A Foodie’s Final Fight With Pancreatic Cancer
Вставка
- Опубліковано 23 вер 2024
- Diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer in his 30s, Rong Liang sheds light on the bigger questions of life's purpose as he faces death.
SUBSCRIBE TO US:
bit.ly/OGSUA-cam
Join our channel's UA-cam Memberships and support OGS' videos:
bit.ly/OGSytmem
Find #OGS everywhere!
Facebook: ourgran...
Instagram: / ourgrandfatherstory
TikTok: / ourgrandfatherstory
For media pitches, events and invites: press@ourgrandfatherstory.com
For business enquiries: limkopi@ourgrandfatherstory.com
I was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer a month after Ron. So much intense pain before chemo. Im still fighting, and trying to enjoy every day im blessed with.
Essiac tea. No more Jim Jones. He caused this Trbo can sir
Sending you love, light and strength for your fight. :)
We’re all in your corner, Lorraine. Stay strong ♥️
Chemo is poison. Some are turning to keto /fasting diets..there are YT videos. Some, even surviving...cured by keto.
Best wishes! !!
I wish you the best
I lost my Mom to this horrific disease seven years ago. She took such good care of herself...exercised, took vitamins, ate healthy, no alcohol, saw her doctors and got all the labs every year. Still she lost her life to a disease that doesn't show itself until it's too late. She wanted to live so badly, and participated in a clinical trial. The chemo is what really killed her in the end. She was my best friend, and I will never be the same without her. Some days it hurts so much that it feels like maybe she was never here at all.
My mom takes care of herself like that too, she runs, does weights, eats right, and she's close to 70, but I know that's not full proof and cancer can hit anybody at certain times. I'm so sorry about your mom, her will to live was so strong and her strength very inspiring. I'm so sorry you had to go through that with your mom, and I wish there was something I could say to help you in any way I can, but obviously there's nothing that really helps. My parents are elderly now, and I love them so much, can't imagine losing them ever, and not sure I can handle it. The thought of it makes me cry already, so I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you on some days. You're very brave and strong though, and I hope I can be the same way when or if the time comes. RIP to your mom.
She is with you in energy and spirit form on different frequency and vibration. Her body was just a vehicle for her soul to experience life on Mother Earth.
This is so sad. I often wonder what percentage of cancer patients actually die from the cancer vs the cancer treatment. I have seen many relatives who seemed to have succumbed to the treatment.
@@deva190I know a guy in his mid 60’s with kidney cancer. He refused any treatment and 10 years later he is still walking around and working in his yard.
@@freshbrad1354 Thanks for this.
Im fighting stage 4 cancer right now and truthfully ive never been more scared than i am now.
Rest. Eat well. Sleep well. Mental well.
It is a normal feeling to be scared of the unknown in life but remember what trully define is not this disease neither the body that it affects but your soul, your body is just spaceship that sometimes need to be fixed but as long as your soul fight there is hope
Dont look back but look forward for an 1h, a day, a week or more. Dont let this crap disease taking control of your soul and try to enjoy the time being when you can the way u want to
Be strong Anna
May god hear my words and help u to fight back strongly
💞🙏
Much love to you xx
Praying for you 🙏
“ we will be all forgotten” very true….. my sincere and heartfelt condolences to his family, especially to his mom.
I'm sorry. Tis true. Even with those we love. It is God's will. We return to dust. Dust is all around and abundant. It is an acceptance of life.
@@sportsman4545will be forgotten on this Earth because this Earth is going to end but to those of us that reunions with our loved ones and friends in heaven we spend eternity together
@@tiffany3294 very much so.
@@tiffany3294malarkey
Except Jesus or Elvis
Hi everyone, thanks for watching. I hope this documentary has inspired all of us in some way, to be present with our feelings, to express them to the people we love, and leave nothing to 'next time'.
During filming, Rong Liang often reminded us to eat a hearty meal at the end of the day, to catch the sunset if we can and feel the warmth of the sun on our skin. He often saw beauty in the everyday moments and felt a lot for the underdogs. I was really truly impressed by the insights he had to share about life.
When asked if he wanted to take a look at a draft of the documentary, he said, "Nah, you guys just do your thing." Although he didn't get to watch the final video in the end, I hope we told his story right and shared his message about giving our time to what and who are important to us, in the midst of playing/working hard.
Thanks Rong Liang for your words. Thanks for the tree you've planted.
-- Bella, director / producer (OGS)
🥺🥺🥺🥺
Thank you for sharing his story. ❤
😭😭😭
Can I send Rongliang a message on a private email? I used to work on production.
@@eltan2105he passed 3 weeks after filming…
I lost my husband last week to this horrible disease. It was tough to say the least! I saw how he deteriorated in a span of 6 months. His diabetes had been uncontrollable, hearing and eyesight became so poor, and fluid around his tummy/lungs kept building up. He eventually lost all his appetite and didn’t want to eat nor drink anything. His last week was the worst. He was so frail, so thin, continually sick, and started having hallucinations. He had no sleep the last 3-4 days and became so agitated. I had to help him sit up then back to bed every 10-15 minutes in his last 3 days. I was knackered. Getting some sleep had been so impossible. It was awful seeing him fighting for his life, he’s still checking if nurses were giving him the right doses of his medications and kept asking if friends and family seeing him at home had brought some medicines for him even in his final hours. I was shattered when he took his last breath, but thinking he will no longer suffer brought me some relief somehow.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry that you had to go through such an ordeal with your husband. Wishing you much love and healing. May your dear husband find the peace he so deserves. Love from Australia xxx
I'm so sorry you and your husband had to suffer this take time for yourself you've been through so much❤
Sorry for your loss 🙏❤he is in a better place now and may be rest easy .
My husband as well he was 56 and i only had 6 weeks with him. Sending hugs to you
Why do the most beautiful, intelligent, gentle, and loving people have to be taken from us? This is s heartbreaking
Rong you will be missed. 😢
Because God loves them so much
Because sometimes its our time to go. And I sincerely hope, where ever he is, he has found peace or a new life far better than the one before. You're right, alot of good leave too early, and we're often left with the worst of humanity.
Everyone dies. Life was NEVER intended to be fair. It's what comes after that counts.
Cuz so many people also take the 💉 😢
They used to say ‘only the good die young’
My mom passed in 2020, then my dad in 2021, my brother 2022, and my fiance just 3 weeks ago due to cancer.. this hearth feels like really really empty, and when its not, all I can do is crying
........ Hope you find inner peace, dear
🙏🤍
@@christophermoltisanti7019 tryhard bait
@@christophermoltisanti7019go to hell!
May God give you confort 🙏🏾 Love you ❤️
Heartbreaking to know he’s passed…. Sending his momma strength and healing…
Just wanted to tell everybody who's going trough cancer right now that i love you very much, stay strong! Cheers from Belgium.
Take a dewormer for Cancer. Been hearing lots of good results from it.
Thank you!
I lost my 24 year old son 8 years ago. He is never forgotten. There isn’t one day that I don’t think of him or talk to him. It’s a pain that never really goes away.
My worst fear, much ❤ to you
lost my mom 4 months ago 😢..
my dear mom live now in my heart..😭😭
So, so sorry for your loss.
I lost my mom to breast cancer 23 years ago. Not a day goes by without me thinking of her. Our loved ones are never forgotten 🙏🏼
@@arthurdomal5053 You will see her again. I'm looking forward to seeing my mom again.
"Not everybody has a definitive purpose in life, maybe mine is just to live - be kind, be affectionate, be vulnerable, be open, love thyself, love others, and eat good food." simple yet profound.
Sounds like a nightmare. The purpose of living. Well unless its a spectacular life, that seems like hell.
@@poopyhole101 And what's your purpose, poopyhole101, being a killjoy on the Internet? Who lives the real nightmare.
@@poopyhole101 Well maybe to you if you're unhappy and miserable. I think to a person who's relatively happy then it's more than enough. The more unhappy and miserable a person is the more a person is going to need to be happy. Someone who's truly happy won't need much at all because they're already satisfied. There is no specific purpose to life anyway, no meaning at all, so it's really not relevant. I can understand how a person can find happiness in anything though if they're strong enough and love themselves enough.
@@poopyhole101you definitely need to be humbled
😢
I was diagnosed with stage 3B pancreatic cancer in 2021 at the age of 28. I was also healthy, eating well and running ultra marathons frequently. Miraculously, after chemotherapy, a team of surgeons managed to remove the tumour by performing a total pancreatectomy. I’m still cancer free as of now, but my uncle has just been diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer and has been given weeks to live. Ron seemed so strong but this disease is just brutal. I can’t even make it through the video - it’s too much for me. Rest in peace ❤
Everyone says “eating healthy” but everyone has a different definition of “eating healthy” and few truly are.
@@literalnewsheadlines9149 I’m referring to trying to avoid processed food and making as much from scratch as possible. I had been doing things such as making my own bread if I’m going to eat it, I would make all of my own meals and try to buy mostly organic ingredients where I can. I’d even make my own condiments because I didn’t understand how things like mayonnaise from the store seemed to have such a long shelf life when raw egg is a primary ingredient. I’m not claiming I was perfect, and certainly didn’t eat this way for my entire life, but I’m a very health-conscious person. I was running an average of 60 miles a week, cycling for about 5 hours a week and doing 3 hours of yoga. I think it is fair to claim I was generally living a relatively healthy lifestyle compared to the “average” person
May your uncle can take a dewormer for his cancer. Been hearing good results.
@@Jason_556 Doesn’t feel like the most appropriate place to make that comment, but thanks all the same.
@@Godley93 Props to you for even replying. You're a better person than I am. Hey Jason, fuck off
I’m heading this way with stage 4 lung cancer. I can relate everything he has gone through.
Jia you! 💪
I hope there's still miracle and you get to fight it and heal. 🙏
Don't give up. Many people diagnosed stage 4 or even terminal survive.
I wish that you find all the best things in life, and a long period of living so you have time to search ❤
Enjoy time, bro...
Absolutely heartbreaking news for such a young healthy man in the prime of his life. I had a pancreatic cancer scare back in June this year. I am also a similar age as Rong just turned 37. I had loose pale stools and sudden jaundice I walked into emergency and was told I had a growth on my stomach a few days later after some scans I got the news at around 10 pm I had a 3cm growth on my pancreas then got told growths on my pancreas the entire organ was inflamed. I needed a stent in my bilary duct to relieve the jaundice. I had a biopsy done and waited for 6 weeks and it came back inconclusive. I was put on steriods for 6 weeks, had another MRI got the results my pancreas was clear. I thank god for his miracle 🙏
I am just having the scare because I got my gallbladder removed due to gallstones and I am feeling the same pain again
@mightyobserver12 I had no pain, you could have an infection
@@mightyobserver12When did you have it removed?
@@angelabroderick5375 I had the same thing happen to me. I had my gallbladder removed and two weeks later I had the same excruciating pain. Turns out that you can still have gallstones without a gallbladder. They had to go in and find the stone and blast it into pieces to get rid of it. At first they couldn't find the stone and was about to go out and tell my husband that I had cancer of the pancreas. Well they found the stone and it was huge. They got it out. It was supposed to be a 30 minute surgery, but it took 4 hours. I have never had a gallstone again. I believe when they took my gallbladder out which was very full of gallstones one got left in the upper intestine. Anyway don't worry its probably a stone that won't pass. Hope you are doing well. 🙏
Thank you God for saving this person I wish you could work miracles on everybody with this stupid disease
I beat stage 4 cancer a couple months ago and to see this man's strength all the way to the end is something else. His values of life are exactly how I look at things nowadays. Cancer will make you realize the important things in life and what makes sense to stress about and what doesn't. Here is a man who found out what it means to be human in his eyes. There is no greater gift in life than life itself. Learn to love everything and everyone around you and life will become so much brighter and beautiful. RIP Rong Liang, you will not be forgotten.
Your story gives hope. In such a dark area. Glad to hear of your success! And may you have continued good health 💛.
What did you use - conventional cancer treatment, or natural ones?
I’d like to know your treatment, if you don’t mind sharing it with some of us. It’s so important to advocate for ours or a loved one’s life. Glad you’re well. And, no, Ron Laing will not be forgotten.
My husband is Stage 4. Praying everyday he can beat it
Wish you all the best!!!❤❤❤
I lost my dad to pancreatic cancer this july 😭.. he just got the diagnosed 5 months ago.. it was the hardest time for us.. may he and all the cancer victims are rest in peace 🙏🏻
My uncle, it takes them away really quickly. RIP to them. they are at peace now🙏🏾
RIP
🙏⚘️
It is super tough. My Dad has cancer in his Gallbladder, and it spread throughout his liver. He is currently doing hospice at home. I know exactly what you are going through. seeing them whither away is probably one of the hardest parts, but I am doing my best to be strong and enjoy whatever time I have left wit him. It is a super tough process...
@@alcal2605🙏🏽☘️✨🌹🍇💕💒🌅💖💕🎉🌈🙏🏽I pray for you and Dad. I was both my parents caregiver while they went thru hospice. They told me that just my presence by their side made them happy and peaceful. Just know that the greatest gift you can give Dad is being there.
@@alcal2605 So very sorry about your dad.
By the time my Mother woke up yellow in mid 1980’s, the surgeon did an open & close surgery, it had metastasized and they gave her 6 weeks to live. 8 weeks later she died. We took care of her at home until she died. There was no treatment then. She said if there was an Afterlife she’d send signs. She did. ⛅️ 🌧️ 🌈 it’s all about Love. ❤. ✌🏼💜
You made me smile Thankyou✨
What signs did she send specifically?
Amen!
No rainbows!
Beautiful ❤🙏
Rest in peace, my fellow human being. Deepest condolences to friends and family.
I got to spend almost an entire year with my brother before he succumbed to pancreatic CA. When he was first diagnosed, I researched one's longevity with this disease and the prognosis was bleak, especially at Stage 3. I remembered writing down a to-do list (final resting place, will etc.) and the notepad was stained from my streaming tears. It was the hardest time in all of my 43 years...
I take solace that he is no longer suffering and that I got to spend a whole year with him. Although it was unthinkable, he did not pass suddenly from an accident, and we got to say our goodbyes. I miss you Ko, we all do ❤
Thank you OGS for this story. Deepest condolences to Rong's loved ones and may he rest in paradise 🙏
Sending my love to you. I am going through the same here and i needed your comment. It does give me a different perspective to it. Thank you ❤
Thank you 🫂
Try having a support system, i.e. individuals (esp those who have experienced this or are going through it) to talk to. I was fortunate that my neighbor (his father was going through treatment when my brother was admitted a few beds from his) gave me that shoulder when needed most.
Record as many memories as you can and it'll be gold when you look back. Stay strong @@mijimiji161 ♥
❤❤❤
How old
@@lisamccullough5150 48
Walking into the oncologists office, knowing what was coming next, slowly glancing in my fathers direction, our eyes met, tears dropped, hope was immediately shattered. All he ever wanted was grandchildren. I was pregnant (one of 3 daughters) with his first. A grandson at that. Named my boy after my pops. He’s been gone for 24 years come November. I’m 2 years shy of his exit date. I feel connected to every single human who has lost a loved one (no matter what relationship) to this vicious, insidious disease. My life took a very different trajectory than I feel it would have, having lost the one human I always had in my corner. I send my entire heart to everyone here, those who aren’t, and certainly rong’s family. Mother most. 💜
How old was he?
@@lisamccullough5150 47
I know a guy in his early 70s who got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer a few months ago.. luckily they caught it early, and he is perfectly healthy now! So sad most people don’t get to experience that type of recovery.
Yeah, most don't catch in early enough for that. Glad to hear the positive stories though.
I wish we heard more stories about early detection and HOW was it caught so early. Maybe it would help save lives.
ya it's a killer cause you don't get symptoms till it's too late. My mom got jaundice from it and that's how she found out...she lived another 3 years but man...fuck cancer.
@@LaLadybug2011can you tell by a ct scan?
What were his symptoms?
I lost my twin brother last year of Pancreatic Cancer and I myself live with Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma which is a cancer of the blood. I can certainly relate to you dear friend ... My sincere and heartfelt condolences to his family, especially to his mother that has always been supportive xoxoxo
My father has recently overcome the same lymphoma that you have and is doing great so don't lose hope for winning the battle, I wish you all the best from Wales UK 🏴❤. By the way.. my dad has a house in the Vendée near chantonay.
Sending love to Rong's mom. He was such a beautiful person.
'Society grows great when men plant trees under the shade of which they do not sit' Wow...a message for our time. Deepest sympathy to Rong's mother - she should be so proud to have brought up such a kind and gentle son. I'll remember, I promise❤❤❤
I lost my sister to pancreatic cancer. She was also in her 30s. She was stoic all the way to the end. We miss her dearly. Pancreatic cancer is one of the more lethal cancers...i hope we can find a cure one day.
Govts and big pharma won't allow it. A patient cured is a customer lost.
@@motleydude73 I agree. Somehow it just seems so odd that medical science and all the BILLIONS we spend in research has not gotten us any closer to finding cures for glioblastoma, pancreatic cancer and ALS. As much as I want to believe in the goodness of humankind, I can't help but think that our government (regardless of political affiliation) and Big Pharma have a cure for these diseases I just mentioned and possibly more, yet want more and more money.
So devastating. So sorry.
@@motleydude73 it’s extremely sad and inhumane for them to have them to have such egos how do they sleep at night I wonder 💭
@@mariereneagonzalez They’re psychopaths. They sleep like a baby at night knowing they’re contributing to millions of people dying annually because of their selfish and greedy actions.
I met Rong a few months ago on another video channel and he left a huge impression on me. The ending of this is heartbreaking, but he leaves a legacy of positivity that will live long. May his new journey be peaceful.
I really love the last sentence of your comment.
@user-fj1mh5yk3i ha, you're greatly misinformed. read more books
This is yet another well-done episode. A heartbreaking reality of life. I'm absorbing everything and trying to imagine and put myself in his shoes, and his mother's as I watch through this. RIP Rong Liang. Whatever purpose in life you pondered, you are not forgotten and it had a lot more meaning. This story has touched me and I'm sure many other viewers. It's a reminder of how we should never take things for granted. As cliché as it may sound, nothing can be more true than LIVE LIFE LAUGH.
Well written❤
His pain, his vulnerability, his transparency , his honesty and his truth all made his STRENGTH. I cried when I read the ending. I hope he's surrounded by white light and positive vibes and enjoying his life pain free and anger free. This is sad but I do believe he has plenty 9f things to keep him occupied until his friends and family meet him in due time
You are free of pain now🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
That was lovely xxxx
Absolutely right.
My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer....... the most aggressive form and passed away in his chair, at the house, on hospice care. 4 weeks after being diagnosed God took him home. Im praying for you brother, much love from va.
Was he young
@@iiiiiieye not really just turned 60
Tragic and uplifting at the same time. Riong’s mother expresses the dread of every parent in every corner of the World. Congratulations to the makers of an utterly beautiful short documentary.
A beautiful story, RIP Rong, I lost my dad to pancreatic cancer coming up 10 years ago. He's always in my heart and my thoughts!
Dear OGS,
Thank you for sharing "A Foodie’s Final Fight With Pancreatic Cancer." Rong Liang's journey has profoundly impacted my perspective on life. His strength and reflections remind me to cherish every moment and finding purpose, even in the face of adversity.
This story is a beacon of empowerment and a reminder to live authentically. Your channel's dedication to sharing such meaningful narratives is a gift to us all.
With gratitude,
Dan
I’m so sorry, my girlfriend passed a horrific death, she passed away in her 50’s. She was orange because her liver stopped functioning. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone not even my enemy’s. Well done on the documentary.
So sorry about your girlfriend.
hi hum. i hope you're doing fine. sorry for your loss
Such a tragically beautiful video! It's heartbreaking to hear only 30s. It was wonderfully made. What a wonderful Mother. You did your son proud. Sorry for the loss x
Yeah, very beautifully made, and a very amazing mother.
My mother passed away from this same cancer 2 months ago, the cancer had metastasized to her lungs and liver.
It was the worst seeing her in pain and everything she had to go through. Ultimately she was surrounded by her love ones and I’m happy that she knew we was loved and that she won’t be suffering anymore.
To those reading my message, I love my mom so much, and she will be missed every second of my life, but the pain will get a little lesser with time, just keep your love one in your mind & heart along with those happy memories with them.
Rest in peace maruchita❤️
Rest in peace Rong 🙏🏼
How old was she?
@@lisamccullough5150 Hello, She was 63 years old 🕊
Gosh I’m so sorry for your loss 😢. I’m scared my cancer will come back. But I’ll try to live the best I can and eat good food. Thanks for this gift Rong Liang, rest in peace.
Same
Such an inspiring story. A closed friend of mine died last year June of Pancreatic cancer as well.She left two kids & a husband...I visited her before she finally rested...She said we are basically nothing ...we just came from the dust & returning to dust...so why worried living so much especially in Singapore where everyone is bound to get Anxiety & Depression one way or another because of the core of its society & inhibiting culture...work...work...maintain a high bar in your career that you can be replaced one day so easily or in a just blink of an eye...Just looked up & never left a belief that there's a Creator...You don't own your life & It's not yours ...& don't waste it & drain too much to a career or someone else ...They ,too, WILL PASS ...
Strong words.
Gosh Rong Liang's story - over my morning coffee moved me enough to post to my friends this quote :
" Society grows great, when men plant trees under the shade of which they do not sit.. " and has given me more than a few moments of introspection to think about what have I done to plant shade for my future descendents, or society in general.
A lovely lovely man - definitely gone too soon..
My mom passed away from cervical cancer on September 23rd of 2021, and it has been weird without her. My whole life has come crashing down on me. Ever since she died, I am not the same. I am more bitter toward people at times, I don't smile much, and I'm a musician, but I can't seem to get back into music since she left this world. It is not fun watching someone you love go downhill like they do when cancer screws them over. 6 months after she died, I was told my landlord will be selling this house. It's been two years and they don't care that I'm grieving. Everything in my life has gone downhill. I feel like when she died, a piece of me went right along with her. I miss her every day, and I think about her all the time. And if I ever get to become a famous musician, it's gonna be sad knowing she won't physically be there to cheer me on anymore. I'm very sad that she won't get to see anything else I do in life. Except from above. Cancer sucks. RIP young man... And unfortunately for us, death is a part of life. How ironic... When I got her ashes sent to me via USPS, I took the bag out of the container, and just sobbed. It's hard to believe that someone can go from a vibrant, five foot one, 165 pound cute li'l lady, to just a bag of dust and that's all I got left. That's all I got... I want my mom back...
This comment fucking hurt. I understand. My grandma was a similar soul and I wish she was still with me. Wishing you all the best in life.
my heart is breaking…. lost my momma from this demon cancer too 😭💔
I want my mom back. She was my only best friend and true companion
Pancreatic cancer is one of the most difficult cancer to treat, with very low chance of survival. I lost my mother back in 2017 because of this horrific disease, she only managed to live for like 5 months with the treatment before she passed away, its very sad, she went with chemo + surgery but because its already stage 4, its too late to save her. As far as I know , it is quite hard to detect this disease in the early stages, usually the person already in advanced stage when it is first diagnosed. Just to think about it, at times makes me feel very sad. I do miss her even to this day.
I'm 22 now and I remembered when my mum gathered us all into our room to announce she had this disease and she delivered the message with certainty on her part that she's not gonna make it.
My youngest brother was 3 at that time, so she decided she had to stay in a separate room, so that later when she's gone, the youngest won't be looking for her.
As for me, I really regret not being by her side during those times, when I looked it up, it was said to be the most painful type of cancer, to the point where I could even hear her suffer from the next room.. I was really shocked as to how the disease progressed too, she started having the pain for 2 weeks, she went through results and medication and a month later, she's gone.
I miss my mom, no one should ever experience this. I hope everyone is healthy and to those who are currently sick, jia you! The doctors told me in the past that no sugar kind of diet would help, and of course healthy lifestyle if you can still try to have it.
Moms are the only people who should never die
Rong, you had so much purpose. You were kind, you taught people to enjoy food and life, and you loved your mother, and friends. You will go on in their hearts and everyone who sees this video. Doing so has helped a lot of people in different circumstances, and helping each other, in my mind, is the greatest purpose of all in our life on earth ❤
Heartbreaking. A great story!
RIP, Rong Liang. You will be missed.
I lost both parents to Pancreatic cancer. First my dad, then a year later my mom and they were divorced living in different places for the past 30 years. The pain they went through, the chemo made them look like death itself. I am 56 and it's one of my fears. I already decided I will end my life on my own before I go through that.
My dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that spread to his liver. He chose death with dignity, since we are in a legalize state and ended it right at the six month point before he started having any pain or symptoms. The only symptoms he had, since he chose no treatment, was stomach cramping if he ate too big of a meal or too much fat. He wasn’t going to stick around and wait for the symptoms to kick in. It was quick and painless.
@@thecoloringoasis5616 I'm sorry for your loss but I am glad he passed on his own terms. This is what I want too if it ever comes to that. I had thought of doing it on my own, alone and far from my family but your reply made me see that is not the way. thank you.
@@gobofraggel7383 definitely that is not the way. With my dad, we were there for the whole thing. He was happy, and in good spirits, eager to go be with my mom again who had died 10 years earlier. He was even working at his computer the very last morning before his scheduled death. He played happy music that he loved, we sat with him around his bed. He chugged the drink and thanked us all for being his family. He said it didn’t taste that bad. Within one minute his eyes were closed and he was in La La Land. Within 10 minutes in a coma, and within two hours his heart stopped. He never felt any pain from the disease or from death with dignity. The death Doula we had said the worst part about it is the bad taste, but within one minute you won’t remember it and will be in La La Land so not to worry about it. It was a positive experience, and we had six months to plan for it. He told me the day he got diagnosed that he was going to do it, was not going to seek treatment since it didn’t work, and would only stay alive as long as he had quality of life. I definitely would do this myself, or recommended to others now that I was a part of the process. I wish he had waited another month or two until he actually became symptomatic to do it, but, he wanted to end it before any suffering began. His whole life was food and wine, and his taste buds suddenly went away entirely so he knew that was it. I can say it was very healing and provided great closure to be with him during that process and definitely would be easier on the family to include them. Let’s hope you never get it though. Same as me. I have the BRCA1 gene. Same as my dad and that’s why he got it.
With that said, those who willingly choose to fight it and survive deserve to fight that fight and have hopeful people in their corner. I've definitely seen negative effects of people giving up on loved ones' recoveries before the sick person even did. It's all in what the person wants, but nobody should HAVE to suffer like this.
@@thecoloringoasis5616what was good total life expectancy is had not killed himself? I'm so sorry for your loss and the missed time
Witnessing this brought utter heartbreak and a reason to change my perspective on life,
What's the point of my life? What am I working hard for? Am I really living for me? Us? I'll live every day to the fullest as if it's my last . It brought wisdom and made me think - Thank your god and be grateful for the blessings you've got.
Health is a blessing that not everyone is blessed with. Be mindful and cherish the people around me, and be grateful in every aspect of life.
May Rong Liang's soul rest in peace and sending condolences for his family and friends 🤍
i can tell you there is no purpose in life. "purpose" is a man-made thing nature doesn't need to conform to. we born, we live, we die. everything born into this earth goes through this. i am not special, so are you. we are just but a single lifeform that ever existed. what matters? nobody is born into earth to fulfill any purpose
I once saw a documentary from a hospice and staff were asked about the patients’ reflections as they neared the end. Almost all talked about not prioritising friends and family as much as they would have liked, or not allowing themselves more time to fully experience the joy of living. One carer commented No one EVER said ‘I wish I’d worked more’
Rong's story has really gotten to me. I think it's because I have sons who are of a similar age to his. Thank you Rong. Thank you to his brave Mother. I have found this to be deeply moving. RIP
My dad passed away with pancreatic cancer too. Is really the worst cancer of all . Because pancreatic cancer is a silent killer the moment you detected it will be at stage 4
There are other types like that too. Lung cancer alao like that, when you feel something wrong, urlsually alrwady stage 4
All cancer is a silent killer.
This man in this fragile human condition with pancreatic cancer has more to say from his heart than many others whom I know that aren’t suffering. He deserves peace and prayers to he and his family. May he rest in eternal peace and comfort forever
Many thanks to the OGS team for helping us learn about Rong Liang's big heart. In 11 minutes I've learnt lessons I want to carry with me all the days of this short life.
OGS, you have captured a very wide audience in this episode.
It was very hard to watch till the very end without shedding a single tear along the way. Before I watched till the end, or reading any comments, I somehow felt that Rong was no longer with us in this world.
To all who know Rong, I am sure he has touched your lives and blessed you with his cheerfulness in his earthly life.
Continue on his legacy, and may God watch over his mum so that she can continue with strength.
Cancer sucks. Rong and his Mom are beautiful people. My heart aches for her and him. Rong is healthy, happy and whole again. Prayers and love to them. 🙏🏼💙🌸🪽
What a beautiful mother and son inside and out and a gorgeous heart-rending documentary that Riong leaves as his legacy for the whole world to partake in the healing. It's so upsetting how these chronic and terminal diseases just take out people who try so hard to be healthy. I'm going through a horrendous colitis flare + a stomach bug for over a week. I can only imagine what Riong suffered through. We are so blessed to have our loved ones rallying around us.
One of the realist things he said! It’s easy for people to say be strong, but like he said unless you’re in those shoes he’s in his own thoughts! Sending 🙏🏽
Thx for having that conversation and showing so much truth and love.
What a most beautiful soul.... prayers for him and his family 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
This started playing on my feed and I can’t stop crying. My dad 7 years ago today from pancreatic cancer that spread quickly. He was diagnosed and 5 weeks later he was gone. I wish I could have talked to him before he passed (Stepmom prevented us from seeing our dad). It’s hard to wait for someone to die and knowing there’s nothing on this earth to save them. This gentleman has a wonderful family God bless them.
I'm so sorry for your loss 😢
May Rong Liang's soul be at peace. I would also like to take the opportunity to remember my dear ex colleague and friend Pauline Koh who also died of pancreatic cancer in 2013. Always in our hearts never forgotten
This is so sad. I lost my youngest son to colon cancer almost 10 years ago when he was only 33. I have an idea of the hell this family has gone through. My heart breaks for them, especially the mother of this sweet young man who got cheated out of life. I just f’g hate cancer.
❤ for the loss of your boy xxx
I'm so sorry about the loss of your son. He was a young man, so very tragic. Cancer kills babies it doesn't discriminate. It's a sick vile disease. RIP to your son.
Rest in paradise to your son ♥️
I’m very sorry about your son
Human need poop daily to avoid colon cancer.
This is such an emotional and beautiful video on the last journey of a cancer patient. My own dad has passed away 3 years ago due to stage 4 lung cancer. Thank you OGS for this sincere and touching video which tingle on my heartstrings.
I had life threatening pancreatitus. The pain is incredible. The illness is awful. I lost 75 pounds. I feel for you brother. I pray for you, your earthly life and your heavenly life. God Bless you brother.
Take ACV to prevent and treat!
@@sc5216ACV? Quite the low information comment there.
@@sc5216shhh. no. pancreatitis often requires hospitalization and life saving treatment. Take your nonsense elsewhere. In the ER, we have a poignant saying: “don’t fuck with the pancreas”. There’s a reason that’s a thing.
Another beautiful soul gone too soon 😢 Heartbreaking story that reminds of my brother, who passed away due to stomach cancer.
Same as Rong, healthy and careful about his diet (no smoking, no alcohol) and practicing a lot of sports.
Life is so cruel, unfair and unpredictable.
Many people don’t realize how health is so precious and complain for silly stupid things.
May they rest in peace, and your new journey be surrounded by love and light.
Him being a foodie contributed to his pancreatic cancer as the pancreas is part of the digestive system. As a foodie you are going to be exposed to a lot of processed and inflammatory foods. Honestly, people have no idea what is healthy nowadays. They always say " I eat healthy, but why?.." If they were truly healthy they wouldn't be sick so something you are doing that you think is healthy is actually bad for you.
Love to anyone suffering any illness… this certainly brings perspective xo
Thank you 💕
Rest in peace. You were a very brave soul to film YOURSELF at your most vulnerable time. Deepest condolences to your family. From a lady in Australia.
This has inspired me this morning ❤ i have pancreatic cancer also X You will never be forgotten X
God bless you all I lost my beloved husband of 55 yrs. He was a perfect human . My heart is broken . Gid bless all that are afflicted, may Gid have mercy on us all
I lost my mom to stage 4 pancreatic cancer in 2020. 2 months to the day between diagnosis and her passing…it was really difficult to see her waste away. Her enjoyment of food was the first thing to go. Everything tasted bad to her.
Wow.. I would be lying if I said I didn’t tears, hit me emotionally , 2 of my best childhood friends were taken away by cancer in their prime too. RIP Mr Rong Liang. Condolences to the mom n family. May God grants you peace.
My Dad died from pancreatic cancer in 1996 at 41 years old. From diagnosis to dying it was 6 weeks maybe. He went to his doctor for ankle pain and swelling. My friend's Dad has been fighting it for 2 years. While it is still a horrendous cancer, I am so hopeful that there are more options out there today.
The only true treatment for cancer is prevention. Cancer doesn't just happen suddenly, it is a disease that progresses to the final form of the cancer diagnoses. It starts early dependent on a combination of your diet and lifestyle and environment. Nobody gets cancer suddenly unless it was a congenital cancer like in child cancers. All cancers that are acquired later in life are a result of a combination of your diet and lifestyle and environment.
May Rong Liang’s memory be blessed. Prayers to his Mom, family and friends.
He gave my life more comfort, rest and happiness - that is amazing! Thank you Rong Liang and his Mom! That is beautiful
I know how it feels especially with this illness. My mother lost the battle to pancreatic cancer . You are in better hands now and away from pain. Rip Rong Liang.
My best friend died. He was diabetic, renal failure, and eventually pancreatic cancer. He didn't know until it was too late. He was jaundice, itchy skin, and clay colored stool. He died 5 months after. The unfortunate thing is the symptoms don't occur until it's too late.
I'm thinking that one day early detection & screening can cure this. Someone's age, diabetes, gender, race, renal disease etc makes them a stronger candidate, and should therefore be monitored & screened properly. Routine diagnostics (xray, CT) should apply.
The ending broke me. Throughout this episode, I was rooting,praying,hoping for Rong Liang to get better only to read the news that he was gone. That's Heart-breaking
No one survives Stage 3 pancreatic cancer.
@@sprich3200yup I agree. People who indulge in the fantasy of recovering from inoperable cancer is simply fooling themselves. It’s really sad but it’s far better to accept the natural course and make the most of what’s left
@@sprich3200 No one has every survived it yet?
i am watching it and just read this comment. It aches my heart as his mom's words got to me. So sad. He so much wanted to live. He loved food, different kinds of foods. It breaks my heart. Life, i don't know what to make of it.
My dad got hiccups for over 24hrs when he was at home passing from a battle of leukemia.. he fought so hard for 6 months.. he passed 9/22/22.. my heart breaks for your loss.. 🎗🎗🥺
Beautiful story and the humbling openness he brought into the this world was definitely part of his purpose
Please don't say 'forgotten'. Never, ever have I forgotten my loved ones. They visit me in my dreams and are waiting on the other side!🌈❤
It’s videos like these always reminds me that life is fleeting. Enjoy life, treat others with kindness, nothing is too big of a problem to not let go. Live well everybody ❤
He was a friend during our poly days and he was one of the cute guys in the faculty .. it’s sad to come across this video coincidentally since we all do not contact each other anymore. Sending love and light to RL’s mum. ❤
❤
When i see this vid, its remind me of my late mother who passed away due to ovarian cancer since 3 years ago. Thanks for the great story, OGS.
RIP Rong Liang.
As a fanatic foodie who travels based on food & cultural interest, this hit hard. Many diseases stop people from enjoying the food universe, pancreatic cancer is particularly ruthless in this regard. What a spoecial young man and loving, wise mother. For him I hope there's an afterlife with a never ending 3 Michelin star buffet. Condolences to his family.
I don’t think he will be forgotten at all, his story clearly has touched many people.
RIP Rong and condolences to his mother and family.
I couldn’t not watch this, my mom passed in 1959 from pancreatic cancer, she was 40 and only lived 2 weeks after diagnosed. I was a child so I don’t remember much more than that. I pray for everyone that has this horrible disease🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💞💞
What an amazing person Rong was and his mother still is. This documentary has been extremely inspirational to me. It has reminded me to cherish life, love and be kind.
I lost my mom as a child to CA. My heart sincerely breaks for his mother! I wish her solace and peace and hope beyond such a devastating loss! I’m not much older than Rong he would have been my peer and it’s so hard to see him full of life and youth but this is the hand he was dealt yet he handled it with such grace.
My daddy had radiation then he was in remission for 12 yrs .... in 2016 he didn't tell us it spread an he didn't have time .. my daddy passed in a week but he passed at home with us all surrounding him ... my family from that point on have been separate , no communication, but they're true colors came out regarding how they felt about me an at first it hurt but now I see it as a huge blessing because I'm able to let go an I'm able to be alone .. my mother is with me so that's enough to make me feel like I'm still doing the right thing ..... I have peace 😌
What a beautiful soul and human being ...he was so mind cared about others immensely brave courageous.
R.I.P. Rong
Sad to hear about his passing. Inspiring video and it makes me ask myself what is my purpose in life as Rong Liang mentioned. Be kind and have empathy. Who am I to my friends and can I recognise myself in every stranger's eyes? I now treasure every sunrise. RIP Rong Liang and thank you.
What a lovely mama and son🥹… my dad died of pancreatic cancer 14 years ago. At diagnosis he was given three weeks to live but he lived for two years… I still miss him everyday 🥺💔🕊️
Thank you Bella and the OGS team for the beautiful feature on my Cousin Rong, my Aunt Bee Yan and the Fashion For Cancer initiative ❤
A reminder to us all to live fully, love boldly, count our blessings and bless others in whatever way we can.
My brother passed away, diagnosed with stage 2 pancreatic cancer in March. Took chemotherapy then they did a liver biopsy and before they could start his blood thinners again he had a stroke in July and passed away. He had always been very healthy. Prayers for you my friend.
Thank you OGS and Rong Liang. A well done documentary on life. You won’t be forgotten as your story is recorded here. May your story help others in their struggles or to reminds us to always be grateful even for the little things in life.
❤ Be at peace. No more pain.
A beautiful man - he will be dearly missed - but lives on in so many of us. We love you Rong 💚
Lost my dad to pancreatic cancer, it was stage 4 when he was diagnosed. It was so difficult watching him literally dying of starvation over 4 months, and not being able to do anything about it. Thank you for sharing Rong Liang's story - there's no more pain now.
I have read starvation is what happens with pancreatic cancer. Bc the pancreas no longer produces insulin. I would think that starting insulin helps but it seems the cancer spreads and this is what ultimately causes death. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
He did not die of starvation. When the organs of the body responsible for processing food fails, the body is no longer able to process food and feeding someone at that point cause more pain, more harm than good. I hope that gave you some peace! Speaking as a health professional who works in palliative care❤
Nothing is permanent but love and compassionate is . Rong you are now in the place of pure love ❤️🙏
Cancer doesnt care about your eating habits or healthy life style... Just live your life to the fullest ! Always !
The world is hugging you. After seeing this video; you will NEVER be forgotten!!!
My sister passed with pancreatic cancer. This is such a painful torture on the body. I pray you know Jesus and He will grant you comfort during this time.
The relief and peace you get on the otherside is indescribable. No more pain or fear and no memory of it either. Heaven is paradise and his loved ones will see him again.
My 3rd Elder Sister passed away in April 2017 at age 64 due to colon cancer ... May Good Brother Rong Liang be Blessed to a Better World & Realm ... & be Reunited with His Loved Ones in due Time & Space ... Lives are temporal & karmic energies based in these 6 Realms of Samsara ( Sufferings in Sanskrit ) ... 🙏 May we be Good Persons & to Do Good Deeds with Wisdom ... So as to accumulate more Good Merits to propel our Souls to a Higher & More Fortunate Realms in our After Life! ... 🙏🕯🌼🌿🌎🕊
What a beautiful young man who’s strength was immeasurable till the end. You do have a legacy it’s this video and highlighting the importance of cancer treatments for pancreatic cancer. My condolences to your mother and family, Rest in peace and Thankyou for the time you took to video this episode xxxxx
Sending hugs and comfort to the mother ❤ what a wonderful gift to give your son - life. I’m so sorry RIP