I agree but is there any case where that could be incorrectI guess what I'm asking is doesn't there have to be like something combined with that and not get solely that even if it's circumstantial and not concrete
I did at one point and was wrong. Turns out he was cheating on me with another woman and got her pregnant, his cover was being with his friend. Still fucked Up anyways lbs.
Blackanese Queen Thank you for the heart. You spoke gospel! I went through it after college. For the first time in my life I was like WTF! I was confused. And it's plain and simple. They are selfish and evil. I was nothing but a cover, and in his mind salvation. Which was disturbing as well. Thank you for the video. I just shared it.
@prettyboyfromci Great point. However,........ NOPE! The subject IS: men that are secret "switches" and the signs that one may see. Don't be a cyber smart ass. Stick to the subject and respond with maturity. If possible.
They are "jealous" of u and competitive w/u. They r 2 faced and gossip about u, they r _itchy. They rarely give a complement. What man/man acts this way? 💯 video!
DL usually choose very attractive women and/or BBW. The more feminine, the better the DL cover up. Sometimes, DL men will over compensate by being overtly affectionate and playing the masculine role. Women, pay attention to DL men eyes. Subliminally, observe his interaction with men. See if stares at men too long. See if he wants to hang with men more than you. Observe his mood and/or disposition around men. Is he more happy and calm around men, and/or anxious with women. Women can choose to do the sex trick. While having sex, attempt to play with his perineum and anus. If he buckles and/or refuse, then he may be straight. If he indulges and ask for more, then he may be of that DL life. Personally, these are a few signs of DL. Ladies have to choose to see the signs or not. Being very observant, may save your life.
Yesss perfectly said👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽.... Im so thankful the most high gave me the eyes & intuition to tell the signs. But what's so crazy is my ex have all the signs of a DL man, except he NEVER wanted me bye his butt once I tried to check😆. But he also had hemorrhoids often🧐. I feel he didn't want me to touch in that area for a cover up😅. But I said fck all that I left his ass he has highly narcissist abusive ways. He is still harassing me, I got TF AWAY 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️.
@@queenisaac4679 😂😂😂 Right omg. He is disgusting for hiding it & even putting my life at risk & others. I'm so thankful too the Most High I am clean & safe. No wonder he's so very uncomfortable around gay men. He wish he had the confidence they had. Wow🤢.
I think you women might just be paranoid. I'm sure there are a lot of heterosexual men out there, but woman usually like the men that don't really like them. Probably because they are gay. The men that are showing you they want you, you think they are thirsty.
@@JoiBird-fe6gw sometimes a man just isn't happy with you. Doesn't mean he's gay. This video is not valid on the points she gave. I think you women know when your man is bisexual, but the points she stated, I'm not sure if these are the keys.
@@kavistone6951 I am here I have to tell you the truth looking for a hookup never to lie to you and tell you what you need to know if you looking for a man like me let me know and I will get back with you
Correct! DOWN-LOW men truly do have maternal issues. I do think there are psychological issues as well.PROMISCUITY is definitely a big one. WOMEN BASHING is a tactic that DL MEN use because internally they hate women because they are unhappy that they are secretly living a double life and the resentment is real.DL MEN secretly hang in a circle of other homosexual men that have something to loose like a family, career and ect. I respect a openly gay man not the DL! Everything you were saying is true.
I was on a date with a guy and we were sitting waiting on our food and these gay men walked in as they got closer my guy and one of the gay guys eyes locked. I saw these but he didn't think I did. I peeped game and that was our last date.
You nailed the sign of the other close male friend(s)...your gut tells you, its more than just a buddy friendship. Yes! agree he mistreats women & uses them as narcissistic supply as cover up...
Exactly. I questioned my ex about how strange it was that he hung out with much older men. I said nobody I know his age has that many older men "friends" that they go to concerts with, get gifts from, go on vacation with etc. My intuition strongly told me he was on the DL. He was definitely a covert narcissist too.
You are so beautiful and correct girl. I found out my baby's dad was gay after 6yrs. Anybody that play's with your body like that deserves to be exposed.
@@MegaChoc0late Wasn't trying to be judgmental. Though, I was thinking maybe instead of being paranoid of all men, ask yourself where did you go wrong internally concerning this individual. I'm saying if it isn't this, it's something else with black women and the men their choosing. And I know a lot of heterosexual men, with jobs that never have woman. I don't know, but if one of these guys was to approach you, you'll deny them in 10 seconds. But you're attracted to a man that is barely attracted to you. I think sometimes women is more attracted to a man that really doesn't want them, so out of ego or some internal challenge, they want to make the man want them. Secondly they like weak men that is not completely masculine or mature, kind of men boys that they can kind of talk to like teenagers. Find you a MAN, not a man boy, not necessarily the way he looks, but the way he acts. I'm saying watch his friends if they are not solid masculine men (and I think you know what I'm saying), youre probably dealing with someone who isn't going to treat you right, one way or the other.
LISTEN!....im a man, and i can see a gay man with my "Negro spidey senses" a mile away. I know womenwho "KNOW DAMN WELL..HER MAN IS FLAMING"..but he dresses nice, smells good, house is laid to the gods" etc. And is popular..women try to work it out..knowing he gay.
So true. But it's so sad women will know it but say I got a man at least smhhhh. Cause some women feel validated by a pair of pant's laying next to them and he might be handsome ,good income etc....but it looks good on the outside. I say just be room mate's cause basically that is what it really come's down to. I have been blessed with true good gay male friends and I'm 55 and they schooled me since I was a teen about DL men before the term DL was popular. Some are deceased sad to say but the lessons and the stories were mind blowing. My deceased friend was the best man in all his as he called it Trade aka men weddings and their wives or girlfriends never caught on. If they playing video games while the DL bruh wife cooking dinner they were using a joy stick alright but no video game 👀And his boyfriend the DL wife say on come guys time to eat. That I use to go off on him cause that is just terrible to play anyone that close. Peace
I'll turn that way too if I come home from a hards day's work and my house is unkempt, child getting into all kinds of trouble unsupervised, dinner not cooked, and my lady's still on the internet running her mouth about some b.s not freshen up for after-dinner-love making as if she just woke up a half-hour ago. Someone point me to Greenwich Village, NYC. LMAO
I don't understand how a man can give up a all of these single beautiful black women out here for another man's sick.God please keep me on the straight and norrow thank u in your name amen
Gay men have the most stable relationships the lowest divorce rate the most unstable relationships are with 2 women. I rather go down on a man than on a woman.
✊🏾💯 on point these are the true spiritual demonic signs that come out , I just witnessed in my soon to be ex , Sometimes I would look up and he would be looking at me with such hate in his eyes. God bless you .
That's probably why her man turned gay...coming home after a hard day's work to that drama while she's still on the internet running her trap. Where's my dinner, Woman! Why isn't little man doing his homework and our baby bathed & ready for bed? Why you still looking like you just woke up and ain't wash yo' ass ready to help me to sleep like a baby with some late night love making? What kind of incentive is there for him to come straight home to her -- dime piece or not -- he'll be watching the games in a bar until late night? LOL!
aaron humphrey it takes both patents to raise a child. When a real man is in the house, kids behave. Give her chance. Maybe she just reflecting on life issues.
I got played by a DL divorced man with kids. He had me thinking he was a player but he had major DL tells when he got really drunk! And then too many of them in front of other people. It took me a while to put it together because his persona is a "player" with lots of women. ALL of his closest male friends are DL! Makes me so mad knowing he took years from me. I didn't last as his beard cuz I started complaining too much about being starved. Cuz that is what he ends up doing... starving his beards cuz deep down he don't really like them at all. Just ropes them in to keep his fake straight persona going to everyone else.
Your honesty is courageous. Your words full of wisdom. Your compassion is heartfelt. Currently, mastering no contact from ex bf whom repeatedly returns masquerading with more lies . 5 years of gaslighting, degradation and emotional abuse has reached my tolerance. Of past, was my naivety to give trust to hopefulness. Today, my wingspans stretches with excitement of fruition to phantom-able better quality living. You’ve been a blessing. Irie
She told the truth; to be so young. I was surprised. I am old school. I wish people could have been more honest instead of so many people getting emotionally hurt.
If people weren't so judgmental men wouldn't have to be on THE DL. So till the world is more accepting place, this will continue. Many find it impossible to leave they're truth because of the judgment of other people.
@Sherry Cooper women need training from real men. You can't identify a man to be gay because he likes anal sex with his woman, girlfriend or wife. There're gazillions of signs to tell if your men is gay. The way he talks, walks, moves his hands, looks at other men, talks about men. A gay man will tell you stuff, as he talks, and he might insult you. He will talk about how you look like if he was a woman. A straight man can spot a gay man, DL, or whatever, from miles away by just listening to his choosing of words when he speaks. "That guy is a mess." For example. It's a phrase commonly used by women. So, will also be used by gay men..
You made some great points...and as a gay male...I too cannot stand a DL dude...it's not fair to mislead women...it does sukk that society isn't as open as it should be...that you may be judged solely on sexual preference...but that still doesn't make it okay to live a secret life...#happySunday
Thank you , everything would be so nice if people just could live openly and freely without fear of others judging them thank you for your support I truly appreciate it 😘😘😘😘
Boom Boom, Good day. I've got a few links & a quote to solidify your suspicions. The statement below is quoted from "Wikipedia". "4-1-2017--Eight states - Hawaii, Kentucky, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Vermont, West Virginia and Wyoming -l and the District of Columbia still lack anti-bestiality laws. Some states inadvertently lifted earlier prohibitions on human-animal sex when they were updating their laws to remove sodomy as a crime." Notice how the depravity is spelled "BESTiallty" as opposed to BEASTiality. The latter is how I ALWAYS spell & refer to it because it is carnal engagement with beasts! I see that you too, spell it that way. Kudos! Most people correct folk when they spell the way it SHOULD BE spelled. I refuse to justify depravity. My guess has always been that they name is "best" to soften the blow of acceptance. Like when they refer to dogs as "man's best friend". I won't hold you long so, here are those feq links to get you started in your "uncovery of the discovery".......... criticschronicle.com/pedophiles-have-a-desire-to-rejoin-the-lgbt-community/ www.google.com/amp/s/www.lifesitenews.com/mobile/blogs/pedophiles-put-themselves-under-the-lgbt-umbrella-in-rebranding-effort psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html
Pure bullshit a man going to prison comes out a man the system can't break a real man and he won't allow his gender to be manipulated by no punk , you don't know how strong a real man is ,
Agreed!! I dont care what people do and who they are with as long as if they trying to be involved with me they are honest!!! I cant stand that DL crap...its selfish!!!
Your video is the most accurate on point ever. I have someone in my life who is exactly what you described bisexual dl. Who date alot of females to cover up the fact they also into guys and promiscuous you are so so so accurate wow
Another sign is the man has "pms" type anger issues twards you. It's out the blue with really bad destructive condescending language. This is caused by the guys inability to get his "fix."(male sexual Intercourse)
I don’t like it because, it makes life difficult for the straight guy who ends up with a woman who’s been exposed too that Bullshit. Not even talking about STD’s just its mentality fucked for us
UGOKAT Trust your instincts and let your conscience be your guide 🙏🏽!! When you are not comfortable in a relationship, friendship or situation the truth will be revealed. What people do in the Dark will come to the Light. Be suspicious in the beginning and take your time getting to know people. Keep your boundaries in check and pay Attention to those RED Flags. Your Instincts Are 💯% CORRECT 🙏🏽🙌🏽😇!!
Yall might be surprised how many men are online dating sites, who are gay as hell, but to shut their families up about the dating thing, they jump on there pretending to be straight.
@@coolbreeze3416 I am a bisexual man. A lot of ladies find me attractive. Not a single ex girlfriend, hook up; or my wife knows. People only know about the DL guys who get caught, or are suspect. Others like myself, go undetected.
Gurl Thank you soooooooo much! You are the first one 2 tell it like it is! The truth ! Every1 else says the most basic safe shit! You think like me! PEOPLE think we crazy & don't know what we talking about. Thank you gurl! Them dudes who have hella different women like can't no woman satisfy him is another sign! I got stories too! I appreciate an openly gay man he letting you know who he is! I could go on & on! Anyway u gots a new subbie! God bless
Great video, thank you! If you get offended by videos exposing DL signs, then you’re probably DL honey ...and yes it is evil if you have a gf that doesn’t know. Get mad at yourself, not this Queen
This video definitely gave me some insight. I recently left a relationship with a man I thought was straight but looking back it definitely open my eyes and it’s very unfortunate because a child is involved in this mess. I think it’s selfish when they do shit like this because so many people are involved in a mess they created when all they had to do was be honest with themselves by giving the other person a choice to decide don’t make that decision for them.
Omg so sorry to hear that and I 100% completely agree with you. It's not fair for anyone to be lied to in this serious situation, we live and we learn but sadly alot of closeted men hurt women throughout their life idk if its mommy issues or hatred of women and mostly women of color. It's not easy with a child/children involved. Prayers going up 😔🤗😘
If he had told you he was bisexual. Would you have still had sex with him? Probably not which is why he did not tell you. How did you find out he was bi? Also being bi has nothing to do with him not taking care of his child. I am bi and i did a great job taking care of another straight man kid.
blackericdenice first of all I did not say that it would not make him a great father rather he is gay or bi sexual. After I discovered what was going on and my attempts to reach out to him about the issue he have disappeared and abandoned me pregnant. Even after multiple attempts of reaching out to him to co parent to make the situation work. so before you make such a bold statement to something you know nothing about read before you speak on an issue you know nothing about.
Girl can I just take a second to tell you how beautiful you are!! So much of this speaks to me, I can’t stand feeling like this and feel for any woman going through this! Their are honest men out there who will want you for you💕 I have literally said the same thing, just be honest and we can work something out! But it’s definitely NOT fair to play someone like that, just let me live my life
Most DL men that are black religiously date and marry interracially. These men also will not date other black men of the same race because of proximity. Black women start befriending more gay white, Latino, and Asian men, they honestly have more information on dating these type of men.
Stfu...i never dated a black women but im definently not attracted to men 🤣😂 u trippin Black women wear perms and wigs and like thugs and curse and yell alot.....i dont like that shit
The Nancys 22 If your gut feeling are telling you your husband is bi, gay. It’s usually true. And the Voice inside you will get louder and louder. Unless you do some thing about it.
So true....ATL ain't no joke....and yes the description fit. When I figured it out I was upset and went straight to the doctor.....Cut ties...he was a miserable soul.
👏 👏 👏 Good topic, ladies yall really need to be careful about the men you let into your life... Get to know him first, and yes that's gonna take time. Down low guy's want to have sex within 30 days or less upon meeting you. That's not a good thing, also down low guy's have to spend time with their homeboys a lot. And if he says (oh that's my man or that's my boy instead of saying the guy's name. That's not good either. If he let's his boys come to his house often not good.. Straight men, don't like other men in their space,
Hmmm interesting perspective especially the last part can you elaborate on straight men not liking other men in their space, because one of my ex's always had his Male "cousins" around and referred to a lot of people he introduced me to male or female as his "sibling"
Straight men dosen't like other men around their home. They protect their home prevent any situation occurring with their wife. My daddy would always say you need to protect your home.
No one is safe out here these days you can never know for sure who’s who and what’s what!!! Be safe out here ladies and gentlemen use discernment of the spirit while dating I wish you all well..peace and jah bless! 💕
Love you for doing this video, and being honest sound like it came from the heart, I think you are such a beautiful woman, God's got a lovely man for you! Thank you for raising awareness
Women need to be told and not have their choices taking away from them . If a woman knows she can decide to stay or leave. A woman is at higher risk of contacting HIV and other STI'S.
Girl you so one hunnit for this its crazy it’s just so on point and with other personal experiences I kno it’s crazy man & not fair I just don’t understand 🥀
Hi,Ms.Blacknanese,wow💃🤳This is what I been asking myself if there would be a read,on how to know if the person you're interested in is on the DL, or bisexual!!!#especially if you are heterosexual you would want to know this.so thank you so much honey on this read this is one of the best reads out and ran across in a long time. Peace and love to you and yours always. 🙏🙏🙏🙏💟💙💙💙💙💟💟💙💙💙💟💟💟💟💟 I look forward to more of your videos because this is something that must be shared it's absolutely wonderful, You're simply beautiful from the inside out.
My child’s dad. The abusive ones that make babies everywhere are QUESTIONABLE. That’s a sign of women hating right there they do it intentionally to hurt us. He has no clue that I pieced this together about him.
Forget all these haters in the comments I just subscribed I'm so glad you made this video and your son he's just fine he's just being a little boy playing I thought I was the only one out here who is having these thoughts about these guys out here, I think the true dudes out here on the down-low are all these fuckboys hanging out with all the other fuckboys. I've been looking for a relationship very carefully because you can't trust men these days but these are the dudes I've been coming into contact with, I think if you get a bad vibe off someone or you sense something you should run with that and believe your self believe what your gut is telling you !!! sweetie you are definitely not alone they are unhappy and they will make a female's life miserable !! I'm so tired of these dudes fuckboys using these girls and impregnating them now not only does a female have a baby to take care of but now she has a fuckboy to take care of two excuse my language you call them D L I call them fuckboys cuz they'll be out fucking everything plus dudes. Good job 💕 🙋🏽 💗🙏🏾
Young lady you are so, so, so, on point. To be so young. I think I went through something like this and he did everything you are saying. But like I told him if you give me something, we leaving together. Amen
My bag, my bag! Bring it out babygirl I saw a movie call COVER..the movie is about exactly what u talking about..they r nasty disgusting vile human beings..TELL THE TRUTH!!!
I got a feeling about my sons dad. I shut everything down he was always with his boys. When on trips with his boys gets excited when his boys called moved out of my house to stay with a man smh
Hi. Im a lady who went thru this a few years ago. Took a while for me to really accept that it was happening. I listened to my intuition and my close friends/family. I would write things down and look back every once in a while and be reminded of the fucked up shit I was dealing with. He never admitted to anything but the list was long and would have convinced a jury of my peers. We are still friends because i too believe in no hate. My line I got out of it is... "Gay guys have bigger balls" Just guts really to be themselves. Peace babe. And you are absolutely beautiful!!
The biggest sign is your intuition.
I concur.
I agree but is there any case where that could be incorrectI guess what I'm asking is doesn't there have to be like something combined with that and not get solely that even if it's circumstantial and not concrete
Absolutely 🧐😅🧐
Very smart man😘😍😘
Yes sir
So, are men correct when they call a chick a lesbian just because she turned him down? Is he correct?
If you question yourself about a man's sexuality...that is a sign
Jeanie Blair 🗣🗣🗣🤣
I did at one point and was wrong. Turns out he was cheating on me with another woman and got her pregnant, his cover was being with his friend. Still fucked Up anyways lbs.
Not me I love a real sexy woman but it has come down to you got to look and check for a Adam's apple or just date women with kids lol 😂
No shit
Nah that just means you're an insecure little bitch lmao
The biggest intuitive sign is when you get the feeling that you can't satisfy your man.
Blackanese Queen
Thank you for the heart. You spoke gospel! I went through it after college. For the first time in my life I was like WTF! I was confused. And it's plain and simple. They are selfish and evil. I was nothing but a cover, and in his mind salvation. Which was disturbing as well. Thank you for the video. I just shared it.
Your very welcome! It is a very selfish thing 😒
@prettyboyfromci
Great point. However,........ NOPE!
The subject IS: men that are secret "switches" and the signs that one may see. Don't be a cyber smart ass. Stick to the subject and respond with maturity. If possible.
@prettyboyfromci Or maybe she doesn't wash her a$$ well. 😂
They are "jealous" of u and competitive w/u. They r 2 faced and gossip about u, they r _itchy. They rarely give a complement. What man/man acts this way? 💯 video!
I think the competition part is the most obvious sign !
💯💯Kevin S. was the typical example of it (one of the worst/most obvious in that specific way)
omg 100% experienced this! the hate is real
That’s exactly how he was! We broke up 2 weeks ago and I’m not going back. It was awful and draining, a narcissist
omg!! so dam true, a big fat narc! He never compliments on nothing, no feelings no nothing, I was trying to figure out, what kind of demon is this smh
DL usually choose very attractive women and/or BBW. The more feminine, the better the DL cover up. Sometimes, DL men will over compensate by being overtly affectionate and playing the masculine role. Women, pay attention to DL men eyes. Subliminally, observe his interaction with men. See if stares at men too long. See if he wants to hang with men more than you. Observe his mood and/or disposition around men. Is he more happy and calm around men, and/or anxious with women.
Women can choose to do the sex trick. While having sex, attempt to play with his perineum and anus. If he buckles and/or refuse, then he may be straight. If he indulges and ask for more, then he may be of that DL life. Personally, these are a few signs of DL. Ladies have to choose to see the signs or not. Being very observant, may save your life.
Yesss perfectly said👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽.... Im so thankful the most high gave me the eyes & intuition to tell the signs. But what's so crazy is my ex have all the signs of a DL man, except he NEVER wanted me bye his butt once I tried to check😆. But he also had hemorrhoids often🧐. I feel he didn't want me to touch in that area for a cover up😅. But I said fck all that I left his ass he has highly narcissist abusive ways. He is still harassing me, I got TF AWAY 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️.
@@imperfectlyguided8098 you did right to leave his ass because hemorrhoids come from a busted-up, sore booty whole... SMH.
@@queenisaac4679 😂😂😂 Right omg. He is disgusting for hiding it & even putting my life at risk & others. I'm so thankful too the Most High I am clean & safe. No wonder he's so very uncomfortable around gay men. He wish he had the confidence they had. Wow🤢.
If this is your situation speak to your situation.
Wth does a BBW have to do with a man being on the Dl????
There very Narcissistic
U hit the word head on....FIND OUT MY EX.WAS AN ON THE DL AND NARC..
I think you women might just be paranoid. I'm sure there are a lot of heterosexual men out there, but woman usually like the men that don't really like them. Probably because they are gay. The men that are showing you they want you, you think they are thirsty.
MonaLisaSmiles4U #DivaAtWork wow. You just nailed it. This video just confirmed so much for me! My intuition is real.
@@JoiBird-fe6gw sometimes a man just isn't happy with you. Doesn't mean he's gay. This video is not valid on the points she gave. I think you women know when your man is bisexual, but the points she stated, I'm not sure if these are the keys.
@@kavistone6951 I am here I have to tell you the truth looking for a hookup never to lie to you and tell you what you need to know if you looking for a man like me let me know and I will get back with you
Intuition tells us, we just don't totally trust it. But because of experience and wisdom, I trust my intuition every time.
Tell it don't ignore that intuition because it may be God!
💯💯Trust ur female intuition!!💯
Correct! DOWN-LOW men truly do have maternal issues. I do think there are psychological issues as well.PROMISCUITY is definitely a big one. WOMEN BASHING is a tactic that DL MEN use because internally they hate women because they are unhappy that they are secretly living a double life and the resentment is real.DL MEN secretly hang in a circle of other homosexual men that have something to loose like a family, career and ect. I respect a openly gay man not the DL! Everything you were saying is true.
EVERYTHING she said was true! smh
DL is superior
I was on a date with a guy and we were sitting waiting on our food and these gay men walked in as they got closer my guy and one of the gay guys eyes locked. I saw these but he didn't think I did. I peeped game and that was our last date.
Lol so did he ask why ya not see each other any more
You nailed the sign of the other close male friend(s)...your gut tells you, its more than just a buddy friendship. Yes! agree he mistreats women & uses them as narcissistic supply as cover up...
the narcissistic supply thing is no joke
Exactly. I questioned my ex about how strange it was that he hung out with much older men. I said nobody I know his age has that many older men "friends" that they go to concerts with, get gifts from, go on vacation with etc. My intuition strongly told me he was on the DL. He was definitely a covert narcissist too.
#fact
@@karendharrison wowww sounds like my bd
In point !
If your husband is gossiping about you or competing and jealous of you they are for sure gay
Those are some signs too! They are very insecure at times ...
@@Mikomamisworld it's what I am dealing with right now
Women can not love a man like a man can love a man they are for babies -ancient Greeks
Is your baby chopping fire wood?
Lmaoo
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Lmao lol
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You are so beautiful and correct girl. I found out my baby's dad was gay after 6yrs. Anybody that play's with your body like that deserves to be exposed.
Mine is too. But he swears hes not.he will hit anything with hole. Men , women and trans women he dont give a fuck. 😣😣😣
Sounds to me that you women have a bad judgement in men.
@@kavistone6951 We're sorry that they didnt come with a label sweety. With your judgemental ass. Im sure you pick a winner everytime.😒😒😒
@@MegaChoc0late Wasn't trying to be judgmental. Though, I was thinking maybe instead of being paranoid of all men, ask yourself where did you go wrong internally concerning this individual. I'm saying if it isn't this, it's something else with black women and the men their choosing. And I know a lot of heterosexual men, with jobs that never have woman. I don't know, but if one of these guys was to approach you, you'll deny them in 10 seconds. But you're attracted to a man that is barely attracted to you. I think sometimes women is more attracted to a man that really doesn't want them, so out of ego or some internal challenge, they want to make the man want them. Secondly they like weak men that is not completely masculine or mature, kind of men boys that they can kind of talk to like teenagers. Find you a MAN, not a man boy, not necessarily the way he looks, but the way he acts. I'm saying watch his friends if they are not solid masculine men (and I think you know what I'm saying), youre probably dealing with someone who isn't going to treat you right, one way or the other.
@@kavistone6951 Maybe he was a covert narcissist. Maybe they all was and only find happiness in fucking over empath women like us!
U are on point.if u break up they don't chase you.they want u to chase them.they don't care bout your feelings.u on point
Of course not because they're narcissists. They dont give a fuck about nobody not even there kids.
Why would u chase a female who broke up with you?
@@charlestonwhiteeyeball women have the worst logic. No real man gonna chase after a woman. He will move on.
@@A_Dubb618 these bitches be wanting a nigga to worship them. It supposed to be the other way😂😂😂 it supposed to be man of the house not "woman"
@@charlestonwhiteeyeball exactly. Ultimately they dont respect niggaz who do that. Them niggaz are simps. Beta males
Years ago I met a dude that was FINE AS HELL but he would roll his eyes! Bad sign.
Yeah he gay 😂😂
LISTEN!....im a man, and i can see a gay man with my "Negro spidey senses" a mile away. I know womenwho "KNOW DAMN WELL..HER MAN IS FLAMING"..but he dresses nice, smells good, house is laid to the gods" etc. And is popular..women try to work it out..knowing he gay.
🤣😂🤣🤣🤣 thats the ultimate simp.(women simp too)
True I no a lot of women like that too🤣🤣thinking they can change them🤣😂
So true. But it's so sad women will know it but say I got a man at least smhhhh. Cause some women feel validated by a pair of pant's laying next to them and he might be handsome ,good income etc....but it looks good on the outside. I say just be room mate's cause basically that is what it really come's down to. I have been blessed with true good gay male friends and I'm 55 and they schooled me since I was a teen about DL men before the term DL was popular. Some are deceased sad to say but the lessons and the stories were mind blowing. My deceased friend was the best man in all his as he called it Trade aka men weddings and their wives or girlfriends never caught on. If they playing video games while the DL bruh wife cooking dinner they were using a joy stick alright but no video game 👀And his boyfriend the DL wife say on come guys time to eat. That I use to go off on him cause that is just terrible to play anyone that close. Peace
@RKELLYSCOCO : that is intil another man....take your place as a woman and treat him better.
Real nigga shit
You can't hide sexual energy...YOU SHALL BE FOUND OUT!!!!!!
You can also hear a hint of sugar in their voices.
I always heard it when we would drink together and he would act gay.By the way 6 yrs later found out he was gay.
@@k-luvjones4664 do u get a award? Lol
@@cleanlife294 stfu
@@k-luvjones4664 u STFU ,don't get mad at me because u too stupid to spot a sissy
U can see the flame in the way they say whaaat, or huh!
Queen sounds like she been through this...poor baby girl...God bless mami
ALOT of women have
She sound like she's speaking from EXPERIENCE!!
It's her baby daddy
I think she is
I'll turn that way too if I come home from a hards day's work and my house is unkempt, child getting into all kinds of trouble unsupervised, dinner not cooked, and my lady's still on the internet running her mouth about some b.s not freshen up for after-dinner-love making as if she just woke up a half-hour ago.
Someone point me to Greenwich Village, NYC. LMAO
Pay attention to the baby and stop telling the baby to stop. You have plenty of time to be on you tube. You stop!
Is this really a woman??
I don't understand how a man can give up a all of these single beautiful black women out here for another man's sick.God please keep me on the straight and norrow thank u in your name amen
Ask Father God to rebuke all of evil spirits from your soul. Satan is everywhere and can be sent by anyone so be cautious of your company
Your last sentence had me rollin 😆
You sound like the type of guy who ends up being a step dad. Lol
Tbh I truly believe satan is trying to target people sexualities through pornography...a part of me doesn’t believe THIS many people are gay.
Gay men have the most stable relationships the lowest divorce rate the most unstable relationships are with 2 women. I rather go down on a man than on a woman.
I would hate to know I'm dating a dl man. I find that lifestyle disgusting. I've heard stories about theses behaviours and they are not nice
You can thank religion and Christianity for why it exists.
Not nice.
Andrea Barnes I like the way you say that, "They are not nice".
I love being a narcissist
It took me 8years to face the music. Sis he wants another man.
They don't really like being committed to one person.
So true, my ex used to hurt feelings for no reason! He was having a relationship with his friends unbelievable
You are so right in point! Finally, I have found another woman who thinks like I do! Thank you for speaking for me!
Stop trying to tip toe around feelings, just let’s us know these points 😂
Yes...alit of babbling...just please give the facts ..stop repeating the same thing
✊🏾💯 on point these are the true spiritual demonic signs that come out , I just witnessed in my soon to be ex , Sometimes I would look up and he would be looking at me with such hate in his eyes. God bless you .
The kid in the background is going in!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
That's probably why her man turned gay...coming home after a hard day's work to that drama while she's still on the internet running her trap.
Where's my dinner, Woman! Why isn't little man doing his homework and our baby bathed & ready for bed? Why you still looking like you just woke up and ain't wash yo' ass ready to help me to sleep like a baby with some late night love making?
What kind of incentive is there for him to come straight home to her -- dime piece or not -- he'll be watching the games in a bar until late night? LOL!
@@ascotthumphrey You need to stop yo bullshit.
aaron humphrey it takes both patents to raise a child. When a real man is in the house, kids behave. Give her chance. Maybe she just reflecting on life issues.
😂😂😂😂
I got played by a DL divorced man with kids. He had me thinking he was a player but he had major DL tells when he got really drunk! And then too many of them in front of other people. It took me a while to put it together because his persona is a "player" with lots of women. ALL of his closest male friends are DL! Makes me so mad knowing he took years from me. I didn't last as his beard cuz I started complaining too much about being starved. Cuz that is what he ends up doing... starving his beards cuz deep down he don't really like them at all. Just ropes them in to keep his fake straight persona going to everyone else.
Your honesty is courageous. Your words full of wisdom. Your compassion is heartfelt. Currently, mastering no contact from ex bf whom repeatedly returns masquerading with more lies . 5 years of gaslighting, degradation and emotional abuse has reached my tolerance. Of past, was my naivety to give trust to hopefulness. Today, my wingspans stretches with excitement of fruition to phantom-able better quality living.
You’ve been a blessing. Irie
She told the truth; to be so young. I was surprised. I am old school. I wish people could have been more honest instead of so many people getting emotionally hurt.
This actually could be any man or cheater. Or man who doesn't really want to be with you. He doesn't have to be down low.
What's her level of schooling(education)...ijs.
If people weren't so judgmental men wouldn't have to be on THE DL. So till the world is more accepting place, this will continue.
Many find it impossible to leave they're truth because of the judgment of other people.
I'm going through this right now I think my baby gay
Dee Dee me to
Girl, updates?
Mine too
Girl if so get out I found out my husband of 18yrs was Gay. It's dangerous
@Sherry Cooper women need training from real men. You can't identify a man to be gay because he likes anal sex with his woman, girlfriend or wife. There're gazillions of signs to tell if your men is gay. The way he talks, walks, moves his hands, looks at other men, talks about men. A gay man will tell you stuff, as he talks, and he might insult you. He will talk about how you look like if he was a woman. A straight man can spot a gay man, DL, or whatever, from miles away by just listening to his choosing of words when he speaks. "That guy is a mess." For example. It's a phrase commonly used by women. So, will also be used by gay men..
Body movements is one 2
I never really thought about that can you explain on that where did you get that theory from that's interesting
@FRAPPaddict Elbows in when they dont think they are being watched while walking.
YES
You made some great points...and as a gay male...I too cannot stand a DL dude...it's not fair to mislead women...it does sukk that society isn't as open as it should be...that you may be judged solely on sexual preference...but that still doesn't make it okay to live a secret life...#happySunday
Thank you , everything would be so nice if people just could live openly and freely without fear of others judging them thank you for your support I truly appreciate it 😘😘😘😘
Derrick Hinton IThank you
Boom Boom,
Good day. I've got a few links & a quote to solidify your suspicions. The statement below is quoted from "Wikipedia".
"4-1-2017--Eight states - Hawaii, Kentucky, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Vermont, West Virginia and Wyoming -l and the District of Columbia still lack anti-bestiality laws. Some states inadvertently lifted earlier prohibitions on human-animal sex when they were updating their laws to remove sodomy as a crime."
Notice how the depravity is spelled "BESTiallty" as opposed to BEASTiality. The latter is how I ALWAYS spell & refer to it because it is carnal engagement with beasts! I see that you too, spell it that way. Kudos! Most people correct folk when they spell the way it SHOULD BE spelled. I refuse to justify depravity. My guess has always been that they name is "best" to soften the blow of acceptance. Like when they refer to dogs as "man's best friend".
I won't hold you long so, here are those feq links to get you started in your "uncovery of the discovery"..........
criticschronicle.com/pedophiles-have-a-desire-to-rejoin-the-lgbt-community/
www.google.com/amp/s/www.lifesitenews.com/mobile/blogs/pedophiles-put-themselves-under-the-lgbt-umbrella-in-rebranding-effort
psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html
Kudos to you for living your truth, and being open💜
Pikachu Logan where is this prophesied, chapter and verse please.
They hate their Mom an he is a Narcissis an I got 2 kids by him an im just finding out that he is on the DL 😮
NUMBER ONE SIGN:
If he got done spending 3 or more years in Prison
Not true
Pure bullshit a man going to prison comes out a man the system can't break a real man and he won't allow his gender to be manipulated by no punk , you don't know how strong a real man is ,
@EZE THE GREAT Exactly!
@@geneprice5819 FACTS FACTS FACTS
Absolutely
The first absolute sign, he was just release from prison.
Alot of black men are living on the down low
Preach
I know some people dont agree with this. But if you really want to know, just go through your man phone 🤷😌
True
I feel like that's the only way. Just need to get that password
She talking about her own personal experience
@esor val I never said it was, dummy. I'm just reading between her lines like everyone else is on this video. Now take yo bitch ass on somewhere
If she is, I'm not judging her, she's just being real, and I appreciate that
Who cares if she talking about her own experience shes hitting a lot of stuff head on and its valuable information so whats your point
@@arielle7557 i wasn't making a point, i was just reading between the lines, that she was talking about herself, thatd all
Agreed!! I dont care what people do and who they are with as long as if they trying to be involved with me they are honest!!! I cant stand that DL crap...its selfish!!!
Yes Please Keep it 💯
Stop it Kitaro
Von Hoston 🤣🤣😂😂🤣
Lmaooo
😭
Haha
These men love their friends and no straight male animal or human lives his male competition
Add they often suffer from depression.
true!
@@teresam398 yup
Mommas boy is actually a good sign
My husband is definitely a momma's boy
She’s speaking TRUTH!!
FACTS
Your video is the most accurate on point ever. I have someone in my life who is exactly what you described bisexual dl. Who date alot of females to cover up the fact they also into guys and promiscuous you are so so so accurate wow
So basically u can't really tell...U gotta look out for everything... 💀💀💀
Exactly!!!! Lmaooooo
Jenae Lake 65 yrs old....if you THINK he is.........HE IS!!!!!!!!!!
Private investigator etc
I'm really scared
You can tell literally
All the ones I know have wives and kids. It's a right of passage for DL Men.
Glad I'm old and post menopausal.... have no sexual desires and happy as hell.
Another sign is the man has "pms" type anger issues twards you. It's out the blue with really bad destructive condescending language. This is caused by the guys inability to get his "fix."(male sexual Intercourse)
Wow that’s so interesting wooooowww
Yessssd u jus nailed it
Intuition be screaming sometime... Listen to it
I love your hair. That color looks great on you.
Yes
yes
Wow she just literally described my baby daddy I've had the suspicions for yrs
Idk why this was hilarious 😭 but we’re living in sodom and Gomorrah so there’s that !
I don’t like it because, it makes life difficult for the straight guy who ends up with a woman who’s been exposed too that Bullshit. Not even talking about STD’s just its mentality fucked for us
UGOKAT
Trust your instincts and let your conscience be your guide 🙏🏽!! When you are not comfortable in a relationship, friendship or situation the truth will be revealed. What people do in the Dark will come to the Light. Be suspicious in the beginning and take your time getting to know people. Keep your boundaries in check and pay Attention to those RED Flags. Your Instincts Are 💯% CORRECT 🙏🏽🙌🏽😇!!
Im so hurt all the signs are here for my boyfriend😭
Can you explain deeper...like give examples?
Sweetheart, I’m here for you🌹
He probably not down low. He may not be happy in a relationship.
@@kavistone6951 your right. He dosnt want one n its hurts bc i thought he was the one
@@ladycrystal3293 no i can't. But if i were u i would rewatch the vidoe for more clarity
Yall might be surprised how many men are online dating sites, who are gay as hell, but to shut their families up about the dating thing, they jump on there pretending to be straight.
She speaking from experience.
But sometimes you can't tell at all.
Man o man sooooooooo true smh;) I experience it;(
Kahlil Sykies you can always tell...stop denying your intuition
@@coolbreeze3416 I am a bisexual man. A lot of ladies find me attractive. Not a single ex girlfriend, hook up; or my wife knows. People only know about the DL guys who get caught, or are suspect. Others like myself, go undetected.
If you can't tell, like many females can't, trust your male friends and females telling you that he is. They're reading what you can't.
@@kahlilsykies9139 every male straight man around you, knows what you like.
Gurl Thank you soooooooo much! You are the first one 2 tell it like it is! The truth ! Every1 else says the most basic safe shit! You think like me! PEOPLE think we crazy & don't know what we talking about. Thank you gurl! Them dudes who have hella different women like can't no woman satisfy him is another sign! I got stories too! I appreciate an openly gay man he letting you know who he is! I could go on & on! Anyway u gots a new subbie! God bless
Great video, thank you! If you get offended by videos exposing DL signs, then you’re probably DL honey ...and yes it is evil if you have a gf that doesn’t know. Get mad at yourself, not this Queen
You on point shorty, stay real wit it
This video definitely gave me some insight. I recently left a relationship with a man I thought was straight but looking back it definitely open my eyes and it’s very unfortunate because a child is involved in this mess. I think it’s selfish when they do shit like this because so many people are involved in a mess they created when all they had to do was be honest with themselves by giving the other person a choice to decide don’t make that decision for them.
Omg so sorry to hear that and I 100% completely agree with you. It's not fair for anyone to be lied to in this serious situation, we live and we learn but sadly alot of closeted men hurt women throughout their life idk if its mommy issues or hatred of women and mostly women of color. It's not easy with a child/children involved. Prayers going up 😔🤗😘
If he had told you he was bisexual. Would you have still had sex with him? Probably not which is why he did not tell you. How did you find out he was bi?
Also being bi has nothing to do with him not taking care of his child. I am bi and i did a great job taking care of another straight man kid.
blackericdenice first of all I did not say that it would not make him a great father rather he is gay or bi sexual. After I discovered what was going on and my attempts to reach out to him about the issue he have disappeared and abandoned me pregnant. Even after multiple attempts of reaching out to him to co parent to make the situation work. so before you make such a bold statement to something you know nothing about read before you speak on an issue you know nothing about.
@@nakih2693 Another stupid move by a black woman. Just because Sir-dick-a-lot made you moist. You didn't have to get pregnant by him.
Naki H you ain’t alone in this one sis !
Girl can I just take a second to tell you how beautiful you are!! So much of this speaks to me, I can’t stand feeling like this and feel for any woman going through this! Their are honest men out there who will want you for you💕 I have literally said the same thing, just be honest and we can work something out! But it’s definitely NOT fair to play someone like that, just let me live my life
Most DL men that are black religiously date and marry interracially. These men also will not date other black men of the same race because of proximity. Black women start befriending more gay white, Latino, and Asian men, they honestly have more information on dating these type of men.
Stfu...i never dated a black women but im definently not attracted to men 🤣😂 u trippin
Black women wear perms and wigs and like thugs and curse and yell alot.....i dont like that shit
I'm watching because I obviously have questions about my husband of 18 yrs. Makes me sick...
The Nancys 22
If your gut feeling are telling you your husband is bi, gay. It’s usually true. And the Voice inside you will get louder and louder. Unless you do some thing about it.
Wow that long I figure ur should have known by now deep position to be in straight cancer u know be Don't wanna believe !
Thank you for your time in making this video... Your on point.
So true....ATL ain't no joke....and yes the description fit. When I figured it out I was upset and went straight to the doctor.....Cut ties...he was a miserable soul.
Any names? Or his initials? I'm so scared right now, just my gut but he lives in ATl
👏 👏 👏 Good topic, ladies yall really need to be careful about the men you let into your life... Get to know him first, and yes that's gonna take time. Down low guy's want to have sex within 30 days or less upon meeting you. That's not a good thing, also down low guy's have to spend time with their homeboys a lot. And if he says (oh that's my man or that's my boy instead of saying the guy's name. That's not good either. If he let's his boys come to his house often not good.. Straight men, don't like other men in their space,
Hmmm interesting perspective especially the last part can you elaborate on straight men not liking other men in their space, because one of my ex's always had his Male "cousins" around and referred to a lot of people he introduced me to male or female as his "sibling"
Straight men dosen't like other men around their home. They protect their home prevent any situation occurring with their wife. My daddy would always say you need to protect your home.
Thank you for this video. Your little one was funny, but you powered through and gave some good points.
Thanks so much for this and God bless!
No one is safe out here these days you can never know for sure who’s who and what’s what!!! Be safe out here ladies and gentlemen use discernment of the spirit while dating I wish you all well..peace and jah bless! 💕
YAH PLEASE
Love you for doing this video, and being honest sound like it came from the heart, I think you are such a beautiful woman, God's got a lovely man for you! Thank you for raising awareness
Thank you for all your insight!! U a boss
There are so many females in denial of this very sad
Women need to be told and not have their choices taking away from them . If a woman knows she can decide to stay or leave. A woman is at higher risk of contacting HIV and other STI'S.
Preach!
GREAT JOB! VERY HELPFUL. KEEP em coming!
Girl you so one hunnit for this its crazy it’s just so on point and with other personal experiences I kno it’s crazy man & not fair I just don’t understand 🥀
Hi,Ms.Blacknanese,wow💃🤳This is what I been asking myself if there would be a read,on how to know if the person you're interested in is on the DL, or bisexual!!!#especially if you are heterosexual you would want to know this.so thank you so much honey on this read this is one of the best reads out and ran across in a long time. Peace and love to you and yours always. 🙏🙏🙏🙏💟💙💙💙💙💟💟💙💙💙💟💟💟💟💟 I look forward to more of your videos because this is something that must be shared it's absolutely wonderful, You're simply beautiful from the inside out.
My child’s dad. The abusive ones that make babies everywhere are QUESTIONABLE. That’s a sign of women hating right there they do it intentionally to hurt us. He has no clue that I pieced this together about him.
Oh my word I think he may be. I thought he was just a narcissist but when you said hurting woman and it's a repeated pattern damn.
mine was a narcissist, alcoholic, and in the closet.
Forget all these haters in the comments I just subscribed I'm so glad you made this video and your son he's just fine he's just being a little boy playing
I thought I was the only one out here who is having these thoughts about these guys out here, I think the true dudes out here on the down-low are all these fuckboys hanging out with all the other fuckboys.
I've been looking for a relationship very carefully because you can't trust men these days but these are the dudes I've been coming into contact with, I think if you get a bad vibe off someone or you sense something you should run with that and believe your self believe what your gut is telling you !!! sweetie you are definitely not alone they are unhappy and they will make a female's life miserable !!
I'm so tired of these dudes fuckboys using these girls and impregnating them now not only does a female have a baby to take care of but now she has a fuckboy to take care of two excuse my language you call them D L I call them fuckboys cuz they'll be out fucking everything plus dudes.
Good job 💕 🙋🏽 💗🙏🏾
If you got gay men looking at you and ready to fight you while you with him then trust he gay.
Young lady you are so, so, so, on point. To be so young. I think I went through something like this and he did everything you are saying. But like I told him if you give me something, we leaving together. Amen
My bag, my bag!
Bring it out babygirl
I saw a movie call COVER..the movie is about exactly what u talking about..they r nasty disgusting vile human beings..TELL THE TRUTH!!!
Wasn't Leon in that movie????
Eleanor Savage Such harsh language.
Your video is the best on UA-cam I’ve seen yet that goes deeper then the obvious gay tendencies! ❤️
Thank uuuu
Needed it
Please make more videos on specifics & what a DL man may say to hide from his wife or SO
Thank you for watching and I am working on a pt 2
You are spot on! Everything is absolutely correct.
I got a feeling about my sons dad. I shut everything down he was always with his boys. When on trips with his boys gets excited when his boys called moved out of my house to stay with a man smh
Been seeing this video on my recommendations & glad I finally clicked. You're beautiful & keep doing your thing.
You nailed it! I just found out my bf of two years is bi and I was devastated.
I am suspicious of the guy I'm dating but since sex is off the table I don't know how to tell. Can you say how you found out?
why do dl guys always use beautiful women as beards??????
I dead ass thought DL meant Dead Line. 😂🤣🤣🤣😊🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂
🤣😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣
I'm sorry I can't 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂
You get an award for that buddy lol
@@jeanlasting5467 I'll take the award from my woman. 😂🤣😂😊🤣😂🤣
You smut
I searched "man youtube-dl" on duck duck go to look for youtube downloader documentation, and now I think I might be a DL husband.
Thanks for your enlightenment lovely. I am a Man and I hate that our amazing goddesses have such a hard time really wanting to give a man the world.
Hi. Im a lady who went thru this a few years ago. Took a while for me to really accept that it was happening. I listened to my intuition and my close friends/family. I would write things down and look back every once in a while and be reminded of the fucked up shit I was dealing with. He never admitted to anything but the list was long and would have convinced a jury of my peers. We are still friends because i too believe in no hate. My line I got out of it is... "Gay guys have bigger balls" Just guts really to be themselves.
Peace babe. And you are absolutely beautiful!!
FACTS but the most dangerous part about it is they got all the good jobs now and money!!!!
This is so true!! I wonder why that is ?
This is truth I Iove it so much your new sub
Man this is so damn true. Its alot of them too.