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We live to fulfill our needs. When in order to fulfill those needs we need others, then we need others. But the bottom line is to fulfill our own needs.
Women need support safety and reassurance. Women have been fighting against not receiving these things, but still being expected to essentially be a servant. Women are also endlessly giving if you can offer reassurance through safety and support. A man expecting their partner to be their servant though makes a woman not feel appreciated or loved and that's draining. This is where women begin to look elsewhere
Men and women compliment each other... In today's society, inversion is preferred... People go with the mate they are in style wirh... Hollywood used to drive the fashion and fad machines...
I never understood what it means for "two to become one" until my husband. Really until a few years of being married to him. We have shaped each other into different people, we've grown together and changed in ways that can't be reversed or divorced. He is a part of me in a very real way, and our children are the manifestation of our love.
Last year I finally found my divine masculine partner. Since then have I grown so much as an individual and so has he. This relationship has allowed both of us to flourish and grow as individuals and as a couple. I finally understand what a divine partnership is supposed to look like and it’s better than I ever could have imagined.
But how good are you? We tend to attract that which we are or that which compliments us. Who you’re being attracts those types of men and you don’t stop attracting those types of men until you make some shifts within yourself.
@@Mr.Honest247I'm sorry to tell you this but just no. Yes, we can still choose. But sometimes even the loyal and good ones have an unexpecting shift in their life or mindset or whatever which has to do more with how they grew up and how their brain works. You can be the best version of yourself and still meet someone flawed. Because nothing is black and white and we all have good and bad but in depends on what shines through under which cirumstances and people just can't schedule some situations ahead.
The standards you set for yourself are what will appear in your life. If you are allowing these types into your life clearly the priority you are making is something about them that you like. Unfortunately a lot of the time people overlook the cons because they have found the one thing that matters most to them. Change the motivation for being with someone and you will change the outcome. If you keep meeting these people at the same point in their life you are literally meeting the same person. It means you are a pit stop in their journey of maturity. If you don’t want to be a pit stop it’s time for you to change who you are and what you want.
It's not that we don't want you to say it. It's that for some of us, it's not true. When I was younger and truly believed that, I stayed miserable. When I was single, I was always on a quest to find a man. When I had one, I was preoccupied with keeping him happy, lived in fear of losing him, and put up with more than I should have so he would stay. Once I realized that men were optional, I stopped tolerating mistreatment and learned how to be alone without feeling lonely. I learned who I was and what I did and didn't want in a partner. I stopped compromising. I'm open to a relationship, but I'm single and at peace. The next time I date, it will be on my terms and not out of desperation or fear of being alone.
I do date, and I am constantly and recurrently hated for "my terms". I am also hated for being a nearly sixty year old bachelor, a self made man still motorbiking, off shore sailing and racing his collection of vintage sportscars, restored and maintained by himself as a hobby. I am also hated for not dating "within my age group", at all. I am, interestingly, mostly and most fiercely hated for "my terms" by -women- menopausal clowns in my age group - never by the thirtysomethings I actually do date. Under "my terms", of course. Part of those "terms" of mine is being kept happy - stop that and another one will do what I like, in bed and out of it. We aren't here to make each other's lives miserable, are we? I did not work my *ss off for so many years to timidly meet somebody's "terms" who doesn't even want to try keeping me happy. Plus: it's way easier to keep being "single" or the "dedicated bachelor" than taking on all that really bad sh*t they all feel themselves entitled to these days.
@@manfredschmalbach9023 lol whoa calm down killer. For someone who has it all figured out i would think you wouldn't need to.drive.that.narrative.straight.into.the.ground.so passive.aggressively.and.loudlyAre we here to make each other miserable? Hellll noooo. Happiness is a choice. How you feel is your choice. This is so cliche to say, but good ole manfred here seems a little cliche--No one can make you feel any way--i.e., miserable. --it's impossible. And your "Quotes" are piercing manfred! Sheesh. Good thing you got a divorce instead of us hearing about another Chris Watts episode..Have fun with those 30 somethings who have no "terms" for you to abide by because if I had to guess they prob don't plan on carrying anything out to any kind of long "term" situation. They are still wanting to make them babies. Better watch out. They might possibly be using you for your self-made money honey. What else would it be because they can get allllll that from men their own age they just getting on that bike to try it out and enjoy the ride. You are only fooling yourself. You should work through all that anger. THEN you will be able to truly pull of that kool-aid you're trying to sell everyone.
I have been a 100% independent woman and i can honestly say i have always known men are important and necessary. Ofcourse im talking about healed or atleast trying to heal men.
She is right. It's a comfort, a comfort blanket. That's what it should be but it takes a really long time for women to understand what we are barking vs what we are actually overlooking because of our own issues most of us are blind to. I can support myself, I can take myself to dinner, but I can not wrap my arms around me during a thunderstorms and feel safe and relax. Its security. Its the idea. Society is what ruined both men and women. I had to lose it all before I saw my loss. This woman is all the way around amazing!
The man (or the woman) is usually used as a strategy for meeting underlying needs. It can work, but calling a strategy a need is in my opinion inviting confusion and disappointment. The nature of suffering goes deeper than external circumstances.
That's as if you'd consider ingesting food a strategy to satisfy an underlying need (to get energy). Some people live on breath and sunshine. So why would anyone still waste plant babies for their base motives?
Clearly I need a woman too, and I'm tired of being told otherwise and to just blindly focus on some material crap/job/etc, for a murky undefined "purpose" that isnt really there without a woman. Its just sustenance and cope.
She's right. When a MAN meets a WOMAN. When testosterone meets estrogen. When masculinity meets femininity and all of that "clicks", there is nothing better.
Why would you be powerless if you need a man? Who says? the smartest most successful women have men on their finger tips...Come on ladies. we need each other!
She said, "no woman wants to hear they need a man because it makes them feel powerless", so your first question makes no sense. Secondly, she isn't talking about being rich and "successful", she's talking about tapping into the full potential of your divine femininity. No need to jump to the defense, you can go and be successful without a man, sheesh.
When I was dating in the late 90s, it was shameful for a woman to say she needed a man and I hope things have changed since then. I’m glad I didn’t give an F and I recognized fully that I needed and wanted a good man.
I have never met anyone like me or like someone else. We are all very different and we shouldn't be afraid to show your true self. Loving self is the hardest.
She is a great communicator. We are in an age where the obvious needs to be explained in detail. I see packs of young woman probably nice in Charlotte NC with few men insight. I have no interesting in convincing them what they need however.
I have been saying this for a very long time. Men and woman have been created by equal amount of power and flaws which fulfill each other perfectly. If in sync, it becomes unbreakable force.
It’s hard to be a single mum who survived DV, to find another man to trust. I agree that I need a partner, to be the best mum that I can be, and to be the best woman that I can become…
Yes we do! Because we already know it’s true. It’s just so terrible to end up with a man who is totally just depleting you and providing nothing at all
What do you think about people such as lesbians, who are not attracted to the opposite sex? If women need men so badly, how do lesbians cope? Or is it something you can find through friendships, rather than romantic connections?
I have the same questions. I'm a lesbian and as much as I've tried to force myself to like men like that, it is absolutely not there for me. I love men as people but I am 100% a lesbian. I knew I liked girls when I was very young but never saw it around me so I hid it until i was an adult but during that time and times after, I have tried and prayed to like men like the way I do women. It just so happens this is how I'm designed and how my human is meant to express during this time and this incarnation. However, I do struggle, especially recently with this concept of the masculine and feminine container and if it's possible to find a partner as a lesbian who I can experience this with even if it looks a bit different. I dont think there is just one way to be and one way to experience relationships, love and containment. I have a beautiful balance of my own masc and feminine energy. So is my ideal partner to have a harmonious balance in their person as well and we can flourish that way? I am curious. Or maybe I am to walk the world alone, eventhough as I say that, my insides cannot fathom that to be true, with the love I have to share and the dreams of a beautiful life shared with someone for me and vice versa. It just almost seems impossible. I'm 34 and I long for real partnership but to meet another lesbian that shares the same values I do, whose stable, grounded, motivated, truth seeking, and all the things that align with me, is hard to find, truthfully. I just want to know if its possible especially as I evolve spiritually
My belief is that we all have masculine and female energies, so this concept Teal speaks of seems to me as a logical fallacy. I don’t doubt she knows a lot, but I think she limits her line of thinking when it comes to sexuality and gender identity. Maybe this is because she herself is a straight cisgender person, but I don’t know if that is even true. Just take everything you hear with a grain of salt. I always try to challenge these things, even if it is a person who seems to hold great wisdom and respect. Hope this helps! I’m sure you’ll find your person, @nofearonlylove21 🩷🧡🤍
She's answered this before. She's always speaking on the rule not the exception. Meaning heterosexual ppl are the large majority. It'd be exhausting to have to preface every video with the whole "NOT ALL! NOT ALL! NOT ALL!..." shpiel. This goes for all subjects. Not all gay men like penises, not all women like cunnilingus, not all heterosexual women like tall men, not all trans ppl are liberals, not all men like penetration, not all not all.....
@@nofearonlylove21I think it's not related to your gender but to your energy and your role. I am pretty sure that even in homosexual couples one of the partner takes on a more dominant role than the other
Yeah- most humans are not fully developed and may never be in terms of morals. Yet most of those who are not there want those who are there just like the few that are there. Not to say that those who are not there are worst people, they are lost just like people who are there were before they were there xD
It doesn’t make me feel powerless because it’s true. We all need our equal parts of ourselves. Even though we are individuals we need each other to make everything balanced
It’s ok to be feminine.. thanks for having the courage to remind and acknowledge the differences.. we can never be equals if we’re not comfortable with our differences
I’m a very independent woman who loves to be in the company of a powerful man who makes me feel protected and feminine . It’s feels so good to let my softer side flourish!
If women really do need a man they also to have the ability to not when she chose the wrong one .for this reason women need the ability to be independent and support themselves
@@phoniricyes but sometimes a woman meets a man who says he will take care of her . Gets her to move in . Is nice in the begining and then turns into a lying abusive asshole ....for this reason it's good for women to maintain the ability to have saving and the ability to take care of herself ...don't rely on a man to take care of her until he has really proven himself ...this is advice I would give to a daughter or any woman I cared about 😊
@@cliffdixon2042 I wouldn't trust someone this fast and I wouldn't give up all my power to someone because I'm not a helpless child to be taken care of. You should always have a backup plan
It should not be so mystifying that a woman comfortable in her power & surrendering and feeling protected by a man , is capable of anything. Even creating another human. How impressive.
The difference is no man feels powerless by saying he needs a woman. Modern feminist think having to rely on a man is powerless while being alone/independent is empowered which is just retarded. Human is the most powerful when many work together toward a singular goal.
Containment is just a new age way of saying protection. Men have offered protection since the dawn of time, but they expect blind obedience in return. Also, that you quit your job to be their domestic/sexual slave. That's why feminism started in the first place, because a lot of women were fed up with this arrangement
@@doesitmatterwhoiam8838 We're contently happy in the unmolested role of that proverbial bicycle the fish do not need .... You can't contain ideological imbecility, can You?
I can go off my experience… once I got married the first couple years were really good.. I was able to flourish in so many ways that I didn’t really expect… but looking back on it… it’s because I was fulfilled in a certain way that allowed me to focus my energy with purpose
@@everydaytwiceonsundays4498there are plenty of good men. Women are designed to select which genes pass to the next generation so they are highly selective. Mens struggle is that they are hardwired to want many women but unless they have status they must take what they can get. Women must choose the best man from a wider variety of options-most of which she doesn’t know exist.
Like attracts like, birds of a feather stick together, each is a mirror of the others unconscious, without the initial attraction you would not want to get together, but when the bubble bursts and the honeymoon is over, can we use that initial raw love of attraction into commitment to help each other grow out of the unconscious into consciousness through transformation through transmutation of the raw love into mature love that grows over time precisely because the experiences shared in helping each other to grow with mutual support, do you abandon your child because they mess up occasionally or do/will you help them to grow.....is there a perfect man/womanfor us? Yes, the one we are with is perfect because they mirror what we need to learn. If you are attracting abusers and Takers, then look inside your self what needs to arise from your unconscious that you are not aware of, yet need to be aware of, for you to resolve the issues inside yourself, there is only so much we can do for our own inner transformation, and when and if we are ready, in intimacy of relationship everything in the unconscious will arise to be resolved, this is the purpose of feminine masculine its called union through commitment to growth.
@@johnbishop9000There are literal "dating coaches" for men whose whole shtick is to teach men how to hide their abusive ways until they've got a woman trapped. No one is attracted to an abuser, women are attracted to the men that abusers pretend to be, until they switch up.
@@johnbishop9000Abusers hide who they are until they've got their target trapped; no one is attracted to an abuser, they're attracted to the people abusers pretend to be at first.
@@DarkWandererAUthere’s a difference between reproduction and thriving in a relationship. Obviously we feel the biological impulse to reproduce and continue the species, that’s not what she was talking about. Anyone can have children together. Will they stay together though?
@@PixiellyI know that's not what she was talking about. Men & Women need each other for more than just reproduction. We are the keys that unlock a fuller life for each other if you choose the right partner
People do need each other. They do need to be gentle with each other.
Not only to big women
Note : you are not my boss , you are my husband. 😉
Oops , now you are my ex husband .😮
@@jenniferbloh-michael8662
Opps - thinking like THAT forever locks you up in "side chick" jail...AFTER your ex...😳😏🤫
We live to fulfill our needs. When in order to fulfill those needs we need others, then we need others. But the bottom line is to fulfill our own needs.
Yeah that's totally not what she's saying.
Men and women equally need each other. We've just been fed so much bullsh*t that's clouded our image of both.
Women need support safety and reassurance. Women have been fighting against not receiving these things, but still being expected to essentially be a servant. Women are also endlessly giving if you can offer reassurance through safety and support. A man expecting their partner to be their servant though makes a woman not feel appreciated or loved and that's draining. This is where women begin to look elsewhere
@@Sarah-with-an-HYou don’t think men serve women with provision and safety? We are meant to serve each other.
We need each other, we are deliberately being pitted against one another,
"Alignment in polarity." I like it.
That the central of the yin n yang
Men and women compliment each other...
In today's society, inversion is preferred...
People go with the mate they are in style wirh...
Hollywood used to drive the fashion and fad machines...
Simple people need to realize they're interconnectedness
You need to study Zen my friend
@@joey.g That's what I said They're meaning they are instead of their. Namaste Joey I am a Buddhist. 🙏😂
Humans need each other❤
But can you go out on a limb and say women need men? 😉
@@josephcook9985 if she said the opposite, like men need women too, it would make sense. but she never does, and we know why.
I do need my man. 😊😊😊 and I am forever grateful that we crossed paths. I don’t even want to imagine my life without my husband ❤
" ..my man ..." interesting, but I Never hear the phrase "...my woman...."
Come on down South, then.
Many men here call their wives/s.o./whatever, 'My Woman'. Lol@@larrybrinley8222
@@larrybrinley8222 we should hear it more often.
I dunno. I think we used to hear it all the time.
Samee❤❤❤❤
And I feel the same about my wife.
Men and women needs each other, we compliment each other.
I mean cream and strawberries need it other compliment each other. But sour cream ruins strawberries and rotten strawberries ruin cream.
Well, ideally. I still haven’t found what im looking for
What is the *NEED* @belaytrix ? I always hear about need, but, what IS the need ?
Men need women to reproduce. Women need men to survive AND reproduce. Tomorrow, men could shut women's power off. We don't "need" each other equally.
*complement ;)
"compliment" would mean we tell each other we're great :D (not bad either, but that's another word!)
I never understood what it means for "two to become one" until my husband. Really until a few years of being married to him. We have shaped each other into different people, we've grown together and changed in ways that can't be reversed or divorced. He is a part of me in a very real way, and our children are the manifestation of our love.
Last year I finally found my divine masculine partner. Since then have I grown so much as an individual and so has he. This relationship has allowed both of us to flourish and grow as individuals and as a couple. I finally understand what a divine partnership is supposed to look like and it’s better than I ever could have imagined.
😀💞💝
You are correct Teal. You helped me to be aware that a man needs his place in a union with the most respect. My man is generous and kind.❤️
I mean I love teal swan but I don't agree with this😢 wtf does this even mean
@@srishtyparas It means men have value.
@@kika-ge5qr but what's feminine energy and why does it need a container
should I read yin yang something
@@srishtyparas Balance is achievable. Love and respect nourishes both.🌷
All anyone needs is a person who always wants to be better
In my case , I say it openly without shame or any reservations, i need my soulmate ❤
I think we need each other.😊 We were designed to pair up😊.
People need a significant other that fits their natural inclinations
“In alignment with their polarity “
It’s a beautiful thing yes love it is ❤
buzzwords with no meaning
A GOOD man. Not just ANY man. A GOOD one. I've had enough of the undependable, self-centered, self- serving, sabotaging type of men.
But how good are you? We tend to attract that which we are or that which compliments us. Who you’re being attracts those types of men and you don’t stop attracting those types of men until you make some shifts within yourself.
@@Mr.Honest247I'm sorry to tell you this but just no. Yes, we can still choose. But sometimes even the loyal and good ones have an unexpecting shift in their life or mindset or whatever which has to do more with how they grew up and how their brain works. You can be the best version of yourself and still meet someone flawed. Because nothing is black and white and we all have good and bad but in depends on what shines through under which cirumstances and people just can't schedule some situations ahead.
The standards you set for yourself are what will appear in your life. If you are allowing these types into your life clearly the priority you are making is something about them that you like. Unfortunately a lot of the time people overlook the cons because they have found the one thing that matters most to them. Change the motivation for being with someone and you will change the outcome. If you keep meeting these people at the same point in their life you are literally meeting the same person. It means you are a pit stop in their journey of maturity. If you don’t want to be a pit stop it’s time for you to change who you are and what you want.
Maybe state your needs on the first date, and find out his needs, and open negotiations with that.
there's no such thing as a Man. They are boys.
You don't frustrate me. I appreciate you work bc it's honest. I think anyone WILLING and ABLE to grow, will see this.
We need each other!!!
You’re an incredible woman !! Yes, there’s nothing more beautiful than a man and woman working together in harmony -
It's not that we don't want you to say it. It's that for some of us, it's not true. When I was younger and truly believed that, I stayed miserable. When I was single, I was always on a quest to find a man. When I had one, I was preoccupied with keeping him happy, lived in fear of losing him, and put up with more than I should have so he would stay. Once I realized that men were optional, I stopped tolerating mistreatment and learned how to be alone without feeling lonely. I learned who I was and what I did and didn't want in a partner. I stopped compromising. I'm open to a relationship, but I'm single and at peace. The next time I date, it will be on my terms and not out of desperation or fear of being alone.
Beautiful words
I do date, and I am constantly and recurrently hated for "my terms". I am also hated for being a nearly sixty year old bachelor, a self made man still motorbiking, off shore sailing and racing his collection of vintage sportscars, restored and maintained by himself as a hobby. I am also hated for not dating "within my age group", at all.
I am, interestingly, mostly and most fiercely hated for "my terms" by -women- menopausal clowns in my age group - never by the thirtysomethings I actually do date. Under "my terms", of course. Part of those "terms" of mine is being kept happy - stop that and another one will do what I like, in bed and out of it. We aren't here to make each other's lives miserable, are we?
I did not work my *ss off for so many years to timidly meet somebody's "terms" who doesn't even want to try keeping me happy. Plus: it's way easier to keep being "single" or the "dedicated bachelor" than taking on all that really bad sh*t they all feel themselves entitled to these days.
@@manfredschmalbach9023wow, you seem so fun... Well, I guess those thirty-somethings have pretty strong daddy issues
@@manfredschmalbach9023 lol whoa calm down killer. For someone who has it all figured out i would think you wouldn't need to.drive.that.narrative.straight.into.the.ground.so passive.aggressively.and.loudlyAre we here to make each other miserable? Hellll noooo. Happiness is a choice. How you feel is your choice. This is so cliche to say, but good ole manfred here seems a little cliche--No one can make you feel any way--i.e., miserable. --it's impossible. And your "Quotes" are piercing manfred! Sheesh. Good thing you got a divorce instead of us hearing about another Chris Watts episode..Have fun with those 30 somethings who have no "terms" for you to abide by because if I had to guess they prob don't plan on carrying anything out to any kind of long "term" situation. They are still wanting to make them babies. Better watch out. They might possibly be using you for your self-made money honey. What else would it be because they can get allllll that from men their own age they just getting on that bike to try it out and enjoy the ride. You are only fooling yourself. You should work through all that anger. THEN you will be able to truly pull of that kool-aid you're trying to sell everyone.
@@phoniric Lol!! so fun!
I agree with you.. lts all gone too far and life could be so beautiful x
And man really feel man when he see feminine flourish thanks to his respectful behavior
I have been a 100% independent woman and i can honestly say i have always known men are important and necessary. Ofcourse im talking about healed or atleast trying to heal men.
It's about Connection from both sides, however a healthy one... I would love to be in my feminine more and know he's a man of ACTION
I completely agree with you, Teal!
You drive me to sanity, not at all to crazy, more sanity like this is what the world needs ❤
She is right. It's a comfort, a comfort blanket. That's what it should be but it takes a really long time for women to understand what we are barking vs what we are actually overlooking because of our own issues most of us are blind to. I can support myself, I can take myself to dinner, but I can not wrap my arms around me during a thunderstorms and feel safe and relax. Its security. Its the idea. Society is what ruined both men and women. I had to lose it all before I saw my loss. This woman is all the way around amazing!
People need people!
Men and women need each other.
What if cloning ourselves becomes legal? Then a homosexual relationship is the better option.
@@S.G.W.Verbeekhow
@kenbulut-oe8sb what exactly IS the need ?
Stupid question.
@kenbulut-oe8sb
Of course, it is stupid. Do you want me to make a UA-cam short about it?
The man (or the woman) is usually used as a strategy for meeting underlying needs. It can work, but calling a strategy a need is in my opinion inviting confusion and disappointment. The nature of suffering goes deeper than external circumstances.
That's as if you'd consider ingesting food a strategy to satisfy an underlying need (to get energy). Some people live on breath and sunshine. So why would anyone still waste plant babies for their base motives?
I love that men and women need each other equally. ♥️ it’s beautiful.
Clearly I need a woman too, and I'm tired of being told otherwise and to just blindly focus on some material crap/job/etc, for a murky undefined "purpose" that isnt really there without a woman. Its just sustenance and cope.
Years ago, maybe, but after all that shadow work. You are one of the most correct teachers . Yes we actually do.
She's right. When a MAN meets a WOMAN. When testosterone meets estrogen. When masculinity meets femininity and all of that "clicks", there is nothing better.
Why would you be powerless if you need a man? Who says? the smartest most successful women have men on their finger tips...Come on ladies. we need each other!
Yeah, they have simps at their fingertips and end up being miserable for it in the end.
She said, "no woman wants to hear they need a man because it makes them feel powerless", so your first question makes no sense. Secondly, she isn't talking about being rich and "successful", she's talking about tapping into the full potential of your divine femininity. No need to jump to the defense, you can go and be successful without a man, sheesh.
She is so on point!
When I was dating in the late 90s, it was shameful for a woman to say she needed a man and I hope things have changed since then. I’m glad I didn’t give an F and I recognized fully that I needed and wanted a good man.
They got worse.
Nobody needs a jerk.
It doesn't make me feel powerless. I felt at ease when I feel that way. Like I can relax and let go
Women desire a man with boundaries. The man with the plan
I have never met anyone like me or like someone else. We are all very different and we shouldn't be afraid to show your true self. Loving self is the hardest.
if you both need each other its amazing ❤ i got so lucky my hubby n i were so broken we heald eachother
She is a great communicator. We are in an age where the obvious needs to be explained in detail. I see packs of young woman probably nice in Charlotte NC with few men insight. I have no interesting in convincing them what they need however.
Nor are you qualified. You are lost.
This is in perfect alignment with my philosophy. I need a woman like you.
A man will be all the man a woman wants, if she wanted.
I have been saying this for a very long time. Men and woman have been created by equal amount of power and flaws which fulfill each other perfectly. If in sync, it becomes unbreakable force.
I love having my strong fella to stand beside me , he allows me to feel femanine ❤
Well said!
You’re right, we need each other. But you’re also right, you drive me crazy.
This is absolutely true!
Once again she’s correct.
You are correct !
The concept of containment that Teal has shared has changed my entire perspective of dating and relationships.
Theirs Nothing more perfect when a Man and a Woman are in perfect Harmony perfect 👫
Like two bound ropes.Its stringer when its gd but too restrictive when its 'knot'.
It’s hard to be a single mum who survived DV, to find another man to trust. I agree that I need a partner, to be the best mum that I can be, and to be the best woman that I can become…
Teal has never made me upset or crazy. I have disagreed with her on a few topics, very few actually, and I have followed her for almost 10 years now.
Yes we do! Because we already know it’s true. It’s just so terrible to end up with a man who is totally just depleting you and providing nothing at all
Perfect timing for this message to be in the faces of the people to make sure that they don't have to repeat the same lessons again. ❤❤❤❤😊
Yes!!!!!!
It’s like the (yin/yang) concept… male/female: light/dark and the cycle of energy as the two work in a unity of one.
Dang who is this lady,? she is so freaking smart. She hits the inspiration strings.
Teal Swan, check out more of her stuff! 🌟
What do you think about people such as lesbians, who are not attracted to the opposite sex? If women need men so badly, how do lesbians cope? Or is it something you can find through friendships, rather than romantic connections?
I have the same questions. I'm a lesbian and as much as I've tried to force myself to like men like that, it is absolutely not there for me. I love men as people but I am 100% a lesbian. I knew I liked girls when I was very young but never saw it around me so I hid it until i was an adult but during that time and times after, I have tried and prayed to like men like the way I do women. It just so happens this is how I'm designed and how my human is meant to express during this time and this incarnation.
However, I do struggle, especially recently with this concept of the masculine and feminine container and if it's possible to find a partner as a lesbian who I can experience this with even if it looks a bit different. I dont think there is just one way to be and one way to experience relationships, love and containment. I have a beautiful balance of my own masc and feminine energy. So is my ideal partner to have a harmonious balance in their person as well and we can flourish that way? I am curious. Or maybe I am to walk the world alone, eventhough as I say that, my insides cannot fathom that to be true, with the love I have to share and the dreams of a beautiful life shared with someone for me and vice versa. It just almost seems impossible. I'm 34 and I long for real partnership but to meet another lesbian that shares the same values I do, whose stable, grounded, motivated, truth seeking, and all the things that align with me, is hard to find, truthfully. I just want to know if its possible especially as I evolve spiritually
My belief is that we all have masculine and female energies, so this concept Teal speaks of seems to me as a logical fallacy. I don’t doubt she knows a lot, but I think she limits her line of thinking when it comes to sexuality and gender identity. Maybe this is because she herself is a straight cisgender person, but I don’t know if that is even true. Just take everything you hear with a grain of salt. I always try to challenge these things, even if it is a person who seems to hold great wisdom and respect. Hope this helps! I’m sure you’ll find your person, @nofearonlylove21 🩷🧡🤍
She's answered this before. She's always speaking on the rule not the exception. Meaning heterosexual ppl are the large majority. It'd be exhausting to have to preface every video with the whole "NOT ALL! NOT ALL! NOT ALL!..." shpiel. This goes for all subjects. Not all gay men like penises, not all women like cunnilingus, not all heterosexual women like tall men, not all trans ppl are liberals, not all men like penetration, not all not all.....
@@nofearonlylove21I think it's not related to your gender but to your energy and your role. I am pretty sure that even in homosexual couples one of the partner takes on a more dominant role than the other
@@phoniricewww. That’s just..so gross. Why does someone need to be dominant?
You are so very right. And its not weak nor is it always gentle. But thats what the feminine needs
So creating that container!!!
You were right about one thing teal. You really drive me crazy. 😎❤️❤️
sounds so simple yet in reality it's quite complex. there are many women who can't find good men and many men who can't find good women.
Yeah- most humans are not fully developed and may never be in terms of morals. Yet most of those who are not there want those who are there just like the few that are there.
Not to say that those who are not there are worst people, they are lost just like people who are there were before they were there xD
All human life was created by men and women uniting.
You don’t drive me crazy I know now this is what I need
Humans need each other, yes
I've always said I need a man. My counsellors never liked it.
Love this..alot of traditions are lost because its 2024.disposible&modified...grass is greener etc kind of world
She drives me crazy in the best of ways❤❤
This woman can ask me anything and I'll do it.
You aren't driving me crazy, it's voice in Your Head is driving you
Crazy because that's you not me...
It doesn’t make me feel powerless because it’s true. We all need our equal parts of ourselves. Even though we are individuals we need each other to make everything balanced
Yes girl! Your truth is real! Would love to personally know you. ❤
It’s ok to be feminine.. thanks for having the courage to remind and acknowledge the differences.. we can never be equals if we’re not comfortable with our differences
It’s a beautiful thing 💞
I’m a very independent woman who loves to be in the company of a powerful man who makes me feel protected and feminine . It’s feels so good to let my softer side flourish!
You are right. Divorced twice...
If women really do need a man they also to have the ability to not when she chose the wrong one .for this reason women need the ability to be independent and support themselves
Be independent! Support Yourself! What's the bloody big deal again?
It's 2024. What woman doesn't support herself? All of my friends are working
@@phoniricyes but sometimes a woman meets a man who says he will take care of her . Gets her to move in . Is nice in the begining and then turns into a lying abusive asshole ....for this reason it's good for women to maintain the ability to have saving and the ability to take care of herself ...don't rely on a man to take care of her until he has really proven himself ...this is advice I would give to a daughter or any woman I cared about 😊
@@cliffdixon2042 I wouldn't trust someone this fast and I wouldn't give up all my power to someone because I'm not a helpless child to be taken care of. You should always have a backup plan
@@phoniricyes exactly and some women do ..back up plan is always good 😊
This doesn't drive me crazy :) You are spot-on every time, Teal.
I love the honesty I'm allowed to feel when you say that I need a man. THANK YOOOOOUUUUU 🙌
Thank you
Crazy and correct😮
Who benefits when we are distracted fighting against each other.
The slave masters that's who. The.last thing they want is for the people to unite..lest we fix our gaze upon taking back what they steal from us.
It should not be so mystifying that a woman comfortable in her power & surrendering and feeling protected by a man , is capable of anything. Even creating another human. How impressive.
As a married man, my advice to free man is avoid women at all costs. They will do anything they can to ruin your life. Stay single.
I've never heard someone describe a functional relationship as a combustion engine before but I like it and it's mine now.
Thirty days have September, April June and November; All the rest have 31 except for February which has 28 except for 29 in a leap year. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊🎉
Women need men just like men need women. Such a simple FACT boggles my mind that people dispute this.
I Believe you are incorrect. Beta males need a female, to be mommy. Please explain how a genuine man Needs a woman?
The difference is no man feels powerless by saying he needs a woman.
Modern feminist think having to rely on a man is powerless while being alone/independent is empowered which is just retarded. Human is the most powerful when many work together toward a singular goal.
Probably because men no longer offer containment.
Containment is just a new age way of saying protection. Men have offered protection since the dawn of time, but they expect blind obedience in return. Also, that you quit your job to be their domestic/sexual slave. That's why feminism started in the first place, because a lot of women were fed up with this arrangement
@@doesitmatterwhoiam8838 We're contently happy in the unmolested role of that proverbial bicycle the fish do not need .... You can't contain ideological imbecility, can You?
I can go off my experience… once I got married the first couple years were really good.. I was able to flourish in so many ways that I didn’t really expect… but looking back on it… it’s because I was fulfilled in a certain way that allowed me to focus my energy with purpose
I'd like to have a man, just the healthy one, which is hard to find
I know, right? Just wanting a man who's not abusive and lets you have some time for yourself is considered an unattainable standard
@@everydaytwiceonsundays4498there are plenty of good men. Women are designed to select which genes pass to the next generation so they are highly selective. Mens struggle is that they are hardwired to want many women but unless they have status they must take what they can get. Women must choose the best man from a wider variety of options-most of which she doesn’t know exist.
Like attracts like, birds of a feather stick together, each is a mirror of the others unconscious, without the initial attraction you would not want to get together, but when the bubble bursts and the honeymoon is over, can we use that initial raw love of attraction into commitment to help each other grow out of the unconscious into consciousness through transformation through transmutation of the raw love into mature love that grows over time precisely because the experiences shared in helping each other to grow with mutual support, do you abandon your child because they mess up occasionally or do/will you help them to grow.....is there a perfect man/womanfor us? Yes, the one we are with is perfect because they mirror what we need to learn. If you are attracting abusers and Takers, then look inside your self what needs to arise from your unconscious that you are not aware of, yet need to be aware of, for you to resolve the issues inside yourself, there is only so much we can do for our own inner transformation, and when and if we are ready, in intimacy of relationship everything in the unconscious will arise to be resolved, this is the purpose of feminine masculine its called union through commitment to growth.
@@johnbishop9000There are literal "dating coaches" for men whose whole shtick is to teach men how to hide their abusive ways until they've got a woman trapped. No one is attracted to an abuser, women are attracted to the men that abusers pretend to be, until they switch up.
@@johnbishop9000Abusers hide who they are until they've got their target trapped; no one is attracted to an abuser, they're attracted to the people abusers pretend to be at first.
Love this ❤
Such a beautiful voice
Humans are the only creatures on Gods green earth that don’t know how to use each others powers to coexist.
Yes, you drive me crazy 🥰
Really that's what I strive for in alignment polarity... Divine masculine so I can flourish within my Divine feminine ❤.
Yes Please. I Am doing This. If I stay Alone My Life... Fine. Because I am not settling for Any less.
I could listen to this woman’s voice for hours. It’s so soft and soothing. I could literally fall asleep listening to her, her voice is THAT peaceful.
Need is a big word. I do think men and women can truly allow the other to flourish, assuming there's mutual respect, appreciation and integrity.
"Need" is exactly the right word.
If historically men and women didn't need each other, neither of us would be sitting here having this discussion
@@DarkWandererAU I'm happy that you're certain about that. I'm just still wondering about it.
@@DarkWandererAUthere’s a difference between reproduction and thriving in a relationship. Obviously we feel the biological impulse to reproduce and continue the species, that’s not what she was talking about. Anyone can have children together. Will they stay together though?
@@PixiellyI know that's not what she was talking about.
Men & Women need each other for more than just reproduction.
We are the keys that unlock a fuller life for each other if you choose the right partner