FWB, wanting free sex without commitment. Sigh. No thank you.
You know why I'm single? cause humanity is getting scarier day by day tbh, and it's like if all the narcissistic people have gotten out from their cave just because of the social media era. It's easier than ever to spot them. To anyone out there, please, don't feel pressured by social standards and don't throw yourself to whatever person's arms just because you don't want to remain single. Don't force shit.
I get you.
True I had a relationship with a narcissist and became really I'll, I let him go for good
I have experienced this, seeing other human beings with the same mentality is a privilege, thank you for sharing!!
I have struggled for days to share HOW MUCH I AM for your pure Heart in every pod you cast! This video came after I watched your beautiful vulnerable share with your wife, and now THIS?! Wow and how I do remember… from the deepest well in my heart be ing.. I wish to thank you for your straight up true self! Oh my oh my my! Xoxo
"If you want to hide the divine anywhere in a human being, the best place to hide it is within them.They’ll look everywhere else for it." MY WORD
this!
I was thinking about love and how God is love, nothing can fully encompass his kind of love, but we can activate from within. It makes sense that it exist within and that we can turn it on. It makes sense that it within our genetic make up. What an amazing Creator and creation we are a beautiful dance (Proverbs 25:21-22). Yeshua taught to love your enemy, this is powerful. Heeping coals on their heads. Some would say that's a negative, but love doesn't produce negative. Coal is very cleanings. Loving is healing. We can change ourselves and the world by love.
🤨 wooorrrd
“When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain."
-Mark Twain
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Wow what a fantastic quote, never heard this one before "“When you fish for love, bait with your heart, not your brain." SO GREAT that you shared this!
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I love Mark Twain 😍
I can't even count how many times I've watched this lol! I learn something new every time! Thank you both Lewis & Joe for sharing!
I reached that state many times, and am grateful , it’s about focus, mindset, vibration, doing the things in life that feel good, not just every now & then, but every day. Every day, I love to make coffee with a grinder, I love watering my plants, I love to hike, yoga, meditate, cook, listen to music , dance, write, draw, paint. While I can’t do all of them every day, some I can and they bring a sense of joy & peace. My old pattern beliefs however were heavily triggered during my last relationship. They brought me into an abyss, that I am healing from, and I’ve done it so many times throughout the course of my life, that I feel like every time I’ve experienced this, I’ve learned something a lil deeper & more insightful about myself & others. And the thing about it is, I can see the patterns before I am trying to make a judgement or decision. It makes me go a LOT slower, to take time to reflect & choose differently than I have in the past. Ergo, not choosing the same pattern that I can see ahead of time. Choose love always, yes, I agree…. And yet, when I get to the state of wholeness & awe, I want to share with someone, because I want them to heal & feel good about life tooooo. This feeling of wanting to share it, along with a feeling of I can handle whatever because I’m whole, well, that seems to attract some people that will use me. Discernment is a great side dish to go along with love 💕
Can I be the next man to use you? 😁
He just mostly rambled in this interview. I found my husband, when I prayed, fasted and determined what type of person I needed, not wanted. When he came into my life, I recognized him immediately and he asked me to marry him within months. Been together 8 years.
Amen
such a true distinction!! to figure out what you need, and ask for that ! and not necesserally for what you want...
You got me at person I needed
You did what he is saying! You practiced what you needed, you fasted and prayed, and you put the needs into what you wanted!!! He is explained it more complicated! But he is described what happened when you did all the things to help you fins, your husband!
@@agynes8827 oh I hadn't been back to this comment. I didn't get past 5 minutes in the video. It took years for me to understand you are what you attract. When I look back, all I was trying to do is commit to loving myself and achieve the goals I set, and ta dah...there he was 🙏🏽
“They could walk right past the person they’ve been wanting because they’re looking at their future from the neurology and chemistry of their past...”
makes sense
I'm really so happy that now I can say I'm whole after more than a decade of being needy and insecure. And it's the best feeling ever. You just have to keep thinking positive thoughts and if you ever think of negative ones, don't be attached to those unpleasant feelings. Just go back to thinking good thoughts.
Every time I feel like I'm slipping, I rewatch this and it gets me back on track. This is my favorite one out of all your magnificent videos. Keep up the good work buddy!
Thank you Lord for letting me find this video. I'm in the healing process and man is it hard! Praying for all of you beautiful souls 🙌🙌🙌😘😘😘
🙏 Amen
Yeah this applies to all aspects of life. I stressed my self into an auto immune condition. Definitely hard to heal. So much of my past life is flashing before me.
Everything around annoys me.
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“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” - Mark 11:24
Amen ❣
Healing process means you are someone fridged
•Thoughts are the language of the brain. Feelings are the language of the body.” Dr Joe Dispenza
Brain is part of the body itself. Brain? R u refering to the mind. Let me tell u mind dwells in the peniel glind of our brain. Feeling means memories which we have accumulated in our body from our great great great great grandfather or ancestor.. For which we naturally react via our body when we get certain types of emotion or feeling.
This is not from him it is Eastern wisdom and a well known nuerological metaphor in academia and the wellness/health sector and heartmath institute.
Peace is the language of spirit.
So meaning technically, if I can infiltrate a person's thought pattern I can influence their feelings. I am a rapper and this is such a great piece of power to have
This was the most profound 2 hour interview I have ever listened to. Best road trip. Thank you so much for this content
Dr Joe is such a high level guest,,,way to go Lewis,,you have great interviews that always help life situations!
I actually discovered Lewis because of Joe Dispenza, I’ve been watching Joe’s interviews and show on Gaia for years. I love how Lewis asks him to go deeper than his memorized spiel into stuff about love and relationships. Lewis listens with such bright eyes and so disarmed, I want a man who can do that for me. When I go on and on sharing everything I understand and have learned about reality and consciousness, I want a man who can get excited like that and jump in and help me understand things even better. Everyone around me has been so dim! So uninterested (or afraid) of these things. I have a fire burning in my soul to know the truth and if I have to keep it to myself forever I would rather do that than spend even one more date with a man who can’t actually hear me because his consciousness (or honesty) just isn’t at my level.
I feel the same way
Snaps, sis! You’ll find him 😄
Ooh girl I feel you so deeply! Have you read the power of now by eckhart? Women are more in touch with their feelings/ emotions and so are moving into greater consciousness at a faster rate than men are. Whilst the world wakes up there is going to be a lag time between women waking up and men waking up. All I can say is keep visualising him! And then come together with your conscious friends to ease this feeling. I'll be a gal pal if you are after another concious/ excited truth seaking pal😊 ✨
Don’t worry Yellow Ninja you’ll find him. Keep better yourself as you are and stay excited for your own sake. He’ll emerge.
As a 60+ year old who finally became truly cognizant that we create our own reality, I choose to be happy. I am frequently surprised at the random acts of kindness and love I am shown 🙂. And I feel such Gratitude. Keep your faith. And the Universe will surprise you! Lead by example ❤ . It's about you, not others.
OMG !!!! Seriously, last night I searched "Joe Dispenza + Love + Soulmates" and here it is, wow!!! I'm in alignment 😃😃😃
Yes! You are in heart coherence and in alignment with Dr. Joe and The Divine! Wow you are tuned in tapped in and turned on!
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Thank you ! I finally found out what I was experiencing thanks to this video. I reached this state over 6 years ago and couldn't put it into words to help others so now I can.
This is amazing information. I am reading Bessel Von Der Kolk's "the Body Keeps the Score" and this video really helped me have a better understanding of what the book is saying. I have been stuck out of balance for yrs and I really didn't understand what was going on. Now, I have truly have been woke up to recently and I have realized what a less grumpy person I was. Even stressed out I wasn't nearly as complaintive, grumpy, depressed, or angry. I am working on finding my happiness inside again. I have struggled but I am slowly moving forward. Great content. I love Dr. Joe!!
Lewis!!!! In 2020 you had an interview with Dr. Joe …. that interview healed me!!! When Dr. Joe said love resets the base line of the trauma in the amygdala! I started doing the meditations! Thank you to both of you!! 🎉
And now I’m happily engaged!!!🎉
Wow, this is so inspiring to read! All the best to you
Which meditation
Curious to know which meditation releases oxytocin
@@Favored20 all of Dr. Joe’s meditations do as they are all designed to open the heart, and when you open the heart release is oxytocin, which also release is oxytocin the brain which travels to the amygdala and resets the amygdala
What is the video called?
This is teaching us to love like we haven’t been hurt before. Love this!
It truly is and love transcend everything awaken to the true feelings of love and appreciation of the now of the moment n of creation 🎉
Or love like it doesn't matter if you've been hurt before, you know you won't ever feel that emptiness and sorrow again.
You become unbreakable by loving yourself.
Wow so powerful.
Isn't that a frame quote women buy at target to hang on their wall?
I am keep listening to this vdo so many time and never get bore … so interesting information … thank you so much from Thailand …. 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
Lewis... I just So So Love how engaging and connecting you continually are in your "interviews!"..
Your Interactions and connections with your guests. Much greater than just an Interview.!
I Love our mutual friend Ed Mylet! He's Amazing! ❤ Just something very special how you interact. You two are my Most Favorite Ever!!!
Thank You for getting Dr Joe into your studio!
Love you all So Much!!!
I am continually sharing your interviews with many friends. 🎉😊❤
I have fasted, prayed and waited on God for direction given what I was passing through, and it seem nothing is happening. Then this clip came a long and I now know why it came at this time. This is the revelation I needed to forge ahead and move foward, and I know what I should be doing. God has been using so many cues to help me move forward.. Thanks for this video..
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Same here. Praise God🙏
God sent me here, too.
Sometimes people just don’t find their someone. Also being single isn’t lonely or miserable.
I've learned contentment and it works, along with meditation of course @
Well , it's ok not 2 b ok , 2 b lonely is ok the truth is v all are alone, even if u have family and friends
Besides, as far as I can tell Dr. Joe Dispenza is single lol.
Sometimes someone's someone is themselves and God and that is good enough, if not better, for some of us
Some prefer to stay single because they`re happy that way. This should not be leveled negatively.
So good!! I keep coming back to feel grateful having a good life. Thank you. ❤
I’m in awwww! Captivated! I am so grateful to have found Joe . I can’t get enough. Definitely addicted. Thank you again!!
It's so true. Break the programming, and change thoughts to the positive. I've turned my life around, and PTSD is a thing of the past, by having quiet time, meditation and listening to certain audiobooks, keeping away from abusive types, and from having bonds with people who are unsuitable. I've realised it's not my place to fix everything and everyone's problems, and that codependency has been replaced with only doing things which are appreciated by others. I'll never change my kind nature, but have developed more discernment. I now live a very quiet life, it's lovely. Right enough, good things are coming, got a new job, and feel better about everything. Negative thoughts are necessary occasionally, but I definitely dwell on nice things now, and it makes such a difference.
I got rid of my TV.
Amazing journey!
Happy for you! Will definitely try
Beautiful💯🌟🍷
Definitely works. When I left toxic environments my life moved forward toward my dreams.
Love yourself first....
Love your life first...
Love the people...
Be love....
Absolutely!
I loved this so much! Thank you Joe and Lewis, love you both!!! 😘❤️🥰⭐️👏
It's great to see the interviewer allow the interviewee actually respond without cutting them off. Nicely done. 🙏🏻😊💛
Thank you so much!
"Imagine the person you would love and try to write the features of this person on the piece of paper. *Now become this person.* "
I have to become a woman?
That’s all he needed to say really
@@larrytate1657 you just don't get it i am sorry for you
I love this .. like attracts like 👍 💕😍
@@larrytate1657no... become qualitatively desirable as the woman
He said “focusing on the past keeps us in survival mode, (creation can’t happen from there)” & that was all I needed to hear today help me along on my journey. It explains what’s been going on with me over the last 2 years. Those words brought the release I needed. This is the lightest I’ve felt in a loooong time.
This chat isn’t about relationships for me. It’s about how to be in life. I’m only 39 minutes in and I am appreciating it so much. Thank you.
Great interview. Thank you
You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡
You're welcome🧡
Have you ever read Eckhart Tolle's book The Power of Now? He speaks about living in the present moment to find peace and joy, because living in the past or worrying about the future brings depression and anxiety
@@Eserr7856 Love his books...I learned how to meditate...really meditate through Tolle's books!
Agreed! This goes far beyond love life, it's life!
So Helpful and Healing . Joe is inspiring and Lewis’ sweet Expressions are Awesomeness. Thank You 🙏