How To Shutdown The Narcissist Without Even Saying A Word
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- Опубліковано 4 вер 2024
- Have you grown exasperated with the narcissist in your life, desperately searching for a way to shut them down?
A way to stop them from engaging you in circular arguments and conflicts that lead nowhere and leave you drained of energy.
I know I was caught up in this game and struggled greatly with being hooked in and always being thrown off balance emotionally.
I would twist myself into a pretzel to try to get my sensible and logical message across in any way so they would just understand me and GET IT … but it never worked, instead I was just handing my power away.
Today’s Thriver TV episode is all about teaching you the mechanics of the essential three levels of shutting the narcissist down without saying a word. Imagine that, getting your message across to a narcissist without saying a WORD!
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Not giving them the reaction they're looking for is very shocking to them, but giving them NO REACTION at all is hurtful to them.
But not in the traditional sense of being hurt, as a normal human being would be. The hurt they feel is the absence of your pain, so don’t feel too bad.
My latest narc actually said to me "I'm shocked how you handled this so calmly" (the discard) and "I'm impressed how you dealt with this"
And that is exactly what the narc is doing, complete silent abandonment.
Once the realize they can no longer get emotional reactions and feed off of you they MUST replace you ASAP…. Prepare for an abrupt discard and thank the Universe !
Your title says it all. “Saying nothing” is our POWER.
Yep
I let go of you... I’m ending this battle now. From today forward, I’m claiming my soul, true self and life
It's been two weeks! I hope you are still going strong, its hard, but you've got this!
I hope you are doing well 🙏
Me too,same. I'm letting him go. Now. I'm just going to go forth and accept the past, and let go of the pain completely. He's made a bunch of people in my community want me dead,so a prayer sent my way would be much appreciated. Hugs.
Don’t dance with the devil they say. They thrive on your pain. Let them go, don’t bother trying to win, they’re already dead emotionally inside.
Amen
I let go of you. I am ending this battle now. From today forward, I'm claiming my soul, true self and life. Love this mantra!
Don't walk over slugs. They want to be alive too. Killing is narcissistic. Animals are here with us.
Not for us...
"I let go of you, I'm ending this battle now"- Melanie 🦋
Very healing to hear 🙏
This is why narcissists are so exhausting. You spend your entire time trying to reason with them and apply logic, but they're not interested in anything you say. They feed off the emotion with which you say it. The more extreme the emotion you display the more they like it.
You're describing a liberal.
@@rubygreby1473 Same thing. And many RepubliCONS are also narcs, my covert narc mother being one of them. Both sides are flying monkeys for globalist bankster psychopaths. They give us a false dichotomy to make us think we have a choice. All a show for the dumbed down masses. Notice how their agenda continues no matter which side is selected.
@@reesedaniel5835 I guess RINOs would be included.
@@reesedaniel5835 Wow good for you to see this. Many are coming to the truth of this. God showed me this truth in 2018. Then started confirming with irrefutable facts. That's why we only ever have a dem or a rep and Congress is always split! That alone doesnt make sense and never should have. It's so they can always blame the other & yep their agenda always goes thru no matter what! This is all a big deception.
@@reesedaniel5835 Excellent. Exactly. The eugenicist supremacists located around the world but centered in London / NYC / Israel - are narcissists. They've invaded the human soul. They pretend to be "for human rights" for "conservatism" - etc. -They are for themselves only.
Once the veil has been lifted, once you see what they really are, it’s game over. You can’t unsee it, you can’t delude yourself any longer. If you try to go back - and you likely will at first because the trauma bond is so strong - it’ll only be more painful as you know you’re betraying yourself.
The narcissist is the most powerful teacher you’ll ever have to learn about yourself, your patterns, your upbringing and wounds from your past and childhood. But the jigsaw will only fully fall into place when you’re ready. Usually when you’re exhausted and ground down so much that you know something has to change. It is within you. You have the power. You’ve always had it, they just sucked it out of you bit by bit, gaslighting you into submission.
This experience has changed me, taken away my innocence and vulnerability. Now, instead of trusting first and being betrayed, manipulated, burned, walked over, I withhold trust until someone earns it. Boundaries are everything. I’ve never had them until now. It’s really difficult to uphold them in front of manipulative people, but you must be true to yourself and your own needs first. It’s a game changer.
Thank you Melanie 🙌🏼
Beautifully spoken…. So very true😘
Inner work is everything!
I often here that but what exactly is inner work
4 things you only need to know, 1 you will never hurt a narcissist, trying to do that they will feed off it and will always win.. 2 ignore them, they hate it and want any sort of reaction from you. 3 get on with your own life, stop trying to get revenge on them, it makes you no better than them, and the best revenge is you finding true happiness and them seeing that you have it. And finally 4.. replete steps 1,2,3 and 4
Talk to the loons like a robot, show them zero emotion or just laugh at them, Melanie i literally felt my life force being sucked out of me I was panting for breath I literally felt a pin being pulled out of me and would fall to the floor in a puddle. (ONE narc thumbed this truth down)
After 2 years of inner work, my narc husband is like a big crusty dusty broom to me...😅😅😅😅😁😀😀😃😄
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Melanie! Your words give life to those of us cracking this intense and painful dance with narcissistic abuse. I am so grateful!!!!! Beyond words. Your are luminous and amazing!
aww bless you sweetheart. xoxox
I let go of all of you...all of the narcissists in my life. I am ending this battle NOW. From today forward, I'm claiming my soul, true self, and true life.
Yes this is why I did not converse with him after he was kicked out and he blamed me for everything. I just blocked. They don’t care.
I used to really weep , and weep,and yes! He definitely got off on it. Scary to think that someone could be so nasty and vicious that they'd revel in the pain they cause.Better to show NO reaction. It takes away the sick little thrill they get power tripping on you. Yank that away from them, and refuse them their pleasurable dopamine hit. That's incredibly frustrating for them I imagine ( and hope) . Take back the power. Poker face too. Be boring and don't even bother talking about them with friends or acquaintances who knew both of you, because otherwise that person will feed that back to him or her.Be at peace. You've got this.
I let go of you.... I'm ending this battle now! From today forward I'm claiming my soul, true self and life. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🌹
No reaction, Grey rock and silence is just really pissing him off.
It makes him relentless and so very hurtful!!
Apparently I don't care about our kids "trauma".
Staying strong though. Thank you Melanie x
The claim about the children is just his projection; they are the ones who traumatise the children. Your only hope is that as the years go by the children will be able to make sense of it all and see who the real villain is.
They overcame satan by the Blood of the Lamb and the Word of their testimony ✝️💞🛐
Power in the Blood of Jesus 🙏
Well, once again I sent a comment and it disappeared! I don't know why this keeps happening and it is getting extremely frustrating! Anyway here's what I tried to say! Firstly, I wanted to thank you, Melanie, for this video! The second thing that I tried to say was how remarkable it was that this video came along today! The narcissist had sent me a nasty email and it really upset me and I was really frustrated. I sent the email to my lawyer and he gave me some really remarkably simple advice which absolutely correlated with the contents of this video! His advice was to "simply ignore her"..... after hearing those words I was able to inact some of the knowledge and practices that I have learned in NARP and I was very thankful for that. ❤️🦋❤️ There was a temporary shift and a good one....🙌 I was able to turn within rather than flailing around upset with what she is doing again! I initially could feel my energy dissipating and once I started turning inward that stopped.... this was a very good lesson to learn today and thank you so much for this video, tonight! NARP and a very good human helped today..... thank you so much for everything, Melanie!
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aww I am so glad this was of support to you Peter. xoxox
@@MelanieToniaEvans thank you, Melanie! ❤️🦋❤️
This is helping me to go no contact.. Again
You just cracked the CODE of narcissism !!! That's the key to all of it. Very well put
Their favorite line is you’re insulting me? 😂😂😂😂that’s code word for you telling me the truth about myself?
Yes...I was always told I was insulting them, when simply outlining poor behaviour, what hurt me. In fact, I would be insulted in the worst ways(the real issue). It was actually said to me"yes you are abusing me, for telling me about my mistreatment of you"(unreal). These people are insane.There is no logic, reason ..any opportunity to try and drive you mad..have you an emotional mess. All the advice in this video to save sanity, peace...are life saving.
"Psychic vandalisation"!!!!!!!! That is such a perfect phrase Melanie. Brilliant. And it really describes the effect a narcissist has on you. The narcissist I went out with was actually a psychic. I think she's really thrown out some very negative energy to me since I blocked her. Actually I had a couple of days where I felt so bad I thought a spell or curse had been put on me.I'm not kidding. I only went out with her for a year but was love bombed completely without realizing it. I've been pretty cut up about it, although I'm pretty sure she had other supply throughout our relationship. In one way or another. Thanks
I let go of you. I'm ending this battle now. From today forward, I claim my soul, true self and life.
I let go of you, I'm ending this battle now. From today forward, I'm claim my soul and true self. Thank you so much for your work 🙏, much love and light to you.
I think my neighbors son is a narc. I got slightly trigger when he stopped me mid sentence, and turned it around to be about him. Also he started giving extremely horrible advice, seems to be a narc mainstay. 🙂
I let go of you! I'm ending this battle NOW! From today forward I'm claiming my true soul, true self, and true life!!
I really really tried to break the soul tie,he's refusing to go! I'm going to pray harder, and fast. I'm also going to work on releasing trauma and pain. Thank you.
Watched again today😄I let go of you- I'm ending this battle NOW-From today forward I am claiming my soul, true self and life! This is my first born. He is 47 yrs old. I have already went nc with many. I so wish I had known of you earlier Tonya.
Exactly what I needed. Thank you 🙏 for this video, Melanie. This is right where I am as I’m experiencing on and off cycles of silent treatment. Can’t wait until I’m able to go no contact and move into a place to calm my own. I’m determined to make a permanent break.
Same situation I’m in don’t know how much more of it I can take😣
Wonderful! I came across your video at just the right time. The narc I am separating from had written in my diary "you selfish prick it's all about you". It took my breath away. I was floundering around about just how to react and not wanting to. I had crossed it all out but after watching your video I wrote in my diary: " I let go of you. I'm claiming back who I am my life." Not reacting, grey rock, and inner work. Thank you.
You sound so much like Coach Jessie thankfully. They “feel the energy chord gone. And when it’s gone, it’s gone”. Coach Jessie says when a trauma bond is gone/broken, it’s gone forever”. Thanks 🙏🏿 MTE. Your help, God and inner work are everything. 🥰😍😘 Coach Jessie too. 🤩🥰😍
Yes, when they feel the energy cord gone, the narc shrivels up. This is a SPIRITUAL WAR.
"Many a time they have persecuted me from my youth, but they have not prevailed against me. The plowmen (narcs) plowed over my back (slandered, betrayed, disrespected, abused), they made their furrows long (turned everyone against you before you knew what was going on) The LORD is righteous; He has cut me asunder from the cords of the wicked.…" Psalm 129:3-5
@@reesedaniel5835 thanks so much for sharing this Bible passage
I let go of you... I'm ending this battle now. From today forward I'm claiming my soul, true self, and life!!!
2yrs later you are still helping me soooo much. This was right on time for me. Thank you! 💌
I LET GO of you. I am ENDING this BATTLE NOW. From today forward I am CLAIMING my SOUL, TRUE SELF, and TRUE LIFE.
Awesome
Melanie, you are an Empress in the energy realm xo
Thank you my dear man. xoxox
Mel, they always try to provoke you. Reacting in anger is pointless, but sometimes their accusations, claims and threats are so hilarious you can't help but smile, but that only fuels the rage further - it's a real struggle.
David hun it's such a head spin and toxic merry-go-round that's why it's so important to detach and go No Contact so you can start creating the space to focus on you and your healing. Please Google my name and 'going No contact' to help and guide you. Love and Blessings
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I let go of you. I’m ending this battle now. From today forward, I’m claiming my Soul, true self and true life.
Barbora Vidova,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🥀,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!
I can listen, and listen, and listen!!!!
Why does it take me so long before I can hear. Ms. Melanie, you are God sent for my inner conditions.....i want to be forgiving, compassionate and self reliant on my well being.
I will be responsible for me!!!!
I wish you could get more men to see they do not have to suffer alone.
No more energy sucking ditch pigs for me!!!!!!! Not today at least!!!!! Love and prayers for all of you 💗
Love and blessings to you hun. xoxox
i let go of you... im ending this battle now. From today forward im claiming my soul, true self, and life.
writing this mantra on my bathroom mirror where I get ready every morning! "I let go of you...I'm ending this battle now...from today forward, I'm claiming my soul, my true self, and my true life!"
I believe you Mel.
It’s time I believe in me, it’s now I need to let go of the energy she has holding me back from thriving.
Thank you for helping all of us through this.
Much love and appreciation 🙏🏼💚🙌
It's my pleasure Jason. You've got this! xoxox
Miss lady!!! You better preach ! I love this !!! I needed this .
My bday weekend started off horrible ... My 5 year old sons dad only starts arguments when it's close to holidays or family events (my side of the family) my bday and it's always *I want to get my son * with out proper scheduling that co-parents should have in place even without the courts *this last draining encounter happened a day before my bday April 9th 2021... He comes to pick up our son *3 hours late* he asked to talk to me and not in front of the kids and I went to my room and he followed me and said we can go outside and I told him no the room is fine and he started off his speech with I know you come from a good place but I'm going to need for you not to send me no more positive messages or affirmations because your not my girl... Holy moly I was so thrown off .. I stood up and told him "say less" and he got upset and told me I'm acting just like his daughter's mom and we will learn to stop disrespecting him and let him get his communication through* the only thing I kept repeating was I'm not ever going to stop praying for you... And the devil won't win NOT TODAY SATAN. And of course the argument went on . He took our son for a couple hours and brought him back even when he told me he was going to take him for two days, my daughter also noticed that after I told him you cannot have my energy you better get it somewhere else she said he got more upset. I didn't even notice that because I was involved in the argument. This is real life and affects a lot of people I think you for spreading light and giving your wisdom. I appreciate you from the top of your head to the bottom of your feet! 💯
I let go of you,I'm ending this battle now.For today forward,I'm claiming my soul, true self and life Amen
I love your message. My neighbor is a narcissist who is always attacking myself and my family. I am learning to take my power.
I let go of you. I’m ending this battle now. From today forward I’m claiming my soul and true life
I'm Ending this battle now
I can't believe she mindf#%ked this way. She doesn't need to abuse me anymore, I do it to myself.
I let go of you I’m ending this battle now. Through the divine law of one I’m petitioning all my sovereign energy back to me in its purest highest and angelic version from my higher self with all soul fragments of joy and self love back to me. In all timelines Parell and future universes and recreation programs I burn up all parchments and soul contracts to you the narcissist and toxic person in the violet flame I’m claiming my soul true self and true life and so it is. Thank you Melanie! 🌻🌈💖🙏🦋🦋🦋🌷🌸
Awesome. This makes perfect sense to me and also tells me these people are just dark and empty carcasses. Very helpful video.
I let go of you. I am ending this battle now. From today forward I'm claiming my soul, true self and true life.
Victoria A C Quin-Harkin MA,You are beautiful 🌹🌹🥀,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!
Psychic vandilization. Well put!!! That's exactly what it feels like.They literally try to do this. Detachment is key, and yes,I'm going to do everything you say.
If I end up with hair like yours--healing is worth it.
The black ink description is soooooooo accurate. I feel a noticeable "voltage loss" from time to time. Like they are thinking about me HARD. Then...shortly after, they hoover.
Yikes!!
Resist the devil and he will flee.
I LET GO OF YOU. . .I'M ENDING THIS BATTLE NOW. .FROM TODAY FORWARD, I CLAIM MY SOUL, TRUE SELF AND LIFE
So true, every time I releases energy he was back in 4 hours. He always said I feel you. This time it’s difficult , I’ve been trying to disconnect, I need help. Thank you so much
Inga big hugs! Have you thought about my NARP www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp It is my highest suggestion for you to disconnect, heal and take back your sanity, soul and life xoxoxo
From today forward I'm claim my sold true and life
Thank you so much Melanie. I just did the writing exercise and will repeat again three times in cursive about fifteen minutes prior to going to sleep. I feel a sense of true relief and empowerment already. I've been going through an absolutely life altering module which I purchased before I knew I don't actually married to a narc . One of the suggestions Dr. Jim Richards given in his preliminary "Heart Physics "module is to write out the same sentence in cursive approximately fifteen minutes prior to retiring every evening. I'm a Believer in the Lord Jesus and the main purpose of the module Dr. Jim created is multi - fold. First it's a guided biblical meditation that one does in the am while still in the alpha state. ( one goes to their Secret Place to meet with Jesus. Mine is the beach. But this could be anywhere one desires.) Throughout the day I write out times, places add situations where I gained and lost ground. This is to identify self -sabotage. We only rise to the level in every area of life which we believe in our heart's or the subconscious which we actually feel that we deserve. confidence, financial, career ,relationship.... There are three main purposes to this part of the teaching module. To reach a state of deep meditation within a few short moments for a intensive and profound relaxation. The second is to completely take all limits off of God and self ( rooted in religion ,unwise choices, trauma ,and the like.) Thirdly, to write new truths on what Jesus referred to as beliefs of the heart; what the world might refer to as the subconscious mind. The latter aspect is about taking all limiting beliefs off of self as one begins a glorious journey of restoring one's former creativity, which most of us have slowly and painfully, over time ceased to even operate in. For me, it's been barely survival mode and I certainly didn't feel the sense of dignity, and worth I once did. About fifteen minutes before bed time, I write the same sentence three times in cursive. This is for the purpose of cognitive reinforcement and transformation; to believe restoration and beyond are possible.. This is what I write, " I always awaken daily and continually know, feel, and experience the perfect love, joy, and peace of my Papa God ." The writing exercise came with a bit of a warning. You will very likely have vivid, but extremely positive spiritual dreams.It's been amazing I definitely have. Dr. Richards has advanced degrees in Energy medicine, counseling, theology, and business. Honestly, this isn't an advertisement for these teachings. He's simply a very great friend of my pastor. I feel extremely grateful to have come across him ,his books, but especially this invaluable heart work. But I can say this,without my faith and these meditations, I would never have had the courage nor the wisdom to have sought out help nor sought out your channel for answers, nor would I now be making this journey to heal from multiple traumas and especially for narcissistic abuse. I especially thank you Melanie Tonia Evans. I can't thank you enough for sharing your experience, wisdom, and expertise in healing, inner work and exceptional tools for thriving after narcissistic abuse. You described me perfectly; agoraphobia, CPTSD, anxiety, depression, and feeling as though I'd lost all sense of self, including my connection with my Creator.
I can't thank you enough Melanie!
BLESSINGS 🌷
Bless you sweetheart. xoxox
I actually like this idea
I may try it out too
Melanie.... you hit the nail on it's head!!!
I let go of you. I am ending this battle now. From today forward. I'm claiming my soul, true self and true life🌷
10:40 is so real. Doing the work Mel changes your response. Soul ties are real. 🙏💜
I had to watch this video twice it was so good. I have been watching your videos for months and I also bought your book. I am now free , happy and at peace. I no longer have the pain and suffering I endured for years being in a relationship with a Narcissist . I have completed removed the emotional vampire from my life . Your techniques work - I watch the videos again for reinforcement and reminders ! Thank you Melanie
Aww bless you sweetheart. xoxox
Many thanks for this video! This is so helpful. Right now I’m dealing with a bunch of narcissists and you’re words came in like a blessing guidance. 💕🙏
Aww I am so grateful this was of support to you sweetheart. xoxox
Love your work, its spot on!
Connect to self everytime. 🙏
Use grey rock method every time....give off nothing....its hard especially when children are involved but even more reason to preserve your energy!
It works and they will keep pushing and always at key times of the year like Christmas or Birthdays...
No reaction every time!
Thank you, your videos are brilliant, life changing , and great to watch as a reminder of the reality of how they function, there is never reasoning with a Narcissist.🙏
This is what you said in your video 👇
"If I can't make you behave in a responsible sane safe way I can't be safe."
Melanie wether you realize it or not you we're trying to control the other person and in essence that's what Narcissism is, control.
Thank you Melanie, the second part is indeed very important.
It is the narcissists who pushed me to realize the value and power of not visible , what they are are after.
It is as real as their day and night fight for it, as needy as making fools of themselves is alright
Always good videos :)
What i believe i am suffering from is actual PTSD since 2019 and the narc. Are you able to give advice for how to heal from ptsd? Thank you
Aww sweetheart PTSD is so common in these types of relationship, my heart goes out to you. The PTSD that you are experiencing can absolutely be healed hun and I would love to show you how you can begin to heal by going inwards and healing the traumas and beliefs that are creating the PTSD. Please join me in my next healing webinar where I will share with you the way in which you can heal and for real sweetheart, it is so worth the effort.
melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar Love and blessings xoxox
I let Go of You. I am ending this battle.🙏🙏🙏 From today I am claiming my soul, My Power And my trust.🙏🙏🙏
Thanks So, Sooo Much 🌹🙏🙏🙏💕💕
Thank you soooooo much for this powerful insight! I'm committed to this truth now! God Bless!
Love and blessings sweetheart xoxox
I let go of you..... I am ending this battle now From today forward, I claim my soul, true self and life
Thanks for this. I spent 10 years having my husband break me down to the point where I was suicidal and had to be hospitalized in 2016. He cheated on me and dumped me in May of last year and I've been sleeping on the couch since. Our dog has taken my place in the bed. It's demoralizing. I'm trying to get out but I have no income. I so wish I could just wake up and leave. I'll try to utilize these steps and see how it goes.
Sweetheart I know how difficult and painful this is for you right now, my goes out to you. You can heal from this hun and I would love to show you the methods and tools that have allowed myself and countless other to heal and thrive in life. Please considering joining me sweetheart, it truly is life changing. melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar Love and blessings xoxox
See it as a blessing! You are free to find your happiness and peace, you owe him nothing. The only person worth being hurt over won't hurt you......
By using NARP I have been able to go no contact and only use a third party in the forum of a solicitor. Its so empowering and liberating. I am no longer effected by the ridiculous individual. Narp has enabled me to regain my soul,my life ,my sanitary.
Aww sweetheart I am so happy to hear you are working with NARP and Thriving. Love and blessings xoxox
Thank you so much, Melanie! This video helps me a lot. For me it's like a beautiful burst of energy from you and Heaven. I just pray I can be brave and committed to my own healing for as long as it takes to do all the inner work. I have started. The inner work is amazing! I really can't thank you enough!
Thank you so much! I overreacted to a perceived threat, as I'm a little gun shy after all I've experienced and I was able to regroup and go back to the drawing board for my channel that is trying to support me as an underserved human, and perhaps some narcissistic abuse victims, if they come back after I dropped them to go back with my ex. I'm learning fast, but it's a full time job.
Wow can’t believe what I’m hearing waited so long for this really grateful crying tears of joy instead of tears of pain
This video is great I couldn’t take responsibility to stop the abuse up until not too long ago
Literally agreeing to them is about self peace and nothing more. I know it's very difficult to not say anything but it's very important because they will break you down.
Wow! I really needed this , what an empowering video. Superb advice
This is so helpful and beautiful. Yes they feed off of you. So today forward,I'm letting go. I release them and I'm taking my life back.
I LET GO OF YOU...I’M ENDING THIS BATTLE NOW🙏🏻❤️🚀
I let go of you... I am ending this battle now. From today foward, I'm clim my soul, true self, and true life.
He told me to get on antidepressants cause I was "crazy". After I did I realized how he truly was once I was unable to be triggered during the adjustment period. I have now moved into step two and I am so grateful for him suggesting that to me in the first place
I let go of you. I'm ending this battle now. From today forward I'm claiming my soul, true self, and true life!!!!!
This video is so empowering and is really helping me see why I'm reacting how I am and helping my guilt... thank u so much 😊😊👍💓
Love your work Mel -- let the truth be seen 😍😍😍
I let go of you and I let this battle go and I am claiming myself , my life and my soul.
13:13 "a bit icky" omg thanks for the laugh 😂 it really is like that, there's nothing interesting about him anymore. I have been NO CONTACT for 6 long years. I'm in a good place. The only reason I'm here watching this video is that the "I miss you" hoovers have recently started after 2 years. They've been going on since New Year, and it's almost Easter now 😂 This is a covert narcissist so he's patient. Little does he know I have practiced my calmness and MY patience during those last 6 years. And not to mention such rich knowledge I have attained about NPD thanks to beautiful people like Melanie. These narcissist parasites never give up. And they cannot bring any positivity to your life, ever. So don't question or doubt yourself. You KNOW what you saw and experienced and it was 110% real. I'm so proud of myself to not react in any shape or form, I'm just frozen, no vibe, no hints, no reactions - NOTHING. This time around, he really must feel the energy cord is cut off because in those last 6 years I have not witnessed such a 'desperado' level he's at. And that's exactly why the hoovers are getting even more desperate each day. I wonder how long it will last? It's just hilarious to observe. I'm blessed I can laugh about it because once upon a time, his mind games were so painful. I remember the anxiety and stress, oh yeah, I remember my health declining. NEVER AGAIN. New healthy life is possible. Thank you for this video, very helpful 🕊
I'll let go of you.. I'm ending this battle now! From today forward I'm claiming my soul, true self and life! 🙌🏻
That's so true they don't care at all calling them out does no good that might be why i feel so drained all the time there so good at sucking the life out of me they find the littlest thing to nag me about and sometimes i feel 80 instead of 35. I've seen grandmas with more energy then i have its exhausting. Not responding to them or just killing them with kindness usually repels them but they always come back its hard not to respond to some of it.
Thank you so much Melanie,,I am going to start this immediately!!
AWESOME and PRECIOUS information!!!Thank you for helping us! 🤗💗
I let go of you, I'm ending this battle now, from today forward I'm claiming my soul true self and true life.
Melanie, this might be one of your most powerful videos. And it’s absolute Truth. I’ll come back to this one often. Thank you 🙏
So pleased it resonated with you Bette! xoxox
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@@bettenorcrosswappner3606 Hope you are not with a narc 😈!!
These narcissts could be lost souls or struggling souls themselves down here on Earth. Being used as tools of evil evolution. They are responsible for themselves. Their fight against righteousness is with God. We seek not ever our own revenge. But letting go of the ties that bind us to that which is not, nor ever was our destiny. We can forgive and let go. Severing the trauma bond to complete our tasks more efficiently and angelic like here during this life. We must remember this is our temporary home. This life journey is meant for duty and services to others. Not in sacrificing of our own selves nor our souls. Love everyone, yet some, most may be best from a cautious distance, or maybe even prayers from a far. Lose the toxicity of what we know in our hearts is not righteousness or God's way.
We can feel the difference as spiritual beings. We have the abilities as empaths.
All souls are on their own journey. Always keep that in mind. To hold ourselves accountable. Because only we through God can even have this blessed opportunity.
I defeated the most recent smear campaign in my life without saying a word. The narcissist went to 75% of my colleagues and made up lies about me. I kept silent, did not react and in just 2 days (yes you read that right-normally smear campaigns last for months or years) 90% of the flying monkeys were disarmed, bored and decided to abandon the narcissist.
*not out of their being. Sometimes its even longer than the relationship itself to get rid of.
I let go of uou
I am ending this battle now
From today forward
I am claimimg my soul
true self and life.
I'm going through the same thing right now and I'm not going to give up on myself 😢
Melanie thank you for the beautiful light you bring into the world NARP opened my life to me. I am a different person than I was 2 years ago. Last year I started IFS or Internal Family Systems also known as Parts Theory. And now I am soaring. I never knew I could feel this could accomplish things with joy and effortlessly. Bless you
I’m letting go of you , I’m
Ending the battle from today forward I’m claiming my soul , My true self and my life back.
"Get this straight"! I love that.
You just have to leave.