A Terminally-Ill Man's Last Birthday Alive
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- Опубліковано 30 кві 2023
- Mr Mani was only 47 when he was diagnosed with stage four renal cancer. Living alone in a nursing home, not knowing when his time will be up, he makes one final wish.
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We’d like to thank Mr Mani for trusting our team and allowing us to document his journey thus far. In our time with him, we’ve come to witness the extraordinary strength, love and care he shows to everyone around him, even at his lowest moments.
During filming, he shared with us that his wish of going to Universal Studios was actually for his daughter, and he was simply very excited to spend time with his family outside of the nursing home, just like they used to. It’s been a really powerful experience for us to have these conversations with him, and we’re glad that we could help capture his special day out with his family 🙂
It’s Mr Mani’s 49th birthday today on the 1st of May. If you’d like, do share your wishes for him in the comments, and we’d be sure to share it with him!
- Yu En (OGS Producer)
Happy birthday Mr Mani! Stay strong!
Happy Birthday !! Stay strong and be happy
Happy belated birthday Mr. Mani, stay strong and we are all here to support you 😊
HBD! Aluta continua!!
Happy birthday Mr Mani! praying for many more days of joy and peace for you and ur family! :) You are very very brave, strong, and optimistic and this spirit of yours is inspiring to many. May you continue to always see the beauty in life in the many days ahead of u, and that ur days ahead shall be supernaturally painless! You are very loved, God bless!
"Maybe if people are stressed, they will say "I want to die", but saying that is easy, but going through the last stage is very lonely."
This line hits me hard honestly.
Very devastating.
:(
i missed it, can you tell me which part is this
@@zerulu67870:50
This is why wanting to commit suicide or saying things like "omg life is pain i just want it to end" isn't cool or edgy. Somehow nowadays ppl like to glorify depression and killing themselves so they seem cool or quirky.
It's not. It's devastating to the ones who actually care for you. And you're just taking the easy way out.
The fact hes still there in the hospital trying to live his best life at the moment is very emotional. Happy birth day brother.
2x . He has a good heart and attitude.
Cancer is taking so many lives right now and future.
Many experts say to limit sugar…
@@AlA-ok5jh not only limit sugar. cut sugar completely off go on keto with intermittent fasting and take a glutaminblocker because cancer gets feeded by glucose and glutamine. cut the source and starve the cancer
@@AlA-ok5jh💉💉💉💉 turbo cancers due to this. Do your research.
@@AlA-ok5jh👍👍V positive
Thank you
For him to smile and say "Countdown starts" that's how real it gets , gave me goosebumps.
You r beautiful
The countdown really starts as soon as we are born. No one gets out of this alive.
@@charlotteziggy8353 It speeds up when one is near the entrance of death.
This hits hard....just makes you think how lucky we are to be alive. My prayers are with Mr Mani and his family.
So True Tom.....makes you really stop and realize how short one life can be and we should try to make the most of each day and try to stay positive and happy and let go of the negative.
😂 our time will come. Sooner rather than later
@@southlondon2051 yes, and that's why i BELIEVE we would fill that little time full of LOVE AND COMPASSION FOR OUR FELLOW FAMLIY CALLED LIFE
No.
@@southlondon2051your cats will die knowing their owner had a lower IQ than a monkey
I think this was how my dad felt
The night before he died, he hugged me and told me he won't die, he'd be at my graduation, wedding, etc
And he died the next day. It was so heartbreaking, but i don't know how to mourn and deal with those feelings
Its been 3 years. He had late discovered cancer. He was 49. May his soul rest in peace 🕊️💕
sorry to hear that
I'm so sorry to hear that
❤️💔
Namu Amida Butsu
My condolences 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
As an Oncologist I face these kinda situations almost daily and counselling the terminal patients is really really hard on our nerves! fewtimes I broke down after counselling! So you can imagine how difficult it is for the patient going through it! I wish him good time whatever he has left with! May he spend it with his family! After coming to this field as specialist of 7 years I started appreciating life more n more my perspective about life changed drastically!
As an oncologist, do you ever worry about getting cancer yourself? Do you do any checkups? If so, what kind and how often? After witnessing my mom pass from cancer at the beginning of the year and learning a lot about cancer and treatments in general, i dont see a real feasible way how one can stay one step ahead of any cancer really?
Thanks
@@bulkathos5207 not really afraid of getting it but yes we investigate more thoroughly if we become ill for any reason! But that has to do with someones personality as well as a person I am quite a perfectionist kind so I dont sit still until I investigate a symptom properly!
@@bulkathos5207 I get my routine tests yearly! Which includes USG scans. Blood profile.
@@bulkathos5207 very sorry to hear about your mother passing away. It depends upon type of cancer she had if she had a genetic predisposition then definitely you need screening. Or if she got diagnosed before 50 years of age. But if she got diagnosed after 50 then you can just have your routine tests yearly. If you are a female add mammogram to that routine profile yearly After age of 35.
I had a cousin. He died when he was 19. Found out he had cancer at 17. It was a few weeks after O level results. He was really excited to be able to study to become a nurse but cancer happened. He was devastated. Didn't want to see anyone, when people visit he would pretend to sleep. It was so sad to see him go like that.
Can understand his feeling. He is very young. Just don't understand life is curel sometimes 😢
You can choose to die at home. But obviously the family is just fake concerns.
Fuck man that’s harsh. Rip to the man sorry for your loss.
@@justinkey8689 *was very young
Maybe that’s what his soul needed- reflection and solitude.
A year later he is strong may God give your life back mr mani.... Get well
I cried uncontrollably, so damn sad, you are a beautiful human being Mani!
When death is knocking at the door every one becomes humble
Grow up
@@eggbenedict-gt7mw Sadly its the truth but we are all like that tho we dont see the flash before our eyes
@@quasirali6660 🤡
@@quasirali6660 every one has feelings just remember that!
Update: Thank you for leaving your encouragement and kind words for Mr Mani :) We've conveyed all your well wishes to him, and he would like to thank all of you for your birthday wishes, and for supporting him with your blessings and prayers. They mean a lot to him and he truly appreciates all of your thoughtful comments ❤
yes ❤
❤😢
Mr Mani, I am praying for you.
Mr mani is a legend, he's a chill guy
Mr mani is a legend, he's a chill guy
So nice of him to call his Filipino caregiver "Kuya".
Randomly being told you have terminal cancer is literally the biggest fear I have. I can’t imagine the pain this family has gone through.
OGS… You did it again… my tear just literally roll out uncontrollably…
I don’t want to die like that
Lol😂😂
Please control yourself and lets just pray for Mr Mani
@@brandenlowmalaysia28low62 Don't
නිදුක් නිරෝගී සුවය mani.
I came across this video today (1 May) by chance and was so moved to discover that it is his 50th birthday.
So, if you can hear me, Mr Mani, Happy 50th birthday and may you find peace and joy every day.
As someone who is only 2 years younger than him and with considerable personal and professional experiences interacting with chronically and terminally ill patients, I was able to relate to him at so many levels.
Indeed, the difference in his successful world before he was ill and his current one is extraordinary and poignant.
In one frame, we see photos of a healthy him in exotic and glamourous locations and in another, he is bedridden and depends on full time caregivers for all his essential needs.
His story and struggles are powerful reminders to us not to lose sight of the things which truly (and eventually) matter - good health, family and loved ones.
The joy on his face after seeing his family despite his pain is priceless. He deserves many more such birthdays.
This is such a poignant reminder for us all to treasure the time we have with our families and loved ones, cuz you will never know how long that will last. As someone who's father is also diagnosed with stage 4 renal cancer, this hits especially hard. Mr Mani, I sincerely wish you and your family the very best and that you will stay strong in the face of adversity. Thank you for sharing your precious moments with us.
Hi Alex, thank you for sharing this. Really sorry to hear about your father's condition, we're rooting for you and your family too ❤
What if you are all alone and don't have any family anymore.
@@ltaurus2105 I can't make new friends because I am paranoid. Not even kidding...
I wasn’t expecting to bawl my eyes out at the end. Like vocal crying. Definitely changes my perspective on life.
@@somebuddyful if you believe in Jesus Christ and accept him as your lord and savior you’ll never be alone in life trust me
Mr Mani would also like to thank the volunteers at Ambulance Wish Singapore, the staff at THK Nursing Home, NKF & Universal Studios Singapore as well as his social worker Adrian for supporting him in his journey thus far.
If you’d like to support Ambulance Wish Singapore with your time or donation, do reach out to them at enquiries@ambulancewishsingapore.com
Thank you Ambulance Wish and all for fulfilling Mr Mani’s wish, and even helped to prepare gifts for the family of Mr Mani! 🤗🌻 So thoughtful & nice of all of u! 🙏🏼 He will have many beautiful memories at USS to last him a lifetime now ❤️❤️❤️
Is there a link that we can go to make a contribution to the relocation fee?
@@danielleong646 yes, I’d love to have the link as well
@@danielleong646I emailed them about this and this was their response:
Thank you for your kind offer in wanting to help Mr Mani’s family members relocate to him.
I’d conveyed your suggestion to Mr Mani. Mr Mani thanked you for your kind offer. However, he explained his wife works in JB and his daughter is currently studying as well so relocation is not possible. His family visits him on weekends which Mr Mani looks forward to their visit.
Can I roughly know how is the updates of Mr Mani ? Thank you.
"When they close their eyes and mention my name; I'll be there with them" That's absolutely right, you will never die to them, brother. May you have a happy birthday and get to share more beautiful memories with your family.
The most painful moment is not when you want to die, but when you know your time will come soon and you don't want to die.
Very true I'll never forget my grandmother saying: I wish I could love longer before she died of cancer.
Hi there! Jesus says to you today: "Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28
May God bless you! 😊
Hello Mr. Mani, for some reason I feel compelled to write a comment so if you see this I want to let you know that it is tough to fight a battle when all the odds are against you. It is tough to fight a sickness when you're hurting. But please stay strong, and in your darkest moments, think of your family. And even when you feel that all hope is lost, I want to tell you that it is not. Even if you are gone, you live in your wife and your daughter's heart forever. May God give you the strength to overcome whatever challenges you will face, and you will meet your family again, be it on Earth or in what comes after that.
We've sent your well wishes to Mr Mani, he truly appreciates it and says thank you!
As someone who just recovered from cancer, testicular cancer. I tear up every time after seeing these stories. It makes me appreciate my situation more and more as I was still given an opportunity to carry on. I had to go through 2 surgeries, an orchiectomy and a L-RPLND , and 3 round of BEP chemotherapy. Every moment I spent in the ward, I saw uncles crying in pain, their wives and children by their side. It really made me open my eyes. I am lucky enough to be have been 23 going through all this as my body is able to recover smooth through all this. Could never imagine the elderly's pain.
Please appreciate every moment you have in life. Remember that there's always someone who might be praying to be in your shoes as it would be better for them. Remain strong and reach out to someone if you ever need it. From what I have learnt, even strangers walking past you might be willing to give you a listening ear.
Thanks for sharing so bravely, we're rooting for you in this journey ❤
fucken hell mate u get em lopped off any way yeh cancer free buddy have fun learn how to surf or some shit
What is your age
@@eggbenedict-gt7mw dont know u tell me buddy
@@OGS.Official. Can we have😂 arts and crafts in , hospital😂 if we have stage 4 cancer ,,😅can we get to make things for our family if my husband pays for art supplies 😂
This was from almost a year ago, and a new may is arriving. I can't help but wonder, if he spent his last birthday last year or he gets to have another one soon... My birthday is on may 2, a day after his.
idk should i say this but, I used to take care of him back when he was still in Khoo Teck Puat Hospital since i started working as an Agency Nurse 2 years back. When I first report for my first duty, he was sitting on his bed crying and even though I was feeling awkward, I took a tissue for him and sat and talk to him and soon we became closer with each other where I have helped him with his daily tasks and even basic care such as showering and changing of his diapers. I still remember him till today and after seeing this video being posted, it brings back so much memories I had with him that allows me to continue doing what I love doing since few years back. I remember all the laughs and jokes we had and he was always understanding and patience when knowing I had to take care of other 11 patients. To Mr Mani, you might not remember me but I really wish the best for you and your health and thank you for this opportunity to have cared for you during your difficult periods.
Great job man.. Is he still aluve
Happy Birthday. You have my highest respect for facing the illness with such courage and grace.
The color of his skin is so beautiful. When he said the countdown starts…hit hard
Honestly seems like a great guy. Praying for Mani and best wishes to his family
Those who viewed this video and live in Singapore should drop by to visit him and help him in any way possible. Financial or just to talk to him and motivate him to persevere. Because when they are undergoing chemo they easily get depressed.
This broke my heart 😭
+1 😢
Me too
A poignant reminder to treasure our lives and appreciate those around us❤
Aww. My dad was 52 when he passed from cancer. I was 27. Im 55 now. I miss him more then i thougt i would
Why do i watch these type of videos, while i know I can’t handle them 😭😭😭😭
My aunt is suffering from colon cancer and is terminally ill. She’s in her mid-50s and the doctors said she would have 3-6 months left. It’s been 2 months already.
When she found out the news of her illness, she found it hard to accept. “I don’t wanna die yet. I still have things I want to do, I don’t want my life to be over,” she said in tears.
She has three children, the youngest being 16. As of now, she’s spending her remaining days in our hometown. She told my mom to take care of my kids once she passes away, and told my uncle to stop drinking and smoking so much, though my uncle never listened. My aunt has been really brave, still smiling despite the pain. Our family will probably never spend Christmas again with her this year, or her birthday which is still later in the year. It’s been devastating and hard.
I’m currently far away from her because I’m studying abroad. I wish I could be there with her, she’s so nice and kind, always checking up on whether I’ve eaten my meals or whether I got home safely. I plan to return soon, and I really hope I could see her smile in-person at least one more time. Thank you for sharing your story, you are so brave. I wish you and your family all the best. ❤️
I pray she stays past this Christmas
how's your aunt?
@@aronvince6112 Not well. She’s lost so much weight and can hardly move. She has no appetite anymore and she looks really emaciated.
She’s still fully conscious, however. She still smiles and laughs, and can still express emotions.
@@Hanyunaa22I'm so sorry I lost my auntie in 2019 because of colon cancer and we got told she only has 2 weeks to live we did everything we could to make her happy and we spent the last days with her non stop
@@Ezmeralda510 Aww I’m sorry for your loss. My aunt just passed away last Sunday. It’s been a period of grieving for all of us but we’ll be fine, I know it 🙏🏻
Don't worry, Mr Mani. Our life on Earth isn't the end. When it's our time to pass, we reunite with our family whom have passed before us. You will once again be reunited with your daughter and other loved ones when it is their time to go. Journey does't end with death
Yes it is..stop telling yourself nonsense so you can feel better and try to cope instead of facing reality. There is no life after death or reuniting. this is it..
Any updated on how he's doing?
The name of Mr. Mani's daughter Ponniyla actually means "Golden Moon". This man loves his family so much and I hate to see him go through this. Keep up that fight Mr.Mani, we are all with you and so is lord Shiva! 🙏🏻
The daughter had already made her dad “the light” and “an angel” 🫤
His last wish he made it about his family and making them remember him joyfully, such a pure and noble man. Happy Birthday Mr. Mani, and thank you for sharing your story with the world, you won't be forgotten anytime soon 🙏💖
I'm so happy he reached his birthday, when stuff like this hits, it's really the little things that make all the difference.
I never cried. But i cried at this video. I might never understand what Mr. Mani and his family were going through but this hits me hard for some reason. I wish everyone in the world all the best things that life can offer.
Happy Belated Birthday Mr Mani! Thank you for telling us your story. My mum is currently fighting stage 4 lung cancer and it has been a wild ride for us. I am happy that you have your family with you and that's really the most important thing right now. I have regrets like you too for not spending enough time with my mum in the past, so I am fortunate to have a chance to cherish these moments right now. Mr Mani, I wish that you can continue creating new memories with your family and please don't ever give up fighting!
Stay strong Huiyu, sending love and light to you and your family ❤
@@OGS.Official Thank you for this story as well! ❤
I needed this reminder. Mr. Mani, Happy 49th Birthday💕 You have a beautiful family. Your daughter is so sweet and so loving. What wisdom at such a young age "Let the light come in. You can't let anything be dark"
Most of us always think of death as in the future. A terminal disease makes you face it head on. Godspeed Mr. Mani.💙✝️🙏
This broke my heart and made me cry. He’s such a sweet husband and father. You’re in my thoughts and prayers, Mr Mani. I hope you’re doing well. Anyone know how he’s doing? 🙏
this legend taking it like a champ. i cant say that i will be this collected if it were me. good on him for creating memories before saying goodbye
i thought i wont cry watching this kinda video, but till the end when the man saying all these words, i just cant help with the tears rolling out my eyes
Actually I don’t usually comment on videos, but Mr.Mani I really believe God can do a miracle in your life. I know it seems crazy but keep fighting on. My grandmother was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, and the doctors gave her 4 months to live. She ended up living another 4 years. Don’t give up:) Thank you for being such an inspiration.
As someone who lost their father to terminal illness at a young age, I hope his family is able to find comfort in the memories & legacy he left behind. That would be one of the best ways to honor him. God Bless anyone going through this situation. You're stronger than you know.
you may not be with them physically once you pass, but you'll always be with your family in spirit and eternally in their hearts and minds
Even during sex?
@@HonderdtachtigCC FU
@@HonderdtachtigCClol.
Tears streamed down my face 20 seconds into the video.. thank you OGS T_T
Omg he’s 50th birthday is one month away 😭 I really hope he makes it to then and even longer. Sending prayers to his family
I never really comment on videos but this one touched me. Sending all the love to Mani and his beautiful family!
Jesus Christ, this hit me so hard because I just lost my dad on NYE after he was on hospice. I had to watch him slowly pass and seeing this brave man get his final wish fulfilled made me cry because of the love between him and his family. His tears made my tears fall. Bless him and his family ❤
Jesus Christ your right is the Way Truth & Life.
Crazy how the world is a wonderful planet but filled with happy & sad times/news.
@@AlA-ok5jh shameless you are.
@@AlA-ok5jh get out
*Can we have a Part 2 of this documentary cos we need to know latest recent update of Mr Mani lifes journey cos his story is so inspiring and God bless Mr Mani and his family*
If you look at the picture of him before he was diagnosed with cancer and now, it’s a big difference. The damage cancer can do is evident in just the physical appearance. Sad.
Does somebody know anything abt Mr. Mani like how is he now????
I was holding back my tears until the moment when Mr Mani watched his daughter’s video😢 really touching.. happy birthday Mr Mani!
I’m glad you are being taken cared of a fellow Filipino. I hope you’re getting all the care and compassion you need from kuya.
love filipinos
@@heavyx8me too
his daughter laughing to conceal her heartache and mani forgetting about his pains when he sees his daughter enjoy is so beautiful yet so sad to watch
My friend, you are NOT alone. Each of us is connected to a higher power. Never forget I won't forget you.
My colleague was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer and took time away from work to seek treatment. After 4 months we received news that he was to be transferred to palliative care, which meant he didn't have much time left. We quickly made plans to visit him but he passed on 2 days later. It was a shock for all of us, more so for his wife who was his main caregiver to come to terms with her loss. Sincerely hope that Mr Mani's remaining days will be happy and as painless as possible. ❤ Stay positive, stay strong and I hope you live out the rest of your time to the fullest.
Damn I cried with him after he watched the video made by his daughter. He has indeed a nice supportive family and I hope he'll stay with them as long as possible.
He has a beautiful loving daughter and wife. Such a touching story.
Thankful that this video showed up when I am most stressed out. I am worried about picking the wrong major that will ruin my life, but from what i can see, that is really just living through life. There is nothing more stressful than knowing you are entering the last phase of your life. Thank you Mr. Mani for reminding me what is important. Thank you for slowing me down in the world of chaos and hurdle. Happy Birthday.
Isn’t perspective crazy?!
My heart :( I feel so sorry for his wife and kid
OGS, you have outdone yourself again….this is the sort of stories that really matters, especially in a current times of humanity crisis where greed and sensationalization dominates….Mr Mani, everyone will be rooting for you and your beautiful family, please find your peace with this world so that you can given strength to your wife and daughter.
At least he was able to have children and continue his bloodline. May Allah accept him and bless his family
What a hero you are Mani!!!
You have showed me how to appreciate the life god has given us.
Father,in Jesus name.
May you bless Mani and his family wherever they are.
Is he still alive now?
Fuck man. I'm tearing up without even realizing. He is such a lucky father to have a loving wife, a loving daughter who is expressive with her love and care and concern towards her ill stricken father..and the father knowing and accepting his..inevitable end..
He chose to enjoy this journey with his family rather than wilt away. Brave dad and husband. I cannot imagine what it’s like for him, when by himself. This is the time you hope there really is a God.
The fact that every video I've watched, the people who are dying are mainly worried about their loved ones having to watch them deteriorate and pass away is both beautiful and heart breaking.
Mr. Mani you are a sweet and brave person. Your family is lovely. Your video reminds people to be grateful for health, love and God's grace. God bless you 🙏.
Happy Birthday Mr Mani I hope you get to stay longer in this world
No offense but wouln't that mean he has to suffer for an even longer amount of time from cancer that didn't kill him?
@@OverlordRayquaza384 maybe from what I see he wants to live longer to stay longer with his family eventhough he's in pain
@@JayJay-st1jj I shall not put a finger on it.
@@OverlordRayquaza384 Keep your fingers to yourself and everything and everyone would be alright. 😅
Please do not give up. Mr Mani. May the touching words of your loves one in the video give you all the strength that you never knew you have in you to fight your illness and win the battle. Keep fighting! I hope you get to see your family everyday and even live with them in Singapore.
The tears on his eyes😢 literally tells everything, God is with you Mr Mani, May God give u strength and wipe your tears. You have such a beautiful family God is there with u all ❤️ dont worry ur really a great strong father ur family will be happy always along with u 🥲
Happy Birthday! My dad’s birthday is three days after yours, such a special time of year 🥳 Sending tons of love and positive energy for you and your beautiful family🎁🎊🎈🎈🎈HAPPY 49th BIRTHDAY!!!
Happy Birthday Mr Mani, and hope that the social workers have managed to relocate your family to Spore to be closer with you. May god be with you and your family.
It's such a tragedy that Mr Mani had to be struck with this dreadful disease. Hope that with love and support from his lovely family, he will be able to win this battle
My father passed away last year. He had bulbar palsy, an incurable illness. The worse was to see him die each day. Still sends shivers down my spine and I hope nobody has to die everyday dreading the day they breathe their last. Life changes in a jiffy and is uncertain, if one remembers this, one can wade through life with ease. God bless everyone.
I HAVE A STRONG FEELING HE WILL LIVE A LONGER LIFE
He has terminal cancer. He was dead the moment he was diagnosed
I know how it feels. My late dad passed away to 4th stage of Prostate Cancer in 2016. By then it was too late. We found out when it's already at the last stage. He suffered for 2 to 3 years (2013/2014 - 2016)..
I hope his wife and his daughter will be strong and remember all the good times they had together with him. That is more important..
Happy Birthday Mani. Pray that your pain can be reduced and may joy accompany you daily.
I was watching this while crying. I suddenly remember my mom who passed away the day before Christmas. So sad that she doesn't even got the chance to celebrate Christmas with us. I miss you, Mom. :(
And to Mr. Mani, we are so proud of your courage to bear all the pain during the treatment. May God bless your spirit.
I am so sorry to hear about your mom bro I can’t imagine how traumatized I would be if my mom died so I respect you best of wishes of life to you bro stay strong❤
This is why you spend time with your family while you have time
Happy birthday, Mr Mani. May you feel well everyday.
OGS🙏. I'm a volunteer of Macmillan Cancer Support team UK, listening to terminally ill-patients expressing their regrets and unfulfilled wishes can be heart-wrenching. You guys are doing fantastic job. Happy to know Mani celebrated his 49th birthday, and his family is moving to stay close to him🙂. God bless 🙏
Nowadays I find myself reaching to watch video like this. It make me reflect to myself how precious living could be. The brother is 47yo and I am 41. Life is full of uncertainty.
Firstly, from one human being and fellow cancer patient to another, I send all my love and strength!! Secondly , I am so very sorry you have to go through this, but if it means anything, I know exactly how you feel, I just hate that you know it, because I pray to God, every day that nobody else ever has to feel what I felt, and what I went through. It brings an entirely new definition of hell on earth, especially for a man with a family! I’m married, but I don’t have children, but when children are involved, it just breaks everything in me and rips my heart into pieces to know my child is going to lose their parent call, it’s just so bloody unfair! I know life isn’t fair, but there has to be some exceptions, and this should be one of them. My journey started When I was 20, being diagnosed with severe stage four Crohn’s disease. A year later, during one of my countless hospitalizations, my entire large intestine ruptured, and I was flatline for three minutes on the OR table because of it. When they cut me open to save my life, and clean out my abdominal cavity, they found stage four intestinal cancer, that we didn’t even know was there as it was growing on the outside of my intestine. Long story short. I died once, and did have a near death experience (it was wonderful), if you want to hear about that just ask and I’ll tell you. I went through chemotherapy, radiation, medication‘s, countless different therapies, ended up having 37 gastrointestinal surgeries that removed 95% of my G.I. tract, and along the way, the cancer came back four times, each time having less than a 5% chance of survival. I’m now 54, but because I’ve ended up with 11 chronic diseases, all side effects from the surgeries and cancer treatments, I have to live on permanent, long-term disability and can’t work, but I’m alive, sort of. I had to prepare my own funeral four times in a row, because the doctors all told me I was going to die for certain. I don’t want to give you false hope, because what happened to me was incredibly rare, and truly a miracle, and not a day goes by I don’t thank God for it. I just want to let you know that I understand how it feels, I pray to God on my knees that U2 get the chance to live longer. Unfortunately, all that treatment caused a lot of side effects. Hence the 11 chronic illnesses. Including severe heart and kidney disease (I need a triple transplant, heart, kidney, and intestinal to save my life). I could literally die at any time and there’s nothing they can do to stop it other than having that transplant. My blood type is the rarest of the rare, they have never found a donor that’s a suitable match, so I’m walking on thin ice every day of my life, a ticking time bomb, and it scares the hell out of me and my loved ones (I carry so much guilt for putting my loved ones through hell and back so many times, there are days, as terrible as it sounds, I wish I would die, so I don’t have to keep putting the people I love most through so much pain). Take nothing for granted, even though you’re stuck in this really shitty situation, hope may seem difficult, but it can also bring you joy even in the darkest of times. Again, I don’t want to give false hope, just positive reinforcement to let you know you’re not alone, to say millions of other people, just like you, know exactly what you’re going through, and that we care deeply. If ever you want a new friend to reach out to you, I’m here for you. I live in Toronto, so unfortunately, I can’t come see you, but I can at least be there for you. Keep up the good fight, try to remain positive, and whenever you’re having a down day, reach out to any of us, because we understand exactly how you feel. Sending lots of love, prayers, and healing energy.🙏🙏🙏
You're an inspiration, Mr Mani. Even in the depths of your pain, you chose a day at USS for your family to recreate those memories which I am sure you will treasure close to your heart. I wish you a very blessed birthday and may you find the strength to face each day ahead. You and your family have love....and that is all one needs to know they are blessed. Happy birthday, once again!
Happiest birthday, Mr Mani. People die every day, but knowing that you don't have much time must be the worst!!! I wish you peace and so much power to your amazing family!!
His daughter man. The strength displayed in a person that young. Wow
I don’t know why I watch things that make me cry. I hope the gentleman is still alive ❤
i recently lost my dad to a terminal disease this week. he suddenly fell ill 2 years ago, his health gradually deteriorated. we thought the liver transplant would change him. we were naive. his health started spiraling down fast soon after. doctor broke it down to us he only had 2-14 days left to live. he passed on 2 days later. stay strong sir, their love for you will give you strength.
im going through the same situation right now as well with my dad. Immunotherapy is our last shot.. prayers please.
Hang on there, Mr Mani. Miracle will be happen! ❤️
All i know to do is pray for this man. That is all I can do and all I can say. If I could change his situation, I would without hesitation. Life is not fair, but I can pray for him and his family.
I hope he can fight to pull through. He deserves a second chance. From the video you can tell he is a honest straightforward and decent bloke. Happy birthday sir
A sad story but so beautifully presented. Happy 49th birthday to Mr Mani. God's hands be with you and he will bless this family abundantly one way or another !
This hit too close to home. My dad passed 2 years back after battling cancer for a few weeks, and 2 weeks after my wedding. There's so many things that I want to say to him but there is no chance anymore.
How I wished he could look at my house after renovation, how he would play with my little girl, how he will bug my mom when am I reaching home with the little one, and the grin on his face when he sees her. Miss him so much but I am glad Mr Mani got to spend time with his family.
Thanks for the video
A blessed birthday to you mr Mani. You inspire others like me
It's not goodbye it's until we all meet again , we are just passing through this temporary world, its not our home.