What a lot of people need is a friend I had in my early 20s. He knew I never talked to women. So he took me out. He said give me your keys because I’m driving so I could drink and what he did was see a group of girls and said go over to them and talk to them or I will beat your ass infront of everyone here. I was more scared of him then the girls so I went and talked to them I was cool for 10 seconds but fail horribly. I walked back and he said so did you die? Is life over? No it’s over and then he got me to talk to one girl. Which made it way easier to do right after trying to talk to a group. Best thing that ever happened to me
this is really what it comes down. most of the trouble men have is having the discipline to follow through for their own good. they will justify or avoid it if its only them that they have to answer to. but when its another person, it becomes way bigger than you because it literally is bigger than you
I had 7 failed dates with girls from dating apps so far. Meeting them for the first time in person was always quite interesting, since the personality of someone always differs in reality from your imagination when texting with them. So I always listenend carefully to everything they told me, to get a good image of their personality and being able to make fitting plans for the second date. The problem is that I never got that far, since one flaw or mistake from my side was enough to crash their first impression of me - in the conversation I could always immediately feel their mood going down after I said something they weren`t interested in or couldn`t get along with. Thats the problem in meeting or approachiing strangers, its in every case like a lottery when you have little background information about the person.
I just sat through and watched the whole 28 minutes..I’m gonna get up now, leave my apartment, head downtown and meet women. I’ve always had bad approach anxiety but I really, really want a girlfriend
Get angry about it but at the end of the day, she wouldn’t “have a boyfriend” if you presented yourself better, that aint on her bro it’s on you and you gotta wake up and grind more cuz life aint sweet and we aint your therapist bro get better
@@KevinKevin-qp1lg huh? Not everyone is a cheater and you shouldn't really make people cheat, unless he was really creepy and the boyfriend was made up, then it's on him
Denmo best youtuber for socializing hands down. Only nitpick thing i disagree with is meeting women in big cities or college towns. These places are very far left and liberal when it comes to men and have toxic beliefs toward men compared to rural America. There may be less people but there are higher quality women in rural areas.
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Dude great vid! When you were rapping this up towards the end talking about how men wouldn't want to work so hard if it was easy to lay any girl. Made me think of that great Dire Straights verse, "Money ain't for nothing if chicks were free."
Sometimes rejection feel like being punched after losing a fight already, you might be still standing, but every time you try to hit on them, you get another punch that makes you feel even worse.
It's not just rejections. Eventually you meet a girl that likes your approach. But you need to repeat the pattern LLLLLL until W. LLLLLL until W. And so on. Hundreds of times. That's how a voice in your head will be born that will say you are the man, even if you got rejected. That voice is called confidence.
I give up boys. A girl from my gym, gave every signal, and I mean no man could misinterpret what she was saying. I get her number, I ask her out, and she says no she’s not interested. I wasn’t even mad or embarrassed. I’m completely mind blown. She spent an hour flirting with me, I ask her out, and NO. The only possible thing I can think of, is she knows someone else with the same first name, who she isn’t interested in.
i have been with all kinds of girls. easterns, brown, white, spanish. good girls, baddies. even conservative religiously. but still i dont find inner peace with them sometimes. one thing i always keep in mind. no matter what kind of girl she is whether she is a billionaire, doctor or some poor village girl. you are always inviting some drama in your life with any girl. and i hate drama !! hhhh i hate it when they act immature and think its funny. there are three styles of flirting with the girls. and each one defines what do you basiclaly wants from a girl. if you are on level 1 you are aiming to build deep lasting connection with her without deep love. more like besties zone. the second one is where she will fall for you in deep love and chase you with lots of flirting and toxic behaviours, thirdly is where you are directly turning her one sexually through your vibes, words and confidence level. she will be interested in Fax more than connection or becoming you gf. not ideal if you just want some affection from her and deep connection. this is where you get one night stands or hardcore fax needs met.
Im in my final year of college and I barely dated while everyone else I know got into relationships and had hookups while partying etc. It's a terrible feeling of regret and I know those years are gone now and I can't get them back , how can i deal with this?
It's not necessary to do the same as the others bro, everyone has his own path, just find yourself and be happy, the women will come after and if they don't, you're already happy.
You have a choice. Either you let yourself be the person you were until now, or you decide to be the person you wish you were. I was in the same place as you, for similar but different reasons. And I still kind of am, but I decided to be someone else, and it doesn't happen in a day, but it does happen. Stay hopeful and be bold, and make a plan!
2:52 that right there isn't true. There are people who went IFBB pro or became pro powerlifters without any coaching. Only get a coach if you can't research info yourself or you aren't getting results
How about a girl you’ve worked with for over a year. Any chance to get her attraction if you don’t have it or don’t know you already have it without making things awkward? She seems to be kind to everyone so I don’t know if she actually likes me.
What if you’ve done like 40 approaches and get varying responses (some rlly friendly, most of them neutral, and a few standoffish), but still no dates, even w/ the ones who said yes?
Bro you just go up, say hi introduce yourself, ask questions about them, then from there you can decide if you want to ask for number or go on with your day
What if you’ve done like 40 approaches and get varying responses (some rlly friendly, some neutral, and a few standoffish), but still no dates, even w/ the ones who said yes?
No worries i tried 2 times and i know it's not worth my time. If some women will see me attractive we will have some connection. Life is simulation some guys can get girl every month and some will alone whole life just dont be lonely.
@@newhusk gonna be totally real w u bro, settling is not the solution. Work on yourself talk to family friends about how you feel about making money/yourself and confidence will naturally come. You know deep down what you need to do. I know deep down what I need to do
Most of my female friends say they absolutely hate it when guys approach them. Women (especially decent looking women) are approached all day every day.
@transcendent7lucidity I don't know. I haven't figured that one out yet. I've never cold approached. It just seems way too creepy. However, the warm approach method isn't so bad. And that's where you ask a girl out that you've already had a few interactions with. 80% fail rate with me. Ever once in a while, I'll find someone somewhat interested, but usually, it only lasts a month or two before they lose interest and some other guy comes along.
@@c-eb3634 Who were you responding to? Her point was that women tend to be approached often, and it is men who need to hope approaching a woman works. Hopefully, you can make yourself clear so that what you say makes sense.
@@transcendent7lucidity I was responding to you my bad for not tagging I must have misclicked. My point was that women approach men too. If you work on improving your life (self-reflection, better habits, work on social skills, study effectively), women will want to be a part of it. And the final part of my comment was a bit irrelevant to the discussion, I think, but I meant that by improving yourself, you will have a better life, women or not. And to conclude I think the key is to be present. If you don't want to be on dating apps, then you have to put yourself in situations where women will be and you will get the opportunity to talk to them without it being forced. Participate in events, get yourself out there. And it will work eventually. I hope this time I come across clearer, I'm sorry I think I read the comments wrong before posting my initial one.
I noticed how you kept saying “I went out with this girl and had a blast” comments like that. And now you’re no longer with them. You need to pursue dating for the right reasons. If you’re just trying to get ass you’re never going to have a meaningful relationship. Biblically sex is for marriage and that’s how God designed it. If you’re not dating to marry just don’t date at all. Marriage is a high calling something I’ve been stressed about for a while. Seeking self pleasure with women will only lead you to destruction.
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What a lot of people need is a friend I had in my early 20s. He knew I never talked to women. So he took me out. He said give me your keys because I’m driving so I could drink and what he did was see a group of girls and said go over to them and talk to them or I will beat your ass infront of everyone here. I was more scared of him then the girls so I went and talked to them I was cool for 10 seconds but fail horribly. I walked back and he said so did you die? Is life over? No it’s over and then he got me to talk to one girl. Which made it way easier to do right after trying to talk to a group. Best thing that ever happened to me
this is really what it comes down. most of the trouble men have is having the discipline to follow through for their own good. they will justify or avoid it if its only them that they have to answer to. but when its another person, it becomes way bigger than you because it literally is bigger than you
*Psychology teaches that confidence and comfort in your own skin are magnetic traits.*
i js approached one today. i was like fk it, idgaf what i say, imma be myself. aboom, it worked and got her number
Honestly if a girl like u, she will keep the conversation going...
I fell for that shit three days ago
I had 7 failed dates with girls from dating apps so far. Meeting them for the first time in person was always quite interesting, since the personality of someone always differs in reality from your imagination when texting with them. So I always listenend carefully to everything they told me, to get a good image of their personality and being able to make fitting plans for the second date. The problem is that I never got that far, since one flaw or mistake from my side was enough to crash their first impression of me - in the conversation I could always immediately feel their mood going down after I said something they weren`t interested in or couldn`t get along with. Thats the problem in meeting or approachiing strangers, its in every case like a lottery when you have little background information about the person.
I just sat through and watched the whole 28 minutes..I’m gonna get up now, leave my apartment, head downtown and meet women. I’ve always had bad approach anxiety but I really, really want a girlfriend
please report here how it goes
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King
I’m gonna do the same
How'd it go man
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i have had severe relationship building issues for years now so this this video’s application is a great step in the right direction.
This is progressive overload for social interactions
Phew, 6 minutes into the video and I'm shit scared already. Then I realized I'm 58 and married
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Has a boyfriend has a boyfriend has a boyfriend it’s the same damn result every time
5:07
Get angry about it but at the end of the day, she wouldn’t “have a boyfriend” if you presented yourself better, that aint on her bro it’s on you and you gotta wake up and grind more cuz life aint sweet and we aint your therapist bro get better
and if that drives you your whole life your lucky you have so little problems that it’s what u care about
@@KevinKevin-qp1lg huh? Not everyone is a cheater and you shouldn't really make people cheat, unless he was really creepy and the boyfriend was made up, then it's on him
@@KevinKevin-qp1lgbased
Denmo best youtuber for socializing hands down. Only nitpick thing i disagree with is meeting women in big cities or college towns. These places are very far left and liberal when it comes to men and have toxic beliefs toward men compared to rural America. There may be less people but there are higher quality women in rural areas.
Same in India too
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Dude great vid! When you were rapping this up towards the end talking about how men wouldn't want to work so hard if it was easy to lay any girl. Made me think of that great Dire Straights verse, "Money ain't for nothing if chicks were free."
I'd be damned to "work" for some bs.
I met a couple of girls last weekend. I'm from Australia. And I'm going to a party next weekend where there will be a lot of girls
Did they invite you??
@KamiChrisy yes
Can I cum?
Sometimes rejection feel like being punched after losing a fight already, you might be still standing, but every time you try to hit on them, you get another punch that makes you feel even worse.
Was thinking about talking to a girl I noticed in a tram while listening this
Repeated rejection destroys your self esteem though.
It's not just rejections. Eventually you meet a girl that likes your approach. But you need to repeat the pattern LLLLLL until W. LLLLLL until W. And so on. Hundreds of times. That's how a voice in your head will be born that will say you are the man, even if you got rejected. That voice is called confidence.
But when you get accepted, you feel like a king.
For sure and make a fool of yourself with cute Girls that have a boyfriend.😅
@@bgdnptr there’s only so much rejection you can take. I really hate the spam approach. Feel like a dancing monkey.
@@CamiloExo this makes me feel inferior if I am seeking acceptance
I give up boys. A girl from my gym, gave every signal, and I mean no man could misinterpret what she was saying. I get her number, I ask her out, and she says no she’s not interested. I wasn’t even mad or embarrassed. I’m completely mind blown. She spent an hour flirting with me, I ask her out, and NO.
The only possible thing I can think of, is she knows someone else with the same first name, who she isn’t interested in.
i have been with all kinds of girls. easterns, brown, white, spanish. good girls, baddies. even conservative religiously. but still i dont find inner peace with them sometimes. one thing i always keep in mind. no matter what kind of girl she is whether she is a billionaire, doctor or some poor village girl. you are always inviting some drama in your life with any girl. and i hate drama !! hhhh i hate it when they act immature and think its funny.
there are three styles of flirting with the girls. and each one defines what do you basiclaly wants from a girl. if you are on level 1 you are aiming to build deep lasting connection with her without deep love. more like besties zone. the second one is where she will fall for you in deep love and chase you with lots of flirting and toxic behaviours, thirdly is where you are directly turning her one sexually through your vibes, words and confidence level. she will be interested in Fax more than connection or becoming you gf. not ideal if you just want some affection from her and deep connection. this is where you get one night stands or hardcore fax needs met.
Bro we got science based dating before GTA VI
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We have had content like this for a long time.
Im in my final year of college and I barely dated while everyone else I know got into relationships and had hookups while partying etc.
It's a terrible feeling of regret and I know those years are gone now and I can't get them back , how can i deal with this?
It's not necessary to do the same as the others bro, everyone has his own path, just find yourself and be happy, the women will come after and if they don't, you're already happy.
Just start now :) don't regret, use the presence
You have a choice. Either you let yourself be the person you were until now, or you decide to be the person you wish you were. I was in the same place as you, for similar but different reasons. And I still kind of am, but I decided to be someone else, and it doesn't happen in a day, but it does happen. Stay hopeful and be bold, and make a plan!
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@@Denmosocialappreciate mate! What would be the email? I have two different ones from you not sure which one to pick
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denmo lowkey un hinged in this lesson LOL
Why you gotta call me out like that Denmo
2:52 that right there isn't true. There are people who went IFBB pro or became pro powerlifters without any coaching. Only get a coach if you can't research info yourself or you aren't getting results
How about a girl you’ve worked with for over a year. Any chance to get her attraction if you don’t have it or don’t know you already have it without making things awkward? She seems to be kind to everyone so I don’t know if she actually likes me.
What if you’ve done like 40 approaches and get varying responses (some rlly friendly, most of them neutral, and a few standoffish), but still no dates, even w/ the ones who said yes?
2:14 so real so fast god damn
How can a boy make a girl understand that he wanna approach her just to get to know her, without seeming like he's flirting with her?
Bro you just go up, say hi introduce yourself, ask questions about them, then from there you can decide if you want to ask for number or go on with your day
And does it work for gay men? It's also interesting to hear things from these kind of tooics true the perspective of a straight guy 😊
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What if you’ve done like 40 approaches and get varying responses (some rlly friendly, some neutral, and a few standoffish), but still no dates, even w/ the ones who said yes?
You keep doing it. 40 is not a big number. Do 200 and you will get some dates for sure
@@bgdnptr200 is beyond thirsty.
Here before 10k views
I dont know anymore bro, just this year I tried it 30 times
30 is nothing cmon. We are talking high hundreds here if you want to see results - confidence and pulling girls.
No worries i tried 2 times and i know it's not worth my time. If some women will see me attractive we will have some connection. Life is simulation some guys can get girl every month and some will alone whole life just dont be lonely.
Its really no point.
@@selfish2.0 Black pill guy? 😄
@@newhusk gonna be totally real w u bro, settling is not the solution. Work on yourself talk to family friends about how you feel about making money/yourself and confidence will naturally come. You know deep down what you need to do. I know deep down what I need to do
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if one is just being nice with them while talking, hlw does one do the flirting?
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Most of my female friends say they absolutely hate it when guys approach them. Women (especially decent looking women) are approached all day every day.
So how are we men supposed to find love then? 😄 Where are the women who are fine with being approached?
@transcendent7lucidity I don't know. I haven't figured that one out yet. I've never cold approached. It just seems way too creepy. However, the warm approach method isn't so bad. And that's where you ask a girl out that you've already had a few interactions with. 80% fail rate with me. Ever once in a while, I'll find someone somewhat interested, but usually, it only lasts a month or two before they lose interest and some other guy comes along.
Be the best you can, you'll get approached more often. It's your best shot, it's irrelevent if it works or not. You'll come out better for yourself.
@@c-eb3634 Who were you responding to? Her point was that women tend to be approached often, and it is men who need to hope approaching a woman works. Hopefully, you can make yourself clear so that what you say makes sense.
@@transcendent7lucidity I was responding to you my bad for not tagging I must have misclicked. My point was that women approach men too. If you work on improving your life (self-reflection, better habits, work on social skills, study effectively), women will want to be a part of it. And the final part of my comment was a bit irrelevant to the discussion, I think, but I meant that by improving yourself, you will have a better life, women or not. And to conclude I think the key is to be present. If you don't want to be on dating apps, then you have to put yourself in situations where women will be and you will get the opportunity to talk to them without it being forced. Participate in events, get yourself out there. And it will work eventually. I hope this time I come across clearer, I'm sorry I think I read the comments wrong before posting my initial one.
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I noticed how you kept saying “I went out with this girl and had a blast” comments like that. And now you’re no longer with them. You need to pursue dating for the right reasons. If you’re just trying to get ass you’re never going to have a meaningful relationship. Biblically sex is for marriage and that’s how God designed it. If you’re not dating to marry just don’t date at all. Marriage is a high calling something I’ve been stressed about for a while. Seeking self pleasure with women will only lead you to destruction.
Men don't pursue.
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