My final days with cancer: Completing one last project with mum & dad | This Is Us Families

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  • @MothershipSG
    @MothershipSG  Рік тому +880

    Dear all, thank you for watching. My interviews with Rong and his parents were some of the rawest I’ve had. Rong’s openness and honesty allowed us to navigate complex and uncomfortable realities about his life, his suffering, and his relationship with his loved ones. And when I started to wonder if it was all too much, Rong thanked us for asking the difficult questions.
    He kept it real throughout and made me realise that the hard truths and imperfections in life and love are to be embraced, not feared nor avoided. And so I sought to tell his story in the same way.
    I hope that Rong’s story inspires something in you like it did with my crew and I. For us, it was a reminder to love and live fiercely and fully.
    Take care!
    ⁃ Denise [Producer]

    • @christopherlaw9184
      @christopherlaw9184 Рік тому +19

      Thank you. It is a beautiful story by Rong, his family and MothershipSG

    • @Hs5687
      @Hs5687 Рік тому

      Heart Touching… You could have done a better job in highlighting also the Waste , Fraud & Abuse that are largely Profit Driven by Health Care Professionals, Big Pharma & Our Malfunctioning PAP Government…. If SG Government has nothing to hide , then Pass Legislation to Offer Whistleblower Protection & Whistleblower Rewards for Crimes that Often Covered Up like Financial Scandals , Corruption etc … then Watch Heads Roll …😊

    • @Tarja1988
      @Tarja1988 Рік тому +5

      Thank you Denise

    • @phero2
      @phero2 Рік тому +11

      I hope the mother knows that we would all love to have a mother like her.

    • @kathleenjory2731
      @kathleenjory2731 Рік тому +5

      I am so very sorry for the loss of this lovely human being. Thank you to his family and Rong for allowing us to share in his life. An honor. May he be soaring in the heavens. XOXOXO

  • @edmarkmaestrecampo3805
    @edmarkmaestrecampo3805 Рік тому +452

    As a cancer nurse, this video made me shed so much tears. No more pain, Rong. Rest easy. More power to the parents to continue raising awareness for this disease.

    • @Lindsay.k3492
      @Lindsay.k3492 Рік тому +9

      Cancer is cruel I’m a survivor myself! I pray for you ❤

    • @nonye0
      @nonye0 7 місяців тому +2

      how do cancer patient really die? are they in pain? do they suffocate?

  • @MyEVERYTHING2211
    @MyEVERYTHING2211 Рік тому +450

    At 53, my husband was diagnosed with End Stage Liver cancer on 1/2/23 with 1-2 months prognosis (he was healthy as a horse, hence the shock with the diagnosed). He passed on on 18/7/23. Thank you, God, for giving us 5 months instead of 2 months to cherish with him.
    Stay strong, Rong's family 🙏

    • @david888a
      @david888a Рік тому +11

      At 53 , too young,p. RIP,sir n may you, Yang, find comfort in the Lord.

    • @missMaryChanChan
      @missMaryChanChan Рік тому +4

      Sending my hugs

    • @atlasg2402
      @atlasg2402 Рік тому +2

      @@missMaryChanChansend funds not hugs

    • @thethirtythree482
      @thethirtythree482 Рік тому +2

      I’m so sorry for your loss ma’am

    • @michaeljohnchavez2512
      @michaeljohnchavez2512 Рік тому +3

      What cause of his liver cancer ? Mam if you dont mind

  • @bryanchong3746
    @bryanchong3746 Рік тому +182

    I can't agreed with Rong more. The moment we are born, we are just like a dripping tap. Cherish each and single day, because we never know how much water is left.

  • @teeniequeenie8369
    @teeniequeenie8369 Рік тому +75

    I truley believe that ppl with terminal diseases and severe handycaps etc are enlightened souls come to teach the world compassion and unconditional love❤

  • @chanelvenus
    @chanelvenus Рік тому +61

    His mom is very sophisticated and elegant they way she carries herself in this trying times

  • @Meowers79
    @Meowers79 Рік тому +95

    Cancer is a cruel disease. My dad had pancreatic cancer. One week we were literally crying with joy because he gained weight and was doing good. He was so proud of himself. Then the next week we were crying with sadness because he lost so much weight and was going downhill fast. My dad only lived 4 months after he was told he had cancer.
    Love you dad, miss you very much. Rip Rong.

    • @marioncannon9924
      @marioncannon9924 7 місяців тому

      My husband lasted 3 days. I still haven't recovered from the shock

    • @Meowers79
      @Meowers79 7 місяців тому

      @sharondelissa Thank you

    • @Meowers79
      @Meowers79 7 місяців тому

      @@marioncannon9924 I'm so sorry. I will be praying for you and your family.

  • @maryvitorelo572
    @maryvitorelo572 Рік тому +131

    This mother had good intentions, she so wanted her son to live. The sad reality is he pushed through this for her, when clearly he was losing his battle. I see myself in her, as I kept pushing my brother when he was clearly dying, when I should have been supporting him in his final days. But I loved him so much, I could not bear the thought of losing him.

    • @susanreilly4409
      @susanreilly4409 9 місяців тому +17

      Yes, I think this is common. I’m not judging mom, but I did this also with my parents-trying to hard to keep them alive but extending their suffering. With my mom, it was actually a doctor who spoke to me and encouraged me to let her be and let her go.

    • @faithinthejourney6409
      @faithinthejourney6409 6 місяців тому +4

      I caught that dynamic as well, and yes no judgment when you are not in someone's shoes. I did not see this was his final wish, but rather hers.

    • @fatiq8297
      @fatiq8297 6 місяців тому +4

      I also pushed my mom to live when she was dying of stage 4 colorectal cancer. She passed away in Oct 2020. I still feel guilty for that.

  • @honeygoseyney2421
    @honeygoseyney2421 Рік тому +204

    As someonw who study hospice càre....a patient who choose not to take chemo is NOT giving up. They make peace with their decision. But of course everyone else has a way to motivate their love ones. They want you to be around longer so that they can spend their time with you. No easy way around this. My dad has cancer and rhe thought of seeing his go is tough.

    • @Vikingsroar
      @Vikingsroar Рік тому +6

      My friend too gave up chemo and passed on a few months later ...

    • @Mew77778
      @Mew77778 Рік тому +10

      Better to pass on than to live miserably with all the side effects

    • @anitastanley8986
      @anitastanley8986 Рік тому +6

      My daughters died two years ago from pancreatic cancer. She chose to live her last months without chemo. It is a hideous way to die, she weighed 29 kilos when she was finally free. Bless all of us who have to watch our loved ones suffering. Support any research into freeing the world from cancer, . Best wishes to you all, thank you.

    • @churchofpos2279
      @churchofpos2279 Рік тому +7

      @@Mew77778 quality of life is so important. i have seen numerous Cancer patients have a prolonged life, with immense suffering. To me, that is not living. I would rather have a good quality of live, however short that maybe.

    • @animesong10hourschallengeb79
      @animesong10hourschallengeb79 Рік тому

      ​@@churchofpos2279without chemo you'll lose an intense amount of weight. My aunt passed on looking all skin and bones. Really broke my heart

  • @___dae
    @___dae 7 місяців тому +11

    i can’t say anymore just that how the dear DAD is feeling SO MUCH yet he is holding himself back not to breakdown infront of hid ailing child. such a typical yet loving man ❤

  • @iordanidisthomas2635
    @iordanidisthomas2635 9 місяців тому +27

    Chia Rong Liang You are a strong man.
    A strong character.
    A persisting mind.
    A good man fighting his regrets.

  • @fabiwilliams4644
    @fabiwilliams4644 Рік тому +92

    I work as a hospice nurse & our main objective at this time is quality over quantity of life, to alleviate suffering & to navigate the family through this final phase. I wish Rong all the best on his final journey & peace to his family over this loss

  • @Haelseatsworms
    @Haelseatsworms Рік тому +142

    My dad had pancreatic cancer, it’s one that not many people talk about but it’s brutal and painful. My dad fought hard for 5 years and passed at 56. I’m so sorry for Rong and his family.

    • @mijimiji161
      @mijimiji161 Рік тому +4

      *hugs*

    • @kimhickman9210
      @kimhickman9210 Рік тому +5

      My best friend lasted 5 months and she was gone, 5 years wow.

    • @Haelseatsworms
      @Haelseatsworms Рік тому +8

      @@kimhickman9210 he was so lucky it was caught early and was able to have the whipple procedure, he was able to have treatment and went into remission but it came back with a vengeance. we had a family friend who got diagnosed and died 3 months later.

    • @vernamorales2326
      @vernamorales2326 Рік тому +8

      @@kimhickman9210 Sorry for your friend.l lost my friend when she was 14 to ovarian cancer in 1977 .l think about her every day

    • @marciojjj
      @marciojjj Рік тому +2

      🫂

  • @forever21always
    @forever21always Рік тому +72

    Gut wrenching to read that Rong passed on. Rest in peace. Mum n dad you raised an awesome person plus you both are too. Respect.

  • @sabs7880
    @sabs7880 Рік тому +65

    What great parents. They gave him a happy life filled with love and they should be proud

    • @phero2
      @phero2 Рік тому +6

      I hope they know that there are millions sighing to have parents like them.

  • @triciabyrne7761
    @triciabyrne7761 Рік тому +21

    His mother is a beautiful lady in every way. 🙏💚💛🧡☘

  • @phero2
    @phero2 Рік тому +62

    What a loving mother. Power to her.

    • @kainoalittle1034
      @kainoalittle1034 Рік тому +2

      Her subtle desperation when he mentions he's considering stopping chemo. She so wanted him to continue fighting but respects that it's his decision.

  • @bmw67_prmr
    @bmw67_prmr Рік тому +49

    I was born on February 11, 1985.
    With a rare disease.
    After having a PhD in Economics, working in my branch, having a good job, I got ill and it got even worse.
    I was on a sick-leave since October 2017 and officially entered my disability pension in February 2023.
    A lot of things happened. From a ''one-step-close-to-death'' experience to period of smiling.
    My mum and my dad have always been there for me.
    I was crushed seeing the outcome.
    I wish you a peaceful rest my friend

  • @iriemo721
    @iriemo721 Рік тому +44

    Such a great idea his mom had to have this fashion show. Moms are so amazing. They really try to relieve our suffering in any way they can. God bless moms. Praying for Rongs family and loved ones as they grieve his passing.

  • @pn558
    @pn558 Рік тому +40

    Reality check for all of us. Remarkable courage, RIP Rong.

  • @LookDeepWithin
    @LookDeepWithin Рік тому +45

    I am going to say something very different here, which is also a sincere Blessing from me .....
    Life is a package of birth and death
    Like a coin with 2 sides, it is the most natural process which the sooner we accepts it, the faster we are free from pain, worries, stress ... etc.
    When we learn to truly let go of things not meant to be and that we cannot control, and instead take comfort in appreciating how brave we have been, how peaceful we are with ourselves and everybody else, for forgiving all those whom had offended us in our life and proceed to share our care and wealth with those even less fortunate, we truly become Free..... Free from insisting, free from sadness, clingings, free from burdens, just Freedom.
    Have walks with ourselves regularly, feel that breeze, feel trees, feel your peace.
    The sooner we achieve these and realise that we have always been complete without asking for more, it is already a full life.

    • @chinchinkash979
      @chinchinkash979 Рік тому +1

      🥺🥺♥️♥️♥️

    • @juliadora3062
      @juliadora3062 7 місяців тому +2

      This resonated with me. Thank you for your words.

  • @sweefaith77
    @sweefaith77 Рік тому +72

    RIP Rong, you fought hard, thank you for being so honest through such a hard time. Now you are pain-free!

  • @blueeyephoenix
    @blueeyephoenix Рік тому +181

    I am a stage 4 terminal pancreatic cancer patient and can relate. I was given 6 months to a year. It was an immediate diagnosis... There was no progression.
    It has been over 3 years and I am still fighting on. It's extremely difficult and intense... I managed to see my vegetative Dad off after he fought for 10 years.
    I am holding on for my little girl who nearly died just before my diagnosis, my beloved who entered my life after my diagnosis and divorce, and my family...
    R.I.P Rong.

    • @joytotheworldddd
      @joytotheworldddd Рік тому +15

      i wish you the best. please push on! i’m a cancer survivor and i hope this disease does not affect more people.
      no doubt going through chemo and operations is really tough. i hope you can push through this!!

    • @coffeetravels22
      @coffeetravels22 Рік тому +10

      Don’t give up, continue fighting!

    • @joansbeef4035
      @joansbeef4035 Рік тому +7

      Sorry in advance as I'm not the best at words but just wanted to say stay strong and fight on guys, you're able to do this - give it your all.

    • @ringofsolomon268
      @ringofsolomon268 Рік тому +4

      Yes I know my aunt was fighting the same thing but she was only given a year to live. Lots of hugs to you my friend you're fighting a tough battle. 💪

    • @wshyangify
      @wshyangify Рік тому +4

      So sorry to hear of your divorce. Hoes always leave nowadays...

  • @siobhanrose1680
    @siobhanrose1680 Рік тому +30

    I fell for Rong, he is a beautiful soul, and though I never knew him personally, him sharing his fight, and his inner monologue with us, through his hardest time, I felt honoured. I hope you have found peace on the other side Rong x

  • @mijimiji161
    @mijimiji161 Рік тому +49

    my dad just passed away 4 days ago and it was dreadful to watch him deteriorate from liver cancer. watching these documentaries help us remind ourselves that we are not alone in these situations. we live, we suffer, we die and it will happen to each and every one of us.. condolences to Rongs family, the grievance will live through but trust that we will all reunite when the time comes.

    • @em945
      @em945 Рік тому +3

      Bless you.

    • @vernamorales2326
      @vernamorales2326 Рік тому +2

      @@em945 I second that

    • @erinstark5450
      @erinstark5450 Рік тому +2

      I'm sorry about your dad.

    • @alcal2605
      @alcal2605 Рік тому +1

      Sorry about your father my friend. My father passed away 10 days ago to Gallbladder, and liver cancer. I know what you are going through, and its tough... Sending my love and condolences to your family. No more suffering for our parents. They're in a better place looking after us and living within our hearts now :)

    • @mijimiji161
      @mijimiji161 Рік тому +2

      @@alcal2605 thank you.. it was really taking a toll on him. it was a painful journey for us to watch, let alone them carrying that terminal illness. My heart goes to u and ur family.. it's nice that we have communities here sharing our experiences. All along i felt very lonely in this situation, your comments make me stronger.

  • @nelsonc6173
    @nelsonc6173 Рік тому +15

    I lost my dad to lung cancer years ago. Non smoker, loved to exercise, and non drinker as well. Ate healthy...mom's cooking...sure he had his coffee and his eggs sometimes at the diner but overall he had a healthy lifestyle. Yet he didn't make it. It was a tough loss for the family. For me.
    I wonder about modern medicine and the supposed advances we made. But I still see so many people suffering from disease and dying...especially from cancer. It's the 21st century yet I really feel we are still so primitive in treating illnesses. And the cost...don't get me started on that.
    I hope mankind can make real major advances in diagnostics and treatments. I truly hope so. We as humans deserve better.

    • @jeriqosantos
      @jeriqosantos 8 місяців тому

      the government will always incorporate population control. all the processed food and drugs that we ingest are what kills us

    • @dereknichols4376
      @dereknichols4376 8 місяців тому +1

      Its almost impossible to reduce the cost of medicine etc
      Unless we allow human experiment to speed up the process+add more accuracy
      Technology can advances fast=because u can test it with so many resources
      Just like food,u have enough ingredient to experiment with and speed up the evolution
      But it's different with medicine,most of our method directly linked with animal experiment,and in most case it wont work the same in human because of different genetics etc
      And the cost of each experiment is bigger than before,that's the problem
      So the cost of medicine/etc wont be cheap unless we allow 'human experiment' without moral

  • @kellyb9287
    @kellyb9287 Рік тому +15

    RIP Rong you are loved! Comfort and peace to his lovely parents.

  • @celinelim847
    @celinelim847 10 місяців тому +11

    2 years ago, I lost my brother to pancreatic cancer too. He was 46. Rong's story resonated so much with me. Such a beautiful soul and thanks Mothership for featuring the story.

    • @karencrazy5106
      @karencrazy5106 Місяць тому

      I am so sorry for your loss. May your brother rest in peace🤍

  • @yct6500
    @yct6500 Рік тому +28

    Rong, his dad and mum are such beautiful people. Rong is strong and loving, he had shown us what strength is in the midst of one's worst crises in life. May he rest in peace.

  • @jacfairbairn2592
    @jacfairbairn2592 Рік тому +15

    I remembered watching Rong on a Green Renaisance video..I was so moved and inspired by his candid and brave account of himself, his willingness to share his journey with such dignity and strength was a testament to his personhood, such a fine man and human..His parents are so proud of him and such wonderful people, I send my deepest condolences and admiration for their beloved son..RIP Rong🙏💛💐

  • @purplepoppyz
    @purplepoppyz Рік тому +10

    His parents must be so proud of him. What a lovely, intelligent and strong man Rong was. A wonderful son, they raised him well. Life is so cruel 💔

  • @LL-ys8uy
    @LL-ys8uy Рік тому +17

    RIP bro… thank you for staying strong and thank you for being part of our lives.

  • @cynthiadelpozzo4082
    @cynthiadelpozzo4082 Рік тому +9

    Oh this is heartbreaking, you can see the love they have for their son😫😫

  • @taramatheis1451
    @taramatheis1451 Рік тому +9

    What a deeply touching video. What a beautiful soul Rong was and- wow- his parents! Such loving and devoted parents & mum is a real beauty. R.I.P Rong ❤

  • @ringofsolomon268
    @ringofsolomon268 Рік тому +17

    Lost my eldest aunt ten years ago due to pancreatic cancer then lost another one last year due to lung cancer. Both are worst types of cancer only managed to survive a year. They didn't do chemo either coz they're too old. Treasure your loved ones ❤

  • @WWK186
    @WWK186 Рік тому +21

    You have been brave in your fight. RIP Rong.

  • @miraturner6333
    @miraturner6333 Рік тому +8

    It's so sad to hear of Rong's passing. Prayers for Rong and his amazing family.

  • @SASSAS___
    @SASSAS___ Рік тому +24

    So much emotions invoked after watching this. I pray and hope that Auntie and Uncle will be able to cope with their grief and be there for each other, and that time would heal a little bit of their pain. Know that we are supporting you and rooting for you.
    Rest in peace, Rong. You fought and you've won.

  • @ijustneedmyself
    @ijustneedmyself 8 місяців тому +7

    RIP Rong. I saw his story last year. I didn't expect the gut punch at the end. He died three days after my 41-year-old husband died. My husband was diagnosed in June 2022. Sending my love to all his loved ones ❤

    • @twocentman
      @twocentman 8 місяців тому +3

      Sorry to hear that.

    • @karencrazy5106
      @karencrazy5106 Місяць тому +1

      I am so sorry for your loss. May your husband rest in peace🤍

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Місяць тому +1

      @@twocentman Thank you

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Місяць тому

      @@karencrazy5106 Thank you, Karen. I think about him every day. I'm doing my best to make sure our 5-year-old remembers him and is processing his grief in a healthy way.

  • @marieboutin9054
    @marieboutin9054 3 місяці тому +1

    very very sad. What a terrible disease. His parents seem heartbroken. I can understand that. His mother is such a "beautiful" soul. so kind, sensitive and intelligent. I am thinking of her.
    All my love

  • @letsgoletsgoletsgoletsgoletsgo

    Ive worked with Yan last year, what a beautiful and soft-spoken lady, i never knew

  • @afinakassim2452
    @afinakassim2452 Рік тому +26

    I have lost my brother (lung cancer), auntie (thyroid cancer) and father (tongue cancer). Till this day, I always tell people "take care of your health, do things that give you bliss and decide for things that you will never regret for doing or not."

    • @serirayna2789
      @serirayna2789 Рік тому

      i like to think the ones that have gone from our lives, lived theirs fully and responsibly. its just Life , till the very end of it 😪

  • @benamisemthimkhulu1554
    @benamisemthimkhulu1554 Місяць тому +1

    This is so devastating. My heart broke when he said "Going to the hospital really scares me". But I am glad that his parents were there for him every step of the way until he took his last breath. No more pain. RIP Rong.

  • @24lyen
    @24lyen Рік тому +13

    May Rong rest in peace😢. It has been touching. Rong put up a goos fight. To Rong's parents, please stay strong and be in good health always.

  • @cassidylee9651
    @cassidylee9651 Рік тому +18

    Condolences to the family. Rong has been strong and I hope the fashion show will continue to rise awareness for all cancer patients.

  • @orighomisandediare4990
    @orighomisandediare4990 Рік тому +7

    This is too painful but necessary for us to understand what this disease caused physically and emotionally. May the Lord grant you all peace. Rest in eternal peace Rong. Thank you for inviting us in to observe

  • @Sitaslife
    @Sitaslife 7 місяців тому +14

    Bringing me back to tears watching this video cause it reminds me of my daughter that passed away in 2019 with pancreatic cancer so young she’s only 27yrs of age and still now im still coping with the fact of losing her so sad and emotional with the parents and all the people out there that’s been affected by these kind of illness may the Lord comfort and heal us all in every situation 🙏🏾

    • @Rae-lh7ex
      @Rae-lh7ex 7 місяців тому +2

      I am so sorry for your loss. Although I have not lost a child to cancer, I lost my Mom 11 years ago to brain cancer. There is a hole left in my soul from her absence. I have memories and stories so I talk about my Mom so that they won’t forget her and the imprint she left in their life. 🌺

  • @WisdomSpeaks4u
    @WisdomSpeaks4u Рік тому +3

    My thought are with him. As a breast cancer survivor- I feel his pain, and my prayers will be for his family 🙏😩

  • @billdambrough
    @billdambrough Рік тому +14

    Thank you Rong and family for sharing your story...my deepest condolences to the family. Rest in peace🙏❤

  • @utubesucks9302
    @utubesucks9302 Рік тому +105

    RIP Rong, a fighter till the end.
    Bless his parents. Unless you’re in that situation, no one can really understand what they have & are still going through in losing a child.

  • @theadventurer1602
    @theadventurer1602 Рік тому +13

    Eternal rest grant unto Rong, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. Amen.

  • @teepkiokm
    @teepkiokm Рік тому +17

    Rong’s fighting spirit remains with us for a long long time….may your soul be blessed abundantly. God loves you.

  • @raymondt9333
    @raymondt9333 Рік тому +8

    Rest in peace Rong..... Your smile and fighting spirit will always stay with us.

  • @soula912
    @soula912 Рік тому +6

    I can’t stop crying. This was a powerful n sad video. Rong your words and memory will live on forever. Prayers and love to Rong’s parents. Thank you for bringing awareness n thank you for this video ❤️🙏

  • @a7128
    @a7128 10 місяців тому +3

    Looks like he was a really cool guy. My condolensces to the parents. May he rest in peace.

  • @meanwhileinespoo1265
    @meanwhileinespoo1265 9 місяців тому +1

    Brave young man.. what spirit he has, what compassion

  • @_LuckyLynn
    @_LuckyLynn Рік тому +13

    😭😭😭 May Rong rest in peace and reborn in his next life. Hope his family stay strong! Thank you for sharing Rong's story Mothership

  • @juyoungc3816
    @juyoungc3816 7 місяців тому +1

    I love how Rong’s mother came up with Fashion for Cancer. It was a very positive idea for people to keep their minds off of being a Cancer patient. This also made me sad because “ life is precious.” “It’s also very short.” He was right about spending time with your family. I cried when I could see him in pain. May he rest in peace.

  • @karendoran9572
    @karendoran9572 Рік тому +4

    Lost my brother & mother to pancreatic cancer, lost my brother first & then my mother RIP Rong

  • @audreyrose_1979
    @audreyrose_1979 7 місяців тому +2

    Watching this made me emotional... My mom has cancer and i'm petrified. She is the strongest and bravest woman i know, she's my dragon lady. I don't why i'm afraid... Am i afraid that she might be in pain and wont tell me or im afraid that i will be in pain if she wont be ok... I always feel bad for families going through this but the pain is not even close if one of ur family is going through it.

  • @sabbathfaith879
    @sabbathfaith879 Рік тому +8

    How devastating, my best friend was diagnosed few months ago and I only found out today and you have no idea how much I have cried. 😢

  • @jillnunnen1815
    @jillnunnen1815 Рік тому +3

    What an amazing braveheart! God bless you in heaven Rong....much love and prayers xxx

  • @francisang-lg8jp
    @francisang-lg8jp Рік тому +8

    RIP Rong. Rong family be strong and take care ...........

  • @tataki102
    @tataki102 Рік тому +5

    the final picture with Rong and his Mom makes me cry. I lost my sister on 5/29/2023. She was 37 when the cancer took her away from us. Too young. I missed her every day.

    • @karencrazy5106
      @karencrazy5106 Місяць тому

      I am so sorry for your loss. May your sister rest in peace🤍

  • @kaycampbell8532
    @kaycampbell8532 Рік тому +2

    So heartbreaking so see a person suffer like this. My condolences to his family. Peace be with you.

  • @Silvester2K
    @Silvester2K 7 місяців тому +1

    Its very heartbreaking to see the perents…
    Im so sorry for the loss of rong.
    He seems to be a really cool guy.

  • @xinrew
    @xinrew Рік тому +3

    Rest in peace Rong, you stayed strong and was a fighter until the very end, you can rest well now.

  • @emptyemptiness8372
    @emptyemptiness8372 Рік тому +4

    I look at Rong and he could be me, the tattoos...I watched my father, my brother,my grandparents,my mother,my friends all be taken by this disease....I am 57, a single dad of 2 small children in a developing country, now my childrens last grandfather who we love of course is in stage 4 lung cancer....I feel like it's a reaper just behind me and all I want is my children to grow up before it takes me.

  • @00Nobody99
    @00Nobody99 8 місяців тому +2

    RIP Rong... we share the same birthdate..
    To Rong's parents.. be strong and live life as how Rong will live..
    Amen.

  • @cl9803
    @cl9803 Рік тому +8

    you and your family gave me encouragement to start my day in a new way and live differently , like how Rong pointed out - half full ❤
    it’s full but not empty ok? ❤❤

  • @VViv37
    @VViv37 Рік тому +19

    🥹 Our deepest condolences to Yan, Rong & Family 🙏🏼❤️

  • @JohnMoo
    @JohnMoo Рік тому +3

    May The Lord bless you and keep you; May the Lord make his face shine on you, and be gracious to you; May the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.🙏

  • @tibbydudeza
    @tibbydudeza Рік тому +4

    RIP Rong - hope you found the peace you sought in the end.

  • @BlueBenz2005
    @BlueBenz2005 Рік тому +8

    Beautiful documentary. Many thanks to Rong and his parents for sharing his journey with us. ❤

  • @toriwolf5978
    @toriwolf5978 5 місяців тому +1

    Aww so sad to hear he passed away im crying just so tragic , he is such a sweet person … thank you for posting this video, I just wanted to reach through the screen and hug his mom❤😢😢wishing his parents lots of love and prayers ❤

  • @aletheamayconceicao4619
    @aletheamayconceicao4619 Рік тому +4

    Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul all the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
    Amen.

  • @onceuponarenee
    @onceuponarenee Рік тому +7

    Know of his story 2 weeks ago through OGS Our Grandfather Story channel. May his parents feel at peace after his passing.

  • @patriciacano3549
    @patriciacano3549 Рік тому +5

    What a blessing to have beautiful parents and a beautiful son, thanks for sharing your story.🙏🙏🙏RIP Rong

  • @itsjustme9354
    @itsjustme9354 8 місяців тому +1

    Wong you are a inspiration to many cancer patients out there you never gave up the fight you did so well. Take it easy over there 🙏

  • @arivanuaranu
    @arivanuaranu Рік тому +2

    I couldn’t finish watching as it reminded me too much of my late sister. Sending my love to Rong’s parents. RIP Rong…

  • @gwen3010
    @gwen3010 7 місяців тому +1

    GOD bless this family and one day they will all be together again. 🙏❤❤❤

  • @ShadowRap-y5l
    @ShadowRap-y5l 7 місяців тому +1

    No parent should live beyond their children... RIP Rong.

  • @GiGi-Gigi408
    @GiGi-Gigi408 Рік тому +4

    😢what a loving beautiful family 💝 this hit home. RIP to there brave handsome young man 😭

  • @janzguy
    @janzguy Рік тому +9

    My condolences to Rong’s family. Thank you for sharing this video.

  • @crizeldayaan-corbita8752
    @crizeldayaan-corbita8752 7 місяців тому +1

    Fought cancer twice, it’s easy to say “dont give up” but cancer battle is hard, super hard. When my cancer came back, I also thought of bot doing the chemo anymore. But my son was just 2 years old and i have two pre-teens at that time. So i decided to fight again and need to beat cancer.
    Mom is so strong. 😢😢

  • @xspicy1x
    @xspicy1x Рік тому +1

    Thank you for raising awareness with this video. Rong you are the Man. May you rest in peace

  • @cindyphoebe6392
    @cindyphoebe6392 3 місяці тому

    His mother is so beautiful. What a blessing to have by his side during his last days

  • @jiangwendy536
    @jiangwendy536 Рік тому +4

    Really appreciate Rong n his family love for him n support n their sharing awarding the world Abt cancer n how to live life to the fullest even while battling thru till the final. Fighting!!!❤❤❤love u guys

  • @missMaryChanChan
    @missMaryChanChan Рік тому +1

    Cancer taken away many people we love, Rong keep fighting and all best wishes to you.

  • @susuCindy
    @susuCindy 4 місяці тому

    His mom has a positive attitude and very caring! I like his family. Pancreatic cancer is very painful. RIP, Rong!

  • @kel2700
    @kel2700 4 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful parents and son. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nurathirahzolkifle
    @nurathirahzolkifle 8 місяців тому +2

    We lost my mum in July last year. What I regret the most was she fought through the way despite of having to take care of my bedridden grandmother. It was when covid started to hit us and my so called pious relatives did not care to come and help us that much with reasons like they are afraid of covid and whatnot. Imagine my mum having to take care of my grandmother alongside my dad, I really despised them after we lost our mum. My mum was a survivor and her cancer relapsed probably because of the stress she had to endure while taking care of my bedridden grandmother.

  • @michaelpaine8884
    @michaelpaine8884 Рік тому +2

    Next Spring I will plant something in my garden for Rong and his family.

  • @MiMiLovesCrochet
    @MiMiLovesCrochet Рік тому +3

    I am sad yet, honored to have found your video in my feed. I will go back and jump down the rabbit hole and catch up. I'm so sad that you was dealt this horrible hand of Pancreatic Cancer. Your family is so Great. You are a Brave and Strong Man. I will now keep you in my Thoughts and Prayers and wish I'd have found your channel sooner. Your mother is Beautiful & Handsome father...know where you get your great looks from. Thos is a very painful disease and Rong, it takes many too young. Please know and feel the Love from all your subs here on your channel. Love the Cup half Full way to live...I also live this way. I'm in last stages of COPD & live on oxygen 24/7. But, im still Blessed. Prayers and Hopes for no pain...Bless All.❤️🙏🏼

  • @elizabethysm86ysm2
    @elizabethysm86ysm2 Рік тому +1

    I may not know Rong! But what I understand is. Rong is in his happiest place… ❤🙏🏻

  • @njcdailo8934
    @njcdailo8934 Рік тому +5

    I can’t even finish the video . Rest easy my guy. Well done till the end.

  • @anitadenton1468
    @anitadenton1468 Рік тому +1

    I’m so sorry and truly sad for Rong and his parents, absolutely heartbreaking.
    I hope he finds the peace, and pain free moments, and look into himself what a wonderful man he is. 💕💕

  • @Dreamer20239
    @Dreamer20239 Рік тому

    I worked at KP hospice as hospice aide. Very painful jpurney for everybody. Got emotional watching this. I always say this to i patient’s family . I felt very honored and blessed to be part of his/her journey. No miore pain and he/she is happy now watching us. God bless.

  • @jbb2650
    @jbb2650 9 місяців тому

    Oh how my heart aches for Rong’s family and what he went through. What a courageous family. It was heartbreaking to see but us, who have experienced this with loved ones appreciate such a heartfelt video. Rest In Peace.

  • @MicheleUnderdown
    @MicheleUnderdown Рік тому +1

    May God our Father give you the strength to fight your desease and keep pain as bearable as possible. ✝️✝️✝️👏❤️